'His Mistress sends me messages of body shaming me. I have lost my breast to cancer' - Judy

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Metha ya Kagoni

Metha ya Kagoni

2 жыл бұрын

Judy knows the pain of loosing a woman's most valued organ to cancer: her breast. And as if that pain is not enough, Judy says that in her darkest moment of Chemotherapy, her husband would abandon her for weeks. At one time, he abandoned her in a hospital at 3am with no means of getting back home after her radio therapy session. But even after swallowing all that, her biggest wound now, is a certain woman ; believed to be her husbands lover, who sends her photos riding in her husband's car and also body shames for her loss of breast.

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@firstviolin596
@firstviolin596 2 жыл бұрын
For a long time I blamed my sister for not giving her husband a second chance, she complained of emotional abuse, psychological abuse, body shaming, education level shaming but there was no assault, he never touched her and to us as family thats what we know as abuse so we always asked her to bear. Of course kids were in high cost schools, my sister was designated driver with allowance of 100k+, manager of family finances but she left all that, looking back she was deprived of high life but she says now she can sleep from 8-8 nonstop-peace of mind she has! From grace to grass!! Listening to mama wachira now, I salute my sister, shes a hero she could not tolerate abuse. Heko my sister
@annerwamba7416
@annerwamba7416 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you Mama,you will live long to testify His blessings upon your life
@puritymucheru2717
@puritymucheru2717 2 жыл бұрын
Do you really know the meaning of abuse? Emotional and psychological abuse is worse than physical abuse.
@anitafaith1310
@anitafaith1310 2 жыл бұрын
The only problem I find here is the lack of involvement of the husband in buying the plot. He should have been part of the project especially because that's where the future home would be built.
@rosewainaina8681
@rosewainaina8681 2 жыл бұрын
@@anitafaith1310 Read proverbs 31. God has allowed a woman to buy land. There is no where it stated that she should consult the husband.
@lucynjeri4183
@lucynjeri4183 Жыл бұрын
Same same exact words and deeds, what kind of problem is this.
@goldenbazaars
@goldenbazaars 2 жыл бұрын
This is the reason i bought my own house, i live my own life, sitaki stress za mtu,...mum, you will rise again above where you are.
@joangichuki224
@joangichuki224 2 жыл бұрын
I'm too angry already.. I'm breathing fire like a dragon. This story is a replica of every other woman's story. Wasted 15yrs with the devil and I was left with scars that will never heal. I have lived to regret. I gave him the best of everything and how did he pay me back! My fellow girls, these things don't work anymore. Don't expose yourselves to violent demons in the name of marriage. It's about time we started a women's caucus to deliberate on the way foward regarding these matters. This madness from men has to stop!! Period!!!🤗
@wanjiruciru6237
@wanjiruciru6237 2 жыл бұрын
You would think women reps would champion our cause but they've been reduced to flower gals in political rallies.
@winfredwachera8813
@winfredwachera8813 2 жыл бұрын
@@wanjiruciru6237 say no more
@loco871
@loco871 2 жыл бұрын
May God heal you
@lucymugure4856
@lucymugure4856 2 жыл бұрын
Story of my life
@hippieHawk
@hippieHawk Жыл бұрын
Ditto. His mistress and him taking pics on our marital bed, going to places together where we used to go to, and her calling and texting me to tell me how fat I am... body shaming me and her wanting to give me advice on how to take care of my body plus posting the pics on fb still bothers me,it is unbelievable the shite that someone you cared for and loved will do to you.
@winniewainaina3143
@winniewainaina3143 2 жыл бұрын
We see people out here looking fine but we do not know the struggles they are going through in their homes. It's terrible!!!
@moniwawarikuo2253
@moniwawarikuo2253 2 жыл бұрын
True,I also underwent the same, pple pass thru alot.
@janekagure8807
@janekagure8807 2 жыл бұрын
Wainaina true
@angelicakirangi6298
@angelicakirangi6298 2 жыл бұрын
She had the kind of man I had, at 30 years married for 2 years. Left the marriage last year since I could not sit down with my husband and discuss anything. 'Matiathagwa niatumia' used this phrase regularly. I thank God am good n raising my 3 children. He even told me he is doing me a favour to raise my child I came with.
@laurahwaithira2174
@laurahwaithira2174 3 ай бұрын
😢I'm in the same state ,I'm moving out this year I'm 29 but vitu nimepitia for 4 years aaaah can't stomach all this
@Mercylynn254
@Mercylynn254 2 жыл бұрын
If Judy is this beautiful after all she have been through, imagine akiwa msichana alikua aje, and I never understand why women with big dreams always end up in manipulative relationships 🤦🤦
@janemwerumwangi7940
@janemwerumwangi7940 2 жыл бұрын
She was so beautiful when in high school. I just can't believe this!
@erastusmacharia1653
@erastusmacharia1653 2 жыл бұрын
I am also wondering
@catherinewangeci1912
@catherinewangeci1912 2 жыл бұрын
VERY PRETTY ,WE GREW UP TOGETHER AND THE MUM SO LOVELY
@frashiahwangari2177
@frashiahwangari2177 2 жыл бұрын
@mercylynn ALL Men secretly hate women with big dreams as u say, financially independent women & assertive women. A few express this hatred openly. It goes back to the garden of Eden where man was created to be above the woman.
@Lucy-np4vu
@Lucy-np4vu 2 жыл бұрын
Ndimwendete muno aragia wega muno
@mwariwakariuki8626
@mwariwakariuki8626 2 жыл бұрын
God of mercy remember this lady,you healed the woman who was bleeding for 12 yrs
@childofthepromise7083
@childofthepromise7083 2 жыл бұрын
This story is heartbreaking. This lady is just a queen. She says it with gentleness inspire of the so much pain. You are blessed mama Wachira.
@mamamalaika4413
@mamamalaika4413 2 жыл бұрын
So heartbreaking 😰
@nancywangui7739
@nancywangui7739 2 жыл бұрын
Woiyee pole mum,,, God is in control,, he'll be paid back by God,,,ndagakoma mbiriraini atacaite,,uriia agucaithirie
@bettygachao9596
@bettygachao9596 2 жыл бұрын
The minute she mentioned "you felt like walking on eggshells all the time", Narcissist No.1 trait. He is one big one. An intelligent lovely lady...
@felicitaskamau132
@felicitaskamau132 2 жыл бұрын
Toxic relationships
@diaryofagrowingblackwoman3843
@diaryofagrowingblackwoman3843 2 жыл бұрын
I left a 4 year relationship with a narcissist. The minute Judy made this statement "walking on eggshells" my heart has just started beating so fast. I knew this story would be about narcissists
@WakarimaJoyce
@WakarimaJoyce 2 жыл бұрын
Very very true,a narcissist will make you feel guilty for even breathing the way you do so that you don't offend them
@trishnjeri573
@trishnjeri573 2 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest thing I have listened to on this channel.. May God restore those 27yrs for you mama Wachira..
@paulinewanjagi1065
@paulinewanjagi1065 2 жыл бұрын
Probably those that body shamed her are the one who who disliked this video ...
@ireneirene1544
@ireneirene1544 2 жыл бұрын
Maybe but God is watching one day they will go looking for her for forgiveness
@teresakiruthi4261
@teresakiruthi4261 2 жыл бұрын
I can imagine someone bodyshaming another due to cancer, as if they are immune...but mungu ni nani they will suffer the same
@Miss-kariuki__251
@Miss-kariuki__251 2 жыл бұрын
Dear God I pray for everyone who's fighting a silent battle 🙏🙏
@margaretnjoki9451
@margaretnjoki9451 2 жыл бұрын
I join you in praying for them, may God fight those battles for them in Jesus Name
@mariawanjiru1275
@mariawanjiru1275 2 жыл бұрын
NGAI Baba uyu ni mutumia ngatha
@giftdesigners3514
@giftdesigners3514 2 жыл бұрын
I join you praying ,most of women fight this battles secretly May the lord give them strength .
@loisegitau4897
@loisegitau4897 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@rejinarejina7263
@rejinarejina7263 2 жыл бұрын
Am here silent almost the same
@carolinemyawira7779
@carolinemyawira7779 2 жыл бұрын
Dealing with a narcissist is the most painful thing in life, better to walk out
@annmumbi4960
@annmumbi4960 2 жыл бұрын
Even him he can get prostate cancer he is not beyond it, he is in this world and those his mistress.
@LovelyMamasita
@LovelyMamasita 2 жыл бұрын
He shall die before her or live a long painful and miserable life. God doesn’t like ugly. Karma is doing push ups preparing for proper landing.
@beatricekibara6647
@beatricekibara6647 2 жыл бұрын
Wooii,Judy my classmate back in high school.The most,outgoing, humble,polite,intelligent,God fearing lovely gal I ever met then.Jehova Rhapha grant you full recovery.
@wilsonngumo4525
@wilsonngumo4525 2 жыл бұрын
Judy,you sre fearfully and wonderfuly made Your humbleness has made God togive you Peace,and that is why you are giving us encouragement .Mvumilivu hula mbivu
@catalinaparis9271
@catalinaparis9271 2 жыл бұрын
In Jesus Christ Name Ameen 🙏
@janemwerumwangi7940
@janemwerumwangi7940 2 жыл бұрын
I just can't imagine. She was always humble. I just loved her
@keziahthuku2184
@keziahthuku2184 2 жыл бұрын
Madam Mistress. It's true mama hana matiti,,,. But ata matiti yako, ni mungu ameiweka n you don't know about tomorrow. Kanyanga pole Pole.
@peninahgaturu4088
@peninahgaturu4088 2 жыл бұрын
Whenever you notice a red flag, 'kiura ruga' . This is a sad story. I left my marriage after one year six months and I don't regret.
@ruthkabuu7773
@ruthkabuu7773 2 жыл бұрын
He was a narcissist , they make you feel so much drained and you start to believe that there is no better life than what he is offering. Take heart madam judy God is in control. Please ladies lets stop swiping matters under the rug for the name of marriage and relationships. Look at her now 27 years wasted by a damaged man.
@KK-ygh
@KK-ygh 2 жыл бұрын
It is the woman who is narcissistic.
@ChildofDestiny-2023
@ChildofDestiny-2023 2 жыл бұрын
@@KK-ygh are you the husband? I’ve seen your earlier comment saying we can’t see what’s wrong with the woman. Well, enlighten us pls🤔🤔
@sarahkaranja349
@sarahkaranja349 2 жыл бұрын
That is exactly my thought. The husband is a real narcissist.....
@emmanueljuma1378
@emmanueljuma1378 2 жыл бұрын
This kk maybe is the husband.You are soo bitter.A narcissist too
@sarahmaina5403
@sarahmaina5403 2 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you, when you see the tell tale signs please listen to your inner self not even your folks, its your life.
@waihiga124
@waihiga124 2 жыл бұрын
I am so so sorry Judy. May God grant you victory in every battle. You are a beautiful and strong woman. Thank you for sharing your story.
@irenejoyce8456
@irenejoyce8456 2 жыл бұрын
Madam MISTRESS, read my words carefully. Because that man has known you carnally, Mark my words!! You will PAY every single of Mama Wachira’s tear drops with your blood. MARK 👏🏾 MY 👏🏾 WORDS! Baba Wachira, right now it is only God who can help you because the thunder that is going to strike you is doing sit ups. Utakufa kifo cha MBWA 🚮🚮🚮
@faithmwiraria4330
@faithmwiraria4330 2 жыл бұрын
Those tough words but plain truth. It hurts for real
@margaretwarorua1041
@margaretwarorua1041 2 жыл бұрын
Wueh wueh punguza makasiriko.🙏🙏
@margaretwarorua1041
@margaretwarorua1041 2 жыл бұрын
Wueh wueh punguza makasiriko.🙏🙏
@sharelaughwithkaboina2023
@sharelaughwithkaboina2023 2 жыл бұрын
You are very right, I went through hell in the name of a marriage but mine was hell ,beatings na kurushwa juu ya ngorofa, yes I survived,long story short God turned the tables, he got sick with h.i.v, and I later came to USA. Take heart my sister and tell him to watch this space.
@agnesmuchai9485
@agnesmuchai9485 2 жыл бұрын
@@sharelaughwithkaboina2023 may the favor of God surrounds you like a shield
@gracekimani627
@gracekimani627 2 жыл бұрын
Judy I pray that you be healed and be free from cancer. You will live to see your great-grandchildren. May Almighty God bless your children to be great people in our generation and may their father be alive to see all these things happening. Amen God bless you
@angiewamuchomba8106
@angiewamuchomba8106 2 жыл бұрын
Ngai ukahura mundu niundu wa kugura plot maguta maguta, Those Red flags... Kiura Ruga
@rebeccanduta1247
@rebeccanduta1247 2 жыл бұрын
This is the saddest story I have watched on this channel. Courage Judy, God loves you.
@angelakkk9945
@angelakkk9945 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry my schoolmate Judy (Saintee Nyeri) you are still beautiful and composed as ever. May the Almighty God heal you. May your children overcome what they went through. Have peace and feel loved.
@loisenyaguthii2296
@loisenyaguthii2296 2 жыл бұрын
God will fight your every battle. Hugs Judy and your children. I am a millennial (Saintee Alumni)
@priscillaw1813
@priscillaw1813 2 жыл бұрын
I can't imagine the trauma the kids went through at young age. They missed a happy childhood. Hope they will heal someday.
@elizabethndutah
@elizabethndutah 2 жыл бұрын
My friend Judy, may God's peace be with you and may He expand your territories that you may never lack and may you soar high and high like the eagles. Hugs hugs sent over ❤️❤️
@benahgichimu2733
@benahgichimu2733 2 жыл бұрын
Monica and all of us have power to pray for this woman.woiii hugs mama
@janenjoroge9376
@janenjoroge9376 2 жыл бұрын
Ooooh pole sana mamii .You are a Victor. It's well and you are beautiful 😍. We have God who sees us through fire 🔥..And you are blessed. Hugs mamii.
@alexwahu1842
@alexwahu1842 2 жыл бұрын
Judy, you have been through a lot and still manage to hold your head high. May you get full healing and may victory be your portion. You are a fighter.
@erastusmacharia1653
@erastusmacharia1653 2 жыл бұрын
There women out there that were created with a heart of Gold....Putting up with a Narcissist is not for the Faint Hearted
@florenceobura3328
@florenceobura3328 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful, pleasant person. May she find joy for the rest of her life. May God grant her every desire.
@faithwambui6243
@faithwambui6243 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@beatricemwangi2303
@beatricemwangi2303 2 жыл бұрын
"BE KIND " One in a million woman you deserve nothing but blessings follow unto you dear.
@lucymuraya2285
@lucymuraya2285 2 жыл бұрын
You're so beautiful mama wachira,no one knows about tommorow,no one kneels down n ask for a problem.leave it to God,he will revange on your behalf.
@alexnjoroge1348
@alexnjoroge1348 2 жыл бұрын
This is my close cousin and she cannot deserve this humiliation .God will be your provider Judy.
@share-love
@share-love 2 жыл бұрын
I can say she is a very beautiful woman, just natural. My grandmother used to say ''kama hujafa hujaepa chongo'' so the mistress has childish behaviour, she sees only where she is seated, so she doesn't know what future can bring her! God is not blind, he sees everything she is doing to this humble woman.
@CoolkenyanInisrael
@CoolkenyanInisrael 2 жыл бұрын
Abuse is bad and can reduce even the most intellectual 😢😢😢 lakini sielewi wanaume aki 😢😢 when they become sick the women stands by them but if the opposite happens most of the men they forsake the women. Huyo mzee angojee karma it will serve him a good portion and bonus. Hugs mami
@zippymwangi
@zippymwangi 2 жыл бұрын
What a wonderful woman, strong and powerfuI am feeling shedding tears when am listening but am telling u mum, trust God there is our father in heaven who pays..God bless you
@rahabnyambura2459
@rahabnyambura2459 2 жыл бұрын
Why should one person go through all this? Judy you are a great soul. It's not yet over, the future is bright.
@davidkinyaki
@davidkinyaki 2 жыл бұрын
Rahab either Ni huyo mzee wake alipanda kile atavuna ama Ni huyu Mama anavuna kile alipanda,
@wanguimacharia5964
@wanguimacharia5964 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry ma'am.. Peace, Love and light 🕯️ Lot's of hugs 💜
@rahabnyambura2459
@rahabnyambura2459 2 жыл бұрын
The house is very beautiful.mum Judy you're a great lady. You will make it by Gods grace
@florencemwaniki6121
@florencemwaniki6121 2 жыл бұрын
😝🤔
@gracekamau3997
@gracekamau3997 2 жыл бұрын
You're a strong woman!Yaani ume narrate iyo story without a tear!I understand you have cried enough but God will come through.Gia na thayu thiini wa ritwa ria Jesu nigukorwo HE knew you before you were formed in your mother's womb!It is well🙏🙏
@nenekarain539
@nenekarain539 2 жыл бұрын
I saw that too she must have cried a river and now composed and ready to move on .... I know this point where nothing matters at all‼️‼️
@tianahmuli528
@tianahmuli528 2 жыл бұрын
A great woman indeeed...The story resembles my mother's life..she has been through such too and she is a cancer survivor too..grace has been sufficient ...
@lucychihi9091
@lucychihi9091 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Judy for being a voice to many.... Abuse is real and has taken many to an early grave, Lets break the silence and speak out. Judy The Lord is Our Battler, Let us hold on to Him, His word and alliw Him to carry us through. Be encouraged with Psalms 91, 23, 34, 37 and know that i love you and God loves you even more.
@mawama6719
@mawama6719 2 жыл бұрын
some of us were brought up by narcissistic parents,some knew that they were narcissists, some knew not what they were doing to their children
@lacey6131
@lacey6131 Жыл бұрын
I walked out of my abusive marriage after 25years . It’s now 2 years. You cannot understand what abuse is unless you go through it.
@maryannejamal3074
@maryannejamal3074 Жыл бұрын
I know
@hadasarmburu2129
@hadasarmburu2129 2 жыл бұрын
She is such an amazing and intelligent woman mum may our good Lord heal your wounded heart and repay u back by fulfilling ur heart desires
@judithmuli7405
@judithmuli7405 2 жыл бұрын
I feel your pain mama wachira. God will be with you and your sweet kids and what goes around comes around.
@erastusmacharia1653
@erastusmacharia1653 2 жыл бұрын
The Lady is still cute despite the Pain....The Hairstyle is Natural and Cute
@TheKadonye
@TheKadonye 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Judy - praying for a life of peace & joy for you and your children. But let me say this, families especially parents & the church/community should encourage abused spouses to leave. Provide emotional & financial support because this kind of trauma & abuse is hard to heal from, and can affect even future generations.
@milkandungu9811
@milkandungu9811 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs mum....there is God in heaven 🙏
@kanariopeninah
@kanariopeninah 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, you deserve a medal dear..abuse is real .all the best in your healing journey both phyically and emotionally. It shall be well.
@lucywambui604
@lucywambui604 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Monica for this platform,am learning a lot
@user-hx5lf7et9t
@user-hx5lf7et9t 2 жыл бұрын
This woman has been married by a beast, he is just waiting for his judgement day,live long mama.pole
@alicemwangi1438
@alicemwangi1438 2 жыл бұрын
That is a harsh statement!
@Arun71150
@Arun71150 2 жыл бұрын
Adu arume aya nii nyamu theri. I visited a potential boyfe and got sick visiting. He dropped me off annoyed at the casualty - I couldn't walk straight, I was in pain he didn't walk me in - he drove off 🤷🏾‍♀️ and told me to catch public transport back to his house whenever released. Weh, hawa watu. I returned home after my visit and never picked up his phone calls again. Imagine whoever ended up with this narc 🤯
@keziahnduta2740
@keziahnduta2740 2 жыл бұрын
Woi
@moniwawarikuo2253
@moniwawarikuo2253 2 жыл бұрын
Ngai wa atumia responds quickly,ur lucky u got the flag mapema
@pennykaringa3380
@pennykaringa3380 2 жыл бұрын
Good Lord, thanks for not ignoring this signs many pple ignore this signs and end up regreting
@diaryofagrowingblackwoman3843
@diaryofagrowingblackwoman3843 2 жыл бұрын
You very lucky to have read the signs mapema
@evawangari2417
@evawangari2417 2 жыл бұрын
God loves you
@judywanja6790
@judywanja6790 2 жыл бұрын
You are so strong my namesake,may God be always be there for you and guide you.I won't judge but you have made a good decision,it's better to be alive than dead to please others.Osinanchi gone through but now we are mourning her when it's too late.May God keep you and heal you completely
@bethwacuka3773
@bethwacuka3773 2 жыл бұрын
the man should confess and ask for forgiveness because her wife didn't ask for the sickness n to the lady who keeps on calling you wait until your turn your will know God doesn't disappoint kiboko ya mungu ya wagojea
@susanapollo284
@susanapollo284 2 жыл бұрын
What goes around comes around. He will know there is a God in heaven who does not play dirty games
@pammymoraamoraa6702
@pammymoraamoraa6702 2 жыл бұрын
My sister stand tall coz you’ve been a strong woman, let neighbors talk, laugh ignore, the best is you know God and you’ve a home to live in , all the best
@mercynjunge3009
@mercynjunge3009 2 жыл бұрын
Judy and the way you are beautiful, you are great blessed mum. God has given you the grace, to live. You are blessings to us. Love you mama
@susannyambura6316
@susannyambura6316 2 жыл бұрын
I truly understand Judy's story,I'm so sorry and my God continue to strengthen her
@Jus_faith
@Jus_faith 2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I don't know what I can say to this woman but sending prayers.
@gilliannjue2656
@gilliannjue2656 2 жыл бұрын
This woman's life is a mirror of my mum's except that she never lived to tell her story. The abuse led to lots of stress related illnesses, high blood pressure, a brain tumour that eventually killed her. Women, why do you stand this??? Never beg a man to have you.
@auntmso
@auntmso 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭
@ceccymaish1082
@ceccymaish1082 2 жыл бұрын
Same to my Mum,sijui aki walikua wanangojea wakufe kwanini
@esthernjoki8996
@esthernjoki8996 2 жыл бұрын
My mum went through the same
@puritymaina8567
@puritymaina8567 2 жыл бұрын
likewise, it is saddening.
@joycenjeri516
@joycenjeri516 2 жыл бұрын
Strong woman this one!!!. You are healed and your tomorrow is definitely better than where you've been.
@priscilawambui5996
@priscilawambui5996 2 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭Gosh!! This guy will pay dearly for this! God may you open doors of greatness to mama Wachira.🤗🤗🤗
@edithkabure3490
@edithkabure3490 2 жыл бұрын
Hallo school mate (Saintee). Thanking God for you, Judy. You remain a victor not a victim, girl. Wewe in wetu!!!!!!
@moonlightmoon5017
@moonlightmoon5017 2 жыл бұрын
which saintee. Am from Saintee Kisumu
@annmumbi6926
@annmumbi6926 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady, may God comfort you mama wachira..
@TheMonicahn
@TheMonicahn 2 жыл бұрын
Mama Wachira, you are a strong woman. hugs hugs my sister. I have gone through so. etching similar and I can feel your pain. I went through counseling and we are now divorced after 30yrs in marriage. Do not accept the tags people will put on you. My prayer to you is that God will be with you and shall be well. Abuse in marriage is real and rampant than we think in Kenya. Shalom Shalom
@marymutira9336
@marymutira9336 2 жыл бұрын
A very strong lady. After the test comes the testimony. He will look for you and your children. His downfall will be thunderous.
@Bangala773
@Bangala773 2 жыл бұрын
This lady is soo beautiful, intelligent,forcuseed and strong...take 💓 Mama..malipo ni hapa hapa duniani
@rosekiongo7260
@rosekiongo7260 2 жыл бұрын
This lady is so beautiful and strong
@marykaruri8994
@marykaruri8994 2 жыл бұрын
Lord I pray for everyone going through such a battle...Judy you are a strang girl...
@gwanjiru7596
@gwanjiru7596 2 жыл бұрын
So sad. But you are a strong woman. Thank God for you. He will restore your health
@wanjiruwanjahe
@wanjiruwanjahe 2 жыл бұрын
Parents,relatives,church, police failed her and she also failed her children in the name of marriage that wasn't working..May God restore your wasted years
@susanapollo284
@susanapollo284 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage is causing women to suffer alot. It's better to be a single parent than to go through hell in the name of marriage
@wanjiruwanjahe
@wanjiruwanjahe 2 жыл бұрын
@@susanapollo284 absolutely 💯..and women should love themselves together with their children than their spouses
@Dee_the_blessed1
@Dee_the_blessed1 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage is so overated, let's protect our kids from these agents of the devil in the name of marriage.
@edithkabure3490
@edithkabure3490 2 жыл бұрын
You are right. We need to appreciate that being single or a single parent is NOT a death sentence. Neither is being married is not a reward to good ladies n being single is a punishment to the ladies. Am yet to lay a finger on any scripture that those who are married will take the lead to heaven. Yes, l respect marriage as it is God ordained institution right from the Garden of Eden, but it us human beings that have completely distorted the institution. Ladies, parents n the church, let's stop this business of idolizing marriage. That is why we are sinking in deep life long yet painful lives in the name of marriage. Let's appreciate all for who we are. Shalom
@wangechingotho7863
@wangechingotho7863 2 жыл бұрын
but nobody is forced to get married..and the worst thing is you can't advice someone inlove esp ladies...let people make the right choices because choices have consequences...
@wanjirulucy2054
@wanjirulucy2054 2 жыл бұрын
I can't believe this is what you were going through Judy. The ever smiling Judy!oh my!!!!!people hide pains behind their Beautiful smiles. Lady with very big dreams and a big heart!oh my!!!
@wanjafavor7576
@wanjafavor7576 2 жыл бұрын
Mama Wachira you are a strong woman, may God see you through , God has good plans for you and your children. Healing is your portion.
@janefferkenny7734
@janefferkenny7734 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs Judy so sorry for what you went through may GOD give your strength back
@literavicky8478
@literavicky8478 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs Mama Wachira sorry for what you went through..you are a more than a conquer
@anitahdarling7233
@anitahdarling7233 2 жыл бұрын
it's such a sad story. Judy you are a really strong woman. God will heal you completely 🙏🙏you and your kids need counseling
@mbuiwamwathi2271
@mbuiwamwathi2271 2 жыл бұрын
I like your resilience and willpower, health restoration and grace be your portions. To God be glorified 🙏🏿
@CarolWK
@CarolWK 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people fail to understand the value of those close to them....it is sad what Judy and her children have had to go through. There is a God in heaven....May He heal her completely from cancer. She should consider starting a group that can provide support and help to people who are going through similar situations....
@milkahwatene3798
@milkahwatene3798 2 жыл бұрын
Waa you have gone through a lot.but thank to God you are still strong.May God fight for you the remaining part.
@carolinewnjoroge
@carolinewnjoroge 2 жыл бұрын
She is strong..an overcomer...may God bless you abundantly.
@jnjugu10
@jnjugu10 2 жыл бұрын
Hugs Judy Ngai e nawe, it doesn't matter what that man thinks or says you are an overcomer. You are a strong woman and God loves you.
@Mimi-xo2yr
@Mimi-xo2yr 2 жыл бұрын
I totally understand where she's coming from. I bought a house which I am currently living in 10 years after the separation.
@pennystang6065
@pennystang6065 2 жыл бұрын
Smart
@TeacherBeatrice_
@TeacherBeatrice_ 2 жыл бұрын
this woman says the truth.most men from Neri are very thick now Onder they are beaten by their wives.my ex too was from Neri and he really ruined my youthful time exactly what this lady is explaining.you tell him you do something he doesn't want,you do it yourself he brings trouble.very abusive
@faithmwiraria4330
@faithmwiraria4330 2 жыл бұрын
I concur with u Nyeri Kuna shida..
@BG-gt1xy
@BG-gt1xy 2 жыл бұрын
You are an idiot. Go back to school
@BG-gt1xy
@BG-gt1xy 2 жыл бұрын
@@faithmwiraria4330 shinda ni wewe
@margaretwarorua1041
@margaretwarorua1041 2 жыл бұрын
Not all nyerians are narcissists its sad for anyone to lump them together.when you meet a narcissist utajua hujui gas lighting,almost making you loose your mind.
@loicendamaiyu7012
@loicendamaiyu7012 2 жыл бұрын
Sio wote...mtu mmoja akiaribika awache kuchanganywa na wengine.
@shiromwangi498
@shiromwangi498 2 жыл бұрын
Judy may you receive total healing, may our good Lord give you peace that surpasses all understanding. Your children are blessed... And your latter days will be greater than your former days Amen 🙏.
@antonynjoroge784
@antonynjoroge784 2 жыл бұрын
Judy may ALMIGHTY heal u,give u more days to live n enjoy happiness,also pray that ur children get all the blessings ,it's so sad,ur very brave ,I can't hold my tears,ur not born to suffer,all the best
@flonya1334
@flonya1334 2 жыл бұрын
Mama Wachira, you are one very tough lady. You are still young and you will get a job to cater for your needs. I know God who knows you best will hear your prayers. May our Lady of Sorrows intercede for you and your children, to come out of the whole tough situation peacefully and in good health.
@njerichege9855
@njerichege9855 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Judy my sister"a best maid. Thanks for sharing your story. You are an overcomer, God has won this battle for you. You will surely see the goodness of the Lord in the Land of the living.🙏🏾
@mutanumwilu3327
@mutanumwilu3327 2 жыл бұрын
Amen Amen. And by the stripes of Jesus she is healed.
@mwariwambeere8375
@mwariwambeere8375 2 жыл бұрын
You're gorgeous lady..u will live to testify the glory of God..ugutura muoyo nginya thuu ciaku cithethuke
@JaneGabrielg
@JaneGabrielg 2 жыл бұрын
Pole sana mummy. You are beautiful and very strong.May God visit you with healing and restoration.Yes,The Lord will vindicate you!
@wanyagahostrich2443
@wanyagahostrich2443 2 жыл бұрын
These girls (mistress) where do you get guts to abuse a woman with her illness yet you hav a breast na hujui kama hizo matiti zako ziko na ugonjwa 😭😭😭😭😭
@LetAllBeVisible
@LetAllBeVisible 2 жыл бұрын
Women, we are our own worst enemies. As sad as it sounds.
@KK-ygh
@KK-ygh 2 жыл бұрын
Very true.... please say that LOUDLY! she started doing secret property investments and expected him to take it normally! It is treason...like a man keeping a secret wife then expecting his wife to take easy when she finds out. Nyani haonagi kundule.
@LovelyMamasita
@LovelyMamasita 2 жыл бұрын
@@KK-ygh you’re a fool.
@marywaithira5037
@marywaithira5037 2 жыл бұрын
I don't know you but l have no words. It's soso traumatizing May the Lord take u thru the rest of ua live.
@janekanuthu6678
@janekanuthu6678 2 жыл бұрын
Mum u have gone through hell but ur a strong woman. May God continue to strengthen u.
@wanjifyn6269
@wanjifyn6269 2 жыл бұрын
This story is so heartbreaking. God Loves you so much Mama Wachira, he will Never Leave nor forsake you. Trust in Him, you are a Brave Woman Mungu atakupigania malipo ni hapa hapa duniani tu.
@jnn1715
@jnn1715 2 жыл бұрын
If stupidity and ignorance were names. They would fit those concubines and that man very well. Some people are just stupid. May our good Lord avenge for you Judy.
@faithbeckykinuthia5654
@faithbeckykinuthia5654 2 жыл бұрын
sometimes the pain can be to much to bear
@marykinya9
@marykinya9 2 жыл бұрын
She is a very very strong woman. That She didn't cry during the interview.......Kagoni almost did on her behalf. Pole sana mama, God sees, just watch space.
@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534
@elizabethkinyuaelizabeth534 2 жыл бұрын
You have a big compound Judy, you can do that and may God almighty bless you, I wish I could meet you face to face, lm not psychogist but I studied narcist so much , self taught because of my own interests
@irenesteve9765
@irenesteve9765 2 жыл бұрын
Waaaah......oooooh no,arume Kai mwendaga atia?🤦🤦some words sio zakwambia mtu especially a sick one, what goes around comes around, ya Mungu ni mengi ,ajui ata yeye anaeza left the world mbere ?hugs mum may God bless u with many years 🙏en give u peace 🕊️
@fourntsacco238
@fourntsacco238 2 жыл бұрын
A narcissistic personality disorder causes problems in many areas of life, such as relationships, work, school or financial affairs. People with narcissistic personality disorder may be generally unhappy and disappointed when they're not given the special favors or admiration they believe they deserve. They may find their relationships unfulfilling, and others may not enjoy being around them......
@elizabethwamwendia7602
@elizabethwamwendia7602 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Njeri!!. God bless you and continue to be your strength
@wanguibundi4017
@wanguibundi4017 2 жыл бұрын
The testimony is totally heartbreaking no better words to Express how it feels but all in all God is faithful and He'll see you through. Listening to this story I recall that I knew Judy as a little girl her mom was my friend when I lived in Buruburu phase one but we've since lost contact it has been a while. Sweetheart take heart you've a long life ahead of you and I believe you're blessed. God willing I'll call you one of these fine days. Lots of hugs and kisses from Tx where I'm resinding. 🙏🙏✝️✝️❤❤🤭🤭🔥🔥💯💯
@TKFAM243
@TKFAM243 2 жыл бұрын
Mama wachira, i admire yua resilience. Baba wachira is sitting on a time bomb with his mistress. WATCH THAT SPACE!.
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