Heed the WARNING before taking the narcissist back

[@holographicc6974]

They HATE YOU! That’s the part that you struggle with and will never truly reconcile with. You love and they hate. Angels and demons don’t mix

[@user-yr1lk5pk7l]

Right

[@girlbeautiful2727]

Straight up fallen angels!!!

[@vaeyaxzaveriastarnovae3744]

Not true im a s Super Empath Narc n its very balanced... Im not Abusive tho unless i see it fit... N mainly its only fit for me to do stuff to another narc a terrorist... They exploit kimdness n I exploit their evil... Happily n I just be loving to give a good karma reality check. All i be wanting is the chance... While they are love bombing thinking they gettn over so am I... Already got my arsenal n not afraid to use it. I literally love getting them back shoot em with they own gun after a pistol whip or a few 😂 before pulling the trigger.. Cold piece of work i am 💜🔮💕

[@AdidasLove]

Yes yes and yes. This was the hardest part for me. I was kind and loving to him. I learned abt narcissism the hard way. I'm glad I did in order to know...but omg never again.

[@jessalynrandleel3915]

In my 2Chainz voice...."TRUE"!! So crazy it's funny

[@hollychav3078]

I am living proof it gets worse - I took him back too many times and the final discard the worst. Never ever again!

[@lisascott370]

I understand. I couldn't accept the truth. It was too much. Over time, I could get past my pride and shock. It took a while. As long as you can now say you got out and stayed out, you made it through.

[@inspirationalt2143]

Same🤢🤢literally sicknening

[@lindalee5871]

Its a final pulverise...they really finish you off...

[@1010QUEEN7]

He finished me off too

[@linad9811]

I'm going through this now ~ forgave my Husband multiple times from him moving in wit the woman for a year He comes back & a few months in I had to tell him to leave It's unbearable hurt /humiliation

[@cr3062]

The narcissist is in the process of ruining their own lives...get out of the way!

[@radaka]

❤️ this!

[@aprildanielle2693]

🗣️💯

[@mariamontoya3318]

Agreed I ran as fast as I could. They are a ticking time bomb because they know God is gonna destroy them in the process they do not make the final decision as God will do it himself. We are warned.

[@marielleclarke1626]

Thank you, yes

[@jasminestrange2266]

MY GOD YES!!!!

[@yevonnevanhorn8533]

Narcissist lied about everything never admitted to doing wrong. When he met me I was the best thing ever now I'm crazy because I exposed him. He never loved me. No Contact still healing.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Yes they all do that.

[@mattiebrooks7596]

They will never admit they are wrong. And they will never ever take responsibility for their actions it's always someone else's fault. Or they did whatever it was as a reaction to something someone else did. Pure evil. I wish you well on your healing journey. I too am healing the Trauma Bond is so real.

[@Bigdaddymac73]

Glad to know I’m not the only person to experience this madness smh

[@ChynaAlexis]

Stay strong love you deserve better ❤️

[@gilmourishgilmourish6205]

True ... I left many times ... couldn’t take the abuse. Once I decided not to leave anymore but then I did and never went back.

[@enlightenedone7083]

I escaped & ended my engagement w/the ex Narc. In 2 weeks, he had a new girlfriend. I didn’t know at the time not to warn her. She took me to court for fake “harassment”. They came to court in solidarity against me holding hands. The way narcissists betray you is unbelievable & very painful. His karma was that she turned out to be a worse Narc than him🤣🤣.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Enlightened One wow, that’s the energy that they draw to them! It’s always gonna be a roller coaster ride with them. Congratulations on getting out of it, it sounds like the ending of all narcissistic relationships, very toxic

[@tiayvette2048]

Enlightened One I have a feeling my ex fiancé narcissist karma will be the new supply . Her Facebook has all these men after her 🤦🏽‍♀️so I blocked them both do they can live in narcissist. Heaven

[@passionatagreen]

Enlightened One I prayed the narc would meet his narco path match. Karma.

[@tashasparxxx1910]

The ex covert narcissist husband. 😂he was trying to bait me.. to say something (warn) the NS so, he can get me for harassment. 🤭🤣 he loves to call the police 👮‍♀️ run 🏃 to the court house and file charges. I mirrored his dumb ass. You file charges on ME. I file charges on YOU. that pissed 😤 him off. How dare I, file “fake” charges on him. 🤣 they hate it when the tables is turned on them. 😏 Stay away from them. Never go back. You will deeply regret it.

[@Sunshineon5724]

@@tashasparxxx1910 Go head girl👏👏😄

[@queenbaee8514]

The way to get to them is no reaction😂No reaction will bite their ass lol they are literally energy vampires, so hold off on the energy

[@TSmith-du9my]

This ia TRUE silent treatment or just respond "OK"

[@1010QUEEN7]

Very true

[@vernondelancy6281]

U r so right

[@YardyBritishfamily]

Your so right

[@cgreen777]

Demons thrive off fire, anger and rage. Stay reading yr Psalms.

[@lauren4434]

"Vengeance is mine, saith the Lord." 🙏 🔥

[@sonya6991]

Amen 🙏

[@syahusha7776]

Yes! They normally with die with shame.

[@Scott-nr2ji]

@@syahusha7776 I don't know about that exactly. They seem rather shameless the way they go about life

[@zsmith7590]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@nicholecornes1915]

Oh my oh my ...

[@therealnovaj1859]

I feel like I was literally led to you. Without even realizing I had been dealing with a narcissist for 2 years. I'm healing but I wanted to say thank you.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Nova J thanks for watching 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@maryrosario2612]

I was to him also, what a blessing. I was with my husband for 22 years and didn’t realize he was a narcissist, once I realized, I was able to move on!

[@moving_forwardnow6487]

It’s amazing how easily they hide. I was with mine since 1991 and I guess I just realized two years ago.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Over 30yrs people who have committed murder got their freedom faster than us those dirty demons

[@adimeter]

My sentiments exactly. My tablet just opened in KZbin. The subject was one I did not know I needed-narcissist.

[@sharonpierce5205]

A narc will make promises of a relationship just to get supplies out of you. Just like the Horse and the Dangling Carrot. You do all the work in the relationship while they enjoy the benefits.

[@evaharris1705]

Mine even did two proposals and a fake wedding but never the real deal hahaha coward...

[@BrittneySharde15]

My eyes are opening so wide to the man I am with

[@kellywatts9517]

Amen!!!

[@whatarefriends4]

Funny how he talks about time with the narcissist like it’s doing time on a prison sentence. Which is exactly what it is

[@HonestyLove85]

It's totally like prison time. Its actually worse considering we're free and don't even know it when with the Narc. So happy to free and clear. He almost ruined my life. He literally preys on women likes it nothing.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

Exactly, even if they are neighbors. You feel like a prisoner in your own home. You never know when they will attack. It's like sleeping with one eye open and the other one closed. Being around a narcissist is similar to riding on a carousel that never stops.

[@kellywatts9517]

So true!!! I was slowly losing myself like I was in solitary confinement.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Prison is far better I'm sure

[@vernondelancy6281]

My prison time was better than bring with my x I’m not lying

[@MzTrenz]

Went back 3x times worse everytime!!! 😔

[@Starttimepodcastwithroddy]

i couldnt bring myself to propose

[@03lilkiki]

I did the back n forth thing for 8 yrs...it took me getting covid to come to the realization of that man is not for me. ...I put a end to our song n dance right before Christmas and have been using tactics from videos like this one to keep my feet planted and not let him back in, gaslight or love bomb me and its killing him 😁

[@nothingbutnet6225]

Listen to this man, I always wondered how I could get the Narcissist back,, I moved on didn’t lift a finger, he is now in federal prison for 30 years!!

[@harioovadtop2827]

Fancy Face congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉 thanks for watching

[@razasyeda6054]

Talk about dodging a bullet, literally! So happy you got to see karma happen

[@1010QUEEN7]

Dear fancy face I know I would love to see him rot in prison .he think he's above God. Dirty trash. Nobody in the world is as dirty as him. He's not human.

[@sarsbrooks4813]

...DANG WHO'D THEY KILL - !!! - ? - I HOPE NOT - MAYBE - IT'S FOR #DRUGS... - ? - ALLEGEDLY

[@meacomefeyou]

hope he gets beaten in jail

[@marthadivine8426]

Forgiveness and hope keeps you with them also . You keep thinking they will change for the better and they won't. Exit the relationship with your sanity. Better to have peace of mind.

[@sherimproctor6714]

Totally agree! I was involved for 11+ years and every morning I woke up hoping and praying for change. Needless to say, my hopes were lost and eventually I walked away. I never realized how toxic the relationship was until, I left. I can't begin to explain the peace that now floods my soul. I'm now healing and thankful to God, I got away before it was too late. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@kenyasmall6209]

@@sherimproctor6714 how did he treat you?

[@sherimproctor6714]

@@kenyasmall6209 He was extremely controlling, felt he should basically be worshipped, a know it all, everything had to always be about him or he would walk around with an attitude, a show off, felt no one could exist without him, his money nor intelligence; always had something negative to say when other individuals around him made an accomplishment, he was a habitual liar, and a master manipulator, never took responsibility for his actions; felt he was damn near perfect, would always tell me, "I must be doing something right because God felt the need to bless me with plenty money and a successful business".. What's so sad is, he raised a son with these exact characteristics. Once I began to call him out, he began to devalue me. Now that I'm away, he sends text messages about how he only wish my brain would expand to think on a higher level. Wth!!! No love, you're a very sick individual who needs help right away, go find a replacement, I'm done!

[@Ladyj_media]

I agree. That’s the mindset I had. Oh, it’s going to get better, he will change 😂 it only gotten worse. being so hopeful only kept me in trouble 👿. Until , God removed the coverings from my eyes. I guess you don’t realize, how deep your in a toxic relationship until you get out. And then when your finally out. It’s time to divorce yourself from your toxic self.

[@Lenna0320]

Exactly my thought process. But evrrytime it gets worse. He couldn't get to me so he began to attack my neighbors for God's sake 🙄

[@themarro6695]

Karma will eventually find it’s address! Let Karma handle it🙏🏾

[@em-emmyers9804]

I totally agreed with you

[@themarro6695]

@@em-emmyers9804 When Karma hits them they will be left reeling. Whilst you will be healing and looking forward to a better life! Anything is better than what we went through... if it was a Narc you encountered.

[@rayaalli4062]

That’s so hard

[@themarro6695]

@@rayaalli4062 Please think about the pain these and evil these creatures subjected us to. Karma will definitely take care of them 🙅🏽‍♀️

[@charissemcbroom2657]

I'm POSITIVE of THAT LOL

[@kathanson584]

Today you reminded me of that old expression "never wrestle with a pig, you just get dirty and the pig likes it." Best to all.

[@lovelyone2031]

They marry to appear normal to other people. It's not because they love that other person.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Yep

[@hazeleyes2381]

Had to learn that the hard way.

[@copper067]

This Brother brings the clarity and all the Golden nuggets you’ll ever need.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Bruce Parkins thanks for watching

[@1010QUEEN7]

He's doing a great job. Explaining these evil dirty demons. Brother you are casting out those rotten demons in the name of Jesus. I love the way you deliver the word thanks hugs and kisses 🤗🤗🤗🤗

[@debbiehamblin2213]

Yes he does

[@uk9383]

Exactly. I was in both shoes. Being the narcissist and being the victim and he is 200% correct

[@richardhairston997]

I'm so glad I found these videos. I saw and recognized so many of the signs even knew something was wrong with them. No normal person acts and thinks that way. Now I know what it is. I have so much insightful things to say

[@sherrilkinney8482]

They want to look normal. exactly.

[@MsAninha91]

I was in a 2 year relationship where every time I wanted to talk about my feelings or even call him out for being rude or saying hurtful things I’d get called crazy and told i just overthink things and should get over it.. I started to believe I was actually crazy.. started apologising for things I knew deep down it wasn’t my fault.. and all that because I thought I couldn’t find anyone else because of my insecurities. I gave him so many chances I feel so stupid for giving it to someone who didn’t deserve my love from day one.. I’m so damaged mentally and these videos are really helping me understand how narcissists are. Thank you for these videos ❤️

[@user-yr1lk5pk7l]

I feel ya

[@suzie3716]

Same thing was done to me xxx

[@reelfly]

Experienced the same. I felt I was literally crazy. Ended up on anti depressants because I didn't understand what was happening to me at the time. I so wish these videos existed back then.

[@jessicajohnson9899]

Same thing done to me too, you're not crazy they are!

[@jdashlovela]

girl, me too. i was with a dominican guy for 2 years and he did the same thing to me. I hope his name wasn't David. 🤣

[@irmasalagala9481]

Soo true let karma get them ...just walk away and started achieving your goals focus on yourself and happiness.....and block them and anyone else they send to you amen amen 😊😊

[@joeynelson1311]

I hear all this a lot about letting karma handle it but I swear, it moves wayyyy to slow. But I’m gonna take heed and just chill and get myself back together.

[@natashabrown6147]

U Right about THAT!!! True FACTZ

[@triciasimone7]

Way too SLOW🤦🏿

[@joeynelson1311]

@@triciasimone7 just means it gonna be heavier than we thought I feel ....patience is a virtue ig. I trust God and his timing tho.

[@triciasimone7]

@@joeynelson1311 all we can do.

[@tamekawalker2222]

Wayyyy to slow trust me as a vergo I need to get back to that norc fast to slow that bitch down

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

My mom is dead 💀 and gone been gone for 12 years now, but she told no going to change it’s going to get worse. She’s was so right !

[@t_mm6271]

😫😫

[@juliabishop612]

It’s been months I still wake up in tears, I gave him everything and when I had no more to give , especially financially , he moved in with his ex . I don’t know how to forgive myself or trust anyone now. Your videos help me heal a little more everyday . Thank you for your work. God bless you 💕

[@KrissyBeeTv]

The self betrayal is where it hits hard. Im here thinking i need to write a book. Its hard because we see red flags and ignore them. We forgive and forgive out of love for the NARC and in the end you are stabbed in the back. Leaves us feeling we stabbed our own selves.

[@melissaw.2965]

Same thing happened to me

[@jasminestrange2266]

Wow! I'm going through this now... Tears daily... On my couch last week and in Hawaii now...oh.... not with me💔

[@empress9857]

He be back or contacting you soon as they get into it things go go as planned or they can’t benefit them and they gonna lie to you saying they did this and that xyz STAND FIRM DONT FALL back into the trap

[@hassantalib3426]

@@KrissyBeeTv 1,000,000.00 PERCENT WITH YOU ON THAT....I FELL FOR THIS NO EDGES ASS LIAR WHO PLAYED AND USED THE SHIT OUT OF ME....SHE CHEATED....AND SIMPLY DIDNT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT AT ALL ....ONLY TO GO BACK TO THIS LYING ASS CLOWN WHO SAID HES NOT OBLIGATED TO HER KIDS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THEIR OWN DAD....YET I TOOK THEM ON....4 ...GIRLS FROM DAY 1....SHES THE TYPE OF BITCH THAT IF I HAD HIV/AIDS.....I FUCKING GIVE IT TO HER ASS....WITHOUT MERCY ....MY HATE RUNS DEEP FOR THIS HOE AND ONLY THING ID LIKE TO SEE IS AN OBITUARY WITH HER 1 WAY TICKET TO FUCKING HELL....AND I MEAN THAT!

[@nicolettesignori9028]

“Let karma get in that ASS” amen!! I knew it would come. Nothing has been more rewarding to see. I know it’s only the beginning too 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@pogogogo9002]

I was with mine 30yrs. You stay because you are so financially enmeshed, you are so emotionally drained leaving takes more energy than you have, you are isolated from support and they are masters at future faking.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Odin roars thanks for watching

[@shazawan3226]

True 27 years and still counting ,same situation.

[@n.b.0212]

Yup, and then to get out it has to be well thought out and carefully planned.

[@lzcrazyzl6443]

Future faking, living in a fantasy world. Ritual liers.

[@Pulchra55]

Absolute truth!...

[@enlightenedone7083]

All very true!💯🎯 I didn’t like who I had to become in order to be with him. The other piece is that unbeknownst to you, they start smearing you EARLY on, to their friends & family, and your friends & family. And many people sadly believe them.

[@dremoore2277]

Sooooo true

[@harioovadtop2827]

Enlightened One thanks for watching

[@yvettetaylor1323]

You are absolutely correct! Those people are the flying monkeys. They may not even know you, but believe and repeat the lies told about you. Best to ignore them, although one got slick with the mouth to my face and needed to be checked. Bottom line is that those of us that move on with success and glowing is what they hate most.

[@yolandavenable2900]

Same here. I didn't like who I had become. I've never been into yelling and screaming. A couple of times he took me there and when I'd start screaming back, his tone changed to a calm one as if to say, yeah I got her. I knew then that he was "special"...couldn't do it. He was controlling.

[@irenebuford8930]

Hario, I like how you said that one lady did 42 years with a narcissist because you said it like it is a prison sentence.... lol... I also like how you compared the old supply like old tennis shoes... Thanks for adding to my knowledge and making me laugh... Narcissist think they are special so they can't have the empath do to them what they do to us.. Thanks for the good advice of not getting in the dirty game that the narcissist is in.... When I went no contact with my ex narcissist, I became more cleaner, I practice ABSTINENCE while my ex narcissist hoes around, but I know God don't like his ugliness... You are absolutely correct everytime I took my narcissist back, it became more soul deadly.... I hope everyone listens to you intelligent man... 'Greatest Video Ever'...

[@harioovadtop2827]

Irene Buford thanks for watching 🙏🏿

[@suecleveland3226]

I just got out after 46 1/2 years😞

[@sunnyclouds1372]

No matter what you give them/ do for them they are never truly happy.. until after it all they have multiple relationships and finally hit bottom they may go around telling people they love you haha like where was the love while I was doing everything to make you happy and you were still cheating, lying and running around with shady lol nope iam good thanks

[@prestonpeters12]

Man I’ve allowed my narcissists to come back into my life it was 509 times worse!!! My ex is the Seed of Satan!!! I am still dealing with heartbreak but I know for a fact me walking away was the best thing in the world for me to do. Your video is on point and thanks

[@WinnieClark1]

I understand “supply” at a deeper level. Thank you..

[@harioovadtop2827]

All You Need Credit thanks for watching

[@claudiaborjas6346]

I have a girlfriend who divorced a physically abusive narc. She never moved on. He hovered her back in 11 yrs later. It was an on and off relationship of 5 yrs, then they broke up. 1 1/2 yrs later he's trying to hoover her back in again. She said she's done with him. Hopefully she is, that's not a way to ur life. I have my own narc story as well. I was with a covert narc for 22 yrs. Left 9 yrs ago. Life is so wonderful now. I met a great man I've been seeing for 1 yr now. It's very important to heal oneself after an encounter with these monsters.

[@kellywatts9517]

He came back after 11 years? 😳😱😳😱 Oh lawd!!! Hell nah!!!

[@pomyoung7328]

My husband uses the Bible to try to justify having a second wife. Now I understand why and everything I have felt and said now makes sense. Time to plan my escape

[@radaka]

Mine would use the bible for his own agendas also. HE is NOT the way to heaven. But straight to hell!!

[@ulovemex33]

When you said the story about the woman losing her temper and cursing him out and she felt like she was the narc. That is what scares me the most! That you feel like you’re the CRAZY one. The level of anger and rage they pull out of you. Never have I spoken to any man in my life like I did to him. And he remained calm, ignored me as if I wasn’t even speaking. This is what I came to learn as the “silent treatment” to further enrage you. You’re right, they do know they are wrong. But they’ll gaslight you into believing you’re overthinking and overreacting, blowing things way out of proportion. This was the last straw for me after enduring emotional and mental abuse for 3 years. New Year’s Eve was his final strike. They get an ego boost from this. They get something out of this.

[@codependentconfessions6201]

Baby... U are heaven sent...they deliver hit hard every time... I been studying narcissistic ppl for 5 + years... your delivery is impeccable...

[@blessedsenior1429]

I gave 1 year to the Ex Narc, my first in my entire adult life. He turned out to be the biggest lier, manipulator, Exploitive individual I've ever met. Now he's looking at me like I betrayed him..what a joke !

[@kikib7310]

OMG 😲 lightbulb moment! I always wondered why he wanted to marry me soooo BAD almost bullying me into doing it to the point he forced me to go to the courthouse to get the marriage license! Fortunately there wasn't a justice of the peace there that day! Now I know it was just a way of hooking his "Prey" His "Meal Ticket" (ME)! Lord have mercy Thank God for Discernment! Sir you are speaking "Truth" God Bless You!

[@andreahudson8169]

You're the smartest person in the narcissists field. I lived it 35 years your the only one who truly knows what's up. Love ya andrea

[@ninadrake2167]

My Husband has “Love Bombed” all my friends, but they have know idea that’s just his representative. Tell his ashtray “no”, they will see the 👿. So looking forward to my “peace!” Marriage to a narcissist is all about “possession” and “consistent” Narc supply. So over this BS.

[@mzbossupcompton2198]

I left in May n blocked him but he calls from apps Just to say I want a divorce I told him go file I’ll sign but then he wants to see me are talk normal I’m so tired of him

[@evaharris1705]

My ex did that with my mother and two best friends. They are still easily swayed by him and I let both friends go, dealing with my mother in a different way.

[@stephaniewaggoner6153]

It hurts but Im getting so much stronger... Inch by inch🦋

[@saralibby9846]

I have read and listened to so many things about narcissism. I thought I couldn’t learn any more - but I have over and over again. It’s absolutely confounding. Such alien behavior - living to hurt and torment others. Really , like demons. Love, peace, respect, trust, honor - they never deliver it. Just living in the shadows and slithering around. Every narcissist should be wrapped in a red flag with a darting forked tongue. Others would immediately realize what they are dealing with and RUN!

[@tinacrofton1369]

They turn your happiness into sadness everyday. They say, "sorry" next morning. Three years of that BS and, "all you said". No contact since New Year's Eve 2022. Loving life.💃 Thank you Hario.♥️

[@Revelation18-4]

He would always push my buttons and then when I would lose my temper after being pushed beyond my limits, he would then make me out to be the crazy one! When I Iearned about NPD, I learned how to walk away and ignore him. Boy did he get mad and then he threw a tantrum by giving me the silent treatment. What a jerk! No longer with him. I discarded him like rotten tomatoes. 🍅🍅🍅 20 years of my life wasted on that liar! I now look at it as life lessons never to be repeated again!

[@deena3003]

Leaving a narc is worse than pulling teeth...its the hardest thing to do in life. The narc will refuse to end relationship when clearly the relationship been over and you've told the narc the relationship or marriage is over. The narc never gives up. All I have to say stand your ground and get away from that person 💯

[@cybco]

What a breath of fresh material. Why do they get married - BOOM - to look normal to access more supply!!!!!!! WOW!!!!! Spot on!!!!!!

[@sumerian213]

ABSOLUTELY on point about karma. She will rear her sweet justice soon enough. I don seent it. I am so glad that she didn't take forever with it. As much as I wanted to strike back and tell people the truth...I didn't. I bit my tongue and I wait. Low and behold he fell, hard. And all were to witness.

[@mikepaul2372]

SIMPLE - NEVER TAKE EX back and never accept the "Hoover" from EX NARC!! Get on your purpose, have an abundance mindset and improve yourself.

[@starr6850]

yessss n jesus name

[@ak-47intelligence75]

And go no contact, stay no contact. Forever.

[@victoriaholden7774]

Yes exactly!

[@mariaalexander7037]

Great advice Hario! Let KARMA take the ass. I can give you so many stories of family members who suffered . Rotting of his face, another one suicide suspected, and so many others who suffered to death. So brothers and sisters, do not take things into your own hands. Leave them to the CREATOR!

[@itsallaboutnothing2672]

Recently escaped from the narc "family" I wish they never find me. Your vids are great, very informative. Thank you.

[@lzcrazyzl6443]

It sucks when the whole family is narc sick. Wild barely living through and looking back on it.

[@SaintEuphemia817]

Yeah !

[@DaughterofaKing1]

Congratulations on your escape! Don’t go back

[@debrasmith7522]

No contact works.

[@natashabrown6147]

I agree to a certain extent because even when u go No contact they play on your phone with burna numbers!!

[@pinkcityproductions7705]

We can have a narcissist discussion for day if a person dont understand what no contact is about I say welcome to your personal hell on earth

[@pinkcityproductions7705]

Some people do not get away from satan on earth or set free from them unless its death

[@reenreen8517]

Often in arguments we had, he would always express he was “higher” than me. I would laugh inwardly coz We both knew in all actuality, if we were to measure who was doing “better”.. I would win that category 🤦🏾‍♀️ I own my own house, car, 3 uni degrees, great career and looks... all he bought to the table was a plate full of empty love bombing quotes and a bag of clothes. So how sway are u better than me?

[@jkkennedy8919]

Dam I feel your pain same shut happened to me

[@eddieedentertainment131]

why are you with such a looser?

[@angelaware8820]

These videos are saving my life, my soul 🙏🏾My God you are on point❤️I thought i was loosing my mind dealing with my Narcissistic Husband, he manipulative,he constantly cheats, he had a baby on me, he gaslights, he devalues me,I’m always in a state of confusion and whenever I’m happy he always find a way to make me angry. I’ve been with him 21years we have 2 children together 20 year old son, and 14, year old daughter. he’s 47 and has a one year old.Whenever we have a disagreement or argument I always leave it feeling confused,unresolved and it’s my fault. He never takes responsibility for his actions. Being with him is like being on a Rollercoaster 🎢 that never shuts off!!😫I’m educating myself, I’m doing my inner work and Im getting stronger everyday. I so badly want out of this dysfunctional relationship it so sickening and Toxic😭I’m going to continue building myself back up until I can get rid of this unhealthy foolishness once and for all. I will win in the end for God is my wittiness🙏🏾Thank you Hario again for your great work and knowledge to this horrible illness, This information helps tremendously🌟May God continue to bless you and give you the ability to help others🙏🏾I wish you all the best🙏🏾From Las Vegas Nevada🙏🏾😀

[@chrissy3684]

Praying for you

[@kandycortez2982]

I wish I could speak with you been in this for thirty something years

[@yassyjazzy1394]

Still praying for u babygirl

[@queen.alicia22]

Praying you got out of that relationship 🙏🏾

[@debrasmith7522]

They make all the women they have feel like they are the only ones the narc. Gets tired of them as well, the money, shopping, cars stop.,trips etc. One thing I can say is I never took anything from the man. The other women have to pay for all the gifts in some type of way.

[@missybella9046]

The worst are the ones that are great with everyone...strangers, family members, your family, etc but narcissistic only with YOU. Makes you believe their insults and mistreatment is your fault. I was left thinking i was the crazy one. That everything was my fault

[@WomanOfFaith111]

That part when spoke on the family asking how did y’all meet. You spoke nothing but the truth because I was definitely asked how did you get with him. 🚩 When I say all the 🚩🚩🚩 were there… I was just young and not alert but I know now and don’t regret the experience because it’s made me the strong woman I am today. Now I’m well aware to help others who need to be saved from those type of people.

[@robdieseldiesel8960]

The crazy part is you loved them so much that the thought of you moving on with someone who loves you. You still feel bad in your subconscious mind about them or their family seeing you with someone else we really painfully want to see that they have someone else first. Smh just sad how much we care

[@KeshKonnected]

This is true but I honestly don't want to see him with anyone else. I just want to find someone real who loves and appreciates me!

[@natashabrown6147]

Me I just cant care if he do more power for him them because they will find out how these ones operate!

[@Lenna0320]

I wish I could turn my feelings off. I hate I had to experience this type of personality. I feel so stupid

[@sallyg4544]

Are you sure you were with a narc? I pray the narcissist I left can heal from the damage and hurt that was caused to him as a child and I hope he can find peace but I would never wish what he does to those that try to love him on my worst enemy. They are not psychologically or emotionally balanced enough to be in a healthy relationship. All you should hope for them is that they find peace in side of themselves and that they stop damaging those that try to love them.

[@robdieseldiesel8960]

@@sallyg4544 you are exactly rite! Yes she is the complete definition of covert narcissist every trait besides cheating that i know of... again this true I pray God gives her peace and healing internally because it must hurt so bad to be so lost.

[@erikaalisauskaite7697]

I will not take him back, it would be same as handle rattle snake with bare hands. I was slaving narc as depressed, code pendent & trauma bonded. I don't need narc. I need healing. 🤓🇬🇧

[@bernitacenteno1326]

GOOD FOR YOU. THINK PLAN AND WHEN AND IF HE TRULY IS EVIL, THEN GO AND DON'T LOOK BACK ETC.

[@leahspears6919]

Your energy is amazing 👏🏽

[@IluvBeauty84]

Great video!! I’ve experienced all this with the ex Narc!! He’s on his 2nd supply who he’s known for 3 months and wants to marry her smh. And the Hoover!!!! He’s doing it as we speak!! Little conversation here and there. Low contact because we have a 3 year old 😞

[@harioovadtop2827]

TheBeautyWithin that’s what they do, always running and jumping to the next person and still hovering you and other exes

[@IluvBeauty84]

Mark Giacco his flying monkey mother and he floats when we exchange our daughter.

[@ajlocs2361]

Same here i spent 20 yrs married to a Narc. I have a 13yr old son and a 17yr old. Daughter. He keeps trying to start conversation about nothing he has a new supply that he is about to marry. He is toxic as hell i block his Ass cause my children are old enough to communicate. Im Done i am divorced from him and i left 5 yrs ago. Im so happy now.

[@zaratarot2900]

We have a 3 yr old and it’s no contact. Until a court agreement is made and even then I probably won’t comply and switch locations. He has to be the one to go file bc I have no energy my child doesn’t need a narc for a father will be what I say to any judge. No contact to the grave

[@stillhealing8811]

I'm almost in tears as I listen to you spit this truth. While I listen to a lot of different channels about this subject and am grateful for the knowledge and love I have gotten from each of them. I have to say that the way you deliver your message resonates with my soul. I literally could listen to you forever and a day and never grow tired of hearing you. I thank you, I appreciate you and I wish you continued success in spreading the news about how to overcome and thrive in the aftermath of a narc. Love, peace and light to you my brother from another mother ❤

[@tazaman2009]

A Narcissist never reciprocates love, kindness or favors. Only in the love bombing phase which is then only an act !

[@sharonscott3662]

You learn to not believe them .

[@sharonscott3662]

See when that fool come around I get in his shit .he be wanting to get get at me but when he try to start some thing I come with some thing he gonna say thats not what we talking about I say I'm talking about that he gets mad .so when he keeps I let him know I m trying to hear I start humming are look at him Rolling my eyes any thing to irritate him.

[@sharonscott3662]

When he say that i m messed to him I tell him good! I tell him I can't get nothing in he beats me to the draw .damn let me get one in .how a funked up person gone act sensitive I tell him ain't nothing wrong with you like he hurt .whuss cry me a river. I call him all kinds of things and laugh about it when me tell me I did something wrong I say Good!

[@sharonscott3662]

I told that fool if the doctor told me he needed my spit to live I tell him let him go I'll spit on him when he gone .LOL !! Iget a kick out hisideing he better going then coming .one of friend girls heard me tell him that she laughs she say it all the time she what you tell him I say if I never see him again it will be to soon she laughs til she cries.. Then I'll say new York get a rope cause hes from new York we live in newmexico. Creep, flie, vulture..

[@sharonscott3662]

I told him the vultures be circling low in the sky over him every time he walk outside that's how far they take you ready to feast on one of their own .

[@DS-br1wn]

I feel played like a scratched record. 😪

[@cazhickling8151]

Hi it's true what you say about the energy , when I forced my narc to tell me the truth about his infidelity he always seemed ,angry, sulky and the energy was cold,. But when he was lying now he always seemed to have that sly grin on his face of control🙏

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

😂 "KING-KONG-AIN'T-GOT-NOTHIN-ON-ME !!!!!!"🤣🤣🤣

[@cybco]

Let Karma handle it!!!!!! Amen!!!! Yep.

[@aprildanielle2693]

Yessss!💯🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@queenbaee8514]

Not all narcissist parents/ family members know that their a narc, especially the covert type lol they play the image game with them too 😂😂😂they seem so perfect to the family but a whole different person with outside ppl & most time the parents/ family are narcs too 🤦🏽‍♀️as a empath it irritates me that these people come close to me, got me watching my back 😕

[@kellywatts9517]

I totally understand. I kept wondering why is he so revered by friends and family? Calling all the time, facetiming like he is the "SUPERSTAR" of the bunch! It made me feel like I was crazy! Am I the only one that sees this?

[@jamekac.stuckey3228]

“Let karma get in that ass for you!” The realest piece of advice I’ve heard on how to heal from this horrible and traumatic experience.

[@shareenmasher4833]

No monogamy .. old tennis shoes

[@shareenmasher4833]

@Jesse Skinner hi Jesse .. not meant in a bad way .. i was said in the video i only listened to it recently ..apologies if i offender you

[@shareenmasher4833]

@Jesse Skinner 😁 we probably live oceans apart

[@shareenmasher4833]

@Jesse Skinner 😀 not sure if we have that service in South Africa .. but i will check it out .. 10pm here tho 🤔

[@ChristiansPrayingTogether]

This entire vid is PURE GOLD !! At 19:58 it's 24 karat gold !! I love all the other Narc counselors you mentioned , but what stands out about you is you feel WITH us rather than ABOVE us - you feel like a real good friend speaking care from the heart ❤️ Everything you said here I experienced, including cut up clothes , stolen mail , and his shocked family over me . Thank you 😊 You are awesome 🥇🏆

[@christianpulisic7784]

Sweetheart 11,You are absolutely gorgeous 🌹🌹🥀,you don't need a narc 😈 in your life!!

[@saralibby9846]

Karma has a To Do list and doesn’t forget a one. Address book is updated and every shitty thing you’ve done is universally recorded. Narcs, good luck evading the ubiquitous K.

[@suzie3716]

The truth

[@KennethBostonian]

I was one year and thrown in the gutter by her 3 days before my birthday. It’s just sick!!

[@pizzatime9553]

I found out she wasn't who she said she was a day after my birthday. Its been two months and I'm so looking forward to healing.

[@LinTay0]

Karma needs to get his azzz soon.

[@samanthadalton3842]

Thank you for your message , I'm so happy I woke up from that the deceiving manipulating tormentor, that horrible energy vampire , my peace is bliss . Thank God I cut that vicious cycle.

[@christianpulisic7784]

Samantha Dalton,Your lovely smile 😊 can make the news!!

[@samanthadalton3842]

@@christianpulisic7784 Thank you 😊

[@christianpulisic7784]

@@samanthadalton3842 You are welcome dearest 🌹🌷🌹.I am Christian from the States.You?

[@kimberlyobley5168]

PRICELESS 💖 truly PRICELESS 💖! Another MASTERPIECE..a gem for my Crown of Success! ASHE'!

[@harioovadtop2827]

Kimberly Obley thanks for watching

[@justkimberlyk3419]

Have ever been narc so long you hide you're self from family and friends and co workers and everyday people on street after the relationship is almost like you just shell because you so scared to open up in fear of being violated again I use to just think I was depressed

[@KrissyBeeTv]

Its been almost 5 months and i feel the same way

[@louc3135]

Yup. @justkimberlyk

[@letitialeid3909]

My God you're so right everything everything you just said in this video is on point

[@harioovadtop2827]

Letitia Leid thanks for watching

[@1010QUEEN7]

I wouldn't take him back to save my life I would rather die

[@kendraamara6824]

Same here, isn't that sad? But if I had to choose out of the two, I'd rather go back to the Universe. I felt dead with him anyway........

[@1010QUEEN7]

@@kendraamara6824 they make you hate them

[@koffeebeans6124]

Lol

[@sheshe919]

'TRUE FACTS OF LIFE OF A NARCISSIST ' HE'S SO ENTERTAINING WITH THE TRUTH...... IT'S LIKE WATCHING A MOVIE SERIES,🥂💕💕

[@precioussamson2264]

I truly love who I am now than before I appreciated God Almighty how everything ended up in my past relationship, I see all of this as great lessons and blessings that took me to throne and beautiful path of my life I love who I truly be and I am happy and will always be thank you Lord Jesus for serving my life and my soul I appreciates you Lord now and forevermore Amen.

[@sunita233]

Thank you...thank you..thank you 🙌🙌🙌✌✌🙏🙏🙏🕉✡🕉✡🕉💝God Bless You

[@edgardelgado7213]

What you described about the jezabel is my ex wife to the t ! Thank you brother and God bless you.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Edgar Delgado thanks for watching

[@savvydavvy3463]

Yup..like old tennis shoes..as if you did not just introduce them to your entire family, birthed twins + nurse them through the flu..all after moving cross-country with them.

[@harioovadtop2827]

Mocha Vibez 360 thanks for watching

[@wselenag45]

So ungrateful

[@winifredrange1950]

Sad to say, but none of those things ever mattered to the Narc!!! I will say don’t dwell on what you did, but what you’re going to do now. YOU ARE FREE!!!

[@mattiebrooks7596]

OMG!!! This is so on point everything you are saying. He had me looking crazy the lying and I was like what the hell!!! then trying to defend myself I ended up looking crazy. And he would even say you are crazy there is something wrong with you all with a straight face. 🤬you can not react because once you do they got you where they where trying to take you. Side : Note Queenie Love is my Sister. 😊 I stumbled upon your channel and I was telling her about it and she said she knows you.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

W1hy Oh why do they keep pushing us to become or make us think we are crazy, insane. They truly do not love, are insane but project it onto us, so we will be confused or we will just deny it. It is a Narcs tactic to give them Sadistic pleasure, to destroy all that's good in you, and that's evil, delusional behavior. Go no contact.

[@lindaterrace9024]

You are so right each time it’s worse they are damaged beyond anything anyone could imagine

[@christinapruitt2919]

You were fabulous. I really enjoyed this. My first time here and subscribed andliked😀

[@harioovadtop2827]

christina pruitt thanks for watching, I appreciate the kind words

[@gilmourishgilmourish6205]

You speak truth!!! You are well informed. They will punish you and haunt you down! No contact!!

[@FlameZ606]

I saw a video that said that being with a narc is like buying a used car. At first it looks great. The image appears great. And then boom, you find out that there's something unfixable about it and the cost isn't worth it. Ironically after I heard that the same thing happened to a narc in my life. They bought a used car while they were devaluing me and were bragging about it and turns out, same thing happened, they got ripped off badly and scammed out of thousands of dollars. That's an example of karma and more examples to come hopefully for this person. Thank you for your videos.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

I saw the same video. The analogy was that the pretty young thing/girl is like a shinny new automobile and when it/she starts to get some wear and tear on it/her or it/she tends to breakdown mere and more, then the owner/Narcissist trades it/her in for a shinny new model or used one. It's new TO him. It could be a gender switch, in more ways than just, she trading him in. That's kind of what Dr. Ramani Duvasula said in one of her many videos.

[@FlameZ606]

Bernita Centeno I believe you are referring to a different video. I got that analogy from a channel called Narc Survivor but none the less I totally agree

[@hasinahmasud3808]

Thank you for speaking the truth. A lot of people who are making bad choices need to really listen. This advice will save you a lot of emotional Hell.

[@Bigdaddymac73]

The family knew what I was getting they probably was hoping I could be the one to tame the monster... well 7 years later there Dreams was shattered lol

[@radaka]

😂🤣 7 years here also and another untamed monster

[@judybmwx5]

He is so right. Let KARMA wrestle with the narcissist. The minute you try to proving them wrong they draw attention by saying that your crazy.

[@charbar967]

There is so much in-depth information on narcissistic personality/traits nowadays, their (narcs) game will soon come to an end. Almost everybody is becoming enlightened! Thank you to all these narc channels.

[@myblessings1000]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🎯👍🏾…. I feel the same😇

[@queeneggleston9392]

You are one of my favorites now. May God continue to order your steps as you are raising awareness of these toxic demons. Thank you and keep spreading the word!

[@jakupwhite1516]

My exes mother told me to leave her...LET THAT SINK IN FOR A SECOND!

[@jahleelx9270]

She must've been hell on wheels

[@valarieprimous3010]

Narcs are just plain selfish! It's all about them! Love your videos!!!

[@MsDianneMaryWilkerson]

yes God used me to put the narc in their place by using bible verses to show this person they cannot compete with God. They only try to compete with God wanting others to worship them and trying to cause many to stumble. This person was shocked that nothing they could do or say affected me since I know these people are demons and the Word of God gives them so much pain they cannot respond. This person has changed and does not mess with anyone because they know they are being watched by God and they will reap what they sow. The bible works just like when Jesus told the devil it is written this makes their demons flee. The only way to get through this pain is to forgive these people because they were not in their right mind they were used by the devil. If you want revenge then you will be feeding on negativity and this will cause the demons to ruin your life. Only live in forgiveness and love do not allow these people to ruin your mindset and cause the demons to feed on your negativity then you will only live a miserable life. The only reason why these people find new supply is because the new supply have negative mindsets they do not live in a positive lifestyle.

[@lzcrazyzl6443]

This is such truth, thankyou. God bless you.

[@MsDianneMaryWilkerson]

@@lzcrazyzl6443 Amen all glory be to God

[@reneehoward1169]

#facts 👊🏽

[@nicholerombo9132]

They have you at a point where you are so confused and so angry. There was no peace. It was so crazy!!. You speak the truth.

[@nisa1388]

Sadly I was raised by a pathological narcissist. Moms totally ruined my life. I’m 50 and finally broke free and now been diagnosed with PTSD the abuse was so severe. And I unknowingly married a pathological narcissist prior to being diagnosed. But now I know.Not wasting anymore times having life sucked out of me. Put him out and filing for divorce! I deserve love ❤️ and respect. Don’t give up.

[@zsmith7590]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@lionatticus9743]

I’ve been pushed too many times. I don’t let anyone get a reaction from me. Responses all day long. I hold my peace, ain’t nobody taking that from me.

[@Missdaisy247]

Another brilliant video. Thank you 🙌

[@harioovadtop2827]

Thank you for listening

[@AR-rm6wl]

I'm a new subscriber and you hit the nail right on the head. My husband family 1st reaction. Oh where did you guys meet, you're a nice, intelligent, classy girl . One brother apologized to me after the marriage stating he wish he told me earlier about his brother past but he didn't know we will last this long and thought he changed since he's in his late 40's.... because that narcissist didn't appear and I didn't say anything earlier but honestly I thought I was going crazy, having panic attacks dealing with his ghosting after the marriage.. Hario you're on point. You can't buy Character or Integrity. Im glad to be a part of a large community supporting and enlightening the newbies. Thank you

[@harioovadtop2827]

A R I totally get it! These people change, but only for the worse!

[@kikib7310]

I knew the 1st day I met his family something was off! The mother says you are going to be my daughter in law she didn't even know me! They were just trying to get him off their hands! I wish I had listened to my gut & ran! Unfortunately I stayed 10 yrs didn't know about narcissism or the devil! But thank God I never married him nor procreated w/him! I accept partial responsibility I let this devil waste my years/time! Now I see why the Bible says Hope deferred makes the ❤ sick & to Guard your ❤ Narcissists are time wasters & Bullshitters

[@AR-rm6wl]

@@kikib7310 I agree and your stronger 💪 than you thought. You had the courage to removed yourself from the situation. Im proud of you

[@AR-rm6wl]

@@harioovadtop2827 Yes, and they drag the great women along into their web. I like to request a coaching session. Thank you in advance for your consideration.

[@bernitacenteno1326]

@@kikib7310 You don't need to take on guilt unless you got down in the mud with the swine.

[@srogers727]

I HAVE had his family ask those very exact questions, or later say to me "he needs to see he has a good woman" or some said he's always been that way. Like wished I was warned

[@judithmcdaniel7343]

After 3 years no contact. Sleeping🛌😴 Living🛀💃and Loving💕🤗Again. Thank u God, Hario, and You Tube Narc Coaches🙏. I continue listening bcuz it's very therapeutical.

[@TheTeganOsmondChannel]

Great video! Thank you so much sir! You are helping me a lot

[@harioovadtop2827]

Alia Smith thanks for watching

[@MentalAbility28]

Wow...that was my prayer this month..."God, please give me clarity." Thank you and God bless you .