😡😤Heated Debate!! | Employed Sister VS Shaykh | SHOULD WIFE WITH KIDS, WORK AT A JOB? Shaykh Uthman

[@FaiyadFit]

Thanks for hosting me habibi!

[@zainytx]

Where can I watch your part? Brother

[@Muslimah18]

I have 3 children and I quit my job a month ago. It was the best thing ever. I’m now able to sleep better, cook better and look after my family better.

[@smellypatel5272]

May more sisters have your proper frame of mind.

[@IBornFeni]

I quit my IT job once I even decided I want to have a child JUST TO have a healthy relation with my husband. I had a very good package but I’m so happy that I made the decision Now have a kid and he consumed all my hours and I feel so blessed every minute

[@a_w_bukhari7579]

Allohumma barik

[@ShaykhUthmanQA]

May Allah bless you sister. Admin

[@rizqiwidyananto3546]

@ShaykhUthmanQA women maybe multitasking but it very hard to maintain careers and household simultaneously ,so at the end she force herself Pick one

[@tahaali2732]

The simple answer is YES, a woman should work when she has kids - her work is to nurture her children

[@sohaibkhaldi1474]

bro got me in the first half...

[@uglyfromyung]

Couldn’t worded it better bro

[@makeislameasy4206]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@ANOblkstrMALY]

I would not call it "work". A wife that has children is doing child care and taking care of the house which is something very pleasing to Allah and is part of what able bodied and healthy wives/mothers are required to do. U see when u use words like "work" or "career" 10000% feminists and liberals, and s*mps will find a way to poison our sisters in Islam and even all women in general. I believe fathers, mothers, and their daughters should read up on stories of the female sahabiyat(female companions of our Prophet Sallahu alaihi wassalam) and how they practiced Islam and lived their lives as Muslimah

[@fakhrulislam6869]

Same, he got me as well 😅​@@sohaibkhaldi1474

[@AliUguz]

Sister needs to understand that free mixing is the main issue and that a work career won’t help you in the after life but fulfilling your duty as a wife will.

[@jasbros3658]

So if a woman has children than her own task should her children, no choice should be given? just asking

[@uglyfromyung]

@@jasbros3658firstly you should learn English or at least use the translator cause i didn’t understand anything you wrote

[@Mlofb]

@@jasbros3658 yes.

[@thesabiqoon4178]

​@@jasbros3658 provided husband is not a loser.

[@azhaar113]

What? ​@@jasbros3658

[@azharFiroz786]

THE kind of women i would never want to Marry.... May Allah protect us snd give us Righteous spouses.

[@Liam_Forever]

@azharFiroz786 Ameen

[@makeislameasy4206]

Ameen

[@user-hc1fm9vh8t]

Ameen

[@mariokart6118]

There is no such thing as having a ‘career’ it’s a myth. Your kids should be your priority inshallah.

[@bazookaonly]

Plz type Allah In Capital in InshALLAH JazakALLAH

[@mohammadtalha1528]

She is literally in a fighting match and vocally very abusive And she thinks she is a good wife 2 minutes silence for her husband 😢😢😢

[@makeislameasy4206]

😢😢😢

[@smellypatel5272]

Her husband is a very week (intentionally misspelled for yt) person to tolerate that behavior to begin, to be honest.

[@syedhasanmohiuddin827]

MAN!!! This is the EXACT thing that came to my mind! But I will get hate for saying this I guess. You can tell A LOT about this woman from this video. Man oh man I LITERALLY thought about her husband too! Poor guy!!

[@InterDimension-v3q]

@@syedhasanmohiuddin827 May Allah give Sabr to all husbands that are passing through this kind of thing because I would have begun to hit my head over the the wall 😅😂😂😂 or got away and left until she has stopped talking then I come back, No way, she is not listening to herself what she is saying, her kids will grow loving her mother more than her plus they will neglect her and let her know that she did a terrible job as a mother then she will complain why are her kids behaving like this with her plus she won’t be able to understand except if she really address herself with that issue, Me and my brothers have passed through this kind of experience and it was a nightmare for us, Alhamdoulillah Allah took care of us, but today we try our best but it’s not easy and if we weren’t really believing Muslims, she would not have heard of us for life.

[@whyzee007]

Husband should’ve divorced her. Probably stayed for the kids or for money.

[@sakinadjenadi7264]

Bismillah salam as a french woman I don't understand why Muslim women want to look like Westerners instead of Islamic values. The hour will not come until my Nation follows the lead of other nations, span by span, and cubit by cubit." They (the companions) said: "O Messenger of Allah! Like the Persians and the Romans?" He said: "But who are the people besides them?" In this society of libertinism and corruption, it's not just about wearing a hijab and going to work, all women are capable of doing that.

[@Liam_Forever]

Wa alaykum as salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu

[@Liam_Forever]

Here is the hadith for those wanting to find it حَدَّثَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ يُونُسَ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي ذِئْبٍ، عَنِ الْمَقْبُرِيِّ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ، رضى الله عنه عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏"‏ لاَ تَقُومُ السَّاعَةُ حَتَّى تَأْخُذَ أُمَّتِي بِأَخْذِ الْقُرُونِ قَبْلَهَا، شِبْرًا بِشِبْرٍ وَذِرَاعًا بِذِرَاعٍ ‏"‏‏.‏ فَقِيلَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ كَفَارِسَ وَالرُّومِ‏.‏ فَقَالَ ‏"‏ وَمَنِ النَّاسُ إِلاَّ أُولَئِكَ ‏"‏‏.‏ Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The Hour will not be established till my followers copy the deeds of the previous nations and follow them very closely, span by span, and cubit by cubit (i.e., inch by inch)." It was said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Do you mean by those (nations) the Persians and the Byzantines?" The Prophet said, "Who can it be other than they?" Sahih al-Bukhari 7319 Chapter 14: “Certainly you will follow the ways of those who were before you.”, Book 96: Holding Fast to the Qur'an and Sunnah sunnah.com/bukhari:7319

[@fakhrulislam6869]

It's a bit complicated. I'm from Pakistan where the sister in the video is from and I know the context of why she's saying what she's saying. It's not only because they want to follow westerners. It also has to do with the men who are not fulfilling their responsibilities as the financial provider. Majority of the older men (the generation of fathers and grandfathers) in Pakistan don't provide 100% financially and they rely on their daughters, wives, sisters etc to work alongside them. They don't respect their women when they are not earning and always abuse their power. Then when the women do start to work and earn more then them, they start to respect them because now they're providing for the household. And the same women who were oppressed before because they weren't going above and beyond, now they receive respect and they see the effect of them going out and earning. So that's why most of the Pakistani women start working and love to work, because they get the financial freedom and the respect that their wali (guardian in Islam) failed to provide them. It's sad to see these sisters because they initially start to work only to get their rights which their wali should've been providing but then slowly the western ideologies start to take over them in one way or the other just like in the video the sister said her mother wasn't "enlightened". This is the reason most women in Pakistan work and I'm a 16 year old boy and I hate these "Men" who failed to do their duty, whenever I see a woman working I realise instantly that her guardian is a loser because I've seen so many women working because they want to get independent since the guardian can't take care of them. I always pray I never end up like these "Men" whose women end up in the workplace because he can't provide. May Allah guide us.

[@sakinadjenadi7264]

​@@Liam_Forever Bismillah wa ahleykoum Salam wa rahmatulliAllah wa Baraka tu 💚

[@xtendaustralia5169]

​@fakhrulislam6869 im also from Pakistan. The story you are telling is a fringe element in our society not mainstream. You are only 16 so you dont know what you are talking about. Do me a favour and go out in the street, all the men working all the odd jobs on the street in the heat and worst environment are fathers, brothers, trying their best to provide for their families. Yes There are some men who are useless but majority arent.

[@Mlofb]

bro the silent conversation between Shaykh Uthman and Faiyad was hilarious😂

[@SAT1337]

It's embarrassing watching the brother on the right snicker. Very disrespectful, and not in line with the sunnah.

[@fatima7284]

It is not hilarious it is insulting.

[@mrsulaiman19]

Why didn't they rush her? Shit

[@saadandrajafamily6537]

​@@fatima7284Feminist triggered

[@ehsansatti5526]

Sheikh did her dirty by letting her yap for so long...

[@googleanassundala5912]

when the argument is rooted on arrogance, no answer will suffice

[@jasbros3658]

how is it based on arrogance?

[@rizwanramzan5729]

She won't listen and allow the sheikh to address the topic. Did she even listen to what the sheikh was explaining?

[@saArakd]

I hope these Shaykhs will start talking about abuse and harassment in the home. Domestic violence is a great fitna today but it's a mute topic in discourse.

[@mohammeds46]

@@saArakdabuse against men should also be addressed for using laws to oppress

[@saArakd]

@mohammeds46 Brother, are these laws Islamic or otherwise? Surely, it's abuse and manipulation if either side resolve their issues without Islamic precedence. My point was on different issue.

[@hatajusic3568]

May Allah guide this sister and bring peace in her soul 🤲🏼

[@smo1077]

This women, you can just tell is full of her self importance. Shiek explained everything clearly and she was still rabbiting on about herself. Anyone living with her deserves a Gold medal!

[@MBAZ1961]

She is 48 years old, 20 years older than me and still ignorant, I ditched the working mentality when I was 10 because I was the daughter of a working mother, Instead of asking her mother ask her to ask her kids if they r happy with an ascent mother they will tell you. After all it’s them who r getting affected by the absence not the mother nor the grandmother

[@falcon6329]

I never understand why woman want to go to work 40 hours a week instead of spending time with their own children while husband can do the harsh work outside. Its a blessing that god gave to woman but they unfortunately don't realise that. I wish I didnt have to work all day and go home completely exhausted. I wish i could spend that time with family instead.

[@hasa63-f8i]

Feminism ruined their mind

[@marykmotherhood]

Great insight. I do agree also.

[@smellypatel5272]

It's all about ego for them. Living a lavish, fake lifestyle revolving around materialism instead of real things that matter in life. It's easier to brag about yourself being a doctor than being a housewife. But what they don't realize is that being a mother and housewife is a far, far more rewarding path in the end than being a career woman.

[@AdnanKhan-kg6ek]

Doesn't it give them a sort of financial independence? Which allows them to have their ways in making decisions of the house. It satisfies their ego and on top of that the husbands can't dominate them in the household when they too are earning and providing for the family.

[@smellypatel5272]

@@AdnanKhan-kg6ek to everyone else's detriment, yes. They aren't natural leaders and end up destroying the household through mismanagement of her time. Not to mention career women are way more prone to divorce and Zina.

[@Abu_Salaamah]

If she is not disrespectful, she is not feminist.

[@iman3622]

As a women who is having to work due to family needs and a forced to do so, the sister irks me so much. She has no, absolutely no idea the amount of harassment women face on a daily basis at work during commute. From the unwanted stares to the "accidental" physical contacts to increasing office culture that puts a greater burden on women to be proactive at office to energize the team, to work harder to prove their worth, to be subjected to more stringent policies and the list goes on.

[@marykmotherhood]

13:27 this right here is something many woman dont understand.

[@arshadmahmood2579]

May Allah grant us beneficial knowledge Indeed a woman is better at the house than a man no doubt, for it biologically, therefore emotionally and psychologically makes sense for the woman to stay, and it’s a right a woman must fulfil her duty to nurture the house, A surprisingly difficult and honourable task May Allah guide us and unite us upon the Quran and authentic Sunnah as the salaf understood it

[@sakinadjenadi7264]

Allahhuma Amine🤲

[@Liam_Forever]

@arshadmahmood2579 Ameen

[@MrSizzleDrizzle]

Some of the things she said to Shaykh Uthmaan came across as rude and argumentative, as though it were a debate rather than a respectful question-and-answer session. If she can interact that way with a respected stranger on a public platform, it raises questions about how she might behave with those she knows more personally. She wasn’t asking questions but rather demanding that the Shaykh refrain from saying certain things. Ironically, these traits seem to have been cultivated over 25 years of working in the corporate world.

[@Muhyideen869]

The exception doesn't make the rule. Great points made by sh. Uthman 👍🏼

[@marykmotherhood]

Yes and it's mostly woman talk to woman and try to persuade the expection is the rule. They glamorize the working life and having it all.

[@sabdulrahmanshaikh1621]

'No one tried to touch...' Lucky You... Alhamdulillah...but that isnt true for others

[@yuppieyup8188]

Maybe she isn't good looking lol

[@joshrentos216]

I don’t think this is a conversation that should have been had definitely not in public.

[@GalaxyEvo77]

Shaykh was paaaaaaaaatient here 😅

[@MuntahaTariq_]

Sister what's your question? Sister: ***Proceeds to deliver a 40 minute lecture that I wasn't expecting***

[@obaida7]

Some scholars in Texas have spoiled a lot of women in America!

[@MrKillamanjaro6]

I agree, a lot of the simp imam movement started in Texas

[@mr.lastchance]

the same happening in subcontinent. now these simp imams are posting content in urdu now.

[@nets123]

Yasir Qadhi said in a video with Hatem Al Hajj that "We need to rethink Qiwamah". Nothing regarding gender roles in Islam needs to be rethought. Allah has perfected this religion!

[@smellypatel5272]

Can we encourage naming and shaming them? Nouman Ali Khan is one example - he was outed as a predator and he enoucrages kuffr.

[@syedhasanmohiuddin827]

@@nets123 Wait when and where did he say this?? Is there a link or something please? BTW don't take Yasir Qadhi's name under the disucssion of 'Simp' or 'Liberal' so called "scholars". He is very very strict about all the commandments of women in Islam. He absolutely never washes anything off.

[@nafaow3]

Yes, Women can work when she has kids. But in this case she has to balance both household (including child) & work with islamic rulings.

[@mr.lastchance]

that's impossible

[@smellypatel5272]

No she cannot work if she has kids because that decision is at the discretion of her husband. He is fully within his rights to forbid her from working, at which point it becomes fardh for her to obey. Also, she can absolutely not work if her job involves free mixing or shirking her household duties, which the majority of jobs these days involve.

[@Ummkelechi]

@@mr.lastchanceI believe it’s hard but it’s been done maybe out of necessity

[@im_095]

Bro someone needs to pre check these questions, how you letting her ramble a basic question for 5 mins 💀

[@p1nomercy413]

she is one of those who trying to proof she is correct even if she is wrong

[@salmanulfaris7165]

Why anyone would consider housewives uneducated. Rain is different from the sun. When rain tries to acquire the characters of the sun, plants will die. I and my family dignify our mother's more than our father. Someone who considers women who doesn't go out uneducated is stupendous

[@fajrisalim3414]

The best job in the world is full time mother

[@phoenixknight8837]

Asalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu! JazakumAllahu khayr wa barakAllahu feekum.

[@Liam_Forever]

Wa alaykum as salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu, Ameen

[@SuperIsadam]

Rufaydah Al-Aslamiyyah, the first female doctor in Islam, for whom the Prophet specified a tent in his mosque in Madinah in order to treat and nurse the injured Muslim warriors of the Battle of Al-Khandaq (the Trench). Just one example.

[@driveryte]

A little knowledge is a dangerous thing

[@shasja-rf8hk]

Everyone don't have enough financial capacity, in these days women can support family by adding to income of family. Of course she cannot be forced, but she can add. Also please know that all women are not fortunate to have husband who takes care of her. These issues of women working cannot be wrapped in single cover. It changes from family to family, person to person. Yes of course sheik is correct that a mothers primary responsibility is physical and emotional care to children, but Islam didn't forbid woman from earning her own halal income.

[@xtendaustralia5169]

I dont understand her, she first claims to not know what feminism is and then later describes exactly what feminism is. I have met many westerners who do not let their spouses work. In my professional life, all the women i have met are mostly frustrated due to the fact that they cant handle work and home at the same time and they would have loved to have spouse who allow them to just stay at home. Unfortunately, issue of single parents is quite common in west and women is the one on the suffering side.

[@smellypatel5272]

Yep here in the US and west all over it's the same story. Working woman thinks she can do better. Ego-divorces husband. Collects Haram alimony/child support. Marries her job and the state. Does Zina secretly while "searching." Kid ends up raised in a single mother home where he/she apostatizes or otherwise ends up a bad state in life.

[@TruthFound]

This sister needs face to face naseeha

[@joshrentos216]

I don’t know how it should work. I don’t think it should be in public like this for everyone to be entertained by but also it obviously shouldn’t be in private. Maybe with the husband?

[@iimiboy]

Think she's showing off how amazing she is working 😂

[@SemihB7]

brother we should do dua for her rather than to belittle her

[@samhamdan9963]

@@SemihB7this should be in a private setting not out in public , no need to hear this

[@SemihB7]

@@samhamdan9963 right akhi

[@makeislameasy4206]

Yes

[@jdcswe]

​@@SemihB7 lovely advice. BarakAllahu feekum

[@asiamahmood5431]

Depends on the job and how much it interferes. Also depends if her husband is doing what he should be doing as a man. Many of them want a woman who doesnt leave the house but do nothing to provide well.

[@JaysonAng]

00:06 - Professional Muslim woman's perspective on gender roles and feminism. 02:26 - Women can work and still maintain family dynamics. 04:19 - Discussion on whether mothers with children should work outside the home. 06:17 - Debate on the impact of working parents on family dynamics. 08:06 - Debate on parenting responsibilities and the role of grandparents. 10:01 - The value of women shouldn't be judged by their employment status. 12:04 - Debate on the risks women face working in traditional jobs. 14:06 - Debate on whether working mothers should have jobs.

[@zainytx]

Even white people would disagree with her😅

[@ajassharafudeen]

Sister is way too argumentative rather than contemplating about the whole picture.

[@Bekah23]

I dont know if its the accent but I'm like 5min into it and i haven't heard what the question is. Is it just me?

[@relaxwithjasmine2903]

Same, i turned on subtitles 😅

[@atifakhlaque4533]

Husband and wife both working professionally, begs the question the level of financial lifestyle they were living or is it money driven lifestyle

[@ShaykhUthmanQA]

Where are you all watching from? Admin

[@mubbashirsyed10]

India

[@selmasuleyman9966]

England

[@keepitreelcatfishing5883]

USA

[@y4si]

Canada

[@fisherman174]

Toronto

[@SuperIsadam]

Khadijah, may Allah be pleased with her had a 'career'. She is the mother of believers and a great example and the way the Prophet peace be upon him was with her and supported her is a great example that seens to be lost on many.

[@Soroush.73]

He answers this in the video.. Khadijah (ra) had a business long before Islam was revealed, and even then, she didn't go out with caravans and conduct business herself. She got the men like prophet (pbuh) to do it for her. Ayesha (ra) used to teach from behind a curtain. She wasn't sitting in an office openly where non mahram men could easily see her and interact with her. Unfortunately our sisters don't see this beautiful modest side of our mothers.

[@SuperIsadam]

@Soroush.73 Khadijah may Allah be pleased with her, still had to interact with the men who carried out the caravan work for her. Is that not how she met the Prophet peace be upon him? Do brothers at workplaces screen themselves from every woman they work with?

[@Soroush.73]

@SuperIsadam this was all 20 years before prophethood. Even then, she didn't meet prophet (pbuh) like that. She always had a mediator like Nafisa, who she used as a mediator for their marriage.

[@SuperIsadam]

@@Soroush.73 Nafisa was a woman therefore the interaction was with a woman. Nusayba ra fought on the battlefield not behind a screen.

[@Soroush.73]

@SuperIsadam Nafisa proposed on behalf of Khadija (ra) 15-20 years before Islam was revealed.... Nusayba ran to help the Muslims when they were losing in Uhud and her children were in the war. Are you honestly trying to justify women fighting in a bloody war with men? Why can't our sisters embrace their femininity and stop trying to be men? Rid yourself of this feminism disease sister

[@marykmotherhood]

Great points subhan Allah

[@saArakd]

First, let's establish that men are providers, and they SHOULD foremost obeybthis. They should never force their wives to work outside the home. However, that conversation should be between the couple because they know the circumstances around that decision. Ideally, a mother should be at home with comfort and support to raise her children. Many times, she is left with all the home responsibilities, like she is the only one to fulfill these. Men are more lacking when it comes their responsibilities, and the wife is left to keep the family together with whatever mean possible . Let us focus on the rights of each partner and ensure we are doing Justice .

[@smellypatel5272]

I agree, men shouldn't force their wives to work. But let me ask you this: most proposals are approved by the woman and her parents. Why would a woman pursue a man whose intention is to make her work after marriage? Only women driven by lust or those who are ego driven by careers would be OK with this arrangement. If he magically switches from being a provider before marriage to wanting you to work, without any good reason (e.g. complete financial ruin), then you've every right to refuse since it goes against what's halal

[@saArakd]

@smellypatel5272 it's a discussion between parties. Are you saying if it agreed between parties that a woman can work that this is something to Abhor. I speak directly to the culture within some Muslim communities where if the woman doesn't work she is given less of her rights and seen as worthless. When she works because she has to , she is given a say in decisions. It's is a failing on her Mahram when discussing marriage to ensure that her rights are guaranteed. But in many cultures they impose these rights only if she contributes financially. This is against our religious practice.

[@saArakd]

@smellypatel5272 woman driven by Lust and ego.....well brother you are doing an injustice to your sisters. Muslim women also work in many fields that are productive for society, whether education, medicine, etc. I am a physician or what you call a obgyn and I pursued this lustful and egotistical career while raising my 4 children with my husband. We recognize the need for Muslim women to be educated in these areas and not depend on the non Muslims. You seem to think we all do it for thr fun and frolicking and I pray that Allah SWT accept our genuine efforts in His Deen and to serve others.

[@smellypatel5272]

@@saArakd Your argument is a weak one. I'm also a physician here in the States. There is zero, I repeat, zero, need for female Muslim physicians. Those needs are covered by non-Muslim female physicians in those fields that you could make some argument that there is a need for females in (e.g. obstetrics). The reality is that these lengthy education paths full of free mixing are ego driven. I have no way of knowing how you raised your kids, but I cannot imagine it was healthy. I grew up around households where the mother was a physician and those kids were always neglected and lacked any Deen, proper adhab, and were poorly adjusted.

[@smellypatel5272]

@@saArakd lol yt censorship deleted my reply, of course. Goes to show which side you're supporting

[@myownbasement]

Alhamdullilah ..very healthy conversation but the brother next to the Sheikh is very much distracted, he should try keeping his emotions in check. He is laughing a lot.

[@appu1sundaram]

I am a muslimah from India. May Allah guide this woman and all of us. She is clearly deluded and arrogant.

[@InterDimension-v3q]

Ameen, honestly the shaykh was very very very patient listening, I wasn’t able to understand a thing of what she said actually, La Ilaha Illa Llah

[@ShaykhUthmanQA]

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[@fakhrulislam6869]

It's a bit complicated. I'm from Pakistan where the sister in the video is from and I know the context of why she's saying what she's saying. It's not only because they want to follow westerners. It also has to do with the men who are not fulfilling their responsibilities as the financial provider. Majority of the older men (the generation of fathers and grandfathers) in Pakistan can't provide 100% financially (mostly because they don't have high paying skills and simple jobs don't pay enough) and they rely on their daughters, wives, sisters etc to work alongside them. They don't respect their women when they are not earning and always abuse their power. Then when the women do start to work and earn more than them, they start to respect them because now they're providing for the household. And the same women who were oppressed before because they weren't going above and beyond, now they receive respect and they see the effect of them going out and earning. So that's why most of the Pakistani women start working and love to work because they get the financial freedom and the respect that their wali (guardian in Islam) failed to provide them. It's sad to see these sisters because they initially start to work only to get their rights which their wali should've been providing but then slowly the western ideologies start to take over them in one way or the other just like in the video the sister said her mother wasn't "enlightened". This is the reason most women in Pakistan work. I'm a 16 year old college student and I hate these "Men" who failed to do their duty, whenever I see a *middle class* woman working I realise instantly that her guardian is most probably not full filling his duty completely because I've seen so many women working only to get independent since they can't rely 100% on the guardian. I always pray I never become like these "Men" whose women end up in the workplace because he can't provide. Obviously not all the men are like that but majority of the older generation of men are like that in Pakistan but only in middle class families. May Allah guide us all. Edit: I'm not defending the sister's behaviour at all. Infact I pray none of us get such a wife but I'm just explaining why these women generally behave like this.

[@CordobaGeneral1234]

Ameen

[@saArakd]

This is exactly what I refer to when I say men are NOT fulfilling their responsibilities. And these are the men who are prone to likely abuse women in the home because they deem her work in the home as meaningless. This is not from Islamic culture but likely a cultural occurance.

[@doomdesire3460]

Its best not to assume that every married women working had a fialed husband

[@yuppieyup8188]

Not true

[@fakhrulislam6869]

@doomdesire3460 Obviously I didn't meant *every* single one in the entire country. But 90% of the time in *middle class* families, this is indeed the case. I get it, some times there is a necessity, for example if the father died and he only had a daughter, so that daughter will need to work, but I was talking in general but I'm also aware of the exceptions. Jazakallah for the advice though.

[@mubbashirsyed10]

Sheikh Uthman has a very good knowledge of Deen and Duniya Allahumma Barik ❤ May Allah give us that level of eloquence in speech and wisdom

[@piqueny8872]

Vasectomy of you don’t want to raise children! You can always adopt if you change your mind

[@mr.lastchance]

These are the definition of desi muslim women.

[@Sandra-r2c]

They don't want to support their husbands at home but don't mind working for non maharam men.

[@mubbashirsyed10]

Shaykh 💎

[@vivi_3878]

I tried reaching out to that email but it did not work, it bounced back..

[@ShaykhUthmanQA]

@@vivi_3878 try [e-mail] Admin

[@vivi_3878]

@ thank you!!

[@Bohemian100]

Feel so sorry for her husband.

[@fatima7284]

Yes nobody wants their wife to work outside but they ask for a women doctor, women teacher, women social worker, lawyer for their wife 😂

[@CannotAccess]

No real practicing men ask these things but if you are deliberately looking for types of men who put dunya over deen then thats your problem.

[@whyzee007]

There are enough non-Muslims in these roles in most countries that Muslim women don’t need to.

[@saArakd]

@whyzee007 what an ignorant answer. You are not a woman. You think that if a Muslim woman who is guided by her Deen and observe modesty will be comfortable discussing medical issues with a non practicing Muslim woman. SubhanAllah may Allah preserve our sister from associating with people of poor understanding Ameen Your perception that every Muslimah working outside her home does so to commit sin. Imagine what a low perception you have of women.

[@AbdulMuij08]

Don't be greedy, give time to your children & family.

[@ThisisSnakey]

Im gonna be the 1% that says she should if the mans earnings arent enough. Dual income goes a long way.

[@sabdulrahmanshaikh1621]

'Voice should be heard' by who? Non mahrams...that defeats the purpose of hijab

[@rafi2713]

She is literally yelling 😅

[@iman3622]

As a woman working in a mixed environment because of family needs and also forced to do so by parents, the sister's pov is disappointing. She has no idea how much women face ha *r *s *e *t ar workplaces and even during commute on an daily basis.

[@fatimahabdullahi7805]

Why is she so angry

[@saadandrajafamily6537]

The utter stupidity .... Allah bless the shaykh for having the patience 😂. I understand now why its impossible to argue with women, this specific women has shown to operate outside the realms of logical discourse

[@runtimeterror4027]

DH would have put her in her place

[@AMMAR-911]

💯

[@pa2359]

If women never worked like me and found out after 23 years that he had affairs now do what. I find to work very difficult, but went for school in forties and now looking for work. Women should have something all her life to live her life independently if needed

[@khanhamid3744]

Sad state when a Muslim woman is already planning what ifs and buts. If a woman needs to work it should be because she HAS to not because she feels like it. Not because she wants to be INDEPENDENT STRING WIMAN. a woman can never be the captain of the house, can never replace the role of the man. A woman can work but it areas she is needed in. Like Dr's, teachers, police. We need women to help other women. Can't have women shelving away in the local stores or elsewhere. If a man can do a job there is no need to have a woman doing that job. Pilot for example. No need. And we know why such jobs are haram for women anyway. This is why I said if she is forced by the circumstances then she can work and only then. Not in cases you me tired where we get sisters already planning on what to do in the future if things go wrong. That's not how a Muslim sister thinks. That's a women who have been corrupted and manipulated by the west. Now in your case not sure who you married, how religious, how religious you are, the family. When we get married a can't think just First 1 years I need to think need 200 years and how my kids are to be. That's how a Muslim thinks. Rather than me thinking especially women here thinking what if I get divorced had you thought I need to make sure I pick someone who will be a leader, a father who fears Allah and gives them their rights. A man who is religious a person who works hard. Both for life and deen. A man who is a role model. Follows our role model the prophet pbuh. He is a real man. Perhaps today your fortunes maybe different. I don't know this case but if that's not the mentality then we wonder where thing go wrong and it's simple. I need to make sure I pick a women who knows my rights before hers and I know hers before mine. I give and I don't ask she gives and doesn't mind. We sacrifice. That's a real woman. She doesn't treat herself like a queen, but I will make sure I do. I don't treat myself like a king but she treats me like a kung. That's sacrifice. Any women with any degree will be the last on my list. I don't need no degrees. She can work but work that beneficial to the society and Muslim women. I don't need her money. I can't sit at home waiting for her to earn me a few dollars. That's not how the prophet was or his companions. It's that simple. Unfortunately we make it more complicated. See how many sisters are not married. Now in their 30s and 40s. How they wish to be married. But who will marry them now. Don't give general advice with regards to issues that are specific and I mentioned the solution. This is Islam. Anything against what I said Is wrong anyone who disagrees must bring evidence. But anyone disagreeing is deluded and completely wrong. I wish you the best sister. May Allah make it easy for you.

[@everythingandroidois]

Children are also harrassed by their parents at a very minute level, does this mean we take away children from their parents and raise them so they be independent and then give them to children? No, that would break society and concerns a small amount of cases.

[@youareamazing12345]

INDIA

[@abdirahmanmohammed4641]

Canada

[@Soroush.73]

❤

[@Busii-gg9zl]

Best is to work full time without children, stop working when they are very dependant and then switch to part time when the children are more independent.

[@SuperIsadam]

This man is not a scholar and shouldn't be taken as such.

[@ShaykhUthmanQA]

Sister, why you so triggered...? Can you have some respect and call him Shaykh? Admin

[@SuperIsadam]

@ShaykhUthmanQA not triggered and no won't be calling him Sheikh. Brother in islam, yes, but not Sheikh.

[@SuperIsadam]

@ShaykhUthmanQA Men used to sit at the feet of Ayesha, may Allah be pleased with her, to learn from her.

[@SuperIsadam]

@ShaykhUthmanQA FYI I'm a stay at home mom.

[@mariokart6118]

Can’t understand what she is saying

[@MrRecklessdriver]

The women of dajjal will be the feminists who will entirety leave Quran and argue their own opinions sitting in a Islamic talk which defeats the purpose of her being there if she has those views and options that relate to feminism. Feminism goes against the Quran. But she came to an Islamic talk to argue a pathetic opinion.

[@samhamdan9963]

Why is this out in public , come on we don’t need to hear this

[@uglyfromyung]

Maybe you dont want to educate yourself, some people needed this cause this information is beneficial especially in modern times

[@CordobaGeneral1234]

These issues need to be addressed

[@AtheistCore]

Jobless youtubers telling women not to work :)

[@InterDimension-v3q]

We don’t need your opinion, keep it for yourself, or take advice to better yourself or stay quiet and don’t talk and scroll to another page

[@CommonManMTahoorH]

If you want to raise Tom and Jerry then working outside and giving your children to their grandparents or day care for raising purposes is okay, but if you want to raise a Hussian or a Hasan, then it is very difficult to do that while working as a mother.

[@Myobatsu]

bro, what is this crap? why couldnt she just simplify and ask a simple question instead of ranting on and on and on and on.. so much unnecessary information

[@mohammadtalha1528]

So if women disrespect a men he will slap her Is this statement fine for wife 😢😢

[@ibbzi5487]

bruv

[@ummsayfaldeen1913]

That’s a long vent.

[@Talhaa27-q4p]

Always a pakistani

[@gcsparts]

Interesting the question is like 10 minutes long

[@Mango_Shaikhh]

Sometimes I wish I could just teleport to the time of the Sahaba or the earlier generations of Islaam. So much deviance and fitna is a disease for the heart and I find myself in sadness over the Ummah. I wouldn’t have to worry about modern isms and femnazi boss babes.

[@noonwraith401]

In the west absolutely no.In Muslim countries, it might be possible.

[@Allah_is_the_greatest-only1god]

Those are just some fake people

[@pauldingkh]

Did shake divorce his wife and marry his brother wife ? Any clarification?🤣🤣🤣🤣