Marriage Mondays E08 | Constructive Criticism | Ameer Recites Quran

[@k_kman321]

For everyone who is unmarried i pray that you are blessed with the perfect and best spouse you need in your life as soon as possible. Im unmarried as well i know the struggle

[@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse]

facts b

[@basrayusuf1349]

K_k Man Ameen Yaa Rabb Ameen.. likewise ☝🏾

[@k_kman321]

rose gold good advice👍 stay blessed😀

[@kaya4137]

Ameen! Likewise🙌🏻

[@amyfall8307]

Ameen inshAllah

[@marvalouis6850]

That recitation was so beautiful, wow!

[@basrayusuf1349]

May Allah grant you both Jannah firdous Ameen 💞

[@zamirakay4821]

BasMinty A.Y.S ameen

[@zamirakay4821]

BasMinty A.Y.S ameen

[@SonyaLCH]

I predict this channel will take off. You guys are great together and have an "it" factor that will bring you lots of success. Keep up the good work!

[@somebodyoutthere962]

I wasn't ready for this recitation 😭😭😭😭 he's voice is so unexpected it's so sweet mashala. I can see why Kumara wanted to marry you after hearing you recite mashala

[@inayah4518]

How to act and what to ask when meeting a potential spouse. How to balance studying and marriage. what kind of man to look for when you want to study or work while being married. what guys notice when meeting a girl for the first time.

[@anamsaeed7642]

Beautiful recitation mA!!

[@SwahiliSpicE]

lol, “why are we talking about hair?” 😂 she did it again 😂 but it’s a real issue. We have to pretend as if we are hairless apart from our heads, eyebrows and eyelashes. I don’t think they understand how hard it is to keep up with this lie. 😂 Thanks for taking the time out to read out my comment. woop woop! one thing to add guys: never, ever, ever criticise your spouse by making a comparison to another woman/man. Trust me that is so hurtful and you never forget the feeling. I know from experience!

[@nerdyswagninja]

Rose Tinted House factssssss I feel like a lot of men are in for a huge WAKEUP CALL if they didn't grow up around women that were open about talking about body hair or periods etc..like once you're married you learn the real stuff lmao

[@toibatbankole.9144]

Just to add another point on how to give constructive criticism. I attended a tafsir of surah tahreem, and one of the lessons I got from there is how to advice people, which can also be applied here. So the structure is (praise + mention the fault + praise). For example if the wife doesn't clean up after cooking, the hubby can criticize/ advice her by saying "honey, the food you cook are always delicious (praise), however you may like to clean the hob immediately after cooking just to make the kitchen look cleaner (fault), and you know what, I don't think anyone cooks as good as you, and I'm sure if you open a restaurant you will get loads of costumers (praise). My example is not that great but I hope you get the point InShaAllah. btw I loveeeee your videos. May Allah bless you both and strengthen the love between you and bless your marriage

[@TheAdamSmasherMultiverse]

Didn't know my boy Ameer could hit that high notes. #salute

[@aeneasjones1886]

that reicitation why you got married. you killed it son

[@jantefazal1]

I love these marriage Mondays soooo much. I’ve recently got married and mashallah this is so nice to listen to together. If this was in a podcast formula, i would listen to this in a car and everything 💕💕

[@naimakiin509]

ManShaAllah Ameer’s Reciting was beautiful🙏🏾💕

[@callmeeash2927]

Beautiful recitation MashAllah🙏🏾 Why don’t you talk about your two families meeting and what their reaction was.

[@bignursedejaa]

Wowwwww ma shaa allah , that was beautiful recitation!! May Allah reward you both abundantly and bless your union ameen !!

[@classycool1516]

You guys i just discover you channel, my favorite couple. I just feel in love with your personalities I am from senegal living in Minnesota. My 14 year daughter has been watching you too. ALLAH BLESS YOU, you guys are an inspiration to young Muslim.Ameer my husband is an electrical engineer too.

[@halimasultan03]

just started this series! subhanallah the recitation brought me to tears and i love you guys. one thing i will say is i believe in being direct to your spouse more than indirect. not rude but direct so everything is clear. Also, arguing is sometimes healthy for a marriage because part of life is problems and solutions. the problem with arguing is when it becomes too aggressive or no solution

[@HenniiDM]

First off I love your videos. Second you guys said in the beginning there wasn’t much communication, how did you guys get to this point where y’all not only finish each other’s sentences but build on each other’s thoughts? Y’all appear to be best friends.

[@Rosa-hi1xq]

Thank you Qamara for always bringing up issues/insecurities of a lot of women out here! It’s always funny to see Ameer being surprised why you always ‘bring up’ certain stuff and I’m over here like YEAH MAN LET HER SAY THAT, ITS FACTS! Keep making videos btw, lots of love and support from germany! 💕 may allah bless your marriage!

[@Shiddy]

You guys are right like compromise, working with your partner and the indirect method are really the way to go and not criticizing each other when angry! LOVE

[@amatullahsaafir685]

MashaAllah. Beautiful recitation. And beautiful how she said, 'can you do that again" alhamdulillah

[@hibosamatar3224]

Son, that recitation moved me, maasha Allah, maasha Allah

[@basoomsmile75]

Maa shaa Allah the recitation 😭beautiful may Allah bless your marriage

[@simplymariama]

Ameer's recitation 😍 MashaAllah!

[@aminag9200]

Yesss!! was waiting for another episode. Thank you!

[@sediqaha3525]

Wow that recitation !

[@Chanpagne]

Allahuma barik ! May Allah bless you infinitely. Love that the channel is so deen oriented not like other Muslim couples on KZbin who really touch the subject.

[@poeticlove_357]

Beautiful recitation . May Allah bless you both Ameen 🌹

[@tahya1234]

Salam! Guys beautiful recitation mA, I think you should do a video on “when both of you started to love each other “ or the “cystic story when you started to live with each other”! I hope you great success and happiness here and in after life! Make dua for me as well ❤️thank you

[@louieloveslondon11]

Im christian but I take a lot from ya'll channel! Love it

[@iqragaraane]

Oh Alhamdulilah, I get so happy when I see your videos pop up on my notifications. May Allah (Swt) bless you both in all that you seek.

[@Autismcureforbianca4]

MashaAllah recitation 🙌🏾 beautiful.

[@yousufdaramay4914]

wow I really feel like this was some great advice. Like the type that people pay money for to go fix their marriages. Especially that summary lol you guys are awesome

[@JaliilaDeen]

This recitation brought Allah's love to my ♥... Lovely couple

[@cutelove3673]

I want to hear a lot more of the funny/awkward stories or conversation topics/starters:)

[@pelumilawal5887]

eeermeegesh i jumped when i heard the recitation,Masha Allah beautiful

[@kawlamohamed8077]

Wow Mashallah his recitation is beautiful.

[@SaraMohamed-nb5tv]

Made my day!! Thank you!!

[@sargetaco]

Beautiful recitation ❤ you guys are so awesome. I love watching you guys every Monday, my boyfriend now watches with me

[@mnoor81]

Asalaamu Alaykum, may Allah SWT reward you generously for your efforts and increase your blessings ameen. I am completely blown away by your wisdom, compassion and kindness. I love the energy and intellect that you bring to this topic. I've learned and benefited from what you decide to share with us. As a parent I keep making dua for your parents because they did something right Alhamdulilah. Masha Allah Tabaraka Allah.

[@sourstrawberry98]

Asalaamu Alaykum! I love you guys together and Marriage Mondays especially since I'm really entertaining the idea. The two things that's holding me back is being in college and him being in my home state. Also, I'm trying to work on myself and some insecurities so I won't go into the marriage with a who;e bunch of personal baggage that might be a strain. So maybe you can discuss preparation of self before marriage or your thoughts on being apart from your spouse. P.S. I would love to see more vlogs from you guys or maybe have guests like your sisters and their husbands to hear their views on marriage. May Allah(SWT) continue to bless your marriage and grant you guys much more success and happiness. Ameen!

[@k_kman321]

Jessica980 may allah make it easy for you to get married ameen

[@Keepingitcovered]

Uh so can we make marriage Monday everyday ❤❤❤

[@DrAdnan]

I like the idea of Marriage Mondays. There's some good advice in these :)

[@awacamara1169]

Make a video on your first year of marriage please!! You guys said something about “not communicating” so how was that? Is there an awkward transition from getting married really fast to living together right away? Is it hard to get comfortable with one another? Love your videos!! Allahumma Barik

[@ytusabe]

You dont know how much I enjoy this series❤️❤️❤️. Qamara your last marriage monday video had me laughing a lot.

[@goodtobnatural1]

Y'all are my new favorite couple. May God continue to bless u both immensely.

[@marlonmonsegue5999]

I totally admire you both and I respect your honesty I looked at your videos and I feel inspiration.

[@Karanodom]

i love your videos! i learn so much about Islam in action. thanks

[@ribenariri7764]

Possible topics on: -The importance of compromising in marriage and what is meant by that -problems within the marriage, should we go and talk about it with family and friends - how to deal with arguing with your spouse -is it possible to be in different religions and have a good marriage - is love enough in a marriage? Some may say that marriage is like a business transaction. Whats your thoughts? Hopefully this helped for next week. Great video Q&A!!

[@aishahd3317]

JAK for another great video! For the next video how about how to build good communication in marriage. Also on not being brutally honest, correct me if I'm wrong, but I think there's a hadith that speaks to that by saying that a situation when it is permissible to lie is when talking to one's spouse as in exaggerating about their good qualities or something like that.

[@aamal6476]

Beautiful couple Masha Allah💜 Loved the recitation Masha Allah!

[@abode409]

ما شاء الله صوتك جميل يا أمير والله يحفظكما انت و زوجتك. Your voice is beautiful Amir. May Allah preserve you both

[@aissatadiallo7981]

MaShaAllah he is a really good reciter

[@HafsahDabiri]

Yaaaay!!! Love these episodes 😂😂😂 don’t be mad be glad 😂

[@teacherofthelungsufighting5769]

when i took my shahada it was like that recitation...deep..

[@zamzamyusuf6613]

Omg can you please post few videos of his recitation? Mashallah!

[@sediqaha3525]

What about the financial aspects of marriage life Was single life or marriage life better Why everyone saying that marriage is that hard Divorce

[@leavemealone7871]

jamila khan you must be 12years old

[@sediqaha3525]

happy boy Serious topics i am interested in None of your business

[@leavemealone7871]

Okay

[@BigMacDeliciousness]

Another lit video keep it up guys in sha Allah!

[@fatimazarra7644]

Love the faith you two have in the religion❤️ mashallah

[@asvithajanga2954]

Beautiful way to start the day off inshallah. ❤️

[@yazzbazzs3602]

Mashallah. Pls do the rights of the husband&wife💐

[@mohomran5133]

I’m looking for relationship like this love you 😍

[@k_kman321]

Moh Omran inshallah you'll get it ameen

[@hamidabithi7535]

please keep posting these videos :) in shaa Allah

[@m.sweden6560]

Mashallah, Mashallah, Mashallah❤️ you guys give me hope. #real

[@jabr096]

Thank you for the information. May GOD bless you

[@nchareraima4570]

Beautiful recitation !! Nice video !!

[@wqip340]

this is good, u guys keep it up!

[@iamazm_yt897]

MASH Allah and amazing video

[@poeticlove_357]

I love you guys marriage Monday’s talks 🌹🌹

[@annlorrii]

'You can play games and stuff while you're brushing your teeth!' :D Hilarious!!

[@ياسمينبنتعبدالله-ك7ص]

I love y’all and these videos 😩❤️

[@wqip340]

love it!!

[@runnert6012]

Great job👍Just discovered you guys & enjoying watching your videos. How about discussing about the types of compromises you guys had to make during the first year of marriage & how you adjusted to married life. Thx

[@yoyokan]

This was such a great video . Here's few things to talk about like living together : tips and advise How to be more comfortable with one another And how did you know that you were the one .

[@Ramadhan-py1vm]

YAAAAY it came out on my birthday ... aha aha It came out on my birthday... woooohooooo!!!!

[@SaraMohamed-nb5tv]

Ramadhan Ngige Happy birthday to you!!!🎉

[@HijabiHybrid]

Ramadhan Ngige happy birthday!

[@Karanodom]

loved the reciting!

[@inayah4518]

Dynamics of relationships. Duties and responsibilities. Conflict resolutions.

[@pavelmixlove]

Great video guys great advice love you guys chemistry so natural

[@zamirakay4821]

Ma Shaa Allah 😊

[@a.a.636]

I really love your videos!!! ❤ really helpfull and entertaining 👍

[@moriuma558]

I thing a good summary of a way to give criticism is "be kind."

[@saajidahmotara6054]

While Ameer is reciting Qamara's there like "Yeah this my man"😂 OMG love you guys! LOVE THIS CHAAAANNNEL😭❤

[@fadumohussein9519]

Kamarah, mashaAllaah you are such an awesome sister... your husband is a lucky guy!

[@famaymanay3544]

"Let's see who can get it cleaner" 😂😭 I died

[@ahmatcoca9082]

مشاءالله اخي العزيز

[@HakimGanya]

are there some odd people who seem to like hitting the 'thumbs down' button... what is so 'thumbs down' about this... if you don't like it... why watch?

[@lynnchamp7873]

Every thing has its reason. When you are single now, its the best thing that could happen to you now. Once you get married you would wish that certain things would be like when you were single. So stop being desperate and just enjoy life and every single moment of it. God can actually punish you with a marriage, because you were so impatiently waiting to get married and forcing it to happen. Marriage has no age, just trust in God‘s plan and you will be happy your whole life even without marriage, because no one actually knows if God has planed for him/her to get married and then you spend all your precious life worrying and being desperate. That is not how you should spend your life.

[@atiqahussain2493]

Omg , I’m early ! Love u guys 💘 it’s two in the morning Rnow I’m nyc LMAO

[@swalhasalim4509]

nice voice.....

[@Meeso875]

Love you guys 💜💜💜

[@simplynafissa3122]

Masha'Allah

[@rachel4274]

Nice. From South Africa.

[@hajiay826]

I see ppl hoping to get married as soon as possible....although I’m still a teen...and want to be married you have to understand...ITS A RESPONSIBILITY! that’s why it’s half ur deen ppl 😂

[@erdberrchen]

Could u do a video, where u guys talk about how u help each other in deen? Do u pray together?

[@MsRi7an]

ily guys 😭

[@trevordamijo5956]

Great Couple

[@OhasanaO]

LOL Qamara, "We are MAMMALS, too!" hehehe. I've never heard it like that! Keep up these videos!

[@joselineotienohasegawa3762]

Love watching you guys. You’re a cute couple.

[@crazyandfunystuf]

Another great way to tell your spouse is to make a youtube video and use it as an example hahaha

[@ZahraaSchroeder]

Salaam Q & A, I know you made a vid about the weird and inappropriate questions people ask couples. But how do they differ from before marriage to newly wed to now?