That is correct. I know there is some research that suggested this, that most people who are targets of workplace bullying are actually high performers, or are perceived as a threat due to the potential to be good at their job. But, I have also observed this myself in life. After I left a toxic workplace once, for example, I noticed that my main bully, began to target the new girl, (after I put in my notice, and was on the last couple weeks there), who was the one who I thought clearly was the most likely to succeed and excel at the job. She learned quickly, she was obviously way smarter than the other workers.So, I knew exactly why he was targeting her. But, he was trying to make her look and feel incompetent. But when I saw that, on my last couple days at that job, especially, I realized that it really is true, that the bully targets the one who is the best, or who would be the best, if given opportunity to be. And, that bully was now targeting the smartest new hire. So this is a fact. She was also a nice girl, too, who didn't do anything to him to deserve that. But I believe he was a Narcissist, as in, he had that full blown disorder, in my opinion. So, she will struggle to succeed because he is now targeting her, and smearing her to the boss.
@theworkplaceabuseexperts94847 ай бұрын
Hey Corina, thank you SO VERY MUCH for your support of my channel and your INPUT. I truly do appreciate it. I am going to start writing a book and start a podcast in a few weeks. I want to build an ANTI-WORKPLACE BULLY EMPIRE and attack this EVIL with EXTREME PREJUDICE. People are getting sick over this, their families are being ruined, their health ruined, their careers ruined and even committing SUICIDE. that is COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE. I can use all of the help and support I can get. This is a passion for me, a Divine CALL, and I plan on pursuing it with a VENGEANCE. So thank you for the support, the input, and if you can spread the word, I would be grateful. I also have a Tik Tok, the KZbin, and a Book and Podcasts on the way. :) Hope you are having an awesome day! Thanks again for your support. :) - Yarrg/Ingvar
@valleyechoes93346 ай бұрын
"Is that dog over there getting more attention than me??" Lmao, so true.
@theworkplaceabuseexperts94846 ай бұрын
LOL Right??? hahaha
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
I wish I could help him !
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
You are so right, I'm the hardest worker in our plant and probly the highest performer , they don't see half of the stuff I fix and take care of , I'm very very loyal to the ones I work for ,the type of guy that catches someone stealing lumber off job sites , I notice everything in this place and love my job , but got a boss that is just an ass , I guess it's because I talk too the ones in front office and that is why he feels I'm a threat , I don't understand why but I don't go in the front office and talk to them or give gifts to them because I see what happens from it , what can I do when a boss runs around and tells things to people that just gets people to not even say hello anymore , it's so humiliating what I've gone thru the last yr , with the whole place turning on me over someone so we'll liked that he thinks rules don't apply to him , well I had to do some things to protect myself from his toxic thinking and one thing I can promise you , I'm not as dumb as he thinks , and let me tell you , I never could never be like that and hate on know one ever , but a person that's been into the rc racing world all his life knows that they can find ways to protect themselves if they were to get me fired over his lies , he is the type that spis on you all day , and hope he is watching too ! I do nothing wrong but I can sure pull a rabbit out of my hat too show who is telling the truth ,believe me on that , I prey for him every night and I can't sleep at night because I don't understand why , know one has ever not wanted me on a team this is a first for me and if you got a way I can get him to stop without out getting anyone in trouble I like to hear it ! Because I got a lot now ! But will never show it unless I get fired
@theworkplaceabuseexperts948412 күн бұрын
@@jimmyharwood6279 It's always about feeling threatened always. And then they're mean and they hurt people. I'll get back on this with you in a little bit. I've actually got a prepare. I've been invited to do a podcast on workplace. Bullying, so I've got to take care of that this morning. I gotta get my stuff, set up and get some breakfast but I'll try to get back on some of your comments. Alright, that's why I made this page to help people like you. Wherever I can I will get back. Just be patient with me, okay. And I hope you have a blessed day.
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
All I know is , he will wish he just left me alone to do my magic , and support my family !
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
He has ruined my reputation and still doing it now !
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
My childhood buddies I RACED in California are now with TESLA on the rollout of the new cyber truck and they got my back and sent me few things that will keep an eye on me legally !
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
I'm as good as they come , and so glade I'm blessed with no hate 🙏
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
Knowone should be that rude all the time and it ain't only me that noticed , even our forklift mechanics moved because the way they were treated, he is above the law at this place !
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
What bucks everyone likes him a lot so they would never believe me ,hr is like best buddies with him , but there is new gm that is one of the best guys I ever met and his secretary even cooler that would never take sides , that would not be happy if they really knew what he does outside them doors!
@123-i6j5g6 ай бұрын
how do we navigate this? im 22, college educated, private education, i look like shirley temple (a sweet 6 year old) and Im a kind hearted Christian. I cant even stay longer than 2 weeks at a job. also i used to be a boxer too i have twelve fights youd never know from looking at me but i see you brother. boxers have a heart of gold we know suffering and victory like none other
@jimmyharwood627912 күн бұрын
I have saw what he has done to others and have heard and he is toxic and above the law
@123-i6j5g6 ай бұрын
NOT PAVERS AT HOME DEPOT SMARTER THAN AVERAGE JOE 😂🤣😂🤣
@rbizzle186 ай бұрын
please, sir, never insult mushrooms like this again! lol
@theworkplaceabuseexperts94846 ай бұрын
LOL I LOVE the way you think, hahahaha. Nailed it! Podcast coming in 2 weeks, be aware. :) Lets go after the BAD GUYS!! I need your help. :)