"Here Comes The Reverse Psychology"

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"Subject: My Man Says I Went From WAP To HAP
Dear Steve and Shirley,
I’m a 30-year-old mother with 3 children. My children’s father and I have been together over 10 years so let me say this before you bash me… he has asked to marry me him several times and I respectfully declined because we need to go to therapy before we get married. Here’s why… My confidence is at an all-time low because my children’s father has cheated many times. Whenever I confront him, his exact words are, “Your sex is very boring and you complain too much.” When the new Meg the Stallion and Cardi B song came out, he even joked that I’ve gone from WAP to HAP, meaning I have Horrible A$$ P. My response was, “Well I wouldn’t complain as much and would do a better job in the bedroom if you were half the man you used to be.” I’m often tired from work and running around with 3 children so he blames me for our lackluster sex life and not ever being in the mood. I’ve obliged him many nights and would just lie there, trying not to fall asleep until the sex was over. But now years later and after all the cheating, it has affected my ability to perform in the bedroom. I’ve heard it’s a mental thing but I’m not sure why I can’t get excited or in the mood. I know that if I can’t please him, he’s going to get it somewhere else. Just recently we got into a big argument and he yelled out that I have some whack a$$ kitty! He apologized a few minutes later, but this is affecting my confidence. He refuses to go to therapy, so should I take my three children and leave him?"

[@MichaelDavis-ne6dc]

If you continue to stay with a person that repeatedly cheat on you Don't expect him to change 🕵️if he knows he can have you and all the other women he wants ...WHY would he STOP cheating and JUST be with you in a monogamous relationship??🤔 You have shown him that he can have all the Other women plus you 🤸👀🤓🤕🤔😷

[@dougfredricks2017]

"When a person shows you Who they are. Believe them the First time"- Maya Angelou. I also add that a person is Never more like the Devil than when they lie. Just my $.015

[@belunu4980]

Uncle Steve, can you please put more videos of your speaking on this channel? I used to be really down until I discovered your TV Show online. My life turned around and I became very motivated and bold by just watching you. But once your show ended, I became down again as I had no source of motivation. Because truly I don’t have the best support system. It’s only the Bible and you that kept me going. Please make more videos like this instead of just the audio. It’s nice to watch you speak. Thank you in advance uncle Steve.

[@thatsright4296]

They have a podcast

[@consciousmeka3740]

Women have all the power but don’t know how to use it. Abusing a mans ego hurts a man worse than it hurts a woman. When she stop caring he will act different.

[@sandralovesjesus0729]

You’re telling the truth Steve!!!

[@terrancejones3136]

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[@j-dubdmg1]

The l.a.p....😂🤣😂🤣

[@Angel.Face.123]

Omg. The HAP vs LAP took me all the way out 😆😂

[@jonitacalhoun5889]

That's a great one Dr. Harvey. Perfection!

[@tamudefoe7115]

YAASSSSSSSSS💥tellem UNC steve💞

[@karensolomon7689]

Oh that is so true I had a friend that told me after we have been talking for two years that I was too fat now two years later he’s texting me and FaceTime in me and he is too fat I managed to lose the weight for myself

[@freetownwoman3943]

she needs to take her self-esteem out of the toilet and leave him alone

[@ladyruler9585]

This woman needs to leave him and get some therapy. Multiple kids by a habitual cheater who talks down on you = classic low self-esteem.

[@Price8903]

I thought HAP was going to stand for hairy. He def is playing mind games to keep her self esteem low so she doesn’t go anywhere

[@l.lockleer8836]

The mistake here now is that this woman needs to get her 3 kids and leave ol' "LAP", the limpster

[@kosewa1]

Preach Uncle Steve!!!

[@raalisrael5355]

This was on point

[@EclecticVibess]

Bring it Steve -

[@marilynfloyd6062]

PREACH !!!

[@kianaporter9836]

Preach

[@farrahbluestone2455]

Hilarious! I love it!

[@annadavis6361]

Preach!!!!!!!!!!

[@elishiataylor4030]

Free yourself and him

[@BellaKae1923]

Is this Derrick Jaxn wife writing this letter??🤔

[@purplebuttafly8]

She was crazy enough to marry this thang! He's obviously using her for his other needs!! And sex ain't it!! 🤣🤣🤣 Where do y'all find these fools willing to proudly share this stuff?! They're beyond therapy!!

[@teliciasmith3552]

He married AND made 3 kids so the "P" was good at some point

[@khaalis9385]

I always told all five of my chil'ren -- People are always on their BEST behavior while dating. Obviously Buddy is operating on his best behavior in this Strawberry Letter. Go on, Steve, with yo' initials!

[@nettabeatty950]

Omg Steve is fool😂😂😂😂

[@DerwinDaDestroyer]

10 years of H.A.P. will make you serve for the W.A.P.

[@MrBeautiful2908]

Do people understand how dangerous it is cheat on somebody with the amount of STDs going on in this world? People really shouldn’t play with peoples feelings who want to be in a relationship. There’s an old saying, we often pay more attention to those who ignore us, but we ignore those who adore us. I’ll say it like this if you’re not ready to be in a relationship, just be by your lonesome. A woman’s heart is precious like a clay pot. She takes that time to mold the clay carefully and thoroughly through unconditional love if you break it or shatter it in any way, shape or form not only have you destroyed the woman’s heart you’ve destroyed her trust, her well-being, her compassion and her unconditional love for you, and she will hold up a severe amount of resentment toward you or any other person that comes within 30 feet of her. So my advice don’t play with peoples feelings. It is extremely dangerous.

[@teliciasmith3552]

Sometimes the P so little hell without the belly, just can't see it, never could

[@teliciasmith3552]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂

[@vanessapercy5882]

🤣🤣🤣

[@sharonjean-paul3832]

🤣🤣🤣