Hidden Superpower: 15 Sign You Are a SIGMA EMPATH

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[@patriciawhite5355]

Love it need to know more on this subject thank you ❤️ so much

[@indelizabernal1348]

Yaway

[@keshang_laow8325]

I'm a 6ft tall light skinned guy and I weigh almost 300 pounds, when I was in high school I was walking through the crowd of people and I froze in place when a girl walked past me people bumped into me and everything and I refused to move for a solid 10 seconds it felt like I was bombarded with anger and fear all at the same time. This also happened to me in JH but on a much grander scale. I was in the middle of a fight and in the middle of dominating and punching this kid in the head repeatedly I just froze in place for no reason. In that moment I felt a weird peace wash over me, it was like time stopped and I thought about the fight for a good second in that time I realized that I was like 2 weight classes above this dude and the fight was over as soon as I body slammed him into the floor. During that moment he was able to flip me off of him and for some reason at that point I was filled with rage and a strong sense of Bliss, before he could even land a punch on me I started laughing. I'm talking laughing that would make people question my sanity while at the same time trying to figure out the world's most hilarious joke without any setup. Literally the entire audience froze while I was laughing everybody who was watching the fight just stood still even the guy who was ready to punch me just stayed there. I swear I laughed for a minute solid, when I was done it felt like time moved again everyone who was watching went and grabbed the guy who was still frozen on top of me and they dragged him out of the bathroom. I got my shit together and left. When I saw him outside in the light it looked like someone stole his soul, like he was blacker than I was but his whole body looked ashy as fuck at the sight of me he started to shake like a leaf. It felt amazing for me though that was years of pent up rage and stress gone within a minute or so, I didn't even get in trouble for the fight. That is if you count being benched for a single basketball game punishment. Before this happened people tried to jump me and I did bring a knife in self defense (nobody was stabbed) but after this shit spread around the school that I was like a mad demon nobody ever tried to mess with me again. That shit even followed me to highschool. People would see me hopping in P. E and wonder why I don't just join the basketball team. I always told them the 1st reason which was it was too hard to keep going from a football build to a basketball build each and every year, the real reason why I didn't necessarily want to join was because I didn't want a repeat effect on a larger scale. I feel people's emotions on a daily basis which has made it hard for me to keep my own under control so I usually don't show any emotion that I can't handle. It also helps with my reflexes especially where I work(Walmart), like one time something feel off the top of a shelf I reached backwards without looking cought it with one hand and in that same movement put it back on top of the shelf in the exact same position. I thought nobody had seen me but this one employee called me out saying he saw that and how amazing it was. What they don't know is that's everyday for me I'm constantly aware of my surroundings and the people and objects around me.

[@keshang_laow8325]

Bruh I can hold a conversation with a toddler if they know what they're talking about, I've don't this on many occasions and I'm constantly on the lookout for kids that remind me of myself when I was a kid to have a meaningful conversation with regardless of the subject.

[@keshang_laow8325]

I got depressed because I was constantly aware that there were many parts of my body that I'd consider a flaw, it got to the point I refused to go into the bathroom to brush my teeth because I didn't want to look at myself in the mirror, due to this I got 17 cavities and after I had to pay for all of them to be filled I've been working on getting over this so I don't have a repeat occurrence.

[@teresaquarles9158]

If you are raised in an abusive situation you learn to hone in your skills of identifying every aspect of a persons behavior so you know exactly what’s coming and how to deal with it before it manifests itself. I think everyone has empathic ability but not many have been forced to perfect it out of necessity.

[@andrewbranch4075]

Yes that's me. I learned how to survive but not how to prosper. I would like to but don't know how and I am my only teacher

[@x-raven-x9128]

I feel that and prosperity comes when you find that your contentment with items wealth and your self life will blow bye with nearly smiles everyday, I have a hard time working because I always see how staff and management act the dumb decisions uneeded ovt.. so 6-12 is usaly how long a can stay somewhere lol best of luck out there :D

[@misschris662]

Yes, that’s exactly how it happened!

[@taniapeach6567]

You have provided the words to my thougts. I am grateful that we share the same vibration. Grateful fo sharing 🙏

[@GAMEINN-cf8yy]

@@andrewbranch4075 Prosper through crypto😎👍Still Bear Market but be ready for change to bull market in a few months. Buy and hold till 2025 you will multiply your money.

[@econdude3811]

15) You view everyone as an equal 14) You recognize your own flaws 13) You have a unique but strong sense of morality 12) You value your alone time above all else 11) You protect your personal space 10) You easily spot microaggressions 9) You are highly independent 8) You know how to get people to agree with you 7) You can sense when someone is lying 6) You define your own worth 5) You are aware but unconcerned about society's expectations 4) You see right through the core of a narcissist 3) You are a silent but effective leader 2) You spend a lot of time reflecting 1) You prize your personal freedom more than anything else

[@sulev111]

99% of people will identify themselves as sigma empaths now. "ThAt SoUnDs ToTaLlY lIkE mE!"

[@jonber9411]

@@sulev111 Nah, most of us will fail instantly on nr 14 and 13. I find many persons surprisingly honest about this. And most of us can't stand being alone. In imagination yes, because it is attractive trait, but not in practice.

[@patrickwinegar5635]

@@jonber9411 not by nature. You get it.

[@robertstrickland2184]

Its one of those things that if you have to say your a sigma empath....then your probably not one

[@patrickwinegar5635]

@@robertstrickland2184 100%

[@maximilianomichell3596]

It took me 34 years, lots of suffering, and lots of reflection, self consciousness, learning, reading, meditating, and therapy of all kinds to go from an excessive empath to what you call Sigma Empath. I'm the happiest and complete man I can possible wanted but I can always be more happy. Love is the key to everything.

[@guyjean-guy989]

@user-oz8kh9jn5u No it actually fits entirely to some but it's propably so out of reach for you that you end up looking at it this way.

[@guyjean-guy989]

@user-oz8kh9jn5u I can probably agree with everything you are saying there. Only adding that personnaly the field of psychology is a joke as for its level of complexity and understanding of humans, you can see that people attracted to this field for work are actually the less competent in these understandings. Talk with any students in psychology... No wonder they need the studies and haven't realised that it's oh so incomplete. So that video could be from psychology or from a truck driver or from a universal deity, I look at the content and don't care about the boxing. Maybe it is improbable only as it is very rare. But I know why you're saying what you said... Yes ego plays a major role in any sort of association of self with archetypes and you can't know if I was about that or not. As for delusions being dangerous for men to maintain, I think we have way bigger issues than the association with sigma empaths here lol.

[@anwiii55]

@J oe finally someone who sees through the bullshit. it gets so ridiculous these hidden agendas which has gotten worse and worse over time ever since the dawn of the internet. hell, i don't even like the word "empath" anymore because people throw it around way too loosely now. but "stigma" empath? it's just someone trying to sell merch and people are blind to it just like most good marketing which is used to control others....

[@anwiii55]

@@guyjean-guy989 who is more competent? someone who is book smart but has very little personal experience with pain and suffering or those with exeprience with pain and suffering and overcoming it with a genuine willingness to help others? empaths who have a good understanding of who they are have the potential to be natural healers because of their unique understanding of how people are feeling and coping. in this sense, there is a BIG difference between learning and understanding the psychology without any apparent disfuction, and actually LIVING it and experiencing the psychology first hand. most empaths start out feeling misunderstood and feeling alone in the world. it leads to depression and anxiety and racing thoughts and over thinking and trying to figure themselves out. this is why in the beginning, ego does play a role until the empath learns who they are and humility over time and because of this disfuction of an empath, it makes them GREAT healers because they will have the better understanding of the psychology over time and the people who literally understand what other people are going through AND the solution. so for the most part, joe is SPOT on. he was speaking in general where people who are lost, go searching for answers and when they think they found something that defines them, they cling on to it. just as these same people will cling on to the term "sigma empath". a made up term to cater to the ignorant for the sole purpose of a hidden agenda. they promote the term like it is something great and something to brag about and something to promote with apparel which in reality, there is a lot of hurt and pain and suffering attatched to being an empath whether it's from the empath or the people the empath feels. so no. i don't think this AT ALL fits entirely to some. it fits entirely to NONE when you figure in the whole context of the video and the actual agenda of it. just a bunch of pretty words that you would see in memes on facebook which they too can be discredited. the path to evil is paved with good intentions and we see it EVERY day now on social media. i talked about hidden agendas but even with good intentions, it can still be argued. plus, nobody is the same. it's just wrong to put labels on shit anyway. it can be argued that everyone is the same but with different degrees of strengths and weaknesses that make us all unique and undefineable...and if anyone were to try and define someone with a word, it wouldn't it be more likely that they would be wrong and there would be more substance to a person? ego is an empaths worst enemy. it turns them in to something they are not with narcissistic characteristics. that's all this video played on....people's ego while they probably got their list from some unkown website sources and NOT from their own personal experiences.

[@guyjean-guy989]

@@anwiii55 oh dang... do i have to read it all... Hmm... I think you're genuinely here to argue and exchange though... i'll say, as an answer to another comment on ''empath and bubbles'' you shared somewhere else, that sigma empaths seem to be actually the empaths that learned to master empathy enough to not need the bubble. I don't recall you talking about that. So it'll put some confusion aside and allow to call a cat a cat, not mixing everything. Yeah, there are trends, dumb ones, tiktok and wanabes. I never cared about these letter qualification before (I used to say I was delta before as I didn't like all the alpha beta lambda etc crap) and I'm sorry if I feel i can relate to this one, especially with the empath part, as I can tell stuff on people I've just met and foresee the outcome of events. So just a quick answer to your first sentences. To me the best answer when given a choice is always ''both''. There is no ''ultimately you can pick only one''. In a limited time frame, maybe, but that generally doesn't apply as we have looots of time ahead of us. Only 1 choice is outdated, it's for old models of human beings lol. So, both the book knowledge and life experience is better, why anything else? Other than if school has programmed you to think you can only achieve so much and not more. I'm pretty sure I'll read the rest of your whole message and answer something but don't have the time now. Stay curious. You can blame me for sounding condescending. They always do.

[@LoveSumsItUp]

Sigma is a matured empath. One who reclaimed their “SELF” that was initially stripped or repressed during childhood but retained in the heart of hearts.

[@girlsrnotwimps]

Yaaaas, baby!

[@karenmcardle142]

I smiled to myself reading your comment , 'matured" made me actually giggle lol , reflecting on myself , it does take years to mature . Or maybe that's just me 😁😅🤗 the heart never changed, thankfully ❤

[@LoveSumsItUp]

@@karenmcardle142 years and tears!

[@michele6740]

LoveSumsItUp … a matured male empath … according to this chauvinistic video. All men shown, men shown leading and leering at women. Then actually says Sigma male. Between 9:45 - 9:55

[@LoveSumsItUp]

@@michele6740 I gave my own definition of a true sigma, not exclusive of female. I don’t remember this video, but obviously I disagree with what you are pointing out is wrong in this video. A matured empath is no longer codependent to disregulated humans due to childhood experiences and programming. They can navigate all kinds with compassion and detachment. They would not leer or need to concur and devour. A matured empath is sigma and sigma knows who they are and they are not ego driven.

[@frankeerhyme7416]

This entire video sums my 17 year old son up perfectly! I've always known that he is empathic but couldn't pin down some of his traits because he doesn't and never has wanted,to be a"part of the norm". Hearing that that is a huge indicator, as is treating everyone equally- no exceptions- has allowed me to understand him even more. He's always been a very sincere but fiercely loyal person. Yup! proud mum over here!!

[@MrSkyler0121]

Sounds like he has a bright future ahead!!

[@drivenbyrage5710]

We are all the product of our upbringing. You are obviously doing something right. Good luck to you and yours.

[@frankeerhyme7416]

@@drivenbyrage5710 Thank you, honestly though- the credit goes to my son and the standards he has placed upon himself. If I can take any of the credit it would be that I'm *always* here to listen to him,talk his troubles through with him and give some advice when he feels...stuck🤷‍♀️ He's still young with the "world on his shoulders" and he still needs to be told that tomorrow is a new day but I wish I was as cluey as he is when I was his age!! Take care of you and yours, have a good day/night 🌷

[@drivenbyrage5710]

@@frankeerhyme7416 you fed him, bathed him, clothed him, nurtured him. In many ways, he is the person he is today because of you. However, it's nice to see he is mature beyond his years. My guess is he is an old soul, like me.

[@frankeerhyme7416]

@@drivenbyrage5710 Actually I completely agree with that! He's always come across as a soul that's been round the block a few times, maybe he's here again to get it right this time? Whatever the "right" may be,he's doing a good job so far,especially considering he's had quite a few problems with school and learning. Question.... have you ever had problems with learning at the same pace as others or disliking authoritive figures that have no interest in teaching/helping you? I'm genuinely interested in the role that institutions with many rules (mostly ridiculous ones!)has on people like my son. Please don't feel like you have to answer, I understand the need for privacy🌷

[@bshilala]

I am realizing at 44 yrs that i have been raised and surrounded by narcissist's my entire life and even dated a few. Now I feel I can identify the narcissist easily and i secretly enjoy watching the joy fade from them when they realize I will not budge to their attempted manipulations.

[@priscillacharlot8188]

Yes! It is true. Empaths tend to have a narcassistic parrent or sibbling. I am so sorry you grew up in that enviroment. My parrents accused me of being too sensitive and asking too many questions. They were afraid.

[@bshilala]

@@priscillacharlot8188 I am pretty sure my one sibling whom I have always butted heads with is also a narcissist that's why he and my mother get along so well. Thanks I try to accept it for what it is - I am just glad I have some answers now. My parents too also still think I talk too much. I really at this point feel bad for the narcissist they can't enjoy life the same way I do.

[@bshilala]

@@priscillacharlot8188 I didn't know this about empaths. But now I understand why I was always brushed off with my incessant questioning. I am really glad to know this now. Luckily I had a normal grandmother who had lots of free time to answer my questions. I am scared to think of how I would have been without her. Also it's nice to know that we are not alone.

[@priscillacharlot8188]

@@bshilala your not! Keep asking questions and remember everyone you meet is either a lesson you need to know for future references so you can keep doing empath work, or someone you can help. Self insight is a must and lots and of nature.

[@bshilala]

@@priscillacharlot8188 I spend as much time with nature as possible. Help the neighborhood strays out, baking and cooking all keep me grounded in this time of a lot more narcissism than usual.

[@tourmaline72]

Sometimes I still have a hard time believing most people are unable to see what I see. It’s nice too see theses videos and know there are other people out there like me. Almost didn’t watch it, glad I did. Thank you for making this.

[@chrismehalko9738]

I was the only one to recognize my (ex) wifes NPD , seems she surrounded herself with flying monkeys for 10 years. On her own turf, it took a painful fraction of that time to bring her inflated ego crashing into the dirt. All in the name of saving her teenage kid, he's going to thank me one day. her family is grateful to me. Incidentally she was the one that asked me to marry her lol. I remain on higher ground, a venerable mountaintop of integrity. thanks for that , DAD, R.I.P.

[@Straight_White_Fatherly_Figure]

Same here. Im like "sigma what? I like to learn about people" and of course its about me. My wife says she cannot ever understand my thinking, and ive always felt like others feel the same way. Cool to see others like me. Cheers 🍺

[@joshualightbodyvega]

Me as well. Really grateful.

[@thefarmerswifeknits6190]

I was always puzzled that other people couldn’t “tune in” to what I could feel or perceive.

[@XIL313]

I don't think many people realize how much of their true emotions they give away through suddle gestures or what comes out of their mouth

[@PhilipBuyi]

hahahaha i know, but all you do is be like "poor thing"

[@kayleighbrown459]

True. I used to think I was just paranoid. Turns out I'm justbsuper perceptive

[@poodlegirl6371]

I am going to be a pain in the arse here: in case you use the word again, the correct spelling is "subtle", not "suddle". Sorry, I am spelling freak.

[@ButterfliesAreNinjas]

They are called micro expressions and you can’t control them. Like contempt, anger, fake happiness, etc. A good show that goes into this is called Lie To Me

[@pablohammerly448]

@@poodlegirl6371 I was planning to post the correction (I used to be a proofreader when I was younger), but you beat me to it. I've sometimes been called a grammar Nazi, but "spelling freak" is a better term. Of course, since I'm American and I guess you're British, our versions of proper spelling will differ. I noticed that you're subscribed to the Beesleys (sp?) -- I've seen a couple of their videos. You should check out Laurence on his "Lost in the Pond" KZbin channel -- his comparisons of the USA and UK are often fascinating and/or hilarious! 🤓

[@RoseBooksAndLearning]

I’m a sigma. It can be a blessing if you learn to handle it and understand when you have to join groups/society and when you have to be clear about boundaries with other people. When you do that, it becomes a gift.

[@priscillacharlot8188]

Yes! It started for me as a child with dreams and visions to now. I wish I could find a place to be able to hone in my intuition, physical( I can feel people sickness including animals) and of coarse emotional.

[@RoseBooksAndLearning]

@@priscillacharlot8188 me too! I try to stay away from certain places where you can really feel overwhelmed by energy- for me cemeteries, funeral homes, or any place with a lot of suffering feels like being under a tidal wave of other people’s experiences. Let me know how it goes practicing with your intuition! I’m trying to learn to control mine too.

[@priscillacharlot8188]

It was kind of you to respond. Please feel free to advise me. I would like that very much.

[@domainflipp]

Sigma empaths can see right through people

[@domainflipp]

@Aleksandar Z right on

[@garyjones2929]

Boom

[@beyeseparateswe3425]

Facts. I already know who they are and avoid them.

[@pameti.dragoblago]

the only instances when i got in trouble were when i was not listening (or rather, when i was rationalising) my inner voice.

[@thewallcollection1245]

@@beyeseparateswe3425 lol why avoid them?

[@AdamHMortimer]

As a Sigma empath, I found my calling life coaching. Before I even knew the word empath I would find myself drained at the end of the day. Once I was taught how to control this ability it became my greatest asset to the point of being able to perceive the thoughts of others. I know that may sound really strange to some people but my fellow sigma empath will understand! Onward, upward and inwards!

[@anthonygagne2637]

I would like to know how you manage it well because I won’t lie to you I still didn’t control it very well

[@isaiahlucas25]

I have extreme difficulty not absorbing ppls energy and find myself mega drained by the time I get home from work. Any tips?

[@teeteeree3540]

@@isaiahlucas25 I definitely would like some tips as well

[@dragongrazer7620]

As l work in the healthcare system and care for elderly patients. The emphatic nature do become really handy, even though some days l end up having to sleep alot afterwards from the drain. But it is worth it, since using it helping others relax in their final days, is pretty rewarding

[@CelestialHealing1144]

Real talk! Im w u on that!

[@tracydegroat6345]

Sigma is am evolution from the pain received from being an empath.... You don't lose your heart after being hurt but you learn to protect your peace from harm while treating others how you wish others would treat you. Pain makes us or breaks us.... If broken you evolve into a dark empath.

[@cherylchambers2880]

These traits perfectly describe all the reasons my mother has continued to abuse me for 62 years. Yes she is a narcissist and a control freak. If I could have made a living I would have left home at 9 years old. Instead, I had to figure out a way to survive until I could leave. Two months after my 18th birthday I was gone to start building my own life. After growing up on the east coast, 2 days after my 20th birthday I moved to Hawaii. I have followed my own path and believed in myself and abilities without parental support. I have had ups and I have had downs. Through everything I have always been able to find value in every experience and grow from it. Intuition has kept me safe in some very scary situations and also pushed me to meet amazing people when I felt their energy. I love who I am and my life. My honesty rubs a lot of people the wrong way, which is a badge I wear proudly. To anyone that walks their own path in honesty and love without a single thought to what society says you should be, I applaud you. Keep it real and keep it happy.

[@judykneifel2678]

A perfect reply,keep it real and honest.

[@idiotburns]

Stop blaming others, grow the F up

[@Nate-bn5kk]

62 years!? Dang, you have an abnormal amount of patience!

[@aprilmorris4588]

I understand so much of what you said, but for me it was my Dad who was the narcissist and an alcoholic to boot. I'm stunned by how much of this describes me and now I think I understand a lot more about how I survived. I also am more determined than ever to stay no contact with my brother, sister, and Dad (all of varying levels of narcissism). I just can't figure out how my Mom and I weren't exactly like the others. 🤷‍♀️ As soon as I got her away from their insanity, I watched my Mom bloom into a loving, supportive, funny woman for the last 16.5 years of her life. It's both sad 😢 and disgusting 🤮 that neither of her other children bothered to look. As for you and your mother, I get completely why you ran. In your position, I would've run far and fast. I hope you've made a great life for yourself because it sounds like you have. 🥰

[@moongirl786]

This could be describing me, except for the fact I'm also on the autism spectrum and that comes with additional sets of challenges. I am going on 30 and still living with my parents, and had to survive the pandemic locked in with my mom. I don't think anyone who is friends with my mom really believes me though. The thing I want most in this world is to move out, but I've tried everything and I can't get away. And of course, her father was physically abusive and alcoholic, and she moved from England to Canada to get away

[@Random2324]

Yes!!! This video is spot on. We can sniff out a narcissistic person simply based on that yucky feeling that they leave us with after an interaction with them. Also the need for personal space after interactions with negative people cannot be underestimated. But by God we have an inner strength that takes people by surprise as they often mistake our kindness for weakness...no way 💪💪

[@etherealjustice5786]

Yes By God!

[@trishr.3986]

The Narcissistic person an sniff us out as well. A lot of rear-end kissing for naught on their part! They cannot deal with aloofness, which is one one my many talents of dealing with them... I don't even have to roll my eyes anymore.

[@persuitoftruth]

People mistake my kindness for weakness all the time.

[@GenXBitch]

Absolutely

[@GenXBitch]

@@trishr.3986 this is so true! I tend to attract what I call “soul suckers”

[@leftykeys6944]

THIS IS ME!!!! I score 100%. Through the decades, my personal journal has been my key to sanity.

[@She-Ra-db7eg]

Sigma empath female here. Married a sigma male and waited 36 yrs to find and pick the sigma male after dating/wasting my time with boring predictable alphas. Well worth the wait. For sigma males in the waiting: sigma females exist. How to spot them in the room - look for a quietly leading "presence" in the room. The sigma female shifts the energy in the room with her quiet confidence and usually attracts the alphas but is easily bored by them. The sigma male will attract her by just being himself and matching her quiet confidence. A genuine smile of interest will say and be enough.

[@frankeerhyme7416]

Thank you for writing that. My daughter is 21 and has always seemed bored with guys (many people in general actually) to the point where people think she's cold and stuck up- but that couldn't be further from the truth- she's a fun,happy young lady that just happens to not enjoy the company of blabbering fools!!! She's now found someone very much suited to her personality and I honestly believe he's been an integral part of her personal growth(if that makes any sense🤷‍♀️) She told me recently that whenever a guy tries a pickup line on her,she just stands and stares at them like"please listen to what you're saying and reflect on what you're saying" Bloody classic! Women like yourself and my daughter are,in my opinion,much needed in our society and can teach the rest of us many a thing. Cheers if you read all of this, apologies for prattling on!Have a great day/night👍

[@She-Ra-db7eg]

@@frankeerhyme7416 Thank you for writing what is possibly the loveliest comment/reply I've read. Your daughter sounds awesome with a good head on her shoulders. I do not doubt that she'll go on to do great things in both big and small ways. I had to laugh at the pick up lines part because I've definitely done that too. Life is just too short to lead it with being inauthentic. We all have much to give and to learn from one another. Have an awesome week ❤️ ps. Nice Eddie Vedder pic

[@She-Ra-db7eg]

@HolyOutlaw You find what you're looking for when you're not looking for it or when you change why, How, where and in what ways you are looking. I hope you find her.

[@frankeerhyme7416]

@HolyOutlaw You will,just don't use any lame pickup lines and be yourself- falsities never go the distance and are easily seen through by those with eyes to see. Those same eyes will see you and love you, for you,nothing else. Best wishes to you🌷

[@frankeerhyme7416]

@@She-Ra-db7eg Good pic of him huh?!?! Usually people don't notice and think it's me🤣🤣 I'm female with a gender neutral name and a huge love of circa 90's Ed vedder!!. I appreciate you reading my earlier comment as it was written with honest intent. You're absolutely correct about not having time to waste with blah blah! I learned that waaay too late in life but stoked that both my daughter and 17 year old son have it pretty much nailed already- I love to observe, listen and learn from them.Too many people are too quick to write off the new generation imo. Have a good one, take care of you and yours🌷

[@nicitakoski5600]

it's so weird how as an adult i realise that this empathy thing i have is like a superpower, i can just feel if someone is authentic or not- the more you know :D

[@bigcconservativeguy2534]

I'd unfortunately have to disagree with your ability lol. You are watching and positively commenting on this video. FAIL! on authenticity check!

[@warrenpuckett4203]

It can also be a curse. Especially in the presence of a compulsive controller. Then you have to be ready to go head to head. Sometimes you can not just move on and let other unfortunates deal with him or her. But you can be relatively sure that the compulsiveness will be a trap they can not escape from. It is not that I can not deal with them. I would rather to do something else. My last run in with one. That can not retire. I retired 9 years ago. This woman is past that and can not because her ego will not allow her to scale down. Just sit on a porch and watch nature. Besides her 3 letter Cadillac is out of style. Again. One of those Fauci types that don't know what do, when it is time to hang it up. Let the younger generations deal with it.

[@lesablunt6298]

Wow that’s So True!!

[@xxx-pliskin-sniper-xxx8538]

It’s so weird as an adult, that I live on a planet full of other adults that think they have super powers…..

[@einwurm]

So for example you "feel" someone's not being authentic and then you know it because you feel it? How do you know that what you feel about a person is correct? You can't, unless you tell the person "you're not being authentic" and the person replies "that's correct, you seem to have a superpower". Which doesn't happen. Or there needs to be some kind of actual proof of the person not being authentic. In most situations there isn't any proof. So in most situations you simply assume things and then you believe those things because you feel it. Wow.

[@xavirik4828]

Its wild how accurately this describes me and now, I see it in my oldest son. I've always felt very alone in my own head and was pointed to this after some personality testing. Good to know I'm not completely alone

[@ferenchajdu6943]

You're not alone 🙂

[@johnbrazelton6130]

Wanna hang out? These are my people. All my best friends are sigma empaths.

[@einstein76]

Very accurate. I am my own best friends and I am happily always alone with my best friends.

[@IrieAllDay88]

Sigmas prefer to be alone 😉, so no worries. But I get what you're saying. This qualification helped me to understand myself better, so I cannot dismiss it as BS like some others in the comments. Of course there is no better way to know yourself than observation and self reflection through meditation. I also did the Myers Briggs test as well, and the pieces of the puzzle are finally coming together.

[@melaniemcniell272]

I have always enjoyed alone time. Lots of people can't understand that. I've been called a loner over the years as an insult which made me think something was wrong with me. Now I understand it's just the way I'm wired and there are many who feel the same. I'm nothing special good or bad. I just am what I am. To each his owne. How boring the world would be if we were all the same!

[@chincemagnet]

A lot of these apply to me, I used to be much better at reading emotions when I was younger, but drugs, alcohol, and lack of sleep have dulled that sense. Even though I’ve been sober for 15 years, it took a toll. One of the problems with constantly analyzing everything is it can be difficult to shut your brain off and sleep. One of the benefits of having this personality trait as a parent, is your kids can’t get away with anything, ever 😆

[@BeSatori]

Take care of yourself Brother. The world needs as many functioning Sigma empaths as it can get.

[@the_wanderer-03]

I was well into my 50's before I started understanding how important good sleep is. It is life changing if/when you get to a place where you sleep rock solid every night. Fountain of Youth.

[@guiaparponsian4891]

same, I smoke to at least get away with it..😞 I just can't hold the drain

[@GenXBitch]

Oh wow same here! I didn’t understand what was happening to me until it was too late lol I remember my first experience as feeling free of my thoughts and emotions. It was such a relief. Little did I know after 2 yrs and when I realized I was addicted to pain pills I was in for a whole new world of pain. I’ve been paying for those 2 yrs for 17 yrs now. Had I just learned how to deal with being an empath id probably be in a very different place in my life right now.

[@awakekiwi]

Yea the constant self refection and analysis of situations can get tiresome.. Cbd seems to help for sleeping. I have a theory that mercury exposure can trigger this kind of dynamic biologically. Its almost like its a precursor to a form of autism.

[@Fav.234]

I didn’t think it could get any more detailed. I thought I was just a Sigma but I knew I was an empath before I discovered I was a Sigma, so I’m definitely both and proud of it. It’s a wonderful life Of growthing Into one’s self!

[@brankostrbac7234]

me too

[@thed.a.4939]

Same here. I have much more research to do, but I believe I'm on the right track.

[@miketwice]

Same

[@vincentrivera4677]

Now i know what's going on with me! I thought I was super patient

[@veguardian9719]

Welcome to the tribe.

[@TracyAllenVideos]

This fits me so well, it’s difficult to imagine that most people don’t fall into the same category. Sometimes I’m not good at telling when someone is lying though. But overall, this video describes me. I feel like because of these reasons, I thrived more during the pandemic than any suffering. Great video 👍

[@christinalw19]

Trust thyself, dear one. Pay attention to first instinctual message you get about someone. 🙏🏼🤍🕊

[@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial]

Its due to high levels of disappointment. I dont have "feelings" but when I feel emotions it's extreme. I know when you're lying 99% of the time, because of the amount of times I've felt the emotions of people that lie. Before self-awareness of this, it was fairly easy to use it against me, because I reflect what you are feeling due to the amount of emotion behind it. But with self reflection and inner work you cant fool me the same way twice. Great vid.

[@domainflipp]

Look at heyoka empath information, it sounds like you are one.

[@daveyloveable]

I feel you brother 💪🏼

[@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial]

@@domainflipp 🤫dont tell my secret identity 😅

[@TheDjangoJoEShowOfficial]

@@daveyloveable Respect💪🏾

[@ragetotheend]

I could always tell when my brother was lying. It was crazy obvious. My mom always turned to me to see if he was telling the truth. That dumb dumb was always making the same micro expression giving it away. Lol

[@juanitahardy8583]

Wow......now Iearn I am a signa empath this late in life is quite eye opening. People, especially family, always criticize my values like there is something wrong with me because I embrace everyone of these characteristics you pointed out. I grew up in a narcissistic environment; I wonder if that's why I was the black sheep.

[@micky3096]

When I was a child, I could identify, and define ALL the adult's emotions of whom walked into a room, and of those that were within the same area as myself. I honestly thought ALL people, everywhere experienced, and felt the same thing that I encountered, daily. Sometimes I was scoffed at, and reprimanded by my Mother, and grandmother for talking about what I would feel/ see in others..even those of my classmates. As a result, I squelched this "gift" that I was born with. I'm now a 63 year old woman. For about the past ten years, or so, I have not kept this thing hidden, or a secret, but allowed this to flourish. And yes. Being alone, without sensing other people's emotions/thoughts brings peace.

[@Buddycoop1]

Me too. It's a talent but makes you feel you're weird. Now acquaintances, friends and family who didn't take my advice about a certain person/situation in the past now say "ask Rich, he always can tell what will happen." When I get a vibe about somebody I almost always call it. Many people used to call me negative but then tell me later I was right. It was a real hassle but now I've kinda of taken pride in it.

[@tonyafromtexas]

Thank you for explaining this. I've known that I was an empath for a long time, but was unaware of the term sigma. It makes a lot of sense to me. I grew up in an abusive, somewhat toxic household and then found myself in relationships with narcissists, this repeating the cycle of abuse for many years. I'm now 55 years old and have been single and actively working on my healing for the last seven years. I'm no longer putting myself in the midst of abuse, but rather working on my spiritual condition and actively processing the past experiences as an opportunity for personal growth. Thank you for providing me with this insightful video. I appreciate it.

[@dandldoouu5911]

growing up being in dangerous/toxic environments often strengthens these traits. u learn to read the slightest signs of someones emotions bc your survival depends on it. im happy you found yourself. and also that you reversed the downward spiral of putting yourself in the midst of abuse. many never get the chance to observe themselves from the meta perspective in order to realize how they've been treated and how they will not tolerate it any longer. i wish you the best!

[@buckkuhlmann3461]

Sigmas are better at one on one conversations than group conversations. Because we pick up so much energy in a room it's hard sometimes to open up to anyone unless one on one trust is formed by feeling their energy.

[@sarahhemlock]

So true!

[@notme-xo5cz]

Thank you so much for this video! For my entire life I have felt like I exist outside of everyone else's reality. For many years lately I have secretly wondered if I am slightly autistic or perhaps something else along those lines. I have considered so many different things. I have tried different medications to deal with my social anxiety and the severe depression that I get from being around people too much. I educated myself about as much as I could, hoping for an answer as to why I am me an why it can be so difficult being me. Nothing ever helped except living alone and strictly controlling the amount of exposure I have to people. Now I know the reason, without a doubt. I actually cried as I watched this. Thank you so much. Now I actually feel a bit proud to be me. Rather than feeling like I have some kind of problem that needs fixing. Thank You!

[@rickydautrich9960]

I actually cried as I read this, why is it so hard to be me? 42 years old and still stay in my room alone taking a break from everyone else. I spend a lot of time alone seems it's the only time I can feel completely comfortable. I feel that a transformation is going to happen to me and I want to be ready. This is the first time I ever saw someone else explain my life to a T. Thank you, if you know anything to help me, please send it to me.

[@vickigonya9432]

@@rickydautrich9960 I too prefer to be alone. Ironically been successful in sales all my working life. I'm 64 now. Divorced in 1997 and been on my own ever since. My home is my utopia,it's small but meets my needs and I love it. It's on 2.5 acres in the country. My dogs (6 pit bulls-big sweet cuddle babies) and I love being together. I'm trying to retire and just stay home with them 😍 I am unapologetic about booting toxic people & untrustworthy people from my life. I don't have company come over. I used to and loved it- not now! If anyone is here too long I get claustrophobic and they have to go. I relish holidays on my own, no expectations to fund, cook and serve disingenuous abusive family members only to have all left overs taken in my expensive dishes and being left with all the mess. No food. I make my dog food and "cook " for them healthy snacks( dehydrated wild caught salmon strips for treats) Just find your pace, your comfort level, enjoy your life.😍

[@SnarkyStuff1]

I have always been an empath but could not pin down which type I was. This explanation sums me up 100%.!!! It is comforting to know I am not alone, there needs to be a group for Sigmas to share and support these abilities with others.

[@wolfmacleod9473]

likewise! i knew i was a different type of empath from my other friends but couldnt put a name to it. Pretty cool that this description fits me to the bill. Definitely got some things to think about. Im not sure about a group but i would very much support a resource centre.

[@Serendipitate]

No, we are not alone and it is not possible to be alone because despite the fact that we are around 8 billion, the character type of people does not exceed a decimal number, after which the "indulgent" help of separation by geographical position begins , gender, color ... followed by artificial government tactics: language, religion, preferences, beliefs, sects, affiliations, etc.

[@liamgross7217]

Hello brothers

[@michaelbarr3039]

While I totally get and agree with what you are saying, I have to laugh at the irony of trying to form a group for men who value their alone time and independence more than anything. LOL

[@Truth_Seeker407]

​@@liamgross7217 Ay

[@doozowings4672]

This is exactly why my ex wife crashed and burned … As a narcissist, she thought she could manipulate and control me … how wrong she was … Being able to recognize your own flaws and working correcting them is total KEY … Being able to deflect vampires of emotional power has its benefits but tends to upset the person you “turn off” .

[@deadwoodbbqproducts2874]

Ditto!

[@aja1108]

I experienced this with someone. I resonate with being a sigma empath as well. I wanted to address how painful it is being in that type of dynamic. You talked about it like it's a game of chess. You didn't talk about what it feels live to truly love that person and the constant push back because of the conflict that they're in with themselves and you. It's a horrible experience. If you are truly honest, you know like I know that it was still a loss. Sure we kind of dodged bullets, I guess, but the amount of recovery we need after that type of ordeal is the most telling part. Being hyper aware isn't all it's cracked up to be.

[@reneebivin9374]

@@aja1108 trust in God. As an nde survivor God told me I would continue to have this gift until I die and stand before him for final judgment. Pray because he really does hear you. Keep the faith 🙏

[@danielrobertson2154]

Heh, sounds like my experience.

[@aja1108]

@@reneebivin9374 Thank you. I have started to pray more and with more intention and you are so right about being heard. I'm afraid to pray for a new relationship. I'm afraid of men at this point. I'm gonna ask to be free of that fear.

[@Irisphotojournal]

Emotionally drained is an understatement, and such comments like "You're a law unto yourself" have been used on me more than once so this stuff fits me well. I see myself more as an Introvert fitting the traits of the INFJ but didn't know myself well until much later in life and my understanding of all this is quite new to me. My world view has changed greatly since my younger days and now see myself in it, but not of it. It's a shit show for sure yet no one seems to care, they either, boldly don't give a **** and selfish or indifferent to it all. As someone that spends a lot of time alone the view from outside the fishbowl, seeing the world like it really is and not how think it should be has been a revaltion to me. It's like I was given a ticket to the greatest freakshow on earth and got a front row seat. It's no wonder aliens choose not land here and fly past.

[@carljensen333]

I’ve said that enlightenment is not the rosy place that folk imagine. It’s frustrating watching a world of lemmings that you can’t judge, you can only hope the current of humanity is working it’s slow way to emotional maturity. It’s like watching a slow motion train wreck and wondering if the conductor will wake up before disaster.

[@sexylexi3896]

Omg!! Well said! I have said the VERY SAME THING numerous times abt the aliens not wanting to land here like they used to in the ancient times!! I've said almost every single thing u articulated in your post! It's a crazy world! One I will nvr feel at home in. That's for sure!

[@deborahsacco186]

It gave me a profound sense of humor and I found the laughter that is contagious and it saved my life. Where's the popcorn? !

[@margaretcantlon9960]

​@@sexylexi3896..I know exactly how you feel after 78 years on this self destructive planet. But need to inform you that many Aliens are here. Some are behind the Cabal, others are trying to help us not to make the mistakes that they made when merging with their own Transhumanism movement. They want their own humanity back. !

[@margaretcantlon9960]

​@@deborahsacco186actually laughter is the only way to balance our sanity. I try to listen to one hour of Comedy on YT every day. Especially in the evening before bedtime. Laughter releases so many good hormones!😂😂

[@stevenengelhardt345]

Wait till you can feel the masses fear, and have test and learn that it's not your own fear...that was a fun life lesson...Thank you sir amazing work!!!!

[@davidvenniro1842]

Is this why I feel like shit most the time? I am a Sigma empath... this describes me exactly.

[@stevenengelhardt345]

@@davidvenniro1842 this is a very deep conversation to be able to fully explain my beliefs, I trained myself and practice my lessons daily.... everyone's different, it's truly something you have to figure out yourself on your path....bottom line it's a very hard path, but very rewarding on the journey... I take bits and pieces of everyone's words I look up to, and put it into my own style and perception..good luck sir

[@davidvenniro1842]

@@stevenengelhardt345 thank you for your response! I have noticed over the years that I can “feel” and sense others thoughts and emotions... it never occurred to me that it could potentially be causing/effecting my anxiety and depression. It makes sense the more I think about it... glad I came across your comment.

[@stevenengelhardt345]

@@davidvenniro1842 your welcome, glad I could help. Have a beautiful weekend

[@shelleymays8529]

I knew I was an empath, but this is the best description of my personality I've read. Thanks for this. It helps to know even though I'm mostly alone, there's others like me. I like my view point of the world. Love,kindness and fairness. Take care everyone. Blessings to all.

[@winstonbreach]

Same here. I was literally waiting for the next sign to not apply and it never came

[@guyjean-guy989]

I feel that what's to be done for sigma empaths atm is just to wait for older and lower energies of humanity to leave this planet (die) as nothing can be done with them in the sens of evolution, and that they take every baits from our intentionnaly misguiding ''leaders'' (from behind the scene), hence making it impossible to go somewhere positive. Then maybe something could be worked out. I feel like this should take about 12yrs or a little bit more.What do you guys feel about that? I might be even more alone than you. :P :P

[@wolfmacleod9473]

probably one of the more genuine responses to hearing a list about themselves in this comment section. introspective and non assertive. blessings and take care as well.

[@JonnyMack33]

yep..same

[@sharimiller9769]

Thank you for this post. In a time where all boats are cut loose on the seas to find their way I have trusted my path which is laid out for me with my intention, my team's protection and an ability to find my inner voice. It is a soulful course that has taught me strength, insight and patients. This video validates so much of the feelings I've had on this path I've traveled. Thank you again.

[@graphiteart2020]

I can relate to most of what I have just seen and heard, helped mainly being in a narcissistic environment. This resilience to the narcissist doesn’t happen over night, but is a defence built up over many years to deal with such abuse. Hadn’t heard of Sigma before I stumbled upon this video, thank you.

[@Myria83]

Same here.

[@Aussie.in.America]

I didn’t know there was a name for it. I am able to feel energies and emotions easily but take responsibility for maintaining my own frequency. I relate to all of this.

[@slabcityunicorn]

Sometimes I have to remember just observe don’t absorb

[@tourbillon13]

@@slabcityunicorn Am going to have that Tattooed on my inner wrist... otherwise I think I shall go completely doolally 😱 Can't carry the weight anymore. I guess "I am not a Doormat" wouldn't look quite as good 😎 Brilliant comment by the way 👏✨ Thankyou for the inspiration! Be kind to yourself. It's allowed! It's in the rules! 😁

[@slabcityunicorn]

@@tourbillon13 just put I observe only I try not to say the negative part just positive I am love I am light I was saying that over and over and over and then I called the hospital to check on my friend and the Lady answered Brawley Hospital I love you she said I can’t believe I just said that I told her I was just saying affirmations I am light I am love she said well you got through to me! I am definitely a sigma female Peace and love

[@1CarlAnthony]

I agree with you Monica, and I feel the same way. 😊

[@Meriale46]

I was born a Sigma Empath as was my daughter. We both fit every trait listed and then some not mentioned. Early on I had a very hard time separating myself from the energy of others especially those who were extremely negative. It affected my mental and physical health... Whenever I am in the presence of negative people I feel as if I'm being suppressed not just in a psychological way but I also have physical responses. The only way I can explain it is that it feels like pressure weighing down on my entire body. It zaps my energy and I have to rest for several days afterward to recharge my energy. Knwing how others think and feel isn't always a good thing. it comes in handy but if an Empath gets too involved it can be very detrimental to their sanity and physical health.

[@thewatchers5930]

Totally understand this to a T I love to not play by society's rules. But can shift to a Dark Empath 🖤 after abuse of every kind

[@Raven-ep6pq]

What type of empath are you? Since there are different type like the emotional empath that feels others emotions, the physical empath which feels others body pains, the animal empath that can feel and understand animal like if you’re like Dr. Doolittle. I can’t remember the name but some empaths can take an item and without knowing the empath can repair it without knowing the item, then you got the empath that can feel and understand the plants. I’m more of the emotional, physical, animal and items empath.

[@thewatchers5930]

@@Raven-ep6pq That is really interesting 🤔 I love the specific information very intriguing ❣️

[@Raven-ep6pq]

@@thewatchers5930when you’re an empath you tend to read a lot about it and since I’ve been all my life I’ve learn early on in life and my mom knew about this and she thought me how to control it so it’s been a long time since I’ve felt overwhelmed in crowed places. As a kid I use to have adult that would come to me in parks and any place that I was and would tell me their life stories and all the problem they had. When they would leave after they emptied out their emotions they would tell me I have no idea why I opened up like this to a child but thanks since my chest is not as heavy now. I had a liver transplant and I had a whole team of doctors to speak with before they did the surgery and the last doctor I had to see was a psychiatrist since they want to know how you would handle having a dead persons liver. Some how the psychiatrist was not listening but was telling me some of his problems. People always seem to be comfortable to just empty out their emotion. Here is something for you to do when you have finished with a person since the energy stays in you and can affect you. Alway drain your energy to ground by discharging your energy. Just imagine that all that energy is building up in your hand and point your hands to ground and imagine the energy leaving your hands as it’s entering the ground your send it to. When you do this you need to recharge your energy by placing your hands on a tree and absorb then energy into your hands as it fills your body. Trees are always in the sun charging throughout the day. Then just relax by being alone as you meditate. There is much more information available now a days then there was before and people don’t seem to judge you as a crazy person like they did in the old days. The more you learn to control the better you well feel so keep on learning.

[@joanthomastheorbmagnet9855]

It’s 1 of the greatest divinely given gifts, endless rewards for you and those you help. It’s taken me forever to really be able to block the negative, not carry it as my own and even become physically ill. That’s when you srarted to really set boundaries, self care and love being key. The flip side, it can be very difficult and burdensome. No enlightenment without facing your pain head on, pushing throigh it,as painful as it is and may become even worse. You come out of the other side a brught shiny and joyful you.. the rewards far outweigh the suffering that gets you to that higher dimension. This has been my experience, I’m 57 and have been gifted as far back as I could remember. Ty for sharing this video. It’s necessary, as well as absolutely true.😊❤

[@nicholasrobertson2218]

I am very grateful for this video. I fully identify with 15 of your list. It is very helpful in understanding my self. I am married to a very insecure narcissistic person. Though most advice is to except and move on. I find myself more excepting of her. Though difficult often. I feel I am remaining by my own choice. I feel I am outside and above the narcissistic loop. I have found myself able to repel the attacks and redirect it to it's source. Thank you agian

[@privateequityguy]

*12 Simple Self Improvement Principles For Mentally Strong Men* 1. Drink more water 2. Eat whole foods 3. Practice daily gratitude 4. Pick up a book 5. Daily walks outside 6. Listen to a TED Talk 7. Forgive someone 8. Take a day and leave behind your phone and all devices 9. Keep phone away from your bed (even better rest from all those devices) 10. Join a group of supportive individuals 11. Stop nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) 12. Congratulate yourself for this growth Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.

[@mrboombastic4664]

🙏 🤛 ❤️

[@levernis5753]

Wow those points were really good! Now i'm a woman, don't mind me running away with these.

[@slabcityunicorn]

I do every single one of them except the nail biting I found slab city California Place where I can be myself and everything that is a sigma empath is .

[@misstigerbubbles]

And women...don't be sexist lol

[@boogieuggie7865]

Interesting that you did not addressed this to women as well.

[@geneautry2091]

I'm in awe of the message you share regarding "Sigma Empaths" as it reflects me and my inner self 100%. I was born with a unique degree of sensitivity that has grown within for 66 years. Of four siblings I the eldest am the only one still alive. My twin sister lived only 26 hrs. My two brothers and mother have passed also. It's for a reason, despite my traumatic childhood and the years following following, that I'm still here. My dad was only 23 (I was 4) the first fight between my parents. He came home after work intoxicated upsetting my mother after which he left for awhile returning later that same night. We moved two more times ending in Aurora, Colo. where I age 7 began experiencing physically and emotionally my dad's intoxicated rage. I don't dwell on my past. But I also don't forget it. I forgive my dad and I love him. I am alone in my serenity guided by His strength, courage, and wisdom. There is where I see what's hidden.

[@abnormpsych17]

Hello Colorado neighbor 👋. Thanks for sharing.

[@Chrisfrom_Dallas]

Guess I won't be called an empath, but when someone is really hurting they won't tell it to a sigma, they are ashamed to admit it. We see it though. And we feel for them.

[@trishhill7563]

I'm an empath but this is the first time I've heard of this type of empath. I'm intrigued 😍 No one is inferior. That's a man made term. We're all God's creation and he created each of us equal. 2:49 I'm definitely NOT easily manipulated. I let people think that they're manipulating me lol. Gotta have my alone time. It's how I recharge & connect with God. 6:30 omg I can't stand to feel like someone is trying to take away my freedom & independence. Ain't gonna happen. 7:13 I can sense a lie before it comes out of the person's mouth. I'm not easily fooled. I've always been able to do this even as a child. My mother is a narcissist or worse. I definitely do A LOT of reflecting. I have all the qualities you have covered. Thanks my friend! 😍

[@vickigonya9432]

I've always said I was constantly self correcting. My ex-husband was shocked I told him what my flaws were. I didn't see a need to hide it. It's all about truth & authenticity,

[@cheyennewood1621]

Another thing, I have always lived by the moral of seeing everyone as an equal to me. I don't see anyone better than me nor do I see myself better than anyone else. What I see is that we all just make different choices in life and we all have different timelines, meaning that what happens for me by a certain age or time in life isn't always going to happen for others in that same time frame or vise versa.

[@patrickhayes7407]

When I finally realized these things about myself and that I was not only an empath but a sigma empath My life started to make more and more sense and continues to this day.

[@mauriceboyland5407]

I've known this about myself for most of my life. Even before I knew there were terms for all these traits. What surprised me the most was that most people are not like this.

[@jennamiller8648]

Completely agree 👍

[@jessicaann6302]

I agree I am definitely a empath but I have narcissistic traits I’ve been trying to pin point what I am my father was a horrible narcissist, my mom was always a empath but she was selfish she was never a mother too me she married a man who I hated he treated me like sheet! She never stood up to him. I suffered a lot growing up and I never had anyone I have disowned my father who was a narcissist womanizer and he like younger as well. He went to prison. My mom has been a waitress for 39 years and my step dad was lazy and didn’t work.

[@jessicaann6302]

I just never ever wanted to be anything like either one of them.

[@tclanjtopsom4846]

Yeah, it's amazing how we all have these traits. 😂

[@NikkiShivaTheGrimReaper]

Encase there are people who still are scratching their heads about me, here are 15 clearly defined traits to help. Thank you for sharing this video ☺️🖐️🥳👍💜

[@doughoch9176]

We stand alone. One thing you can never. Change is the reality. The knowledge and wisdom you learn. Whether it is a blessing or a curse.

[@mumamishka9551]

I knew I was an empath, but after watching this video I'm 100% a sigma empath. Knowing how rare it is actually gives me a sense of relief and comfort because I feel like I'm a different species, like no one thinks like me, and knowing my personality has a 'name' or is recognized, well I kinda feel like I don't know, maybe not so alone in this world. Or maybe just recognized. I've always felt it to be a super power but in reality it can be very hard being an empath, and whilst I don't care what ppl think and I'm very comfortable with who I am, and I value freedom and my alone time above anything else, once in a rare while I wish I was just like everyone else, seems like life might be easier, then I snap out of it and own who I am. I will never conform, I've learnt a lot, been thru a lot, I'm very honest and direct, I'm the friend you come to when u need to hear the harsh truth but also want to resolve your issue, I'm not the friend you whinge to.... Ppl learn that pretty quick lol

[@gabby20]

I have no idea what to say but everything you were saying I just cried all the way through and still am crying as I comment. I need to ground myself and know deep within the changes within will be benficiaql for me. I absorb so much energy and lately I've felt like the lonyliest person but this video really made me feel I'm not alone. Even though I'm still crying. Maby I need to cry. Thank you xx

[@o-townminideals3104]

I have always said that I live my life by a set of rules/code and I hold everyone equally to the same code. It doesn't matter what they've done in their past as long as they're cool with me I'm cool with them. I'm kind to everyone because hopefully they'll do the same with the next person they come in contact with but it's also easy to spot the ones that are going through something when you're kind to them and their not to you... It's like watching someone kick a puppy... You know there's problems with that person.... I wish them the best and keep moving on with my journey of life.

[@Sarielx83]

M2

[@tourbillon13]

Oh boy, you really hit the spot there. Some people just take and take and take...🤔 I don't need anything in return for being kind or helping out, but like you say, I do expect to be treated the same way. Sadly, it rarely works like that and tends to set one up for hurt and that terrible feeling of being used then discarded by the wayside 😶 I am learning, finally, to say no. It's totally alien to my psyche and is so difficult!!! Getting the balance just right is my goal. I wish everyone here strength and protection, for we are tender souls. Peace and Light 🌟

[@sharontuck9426]

I have always known my empathy was different & over time I've had to accept I am not like others in the way I feel, sense, & respond to every aspect of life. Having 2 narcissists in the family, has proven an interesting but challenging role as I seem to be the only one capable of having real & deep conversation with them. It can be draining at times when you are the only person who can, but I'm glad to be able to communicate with them & then help the rest to see where they are coming from 💜

[@marcellemay7721]

I'm one of those Sigma empaths. As a kid, I would feel what people would feel. I had to learn how to feel it but not let it affect me. It took me until my mid teens to be able to isolate their feelings from mine. I have a real gift for telling sincerity from BS. As a matter of fact I can sense the energy of a manipulator, bull sh!tter, before they even open their mouth. I don't believe it's something that can be taught, unless you already have an instinct for it. Huge egos and false bravado make me puke in my mouth a little bit. LOL

[@sauronthelordoftherings3374]

Both me and my mother are hypersensitive to the emotions of others around us, but my mother frequently talks about getting overwhelmed by negativity around her. I don’t. I doubt I’m a sigma empath thiugh, just because I only fit some of these, and creating arbitrary personality groups is BS anyway.

[@feeltheforce10]

Its all in your mind - You are under delusion.

[@tonysplace9255]

If huge ego's, and false bravado make you puke in your mouth, then I would suggest to you not reading your own posts.

[@tonysplace9255]

@@sauronthelordoftherings3374 People are putting too much focus on social issues. Live, and let live.

[@amandak6986]

I've always known I'm very empathic but had control which is not normal for most empaths.This is the first I've heard of Sigma empath and I fit every trait mentioned. Thanks for sharing, helps to know there's more of us out there💜

[@SaraKvammen-tx7qc]

Yes.I can tell when someone even thinks about lying.If I see them in front of me.If I can't see them,I feel it instantly.

[@peterbrinkerhoff5665]

I had never heard of this until today. This describes me. However, I also have ADD and have definitely had moments where Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria was a thing. I am immensely good at self-reflection, and am my largest critic when I make a mistake. I don’t particularly care about hierarchies, yet work as a professional firefighter in a rank structured world. My abilities to connect with patients or victims on calls is incredible. That isn’t self flattery either, because I also absorb pain and fear from them and end up carrying some of that with me. I have been called a natural leader, and that I’m charismatic, but have failed to see that in myself. I always saw leaders as alpha and dominant. I’m neither alpha or dominant. When I do lead, I lay out expectations and objectives, establish my leaders intent, and then let my resources/personnel do their jobs, without micromanagement from me. I have no problem being assertive when needed though. I am incredibly good at spotting narcissistic and manipulative people, as well as con-artists. I do not suffer them. If I can ignore them, I will. If I cannot avoid them, I keep them at arms distance or further. I also try to warn or educate those I do care about of their presence. I value my alone time above many things. I can be part of a social event, yet find myself floating toward a corner of the room and just people-watch and scan the room. Anyway, this was a well articulated video, and I appreciate it.

[@nerdwasteland2931]

ADD and ADHD Are a defense mechanism our brains developed as babies because we were in the middle of a stressful environment and we couldn't do anything about it. So, as adults it manifests in different ways and doctors just throw pills at us instead on seeing it for what it is.

[@TheSigmaGrindSet]

This personality trait and your personal accounts strike a strong accord with me… Both my brother & I were diagnosed with ADD as adults (we lost our mother to cancer at 9 & 10 respectively, which a physician proposed was the reason we both have this condition)… I also sometimes suffer from “imposter syndrome” if I think too long about a situation; even though on paper (academic achievement) and through practical experience I would be listed as high achiever…

[@pija9505]

Peeps with add have a gift called hyperfocus. If they are interested in a subject they can hyperfocus on it. The worlds wheat was genetically mutated and swapped out with the natural wheat world wide. It gives alot of people add.

[@dallas-cole]

These videos makes me feel I am trying to push the boundaries of myself to try to fit in one of those categories.

[@ragetotheend]

But why? You can't twist your personality. It will always show it's TRUE color.

[@shamanahaboolist]

Then you probably aren't that category.

[@robertfpjr]

I’m reminded of something I once read, “Others may mock me or throw gold as they choose, I am satisfied with myself and the rest does not matter.”

[@alexmottley8890]

It's like the switch for 'fight or flight' mechanism was turned on, but never switched off. So you're in a constant state of hyper-alertness which seems to engage a state of hyper-empathy simultaneously. Taking it all in and feeling it like you're living through the people you encounter. It weighs heavily, it is better to be alone in order for the mind to remain stable. The hardest part of living, is watching the world fall apart and watching the masses be misled my psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists, when you know you posess the power and the knowledge to do something about it.

[@christinastateham3048]

Exactly!

[@Buddycoop1]

Well said Bro. That's why our lives are tough. We see the easy solutions but nobody else listens to us, so we have to sit back and watch and shake our heads.

[@TotemCrow]

I knew I was empathic. Now I realise I am a Sigma Empath. Identified with everything but especially the ability to spot liars. Actually it feels like my blood turns black when someone is lying to deliberately deceive me. This has panned out so many times.

[@Buddycoop1]

I can sense and see a sales person from a mile away. Yet others fall for it over and over.

[@paulettelamontagne6992]

same. I also can telling me on a job interview too if I'm hired or not or who's going to give me a bad time and who's not upon meetings and I have to have a long time or I freak out also have been someone people gravitate towards when I make no effort and one advice when I don't know I have been able to bring peace to very bad situations I thought that's just because I ran a club for so many years it was my job

[@regisbritto2607]

Bless her heart, Dr. Judith Olof, for being empathetic towards US! Will get hold of her book! Bravo EMPATHS!

[@michaelsmullen9891]

I never realised there was an exact personality type for myself. Always new I was highly empathic but in reading about the personality type of an empath, it didn't quite fit. This is the first I've heard of a Sigma Empath and it's uncanny how well it fits. I just thought I was a bit different because I was adopted. Thank you.

[@tickledcobweb8764]

Yes That’s what I thought

[@lisamoseley4577]

Indeed, my birthday into Sigma Empath was 5-12-2022 it took me 56 years to get here. I have always said Pigeons flock together while Eagles fly alone darling🤘🤘🤘

[@donnadaniels5095]

Thank you for this video🎯 Sigma Empath Awakening 👁

[@termopylae5506]

I was an people pleasing empath, but after a few years of abuse from a friend/workmate that i now know is a bonafide narcissist (i spent more than 1000 hours researching the subject when i realized what i was dealing with). I'd say that my experiences from that and life in general has made me into a sigma empath. I feel so much stronger and in control these days. Before i doubted my abilites reading other people because when i discussed this with other people they didn't see it the same way as i did. Time proved my 'hunch' to be right though, so now my confidence in myself has gotten much stronger.

[@anwiii55]

it's not about reading other people. it's about feeling other people. what you are describing is intuition....not an empath....

[@termopylae5506]

@@anwiii55 it's an interesting question. When you read a person, would you not include feeling? I would argue that reading a person is a mix between feeling a person and your intuition.

[@theotherorange3586]

I used to call it reading people but now I know it's spiritual discernment. Narcissistic personalities will be drawn to you like a magnet and like to hide behind you like a parasite. That took me a bit to figure out as well so don't feel alone that way.

[@bigjuice2773]

When the video started talked about leadership it helped me understand why the jobs I've had in the past constantly wanted me in an AGM/GM role. I didn't understand because I am extremely reserved and rarely tried to stand out but it makes a little more sense now! Great watch.

[@Bloke_Box]

I'm glad to hear that the video was helpful to you and that it helped you to better understand your own experiences and skills. It's common for people who are naturally reserved or introverted to be overlooked for leadership roles, as they may not fit the typical stereotype of a leader. However, leadership is not necessarily about being the most outgoing or extroverted person in the room. In fact, many introverted leaders are able to use their natural strengths, such as their ability to listen actively, to think deeply, and to work independently, to their advantage. They may be able to create a more collaborative and inclusive work environment, and they may be able to build strong and trusting relationships with their team members. So, if you have been successful in leadership roles in the past, it's likely that you have unique strengths and skills that have enabled you to excel in those roles. It may be helpful to reflect on those strengths and to consider how you can continue to develop and use them in your future endeavors.

[@kathleenparadise2932]

I’ve seen Judith o. Twice in my life and She is amazing. I learned so much from her.

[@spiritofthetrees7441]

Ok yeah. Nice, I resonated with 14 out of 15! I’ve always known I was an empath, but knew I was a different type because I don’t struggle with carrying others’ emotions and I’m not a people pleaser. However, extremely perceptive and empathic. 💕

[@persuitoftruth]

When I was younger I had those, but now I am the same as you. I lost that through pain in my life that affected those areas.

[@iowa7693]

I'm a retired nurse, and being an empath has been a up-and-down life. When I started in the 70s, didn't even know there was such a thing. I remember asking a lady if her right leg was okay. No problem! A week later she fell and broke her right hip. I was able to heal the unhealable wounds, very goal-driven on that one. One of my last jobs, home nursing. I came on Friday, called the boss and said something was wrong with Bee, she felt great, vitals were fine. Two nurses that were much much better than me saw her that weekend, and said she was fine. Vitals are great! But I knew. Monday afternoon came, and she collapsed. The hospital said she had severe sepsis, induced coma for six weeks then another few weeks of rehab. I knew. Nurses save many people in their careers, and we are the ones that take them out of their misery at the end. Doctors only prescribe the med. The nurses are the ones that give the meds and the afterlife cares before the morgue comes. Intuition and empathy were paramount to my job. At home too, but I seriously needed and craved that alone time. " people might forget who you are, but they never forget how you made them feel" I'm having a hard time with retirement, I'm not getting the warm fuzzies anymore, people being glad to see me. Understand I wrote a book here, but my husband is not the most talkative and Lucid person. He does tell people I saved his life many times though. Because I knew.

[@sandraschultz3104]

Your psychic and telepathic with your empathy

[@iowa7693]

@@sandraschultz3104 thank you for understanding. Don't think I'm crazy. But I went through a street light thing many years ago, working overnights. And nobody believed when I said I clocks change, lights, tech stuff messes up. I blew up three cable boxes when I got out of the hospital one time. God has saved my life in incredible ways. Deer runs in front of me, certain disaster. Im' driving a Mustang convertible. An animal who jumps over trees, timber, Hills valleys mountains. Tripped on a 6 in piece of cement dividing the two ways, just so many, Sandra. Nobody knows about this. I got to tell you this one dear. I was driving through the absolute worst embattled area of town, we had lived there, for 10 years so I kind of wanted to check out the neighborhood you know. A guy came out of an intersection in front of me and I really don't know what happened. I remember him going fast and I barely remember hitting the brakes. Chicago, St louis, Minneapolis, all came to my car see if I was all right and what in the world did I do? Shaking their heads. Total disbelief. I knew the guy from here. St Louis was actually kind of scared. I said we need to pray. So St Louis, Chicago Minneapolis, and my city, had a moment of, unity, peace in the valley. Sorry I vented. I really do not have any friends. I scared off the ones that saw some of these things. You take care of you and yours. And I can tell about your personality from what you wrote. Very simple, a few words, but I knew you wouldn't laugh at me.

[@obycf]

I am a nurse (no longer working as one) I worked for 4 years doing postpartum, well baby nursery, NICU, and some antepartum. I felt I was different as a nurse than many of my coworkers because with only my intuition, I knew when something was wrong even when vitals and testing showed no problem. I healed with simply “being there” for the patient. Most of the time it only took my touch and my understanding and my willingness to be there for their best interest at all odds and the courage to go against anyone including the physician, my boss, the charge nurse, whoever. I did this many different times in the ways I figured out best to do so and with still being able to keep my job - a fine line that required respect from those around me and benevolence on my part. This took a toll on me over the 4 years and I had to come to realize that my best work was not being done as a nurse (just personally, I believe that nursing is an amazing way for people better able to handle the stress related to doing nursing in this way, it just wasn’t able to be done by me). I applaud you for being a true empathic healer and using your light to heal more than you even realize in the world, one patient at a time. I hope this comment helps you see that the warm fuzzies should only be more frequent because of the continued healing that was sparked by your hand. You have done more than you know and those waves only continue on because of you. Thank you for your service ❤️

[@normanschmidt8389]

Thank you. The thing about the ability to unerringly identify untruths comes from seeing the world from a place of truth. Truth knows itself and therefore also knows what it is not. When one calibrates their moral compass to the highest ethical standard and follows it, they find the realm of truth and move in. This is the place of all protection. The truth cannot be killed. Thank you again and God bless everyone.

[@steven.cutright]

I'll be 39 tomorrow and I'm just now coming to understand that I am an empath. It sounds like I'm a sigma. At this exact moment in time I'm also coming to see my wife as being extremely high on the narcissistic spectrum. No worries tho, now that I can see and understand these things, she doesn't stand a chance.

[@babyking5763]

Lol, don’t take KZbin videos too seriously man. People are a hell of a lot more complicated than a few different catagories.

[@steven.cutright]

@@babyking5763 I agree for sure. With this being 3 months ago, a lot has happened since. Making this post came at a time in my life when I was essentially waking up to certain things. Can't say that I understand it all by any stretch but I know a bit more now then I did then.

[@slabcityunicorn]

You should check out Slab City Ca There’s lots of a sigma empaths out here . Last free place in 🇺🇸

[@xdaydreamerx]

Its good to remember that most people are somewhere on the narcissistic spectrum. People are complicated creatures and these video's are oversimplifying things. I wouldnt take it so serious. Alot of people who think they are an empath are just average. It could be that your wife is high on the spectrum of narcissism but it could also be something else or nothing at all.

[@Jrodcarter]

This was quite an awesome presentation, and surprisingly applicable!

[@betsipasco7904]

Some of these signs, I was aware of as far back as Elementary/Primary School. Any others I've started to become MORE aware of as of 2018 & listening to this video, I'm well aware that I would be a Female Stigma Empath. I was told by someone I knew, that I saw things that nobody else did & others didn't want people to see. This video has been very, very helpful in my growth. Thanx for assisting me to be even more aware & more educated in myself!!

[@nickbmmj]

Thanks for sharing that video! I resonant with a lot of it. I feel that all empaths are on the path to being the sigma empath. It feels like the evolution of the consciousness for empaths, like empowered empaths. I feel im at least half way there with that list and the other half striving towards

[@dionbryant330]

Cheers. Well I know I'm a Sigma and due to having a covert narcissistic Ex, I'd say it's fine tuned my empathic levels.. I know I can see well beyond the masks of many. I'm always trying to define the core of the person. Therefore I believe there's a strong possibility that I'm an SE. Peace be upon you

[@timekeepsonslipn]

I am in the same boat, years of hell with my ex Narc who not only was a covert but has many other traits of the other narcs as well. I've learned alot over the past 7 years and still continue to do so. I thought I was having some real mental issues well still do lol but this information here is new to me and I find alot of those sound like me , so maybe I'm not really going off the deep end after all. I stay isolated and in my head , probably too much. Not necessarily a good thing. Lessons , and I'm still to this day learning. Xoxo

[@OrganizingChaosYoga]

I’ve found the higher level types love being read by a “Sigma Empath” but there’s quite a few in a group that really dislikes being read so easily. It’s as if you’ve given them a real mirror to their insides and they do not appreciate the gift. Perhaps there’s even some fear and resentment within many. This always makes me sad because my intentions are always altruistic. Do I inadvertently hunt the a-holes…🫣

[@peacewillow]

you just described my life..... ☺️ after 58 years on this earth, absorbing everything around me, i'm now trying to figure out how i can branch out from my personal circle and use what i've learned to help others on a global scale. being a "sigma empath" in the modern world can be quite a difficult burden to bear, so i imagine i was given this "gift" for a reason. it must be helpful to more than just me and those i encounter in my life..... i just need to figure out how. 💞

[@cypher7648]

Watching this as an empathetic woman, I found some things really hit home.. almost everything you have mentioned I find true in my life. Maybe this applies to me also. Thanks for a great video again 👍🙏

[@TheLooseTruth111]

I have always been a strong empath, but this let's me explain myself with fewer words. I AM a Sigma Empath ❤️🙏😇

[@jdhenry6300]

In all my years, I have literally felt others emotions, have been able to tell instantly about a person's internal good or bad thoughts and behavior, I hate crowds because of so much good and bad energies. And talking or texting to someone online, it's easy to tell if they're truthful or deceiving, it is truly much more peaceful being alone.

[@scottmiller6270]

Just wanted to point 1 thing out. Empaths are sponges and magnets. We can attract or repel but, it takes Energy work. It's not as easy as others make it out to be. Learn how to repel negativity and toxicity by using your own energy against it. Similar to an energy bubble that nothing can pass or get through. I call it putting up my barriers. Anyone can achieve this with the proper tools, regardless if you're a "natural" (born with it) or just learning it.

[@andrewgreen2726]

Is it possible to become a sigma empath through life experiences? Listening to this video made me aware of how my interactions with narcissistic people have actually made me a stronger person. Instead of being a helpless victim, I just walk away. These people no longer have any power over me. As for valuing my personal space, this has always been a vital part of my existence, without it, I am unable to function. Thank you so much for making this video. It made me think a lot about who I am😊

[@SilazComments]

Thanks greatly for that! Now I know the termininology of who I am. Very positive and inspiring video. Good work.

[@moonsong2118]

I have all these traits. They have only gotten stronger with situations and people I have dealt with in my life and yes sadly, I’ve had to deal with one too many narcissists.

[@littlebitmckee8234]

I am so thankful for this video. I never knew there was a label for who I am. Everything now makes sense. Two more traits…. I don’t like chit chat,at all. And, I feel trapped if I am in a physical situation where I can not leave when the negative energy is beyond the scope of what I can affect.

[@johannalindstrom6262]

I’ve always been an empath but I got so overworked with lots of trauma from taking up other peoples problems and feelings so that I turned the complete opposite way (after a very difficult relationship with a narcisist) and I all of a sudden did not feel other peoples feelings at all anymore, I felt quite cold and could only think about my self since I never really put my own feelings first when there was others to care about. When that happened I quickly saw what was going on and forced my self to be more compassionate again and worked on that. Since that I have turned out to be this what you describes as a sigma empath and I’m very grateful.

[@shirleywheatley5168]

Wow, I hit every point of the 15 points, however due to horrific circumstances from childhood on, it has taken me to this late time in life to fully understand who and what I am. It's extremely hard coming to terms with having basically wasted an entire life with bad decisions and questionable choices, recognizing and accepting that life dealt me a really shitty hand, while also holding myself accountable for much of it. Looking at the bigger picture and at the ripe age of 58, I know there must be a reason for the constant and unrelenting bad luck that has plagued me or the choices of life. I can only self correct, forgive myself and others for betrayals, then keep it pushing. I'm still alive, surprisingly healthy, considering; and fairly attractive. So, Gratitude, and Love to God, Jesus, Angels, and Ancestors, for the chance to carry on in Faith and believe in miracles. Highly Enlightened- Fiercely Protected, Shirley

[@bigfriz1229]

This hit home. it took me a long time to work it all out at 46 and I made big changes. There is always hope, keep making positive choices and they manifest as more positivity in your life. If you make bad choices you will drown in bad luck... Keep your head up, you got this... We got this, one positive step at a time. ❤❤💪💪🚀🚀✨✨

[@julesc8054]

It give us a great capacity to love. Forgiveness is the transformation of pain anger etc into pure love. I use meditation to follow the emotion and travel with the arc angels to the source if the trauma. This way my mind can't interfere and hide the trauma from me. I can then change the negative belief I created in that moment into a positive affirmation. The power of forgiveness is radiant love. The regression meditation in called journey and I was abls to find someone in my area.

[@monkshavano3613]

Your not alone,60 and finally getting grips on being an empathy,we will make it,love to you!

[@dendemano]

I was bullied when I started secondary school, and as such missed most of my schooling until leaving without any qualifications. I adored primary school and still have fond memories of my teachers. One particular teacher advised my Mother that I was as close to a gifted child that he had ever taught. I received an award for achieving 100% attendance throughout primary school. At 15 years of age I struggled to display confidence, although I always had an inner, quiet self confidence in my own ability. I craved adventure, a challenge, and a need to succeed. Especially, in the eyes of others. To the total surprise of everyone I knew I joined the Royal Marines at 18. I thought I’d made a huge mistake when I arrived to start basic training. Listening to the other recruits telling everyone and anyone who would listen, about how they were going to achieve this and that. I truly wondered why I had been so stupid to have started out on such a career path. 54 started and 12 finally passed out. I learnt such a lesson whilst watching those who fell by the wayside and slowly but surely grew in confidence and realised my true potential.

[@spmoran4703]

There are many empaths in the military. There has to be.

[@dendemano]

@@spmoran4703 That's an interesting observation. I'm hoping there isn't an element of sarcasm involved. I have been described as just that, and I certainly possess a degree of traits and characteristics that pertain to such individuals. Thanks for your reply. Peace.

[@robgau2501]

I really appreciated this video. I had an intuition that I am one of those. Now I'm sure of it.

[@adamcrance3372]

I definitely fall under this category. The leadership portion really peaked my interest because as accurate as it is leadershipis not always the easiest. I have been in a major leadership role in a retail setting. My boss was quit possibly on the narcissistic spectrum. I was presented with tasks straight out of the gate that I had not been equipped to deal with. So my lack of confidence combined with a complete understanding of both my boss and my peers emotions and intentions created a nearly impossible to navigate situation. I knew that in some regards I was not meeting expectations but also knew that the expectations were unrealistic given the resources and training provided. I don't know if anyone could have succeeded under those conditions but being aware of every little micro aggression only allowed me to prolong my stay in the position long enough to get my self backed in to a corner, and yet fully understand all of the mistakes I had made that were used against me with no way to refute those aspects. Though not all of the shortcomings were legit I found it a hard fight because some were, so I could not help but hold myself accountable.

[@nancinyols8015]

I thing we can ONLY work with a really trusting boss who tells you what he wants, then hands off and trusts you to get it done. That kind of boss also comes to love you as he can trust you to help him look good/meet his own goals, etc. Micromanagers hate us as they cannot 'drive' us with their manipulation and shaming techniques. Add some joy to your life - don't just look for a job... shop around for the right boss. It will save you years of grief.

[@jodisimeral4531]

This explains a lot!! I’m in a leadership role and I’m very good at it and very confident in that role. However, I always butt heads with upper management. I find myself backed in a corner as well and alone. It’s becoming hard to deal with. Especially in a dog eat dog field I work in.

[@narutoshakra6227]

Welcome every body and blessing for those who read this .

[@DianaBurkley-zu8kd]

I am experiencing a refinement, a transition of sorts, into fitting that sigma profile. I think it was there initially but was damaged along the way. Recent and increasing revelations are leading me back to my original self.

[@constablekennedy7705]

Long Live Sigma Nation ……… 🙏🏿

[@daveyloveable]

🙏🏼

[@pushparaj7126]

Which one 🤔

[@daveyloveable]

@@pushparaj7126 If you are sigma you shouldn't be confused.

[@lookwaticando909]

Long live the real ones the tourist can stay but y’all gotta move on soon before we are all wiped out and targeted by the antichrist

[@IamKingFace1]

💪🏿

[@cosanostra101]

I had an experience once that got me by surprise. It was back in 2011 in Rome. I was vacationing in Italy and while in a line to get inside the Coliseum right in front of me there was a family from USA. The father was in the military (I know it because later on he dropped his ID to pick the admission tickets and I handed to him), and the mother was with a 6 year old boy by her hand. The father was holding a 3 year old in his left arm, the kid was kind of whining. The couple were having and argument at the same time. I looked at the 6 year old eyes while he was looking up to his father, he had a smile and was in a daze looking to his father in admiration, completely alienated about his parents argument. After a couple seconds he started poking his father asking for attention. He said gently "dad, dad" he wanted to say something he was daydreaming about, probably picturing his heroic father in some sort of situation of something like that. I felt like I was inside this kids mind. Then all of a sudden his father yelled back "WHAT!!??!" , very angry. I felt a physical punch to my stomach and the kids face turned immediately to a scary state and at the same time he was knocked of to reality and started crying. It broke my heart immensely. I was devastated and it ruined my day. The coloseum visit was pointless, I hated it. All I could think was how can you talk like this to your loved one? I never forget that day and will never will til I die. Now I have a 5 year old daughter and am proud to say I never raised my voice to her and she is treated with tenderness and love. I am against education with blackmail, punishment or thru fear. Me and wife we just say no to her if her life is in danger. I just hope this family is well and the kid can forgive his father for the broken heart.

[@1seraphimblue]

So, in the larger view, you had a moment of empathic connection with the boy, and from watching his experience and feeling what you felt- what was his heart breaking, HIS day being ruined, him hating the coliseum, you learned and grew from the experience to become a much better father. That’s perhaps why these people were put in front of you that day, why you had to have the experience. People don’t often see the good that comes of a bad situation or understand that, in the grander scheme of things, God has a plan, and everything that happens is part of that plan. I think that’s because people can’t fathom that, we humans… we tend to see good things and experience good things and take them for granted, not usually having been truly enriched by the experience or growing from it in a positive way, but when we see or experience negative events, we rarely forget them, there is much more potential to learn to grow from that. It sounds like your daughter is destined to do something great. It’s sad that the little boy had to endure that experience at all, but it’s good that you were there to witness it and to learn a very valuable thing from it. Children require much patience, and it sounds like you were delivered that patience in a single moment.

[@jdadam1]

It was difficult and I got a stomach hit just reading your observation....that energy is so dark it just keeps going. I hope they grow up learning to love themselves, as Narcissists love no one enough to change for the better, the more you love them the colder, harder and meaner they get. Be well, be happy, be in comfort and Peace.

[@jeffron7]

All darkness serves the light. Something was learned there, so all is good.

[@Buddycoop1]

Yep, you gotta hate the good old crew cut military guy. Abused wife and kids. All is fine as long as he gives orders and his family takes them. Pathetic.

[@l.c.ArTByLora]

Literally describing me completely..💯🥺 it is soo draining being me, self love and self care activities have really helped me through and try and help others❤️

[@pseudopsychonym]

I was once a narcissist. then someone broke me by showing me how emotionally insecure I was. Years went by as I learned how to better read people, just to not get hurt again. I became an empath. Recently I learned about alpha mindset and got my life in control, still not completely there, but I feel like I am developing into a Sigma Empath. maybe that's why I can easily spot narcissistic behavior and help people overcome it. I have been there.

[@lisamoseley4577]

Me too as a kid and I had my niece's bring me back to earth again and I love that of them. So I also see both sides of the coin sis. Be well😘

[@debbylou5729]

You can believe what you want. EVERYTHING I've learned and been told that a narc cannot be helped. Period. There is, after all the fact that they can't be wrong

[@susanpauli3719]

I comend you....

[@freewoman4404]

Narcs do not have the ability of self reflection. Therefore, you were never a narcissist.

[@jayceeshops]

I promise you, u were not “once a narcissist”. No way would you self reflect and work on those problems. Narcissistic believe theyre perfect and have no flaws. Everyone else is the problem.

[@John_Conner222]

I noticed an uptick in videos from many of the popular manosphere gurus that "sigmas don't exist, they are gammas". I was puzzled by this and looked into it. Basically it boils down that sigmas are smarter, more evolved, and alphas just can't handle that there is a more advanced version running around (albeit a very small group) of men running around that can EASILY challenge their power and they don't like. They do NOT like it one bit. So in an effort to protect their reality they try and use a feminine tactic of shaming to try and feebly belittle sigmas into submission. While I do agree that gammas are FAR more proliferate and that one could mistakenly be a gamma and not a sigma. I've known all my life that I was different in a way that rubbed those in charge the wrong way and i've always enjoyed that fact. Only in the last 5-7 years have I discovered the names for it (first empath then sigma; combining it now makes even more sense and why an alpha stuck in the 3rd dimension can't figure us out and call us an emotional gamma as a way to protect their ego). It feels nice to know what it is. It helps with focus on life work and purpose because this is not just a way to say, "haha im better than you silly alpha", it actually has a purpose (and not a very fun one) of lifting the human condition and consciousness up and out of the dense miasma its in. The only regret in life I have is that I did not learn these facts until later in life. I had always had a knowing in my heart and the back of my brain but now having concrete evidence that I can act on and do great work would have made me an even more effective human being. I'm also of the belief that ALL sigma empaths are starseeds. Now while you can say that all human beings are starseeds in general, i'm talking about actual starseeds with specific purposes. We are currently in the beginning of the great awakening and if you have been following the media for the past few years you will come to understand that things seem to exponentially be getting crazier and crazier. That's because the bs has to be exposed before it can be healed and enlightened. A perfect counterbalance to the deception of the all to common narcissists that pervade everything and a good chunk of our society. I know the media makes things seem dire and dark indeed, I can promise you that the work sigma empaths have done have been phenomenal and we are heading to a good place. The saying, "The best is yet to come" is very true and I can promise in a few months you will be shocked. The whole planet will be shocked. Sigma empaths have done their job and have done it well.

[@TheZygoat]

All good except I am left wondering why shaming tactics are seen as female? I'm of that gender and find shame and blame so useless for progress And also find alpha males use shaming to try squash others (especially if the person is a sigma female empath!🌞)

[@norfolk7573]

Thank you for this profound insight into your understanding of this subject.. i also recently began delving into these forums and ive discovered a new way to articulate my inner thoughts without ignoring the elements of empathy, which id always kept under camouflage, because , well, we're introverts and its nobody's damn business! But again, i enjoyed reading your take on life and the gamma thing was funny.. cheers mate. 🇺🇸🙏🧡✝️

[@cameronhubbard7158]

I could only make it to number 12, I could feel where this was heading. I think I am a sigma empath, but I don’t want to be. It’s lonely, the more comfortable I get with being free and alone, the further away I get from everything else. The further a get, the sadder everything looks, there is nothing to bring me back. When I’m ready, I will die by my own hand. I’m not sure what ready looks like, but I know I will when the time comes. I not finished with sound or sight. But when I am.

[@erickelly4107]

Yeah I've found that my ability to spot and deal with Narcissict to be something that has served me well over the years. Having this personality type is defiantly both a blessing and a curse however as the emotional toll can be quite exhausting.

[@thefarmerswifeknits6190]

I can see them a mile away and mostly they will self destruct. It’s interesting to watch. It’s horrid if they are actually in your life though…. Vampires!

[@JoeBlowUK]

I didn't realise there was a label for being ME. One more thing to add to the list is the ability to leave a small fortune and walk away happily, while others around you gasp in disbelief. I did this twice, to protect my self-well-being. I'm as happy being virtually skint as I am having plenty, as long as I don't allow toxic people to infiltrate my life. I've heard the phrase "You wouldn't dare!" quite a few times, when people have thought I was locked into a situation. It's a great feeling as I walk away, back into my own space, my life, my way, my morals, my rules.

[@JonnyMack33]

took the words out of my mouth

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

❤❤❤❤

[@sybilmcclain3172]

@@JonnyMack33 on point

[@vickigonya9432]

I'm So happy to finally have answers to my actions beliefs abject revulsion to social hierarchy and love of solitude❤. Not lonely but at peace❤

[@chrisbamburg6176]

I have always known that I am an empath. Even though I never truly understood it. It's only in the last ten or fifteen years that I have begun to understand myself. To say the least, my life has been very hard. I am 61 years old, but watching this video was like a punch in the face. I can identify with all fifteen signs. Throw in the fact that I was born on the cusp of Sagittarius & Scorpio has been a very hard challenge for me. But that being said, I do not know what that truly means for me. I feel like I have had to battle my whole life just to survive only to be floored time after time. It is very disheartening to know that no matter what I do, the outcome will always be the same. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining, I just need to understand more. But I feel like it's almost to late. I pray I am wrong. I can't or won't give up or IN.

[@anwiii55]

wow. this post touched me. and empath's goal shouldn't just be to understand who they are and how to control who they are, but to unlearn what they have learned which will allow them to let go of all the hurt, anger, and resentments they have being out of control their whole lives. it's at that time when they will be able to heal from the past. and listen man, it is NEVER too late! you lived a long life already and have gained a lot of experience. you can't see it as bad experiences if you have learned from them. and if you haven't learned from them, i highly suggest you do and turn the negatives in to a positive. we learn til we die. that's what life is. a bunch of learning experiences in hopes be become a better person because of them. and if we don't, we live on a merry go round....making the same mistakes and just going round and round. almost like living in some form of limbo where life hasn't been very fulfilling. no matter what we do, the outcome doesn't have to be the same. we are what we think about. it's the power of thought. it's how we choose to perceive things and our perceptions and these things can change. when we build up those walls over time, not only are we limiting the bad that can get through, we are limiting the good. life is better without the walls or the need for walls. to accept the bad with the good. the problem is, people want to run from the bad rather than accept it as part of life. and again, it's never too late to start learning this stuff....

[@suzannamarie1980]

Chris Bamburg, all should be understood is self love and care, acceptance of what's not ever going to be controlled, life and time is in edible- can't live in past drowning from any damn regret(s), and you can't stop or change anything from all the impossibilities of the upcoming future, that's God's (or whoever/whatever ya believe in- as long as you believe in something!) area, the time is where you're at (so, where's your feet right now?!) Patience and unlimited forgiveness and not just to others but yourself also....PLEZ, NEVER, EVER! At ANY point and time try to begin to Give up, on any-thing, person, and importantly You!! As long as you realize that with personal growth you are still capable to learning something/anything (big, small-with yourself/or another -today/next year/10yrs...it don't matter) -you still unceasingly learn grow inspire even if it's a simple cup of coffee in the morning or making someone you happen to enjoy being around, to ☺ smile to help make the ol soul of yours Happy! So take your time, be more not only just thoughtful but mindful too...spread that kindness and hold on to that ever deserved self-contentness within you! Meditation, open-mindedness and remain open-hearted while distance from negative toxicities without complete isolation, still gotta get out there, get out of comfort zone at moments that'd drive ya to become uncomfortable, you need to go out do something that normally you'd be embarrassed to do/say, laugh at yourself...never broke any hearts tryin to just have fun and no worries to enjoy the moment and appreciate whose around ya it's OK to have fun...I can go on and on but that's because I have to tell my-42yrold-self all that blah blah 🧐 stuff, everyday. But no matter what, I 🤔 about the respect, gratitude, love spread,and acknowledgement that bad or good, yesterday today, and tomorrow -Everything is gonna be alright! So, where's your feet! And, how are you gonna treat yourself Today!?! You are only in control of that. What you do. How you say or do it. Where you go and the choices you make. You're existence is only 1% YOUR RESPONSIBILITY! YOU'RE REACTIONS AND REASONS OF HOW YOU FEEL IS ALL 99% YOUR RESPONSIBILITY, You! Complex, tasking,and alot of times exhausting...but.. so simple! Go give someone a hug, it's free,one size fits all and damn it they really can't fight ya off from that so you get a hug as well in return!! But, don't poke the brown bear with the stick while still sleeping!!!!Have restful night and an enjoyable day coming up!!