It Doesn't Sound Like She's The One For Him 🧐

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"Subject: Sexual Expectations
Dear Steve and Shirley,
I’m a 33-year-old woman and I’ve been in a relationship for a year with a man that sends me mixed signals. We haven’t had sex because he’s the assistant pastor at church. I was a very sexual person before I met him and it’s hard for me to lie next to him without wanting to rip his clothes off. He decided to compromise so that I can get some kind of satisfaction. He allows me to provide oral stimulation to him whenever I want. I know that sounds crazy, but it has helped me. After the first couple of times, I thought maybe he would return the favor to me. He told me that he doesn’t do that. I asked him what’s the difference in saving his soul, if he allowed me to ruin mine? He went into this whole long rant about scripture and I still don’t understand what part of the Bible he was referring to. He loves for me to walk around without clothes on so he can look at me. I’ve never seen a man that is as strong willed as him. He expects me to take showers with him and he spoons with me every night that we spend together. I can’t rest most nights because I want him so bad. I think it’s some kind of test and he wants me to pass but I had a come to Jesus meeting with him this past weekend and now he’s pulled away from me. I told him I have sexual expectations and he reiterated that he isn’t having sex before marriage and our relationship is too new to tell if we’ll end up together. I told him to let me know when he figures it out and until then, my mouth is off limits for his lil “friend.” He got upset and he’s pulled away. Was I too forward with how I said it? What if he’s the one for me and I messed it up? Please advise."

[@ruminantmelanoid5444]

She's getting played. She is just something to pass the time with until he finds what he really wants. That is all.

[@prettyfaceanb]

FACTS

[@Delfin_Azul]

Popsicles and cookies 🍪....Try and keep up Shirley! 😂😂😂😂

[@willmallory9085]

Steve is telling the truth!

[@qcoldgame5]

Thats a lie

[@Delfin_Azul]

😄😄😄 Steve said you can't walk💃 past twice! 😂😂😂

[@whipp5894]

" Hey Lunell " 😆 Wypka

[@ChefAndreMaxwell]

I like cookies. And I'm gay! LOL

[@Delfin_Azul]

😂😂😂😂 Make it plain Steve!

[@reallyshortofthegloryofgod6180]

Hey Steve? You know you look like Luenell with a mustache

[@qcoldgame5]

Lol ever since they made him stop wearing that high top wig

[@arvin24ph]

Sexual immorality is a sin. Did your pastor know that? It is not good for a man to have sexual contact with a woman. And Apostle Paul said clearly before you engage in sexual relationship you must be married. 1 Corinthians 7:1-2 (ESV) 1 Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2 But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

[@4biz]

LOVE U STEVE

[@donc2005]

Steve’s lips are getting black as I don’t know what. Them dang on cigars. Wow.

[@jumentu9385]

This dude is extremely weird!! After a few sucks I gotta get up in ya woman lol. He has another woman or he's not attracted to her.

[@1morganpark]

LADY!!?! OH PLEASE STOP BEING PLAYED LIKE A SOY BEAN BURGER.... LET'S HAVE SELF WORTH LADIES!!!

[@lillianwalton6466]

You are pleasing him not you

[@josephq2228]

💜2021✨ PrayerChangesThings #MillenniumLanceAndTheOpenScroll 🌹 keeping the Faith........ #Daniel Chapters 8 thru 12 🎠🌈🌈🌈💍🌈🌈🌈🔥 honoring St. Martin de Porres 🙏#BicentennialPrayer 💜😎

[@keithlove2329]

The two don't exist. Let me repeat that the two don't exist when your heart it's not in the right place of the word itself. That's when manipulation come and place I wish all my people what's stopped pudding. And pastors and preachers in reverence or any other name that they use . The two don't exist in the same space what is a negative and ones appositive