Help with wig security AND Flat back of the head concerns | TIP TUESDAY

[@judymoon6176]

Two things came together at the right time. My shoulders appear to slope because of my large breasts, so I decided to add shoulder pads. I bought four gel pads which stick to your skin…no sewing! I began to wonder if one of those pads would stick to the crown of my head, where it drops off sharply (extra large, extra square head). It did stick, and my wigs fit much better. So pleased with the results😌

[@heywigsister]

Oh my gosh, this is BRILLIANT!! I am going to have to see about getting some and trying it so I can share it with all our wig sisters... thank you so much for sharing!! Where did you get the shoulder pads you used?

[@essanjay8604]

Would they work for preventing bra strap dig in?

[@agresticumbra]

That's a great concept. Thanks for sharing. Hope you report back to answer questions. 🤓

[@TravelingMissD]

That is a great idea for sloping shoulders and our interestingly shaped noggins! I have one shoulder that is lower than the other due to scoliosis, and adding a not too obvious shoulder pad to some of my clothing will bring back that missing balance! Thank you! 😊

[@JennieAxel]

I was thinking the same thing about the silicone pads they sell for going braless. S this what you mean?

[@annmowatt7547]

I am delighted, Denise, to see how your confidence has grown over your wig journey. This wig looks wonderful on you: perfect colour and style. I too have become much more adventurous and am gradually going down from my natural black and am now at a light brown with blonde highlights where I think I will stay. The blonde on you looks fantastic.

[@brendadarling60]

Because I have a little bio hair left, I cannot spray my hair with adhesive. So I spray all around the top of the wig grip, let it dry a little, then stick my wig to the grip. This holds really good. Also if I feel like my wig grip is slipping I put a couple of small snap in barrettes on the back side of the grip & and point them towards the front of the grip. Snap them, I never feel them, but they really secure my wig & give me the confidence that the wig is absolutely going no where. I just rode in my nephews corvette with the top off and my wig did not budge 😊

[@DiannainSoCal]

I do the same thing! Works beautifully!

[@Misskitty15]

What great ideas!

[@bindib352]

I was about to ask about how to use adhesive when you have some hair. Spraying the grip is a great idea, I’ll have to try that. I struggle with getting anything to fit securely or sit right because I have an odd shaped head! I think I do anyway as I can’t even manage head bands or hats. So as of yet I’ve not found a solution that works for me but I’m persevering!

[@essanjay8604]

My hair has receded at the front so I just apply adhesive along the front hairline. No need to bother with a wig grip or clips. It holds as solid as a rock. I guess it may not work if you have really sensitive skin but I get eczema and have never experienced any problems with wig glue.

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

T y. I'm gonna try

[@CrabbyOldLady]

For me, the silicone wig grips work best. The little nubs on the inside hold the grip securely on my head, and the little nubs on the outside do a great job of holding the wig in place. There's absolutely no riding up in the back. I was concerned at first that the nubs and the tight fit might cause irritation, but that hasn't been an issue at all.

[@cian4468]

I'm so grateful for your super helpful videos, Denise!! The wig style & color you're wearing, Denise, is naturally beautiful on you!! I struggle with a flat occipital bone, I will often stick a couple pieces of Topstik on my wig grip band and then stick the band to the back of my neck where I want the wig grip band/my wig to stay - that works.

[@heywigsister]

That's a great suggestion!! Thank you!

[@franpost9800]

Even though my wigs are still in boxes, I will not wear them. I spent so much money on them and feel so defeated. However, I remember a couple of years ago watching you and just loved everything about you. I still love to see how are doing. YOU LOOK SO GOOD !!! You are amazing!! I read about your move and your Keto diet. WOW! You are inspiration to us all. Even though you may be disappointed in me about not wearing the wig, (I cannot return them), but I will continue to watch your site. With much love, Fran

[@mihaelabrenner3665]

Fran your story touched me I know you don't know me but Im also a huge fan of Denise and I learned so much from her specialy from her videos. You need to start wearing your wig in the house to get use to wear it, to the feeling of having it on your head and seeing yourself in the mirror. I was terrified to wear the wigs in public specially with my family and friends. But slowly slowly wearing at home and to shopping trips I got the confidence to wear it more and more and now I wear it all the time. I wear it around 14 hours a day😮. I hope my story will help you and you will start to wear your wigs. Good luck

[@franpost9800]

@@mihaelabrenner3665 That was so nice of you to reply to me. I hesitate to take your advice because I find that the earpieces are too close to the front of my face. Unfortunately, it isn’t a namebrand wig. I went to a shop over an hour away from my home that was recommended by somebody. I don’t know where she gets her wig from, but she measured my head and came out with a few wigs. My daughter was with me and liked the first one. It felt OK. I wore it when we went out for lunch. I was unhappy how I looked and I’m still unhappy about it. Thanks again for your kind words.

[@mihaelabrenner3665]

@franpost9800. Please don't be discouraged. I buy all my wigs online and it wasn't smooth sailing from the start. I watched a lot of videos of different ladies on KZbin and IG and tried what they recommended. Lots of trial and error .Sometimes it worked but sometimes it didn't. I contacted Denise personally, wrote her on IG and she was very kind and generous and took the time to give me some tips. I send her videos with specific questions about my wigs and she replied. She is amazing and I learned from her a lot. Because of her I'm wearing my wig with more confidence and finally when I look in the mirror I finally recognize myself. Please don't give up. Let me know if you need any further assistance.

[@dawnespino]

Agree 100% about The Hair Grip. I am still relatively new to wig wearing and had tried a couple of other brands of wig grips when I got The Hair Grip (I think it was at your suggestion). Love it! What a difference. I even bought a couple of others in different shades. My wigs never feel insecure and I can wear up to 12 hours with no discomfort or slippage. I'll add another item: choose the right wig cap for you. Through trial/error, I know what feels good on my head and achieves the look I am going for, not just in terms of sizing but features and design of the cap.

[@NancyTaylor-mn6qi]

Excellent information!! I struggle with a flat occipital bone & smaller than petite measurements. Your videos have been very helpful. Thank you so much🙏❤🫶

[@1stGood-Girl]

Holy cow Denise, I didn’t know you but recognized your name today. Losing weight has taken 25 years off you girl (I knew you from way back when Wigstudio1 was starting out). You look amazing, fresh and perky! Do you feel better too? Please tell me about your transformation journey (maybe you have a video?) as I could sure use a roll-back in year’s too 😁 Connie

[@daizeofgrace]

I needed this encouragement today. I’ve been ill and have lost so much hair. I’ve already purchased a couple wigs but have yet to wear them. I do however know that day is fast approaching and I think my biggest fear has been the wig security. I glad your video came up in my feed. Thanks

[@kapirk2244]

I have no occipital bump so I have trouble with my wigs riding up. I have started using the double stick bra tape under my wig grip in a few places. My wig glue Got 2 Be has started making me itch so I had to find another method. I have even used the silicone lines grips and the stretchy silicone bands. Nothing stays in my hair, but the bra tape really works. Start with small strips first and see what it takes to keep you wig secure.

[@HerYarnAddiction]

Thank you Denise! I still haven't found a wig but I continue to learn. I starting losing hair in 1999...just a dime sized patch. I now have little to no hair on top of my head. I have yet to find a wig that fits right. I purchased 2 and both were way too big. I know that I need a petite size but I haven't purchased any more. When you spend that kind of money, you want it to fit. Buying, trying and then maybe having to return it is a huge deterrent. Thanks for all that you do!

[@Misskitty15]

Try Paula Young. Her's are lower cost & check her clearance.

[@phauser3817]

You might try to make an appointment at a wig store in your area. You can get an accurate measurement, try on multiple manufacturers, check out which colors look best on you and even get your wig trimmed to your face. I bought my 1st wig from my local wig store, as a thanks for helping me, but have bought them online since then.

[@HerYarnAddiction]

@@phauser3817 I spent $1000 for a human hair wig about 10 years ago at a special salon for hair loss.

[@gardengirl9099]

In addition to hair loss in the front, I also have burning scalp syndrome. So anything touching my head, even my fingertips lightly, causes itching and burning. I do wear the Velcro grips, but they are so irritating. So with or without them, my Wig always is irritating my scalp. That’s why the minute I walk in the door it comes off. I love my wigs, but I hate the way my scalp feels. 😢 Thanks for your great videos Denise. ❤

[@ChiTownLegal]

You made me cry 😢 I remember my first time dealing with my hair loss. I feel for women who suffer from this. Looking forward in viewing your vids. Sooo glad I found you!

[@heywigsister]

Sending hugs!!! Hair loss is awful!

[@slowstitchingbeginningcroc9405]

Thank you, Denise, for your great videos. Thank you to all the wig sisters who leave such great suggestions in the comments. One of the things I love most about this site is people helping each other!

[@heywigsister]

You are so welcome and I agree 100%! I love our community!

[@KR-ct4uy]

I just love your channel, I don't like to get advice from anyone else, your energy is so precious and pure. Love you!

[@essanjay8604]

The sole reason I don't buzz my hair but let it grow (even though it isn't pretty!) is that I can still make a pony tail and twist it into a low bun to act as an anchor for my wigs. I use wig adhesive at the front as I have a receding hairline so it's a pretty easy solution.

[@heywigsister]

That is exactly what took me so long to buzz mine! It turns out I didn't need that baby pony, but I certainly thought I did!!

[@essanjay8604]

@heywigsister Without the pony my wigs do ride up and I hate having the extra layer of a wig grip around my head as I get too hot so it works for me.

[@lmsossi6501]

The wig you're wearing is just stunning and soooo realistic!!!! Also, although I'm not in a position right now to shop, the tank top you're wearing is exactly what I have wanted with a square neckline, loose fit, and wide straps! (I saw that Amazon had a 30% off coupon if anyone else is interested). Don't have any experience with wigs staying in place (due to lack of experience with wigs, not good fortune!) but always trying to learn!!

[@ms.f.leebanks397]

I get hot easily when wearing wigs, so no wig caps for me. I buy thin acrylic headbands with teeth that match my wig color. The head band keeps my wigs extra secure, especially on windy days. I may look like Retro Queen-don't care!😇

[@hockkeygal5]

Definitely gonna save this video for reference...cause I always have an issue with the back rising up. Thanks Denise❤️

[@agresticumbra]

Finally ordered two large cap wigs I was able to get on clearance. One is Gabor, the other RW. Looking forward to comparing them to the 5 average caps I've tried thus far. As big as my upper cranium is, I'm curious to see if the caps will hug, rather than *squeeze*. Watching you (and other youtubers) demonstrate all the extra wig you go sometimes get around your crown has amused me, because that hasn't happened yet with a Estetica, Envy, Belle Tress, or Gabor (Gabor fit well, hairline to nape, however.) Oh, and whatever is going on with your arm, I hope it's healing. I was an idiot last night, and accidentally stabbed myself with a toothpick. Had to tug to get it out. 😖 Thanks, Denise.😎

[@hollyroberts632]

Wig grips don’t stay for me I have to use bobby pins. I use bobby pins in the back on the nape I put two pins right on the wefts on the bottom nape to keep from riding up .😁 thank you Denise and Carrie is beautiful on you!!🥰😁love and godbless

[@lindac.9677]

Denise you are such a blessing. I loved this video so much much because I have had such a hard time with grips and caps, etc. I just ordered the hair grip you recommended and thank you so much for the 20% discount. BTW, you look amazing in Carrie and that color is perfect. You look so beautiful! Today is my birthday so I'm going to treat myself to a new grip and wig! Thank you again.

[@janetpeach7763]

I absolutely love you! you are the cutest thing and such a happy person with dimples! Thank you for all the advice. I need to buy a new human hair wig with the Bob style. I bought one recently from a beauty salon for $3000. 😮 which I absolutely hate! I was told that it came from Europe and was all hand tied. When I questioned her as to why she had cut the tag out of the wig, she gave me a song and dance. I don’t believe a word she said. I wish you lived in Florida so that I could get some honest help!

[@michellediekman4873]

Great advice as always, you look Beautiful in this Wig, So Natural 😙🤗💕💞

[@kathysolomon7618]

Denise, that wig is beautiful on you! Thanks for all the tips!

[@heywigsister]

Thank you so much, Kathy!

[@agingintobeauty]

Excellent info, as always. Thanks for sharing your wig wisdom:) You look gorgeous in Carrie!

[@naturalbynecessity4197]

I don’t know about the wig grip bands for complete hair loss. I find that it slips off my scalp. Works well for people with some hair. The silicone grip is awesome. Works extremely well for complete hair loss but it can make your head sore because of the nubs that might dig into your scalp if it is too tight but it will stretch overtime. This is a very informative video Denise. Thank you

[@kittygartland5305]

Thank you so much for your videos!!! I am passing on your videos to friends that are just starting their wig journey. You are always so helpful!!! You look beautiful with and without your wig! 🤗

[@frankieren8791]

Thank you for sharing your experience in these videos. You are beautiful inside and out. ❤

[@annecapiro5431]

You covered everything really well. I use a wig grip, i do have bio hair, and it works really well. I have a lot of confidence in it staying in place. I was on the beach at Myrtle beach and it was very windy. It stayed on and I knew it would stay. Thanks for your video. Great tips.

[@jenniferrice5877]

You look so good I hardly recognized you and looked at the name. You're really needed by so many if us.

[@ellenjo283]

You’re so helpful. So supportive! Thank you for all you do.

[@queens2nite]

Wow what a fantastic informative video. We are so lucky to have you ❤.

[@heywigsister]

Thank you so much 😀

[@henriettalazo9243]

Thank you so very much. This was fantastic. You are so kind to share. Many Thanks.

[@libbycrawford9310]

Yes the Velcro was itchy

[@Jibby444]

You always give the best content. Thanks for sharing your wealth of knowledge!!

[@bettytuggle6948]

Denise, thank you so much for all the wig tips & tricks you have given me. I have learned so much concerning some wig wearing problems I have experienced! Keep up the awesome work. 👏👏👏

[@heywigsister]

Yay!! This makes me so happy!

[@JennieAxel]

Baby fine bio hair that I cut shorter than a pixie but not buzzed. The little ponytail I had did not help in the back. I have only had luck with gluing everything all the way around except near the eartabs to accommodate eyeglasses. I still haven’t tried the grip cap but I think I need to because of the itching scalp from certain wigs. Thanks for all you doDenise!

[@timeandtide333]

Thank you for your kind and generous spirit. All great tips pls keep these videos coming. 🩷

[@Thegiggy-5678]

You saved me sis! I’m new to wearing wigs and have not been confident to wear them all the time. Thank you. ❤

[@heywigsister]

Oh gosh, I'm so glad you found it helpful! It makes me so happy to know that I can help others on this journey!

[@razzberriberet]

Great video Denise. Thanks for all the great information. 💜💜💜Hugs. Pailette

[@carolmorgan9228]

What an encouragement this was. Thank you for all you do.

[@lindaledger4951]

Great advice, than you, l have always struggled. 😊😊

[@pattymiller6363]

I need to send you one of my wigs for a custom cut…. I love the way you style yours

[@sunny_dhende6289]

Great video, Denise! You covered a lot of info in a short period of time. Btw I think you have a beautiful, PERFECTLY shaped head, unlike mine with an ugly noggin up top😂 so I thank God for my wigs!! Until next time, friend, have a blessed evening!🤗✨️🫶

[@karenl3454]

I finally used some got to be gel to glue my wig down, it was the first time it felt secure on my head. Do you have a video on how to hide wig wefts? Especially at the crown, there really isn't any videos on this issue.

[@Rachelllllll2024]

It's so messy! Try ebin lace melting spray. I heard it works well... Also bed head hairspray

[@cecilewalker6610]

Thanks so much, Denise! What a great help you are!

[@aprilthompson3863]

I like the silicone grip but it can irritate my skin

[@newshoesbigblister]

Many thanks! A couple ideas there I can try - fingers crossed! 🤞

[@sunny_dhende6289]

I didn't see the link for how to shave your head?

[@ontexastime6690]

Thanks, Denise! Great info, as always.

[@triciajensen9679]

So very helpful & delivered with empathy & understanding of the journey! Thank you!

[@MeganBennettAUS]

Thank you so much for explaining so much here. I am on my first wig... it's hard!! Awhile new thing just as you say. Brilliant Denise ❤

[@sylviahtsyl2315]

Where can i buy that little comb to sew in at the back?

[@Misskitty15]

Hi Denise 👋😊, I was wondering if you could tell me what you think of Uniwigs or Thinthickhair. They seem to have 2 names and sell Toppers without clips which sounds like a good idea & much more comfortable than wigs. I think I got their name from you because I listen to you all the time. If you have tried them, can you tell me what you thought? Because they don't seem to have much in the way of synthetic, which is my preference but their prices for human hair about half of what others charge. Luv you ❤❤❤

[@onthehill3381]

I have some bio hair. I put it into a tiny bun very low at my nape for an anchor. I sew a clip into the nape of the wig and then sew three more clips around the U shape inside the cap. My measurement from the forehead to nape is small so it causes me to have too much extra room on top and the wig will want to puff up on top. The clips I sew in keep it flush to the top of my head. I’ll use a wig grip only when I’m flying and have to go through the TSA screen. I reserve a wig without clips sewn in for those occasions. It does take trial and error to find out what works best.

[@janclouse5683]

Thank you for all your help. God Bless you!❤

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

That wig looks great on you

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

Im struggling with the wig feeling like its riding up

[@phyllisledgerwood2572]

Thank for this video I am glad I found you. I am fairly new to this and have yet to wear one out. I get encouragement from you. What wig are you wearing, I love it

[@heywigsister]

You can do it! Hugs!

[@heywigsister]

Oh, and I put the details of this wig in the description.

[@MrsBCurious]

Such an informative video 💞

[@Stacy-o3h]

I have been watching your vids and have to say congrats on you healthy life changes. You look great.

[@heywigsister]

Thank you so much!

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

I just bought it stays

[@golfergirl]

Please send the link for the hair grip.

[@Pumpkin-1924]

You look great. Question: lost most of my hair due to brain tumor, brain surgery, radiation, chemo and meds. No hair in front. Spotty everywhere else. I wear wigs. Should i just let go and shave my head bald?

[@karencandland2758]

You are wonderful! Thank you for all your helpful videos!

[@deborah3299]

You are a Godsend Denise! 😇

[@KR-ct4uy]

JUST LOVE YOU!! Big hugs!!!

[@tressashea9105]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE that style AND color except I am a very small head 20 1/2. Any suggestions of something similar in color and style? I bought Wavy Day in SS Cappucino and sent it back because it was big and wrong color.

[@wendyamsterdam8482]

Carrie also comes in petite

[@amitchell9820]

Do you wear anything on your head at home? I ordered the silicon wig grip as well as the Milano wig grip. The silicone one is a little too big for my head. The Velcro wig grip felt bulky and wouldn’t keep my wig in place.

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

I have that top grip too

[@CTAY-ne6cr]

Thank you, Denise, for your helpful videos. I've been wearing wigs for 18 years. Every wig I wear I have to fold the wig under at the ears. I am 12" from ear to ear. Is there a company you would recommend or a solution for me?? Presently my style is Jones by Estetica. Blessings, Carol

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

Love wig grips

[@TamVanegas]

Denise, I’m newer to wig wearing, not even a year in yet. I have a few Renee of Paris wigs and am thinking about taking a step up in quality…. What brands would you recommend? Thank you!!!

[@KS-op5hb]

wig gals - I'm gong to a concert in my wig and will be hot and sweaty due to dancing...thoughts on what product ...not sure the water adhesive ones will survive ? thoughts

[@Patricia-pq4jq]

I have short bio hair. Can I use that got 2 be ? But where would I spray ? Please answer if you can. 🙏 and ❤❤

[@monique7614]

Thank you! My wigs slip backwards from my hairline (mostly the Belle Tress ones, don't have an issue with Godiva), which then shows my bio hair. I don't know what to do. I have used both the silicone wig grips and the velvety ones. Any suggestion? My head is 22 1/4, should I be buying large caps maybe?

[@Eva-Marietta]

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[@flaneuze]

Attention ! le velcro gratte la tête, que vous ayez des cheveux ou pas !

[@janemichael9433]

Were you ever afraid people would laugh at you?

[@heywigsister]

No. There are far too many who need help, I was one of them! If someone laughs then they just don't understand what it is like to suffer form hair loss and feel so alone and I hope they never do.

[@janemichael9433]

@ Pretty much my big concern is being laughed at. It sounds silly maybe but my first husband would have laughed at me til I died. Not laugh at my wig but to laugh at my hair loss and how it makes me less than. I’m working on it. I’ll get there. 🙂