HELP!! Is she even interested? | Answering subscribers question.

[@Bezeltene]

1:00 that’s beautiful dawg, i can tell u genuinely happy.

[@theoneandonly5925]

so right guys. A woman would make time for a man she wants, point, black period. I have bent over backwards for dudes I like.

[@BlackNYellow]

When human beings really want something, they make no excuses.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Ur right anything that is easily accessible isn’t valued because gold is way more valuable then copper 💯

[@BlackNYellow]

Please remember that!

[@perpetuallearna9466]

"there is a reason why gold is worth more than silver" that was a nugget of wisdom

[@BlackNYellow]

🙏🏿🙏❤️❤️

[@rebeccahernandez3927]

Good points y'all. It's a difficult one to call because we don't know what's going on in her personal life. But what the facts stated, it sounds like she isn't that sure. I would advise him to fall back and see if she shows further interest in any way. When a girl wants someone, she would let them know some how.

[@BlackNYellow]

Beautiful advice!

[@chaarlesrowland3594]

Where are YALLS

[@Rahimshabazz]

I APPRECIATE YOU BIG BRO AND BIG SIS!!!!!

[@BlackNYellow]

Appreciate you too!!

[@Rahimshabazz]

I FEEL GREAT WORD IZ BON I APPRECIATE YOU!!!!!!

[@BlackNYellow]

🙏🙏🏿

[@olzt100]

I thought you all were just taking a honeymoon break. Congratulations on becoming a mother and a father. Wish you guys well!

[@BlackNYellow]

Thank you! And we had a little break but we are back on the grind lol

[@viet4lyf530]

Great advice you two. I agree, only the person involved would know if she’s interested or not, go with what your guy tells you. Can’t wait for your next video, also how is Mai doing?

[@BlackNYellow]

Mai is doing good, thank you for asking! And we agree, the gut is a powerful tool. Some emotions cannot be formed into words, but once you experience it, it all makes sense.

[@Rahimshabazz]

VY U SPOKE FACTS!!!!!!

[@BlackNYellow]

Glad you agree!

[@Rahimshabazz]

I got a lot of options Markel n Vy 😉

[@BlackNYellow]

Glad to hear!

[@Rahimshabazz]

You’re definitely right us black guys do turn it up n she be seein it on my IG story 😂😂

[@BlackNYellow]

😂

[@Rahimshabazz]

I appreciate u big bro n big sis

[@BlackNYellow]

We appreciate you too!!

[@Rahimshabazz]

Trust me Markel n Vy I’m NOT always available because she sees on my IG story that I’m chillin with a fraternity n doin my own thing so she definitely knows that I don’t have her on the brain all the time u feel me. She definitely sees I have a life n that I’m not gonna be waiting around for her n she sees that I’m talkin to other girls so I’m not worried about that because if I’m hanging out with a fraternity what makes u think that I’m not talkin to sorority girls 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@ChrissieSM]

Vy, please support your baby's head / neck.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Vy I’m not gonna lie there isn’t any bantem basically like u said I can’t lie I’m subconsciously persuading myself she do instead of lookin at the reality I can’t lie. The Moroccan girl isn’t showin the type of emotions that I’m feeling so I can’t lie about that

[@BlackNYellow]

Keep an eye on the situation and if she continues to not show interest, keep it moving.

[@Rahimshabazz]

I c her only twice a week but out side of school we talk 4 to 5 times Vy but ur right she do have time so there’s no excuse

[@BlackNYellow]

🙏🏿🙏

[@salehalimohamed2672]

I like the chemistry between you, and I can tell within minutes that you are born and made for each other, yet you wasted 12 years. May be that was also destined by higher powers, who brought you together in the first place. Congrats beautiful couple. I may jokingly: Man, your voice is roaring like those lions in Africa, may be you will, for the baby's sack, lower this roaring, so that he sleep smopthely. Lots of love.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Like for example the girl I’m kind of eyeing I just texted her n she responds pretty quickly but I’m gonna give it a couple of hours before I say something back because like u said I can’t make myself easily accessible n literally when I texted her on IG 5 seconds laters I c her typing the light skinned black girl NOT the Moroccan one because the light skinned one responds quickly n I’m just gonna wait a couple of hours before I say something

[@BlackNYellow]

There is no problem with responding quickly, the message I was trying to get across was, make sure you have a life and don't put them messages before everything you have going on. Don't make it a habit to always take long to respond because it may start to appear as though you are not interested.

[@Rahimshabazz]

@@BlackNYellow ur right I got y’all don’t u worry

[@Rahimshabazz]

Hopefully when I go c the movie with my boys n the sorority sisters n my homegirls friends I can really try to c where I stand but like I said I’m not gonna have emotions attached or anything like that n thanks Vy for sayin that I really needed that piece of advice

[@BlackNYellow]

Or you can just ask her out bro. Since you guys already talk, just invite her to have dinner with you and get to know her a bit more. Don't beat around the bush to much!

[@Rahimshabazz]

@@BlackNYellow I know n that’s y I’m inviting the light skinned one n the sorority sisters n my homegirls friends to the movie n then after that I’m gonna ask whatever girl I’m interested in to lunch u feel me

[@yahshaunyahu]

Wow vy looks like she never had a baby

[@BlackNYellow]

Thank you ❤️, I don't feel like it lol.

[@Rahimshabazz]

So if I compliment a girl what sign is there to show that she’s into me? Just a blush or what if she says aww n touches my arm can that benefit me?

[@BlackNYellow]

This is a hard question to answer because everyone truly does react differently. But a sign of pleasant uncomfortablness is a good sign.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Ur right about that maybe word iz bon n I appreciate you guys

[@YummyFoodLahore]

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[@jbrown8601]

Basic rule when asking a chick out; if she doesn't say yes then its no lol Maybe, we'll see, i'll think about. All of that means no. Another rule is dont befriend women you are interested in. Too messy and can be disingenuous.

[@Rahimshabazz]

So if I compliment a woman n if she just blushes that means she’s interested but the second she says aww that means I’m friendzoned?

[@rebeccahernandez3927]

You misunderstood that point. It just can't be explained.

[@BlackNYellow]

Unfortunately , its not. as black and white as that. The only reason we came to that conclusion was because of the other signs that accompanied the NO COMPLIMENTS. Some girls may not compliment you but they agree to go on a date! Some girls may not compliment you because they are naturally shy! When trying to figure out if someone is truly interested in you or not, you have to review ALL your interactions and decide if they are demonstrating signs of interest.

[@BlackNYellow]

Agreed! You just know when someone is interested

[@Rahimshabazz]

@@BlackNYellow Ight I got y’all

[@chaarlesrowland3594]

Ahki UR VOICE tone is loud...i feel u could lightly tone down couple levels...i say this because ur new-borne is very near u and surely this VIBRATION ( voice-tone) is affecting her just due to her adjusting her to our WORLD...please no affence meant ...just my observation...Salaam...TRUELY LOVE u BOTH...as-salaamu-alakum

[@Rahimshabazz]

Also I do talk to the Moroccan sometimes yes but I’m talkin to the light skinned girl n other girls as well n I’m NOT puttin my life on pause for that woman because I’m NOT goin to waste my time if the light skinned girl or any of the other girls r willing to give me a chance u feel me?

[@BlackNYellow]

Thats good!

[@Rahimshabazz]

I’m gonna dm y’all other things as well that u guys could help us out with

[@Rahimshabazz]

There is not banter I can’t lie but I have back up options 😉

[@BlackNYellow]

Thats good!

[@Johnnie5213]

❤️👍👍

[@BlackNYellow]

❤️

[@Rahimshabazz]

Also if the light skinned girl asks y I took so long I’m gonna say that I feel asleep because I did just get off of work (side note plan to be a lawyer) so that’s a good reason for me not to respond so quickly u feel me 😉 but I’m definitely gonna keep making myself NOT easily accessible

[@halojeff15]

you can just ask her out if she says no , then you two can just remain friends it doesn't hurt to ask.

[@BlackNYellow]

Good advice Red hair

[@Rahimshabazz]

The only compliment the Moroccan gave me is that I was funny

[@BlackNYellow]

Most guys get that compliment to be honest lol. A lot of friend zoned guys get told they are funny.

[@Rahimshabazz]

@@BlackNYellow so if a girl says that I’m funny it could go either way?

[@Rahimshabazz]

Don’t worry Markel n Vy at this point idgf because the hall is in her court if she don’t pick it up n run with it then it’s her loss 🤷🏾‍♂️😂. Like when I say I don’t give a f*** I really mean it because the light skinned one givin me attention as well n like I said she responds pretty quickly n I c her at events n I could possibly set up more ways then one to hang out with her so I’m not trippin at all n since she’s older then me I feel that she may appreciate me n like I said I just started to talk to her about 2 days ago n I talk to other girls as well so I’m NOT limiting myself at all 😂😂 but the light skinned one I’m kind of interested in but I’m still talking to other girls as well because I don’t got time for BS. I’m keeping myself open to other options u feel me.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Also I’m about to hit up my boy n talk to him about the plans for the movies u feel me

[@Rahimshabazz]

Markel and Vy also since she’s older she might appreciate me more n I’m gonna tell u y but I’m gonna dm u guys privately about that because I trust u guys n I’m gonna be real n honest with y’all

[@Rahimshabazz]

I am goin to take my emotions out of it n really c if she is feeling me because I’m not gonna lie I’m not good at telling if a girl likes me because I never had a gf so I don’t know anything n there were times a girl did liked me but she was ugly n not my type. But there were times when a girl did liked me that I was feeling but she was playing games n then I realized they were trash n when I start talking to other girls they get pissed which is so confusing

[@BlackNYellow]

When someone likes you, they will take the time out to get to know you. Point blank period. If there are excuses to meet up etc, this should be seen as a major red flag.

[@Rahimshabazz]

@@BlackNYellow I got y’all c I’m learning a lot more from u guys then my foolish cousins 😂

[@Rahimshabazz]

Also when I talk to the light skinned girl I didn’t put any emotions into it because I’m feeling her out u feel me n I want to get to know her more. I haven’t complimented her yet but I’m just gonna keep talkin to her n c where it goes because she suspects nothin so far n like I said I’m eyeing her but I’m talkin to other females so it’s not like I’m goin all out towards her n I want to get to know her more before I put effort in n I’m detaching my emotions from it because I don’t want to persuade myself into something that is NOT true so I just started talkin to the light skinned girl 2 days ago so we know forsho I didn’t have any emotions attached because as a Capricorn ♑️ we take our time n get to know u first n then we’ll tell u how we feel because we r NOT goin to put our emotions out there since we protect our emotions n also I’m not gonna subconsciously do that persuading myself she likes me if she isn’t showin the same interest

[@Rahimshabazz]

One time T, glasses, n the other two FT me n they asked me how the college girls r treating u n I already know what that’s gonna lead to so I told them I had class n I hung but but I really did had class n I just didn’t want to tell them anything because that’s gonna lead to me gettin mad n possibly cursing them out n then I might end up doin Muhammad Ali combos n I really don’t want have to unleash hell I’m a nice guy who knows how to control his emotions but as a Capricorn ♑️ if u keep poking the sleeping 🐻 once it wakes up u already know it’s tryin to kill everyone n I’m NOT tryin to be on that type of timing but if they keep it up then all I gotta say is blood is gonna be everywhere because that’s how mad they be gettin me. They just don’t know how to take no for an answer n it’s just sad. When I Capricorn is mad they go for blood but since I have Sagittarius ♐️ n Scorpio ♏️ in my chart that causes an explosive rage reaction n they be lookin dumb once I go off. My thing is don’t push my buttons n then once I black out u gonna be like “y u act like that” n not realize the reason y I reacted the way I did. Point black I only told certain people n they be tryin to know but I simply avoid the question n ignore it because I don’t want to deal with their bs n I don’t want to lose my s*** n start hurting peoples feeling all because they can’t comprehend the word no.

[@Rahimshabazz]

Also my homegirl n her friends never met the the sorority sisters so I believe that I’m good n me n my boys r tryin to get with certain girls but they know who I’m eye balling so they keepin their eyes off what I’m interested because me n my boys r loyal to each other u feel me. But Markel n Vy one thing about me that u guys should know is that I know how to move on. There were plenty of times in my life when I took a shot at a female n I heard the bs n I ended up moving on real quick but the weird thing is that they do a whole 360 which is something that I’m NOT f***in with 😂😂 but I don’t respond back to girls quickly I’ll do it about an hour later or 2 or sometimes the next day because I do be busy myself n I’m not gonna be on my phone waiting for u to respond back because what do I look like waiting for u when there’s plenty of other options u feel me

[@BlackNYellow]

Happy to hear that you have a life outside of these women. Having a life outside of a relationship is a MUST!

[@Rahimshabazz]

Markel n Vy u guys forgot to mention I played football n I’m not always available because there are times where she did respond n I didn’t respond back until the next day because I’ve been busy hanging out with a fraternity n they r called Phi Beta Sigma. Also I’m definitely living my life because I do have my eyes on other females because I learned that pigeon holing myself is bad but there is this one cute light skinned black girl that I’m kind of interested but idk if I want to totally pursue her yet. Also she is a sorority girl so it might work in my favor because my boys can give me info on her low key n I can easily ask her to hang with me n my boys n she can bring her sorority sisters because like I said I plan on inviting them to c the new Spider-Man movie n we all vibe n there isn’t that loyal bf crap involved u feel me so I’m not worried about that especially when one of my boys was a actually tryin to get with one of the sorority sisters NOT the one I’m currently eyeing n I can tell that she doesn’t have a bf or is talking to any of the frat brothers a certain way. Also when I spoke to her she looked me in the eyes n was asking me a lot of questions about myself. In other words I’m walking to the event as soon as she saw me she said hi how r u n started asking me questions which from a female perspective idk if that’s a good thing I’ll leave that to Vy. But every time she sees me she always has a smile n will chat it up with me. But also I feel it’s easier to hang out with her especially since she graduated college n is 3 years older which could play in my favor. Markel she is light skinned black n she’s very cute and adorable n I just started talking to her a couple of days ago u feel me

[@BlackNYellow]

A woman asking you a lot of questions can definitely be seen as a good sign. No one will spend time asking questions about an individuals personal life if they didn't have hopes of potentially building some type of relationship.