Her dog has dementia. And she's starting to forget about her.

[@kerwynbrat5771]

My beautiful boy who lived to be 20 years old suffered from dementia. I watched him slowly go away mentally. At the very end, on the very last day I held him. He opened his eyes and where he would look at me blankly, he looked and his eyes lit up, he gave me his I love you sound which I hadn't heard in the last 3 years of his life. He kissed me one last time and slipped away from me. I miss him so much. Dealing with losing my friend and the last 4 years of his life with dementia was just heart breaking. I am a medical provider and the disease progression affected my boy exactly like it progresses in humans. I don't know if that equipped me to deal with it, but we went from joyous walks to wheelchairs and diapers. He was a happy demented boy until the last. In loving memory of my Cody who gave me the finest 20 years of my life.

[@hawnair6624]

I am sobbing reading this…so beautiful!

[@Rosie-fj7yr]

Awh, I am sad for you. But you gave him a very good happy life, which is so much more than the misery that some dogs have to endure.

[@Howiesgirl]

I'm so sorry for the loss of your wonderful friend, Cody. I pray that the wonderful memories you made together will comfort you in the years to come. 💓

[@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD]

My h💓art, Handsome, is 💞 your h💓art Cody🙏

[@Kaylarrrrr]

I’m crying my eyes out after reading your comment

[@kristidavi]

The hardest part of loving an animal is knowing you will have to witness their decline and eventual death. It's so heartbreaking. We love them the most we can while we have them with us.

[@jjones3566]

You are so right, Burford C., the death of an animal is the hardest part of loving them. It is so hard.

[@TheYazmanian]

One minute in and I'm sobbing because all the symptoms she mentioned, now I realize my late baby who passed when she was 17 had undiagnosed dementia. I thought all old dogs acted that way but now I know something was wrong with her poor brain. She had a seizure one night and that was the end. I miss her so much. It's been 4 years.

[@JadetheGoober]

God rest her beautiful soul. My heart breaks for you 💔

[@jas.k73408]

I'm so sorry for your loss. My dog passed away and it really affects you when you lose something you love. 💔💔

[@bibijet1316]

❤

[@MsPhillyG]

Im so so sorry for your loss. I loss 2 last year a few months apart and I honestly know how you feel.

[@lb45878]

So sorry for your loss honey. Like other comments, I know exactly how you feel. It's been 3 years since I lost my best friend to congestive heart failure, and I miss him every day. Take care. X

[@2TMarie]

It's great to see owner's acclimate to their animals needs, instead of giving them up! BRAVA!!

[@kryan1364]

I didn't know that dogs could get dementia until my Emmie had it. She was about 13 at the time. Her behaviour had changed a little but I didn't realize there was a problem until the day she didn't recognize me. I immediately called my vet and was prescribed a supplement which helped. She would follow me every where in the house like she didn't want to be away from me at all. She passed away at 15. She was the best dog. I miss here so much.

[@NGC_290]

I'm so sorry for your loss; it's truly tough to deal with. If it's not too much, may I ask what supplement your vet prescribed?

[@daschundloverable]

what was the supplement?

[@zxyatiywariii8]

Love to you and Emmie ❤️🐕

[@t.g.7180]

Same here. My last dog had it, she would walk around the house with a blank stare & seemed super lost. She eventually stopped eating & I had to put her down. She was 16. I miss her so much. Sorry to hear about your baby too 😢

[@hawnair6624]

I am so sorry for your loss…I’m facing the same now. My 15 1/2 baby recognizes me via smell, but he struggles at night…so sad to see him staring at nothing.

[@OTownReview]

Just went through a year of this with my cat, and she was deaf as well. Unfortunately, we had to say goodbye about a month ago. We had her for 18 years. Miss her :(

[@wetwrkinc.5122]

She's in heaven now. Don't worry friend.

[@RicGillespie]

My condolences.

[@gwendolynsinclair]

❤️

[@heatherlukhard9505]

we lost our dog 1 yr ago next week to lymphoma. He was a fear based reactive dog & had a very hard time w surgery a few months before. So we chose quality of quantity, It's a gut wrenching decision but one you have to make for them & not you. We miss him every single day. 7 yrs wasn't long enough.

[@MsJ_2023]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💜💜💜💜

[@JaniceWithTheTarlovCysts]

She's living a good life for now, and it's wonderful she has Peewee by her side. Dementia is so devastating but Nicky is doing such a wonderful job adjusting things for Zoe. Hugs all around 🤗🤗🤗

[@eclark3849]

Its caused by digestive disorders easy to cure but they dont tell u pure evil chem poisoning as well

[@eclark3849]

Bile liver test to watch bile flow blood test dont show motility damage of the intestine affects bile flow

[@eclark3849]

Motility tests damage to intestines will affect bile flow open stomach valve 2 much acid urinate 2 much

[@eclark3849]

Open stomach valve 2 much acid u urinate 2 much hernia also keeps valve open same place

[@eclark3849]

Different tests build up of protien if 2 little bile pregnant women get web membrain all over body

[@MsMadmax1]

She'll let you know when it's time to do the humane thing for her. I had a cat with the same type of condition. When she started forgetting to groom herself, she couldn't remember where her food was or where the litter pan was. I'd constantly had to keep an eye on her. Once day she couldn't get up and just laid there urinating all over herself--it was heartbreaking. I cleaned her up, wrapped her in her favorite blanket and took her to the vet to be compassionately euthanized. I held her until she was gone. It was hard but would have been so unfair to try and keep her going.

[@geigercourtier]

I’m sorry. Can you imagine pissing yourself and your parents putting a gun to your head and saying I’m sorry it’s the right thing to do? “She’ll let you know” you’re insane

[@Vonn_Loren]

You did the right thing. Of course we should do everything that we can to keep our pets with us and take care of them as best we can, but at some point it stops being about their quality of life and more about our reluctance to lose them. You let her go instead of letting her suffer more, and you stayed with her until the very end.

[@2mfours]

@@geigercourtier have some compassion please this owner lost their pet

[@v.h6866]

@@geigercourtier i cared for people with dementia. And believe me they also come to a point were dead is properly better. Imagine getting you're dementia to a point you need to be dressed in bed. You are in a wheelchair, you can't talk, Can't eat. Can't communicate in any way or form. You just stare at the wall and almost can't remember anything. Animals are properly the same when it comes to dementia. Letting them go is only fair

[@sailorarwen6101]

@@geigercourtier it’s not fair to the animal to keep them alive. The animal is constantly scared, and can’t keep themselves clean among many other things. You’re the one that’s insane and cruel for letting the animal suffer

[@tippib2222]

My hound dog was diagnosed at 14, too. We were lucky that it was a slow progression so that he had two more years of happiness. As hard as it is, it’s also such an honor to be there for them to the end.

[@TheLeonard185]

💜

[@francescarobinsons6324]

Yes, it is an honor. They have such dignity along with love, character, protectiveness, loyalty and so many wonderful qualities! They are a blessing in our lives!

[@shanet2295]

It's 14 lol hound dog hoe long do u think it can live blood hounds in the military are retiered at 8 maybe u worked it to hard

[@Beer_Wolf]

Dementia is an awful thing. My 17 year old Staffy, a rescue named Molly, whom passed away back in January also suffered from dementia in her twilight years... getting forgetful, incontinent, staring into corners or just standing still for ages looking blankly at nothing or lost, etc. But she never forgot about me, was still always greeting and wanting to stay by my side where ever I went. She was my comfort as I was hers, and as she went I hope she knew she was loved and will forever be loved and never forgotten. Absolutely missing you sweetheart.

[@axiomist4488]

They always know. My Yorkie friend had many things wrong with him at the end. He had cancer, bad kidneys, heart murmur , liver, blind from cataracts, everything. The last couple of weeks he stopped licking me (he would lick me constantly if I held him or put my hand in front of him in the car). But while we waited to go in to euthanize him, at the clinic, he suddenly licked my hand 5 times. I'll never forget this as long as I live . He knew and so did your Staffy .

[@bzb500]

You made me cry. I am sorry for your loss. It's so hard to part with them because they are better than humans always there making sure you're ok. I know I have had dogs all of my life. They are the best.♥️🐾💞

[@mrbookends]

My mom's little Jack Russell, Milo, turned 18 last year and he had doggy dementia on a pretty steep decline. He had sundowners syndrome as well - as soon as it got dark he roamed the halls all night and barked at the wall. Poor guy, he was a real angel, and a rescue, and a big brother to her other Jacks!

[@nirvanasanctuary7691]

Our 16yr old rescue JR is going through it now & it's just heartbreaking to watch. I'm so sorry for your mom. JRs are such special little pups - little dogs with big dog personalities. Wishing healing & peace for you both x

[@TheYazmanian]

My late Trey did the same. Paced all night if I let her. Panting.. looking lost.. standing in one spot and zoning out. Acting like bugs were flying towards her face.. she often would fall back as though something startled her. She had to have been hallucinating but my vet was clueless... Had to keep her in her bedroom so she would relax.

[@JamesSmith-uc8tk]

My wife's rat terrier had the same. She was about 16 when we had to have her put to sleep. Even though she wasn't particularly attached to me, I still cried my eyes out like a baby.

[@archerlady]

@@JamesSmith-uc8tk She wasn't, but it seems you were to her. Same thing happened to my husband when our cat had to be put to sleep.

[@ballet07]

My Wilson had it too. So hard.😢

[@sabastiantaylor7209]

I had my dog Haley for 16 years. I got her at a kill shelter. She was opposite of everything I was looking for in a dog. She was big, she wouldn’t come near me. She was terrified, she had tons of hair I wanted a smaller dog that didn’t shed or shed very little. She was a chow chow and golden retriever mix. I still find little clumps of her hair around the house occasionally. I found out they were going to put her down that very hour. So I took her. She turned out to be the kindest and most well behaved dog I have ever had and I have had many dogs my entire life. Her last 5 days. I just laid with her abs slept with her. She let out a loud bark and passed in my arms. At the moment it was very sad and I kept occupied for weeks. I found it hard to be in the house without her. Looking back I am glad I had the luxury to be with her in her last moments comforting her. RIP Haley 1:30PM 01/30/2017. Daddy will always remember what a good girl you always were.

[@kaykinomoto6209]

Having a dog with dementia is really tough for the owners too. My dog was diagnosed with dementia when he was 13.5 years old and he would bark non-stop at the top of his lungs all night and most of the day too. And constantly roam in circles while he was awake. Once I timed his barking and he barked non-stop for 18 hours straight so it meant many sleepless nights for me. But we did our best to make him as comfortable as possible and I slept in the living room with him to make him feel safe and secure until he passed away a year later. I still miss him very much.

[@Kat1967]

I am sleeping in my living room right now with my 15 yr old pittie Lyla with dementia/sundowners. She is my angel. 💕

[@seabassmcbigfat]

You’re an excellent parent. Thank you for doing your best to take care of him. My Bella is 5 and she’s wonderful, and I always hold her much more tight reading these stories of people losing their best friends. But all I can feel is grateful that you showed not only your companion, but an animal such kindness and respect. So thank you again, so very much. May his soul have many walkies and treats ♥️

[@kaykinomoto6209]

@@seabassmcbigfat One day for a human is like 4 or 5 days for a dog. So I like to think that each day is 4 or 5 times more important for our dogs. And they give us so much joy and happiness so I feel it's my responsibility to repay that happiness when my dog needs my help. Thank you too for taking good care of and loving your Bella. I now have a Border Collie who is 15 years old but thankfully she doesn't have dementia. I just wish that she will be with me for as long as possible. Even if she's old, she is still my beloved baby. ❤

[@jeannepeters8836]

🌻🌿🐾🐕🍎🌲🐾😎😇 My bichon frise, Gabriel, had dementia for his last 18 months. He had all the symptoms sundowners, walking in circles at night, getting stuck between the toilet and cabinet because he did not know how to back up... barking alot, like he was confused. I loved him so much. I could take his leash off a block from home and he would walk directly home to the open garage door. He was the sweetest guy. His vet gave me 5 mg valium which helped him settle and sleep much better. One night, he started howling and crying non-stop... nothing I did soothed Gabriel. I rocked him for 5 hours, until the vet opened. It was time... he wanted to go. 😇R.I.P. Sweet Gabriel😇

[@Tokena14]

Lost my beautiful collie friend I had since I was a child 3 years ago and I still tear up whenever I get reminded. Had cancer and went blind, worst experience of my life was the last couple of weeks. I hope she knows I did all I could and I think about her every single day of the year. That dog was my everything.

[@geoben1810]

I had a senior dog who came to me as a stray. She was a sweet old girl. She developed dementia after about 6 years together and I recognized it as such. She passed quietly in her sleep. I'm glad I was able to give her a comfortable, happy life in her senior years. Rest in peace Daisy.💖☺

[@thomasschwarting5108]

She passed in her sleep, WOW. I wish that for all animals. Its Gods way of taking them home.

[@axiomist4488]

Yes, always be there for her. She's always been there for you. Bless you both .

[@Kiraiko44]

I've heard of dementia in dogs, it's as heartbreaking to see them go through it as it is for humans. I hope Zoe's remaining time is filled with love and peace

[@Ms.MidWestMess]

As sad as it is, I do love this. I currently have a 16 year old dog & she’s starting to lose it. I’ve lost my 16 & 17 year old dogs in the last 3 years. We’ve dealt with everything. But when I got my babies I said forever & I meant it. Thank you for loving her so much!

[@Ginasgusa]

I have a 15 or 16 yo dog now waiting to leave us as vet found a tumor. Given her age, we decided just to let her live out whatever time she has. Vet said 2 weeks. It has been 4 months. Other than being extremely fussy with food, she is still walking several miles with me and living her life as normal. I know we are fortunate to have her for so long but the thought of not having her around shortly always bring pain to my heart and tears to my eyes.

[@louisevaughan2165]

As far as the food issue goes try a supplement that is a high calorie , vitamine mix that comes in a tube like toothpaste. I know many hunters give it to their dogs . Supposedly it tastes like liver(?) I think it is called "Vita-Cal" . I have used it for my cats & dogs when they get sick & it does help because they are not involuntary starving themselves .

[@lilrawk]

@@louisevaughan2165 vitacal is a good vitamin supplement and does help in emergency calorie situations, but it's calories primarily come from it's sugar content. It might be more safe to use a high calorie prescription food, such as AD instead in older animals, given that older bodies tend to metabolize sugars differently. But I have used it successfully for many little creatures over the years and yes, it does kind of taste like liver. Like a sweet bullion lmao.

[@louisevaughan2165]

@@lilrawk My old cat had dementia & I found out after the on set he also had feline leukemia. The vita-cal helped him so much . When the quality of life became way more bad than good we made that last trip to the vet & she was surprised he wasn't jus skin & bones .

[@sunnydaze2359]

@@louisevaughan2165 my cat developed feline leukemia because I felt sorry for a stray and took him in. Why vet said she would only live about six months. I loved cats so much I just kept petting her and telling her you can’t die baby you’re not gonna die. I believe she live two more years on love alone. I think love can do that to an animal.❤️

[@louisevaughan2165]

Feline leukemia is to cat what parvo is to dogs , it is every where . I do cat rescue out of my own pocket because the pet rescues are so unbelievably overwhelmed on our state . I have learned over the yrs not to stress them out . I know that doesn't stop or even slow down the disease but not being stressed helps them greatly . The 1st cat (Phillip was 10 or 11)hat had it lived about a 1 1/2 yrs but he was so pampered . The the other 2 ( Monstar 15 & Beastie 16) lived several yrs after they tested positive . I changed their diet & kept them as stress free as possible . I also have 2 big dogs , a pit bull & a catahoula , that sleep with & protect these cats . The dogs seem to know when 1 of them doesn't feel well & it is amazing to see them comfort which ever cat is having g a bad day .

[@kevinmachate59]

I lost my boy Fez in 2011 to this. He went deaf, forgot who his people were, and got stuck against a wall because he couldn't figure out how to turn around. This is a sad, sad thing to go through.

[@kashmir-we3jf]

I LOVE the last thing she says !!! "Zoey , I will always be there for you". So many people have no problem surrendering their animals to a shelter when they get old because they don't want to deal with everything that comes along with a senior animal. Owning an animal is for life. People should think about this before even considering getting an animal. Animals are like family. They should never be abandoned . Especially when they need you the most. This dog is very lucky. He has the best human and home.

[@sunnydaze2359]

I think anyone that can do that to an animal torture them or just abandon them has a huge part of their soul missing.

[@gladysover5368]

@@sunnydaze2359 Agree completely

[@angelwings7930]

I can’t imagine giving up a pet you’ve had all your life. I’m still emotionally crippled after having to euthanize my darling cat a couple years ago. I adopted her as a tiny 8 week old kitten and she passed on at 16 years, 5 months old. I nearly had a nervous breakdown.The pain never goes away, it’s never very far and I’m in tears again. I’ll see her again someday. When I speak to her, (I still do and I also say her name out loud so I can still hear it), I ask her to wait for mommy. People who dump older pets never loved them to begin with.

[@angelwings7930]

@@sunnydaze2359 Yes. Sounds like a sociopath.

[@foreropa]

I would prefer living under a bridge before having to let go my hairy son.

[@neenacheema8302]

Awwwe....feel so sorry for her.Be brave lady and plz keep looking after her with the same enthusiasm as when you brought her home.I pray for last days as peaceful and happy as they always were.❤

[@mycupcakegamer7235]

It's depressing, but knowing she is going to live her years with love and care is incredible! Sadly some people would just leave the dog somewhere to forget and die.. This family is wonderful

[@Ass_of_Amalek]

in fact a lot of people would say that it's unacceptably unsafe to have a big pit bull-type dog around small kids like those when the dog sometimes doesn't recognize family members and growls at them. there's a whole movement of people who suck at dog communication/training, got a pit bull anyways, and then something happened where the dogs bit people and now, because they don't want to accept responsibility, the owners go around telling everybody that pit bulls are evil and "just snap" completely out of the blue and attack people and especially kids. I watched a BS "documentary" about that once, and one mother campaigning against pit bulls told a story of her own two pit bulls pulling her baby from her arms and attacking the baby, and her reaction was to run away and call for help... she didn't even realize what a bizarre dysfunctional relationship with her dogs that indicated, that a mother would be so scared of her own family's dogs that she would run away as they attacked her baby. it's so weird what sorts of relationships some people have with dogs, and then they think that they can judge that there's something wrong with the dogs...

[@sunnypeach1328]

@@Ass_of_Amalek Aw. Poor things. There is no such thing as an 'aggressive breed', some are just higher maintenance. Some were bred to be hunting dogs, which is why they need more exercise than others. People have to finally understand that.

[@kathleenstewart5446]

My girl is 17 and has had dementia for 3&1/2 years. She forgets she has been to the park before. The joy on her face with so much freedom is a wonder to behold. She loves life and that is all I care about.

[@dinosaursaregreen4859]

It’s great that they get along so well. They’re adorable. Peewee seems like a really smart dog, same with Zoe. I didn’t even know that dogs could get dementia. That’s horrible, she’s living a good life tho, and that’s what’s important.

[@whatevergoesforme5129]

Cats too. I only learned that both dogs and cats can have dementia when I followed a senior cat on yt three years ago. She is no longer on earth but lived to almost 21 years old. Her parent was so patient with her through all those years she was suffering from dementia. She was not euthanized and died in the animal clinic when she caught pneumonia.

[@irenemarano8241]

I didn't know know that dogs get dementia .I swear my cat has it .I just thought it was greedy. I give him a snack 🥨 at end of night then he wants more at 9:pm. I am glad this dog has a good 👍 people and a good life with a good friendship with deaf 🐕 dog 💕. I liked the story it resonates as true.

[@theinfjgoyim5508]

It is the FOOD. Store bought food has so many toxic materials and stuff not on the label. I am sadden to see none of you know this. It is always the food. Come on people try to give a fuck and own it.

[@theinfjgoyim5508]

Snacks drastically shorten life of cats.. Have you ever owned a cat before?

[@babesimmons4017]

Our rescue girl was diagnosed with Autism. It was sad but it was good too. Sad for obvious reasons, good because we adjusted how to train her and have a guideline of limitations. 6 years later we are a happy family and going to be getting another rescue!

[@bugsybunz6145]

My dog lived till he was 18. He had dementia too. He paced up and down a room for hours. He still recognized me even though he hardly had any site left. He still tried to bounce around in the garden sometimes. You immediately know the right time to let them go. I struggled with that thought for years, but i knew that day he looked scared and anxious and really sad. Zoe still looks really happy living her best life.

[@TheLeonard185]

Sorry man, been thru it and will again.

[@bugsybunz6145]

@@TheLeonard185 Thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss too. It tears a big bit of your heart out

[@did4196]

I’m sorry for your loss. I am currently going through this. My dog is 15 and has become almost deaf and almost totally blind and i’m pretty sure she has dementia as well. I cry everyday thinking about when the time comes. She is my first baby 😭

[@bugsybunz6145]

@@did4196 Awwwww. thank you. I feel so sad for you, i've been where you are and it's awful. My dog had lost his hearing and sight too. I was told by a vet that if your dog doesn't enjoy his life and just sleeps all the time and don't want to eat, or seems to be in pain,then it's time to let them go. My dog came in from the garden and was extremely anxious and stamping his back feet, which i never have seen him do before. He looked really scared and sad, that's the day i let him go. I knew 100% that i was doing the right thing. So please don't worry, the decision will come to you and you will be strong because your heart and mind will know you are doing the right thing.

[@did4196]

@@bugsybunz6145 thank you so much for those words. They are so helpful andI really appreciate them. I would do anything for my baby so yes, i guess you are right, i’ll have to be strong for her.

[@geselagrendel630]

So sad, but also such a beautiful story about two different doggies which help each other. They're both very precious, hope he stays healthy and happy for a long time, wish you, your family and the two amazing doggies all the best.🇬🇧🦴🐾♥️🌞

[@missnightterrors1017]

This was heartbreaking to watch, but I am happy that you shared your story! Zoe and Peewee are angels. I had no idea that dementia in dogs was thing, so again, thanks for sharing!

[@sunnydaze2359]

What’s really sad is that since these dogs are so close what is going to happen when the first one passes away ? I had a poodle who got dementia when he was 13 years old. He kept doing was walking around in circles constantly. This was years ago and I had no idea that it was dementia. Didn’t know dogs could get that, I just thought he was being annoying. Now that I know about that I really wish I had been more patient with him.

[@HealthWithHilary]

@@sunnydaze2359 ❤️

[@HealthWithHilary]

I'd never thought to consider that dementia in dogs could be a thing either. But, now that I do, I'll be keeping an even closer loving eye on my aging pup. ❤️

[@dangus6934]

It's heartbreaking to know there's a time limit of how long you got with your pet. They are all on timers really. Soak up all the love you can because in the end that love is what makes every day, every minute, every second worth living.

[@nancysparkplug]

I'm in the same spot with my little girl. She was a stray when I rescued her, so they had to guess at her age. I've been blessed with 6 beautiful years with her, but I fear the end is coming too soon. I'm making her as comfortable as possible and loving up on her 24/7.

[@ikindred]

I just had to say goodbye to my Pittie after 13 years and I was totally devastated. Enjoy all of the time that you have left with her....sending hugs!

[@LisaLGruman]

To be with our babies to the end is our job, and you’re doing it beautifully.

[@emilyperkins9947]

My dog had the same thing. We had her for 16 years! 12 years longer than expected... It was worth every day we got to have with her and the whole house isn't the same without her!

[@highcotton63664]

As a person who has learned ASL, it warms my heart to see you taught your boy sign.

[@pjbiggleswerth8903]

Dogs are too good for us. I always take mine for a walk after seeing these stories. Piper ❤

[@BadBlobby]

Going through this with my 19 1/2 year old dog. CBD from the vet has helped in the evenings. As long as my dog is eating and happy, we go on. I’ll know when the time comes, my heart will be broken. 😢

[@hawnair6624]

Sending love to your fam. I am going through the same. I tell my baby it’s ok to go to the Rainbow Bridge, but I am not ready 😢

[@BadBlobby]

@@hawnair6624 love back to you and your family. ❤️

[@scifugitive2]

My dog also has CCD. He is the first (and so far only) dog I have ever owned, because most of my family is allergic. The hubs gave him to me in the form of a homemade gift certificate "good for 1 dog from the ASPCA" on our first Christmas together. D'argo is 14 now, and we have been dealing with CCD for a little over a year now. It is to the point where everyday I wonder if it will be the last good day. I make his own special food in the crock pot every other week, puppy pads are all over the place, we have a harness for him to wear where we can carry him if needs be. Somedays he's fine, others he doesn't even know me. But his core is still there, a loving and trusting cuddle buddy. His tail no longer wags, but his kisses are still pretty constant. Your two dogs are so blessed to have you as their mom.

[@Ganiscol]

Its such a cruel condition for any creature and heartbreaking for the ones who love them 😞

[@adriennelee26]

I had a cat with dementia. He used to pace around the house at night like he was lost and would make this howling sound. My older dog is starting to show some cognitive decline and advanced arthritis. It's heartbreaking to watch this happen to our beloved pets. Zoe and Peewee are lucky to have this lady who loves them.

[@theogalavotti2413]

Huge respect to you to still take care of her and do all you can do in the hardest moment of her life keep being strong both of you

[@russojones2975]

Bless this sweet girl. As far as I’m concerned, pets are valued family members, who are loved and taken care of, no matter what may come, as age and time takes its toll. That’s what love is all about 💙

[@squizzyicetea]

I watched one of my dogs rapid decline through doggy dementia. It was heartbreaking. Towards the end of her life she was either happy or scared. No in between. As a caregiver it reminded me of so many of my clients with alzheimer's.

[@kimgreen9342]

We went through this with one of our pups. We had two dogs as well and that makes a big difference for the one suffering with dementia because they really rely on their pack mate to help them navigate a progressively confusing world. It was very hard making the decision when to let our pup go but one day it was clear that that day had come. My thoughts are with you as you navigate this challenge time.

[@christalbert722]

I have gone through this with 2 pups. There's a med called Selegiline that might help. One of my pups it didn't seem to make any difference at all, but the other it made a big improvement-the pacing, confusion, "sundowning" all went away, it was like turning the clock back a year. Time still gets us all, but with the meds we had almost another year. it ended up being heart failure that got him. (The downside is that it's kinda expensive, but... when you're only looking at a few months it doesn't matter so much.)

[@scifugitive2]

My dog has been on Selegiline for about a year now, almost at the start of the diagnosis. It definitely helps with the sundowning. I have given up pretty much everything for myself that is not necessary to make sure that the littlest love of my life can stay until he is ready to go.

[@TruthSeekers369]

I was told this has to do with food and vitamin deficiencies. A doctor that specializes in brain scans says this can be reversed. Look into it people if you are going though this with a person or a dog. Fasting is a big thing to reverse this along with going vegan

[@GrimTheguy]

@@TruthSeekers369 vegan diets kill dogs, please don't spread this advice. talk to a vet or anyone who works with dogs pro. and also talk to a doctor before altering Grandma or Grandpas diet, you could do wayyy more harm than good. meaning well isn't always enough.

[@failatthis5169]

@@TruthSeekers369 I say this Doctor you spoke to is a quack and should not have a medical license if this is his way of treating patients ..

[@TruthSeekers369]

@@failatthis5169 - That's fine. You are entitled to your opinion. I'm sure you've been wrong before.

[@compass2201]

Such an important point that's very quickly glossed over near the end - quality of life vs an owner's emotional security. My first 'grown up' dog Ben had dementia and working as a psychiatric nurse at the time it was very obvious before I went to the vet. Working with dementia human patients a good year or so before helped put my position into perspective. All patients with more advanced dementia had NO quality of life on a day to day basis... most felt either confused or were in fear or angry - usually a mix of the two. Always very simple, primal emotions. I didn't work there too long but it was more than enough to see what hell we put some people through for the sake of extending existence (not life) no matter the cost for a few more months or years - even to the expense of often breaking bones by resuscitation or and adding to the immense pains and pressures of daily suffering whilst these patients couldn't even communicate what is wrong or how they felt on the (or any) issue, let alone have any kind of dignity or autonomy over their lives. Deciding to have Ben put to sleep was one of the hardest decisions I'd ever had to make in my entire life - it's not like a dog can tell us what they want at all - especially one with dementia. However, when he'd forget to eat due to not remembering his surroundings, forgot to follow the people he knew on walks (he was a highly trained rescue collie and could walk himself) or forget visitors he knew and would hide away in the dark whilst starting to become incontinent (all progressing quickly in a matter of a few months) was when I realised - am I keeping him around for me or for him? It wrecked me for almost a year after making the decision - but so many people hold on and on and on to their companions for too long, usually shielding themselves from painful feelings over the pains already felt by their pets. I just hope that when I'm older, we have advanced enough in society to either have effective treatment for dementia (for both humans and dogs) or at the very least, be more understanding with the idea of voluntary euthanasia. After working over a decade with people who have been through some of the most horrific events you can imagine: dementia is definitely the worst.

[@gwendolynsinclair]

Yes to all of this ♥️

[@PeaceMastah]

@@kasa2123 No, what a shit take. Be compassionate

[@PeaceMastah]

@@kasa2123 We all die. It is selfish to keep a suffering dog alive.

[@JohnSmith-mk1rj]

I had a dog go thru this, and it's very sad to see. She did the pacing and lost wandering thing. She also started destroying the house after a while, pulling up carpets and gnawing everything in sight. Eventually the family made the decision to put her to sleep, and it was a heart wrenching decision to make. The dog was clearly miserable at that point. We discussed it with the vet, and he called it a kindness. I fought against it, cuz I would sit with her on walks, and she would put her head in my lap and she would sigh and I knew she was happy in those moments. But when she was left alone, the pacing and destruction would kick in. It went on for months before the decision was finally made. And now I'm tearing up and miserable. One of my greatest memories in life was watching that dog as a puppy discover snow. The pure, unadulterated joy she had... Loving dogs is a curse, in a way.

[@sroycze9284]

These stories are making me tear up. These are so sad, and at the same time, so beautiful. She knew you loved her, and she felt loved as she slowly drifted into sleep.I think what you did for her made her a very happy girl.

[@JohnSmith-mk1rj]

@@sroycze9284 Thanks so much, friend. This video bought back some memories...some good, some bad, but whatever. I loved that dog so much. Tears shot down my cheeks as I typed that, and now I'm sad all over again. It is what it is. We love dogs. They're a part of us and I wouldn't have it any other way.

[@sroycze9284]

@@JohnSmith-mk1rj Exactly!If only cats and dogs(and all pets, for that matter) lived as long as we do!!

[@leelashope8971]

I agree with your last statement. I lost my 17 year old doxie in 2020. I miss her so much. My 15 year old doxie has dementia, and has had it for almost a year. It tears my heart out to see him get lost in the backyard, and to see the confusion in his eyes at times. He's deaf, and mostly blind, but he still loves to cuddle, and gets excited when we come home, and when it's meal time. Some times he seems to come out of it for a bit, and he's so happy, and wagging his tail, but then he slips back into the dementia. It's going to be hard to let him go.

[@JohnSmith-mk1rj]

@@leelashope8971 I know your pain. Believe me. And I'm so sorry. We know what we're getting into with dogs, but we do it anyway, because we know the life affirming experience that unconditional love is. We love their spirit, and we have that strange, primitive drive to share our lives with them. I love cats, too, and all animals, really. I'll have another dog one day. My dog Milla passed away a few years back and now I live someplace where I can't have pets. I'm saving to change that, even now. I'm sure you made that dogs life special, and that dog loves you every bit as much as you love them. I don't believe dogs ever have regrets when they're loved. Love is what they do. I know you're sad. I'm sad just typing this. But please, just keep doing what you're doing. Vaya con dios (go with God, or Dog if you prefer) Thank you for sharing.

[@Little_Red_Riding_Hoodlum]

Thank you for bringing awareness to this subject. I never knew this was possible. I have 3 senior dogs in my home and I am so happy to gave gained this knowledge. ❤

[@normafig924]

This put me in tears. How wonderful this person is to have patience with this situation. It’s amazing that even humanity doesn’t even have the patience for human people who have dementia. So glad that this woman is so many others have that much strength and compassion for the guardians of the present. Thank you for helping these animals.

[@lizalawsky3055]

I had a dachshund that I rescued at the age of 4 that at the age of 12 started acting strange like going I to small spaces and wouldn't be able to get out, then I noticed sometimes she would mess inside which is something she never did. She would sleep in my bed next to me and start waking up and pacing the floor. Took her to the vet he said dementia. I was shocked because she was still so young and generally healthy. She must of had it for a while or it was a type that progressed fast because within 6 months she was so bad she used to love driving in the car now she would cry terribly and people would look at me like I did something, it was such a mission to take her to the vet I'd have to get somebody to drive so I could hold her and try and soothe her. She would poo herself and when I would arrive at the vet she would continue to cry for like 5 min because she would panic so badly. It was absolutely heartbreaking and awful. You eventually couldn't leave her for 5 min as she'd walk up to a wall and panic because she didn't know how to turn around and start crying and messing herself. Eventually I had to put her down as she was so distressed and confused all the time and eventually didn't even want to eat and she used to love eating she didn't even make 13 years and she was the love of my life, heartbreaking

[@jjones3566]

So sorry, Liza, that had to be so incredibly hard for you and for your sweet dachshund.

[@erosionhead420]

I’m going through the exact same thing. My dog has not been able to be left alone for 7 years. Now he has terrible night time dementia where he whines , paces , and freaks out. I finally figured out a way to sedate him so he sleeps comfortably through the night.

[@divagates]

​@erosionhead420 what did you use to help him sleep at night? My 12 year old pittie is going through this right now 😢

[@Akursedtime]

Even though Zoe won't remember. Her smile indicates, she knows she is a good, happy gurl.

[@lisajacobs4173]

Thank you for sharing Zoe’s dementia journey. My very senior and beloved dog Kiki had dementia for the last two years of her life, and it was heartbreaking to watch her cognitive decline, especially when it was coupled with physical decline as well (arthritis so walking eventually became very difficult, teeth pain, kidney disease, a heart murmur, eventually incontinence, and no longer eating her homemade dog food to manage her kidney disease ). Kiki’s constant pacing aimlessly around the house, especially in the middle of the night, and having to rescue her from falling into our swimming pool, when, before her dementia manifested, Kiki had 100 percent ability to avoid falling into the pool were very stressful. When Kiki stopped eating, we knew it was time, and she was about 17.5 years when she died on December 4, 2021. I noticed that Zoe’s dog collar is the same kind of collar (identical rainbow design) that Kiki wore, so seeing Zoe wearing the same collar and struggling with her decline moved me. I was happy to see that PeeWee is helping to keep Zoe’s quality of life good. My heart goes out to everyone who has ever loved and cared for a senior dog. Dogs provide us with unconditional love, and when they age, it becomes the human companion’s turn to crank up almost constant, selfless, and financially costly care giving. When we eventually have to let our beloved animals go, we are grief stricken, but of course we would do it all over again - the love that many humans have for their animal companions is that strong. 💖

[@Reema_Chaudhary]

I have seen people giving up on their parents, children, friends but this lady is an angel..! The epitome of Love and compassion... Made me cry... 💕💕💕

[@Daaremikkel]

We just lost one of our hounds to dementia. It is heartbreaking to see the dog you loved just....disappear.

[@annjohnson8437]

Best wishes to your family! Thank you for sharing Zoe's (and Peewee's) story, and for providing such a loving home! Our neighbor's dog suffered from dementia and he would wander over and walk into our house while I was unloading groceries. He was too confused to go home on his own, so we would keep a leash here to walk him back. Junior Mint was such a sweet, gentle soul. He passed away last year. His family really misses him, and so do we!

[@cjvilleneuve1566]

From all my heart , thank you Mme for caring for these dogs,and to be there for them until the end , whatever happen. thank you a lots.

[@notme2day]

Who knew that even dogs suffer from "sun downing"? That's heartbreaking. What are we doing to our best friends that they're facing this?!

[@nedthumberland]

This is love. You don't give up on those who you love. You just keep trying to encircle them with love until the very end. Thank you for showing the world how to love.

[@LostHorizon52]

Sending my love to Nicky, Zoe and Peewee .. It is such a beautiful thing to see all the special things Nicky is doing for Zoe to help her get the most out of her time living with dementia 💞💞💞💞

[@MsFilay]

Tha k you for sharing this story. OMG my eyes are full😥. But it's such a blessing that you are giving them so much love. Bravo to you!

[@milvagiselle685]

What's truly beautiful in here is they have a loving human mom. I mean, she got a deaf dog what tends to be a really hard thing to almost anyone. And this beautiful girl who is now going through her own symptoms of dementia, again, she is in the best care. It's wonderful to see how two dogs in need of special care actually got a human who can take it.

[@garypederson2767]

They all seem to help each other, which is beautiful.

[@beberivera7011]

This was beautiful and heartbreaking. Zoe is blessed to have such a loving family during this most difficult time in her life.

[@patriciabroxton5616]

May God bless you for caring and taking care of them both! Dogs are God's creatures also. ❤

[@keeleyg2636]

It's so hard losing our fur babies. You have loved and cared for her - no matter what she may remember. When it's time, you'll know. Bless you, Hun.

[@kathe.o.]

This hurts my heart. At least in an animal quality of life is legally an option. BLESS her. LOVE her as long as you can.

[@mauricetucker8535]

These pups are "family" and I'm glad you're treating them that way ! Always love them and that'll be returned ten fold ! Thanks for caring and sharing ! God bless this family !!

[@r.mcbride2837]

Breaks my heart... we have to go through this with our elders, parents, pets. It's tough. I'm just happy that Zoe has had such a nice, happy life with her Mom and her family. When the time comes, their comfort will be in knowing she lived her best life and was loved dearly.

[@edk412]

What a beautiful family. She is so precious. Please let her live even with her dementia.

[@judybritt6288]

I've had pets all my life, mostly dogs and cats. They become part of the family and it's so heartbreaking when they go. I think it's even harder when the owner has to decide for them that it's time- you can't let your faithful friend suffer. To me, that's the only downside of pet ownership. I have seen many elderly pets who are still physically well, though they have gone blind and/or deaf. Those pets can continue to enjoy life with their families, if adjustments are made for them. My last 5 pets were all diagnosed with ailments that were progressive and had no cure. It's so hard to say goodbye, but you know when it's time. I always ask the vet, "Is he in pain?" I don't believe it's fair or humane to keep a beloved pet alive when their quality of life gets so bad and they are in pain. I believe we should be with our pets at the end, if possible. I've experienced the gamut of last minutes with my pets: one bit me (she was scared), one "kissed" me (licked my cheek- he knew I was there with him and, I believe, he was comforted by my presence). They give us so much love and joy that we owe it to them to help them over the rainbow bridge when it's time. When I lose a beloved dog or cat, I try to remember what I have told my friends who are grieving over the loss of their pet. "You gave him a happy life filled with love, kindness and fun activities. He trusted you and you never betrayed his trust. You did your best for him when he was sick to keep him comfortable and have a good life for as long as possible. In the end, you let him go when life became too hard for him. He's gone, but your memories will remain. He will always be in your heart."

[@lthurt2944]

Soooooooo very true! God Bless you for giving them the very best!💝💝💝💝

[@susannabonke8552]

This is an amazing Family. The way they care for those guests.

[@ellentravers7889]

My 15-year-old Jack Russell girl was always a very shy dog -- unusual for a JRT. But she was strong and energetic and had a great life, hiking in the mountains and going on adventures. The last couple of years, she became deaf, and then developed dementia. She was still physically so strong; on her good days, we would walk as far as she wanted and I would think, maybe the meds are helping at last. But she always went back to her fearful, anxious mode, especially at night. The last few days of her life, she couldn't sleep -- just walked around, panting nervously, looking at me for help, which I could not give. A nurse friend of mine compared it to what the elderly experience at sunset in the nursing home: sundowner syndrome. It was so sad. My beautiful, beloved Tallaulah. I have a little senior rescue now, but I will always miss my quirky Lu.

[@binaraghu846]

She is so lucky she has got her loving family with her. Bless you all for being there for her ♥️

[@Just-a-guy926]

Letting them go is hard when their quality of life is gone but it’s the last act of love you can give them.

[@ryanreed380]

Very true.

[@babeage]

You'll know when the time is right. They will look at you in that certain way. My dog came to me with "the look" and I had to be brave enough to let him go. It was sad, but such an honor to be there to help on that part of the journey too. You and your family seem like such a loving crew. Please enjoy this special and poignant time with your pup-pups. It's a magical time filled with love, light, lessons, joy, tears and MUCH laughter. No one's gone yet (and doesn't appear to be going any time soon), so enjoy each other instead of looking at the inevitable. Be here now. Thank you for sharing such a rich and powerful story. More to come. Much Love and Light and Strength to you and yours.

[@ArchieandAlfieBoxerDogs]

Thanks for sharing your story ❤️ (And thanks to Geobeats for giving so many beautiful stories a platform so that we can learn.) I’m so glad that she has you and Peewee 👌🏼 I hadn’t heard about or ever considered dementia in dogs, but having watched this, I wonder if my 12 year old boxer might be showing signs of it 🐶❤️

[@YourSuperFan]

My 17 year old dog has CCD - his early signs were "screaming" (not his usual bark) any time he was alone, he got lost in our own yard, he stopped sleeping and would pace in circles and I couldn't get him to stop. If your boxer is acting strange keep a journal for a few days and document everything, if things don't feel right take him to the vet, you know your dog's normal behavior more than anyone else.

[@ArchieandAlfieBoxerDogs]

Great idea re taking notes - thanks. He’s happy enough and we will continue to do the best for him ❤️🐶 I’m so sorry to hear about your dog 💔

[@ruthharper2499]

I couldn’t help but cry when I read this story. You are an angel to these beautiful babies and have given them the best life they could ever have. Many blessings to you and your sweet babies.

[@joeymcquilkin3670]

This is incredibly sad but also incredibly awesome at the same time… I really and truly commend you for taking these dogs in and giving them a loving home and continuing to grow/learn/adapt with them - I’m sure that it doesn’t seem like ‘work/xtra effort’ for you but to a lot of people just ONE of those dogs with disabilities would be a tough deterrent but you’ve really made their lives fantastic and as a fellow Pitbull owner and enthusiast and supporter I THANK YOU!

[@geoffkeller5337]

Thank you for taking such great care of Zoe and Peewee.

[@menendezmartin7096]

Gracias por contarnos tu experiencia, es muy importante. Gracias de corazón ❤️🇪🇦

[@patriciakay1637]

God Bless you Nikki and your very special doggies. How wonderful you all were brought together. ❤

[@Modifiedtaco]

This happened to my sweet pup too. It’s like she woke up one day and forgot who we were. I spent the majority of her life neck deep in alcohol and drugs. She saw me lose everything and detox. Luckily the last year of her life I had finally gotten it together. I was able to take care of her after she always looked out for me. One thing in recovery you learn is patience. Have to clean an elderly dog who falls in her poop and then walks thru it at night is patience testing. True love is cleaning a dog at 4 in the morning. She went deaf and certainly was blind. But she was still my dog and my best friend. After a very long year and a fast decline in health the day came that we all dread. I woke up early and got her out. She was ready and so were we. I kissed her on her head and left for work. I passed the place I used to pick up. I knew if I went and got high id let her down. She crossed the bridge and ran to my dad. He has been waiting for a couple of years to see her again. I can’t wait to see them. I do carry them with me, memories of good and bad. I miss them so much.

[@KristiLEvans1]

Keep going, man. I’m in recovery, too. It’s worth it to finally be present when need presents itself

[@MamaLena123]

It's so wonderful you still have them around to spoil. They both seem well loved. I lost my pup four years ago. I still think about her everyday, and still can't talk about her much or I start crying.

[@lynnlynn9124]

It's hard to read the comments when my eyes are tearing up. I know my time is coming with my baby, and I've spent that last two years always asking myself if today is the last day would I regret not doing anything when I had the chance e.g. taking him for a walk, playing with him, skating him in his stroller (he just had surgery so no super walks allowed yet), visiting puppy dog friends... I'm so happy that Zoe has a mom who is willing to make every single day safe and comfy. And her devotion to a deaf dog is just as admirable. I wish the world had more people like Zoe's mommy.

[@lulute1971]

Stay strong. Love and prayers🧡

[@lynnlynn9124]

@@lulute1971 thank you 💕

[@stevec6455]

Bless their hearts. Thank you for your story about this great pooch. We have a senior 13 yr old Aussie, Copper, who forgets what we are trying to do just between the house and the truck. But his little buddy, a chiweenie, keeps him active. These dogs are gifts from God. As I always say, bless their hearts and thank you God for these wonderful gifts.

[@waltblackadar4690]

I hear you. Mine is 17 years old, he's entirely deaf, cataracts (but still can see), has the shakes from getting Lime Disease many years ago and exhibits mild dementia. But he seems to be happy, he gets around okay and safe, warm and comfortable. When he's not then we'll do the responsible thing but until then we keep the old grey man around.

[@PMA65537]

Isn't Lime Disease cured by cuckoo clocks? Maybe your dog has Lyme Disease.

[@waltblackadar4690]

@@PMA65537 Nah, he's allergic to citrus.

[@martytruelove5026]

Those dogs are very Lucky you are there for them.You have a Mammoth Heart and you have kept her smiling throughout.Thanks for being so kind.

[@user-du8ku1wd4m]

They often have cataracts and deafness. Both of those can very much cause dementia.

[@loritouma5899]

How wonderful person that you can cared for these beautiful dogs

[@pransachoubey7595]

That made me cry

[@missv5439]

This just breaks my absolutely already tender heart I just prayed God will touch this Precious Puppy She is Beyond Precious ...Please give her Huggzz ♥️🌹🌹🌹♥️🌹🌹🌹♥️🌹🌹🌹♥️🌹🌹🌹♥️

[@millenialsmom2214]

I had no idea! We always just referred to it as "old timers". But why couldn't they be susceptible to dementia? Poor old girl. Thank goodness she has your family to make her last days loving ❤ Side note: SLAVA UKRAINE 🇺🇦

[@LFetterman7903]

I agree, you’re doing such a wonderful job with both dogs! They’re both precious! Bless you!

[@sonysgirl6301]

You are a wonderful owner ❤🙂

[@olgasais6984]

That’s true love thank you for loving these beautiful angels.

[@LouLouJ2020J]

15 🙌🏼 she lived a long good life ! Beautiful pup deserves all the love and respect ❤️

[@yvonnecharlton3034]

You are a wonderful owner & your dog's are adorable! Teaching sign language to your dog is amazing! And your old dog has had an amazing life with you. Your love shine's through. Xxx

[@sandraross4770]

You are the most wonderful mom..always and forever ❤️❤️👍🏻👍🏻🎉🙏

[@DCrane925]

She's so sweet God bless her This is really heartbreaking I'm so glad she has you and will be well taken care of

[@maryfernando7545]

If everyone has a heart as you have for your dogs I am sure it will be a much better world for all animals. Thank you for showing how it can be achieved - being kind

[@francescarobinsons6324]

ENJOY her every moment! So glad you will always be there for her! And your character shows you will always be there for her brother when he suffers her loss and is grieving too.