Help Me Decide: SHOULD I KEEP IT?! 🤔

Help Me Decide: SHOULD I KEEP IT?! 🤔
JOIN OUR CHANNEL and get exclusive perks:
/ @2inazoo
OTHER WAYS TO CONNECT
X: x.com/2inazoo
Instagram: / drmikejchandler
Email: [e-mail]
MAIL US:
The Chandler Family
P.O. Box 701126
Saint Cloud, Fl 34770

[@MySweetCuriosity]

Honestly, I think Cadie is a lovely young lady, well mannered, classy & kindhearted ~ She is responsible & dignified for her age, and certainly a daughter anyone would be proud to love... That said, especially considering her homeland's culture I think Cadie should ultimately decide. She can always change her mind, too... & back again, for that matter!

[@emmajones8590]

She always was lovely, and mature for her age.

[@jessemaryfam]

Cadie’s note to the zoo family viewers at the end of the video was so soothing. She has got ah-mazing voice and originality.

[@raylew311]

Cadie is such a beautiful person. I'm so glad to see her asserting her independence and preferences. I think she'll be able to decide what feels right for her. She looks beautiful no matter what❤

[@aishwarya2426]

I love that you’re trying to preserve her culture :) She’s gonna wanna fit in with the American culture and her peers in her teens, so you guys doing this shows your forethought. Great parenting🌸

[@abhinanditaghosh8882]

Cadie is gorgeous btw!! The more I see her the more I get mesmerized. Her voice, her looks everything is amazing !!❤

[@hephzibahdoss9235]

My daughter has a good job in US but she wears a press nose ring invariably every day for work. We are Indians. That’s a beauty ornament. Caddie would love it as she grows.

[@deepshikasen7800]

Yeah exactly its a press nose ring and hence convenient!! Getting permanent nose piercing is painful for the kid unless she really wants it when she grows up.

[@carolinechurch5053]

Your choice Cadie!!! But if you need advice, I’d say keep it, it’s part of your Bengali heritage ❤

[@ankhi1797]

I agree . ❤

[@deepshikasen7800]

I am bengali from Bengal living in India. I would never keep it. Its not that kind of a part of Bengali heritage.

[@anniestyles5824]

@@deepshikasen7800 Who said? Do you represent all of Bengal? Nose piercings is literally a part of our culture, from a very young age. Septum piercings are very very common amongst larger Bengali populace. Now if you are from an upper caste, city-centric background, you wouldn't know Bengali culture of the entire land.

[@souerful]

Agree

[@kobitalive1963]

Yes I agree

[@rosiethompson4991]

your daughter Cadie is absolutely beautiful .Looks great with her stud or without . Such a humble kind daughter that you both have.

[@camilafacanha7013]

In Brazil babies (mostly girls) usually come out of the hospital with their ears pierced already but nowadays more parents are choosing to let the kids choose when to pierce. I love this on Cadie!

[@annneale5263]

Cadie your parents are so great. Love how they support you

[@kganguly6480]

Ear piercings are done as young as at 2-3 months in India. Many a times its done by the gold jeweler. Basically its done before babies start understanding pain I guess. Piercings are very stylish here in India but its Cadie's choice entirely.😊 That lemon was probably a ball of cotton dipped in turmeric an antiseptic. 😊

[@BMarie774]

It isn’t done before babies understand pain. That’s a myth. It’s very much just as painful for newborn and toddlers.

[@garimakilledar5810]

@@BMarie774 in fact, much more painful for newborns. Their bodies are extremely delicate. They just are completely helpless and they can’t do or express anything loudly, that’s all. Doing piercings to newborns and toddlers is inhuman and should be banned. Piercings shouldn’t be done at least until the child is able to understand that it will be painful and express their dissent or consent.

[@KavanaShetty-j7b]

It's been 4 years since I have been watching cadie grow up I am so happy to see this you are truely amazing family love you zoo family❤

[@utsabmoitra1245]

As a Indian Bengali I will definitely say yes. It's so Indian.

[@lexdrish]

I think she should keep it! It’s 100% up to her but I think it is apart of her culture and can always remind her where she came from and where she is now!

[@veenabarferodrigues7612]

In India and in rural area the villagers would peirce the ears or nose with a thread and needle which they would be treadle it through the nose and then they tie a knot now we in other parts of India they would peice the nose ring by the wire of the nose studs n it is usually done at the age of 1 years

[@Suma-iq6jx]

Cadie your parents are great... They are keeping Indian culture with you... So amazing dear.. Nose stud is very nice and it is very suit for Daisy

[@creativesparks2164]

Omg she’s so cute! I’m only in the beginning but last time I watched she didn’t know much English!! So great to see her so adjusted!

[@lolroque]

In Brazil, many girls already leave the hospital with their ears pierced. Lately, people have been opted not to do it more than before. I had my ears pierced when I was about 6, I think I asked my mom to do it. I remember the process very well and don't remember the pain at all even though I was very nervous.

[@anonymousravenclaw3364]

I'd say wear it. Teenage is all about experimenting and figuring out your style. Yes it's a cultural thing, but it can also be just a Cadie Chandler thing. I personally think that a ring would suit you better. But if Mom is not okay with it, we can wait. I'm an Indian and I got my piercings at 4 and 19. In my Mum's culture, girls get ear piercings right before they are baptised. She got hers when she was a month old baby. I was given a choice. My parents started talking about piercings since I was 3 and at 4.5 years I consented to getting my ears pierced. At 19, my last year of teenage, I got my upper lobe piercing and I prefer wearing a ring on that one. Some people get pierced at piercing shops, some at beauty parlours and some at jewellery shops by traditional piercers. I got my piercings from the traditional piercers at the jewellery shop and they use either a gold wire or a silver wire to pierce - depends on the metal you're choosing to wear afterwards. Mine were gold studs each time so that's that. Hope that helps!

[@sapnakumari015]

If you see indian girl most of them having nose pearcing even I do (but i don't like to wear anything ) at 7:07 you talked about that she wore that big earring to nose actually when you see the indian bride it's the part of her wedding jwellery and that is same like she's wearing in her ear and for Bengali bride or any bride she wear that.... not any random material but it's gold ..... And for regular .....mostly our parents give us gold nose ring or studs not too big but according to girl's choice

[@michellecrowe7063]

It looks beautiful Cadie ! Everything about you is beautiful. It’s obviously up to you but my opinion is that you keep it as it honours your heritage. ❤ from Nova Scotia Canada 🇨🇦

[@santhithomas4623]

In India, it is done by the people who make gold/silver jewelry. Ear and nose piercing are done when kids are very small, but definitely not by her mother anyway. Mother would have been holding her for sure. Cadie - it is a part of your past. Keep it. You look beautiful.

[@mariamayhan2038]

I think it looks gorgeous. As an adult international adoptee in a multicultural family I have embraced my culture.

[@mandystanhope]

Cadie is gorgeous. I love the nose ring on her. It’s lovely that she’s embracing her heritage.

[@kiranqureshi5217]

I’d say keep it but the placement of the nose ring is too low so maybe wait for it to close up and get it re pierced

[@daffodilsheroine1198]

Hahha😂 this is so fun to watch. Cadie is really growing. And Cadie's humor is like Mike's 😅😂and she have Mel's grace 🤌🤍😍

[@barbararamroop3059]

LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS. FROM THE CARIBBEAN ISLAND OF TRINIDAD. WATCHING CADIE SINCE SHE LEFT INDIA. SHE IS GROWING UP TO BE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. YOU ALL ARE SUCH WONDERFUL PARENTS❤❤❤

[@unwrapthecharm8347]

❤In case you decide to keep it then most importantly look for the nose rings having smaller length🎉enough to secure the ring. That would allow you to have enough space before other side of your nose

[@truth3676]

Your gift of life, love and family to Cadie is everything ❤😢

[@elaineramos8070]

😂😂😂😂You guys had me CRACKING UP re "telling" each others secrets 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jacquelineballard6846]

Do what makes you feel the most confident Cadie! ❤ Either way you are absolutely perfect.

[@Totally.Anonymous]

I noticed the hole placement is a bit low,if it was higher the bigger studs would look better, you're beautiful regardless ❤

[@atza9270]

Your guys are beautiful parents inside and out. May God reward you with endless blessings. Cadie is a beautiful girl.

[@kalastephen1954]

It suits you Cadie..You ve grown up into a beautiful young girl...God bless you all.

[@elaineramos8070]

Cadie you look beautiful with or without it ......BUT It is SO YOU! ❤️

[@NK-tm6tf]

Wow six years? Time flies. I still remember that video. Made me cry with happiness

[@valliramasundram8590]

It is your decision but for me l rather be without it at this young age, perhaps when l am adult l might put it on on certain occasions.

[@paryssja641]

I say keep it, it’s a homeland thing and a reminder of how far you come🥰

[@_S.H_]

It's up to you Cadence, but if you can't decide and really want our opinion I would say no. Keep it natural without any accessories, it's always more beautiful that way.

[@Anguu777]

People wear accessories to look more beautiful lol

[@kellinmoore2146]

The nose ring is natural its part of her natural herritage

[@Anguu777]

@@kellinmoore2146 true

[@Nannerchan]

It’s a decision that only she can make.

[@shrutikumar3059]

As an Indian girl, I can say that it is not a common practice for toddlers to get nose piercings, ear piercings maybe,,, but not nose... Cadie I know has Bengali heritage and it maybe common in some eastern parts of India,, but its definitely not an Urban Indian tradition. For Indian girls it is a common practice for their parents to get their ears pierced,,, some as young as 1 yr olds get it done,, (I got mine when I was 16 months old.. the traditional way- with a heated sanitized needle) I respect Cadie's decision to try out whatever styles best work for her,, and typically Indian girls in their late teens (i.e. 15/16 years) consider nose piercing cool and a fashion statement in school and university! :) :) ❤ That said,, I am 30 years old and my mom never allowed me to get my nose pierced ! Not to this day...! 😜😜😜

[@thequaintus]

It is not a tradition in the Eastern parts of India either. I am a Bengali from Calcutta, currently in the US (for close to a decade now). I don't know anyone my age or even my mom's or grandmom's age with a nose piercing. I am 30 years old too. So for a girl of Cadie's age, getting a nose piercing as a baby is quite surprising and definitely rare.

[@lakshmirekha9168]

This is so true!

[@idahoapril]

@@thequaintus I think it is common in rural Bengal.

[@nitinyadav7384]

I think you follow this channel from very long time...

[@7neha.m]

True😂 If I get my nose pierced I will never hear the end of it😂😅

[@azeezaali6519]

Caddie is such a beautiful young lady. Please keep it on if it makes you comfortable, if not when you are ready. Lovely parents n kids. I have two girls , grown women now had their ears pierced when they were 3 mths old babies n they were good it’s like a tradition from where I came from.❤️🙏

[@pranjalmore2051]

In Maharashtra (India) we pierce ears within 15days a baby is born... And the nose can be pierced from age of 4yrs to 15-20 yrs n so on....

[@punithanthevar5669]

0:17 dad's bald head glowing🤣

[@siziwelungile5489]

I love Cadie’s voice ❤from 🇿🇦

[@amalajoseph1841]

Katie take it out. You look beautiful just the way you are

[@sophiahoward5655]

I found your videoes when you were in India adopting Katie!! She is so BEAUTIFUL THE OLDER SHE GETS!! LOVE Y'ALL!! GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@astrid-w5z]

I am not Indian or American, but I have followed this channel since Cadie's gotcha day. The decision is ultimately up to her, but personally I'd say she should keep it but not frequently wear anything on it, especially as a young child like Mum said. In my opinion, if she starts wearing accessories over it now, it may cause the hole to become more pronounced over time due to tissue wearing as we grow. My ears were pierced when I was a little girl, but I hardly wore any earrings or studs growing up. Now as an adult, I only make use of them on special occasions, and tend to surprise and amuse people who would otherwise never knew I was pierced! Cadie's beautiful, with or without the accessories. And I agree with mum. She can make use of that aesthetic when she is older.

[@SandraRodriguez-tw2ep]

Whatever you choose Cadie, you will look beautiful!!

[@rishikabiswas6899]

The age at which I got my ears pierced was 3 and my mother got my ears pierced from a pharmacist. Generally they get their ears pierced from a goldsmith here, and they do it directly with a gold earring. But yes the ears piercing is generally 11months to 4years, the younger the better... But nose piercing happens during marriage... Although I got it for fashion.

[@vaishalipatel8249]

As an Indian I didn't know they do it with spoon and lemon and everything but most PPL go to professionals(imo) and may be it's been done btw 6 month to 4-5 yr between

[@conniejean23]

I'd say keep it. But look online there are a lot of sizes and styles. They have some that twist in to hold them in place. But most importantly do what you're most comfortable with.

[@kokobop3639]

RIP headpohone users😂😂 the safety pin sound effect lolll. Is that Steve Carell?

[@tejalrajput_11]

Hi Cadie, it looks great on you. I think you should keep it. It’s always upto you. With or Without you are beautiful dear Cadie! Sending lots of love and warmth to you and the Entire family! Beautiful family as well! ❤️

[@sanchitathakur235]

No we dont do like that. We do it with a metal with a sharp end it doesnt even hurt that much .just a pinch . Mine never got heated or anything. They do apply ointmemt or turmeric and coconut as a natural antiseptic.

[@a.paradox]

I think she meant that thorn of lemon plant was used for the piercing as have heard somebody do that as a homely way!

[@dreamzbts6585]

Indian girl here! Had ear piercing when I was lesser than an year old Also as a kid I would see people have nose studs and ask for them so my mom would buy stud bindis and put on my nose!

[@KTS-vm3tk]

In India not a lot of parents force the kids to get traditional nose piercings anymore...ear piercing,yeah almost everyone does them, where they call the person who does the piercing and a bunch of rituals before its actually done... for me it was done that way but later the holes were closed since i didnt wear the earring after i got pierced as a baby so they did the gun shot method

[@manurvabhah]

Bunch of traditions?! Which state you are from?

[@josaphine9422]

I tried nose piercing 3 times because I loved it but my hole never stayed open. It is a culture thing but I was never forced by my parents to get it done. It's just it is very elegant and beautiful. It is absolutely upto Cadie it looks wonderful on you specially the small one. ❤ Before me I have seen an entire generation wear it 😅❤ my mom, grandmom, great grandmom, my sister , name it. It's just my nose not accepting such pretty lil things 😅😅

[@dawnyofthelight]

i think you should keep it cadie its apart of your culture and you real mom...its a part of you...

[@TheMwanawamambo]

Cadie has a beautiful smile, so pretty.

[@rianabhandari5982]

Cadie should keep it.... It look good on her❤

[@GodFavorsMe444]

Cadie is absolutely georgeous....she seems very reserved.

[@Impester01]

Mama bear is so protective.

[@shreeparna9698]

I so wish I had one tooo.... U look so pretty with it... My vote is on ... Keep it

[@svv4655]

I bet it wasn't a 🍋 lemon.😂 May be cotton deep into turmeric solution or any kind of yellow antiseptic. I was my nose pierced three times at jewellery shop when I am around 6yrs,8 yr,12yr respectively through thin and sharp metal wire before piercing they apply chemical (which give cooling effect). I personally don't like it that much but it is my tradition so have to do it.

[@-jm6ow]

U r great mother and father❤lovely family

[@maitakahashi4220]

I did it when I was 12. Mine was done with big needle which is used for sewing comforter and some perfume as disinfectant. Apparently because it contains alcohol in it.

[@RT-pb8fo]

Thanks to this dad and mom, you guys are doing amazing. ❤❤

[@catharinesingh]

Glad to see more regular videos!! I think she should keep it if she wants it, to honour her heritage.

[@BMarie774]

So people used to pierce their ears by shoving the needle through and into a potato or lemons. Lemons also served another purpose with other piercings as lemons are somewhat anti microbial and so this was likely done for mostly antiseptic properties (the efficiency of it is debatable).

[@vindhyum]

Agree with mom, the hoop is too much for a 12yo. And I personally don't like nose rings. Here in India, they're like an extra ornament. Usually women(most) get it done after they get married, but it also depends on the culture & religion(almost all Muslim & most Hindu women get it at some point in their lives). I hope this helps sweet Cadie in her decision ❤

[@kellinmoore2146]

Cadie i really love the nose ring i think if its comfortable to you you should totally keep it!!❤❤❤

[@suzy4376]

Her beautiful spirit is showing through.....she is soooooooooo pretty....

[@dinikaharyan]

okay but cadence's clip at 11:11 is so beautiful 🥺

[@KDL1464]

I think it looks beautiful. Keep it. I am of Indian origin Austrian. I love my nose stud so much. I wish I could have sent you a picture . Be proud of your heritage just as much as your parents are of it. Each of you are so blessed to have eachother.

[@liaxo1103]

also, i think cadie should keep the nose stud if she wants as she gets older since its apart of her indian culture 😍 nose studs are unique and beautiful

[@abhishektiwari4648]

It is up to you Dear.... you always look beautiful... Lots of love to you and your family....❤❤❤❤

[@oogaboogass]

Its completely your choice its your body cadie do what you want🥰

[@praveenkumarverma3767]

LOVE you all guys, its lovely to see all of you smiling..😁😁😀😀

[@creativesparks2164]

I think that piercing is more for a hoop cause it’s at the edge

[@logiemoodleygyb8296]

Lemon thorn. His used 2 make a hole 4 earring .south Arica

[@_doee]

I know in America piercing is really big deal for teens and in India it's very common, so cadie its your choice if you want to keep it or not, I will respect your decision 🥰

[@neetabasu4682]

My grandmom pierced my ear lobes with a needle that was heated,when I was v young.dont rem the pain at all.only that she pampered Me a lot afterwards.when my nose was pierced I was already a mom,so the pain I remember .it was done with a gold wire with a sharp pointy edge ,that was heated nd sanitized.the wire was then twisted into a loop...like a hoop...it was done professionally by a gold smith..when the wound healed i put a dimond stud .and its been there,ever since.but now I hv a cute diamond flower.Cadie uv grown into a beautiful young girl with a dazzling smile .a Dimond stud will suit u just fine .but do chose sumthing u r comfortable with .all d best ..❤❤

[@shannonbaker1822]

I love it Cadie, but do what makes you comfortable. The only one who can decide is you. It does look beautiful on you, as you are a beautiful young lady, inside and out.

[@kanika8677]

It's part of our tradition. Also the Scientific reason is That keeps your menstrual health good. In India also people wear nose ornament but they are usually very small not the big ringtones. And this Nose piercing becomes compulsory when a woman is getting married so then it becomes compulsory to wear anything in the nose it then becomes a ritual.

[@abnashkaur5602]

Keep it if Mum dad are fine with it. You are going to grow up to be a beautiful young lady. God Bless.

[@legendgamer-ce8wi]

Cadie is such a cute .. lovable child ❤❤

[@dsouzadavid80]

It all depends in Indian communities. Each Indian community has their own traditions and rules to piercing body parts. It is mostly symbolic too; represent the community. Nose piercing is common though. But other body parts too. In my culture we do nose piercing but only left nostril. Similarly, ear piercing could be at multiple spots. Done by gold jeweler

[@shraddhaverma]

She is a sweet girl ❤ i think she doesnt need to wear it. These days we have nosepins which can be worn without getting pierced. Its simple to wear by just pressing it whenever she wants to. No need to wear it all the time. Rest its upto her.

[@Chetna_Mane]

Girls get nose pierced at young age I remember getting one when I was in 3rd grade... and it looks cool and beautiful at the same time for me.. Go ahead wear it keep changing the studs wear different sizes...

[@garycody1929]

I like it and hope you keep it. Yes your voice is ready for media or radio etc.

[@ra33661]

You should preserve your history and culture. Don't let go of it as you embrace new things!

[@rrdesignhouse7064]

I’m Indian but born in Canada…I got my nose pierced in my early 20s and it definitely was because of my heritage.

[@catherine-marsac]

Please keep it :-) have been living in India for a year and always admired the natural beauty of indian women - I think a nose stud is underlining it - the second smallest fits best I think love from Germany

[@sugarspells8781]

It's totally up to you cadie.. but I think it would be cool to keep it! Since you already have the piercing why not embrace it, just something to remember your past ❤ But if you're not comfortable with it, let it go.. you can always get it re-pierced in the future some time.

[@HappyOnee]

I think Cadie nose piercing is little bit off it supposed to be in center! ….if possible please get her nose pierced in Center! Love you guys! Cadie is like beautiful angel ❤️

[@tahminaosman4172]

Looks very beautiful 😍 you grown fast so beautiful girl you are God bless you all family .love you all

[@healingsoul1798]

She is so pretty 💞💕

[@celinavaz77]

She is beautiful love you baby ❤❤