I was mourning over the loss of a dream. We weren't together long enough for me to experience all the ugly sides of narcissism. I saw the light after four months, two of which were the lovebombing phase. I thought I had finally found the one I had been waiting and hoping for. That my single days were over. I thought I had found someone amazing. A dream coming true. I mourn the death of that dream.
@suestatham-yi4uo5 ай бұрын
My mother was a narcissist. At age 60, I went no contact. It was painful, initially, but over time, my life improved. In fact, the world became a better, happier place in every aspect of my life. A weight was lifted off my shoulders, I was free of walking on eggshells, and " the sun came out." It is not until you are free of them that you realise how much life can be better without them in it.
@talonsarise5 ай бұрын
Same with my mother. The pain of letting go of the grief and guilt eventually faded the longer I was free from her grip. Some family members had to go as well, the enablers and narcs themselves. Very hard at first, but I stood firm in my decision and am feeling more powerful every day. I am so grateful to HG and other reputable KZbinrs for leading me through this extremely difficult process. Peace is worth the pain!
@suestatham-yi4uo5 ай бұрын
@talonsarise looking back on my experiences with my mother, while we stay connected, we are, unconsciously, enabling them to hurt us.
@talonsarise5 ай бұрын
@@suestatham-yi4uo Thats a hard truth to wrap my head around but puts things in perspective so I don't engage any further.
@suestatham-yi4uo5 ай бұрын
@talonsarise my mother died last year aged 97, and all I felt was relief. I wish you all the very best.
@joannakirkwood49705 ай бұрын
@@suestatham-yi4uoboth my mother and father were/are narcs, both different types. Thankfully my mother died in 18, i felt nothing but relief, i was no contact from 14 though. Life was clearer, fresher, happier, i don't feel badly, i needed to do it, and it was is worth it, for my own peace of mind. I have also been no contact with father for 20 years. Again i feel very little and think so little of him, its like he never existed. I wish you all the best.
@AuntClara09115 ай бұрын
The peace you get with no contact is Bliss!
@crazy-maxedout85125 ай бұрын
❄️
@Sunshine-dg7nt5 ай бұрын
It sure is.
@talonsarise5 ай бұрын
Yes! 🙌
@Jessicaunarex5 ай бұрын
You know you’ve moved on when you no longer care about them knowing how ‘great your life is going.’ My problem is that I tend to hold onto the resentment much longer than I should due to my ego and pride.
@pmarkhill5195 ай бұрын
Good point.
@NoComment3745 ай бұрын
The hurtful part is not the loss of the abuser. It's the loss of the person they pretended to be, the loss of the shared relationship you thought you had, and the loss of your shared future (the fake one). It's also the loss of trust in yourself - if you can be THAT wrong about the person closest to you, what - and who - else are you wrong about? The sudden realisation that you don't know anything about the world, let alone how to keep yourself safe - is what's so blindsiding, and what causes anxiety & depression. Oh.... and the fact that you happily sacrificed yourself on that altar..... and now you don't even know who you are. The loss of an abuser is no loss at all.... but largely, victims weren't consciously aware of the abusive part's existence anyway..... so that makes this narrative on the loss even more confusing. You're not broken. You lived in very broken circumstances, with a very broken person for far too long. You adapted in a healthy way....I.e. if something is dangerous, it would be crazy NOT to be anxious around it! People who are ignorant of this type of abuse won't, can't and don't even want to 'get it' - don't waste your time explaining, it'll only hurt you. You won't ever be the 'you' from before the abuse - but that's ok.... and maybe you don't even want to be the person who could fall for that again. You can be a new version of you though.... one who sees this coming from a mile away and knows, appreciates what the 'highs' look like, because you've also been there to see the 'lows'. And lastly? Moving on isn't a linear process. Keep going, things don't stay the same & this doesn't have to be 'just how things are'.
@lemontrifle55425 ай бұрын
This is an extremely useful comment thankyou so much.
@andinux5 ай бұрын
And with this realisations you become stronger. Much stronger than you would have been. You become not an easy catch any longer. You become a much better version. An updated version on reality and your own capabilities.
@talonsarise5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this validation
@JanisBerglund-qu4br5 ай бұрын
Wow very well said I really identified with this
@katewatson50115 ай бұрын
Powerful. Thank you
@kathleencooney15185 ай бұрын
I nearly married a narcissist. Thankfully, I came to my senses & rid myself of him. He cried, begged, gave me gifts but I was done. Too much drama for me. I never knew what he was until finding HG.
@isabelbetts19365 ай бұрын
I'm secretly and well and truly working on my FREEDOM..............❤. HG's work has helped me SO much. I now know that I'm not imagining this despicable behaviour. Thank you!
@Lbf56775 ай бұрын
Well done 😊
@jabo21685 ай бұрын
And you’re not crazy. Keep up the good work.
@mariemohan23832 ай бұрын
True. ..say it again….. one day you will say “I feel nothing “..believe it
@anacristinamoura8815 ай бұрын
The child in us loves the child in them, thats why is so difficult to overcome and separate from the narcissist. In my case, when i decided to cut the connection, i always focused on the bad things, the bad moments, and i managed to keep the distance and zero contact. And it worked. It was the most important and life changing experience in my life: to know what NPD is, and being able to understand what was going on. The amount of self knowledge that comes with that, even if it was painful, is priceless. Yes, it's funny, but we end up knowing a lot about ourselves too through this experience.
@katimaines43615 ай бұрын
Very good. Wish I had the backbone to always remember that. My sister’s husband has no endearing qualities. I miss her but I’m not able to tolerate him. He even gets into phone calls. He has the manners of a chimp. I could really use some emotional help from her right now but she can’t even phone call without him. She thinks he is wonderful. Thanks for listening.
@Dakota-xi6cg5 ай бұрын
Is your sister a newlywed? How long she's been married to him?
@lemontrifle55425 ай бұрын
Does she work? Maybe you could write her a letter to her there?
@WonderWoman4305 ай бұрын
HG, you are the narcissist GURU! Love your commentary!
@swinginga21365 ай бұрын
Aim for total No Contact and Zero Impact 🎯✅ Thank you HG
@rubytroy77565 ай бұрын
Thank you HG❤ for all your hard work…. much appreciated 👏👏👏
@eleanormahoney53875 ай бұрын
I have used goso with success but we share a child and occasionally he tries a hoover. That's the dilemma but I play along to avoid his drama and immediately reinstate my no contact until his next hoover. It's not total freedom, but will be when our child is totally on his own
@SenSakura-dj6bq5 ай бұрын
Same here. I wish I could have the luxury of total no contact.
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
As HG says, in many cases involving a child it is possible to achieve No Contact. Difficult, yes, but possible. Unless there is a court-ordered mandate, of course.
@pmarkhill5195 ай бұрын
Thank you. We need this!
@TruthSeeker08775 ай бұрын
This video is a gem. One of your best ones, right after ‘Contagion: Empath Sensing Darkness.’ Thank you HG 🖤
@jabo21685 ай бұрын
I think one of his best is the spiritual narc. He plays His truth is marching on in the background. lol. It’s so freaking on point. I thought maybe HG is a priest. He understands this narc so well.
@TruthSeeker08775 ай бұрын
@@jabo2168OMG, heading there right now!
@LeilaJane5 ай бұрын
Exactly and I think that’s what heals you and your nervous system: if you just put your effort into powering through your illogical emotion, instead of taking the easy way out and succumbing to it and making a decision based on what is within the narcissist’s interests instead of your own. *and that’s what courage is: choosing to feel the difficult feeling, instead of escaping it by engaging with the narcissist again.
@gloriabarrett64765 ай бұрын
Thank you -I’ll be listening to this again and again
@eringobragh75 ай бұрын
Thank you HG ❤ This video came at the right time! 6 months total No Contact after I GOSO Loving my freedom, peace, smiling and laughing again Every day is a good day 😊
@orlachristine49385 ай бұрын
It is like a grief .but for the living ..a hard pill to swallow .. thank you HG ..this and so many other videos are a reminder to stay grounded ..no easy feat ..
@jabo21685 ай бұрын
True. I grieved for about 5 years. I went through all of the stages.
@Rachel-ig2uq5 ай бұрын
Thanku HG Tudor, you saved me. Having your videos is like having someone who finally has my back. Thankyou u deserve all the praise u get.
@remembermyname7185 ай бұрын
Never Look Back
@annettehunter97435 ай бұрын
My brother is one. I went no contact almost 2 years ago. He was furious and played the victim and the usual smear campaign. I kept ignoring him and he eventually stopped trying to hoover me. It's so good not having him wreck my head anymore. And frighten me as he was verbally so abusive shouting and ranting in my face backing me up against a wall. It was terrifying. It is a loss having to cut ties with a sibling. But it has to be done in a situation like this.
@joycefiore27214 ай бұрын
I'm 187 days demon free! Also figured out my mom is a narcissist too. I'm 45 and blocked her. I had to live with her and my stepdad, AKA, The Buzzkillers. It was a nightmare!
@MH-oq9og3 ай бұрын
Thankyou HG. The time you invest into educating us is much appreciated. ❤
@orlachristine49385 ай бұрын
I said it before and I'll say it again ..HG does for empaths what Allen Carr did for smokers ..it is an addiction ..an emotional response to wanting something that is killing you ..thank you HG
@JF-cd5hcАй бұрын
H.G. you are a lifesaver.
@FriedrichScheibe29 күн бұрын
This is a very powerful message indeed ! and I do use this rule often, as I have done today. I was feeling melancholic and sentimental because christmas is drawing near and I was also, as I often am, saddened by the state of the world in general. I startetd considering sending a little gift and a card to my former husband, but I am glad to say that I didn't do it. No contact is the only "action" that protects my soul, false hope surely does not. Thank you, Mr. Tudor 🖖 (aka Mr. Spock, my favourite Star Trek character since childhood 😁😊) Kind regards, Angela
@LainaBranco5 ай бұрын
Thank you HG , for your wisdom, guidance and wonderful advice ❤
@ZYX543215 ай бұрын
0h H.G. 💫 One of the admirable qualities I have found within you is your practicality. It's true, you tell us often this is one of your attributes. & over the two years listening, then applying the simplest things we can do or utilise to move on is there before us.. & within your insights so many of us are able to understand how simple it can be when we know better. As for me, abandoning some feelings meaning... removing myself emotionally, no emotional thinking ..🧠 That's a battle that is well worth the fight. Thank you H.G.💫 🎩🔥 🎩💫
@MargaretM-vd7bb5 ай бұрын
Thankyou HG, one needs to Consistently Replay this one. Listen with the Head and the Heart. ❤️🌻
@teachersusan37305 ай бұрын
How peaceful life becomes after no contact with a narcissist ….
@annetallegrand56565 ай бұрын
It’s tough but leaving and understanding what you’ve been dealing with is the ultimate freedom 🎉the Hoovers are comical 😂thanks HG!
@Mansfield04333 ай бұрын
I’m currently in a relationship with a narcissist for a year and it has been painful. I’m losing him to someone else. I’m in the middle of going through it. I hope their is a light at the end of the tunnel
@ngdngxnvx5 ай бұрын
I wish I knew what to do to show you how much I love you. Thank you for this.
@bestpractices225 ай бұрын
thanks hg x
@donnadaniels50955 ай бұрын
I come from a family full of narcissists including mother I do not operate on feelings and emotions 🤷♀️I was put into this family to break the curse⚔🦁 once I realized they did not want to be helped, I completely went no contact🙏🏽 praying for them moving forward❤ living my best life narcissus free😂🙏🏽
@lasenoradelacruz5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your work
@patriciaduarte7039Ай бұрын
Facts. Excellent video, HG. Great breakdown in explanation with examples for better comprehension. Resonates with me. 💡✨️
@JanisBerglund-qu4br5 ай бұрын
Excellent video! I’m free and happy now but it took awhile.
@Fiona865555 ай бұрын
This was very helpful, thank you. Time to get emotional thinking under control.
@MelindaLaughman10 күн бұрын
I am saying to you "Absolutely, No Contact by any means or methods!
@LilithLiberated5 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Thank you for validating the importance of emotion and of integrating it with logic. So if few people are willing to do that work. So much changed for me the day I realized that you can love the idea of a person without that idea in any way resembling who a person really is. It’s possible in a sense to love someone who does not exist. That is what I tell myself every day about the narcissist. They are not a person. I thought they were never existed. In some ways it’s worse than a death. You can’t even morn. But you can let go.
@spiderlime5 ай бұрын
having left a narcissistic woman for whom i had very intense feelings, i tell myself exactly as you suggest, but at least at present, the anger at being duped by someone who is clearly a jekyll and hyde case, plus the knowledge that my faith was in such a false personality, still make me think about her daily, although intellectually the knowledge that i did well to leave is there and will eventually prevail.
@paulpetroff98565 ай бұрын
I appreciate your honesty
@cordeliav30555 ай бұрын
I just realised my daughter is a narcissist, which explains her behaviour. I feel free now having come to this realisation. Now that she is approaching middle age I feel the bond between us is loosening. It is such a relief because I realise we are all players in this game of life (Shakespeare) and that we are here to experience, not necessarily to succeed. I won't disinherit her like my mother (also a narc) did to me, knowing that it will annoy the hell out of her now she is in the afterlife. I just don't care any more.
@joanneblack76975 ай бұрын
You've explained this beautifully, HG!!
@CplArvinBethe5 ай бұрын
This is absolutely correct! ❤️
@danielaalter16455 ай бұрын
Logic is mental, thats easy. Emotions are much more complex. For you HG is much easy beacause you are much close from logic than for emotions. Sorry for my english ;)
@nnolaa5 ай бұрын
When you said narcissistic psychopath I fell out🤣. I aspire to this level of self awareness.
@Gwendeline5 ай бұрын
It’s still vasolating between logic n reason n feelings! It’s f@#$& exhausting no matter what you do
@elainemarra97905 ай бұрын
Time will help
@meraki0075 ай бұрын
Thank you, HG.
@GreenEyesAlsatin5 ай бұрын
This is great information! Thanks!
@SkylarK_x_bk_05 ай бұрын
"they want to confront the narcissist to tell them that they know that they are a narcissist" 🤣🤣 (as if I would ! )
@SenSakura-dj6bq5 ай бұрын
At least they want to confront, way better than learnt helplessness and freeze/fawn response. From an urge to confront you can set strong boundaries.
@cyberninjasworld5 ай бұрын
@@SenSakura-dj6bqvery true
@rbaptiste5 ай бұрын
Ugh...I needed to hear this
@DorMeles27 күн бұрын
God this hits home
@susanpurdy9865 ай бұрын
Thank you sir.
@Gwendeline5 ай бұрын
Love it
@stingyringpiece20 күн бұрын
So HD Tudor (if I may) Ive been asking this question on various sites dealing with this behaviour pattern Can you answer me please as I'm am stuck "What happens when my ex narcissist abuser, physical, emotional and mental IS completely different with the new supply she was hiding from the family?" I know your answer will be "how do I know?" or "How do i know they are?" I can see how happy they BOTH are Its been some years now and my ex abuser isn't the same person, moulded into the new supply, i know this or making new life's together, completely different to ours, i mean in every way. However logically yes you're right I should be glad im free of the "version" I had of that person but I wanted the person they are now. Fake or not, why was I treated so badly yet the new supply isn't?
@thecampbell4205 ай бұрын
I've had many narcs in my life partners , husbands, my mother and my sister 😢. Thank you HG you have saved my life ! I am now a qualified psychotherapist and would love to have a consultation with you , how do I go about this please ?
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
(This might be repetitive, apparently my first two attempts do not show up.) You can click on the "Consult" link in the description box above, then you choose the type of consultation (see also "The Consultations" at the top of the page there) and you receive instructions on how to proceed.
@helenhoward53465 ай бұрын
Logic is the key, it can help one detatch from the irrationality of prohibitive and oppressive feelings. There are some who will refuse to let go of such emotional thinking even in the stark light of hard evidence. I think it's bc they feel like the truth is harder to face than continuing to operate under the illusion (such as the narcissist never loved them, or anyone including their children). I think it's the ultimate outcome that matters more than feelings, but ofc I'm still subject to my addiction. Are codependents more likely to struggle with letting their ET go? Yes, I recall you've mentioned as such in the past. Thank you HG 🪨🦚🪨
@BehaveYourselfOrElse5 ай бұрын
Yes, this is especially true for codependent narcissists weakened by obsessive fuel.😂
@missstarrynight77365 ай бұрын
HG, I agree that GOSO is the only reasonable think to do, however, when it comes to emotions, things are much more complex for one simple reason - in many cases a victim is trapped in a rumination about the narcissist, because the alternative is dealing with the reality, which is too hard to process emotionally. We all have only a measure of capacity to deal with things emotionally. Sometimes thinking about the narcissist and feeling constant anger, resentment and such is... hmmm... how to name it.... I will give you an example. After I broke up with him, he immediately replaced me with IPSS, and his life goes on. Business as usual. Meanwhile I ended up with severe PTSD, ruined physical health (due to constant stress), jobless (due to mentioned bad health), with no friends and clearly no propect to find new partner. And you know what.... it's too much to deal with. Emotionally. The greater the damage done by the narcissist ,the more you feel after the break-up. And no, I never missed my abuser. I faced the devastating reality of having destroyed life, and no idea how to move on. It's not easy to move on in such situation. Thinking about him easy, feeling about him is easy, thinking about my own life is painful and difficult. Many years after the abuse I still wasn't able to recover. Unfortunately. Trust me, I tried. Possibly it's due to some societal norms, which make unsuccessful and/or people "invisible". Even if they don't burden others with their sob stories and don't expect God knows what. When you lack good health, have no friends and struggle financially, and your abuser is living a great, carefree life.... feeling deeply upset, depressed or how to name it , is actually logical. You clearly see your current problems, and you see a level of helplessness due to lack of "support net". And you don't know what to do, because, logically speaking, you cannot make people want to interact with you, which would be much empowering factor. So the emotions here are very much about NOW. I am naturally a pro-active person, but after repeated failed attempts to change my situation... I find thinking about my current life much more painful than thinking about the abusive ex. I would want to know how to change it, but I have no answer to the question yet. I suppose many people don't really think of their exes with sentiment, don't miss their exes etc. They simply feel "lesser evil". Because their current existential crisis is really difficult to overcome. I hope it makes sense.
@maramatuku48645 ай бұрын
I understand missstarrynight. Your situation is terrible and so unfair. It would be difficult to thrive after that. My situation is not as bad as yours, but I can relate. I have recently (3 months ago) left my husband after nearly 32 years of marriage. I have not seen him or spoken with him since and he doesn’t know where I live. We have a 13 year old daughter who now spends alternating weeks with me and with him. He lives in our house, rent- and mortgage-free. I’m paying rent an am only just making ends meet. He has a beautiful garden, I don’t. He has the house I renovated and put so much of myself into. The whole situation makes me so sad. The weeks my daughter is with me I put all my worries out of my head so she has a good time and so that this difficult situation is hopefully a little easier for her. I live to see her happy. That’s what makes me happy. The weeks so is with her dad are very difficult. I feel so sad, so much regret. It is in these weeks that I sort out stuff for lawyers and custody mediators, which is very emotionally taxing. I makes me face what I have done. I have thrown away a financially secure future. I have thrown away being able to spend every day with my daughter. I have thrown away the hope that my relationship will get better, that he will love me. I miss the good things. He wasn’t always bad. But then I remind myself that what I really miss, I didn’t even have! How crazy is that! Even when we lived together I missed those things: I would imagine words of kindness and kind acts and when that didn’t happen, I’d be sad but next time I’d do the same thing again. Coming home to an empty flat is hard, but it was even worse coming home to someone who didn’t care / ignored me (silent treatment), was furious, or put me down. In an ideal world, I would love to get back together with my husband and live happily ever after, but I know this is impossible. I am so hoping that when we meet at the custody mediation session, that he will apologise, say that he loves me and that he wants me back, that we’ll go to counselling… But I know that he will be distant and aloof. At the same time, I know that if he does do and say all the things I hope he will say (I have hoped this for so long), I cannot go back to him. It was so difficult to leave! I can’t go through that again. If we get back together it’ll be good for a few months and then everything will be just as bad as it was. I know. We’ve been there before, when we tried to move on from his affair 5 years ago. So my feelings are mainly sadness and loss. I think these feelings are logical. I have lost a lot, and it’s ok for me to feel sad that life hasn’t worked out the way I had hoped. That I won’t spend my retirement with the love of my life. I had always thought that my life would be like that of my parents, who have had a very long and happy marriage. I also feel sad that I have modelled being in a toxic relationship to my children and am fearful of the damage that may have done. The illogical emotion I am fighting is the hope that everything will be ok. I think it’s ok to have hope, but I need to accept that this relationship is over and move on from there, while being there for my children, modelling how to live and deal with setbacks, and supporting them.
@andinux5 ай бұрын
MissStarry, you became an updated version on reality and soon to become a much better version of yourself and your own capabilities if you realise and accept that no one will come and save you. It's in your own hands and it's your own job. Make new friends, empaths, if you must or want to. Or concentrate on yourself and admit that you're not an easy catch any longer. You got out alive, you learned and became a better version. What else do you need?!
@PattyfmPhilly5 ай бұрын
👍🏻💙 = Thanks, HG!
@opus00705 ай бұрын
I saddens me to see how few views these videos get in comparison to the TOW ones. I feel like your TOW videos are slowly taking over and diluting and corrupting the integrity of your channel. I have been with you for years HG and listened to thousands of your narc videos, your work in that regard is absolutely brilliant, no one comes close. I wish you had a separate channel for your "serious work" , that's the work that will live on and become your legacy, long after TOW is long forgotten.
@maramatuku48645 ай бұрын
I agree, some of the TOW videos are a bit tedious, but I always watch them, because even in those videos there are sometimes real “nuggets”, which help me realise things that I had not understood before. I also like the videos with video footage of TOW, because they have helped me see things that I have never noticed before.
@andinux5 ай бұрын
Agree. TOW took over and I can't listen to it anymore. TOW generates the views and spreading of information, so nothing left than to listen to the old videos and the rare new ones.
@kryssis693 ай бұрын
Wtf are TOW videos?
@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa17825 ай бұрын
I keep seeing Spock appear throughout this, for some reason...
@donnadaniels50955 ай бұрын
Looking at generational curses of narcissism is nothing but the curse that has been passed down from the ancestors, to the generations ,breaking generational curses, spiritually awakened👁 to set yourself free recognize the curse🙏🏽⚔🦁 the Bible talk about narcissism Satan was the first👹 narcissist
@kerrymarsh37185 ай бұрын
This issue seems impervious to logic. Your consultees might say “OK” to you because you’re HG, but I doubt that by logic they are overcoming their feelings. If it truly works, I am glad to hear it.
@marcia.mcnicol95345 ай бұрын
No CASH.
@thisthathighlife5 ай бұрын
💯💯❤️
@cyberninjasworld5 ай бұрын
Just go no contact.
@cyberninjasworld5 ай бұрын
Its either you or them.
@paulpetroff98565 ай бұрын
What is the demons name who rules over the spirit of narcissism?
@Hesetmefree19814 ай бұрын
I would say Jezebel.
@Lailat8542 ай бұрын
Why do you help people understand? Put in other words: how did the fact that you became aware of your narcissism and psykopathy change u?
@paulpetroff98565 ай бұрын
Isn't it logical to recognize demon posetion and to pray for the soul of the possessed in the name of YAHSUA'S name and prays YAH and put the issue in YAH's hands strong's concordance 2424
@melissam15695 ай бұрын
HG, will you ever marry?
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
He has been married once before. He will marry again if it is required to bind the victim to him.
@Thekingdomof0z5 ай бұрын
@@IBelongToH.G. 😂😂😂 delusional or what? If you’ve been conned into marriage you are not in control.
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
@@Thekingdomof0z Who do you think is doing the conning? Remember, as soon as the Golden Period is over, marriage vows do not mean a thing to a narcissist, he will live as if he had no wife unless he can use her for something, whereas the other side will feel bound by their vows.
@elainemarra97905 ай бұрын
Dont accept the hoover at all
@YukonFox19725 ай бұрын
But HG…emotions are *NOT* logical. I’ve known for 7 years that my feelings about a certain narcissistic psychopath are totally illogical. I’ve even told him that. 😂 If I could use logic to control my feelings, then trauma-bonding and my addiction would not exist. 😐 I can use logic to control my actions, but feelings…? Feelings are NOT LOGICAL. He’s even blocked me now (😅), and even with No Contact for months, the pangs of addiction are still painfully strong-daily. I *know* that I should feel relieved that he’s removed himself from my life, but I still mourn the loss of our shared fantasy. No one compares to him. Trust me, if I could use logic to stop my feelings and to no longer feel this pain, I would have gotten past this years ago! 🙃
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
If I read this right (and if not, I apologise), you are watching his videos. That is not No Contact! You are feeding the addiction.
@YukonFox19725 ай бұрын
@@IBelongToH.G. Um…I’m not writing about HG. 😂 It’s a different man who also happens to be a narcissistic psychopath.
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
@@YukonFox1972 My mistake, please accept my apology for making assumptions. If you keep up the No Contact and do not act on your feelings, they will gradually lessen. I think it is normal that it takes months until you see a real difference. There are also techniques HG can teach you to reduce the frequency and intensity of these feelings.
@IBelongToH.G.5 ай бұрын
@@YukonFox1972 By the way, I am contractually obliged to state my amazement that anyone would have an interest in any other narcissistic psychopath than the one right here on this channel!
@SkylarK_x_bk_05 ай бұрын
Sounds & looks great. Thank you for the advance notifications HG 🤍
@erinsylv20985 ай бұрын
This guys’ videos are one gaslighting mess. If you want to get better, see a therapist that specializes in narcissistic abuse. This is not it.