Heartbreak to Breakthrough: Her Path to Financial Security and Independence

[@MomsMoneyMindset]

Glad to see an episode like this. I too went through a divorce with a baby who hadn’t reached one years old. Credit was low, had 6-figure debt and was struggling. Now my daughter is older, credit score is 824, paid off 6-figure debt, building wealth and am thriving. I’m so very grateful to God.🙏🏾❤️

[@sherealldavis7189]

If u don't mind me asking, what did you do to change your situation?

[@MomsMoneyMindset]

@@sherealldavis7189 I started off by cutting a lot of unnecessary expenses then focused on paying off debt and rebuilding my emergency fund.

[@tiandreaknight2445]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@fashionwithoutlabels]

@@MomsMoneyMindset congrats!

[@MomsMoneyMindset]

@@fashionwithoutlabels thank you 🙏🏾

[@g-love0704]

I am listening while in the office and literally almost shouted when Patrice said, "peace & purpose over appearances." In this 40th yr of my life, well last yr at 39, my plan was peace, turning my purpose into profit and genuine happiness going into these 40s!!!

[@melissa3407]

You really do need a 2 hour show with her. This was so good to my soul. Patrice is the authentic friend that every woman needs. She's the real deal.

[@DennardMitchell]

Fam, I’m 11 minutes in and had to start over. Sis is giving a master class. 💪🏽🙏🏽😳✍🏽

[@anthonyoneal]

Love this!!

[@tashabrown8301]

Amen!!!

[@bjones8698]

Yes!

[@crystals6609]

Yes!!!

[@YoungMan921]

The only problem that I have with what she is saying is she speaks faith out of one side of her mouth but the complete opposite when it came to relationships and marriage.

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

Peace is most valuable! Once you know that, you’ll NEVER desire to have that disturbed!

[@loved2lifet105]

Patrice is the truth 💯. Went to HS with her. She's always been kind. I actually took a few of her courses years ago like 10 years ago great information.

[@latoyahammond1491]

Whew!!! I am recently divorced and listening to Patrice it is crazy how our lives are so similar. I had been with ex husband from late teens/early twenties and we were best friends and then in a relationship and married for almost 14yrs before he decided he wanted to leave; he left at a time when I finally stepped out on faith and started pursuing and walking in purpose. Although I am not at your level of success yet...everything you have said I can relate to! Thank you so much for sharing! Your glow is beautiful and I have always appreciated your authenticity and you are an inspiration for this new season I find myself in! And yes, I am 5 10" and 6 2' 6 3' is definitely my sweet spot!

[@maxinec1616]

I've spent the past two days in an intensive that Patrice hosted. Her message was a godsend for 'this' time of my life. I look up this a.m. and she's on AO's podcast, I'm tuning in.

[@anthonyoneal]

Love this, perfect timing!

[@foreverme277]

This woman right here.... This is the kind of energy that you need on this show all the time.. Great interview!! 🔥

[@susanakaan810]

Soul awareness, peace and purpose over appearances,,, great. Yes life is always speaking to us

[@Youcandoitto]

I like her. She’s down to earth, honest, beautiful, transparent and intelligent! I just subscribed to her KZbin!

[@anthonyoneal]

Love this!

[@melanamims2622]

I was so shocked to see was divorced but she continues to live the pillars. I love Patrice and I'm glad she's thriving. Y'all are two of the best! Great episode.

[@Bettylulseged]

I love listening to Patrice speak. Always dropping gems. Wishing her the best on this new chapter 🙏🏾

[@Kika-rn9tq]

I used to be one of those women that said "I don't need no man". But as I am older now I realized it is this need in me to protect my feelings and feel self sufficient. The societal pressures of "you can't survive without no man" and my pride... I wanted to prove them wrong. It is more about pride than anything. The fear of vulnerability. The word "need" implying almost like breathing... rocks the boat for a lot of women who have been through some stuff. Have compassion it is fear fear fear

[@lameishaM]

Mannnnnn when she didn't answer your question.......😂😂😂 I laughed so hard Then when Patrice said "good for him"😂 I'm definitely re watching this show, the whole interview is a gem 💎

[@diligenthands9952]

Can we talk about how beautiful she is? My girl is GLOWINGGG💓. That kind of glow comes from a beautiful spirit💓.

[@4656superman]

I bet her ex husband dosent think so...he was a great supportive husband before her book success...

[@jaybae7315]

Patrice is a whole vibe. I love her energy of serenity and realness.

[@chanellsmith3204]

I watched the first podcast a few weeks ago and was smiling. I've known Patrice before she was married & she is my fellow Usc alumni...I miss her, love her and look forward to hugging her. I know her daughter who I held as a baby, etc is now in high school 😳. Anthony my new friend (in my mind) I just enjoy your podcast. I'm excited about Israel 🧳✈️. Great show again 💃🤸👍

[@verlisahooks]

I was living under a marriage title and lost in myself trying to hold on to a dying marriage I was unhappy in. I was tired of holding up appearances of happiness when behind closed doors. I was unhappy. Since divorcing, I have actually found myself again and am living more purposeful.

[@dijaworldworld3895]

Amen. Same ❤

[@keshaqiana]

Powerful! This entire episode spoke magnitudes to me!!!! I so needed this!!

[@yonihumphrey2860]

I have no words…Patrice Washington is an absolute God-send! So are you AO! Another awesome production of a discussion!❤🎉🙌🏽

[@TheJoyJourney]

Patrice was sooooo point on!!!! I relate so much to her and what she is experiencing!

[@giftytuffour8090]

Thank you O'Neal for bringing the right woman with wisdom on your show,this is one of the best show,you have hosted this year keep it up.and thank you for always helping us with the right information we need.

[@bettermantoday3878]

I’m In Love With This Woman !!! She has helped me understand who I am and where I may have fallen short of my soon to be ex-wife and more importantly MYSELF. THANK YOU MY QUEEN 👸🏾 😘

[@melanamims2622]

Wow 'our souls are exhausted from lying to ourselves'. Whew just getting started and Patrice is calling me OUT!!

[@wadleo]

Watching from Cameroon and you’ve blessed me so much this year just from watching your talks, I’m glad I found this show🙌🏽

[@dr.rennes]

I wholeheartedly love this women!!! Thankful to call her my coach! Needed that reminder today

[@danescabaez2896]

I’m so happy to hear that Patrice is going well. I remember her story and have been following for for years. I love that ❤ she’s still grinding living out her pillars and being real about where she is right now. I remember feeling the same after my divorce saying the same thing she’s saying even years afterwards but it’s been 10 years now and I’d love to get remarried and do life with that one person to love and serve aligned with God’s word. God has a way of changing our hearts along the way. Keep going Patrice much love for you on the journey and praying 🙏🏽 for your success

[@natashasanders8785]

Finally! Another woman who feels the same way I do about a man being taller than me when I'm wearing heels! 😆 In all seriousness, this was a great conversation!

[@JJ-jn7ei]

😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@nadiar.7788]

@@Rashaadthegr8 The reason most women aren't married is because only about 15% of men marry--most prefer to impregnate anything that moves.

[@donnahampton3632]

There are really great men that are under 6 ft! Women are really missing out by passing over men that aren't over a certain height. It's so sad!

[@jthornhill737]

Facts Patrice! I love how you phrased it “…I can date him, but can he date me”. I struggle with the same things you’ve mentioned after my divorce and started to focus on my career and financial growth. Bring “peace and purpose over appearances” to the relationship !!

[@MishaLives]

I highly relate to her and had to make a major life transition myself due to choosing peace and purpose over appearances. I am 100% sure i’ve made the right decision and will be talking about this on my KZbin soon.

[@juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080]

This was extraordinary!! I failed to leave & it's now too late. I believe personal growth is still possible after 60.

[@powerbadpowerbad]

It is possible to have personal growth after 60,the possibilities stop when you're 6 ft under. LOL.

[@777VIBRANT]

I really love your channel. I am so glad that this Channel was on my timeline. Great video with lots of value that I truly resonate with. Thank you Anthony for creating this space for yourself and thank you for making this space available for people like myself that enjoy's your content.

[@anthonyoneal]

I'm so glad you are finding value here!

[@susanakaan810]

We can learn by our experiences, other people's experiences, reading and listening to other people

[@cbrumigin4107]

There's always someone watching you with the power to bless you...c'mon now....how are you showing up 😮

[@kamikraroberts2085]

I was so blessed by your first interview with Patrice. I believe she was still married at the time and shared her story about her financial journey before starting her podcast. I also enjoyed this interview and seeing that she is still on her personal growth journey. Thank you for another awesome interview.

[@yolanda5756]

My sister is stuck on the "appearance" of being happily married but her husband is only with her because he was broke & homeless and she was stupid enough to marry him desperate to show people she is married smh 🤦🏽‍♀️his ex wife of over 20 years gets a huge sum of his money from their divorce and he has told my sister he still loves his ex and wants to be with the ex... Smh I don't understand folks trying to appear to have what they don't to satisfy others🙄

[@gina9684]

Wow

[@erickacole3818]

Why are you telling the world? You're dishonoring your sister. Publicly. Stop gossipping.

[@Sassysaash]

Sis, is the truth! I'd love to follow her on her platforms. Thank you for sharing all your truths and all that we can relate to, grow into, and or be relatable to/for others. 💜

[@t.lunaimhotepmdiv135]

I love Patrice I've been listening to her book on audible along with the Budgetnista both of these amazing women have helped me understand wealth and my relationship with money

[@TheGayStoic]

I like her, a lot ❤. she looks, sounds, and smells so free. It’s very empowering to look at.

[@deebowden4050]

This conversation was so powerful. Thanks Patrice for sharing your journey with us.

[@livingfreetravel]

I'll watch anything with this duo every time

[@ayishaablake4397]

I loved this episode and I can totally relate with what Patrice in her season . Vision is key, peace is so important in a relationship, financial management is a must. I have and read Patrice book years ago and this week I am going to find the book because I am going to need her advice in my season at this time. Transition time is here. Thanks again AO !

[@homegardeningforkids1440]

I found Patrice when I was looking for examples of successful divorced, thriving black women, who are desiring the companion God has for them. I’m so empowered by today’s topic and conversation that I’m hitting the ground running. Patrice thank you…. I’m right behind you … moving into that thriving and arriving position…letting God remove things from me and my life that are unnecessary…. In order to bring me into my next and welcome that financially fit, willing to love and work on himself and more man that is made for me.

[@Abundant_Lei]

I truly adore her she is hilarious, I cannot be mad at her attract what you desire. I am hoping to also attract some taller men into my life 5'8 and optimistic.

[@deliawatkins5950]

I love this and Patrica! There is so much here. Thank you so much for your alignment with Self, Queen!! I caught all of that and I can relate. 🙏🙏🙏 Blessings to you!

[@Gracetochange]

Sad to hear and shocking because she always spoke so well of her marriage.

[@gracelitv5079]

"Soul Awareness" 💡 moment for me! This was sooo good 👍🏾 Thank you both!

[@hdeew05]

Space is my problem currently! I have been getting rid things and the more I elevate, the more I find to get rid of.

[@anthonyoneal]

Love the accountability!

[@theherbrand]

Most women don't NEED a man, but a lot of us definitely WANT a man. We want the man to lead. We don't mind being submissive. We want a man that handles his business, that's confident, and knows his purpose. And for me personally, give me a man who follows God, because then I'll know he'll lead us in the right direction. Great Episode!

[@KM33933]

Not all men can lead according to how they've been raised. Men or women should not be put in a box. When you find one and are happy with each other, grow together.

[@fabulousswag6683]

"Most women don't NEED a man,but a lot of us definitely WANT a man". This mindset is a set up for self sabotage,cuz it is founded on lies and self denial. This is a pertinent question you should ask your own self. When you as a female refers to your SELF, what gender do you think the source of your female projection is based upon? The female nature was given the host of the primary agency of power in nature and equipped with the strategy of hypergamy to do what in and for nature(self).

[@mpatreece2726]

STAND TALL, PATRICE!!!

[@melissa3407]

Thank you for finally leaving that teacher topic alone. I was so over it. Lol. I DM because I was seriously bothered. Love this episode. Love how Patrice walks in her boldness. She is AMAZING!!!

[@dineomocoach]

You keep on bringing thought provoking speakers. Brilliant show we just had. Good job Anthony✅✅✅I had to watch this twice.She keeps it real and still remains grounded. That’s beautiful. ❤️❤️❤️

[@ProgressGirl97]

Why is it only 5 minutes in and she is dropping KNOWLEDGE! Thanks for inviting her AO

[@pamk1967]

I'm a Pisces too, Patrice! Divorced 10 yrs. Great interview ✌🏾❤️

[@suzettecounsels]

As listen to Patrice, I feel like she is telling my story!! Stayed in a 19 to 20 year marriage since the age of 21 to now (I'm 42) Still waiting for the divorce to wrap up since he is not giving anything to his children financially. God is showing me creative ways to make an income. I'm going through the process still and have started my own podcast as well. My peace is more important than appearances. God has promised me restoration, and I am thankful!!

[@bradleepitt7409]

I’m going through a divorce and it’s painful. But I’ve learned a lot and I’m still learning. The scales have fallen off of my eyes. I’m reading the comments and a lot of people are rejoicing over this interview. This isn’t good. I feel bad for her husband based on what she said in another interview. She went up and didn’t and I wouldn’t be surprised if she started looking down at him. She a modern woman with unrealistic expectations. I’m curious to see how her conversation changes when stuff hits the fan and our economy has gone downhill.

[@kenmecall]

I could cry right now. I’m literally going through this right now.

[@melissa3407]

Love how you recorded the question. Much respect to you.

[@thatsvickiIRL]

37.40 , 40.40 this is the part that ppl fail at miserably ! My existence should not make U feel less than !

[@dianariley7634]

She's speaking my language! This is how I feel and I agree with what she says about a relationship. I concur that I need a man but I also need peace, I don't require financial support but I desire financial support because I'm building legacy. I want a man who can build together.

[@BlessingAdachukwu]

Am happy to see this episode. Am currently going through divorce. Credit score is 0. Am currently on my journey to financial freedom with my 4 years old girl. Am happy and not bitter

[@dijaworldworld3895]

You got this❤

[@patticakes5439]

I'm with Patrice, I'm 5'11 and you better be taller than me. I need to be able to wear my heels. Enjoy this podcast. Checking into the life insurance, that you advertise Anthony

[@Renee_egan]

Patrice youre my new role model 🙌🏼 beautiful inside and out and I get the feeling you bring that optimism and resilience where ever you go👌🏼💗 I need to surround myself with people like you I gotta say it... You two would be a powerful force together! Seems like you are well suited and neither would out shine the other; both driven and secure, got your own things that do alot of good, I cant imagine the impact could be... Just sayin If theres a small height difference but only when a womans got heels on, it was only something that I thought of briefly/in the first few months into the relationship but never beyond the thought crossing my mind even at the beginning. Photos didnt look bad, didnt look obvious or stick out, and it didn't bug (my) Anthony cause he loved when I wore heels... Without heels I was shorter than him, I just love me my tall Louboutins. atleast in my experience far as our height difference went

[@silmabernard8951]

omg Patrice you're so spot on

[@TheMichelex20]

Love this episode but stopped in also to say she has a gorgeous smile. Wow.

[@lisanorman256]

This woman literally lives in my head. Pple look at me weird when I've said the EXACT SAME things 😅👏🏽🙌🏽

[@MsSilverPixie]

She’s preaching!

[@jenniferadderley2566]

Fire episode!!! 🔥 ❤I definitely got some takeaways from this episode on how to embrace loving yourself and become better in this Season which I'm currently working on.

[@cassandrayoung6471]

Yes he does need to be generous Patrice! He can have a billion and it will be for him and him only.

[@roylucas4553]

Great episode, God Bless & Thank you

[@kimbro404]

Yes, wealth- well being and happiness.

[@1CrystalLH]

phenomenal interview--discussion

[@nextlevelsuki]

I LOVED this interview!!🔥❤️🔥

[@andreawatkins7145]

This episode was amazing….just what I needed

[@shansatt7302]

100%. They Say that until it happens.👏🏾👏🏾 Unfortunately, my experience dating men that aren't clear in there purpose and secure in there own finances/business.

[@Charlenespov]

I love to hear the different perspectives and the honest thoughts . I love it here 😊

[@yemisiakande8904]

Oh my😂😂😂😂 this was so fun and powerful, thoroughly enjoyed it. Left me so hungry for more.

[@aishakone4067]

I love Patrice.. one of her book was the my first finance book I’ve read at the age 22

[@NielsPoulsen]

I am divorced right now, but I stayed for way too long, because I believed that my son needed both parents happily together. But, now we are both better parents living apart

[@bradleepitt7409]

Is there a possibility that your perspective was wrong? Happiness is fleeting. Marriage was never about happiness. Happiness in Marriage is a new concept.

[@relaxcalmnaturepeace]

I am only 15 mins in and she is speaking my soul right now. Similar experience and transition! Everything is so on point! ❤️‍🩹

[@livelifewthanks5684]

Really good talk! And plenty of valuable information and guidelines!! ❤❤❤ thank you

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Never ever too late to #REBUILD your Wealth and Health💗💚 loving my gallon of water everyday AO, see you @ the beach!

[@keishajones5334]

I sure needed this. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@katheryndbutts]

I love Patrice and Redefining Wealth! I'm so glad to hear/see the two of you together discussing this subject matter.

[@verenamadeo3588]

Peace & Purpose 🙏

[@shesvirtuous]

So happy to see Patrice here, she is the truth and so deserving 🎉

[@karengoree7335]

I love this, thank you both so much!!❤❤❤❤

[@lavieestbelle6068]

Patrice and AO make a good team.

[@DC-fo3gh]

I enjoyed this interview 🙂!

[@mariah9577]

This was sooooooo good!

[@todayiwearfuzzyducky]

Mercy - so good!

[@mameafrane1725]

Anthony so real “ she had the booty”. …. I’m calling your mama. Lol. 😂 Patrice is so great! So inspiring to all black women. She is so confident is contagious. Amazing human being. She is not all about money. I hope God bless her with an incredible husband. … Great show

[@KrisE-ChronicIllnessandJoy]

THE WAY I LOLed when she said “he could be 1inch and it would be ok”. Lol. You tell ‘em Chief. Go head.

[@lavieestbelle6068]

This is a masterclass.

[@twhite6425]

I heard everything you all said and love this! However, I feel her DESIRE to have a tall guy! I was married to height challenged man and was married for 18yrs and he had height challenged issues

[@mrshutch9178]

"Our souls are exhausted from us lying to ourselves" ... OOOUUUUCCCCHHHH 😳 .... we bout ta get taught ta-day (lbvs)!

[@yshaundamcduffie3172]

I'm with you girl any man shorter than me is considered my nephew 😂

[@DrCJR4]

Great episode!

[@mckinleyway7695]

Salute I love her energy