The best revenge on your ex

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[@filsed]

I no longer wish any revenge on my narc-ex gf. I just don't want her (or any other toxic person) in my life.

[@jbsanchez2649]

That was the lesson for us survivors.

[@theflokis2786]

My life has been better since my ex left me, yes I was close to suicide unfortunately because I gave her all, sold my car to buy her a car, almost everything in her apartment belongs to me, I helped her a lot. When she left me, I had only $40 left in my account. Am grateful am happy now and moving on with my life, a lot of things has happened since she left.

[@tauruswinds37]

Replicantfish ....

[@jbsanchez2649]

The Best Revenge is to live your life to the fullest.

[@brendaleverick3655]

My advice to anyone considering marriage to someone is this. If you see flaws in their character, such as anger issues, lack of morality, unfaithfulness, greed, laziness, being inconsiderate. . . take a step or three back and wait. Wait and watch them carefully. I saw a red flag or two in my ex-husband that I chose to ignore, to my hurt. The marriage never should have happened.

[@peacefulliving6432]

Move forward and never look back. ✌️

[@lunaticonthegrass4258]

Exactly!Revenge and hate just lower a persons frequensy .

[@Johnny-pp7dx]

Don’t live in spite of someone, live because you are smarter and look forward to tomorrow. Very smart advise, anger consumes a lot of your energy and a complete waste of your time. This is a big part of their M.O. . This is why they future fake you, lead you to believe all is good in the relationship. The next move is destroying that by whatever methods hurt the most. It might take a bit of time to get back on your feet and get moving, it’s a complete unexpected shock that there are people like this out there. Easier said than done sometimes , leave their miserable world behind and live well, above all don’t look back.

[@irocwellOO3]

Make no mistake, it’s not revenge he’s after......It’s a RECKONING. ~ Doc Holliday

[@ednerperez7821]

Yup,meet someone new...

[@queenanna1077]

Move on and be successful. Live your best life! 😄

[@cymali]

I’m crying listening to this, happy tears .. am able to feel my worth .. going out to get vitamins and healthy food so I can start to take care of myself.. live happily and start to love myself , although I do pray they see my worth and then I’m not reachable, it is deeply painful but it’ll only make me stronger ..

[@terryjoeljunior]

❤️

[@angelinbrooke2324]

Well if he didn't look at people as objects to control then maybe he could have been apart of my life

[@mattwalker3400]

Romans 12:19 KJV Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.

[@peacefulliving6432]

Joel, can you discuss the importance of forgiving yourself after Narcissist abuse. I feel that is a big part of moving on. Looking into the mirror and telling yourself sorry for letting someone treat you so badly. Forgiveness is so important to me.

[@terryjoeljunior]

Got you!

[@peacefulliving6432]

@@terryjoeljunior Thanks! 😄

[@peacefulliving6432]

To the one who asked me about forgiveness. I feel that forgiveness comes in stages. Like when you go through the grieving process when you lose someone you love. You might feel shock, pain, anger, depression, then things might start to look better and you start working on your self and truly accepting what happened to you. The truth of what took place in your life. Once you come to true acceptance, you start to develop a new perspective on the matter. You can turn what happened to you into a positive thought. Thinking about what you learned. For example... I learned what a Narcissist looks like now. I will never allow another Narcissist in my life. I will protect myself, I will listen to my self. Things like this. In your heart you can understand that it was not your fault. You had no idea about Narcissism. Most people don't. It's okay. That makes it easier to forgive yourself. Knowing you didn't know. Than you can start working on your happiness. You can start doing wonderful things that you enjoy doing. You actually start cleaning off the mud that the narc threw at you, that covered your beautiful light. Little by little your light starts shinning bright and beautiful again. You start to see the real you. That helps you to let go of that pain and disappointment that lives in you. You realize you still have a lot of life in you and it's time to start living. Not for them, but for you. It's your turn. 🦋🦋🦋🦋

[@jamesgarzillo7669]

Forgiveness of self is paramount in healing

[@lunaticonthegrass4258]

@@jamesgarzillo7669 .. and to forgive you must start with yourself. You cant forgive others if not..

[@spking492]

Ty I never needed those words more then this moment right now I’m in pain

[@VictorRook]

Gotta share this with you bro and your followers. Songs that get you through. Heart of Stone by Taylor Dayne. Line that gets me all the time is "You don't have to hurt me with the hurt you won't reveal."

[@petethompson3510]

Mine said she only wanted the best for me, after cheating on me etc. But I think she wanted to destroy me. It's a hard thing to not want revenge though, really hard

[@petethompson3510]

@Gigi Ye, I never thought of it like that. The hoover came a few months later after I was getting over it and was seen out on a date. There is no changing or helping them to change, just gotta stay away from these demons

[@petethompson3510]

@Gigi You're right. It was made infinitely harder for me cause we have 2 kids. But me and her are done. Without the mask was not a pretty sight at all

[@petethompson3510]

@Gigi Cheers

[@terryjoeljunior]

That was a damn lie! They are filthy animals

[@goncalobaluga905]

Mine during the discard (last one) said “you’ll never have someone better than me..” I looked at her and start to laugh 😂 before she left said “how’s going to be when we have a child”.. bro nothing could actually make sense like wtf 2y living together, almost 3y without realising I was sleeping with my enemy .. next day she texted me saying that she only wanted me to be happy with my next gf and that she wants a last conversation with me... didn’t reply, just took all my stuff from that house.. start to do all sports I’ve stoped cause of her, going out with everyone and lots of fun... she can’t even look at me, she’s not saying hi to anyone of my friends or family.. she just put her face down.. shame to the core.. that was my revenge, doing nothing, didn’t care and living a happy life

[@fionahawkes1758]

Yep this is true, his new 'but old' supply is checking my fbook profile daily!... it's been 7weeks since I dumped him, I haven't been in any contact with him yet she seems to be real interested in me for some reason... these people are crazy... living your life by doing the things that make u happy & living life like they dont exist is the best thing ever... Good vid terryjoeljunior 👍

[@forblianonym9642]

Just wondering, how do you know shes checking your fb profile. I thought there is no way to tell.

[@Real2k25]

That a fact jus be happy I used to be miserable how exess did me bad but no need to harp on pass be happy become successful learn from it become better person and exactly they goin to regret if u see u doin good

[@spking492]

What hurts the most is I know what I have to do

[@sylviamjames]

My story is different with all my Ex’s Some might think that says a lot on me more than 1 ex but I will just leave it as that. God Wills , will never let me down. ❤️🙏

[@davidrogafeller7464]

Joel your knowledge of this subject is on freaking point

[@apubanerjee5496]

DEAR FRIEND TERRY 😃 TO ME , 😃 NO REVENGE AT ALL , IN ANY FORM , SHAPE OR SIZE IS THE BEST EVER REVENGE , IN ALL FORMS , SHAPES & SIZES . 😃 MY DOOR WAS CLOSED FOR THIS ( SPECIFIC DIRTY ONE PERSON ONLY ) THREE & HALF DECADES AGO ITSELF , FOR THE REST OF MY ENTIRE LIFE TIME . I TOOK THIS DECISION AT THAT VERY TIME ITSELF . ( MY " LIMIT CROSSED " IN YOUR WORDS ) I WAS THEN 20/21 , NOW 58 & 3 MONTHS + .😃 YES , IT WAS INDEED A BLISS FOR ME, FROM THE SUPREME SOURCE , IN ALL SHAPE , SIZE & FORM . 🌻 ❤👍

[@angiegreen455]

You are absolutely right! Thank you Joel....have a great rest of your day...yea.

[@terryjoeljunior]

You also Angie ❤️

[@lecapitalist]

Thank you 🙏 💖

[@TheGamer-eh2uz]

I'm the same way I give lots of changes till that line cross.

[@Real2k25]

I used to hate exnarc but that only brings u down

[@terryjoeljunior]

Yessir, no room for hate in our hearts over here!

[@cathleenmorgan3784]

I say also two wrongs don't make a right

[@queenanna1077]

Good morning, Joel! 🖐🏿

[@queenanna1077]

HAPPY FRI-YAY!! 🎈🎈🎈

[@terryjoeljunior]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@star3006]

Joel you look great 👍🏼😃.. thanks for all your videos great job . 😃💯

[@amirbasssystem]

Early for once❤🥳keep up the good work and,i hope u celebrated yesterday on the international mens day❤

[@terryjoeljunior]

Thanks! I didn’t even know it was international men’s day loll

[@amirbasssystem]

@@terryjoeljunior it is kinda sad,that more people dont recognise it and celebrate it❤

[@victoriasrandomthoughts8698]

Grass is not Greener.

[@micktaylor1991]

Cheers Joel mick

[@cathleenmorgan3784]

I was so angry I said things I didn't mean and I would never hurt him and I'm just going to MoveOn like you say I am a Christian woman should I give me a lot of power to move on stay positive it just hurts real bad

[@joeroberto5367]

Train insane or remain fhe same 🔥. It works.

[@terryjoeljunior]

You know it Joe 💯

[@victorious11111]

I actually don’t care if he made the right decision. I made the right decision by moving on and finding happiness within myself and I have a new partner that is amazing and better than my ex on every level. He is truly a blessing.

[@aracelyalva]

True story

[@jamesgarzillo7669]

Thank you

[@wafflepercs]

Perfect timing

[@terryjoeljunior]

💯

[@rainingopals1439]

I made this video two days ago 💗😛

[@terryjoeljunior]

It’s a good topic!!

[@Wildchile]

Hey don’t knock single mums lol some of us are happier now ~ I know what you mean though it’s tough when kids are younger, and it’s not the ideal situation!

[@NiceOne1706]

Single mums are the worst especially when it comes to dating. It’s facts sorry.

[@judgedrew2076]

Hey bro can you please do a video for me, I just found out my ex who was a 9.5/10 got a new boyfriend but he is extremely ugly and out of shape and is a 5/10 max. I am a 9.5/10 too but I was financially unstable when we broke up but now im much better. You think girls choose money over looks? How can she be with someone so ugly and simp? Thanks bro

[@terryjoeljunior]

She’s probably messed up in the head g, I wouldn’t put yourself on a pedestal like that either we should all just be accepted and not think about things like this to be a factor! I’ll talk on looks and money and status

[@judgedrew2076]

@@terryjoeljunior Thank you bro! We planned on getting married. I did everything for her. She was narcissistic and toxic. :(

[@thomanesbitt5857]

I mean seek no revenge..yes I appoigse for my last few comments ,it wouldn't be right for me to get revenge ,other then doing good and well

[@queenanna1077]

TGIF

[@judgedrew2076]

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[@patriciaearley4177]

He's not really an ex because we were not in a relationship lol