Hey Steve: I’m Not Comfortable Hugging My Momma! II STEVE HARVEY

[@MyWayWendy]

Sometimes a Hug is all you need to make you feel Better..

[@mrEspinoza1]

True

[@GennieceSledge]

Most times. I’m on your vibe my darling. 💓✨

[@simonstevenson6686]

@Nyx Esmeray No

[@SteveTVShow]

Absolutely! 🥰

[@famous2273]

Can I get a hug🥺🥺

[@munalove8368]

Hug mom as much as possible ♥️

[@toryb5212]

I could tell the 1st girl has serious anxiety around hugging people. It's definitely ranks low on her love language. However, just the thought of not hugging my mom brings out pure emotions for me. I do hope she has learned to at least overcome that part of her anxiety.

[@SvenicusGermainus]

My Mom has been very manipulative and abusive my entire life so I completely understand not wanting to hug her Mom. I'm 37 and live across the country but she still tries to control my life.

[@toryb5212]

@@SvenicusGermainus I didn't get a sense that her mom was that way, but I have seen my share of horrible parents so I get it. It seems that something tragic did happen for her to be so anxiety driven though.

[@SvenicusGermainus]

@@PERFECTDARK10 some people don't deserve forgiveness though. If they aren't remorseful for what they did then they don't deserve forgiveness.

[@Jordy_NL]

I don't see why she would have to overcome that in order to be able to hug her mom, if that's what you mean. She doesn't want to do it. That's ok. Her problem is that she doesn't know how to respect her own boundaries.

[@hyacinthdibley2420]

I have the best parents but I never even considered the fact that we weren't a hugging family until I was in my 20s and we started moving out. Growing up, the only time we hugged was after returning from a loooooong travel and we'd hug and be thankful for seeing that person alive and back safely. Now in our 30s, we hug very often but our (at least MY) hugs are reserved for close friends and family, so when meeting new people, i HATE hugging them. Usually I extend my hand for a handshake which ends up with me getting weird looks from people. At this point, i don't care anymore.

[@Yaya_Just_Visiting]

Steve still got his common sense.👏🏾👏🏾 That and his delivery style+ 😁 makes him so likable! 💕

[@OneWomanMan888]

It's his job.

[@JonasTisell]

@@OneWomanMan888 He still does his job perfectly?

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@JonasTisell Not really that's not the question she asked.

[@vernonramirez8904]

He's so wise

[@pinar5673]

Nothing to do with common sense

[@RILLAMAN84]

I’am not much of a hugger myself, but I’ll hug my mother any time. I haven’t seen my mother in over 3 years. I live in Florida, she’s in Texas. I personally don’t like touching people is my problem🤷🏽‍♂️. And I don’t like shaking peoples hands. I’ve seen enough to shut all of that down. Men using the bather, then walk right out. After peeing, and taking a crap, heck no.

[@CrumCringle]

I hug everyone, friends and family, so long as they're comfortable with it. i guess it just depends how you grew up.

[@singhtv1911]

Don't read my name :::::

[@OneWomanMan888]

She's crazy, what's wrong with hugging your mom?

[@nickolasdennis4373]

True

[@peachesandpoets]

How about you just thank whatever you believe in that you don't have her kind of trauma instead of talking about your personal business

[@lilsted]

@@OneWomanMan888 what if she got anxiety problems when hugging people. Not all born the same

[@mz.phatbaldkat7839]

Steve cracked me up when he was telling the lady to start disconnecting parts off of her mother's 🚗. 😂😂😂

[@michaeldavid9069]

Hello beautiful I admire your smile you highly look like a goddess God must have abide time to create such a beauty 😍

[@cafilius3003]

I’m with her. I LOATHE hugging people, my mother included. I hate being touched. Creeps me out. It always has.

[@dreamyheart7857]

Watch teal swan

[@Toby8845]

Sounds like some unresolved trauma..

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

@ca omfg what's wrong with you??? Like SERIOUSLY!!! I'm really disturbed that you can't stand hugging, something that is SO WHOLESOME, so much love and affection!!! Like what's wrong with you that you are this disturbed!!!?

[@GameOn71213]

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet at 0:09 you can she stopped herself from getting emotional

[@mrwendigo3374]

Sounds like a u problem. But damn y ur own momma tho

[@nancysmith3400]

Sometimes a hug is cringy no matter who it is. Being a very sensitive empathic person, I feel more than most people. Sometimes people are energy vampires or dumpers and it's best to not hug or you will not feel good during or after. You know what I'm saying if you are a sensitive, please don't tell her or anyone to touch if it doesn't feel right to them. Thank you for being aware and accepting of our differences.

[@1whatsappme994]

Helpline🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀

[@Whatever-t9s]

BINGO- energy Vampires- no wonder I stopped inviting people over- n opening doors

[@nancysmith3400]

@@chatty_6814 you didn't know my mother's hugs, she is who I am talking about. I guess you had a different kind of mother, I am happy for you.

[@Masowe.]

well, growing up in a huge family was brilliant. There was so much love and care. However, we never hug or talk about any feelings. Fast forward, I wanted a long term relationship and I found my amazing husband who really wants hugs. Now I love hugs. Give it practice and do it for yourself baby girl, very soon you could be on the other side❣

[@OneWomanMan888]

Do you understand her question???

[@Masowe.]

@@OneWomanMan888 I believe so, she wants to do it, but isn't comfortable doing it. I forced myself for a few so I think she can do it too

[@OneWomanMan888]

You mean to say she has to marry first like you.

[@OneWomanMan888]

@@Masowe. when you get married you don't have to force yourself to hug. lol 🤣

[@Masowe.]

@@OneWomanMan888 well I did right before we got engaged. And I didn't have to, I wanted to. Everything else was great and I didn't want the love of my life to feel bad and insecure for reasons that I could act on after everything he was doing for me. Of course, he stood by me for more than 2 years regardless so me wanting him to be happy caused me to work on hugs

[@patriciagurwitz509]

I was very much like this young lady in my youth. Then before I knew it, my mother started to mentally and physically decline. Those days pasted much too quickly, and now I look back and regret, not hugging her, and being more affectionate when I had every opportunity. Some of those painful lessons are often learned when it’s too late. She was one of 13 children and her parents never had time to give each child affection. That’s what she learned and showed me by no fault of her own😢💕

[@dannyhenderson5337]

Tell it steve I wish I still had all my family now I would proudly hug them all

[@karonkommedal4612]

One can be feeling a little flat but a big hug is all it takes to make it go away....

[@peggymiller3045]

Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers! Your production values on this show are fantastic! Thank you for that, too!!

[@gzdPr]

Steve, you are a great human being!!!

[@connorkitchen7285]

I feel bad for that first girl. Who knows why she doesn’t like hugging? Who knows if she has severe trauma that causes her to just hate touch altogether? She asked for help getting her mom to stop forcing her to hug everyone at her family gatherings, and he just blasted her.

[@princessk5002]

Yeah was saying she probably dealt with some form of trauma.

[@peachesandpoets]

They don't care. Look at the stupid comments

[@Livelaugh44]

Don’t ask if you don’t want peoples opinions lol plain and simple.

[@GameOn71213]

@@Livelaugh44 at 0:09 you can hear the almost cry or the crack in her voice

[@wendylatham2491]

Honestly I love Steve Harvey but he is wrong on this one. She shouldn’t be made to be uncomfortable. You could tell she has some sort of serious trauma. Nobody should have to be forced to touch or hug. Then the very next woman is complaining about her husbands breath and he tells her to cut him off don’t let him get close. Makes no sense.

[@elkee3029]

The young lady who does not feel comfortable hugging ( even her mother) should be respected of her feelings, her personal space. She never said she did not love or respected her mother or others who want a hugs. She may not be an affectionate person.

[@whatsappme8603]

Thanks for watching Massage me I have something essential for you 💌

[@Jordy_NL]

I agree. I love hugging myself, but I think we have to respect people's physical boundaries. That's a no-brainer to me.

[@nelsonbeltran9720]

All Steve's programs never bored me, it teaches me, i learned more and the best of all are, i just can't stop smiling into laughing! What a man! My respect!👏💞🇵🇭

[@matshabalalaeleki]

Disconnect the battery 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣starter wire,alternator🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tommysumaila7388]

Love your show Steve it is an inspiration to me from Gambia

[@SteveTVShow]

Thank you for being a fan!

[@oumaimaaarabate7946]

Thank you Sir Steve..

[@whatsappme8603]

Thanks for watching Massage me I have something essential for you 💌 💌🤙

[@canyonmcelroy9009]

I’m similar to the first girl. I think hugging is cringe, I’m also very self conscious and insecure so hugging isn’t the best, if I was there I would tell her, that you don’t hug for you, you hug for the people you love. They need to know you love them and a good way to do that is to hug. Sometimes we sacrifice what we do and how we act for people we care about. I hug my brothers and sisters and mom because I know that we need that connection.

[@monacannon6644]

Lol... when Steve said. Disconnect the battery! Just keep taking stuff off the car.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@AnkitKumar-iz9yc]

Steve u r fab💜💝

[@debieroep8460]

Love is not selfish you might not like to hug but mom are precious. U will understand after they are no more

[@AaronMetallion]

I have a strong feeling the first girl has an "Avoidant Attachment style" (John Bowlby's Attachment Theory). Perhaps as a child she experienced emotionally unavailable caregivers, parents had a divorce, or didn't tend to her needs. So she had to learn in early childhood to be self-reliant, and averse to any emotional intimacy. If you see any kids that get hurt or bullied, and they just cry by themselves, without looking for support, while other kids run to teachers / guardians, that's what it is. These kids as adults tend to feel threatened whenever they feel vulnerable, they tend to not like physical contact, commitment, intimacy of any sort, relationships that have healthy co-dependence, since they tend to want hyper-independence. This is childhood trauma that often becomes a subconscious / unconscious pattern, and as my man Carl Jung said "Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate." That's why I felt for her. She didn't know why, and was craving for some kind of insight to work with. A reason, a diagnosis, something. Hope she finds it in the comments section.

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@camillesutton7564]

Thank you. I agree 💯💯. It's more than natural, its psychological. God bless her young heart, hope she receives intervention.

[@sounsure9108]

Autism

[@blueturtle1719]

Steve Harvey was hilarious when he told that daughter to disconnect the battery. It is super hard to tell your own elderly mother or father to stop driving when they are super unsafe on the road, from my own personal experience. I'm glad Steve had insight re: that.

[@debbieryan2768]

I love ur responses, they all make sense...

[@lshine5368]

Steve is not an EXPERT he just gives advice what he thinks is right He shouldn’t embarrass People have a story and also we come from all different walks of life…….

[@sonvan693]

Steve is such a great man he has answer to sooo many problem ❤❤❤❤❤ may yr days be long 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank u for sharing yr love in yr videos Steve

[@caroldayzz9678]

Great show!!

[@SteveTVShow]

Thank you!

[@thetaaooma]

Awwwnn 🥹

[@roaming1996]

I feel her, my mom isn’t an hugger either, very rarely am I compelled to hug someone the vibes gonna be there

[@stephencatchdudeknight4623]

Screaming and hola, SH said it best.

[@Nyckcole]

I wish I could hug my mama 😢 gone but not forgotten

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

You are not her. This is not about you.

[@tibuyilehlophe5271]

Me too girl

[@InhaleSkyExhaleStars]

i cant hug most people as well.. especially my mother. i just DO NOT click with her, she has hurt me so bad when i was younger physicly and still does, but mentally (with her words) and then you expect me to hug her, hell no. before i was praying to hug her one time in my life at least, but i realised i can't hug someone that i don't love.. so now i'm over it! 👍🏽👍🏽

[@yolandawilson6619]

Get over it. It isn't worth it. You'll be held accountable for your words and actions toward her as well as hers toward you and you won't be justified. You'll never know the core of your mother's issues, only God will so you could be setting yourself up for another level of despair thinking you're justified in this. Yall doing it wrong...

[@JoyBoy0606]

That woman is crazy! Hugs are the best!

[@shawmou3493]

It’s the lady! It’s the girl!

[@stormapex2122]

it cringes to hug yo momma?? what? who tf are these people?

[@raaliyocadeey5605]

How can you not hugging your mom🥺

[@gzdPr]

She's a damaged Soul!

[@peachesandpoets]

Trauma

[@GameOn71213]

You can hear at 0:09 her voice cracking she stopped herself from getting emotional

[@Carousel5883]

Trauma or Asian...it's not our custom

[@molliwilson5639]

“ start hugging your mom with your damn crazy self” my thoughts exactly..

[@ummisspace6627]

Is not easy if u not a hugger. 😮 we love our mother and families. Friends but hugs ….. Ihelpppp

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

You got to hug your mom

[@powerinthebloodofjesusbloo7244]

I'm learning everyday through your show Mr Steve. I dream is to meet you one day, yes I will Mr Steve

[@Tenseiken_]

You can show love and emotions to your family in an ocean of ways. If you have some kinda trauma or condition where hugging becomes a big problem the answer isn't: "just do it lol." Steve's basicly saying get over your fear or whatever you have and hug your mother, based on his own emotions. It's important to conquer fear, trauma or whatever it is that stops you, but if you're not ready then you're just not ready yet. A pity we didn't get the scoop as to what's up with the hugging. She didn't really give any meat.

[@darylwirth9423]

I’m the same. Other than grandchildren and parents.

[@mansuurabdulaziz2034]

I LOVE WHAY YOU DO BR. STEVE

[@ItsJoshie2]

Im with her i don't like hugging people especially my family. Because i have'nt gotten a hug in a very long time

[@kotarojujo7628]

But your ass into this world... Fax

[@jbzhummerh2gamer]

This was a good segment

[@DeepakKumar-kv6ey]

one of my fev show ❤

[@awatson8832]

Who says she has to hug? If she's not comfortable with it then she doesn't have to.

[@hopefull3387]

Come on, her momma. She can at least hug her mom.

[@awatson8832]

@@hopefull3387 the mother can respect her

[@simonstevenson6686]

@@awatson8832 No her daughter can respect her mother.

[@jasminewilliams5426]

My mom doesn’t like hugs really. She really doesn’t like for people to touch her or be really close to her. But that doesn’t steam from any type of trauma. Because she didn’t go through trauma that deals with touching or affection period. So just to let this be known that everything doesn’t always steam from trauma and that there are many people who don’t like to be hugged or touched like that. ( Without trauma even being a real issue. ) so Steve wasn’t being rude in anyway because she said that hugs just make her cringe. Nothing about trauma 🙄🙄 also get that there are people who were just born in a environment were there family didn’t hug as much like others. But still showed love in many ways.

[@yehldyehld]

Steve needs more nuances in cases of anxiety such as this. It may not be as simple as "hug your momma" as he says.

[@simonstevenson6686]

No

[@jasonoludemi2726]

Extended family maybe, but your mother? No!

[@KiasLifestyle]

Hug u momma

[@dianpowell6416]

Brilliant idea Steve

[@greengoblin6009]

You tell them Steve...

[@1whatsappme994]

ᵀᴴᴬᴺᴷˢ ᶠᴼᴿ ᵂᴬᵀᶜᴴᴵᴺᴳ. ˢᴱᴺᴰ ᴬ ᴰᴵᴿᴱᶜᵀ ᴹᴱˢˢᴬᴳᴱ ᴿᴵᴳᴴᵀ ᴬᵂᴬᵞ ᶠᴼᴿ ᴹᴼᴿᴱ ᴵᴺᶠᴼ ᴬᴺᴰ ᴳᵁᴵᴰᴬᴺᶜᴱ📝☝️!!! 📊..

[@Livelaugh44]

HAHA I can’t believe how many people are getting mad at him for saying that she should hug her Mom! Jezz you can never make people happy on the internet 😭😂😂😂😂

[@dend.joshua3737]

She's not huging his mom until she became one... Mom will give up her life for her child and deserve no hug?.. 😭😁👍🏻

[@crucisnh]

Steve was correct about disconnecting the battery. That's what we did with our grandma. It didn't take long for her to get the message.

[@2centslv]

Hug ya momma! That’s a piece of peace.

[@christinan005]

My oldest is like this and it hurts my feeling she doesn't say she loves me o anything.she wasn't brought up like that. I used to cry alot about it now I'm so numb to it.i learned no yo try to hug her in public bc she has embarrassed me so many times by shrugging me off like I'm dirty if I hug on her.it actually hurts really bad. So I'm confused my other kids aren't like that ☹ please don't treat u mother like that. Especially when they do everything they can for u and make sacrifice after sacrifice for u. One day u mother will die and u won't be able to hug u back. Don't have a y regrets..stay blessed

[@kessii2197]

Maybe you should find out why it's like that. Maybe something could've happened to her that you need to inquire about and seek HELP for her. Maybe she is crying out for HELP.

[@Hannah-201]

My adult daughter is like that too since she was little. She doesn't like people hugging her, occasionally she might quickly give me a hug on her terms but it's rare. I've asked her why, she just says she doesn't like it with anyone. It hurts badly cause I'm her mommy and I'm a hugger, but I have learned to accept it and adapt and realise there is other ways we can bond and show affection without the hugs..like spending time together, putting my hand on her shoulder, brushing her hair, going out places together, she shows me affection in other ways like buying me something or just talking with me, doing activities together. Hope this helps.

[@kimberlyholbrook5032]

Stop forcing your children to hug people.. Teach kids that hugs are an expression of love, and they get to choose who receives them.. Many of these people kids are forced to hug are strangers to them & frankly don't deserve to invade their personal space. This is a trauma response, and now this girl isn't even comfortable hugging her own mom.

[@moureenotieno9060]

For example I love singing but I can't write my own songs is singing still my gift

[@jenniferw5095]

Amen!!

[@1whatsappme994]

Helpline🚀🚀🚀🚀🚀

[@sportlegend4444]

My sister does the same thing she doesn’t hug anyone

[@talentjackson1826]

The day l will meet this man is gonna be my best day ever .S

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@WarriorPrincess615]

Physical touch is my love language and as such I don't want to hug people I don't love

[@inezgusa01]

Steve was all hood in this episode.

[@adamkhamis6408]

This stave genius ❤

[@1whatsappme994]

Thanks for your comment. write me for mentorship ♥️⤴️

[@ishpreetkaur970]

I can’t hug my mom too, she caused so much pain to me I know she really cares about me but she did so many wrong things. I’m just not able to hug my mom

[@rahmaosman3543]

She’s gonna fell in love with someone and she’s gonna be the one saying why don’t you hug me, don’t you love me anymore?😂😂😂

[@jonathanfactor6688]

Great video thanks

[@1whatsappme994]

Thanks for your comment. write me for mentorship ♥️⤴️

[@richardgeisler7664]

I guess she was hurt. Disconnect the battery makes me laugh so hard 🤣

[@michaeldavid9069]

Hello beautiful I admire your smile you highly look like a goddess God must have abide time to create such a beauty 😍

[@just_felixx1]

I love how person that had a question it start with before I ask my question just know “ i do hug my mom btw “ 😭😂😂 they on that girl

[@jerryupp239]

Hey Steve. This is for the last person who asked a question. Have the cops take her license

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@louise_fadziso]

😭😭m a hugger i cant stand not being hugged

[@CalvinRock]

As someone who isn't hugger, I can somewhat relate

[@brendaclark6681]

Hey Steve make her hug everyone in the audience to make up for it and send her home to hug mom

[@Elohims.favorite1]

Sometimes a broken heart, a brokeness from betrayal, abuse, and types of autism cause people to not want to be close. If a mom has ignored a childs reports of hurt and told others its not happening, that type of thing can cause a huge erosion in a childs heart 💔.

[@Nancy-vt3xm]

I love steve.

[@whatsappme8603]

Thanks for watching Massage me I have something essential for you 💌 💌

[@fyalcouye5158]

Hello guys stive I love your show

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@sahoward62]

nothing wrong with garlic lol

[@michaeldavid9069]

Hello beautiful I admire your smile you highly look like a goddess God must have abide time to create such a beauty 😍

[@drinkupheartiesyoho9442]

Honestly all my life I've never hugged anyone, no matter my own father or other relative, because it's weird to me or we're not really close to each other

[@destinychibuzor3630]

Everybody just wanna ask Steve help with things they can advice themselves on.

[@oneperson5760]

She should hug her mama, but shes not required to hug anybody else. Til she has babies. Then, she needs to hold them.

[@antonialovesyou4462]

I don't like touch peoples hands so no hand shaking here I'd rather hug. #TheOneArmHug

[@net6654]

I’m not a hugger, but it started from my parents…they never hugged me.

[@1whatsappme994]

Thanks. Send a direct message for more info and guidance 👆•

[@nevkrisjackson8065]

My darling husband who died recently loved garlic & so did I. Love making every morning keeps you happy 😎Enjoy the time with your husband while you can

[@floydbanks1777]

I know a mother who can't hug her kids but can beat them.

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@DemetriusObryan]

What kinda child who was brought in to this world does not hug there parent after everything they have done for you they've been by your side, they supported you, AND they gave you their love and effects towards and this girl don't hug her parents She should be a shamed in the future wants her folks she cares about leaving this a may finally leave this world and then she'll regret it for sure

[@septembertorpy6899]

I was like that when I was young. But my mama is gone now and I wish I could hug her one more time. You don't get your mama forever

[@user-tk4qd8dj1p]

Anxiety or trauma likely. Bonding is a human need and associated with pleasure if feel safe, automated. So don't feel safe with them or in general.

[@jeaniesanchez-hippolyte4747]

My mom isn't around any more for me to hug so for those who still have their moms hugs her every moment you get😥😢😭🤧

[@1whatsappme994]

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[@rachaelworley590]

I don't like being touched either. I'll give someone a hug but I have to be the one to give it out, I push the other person away if they try to hug me. But I deal with ALOT of child hood trama, and other trama. I now have some many mental health issues that I'm really not a fun person to be around if you don't know me. But once you get to know me it different.

[@illnamethisaccountlater4762]

I agree with the first girl, I hate hugging people.

[@teachertransformed2813]

Oh noo, I wish he didn't do that to Giovanna, the first person. I have problems with touch, including hugging people, and a big part of the trauma that's worsened the problem is being forced to hug family members. Mom, uncle, cousin, or not, you don't owe anybody your mental health just so they can feel good touching you. There are many ways to show affection without touching someone against their will & comfort, and the fact that someone has problems with touch doesn't mean they have problems with the other person. I've been fortunate to be in physical therapy for this now, which I didn't know existed, and you'll be shocked when the professionals explain to you why you have problems with touch, however that looks for you. you know someone with touch issues, don't force them to let other people touch them and don't force them to touch other people. There's therapy and treatment for this, even if you were never abused or injured before. Some people are born with Tactile Defensiveness, and situations like this worsen it. Giovanna was not really happy, and was just done a disservice, but Steve probably didn't know because most people do this too. I hope he learns from our responses as people in a similar situation to Giovanna.

[@Whatever-t9s]

When you touch/ hug someone-you are exchanging energy- be careful. This is why many cultures they don't hug/ shake hands even.

[@ugbabeaako]

Disconnect the battery 😂😂😂

[@tyquanprehay1987]

back it up ,back it up,back it up ,back it back

[@afemaie4130]

She said something though that stuck out. She said her mom makes her hug everyone who comes in the home. Please don’t force your children to hug anyone they do not want to. Someone probably hugged her and made her uncomfortable and that’s why she’s so averse to it. She might not even understand where the aversion comes from but something likely happened if she was always made to hug every “uncle”.

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Exactly!

[@nybsbfan18]

If u want to hug somebody u don't know that well, ask first.