When The Workplace Scapegoat Leaves.

[@twocents8355]

I left two scapegoating bosses to go on to greener pastures. Their suddenly pale faces when I announced my departure are priceless memories. Don't let bullies snuff your light. You can do better.

[@user-qb8qm4mp5n]

Workplace bullies are unremarkable. They don't really accomplish anything in their lives. They are mediocre at best.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

All mediocre is giving them weight too much credit. These people are usually incredibly stupid. Absolute dummies, they have no emotional intelligence. They have no intelligence. And they have such pathetic excuses of sorry, existences that this is how they get their thrill. This is how they get their heart ones by ganging app on people and spreading gossip and rumors. Mine were a bunch of 50-year-old men that acted like seventh grade girls in the locker room. It's like, are you freaking kidding me? I wanted to say man. I don't blame them as much as I blame their stupid dads for not pulling out.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

They usually target the best brightest. Smartest, most likable, prettiest or any one they feel threatened by. These are insecure pathological envious, little butt holes.

[@dontbelongherefromanother]

One thing is for sure when the workplace scapegoat leaves, the remaining workers will turn on one another and start finding flaws amongst themselves. Everything collapses when the scapegoat exits.

[@smoothiecutie2277]

Truth!!!!

[@Amanda-zd7ei]

Exactly

[@Cre80s]

Exactly. Anyplace with a narc leader doubtless has more narcs buried into the crowd feeding into the toxicity. So, like animals, when the system is rocked by a target fleeing, there'll seek a new center of gravity. This can be a glorious time that the poor scapegoat won't get to see, when narcs turn on narcs.

[@matthewdietzen6708]

It seems to be axiomatic, that EVERY group MUST have a scapegoat. The group members all fear being one themselves, so they pick a target and pile on. If the target leaves, then they find another one.

[@Cre80s]

@@matthewdietzen6708 I guess the more one learns about what's called personality disorders and toxic social systems the more we simply are seeing how humans are largely a garbage organism. Like how George Carlin says he loves humans as individuals, but as soon as you get them into a group... trash.

[@Peaceharmony-x3r]

I left several jobs one after the other because I was scapegoated and treated like a halfwit. Me with 2 University degrees! It was usually a line manager with the aid of their acolytes gaslighting me. Needless to say I no longer work or ever wish to.

[@P8860]

Story of me life. You can't do anything about a workplace bully but leave that job. I no longer work or wish to work either unless it's remote.

[@kristiemao4275]

@@P8860 even remote can be bad, too. i worked for a sociopath in a remote job who believed myself and another coworker were just doing nothing. she bullied using some electronic platform (SLACK) that gave you no way to track the behavior of the leadership. i was eventually fired along with the other person she targeted within a month of my surgery.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

2 University Degrees = Mindless Bullies saw you as a THREAT. Podcast coming in 2 weeks. :)

[@lindsaywagner3555]

​@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484Thank you for your videos. I'm in Cape Town, South Africa and the same tactics are used here. I'm currently in therapy.My self-esteem has been knocked and I'm incredibly scared to head into an office right now. So I am thankfully working remotely. Thank you. ❤

[@timhinchcliffe5372]

@@Peaceharmony-x3r I wouldn't let one place stop you from working... not all places are like that. Bounce around until you find a well managed place that will be full of good people that will realise your full potential.

[@singstreetcar5881]

The day they ganged up on me at my work place I quit immediately on the spot The manager was shocked. He begged me at first to stay and I refused, then he started yelling at me while I was quitting. Lol

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

What a bunch of cretins, screw them. Glad you are out of there, sorry you went through that

[@HaleyGarcia-h1e]

Same it was 3 days of over exaggerating my mistakes, constant chores while everyone talked and sat down in the back, then I finally just quit it was a bunxh of bs.

[@JellieJoShmo]

Same. I’ll just quit & have.

[@rosediddynorelation4824]

Thanks for the video just experienced this.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

I'm sorry you had to deal with that, you didn't deserve it, but just understand one thing if there's anyone thing I need you to know and I need you to know it's not your fault. It wasn't your fault. I had nothing to do with you and had everything to do with these sociopathic c*** for brain bullies.

[@annastone5624]

Love this reply!! 💖💖

[@Amanda-zd7ei]

What I noticed is it is often your direct supervisor or HR encouraging the bullying and abuse

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@Amanda-zd7ei These people are sick in the f.Hing brain

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@Amanda-zd7ei Here's the funny thing about that. I think the bully went and weaponized my boss against me. But the bully himself went around slandering the boss behind his back. He was the fine arts director but he was telling all the band directors. I can do the job better than the fine arts. Director so basically he weaponized the boss against me, but he went behind the boss's back to return the band members against him to try to undermine him and take his job, which is what how he got his job. The original fine arts, director got his job by going behind the back of his superior and getting him canned, lovely folks right?

[@RM-qq5rj]

HR did it at my job combined with direct coworkers and the jealous girlfriend of my direct supervisor

[@Leah-i1e]

Same thing as a dysfunctional family---they don't want you go leave. They need a punching bag. Narcissists often, but not always, get other workers to be on their team. Most people have no backbone, and are afraid of a workplace narcissist, so they go along with them. A few don't. Your departure will be followed by badmouthing. But you've been badmouthed all along.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@Leah-i1e Oh my ex, co-workers are life losers these are like really bottom feeder? Beta cuckold individuals who are their father's sons. They get bad mountain me all they want, at least I can stand app when I go p***, my father was a marine. My mother was a marine. Both retired from the United States Department of Justice, these guys were related to school board members who were stealing taxpayers' money. Think about who has that edge, my parents from the United States DOJ or their parents stealing taxpayers' money, right? They just handed me all the leverage I need. I hope they do keep stalking me that way. I have a reason to send them all to prison. Not only that, once I reminded them that, they were breaking. State laws by stalking me and could quote the piano codes in contact the prosecutors. They're losers. They're life losers. They tried to Hoover me back in. I told him where to go and how to get there. They are losers I don't hang out with losers because I don't treat people like that. These disgusting diarrhea for brain's better cuckold. Low level bottom feeders. LOL now you know high feel, but I've dedicating my channel to helping people.So there's something good that came out of this.

[@TuedaysChild72]

Yes, been through that, I hate offices, always full of 2 faced A-holes

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Every time friend every single time.By the way, I've got some podcast going on now.They're on Amazon and Spotify and some other stuff, but not on apple.I gotta figure that one out

[@cassieblessed6430]

I was the scapegoat 😂. It was not a good feeling and I am still very much traumatized. My manager tried to get me to stay, but only because I left during a busy period and me leaving would affect the operation. I agreed to give them a week more until my colleagues refused to change shifts with me to get me to leave abruptly, so I did. My biggest regrets were I wish I stood up for myself to prevent things from getting as bad as it did and that I had resigned much earlier than I did.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

I am there with you, let me know if I can help you. Podcast coming in 2 weeks. :) Be blessed. !

[@cassieblessed6430]

@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 Much appreciated. Looking forward to it!

[@enikobenak5783]

Well, don't be too bummed out, because I did try and stand up for myself and fight the right way, but it only made things worse and I was even more deeply traumatized by it. I guess I can tell at least I tried, but it has not made anything better. If they've got their heart set on bullying you out, all they need is a couple of easily manipulated people to stand behind them and boom...you're screwed, no matter how hard you try.

[@timhinchcliffe5372]

@@cassieblessed6430 depending where you are, due to workplace anti-bullying and harassment laws, standing up for yourself could allow the bullies to take advantage of those laws, and play the victim (tactics which they usually have perfected at the age of 4). So be careful. Mind you I have left a bad workplace right before the busy season with a smile on my face, and a look of despair on theirs. 😁

[@GrowWildOutdoors]

I've been the scapegoat multiple times. I flat ghost them at this point, fuck the pleasantries. Let them explain to everyone why I'm gone.

[@donnaanderson9473]

This happened to me… really messes with your mind. I ended getting laid off when work was slow.

[@cassieblessed6430]

It unfortunately does affect you mentally.

[@robinsymonds5353]

Always blame the last person who quit or got fired 😢

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@robinsymonds5353 What do you mean

[@robinsymonds5353]

@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 it's because there's no one else to blame right

[@winsome6705]

❤ my family did this to me until I ejected myself. God bless u for helping people

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Thank you, I am trying. Thanks for your support, Podcast starting in a few weeks. :)

[@karagraham9764]

Maybe slow down your speaking but I definitely understand the need to rant after dealing with these assholes. Good luck with your channel

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Sorry, thats my ADHHD lol

[@jamiewilson1532]

There's also a way in the settings to slow down the video or to put captions on.

[@philu4621]

They treated me like absolute crap, boss was gonna fire me in the beginning now he's asking me to rethink quitting on my way out.

[@nawafd4222]

This guy stating facts !

[@hazegrayprepper4396]

Perfectly describes many people I have worked with in the Navy. One of them became infamous after he got arrested in VA Beach back in 2018 after he beat the crap out of a 14 year old kid at a sand soccer tournament. Got all kinds of stories about that vile asshole and how much he was hated by the unit.

[@Xplreli]

Love the energy 😂

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@Xplreli Thanks , just trying to help people wherever I can :)

[@timhinchcliffe5372]

I'm usually the scapegoat at work... my reasons for being targeted; People see me as a threat to promotion. Better looking than most. Full head of long hair. Can see through people's toxic behavior. Usually very competent at any job I do. In a nut shell, they are jealous and competitive power seekers. Getting fired from a toxic workplace is not a bad thing, as they exist when there is poor management that don't understand basic human psychology. But remember, there are good managers out there that can see what's going on, and will keep you in there sights for the good reasons... as they know if they promote a toxic person, they will target their bad behaviour on those managers in order to get their job.

[@chapachuu]

I experienced this and so did my mom, from the same organization. It isn’t worth it, move on. You’ll thank yourself, I promise.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

I did, but it wrecks lives, so I am raising awareness of it.

[@diegobenelli3470]

Nailed it

[@peachberryblue295]

The law codes numbers is BRILLIANT! 👍🏼😁

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Thank you. I'm just trying to help people. Nobody deserves this disgusting behavior podcasts coming out in a couple of weeks. Be patient with me and I'm gonna start writing a couple of books. Hopefully, I can get you guys on. Maybe you could join me on a podcast. Let's, let's raise awareness of this disgusting behavior let's go after the bad guys all of them.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Thank you, peach. I went through a year and a 1/2 where I got fascinated with studying law. I wish I had more time to do it aunt but I'd better least now. I know how to read statutes and cases. Made some friends who were lawyers that? I haven't talked to in a while and there's a lot of good information on KZbin. There's a free law course class on the great courses. If you buy that so yeah, just became a thing with me. I'm tired of these bullies. I'm gonna I'm going after the bad guys. I'm starting a podcast in a couple weeks. So keep an eye out for it. If you're interested and go get me some more subscribers. This is a cancer and people are really getting hurt because of this stuff and I want to try to I want to try to call this evil out for what it is and. Do what I can to deter it. Thank you so much for your support. It means a lot.

[@peachberryblue295]

@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 You're doing an excellent job, please keep it up. I'll be looking forward to your podcast. Please try to upload it on Spotify or even here on youtube. I can't promise big followers from my networks since I'm more on the introvert side, but I'll do my best to spread the word on your amazing work!

[@DRHightower]

I was recently the scapegoat. Terminated for discussing pay inadequacies with coworkers. I have an attorney and recordings of everything. I hope the learn a lesson.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

I don't think. It's even legal to stalk. Employees from discussing pay. I think companies like to threaten people with that all the time. You can't discuss pay but I don't think that's even legal if I'm remembering my employment law and labor law. It's been a while since I've looked at it. No I didn't go to law school this claimer but I did self-study law as a hobby for 1.5 years and I really, really enjoyed it. Especially the labor and employment law and First Amendment law. Yeah, I made friends on an online site that were lawyers. I learned from them. They mentored me. I went through online courses, but they're so much. Information out there.I couldn't keep up with it all.I used audio books.The great courses, friends that were lawyers.Anything, I could use to help people from being bullied at work.Thanks for being on the page and thanks for supporting my work.It's truly truly appreciated.I'm starting a podcast in about 2 weeks and I'm writing a book.So be patient with me.I hope most of them set up a Patriot.I'm trying to build an Empire to rise up against this evil vile dog vomit.I need all the soldiers in this cause I can get

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Oh, you were the scape goat.I'm gonna guess at this when you were probably good at your job.Smart person probably well liked.Somebody got jealous.Somebody got insecure and you became a target.You were a little different.You marched to the beat of your own drum.You weren't a dumb dumb that fit in with the mindless masses.And so you know you had to you had to be targeted because you couldn't be Mediocre

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

The paying adequacies It was probably something they were doing.They weren't supposed to be and you called them out on it.Yeah , criminals kind of hate it when you

[@DRHightower]

@@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484 you hit it all on the head. My attorney says it's a slam dunk because of how well we (multiple employees) documented everything. They even put it in document form to have us sign. Lol. It's so stupid it would be funny if it wasn't happening to me.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@DRHightower Oh, bullies are definitely stupid. Thanks for affirming my legal analysis. I like to know I still have my chops LO. L tell your attorney that I'm working on learning that stuff Because I think it's awesome and I want to help people. In fact, have him check out my channel. He might get a kick out of it or a laugh out of it LO. L plus it's good to help him understand the psycho. Social dynamics of this garbage. Anyway, I work for a school district that actually literally threatened us in writing and what they were asking us to do was illegal. I used to talk to a lawyer friend Of mind sort of an online buddy.I made on one of those lawyer sites and he was really in the first amendment law He went to law school because he wanted to win political fights on the internet.L , o , l , but he had to pay the bills , so he got into Corporate law. He told me the number of Times he almost had to sue school districts because of the blatantly stupid Things that the bullies and power would do was ridiculous.They were so legally Stupid and entitled. So yeah, I used to work for school districts that did illegal things in writing all the time.They're dumb AF. Bullies always are. Definitely keep in touch and let me know how It goes.

[@ReluctantLion]

Start recording the bullies

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

It depends on your state if you're gonna record the bullies without their knowledge. It has to be a one party consent state. Other states are 2 party consent which means you can't legally record the bullies without them knowing about it. I live in Texas and that's a one party consent. So I'm good, so check on your state laws. You should be able to find that on the internet.

[@wmd40]

oh hell yeah. only 2 seconds in and i love it. love that whiteboard. I'm a woman and this has happened to me my entire life. idk why. i feel like people can somehow see that I've been abused even without me speaking. i wish i could figure out how they do that.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@wmd40 Probably the same freaking demons in different bodies

[@d.powers3428]

At times, it is the owner in a small business who hires one or worse a large company. It is essential to maintain the balance in an abusive workplace.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Its best to GTFO as soon as you can, if you can. It will kill you. No lie.

[@v4756nb1rs]

I feel this. Big time.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@v4756nb1rs I'm here for you

[@rm1498]

Very informative video, keep up the good work 👍👍👍

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Thanks, just trying to help! Be blessed.

[@peachberryblue295]

Came from the algorithm Impressed by the awareness Going to the about to know more 😉😉

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Thanks, Podcast coming in 2 weeks

[@rachelrose8515]

the most competent. lol

[@AnnaRobertson-mu3sh]

Thank you. You're funny

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

LOL Thanks, I think, hahaha. I just can't stand loser bullies ( I have always been a bit of a sarcastic humorist) LOL

[@deltabravo9903]

Thank you

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

Let me know if I can help, Podcast coming in 2 weeks! :)

[@123-i6j5g]

I love this guy. you should do a video with HRH Collection you guys would have a great covo

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

I'll check it out. Thanks for the suggestion. Thanks for being a supporter. I really appreciate it and I'm very sorry. You're having to go through this. Help me build this channel. I'm starting a podcast in a couple of weeks and I'm writing a book. People are getting hurt. This doesn't work for me. Nobody deserves this. This needs to stop this is vile. This is evil. This is horse crap. And thank you for the kind compliments. It is truly appreciated. Wait till you see my next track. You're gonna love this? I'm gonna put up a list of employment lawyers online to give clients ideas. I studied law on my own as a hobby for 1.5 years and I got pretty nasty with it made a lot of friends that were lawyers and started learning tricks of a trade. For example, if your boss hits you that's a salt and battery, whether the company supports you or not whether you lose your job, he could be charged if he gets in your desk and steals your private property. That's larceny, that's a theft. If they put things in your food there's more than one way to skin a cat. You think that I didn't come from a military family and studies sun sues art of war I'm going after the bad guys. I'm sick of it.

[@nolanpolansky]

followed and subscribed thank you

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@nolanpolansky Thank you for supporting me.If there's anything to do I can do to help you.I most certainly will.I'm going to war.I may call on your services someday

[@aprilmg7072]

You don't know?! You're supposed to be the experts 😢

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@aprilmg7072 Do you remember socrates And the oracle of delphi story

[@lirajul79]

They will fire you.

[@theworkplaceabuseexperts9484]

@@lirajul79 They always do and it's all based on lies

[@Imogene_Joyce]

I just left. I quit. I am out!!