Hmong Story-The Dead Cannot Talk

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[@MsSongBirdi]

Great story, lots of sorrow to unpack. The community can definitely look at emotional support for men and women. We can definitely call out extreme feminism and toxic masculinity. We can stand for domestic violence and advise on marriage therapy. Hmong people can recognize our patriarchal system, and make healthier social changes. You can fight for your internal community and external communities. One is not without the other. Sad things to see and hear.

[@jamesleevang]

Men’s mental health is important. Check on all your friends, family, and listen to them. 🙏

[@mosmimtsimuajxeem318]

Im with you on the part where our father's generation didn't treat our mothers well or with respects. I remember as a young girl that our father was always put mus tham luas nkauj and having affairs but my mother can't say a thing bc she needs to be a good nyab and house wife....so I do understand where you coming from. Just want to thank you for sharing your brother's story. So sad that he chose to end his life without fighting instead...Zoo siab koj nkag siab txog koj tus nus thiab pab nws fight nws qhov case...you did great sis...

[@1991touvang]

Love them while they are alive. Don't love them when they are dead.

[@likely89appleJuice]

Thanks for telling this story. It's good to hear from a Hmong men's side. Not all Hmong men are bad. My husband is a great man , husband and father to us. He's one of a kind.

[@fatttydevine]

So sad. I feel so bad for your brother. May his soul rest in peace

[@poggersrus1802]

Glad that you have found justices for your brother and make it right for your niece and nephew. I am sure your brother is very thankful what you have done sister. Bless you and your family.

[@Mizzlezzlee]

Came back to the comment just to say Thanks for such a good story!!

[@LENGVANG]

Thank you, Nkauj Noog. People usually don't send me story like this. Usually, they send it to someone else because this is not my niche. But I'm glad the person chose me because she like my first person narrative style.

[@sheenalauj8441]

Dev Npua Cai strikes again! ,. To my hmong brother, rest in peace., ... to the sister love his kids, maybe you will find redemption in the end.

[@youtooonelee9177]

I appreciate this story very much. A lot of Hmong women need to be educated and open minded, they have yet to learn the truth of the woke culture. I know too many couples like this one. There is a huge difference.

[@loralor8203]

What a sad story.. Thank you for sharing.

[@MaiyahXiong]

Thank you for sharing this story. My brother went through the same. He went couple time with the court case and he kept it silent and never say anything bad about his ex. When he went through hardships our family was there for him. Until this days he is still paying heavy child support because I know he still loves her. This is such a sad story and sorry for your loss.

[@paulavang2987]

Said story, yes all of us should love one another if we didn’t provide love to each other when we still alive then the day one of us gone from this world then the one still a life will felling hurts so much and will regret or felt guilty for your self forever good story and thank you for sharing this is the real life.

[@SmilyK]

This is an awesome story! Its harder for men in general to express their emotions let alone tell about the hardship they're going through and reach out for help...esp hmong men. I hope we break this cycle with our generations and generations to come 🙏

[@cindyskenderovic6806]

It's sad, but at least you did your part at the end to prove yourself to your brother that you love, care, and respect him even though he's no longer living its his wish to be with his kids and you made it come true for him with all due respect.

[@whatgamerlol5831]

It was too late but anyways she did the right thing at the end

[@bvang0520]

Congratulations, Sheng. It's so awesome to hear you love him so much right now. Those investigation skills came just a tad late

[@ceebthoj730]

Yeah so much now but that won’t bring him back.those stupid movements will only serve to tear families apart, nothing more.

[@panhialee8588]

Thanks for all your hardwork brother!!!

[@LENGVANG]

Panhia thank you so much for supporting my broke as* lol 😂

[@panhialee8588]

I work night shift and if i can buy myself starbucks to keep myself awake at work then why not donate to my hmong brother. Your stories makes my work night go faster at the hospital.

[@Dtt4]

Niam Dev tsis zoo ua Niam Tsev.

[@LENGVANG]

I just screenshot this because I’ve never heard of it lol 😂

[@life4dummies2023]

Nowadays some Hmong men expect their wives to be both niam tsev and niam dev because they love to eat slices of life 🍰 and have a pretty cake to look at 🎂

[@530loverboi]

This was one hell of a ride ... sad and sorrow to anger and then finally justice.

[@MrSLX01]

😢❤️

[@HiThereSkye]

This story is very sad. Great story!

[@bouayang9880]

Thanks for the story. It really hit close to the heart.

[@ntjyang9694]

Thanks for the message, please send some more related messages. Hmong men need to be heard. Hmong men matters.

[@houayang7219]

I really enjoy was working thanks you for the share

[@georgeyyang1995]

Yeah. Monday story. Thank you so much brother leng for keeping us together with ur story narrations.

[@touly5813]

I’ve been waiting for your Monday story all morning

[@Bombshell209]

Thanks for sharing your story. There are many men out there who gets abused by their spouse as well. May your brother RIP.

[@yyang1938]

So sorry for your loss. Your brother did not get the support he needed. Thanks for sharing.

[@pxfishing]

Thanks for sharing😢

[@truehawj2093]

Although so very sad and unfortunate for the brother's loss, it is the sister's realization and actions that matter most. We can all sit here and point fingers and judge her for being so ignorant and unloving towards her brother but I believe it is enough already for her to live with her brother's death on her conscience is enough of a punishment. It's the awareness now that is what matters most, and doing the right thing moving forward. Kudos to her. Thanks for telling this story so, so wonderfully, Leng. No one couldn't have told it any better than this. 😊

[@Nanhkeodonedi]

Thank you 🙏

[@brandonxiong6051]

This is such a sad story and a compelling example of the unfair bias systematic treatment that men face in the US.

[@unstoppablefishing7181]

I am going through this rn as a hmong men it is tough. I believe all hmong people need to go to therapy because we're all so toxic from our elders

[@totowamidoriryu6814]

A good man to the very end! Peace be with you brother! RIP!

[@unrealvwj6677]

Tus tuag yeej tham tsis tau…zoo mloog kawg

[@life4dummies2023]

Great narration!

[@BNP-HAWJ]

Yup people will never know until it’s too late to tell them you love them! We should love them while they’re living and breathing, not when they’re dead!

[@mimlauj6869]

This hits close to home 😭

[@mimlauj6869]

Thank you to the sister for sharing

[@joeycandle7688]

Good stories brother Leng

[@shouathao6281]

Very good story

[@SpadezA11]

Def good story

[@theslowserious9974]

I'm very sorry about your brother Chai. I have been through that hardship with my ex too. Luckily I divorced her and remarried a much better wife. Luckily I am not paying childsupport because she knows she have mental problems but only the hmong people were stupid enough to be on her side. She did everything to ruin my wife because she don't want to work hard and her family always telling her to divorce me because they always hated us because we were poor and our parents divorced too. Believe me, some hmong women will force you to hit them just to have a excuse for divorce plus they'll tell you that you're no good for any other women and dare you to go find another women better, once you do that, you're fall in their traps. Yes, not all hmong men are bad. Hmong women have to know that even though some hmong men will hurt you the most, some will love you the most. I've seen too many hmong girls thinking that other nationality will love them more than after a few back to back relationships they go back to trying to marry hmong men. In this country they support feminist very much that even true goodnmenbare thrown in jail because of bad women. God bless everyone.

[@YawmSaub]

My ex wife once said to me that if i truly love her, i shouldn't mind being her punching bag. And when i told her i don't appreciate and like how she's treating me, she'd make me feel guilty such as if i really loved her I'd find a million more reasons to appease and allow her to mentally/emotionally abuse me. It was a toxic relationship that i didn't realize the long years of mental abuse was having an effect on me. She was so good with her sob story that she has all my family duped and against me that when i finally decided to pick up whatever dignity pieces of me that was still left and leave, all my family ua ib tsaus cem kuv tias kuv yog tus phem. So yes, pay attention to the ppl thats around you and dont just take one person's side of the story and judge the other one. Cheers, Peace and Blessings!

[@panhialee8588]

Omggg!! Thunks sooo much

[@meilywanglau9356]

I feel sad with your family especially your brother. The child support craps needs to stop. Both parents just needs to cooperate and help one another raise the children. I see that there are those very cruel and evil woman that will abused the court system as they know they’re woman and the judges will listens to them and grant them their lies. I understand that there are those men that doesn’t take responsibility for their children too but either or we can do accordingly to whats right for the children and not because we want to destroy the other person.

[@yerx93]

ntses noj pho 😅🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂this part get me laugh so hard

[@thayingxiong4600]

Should’ve loved and listen to family. Only love when they’re dead.

[@mthoj]

😢---- this is so true! How sad

[@ayangktmtu]

So crazy. My sil was acting crazy and breaking things. When she cheated she ran off but called the police to get my niece because my sil was terrified of my brother. The police came and was ready to arrest my brother on domestic abuse. I told them you need to take him to the station and have a lawyer be with him. The police said we don't need to make it hard and just talk with them. I told my brother if you do not show what our sil did and break all the things at home, you will be the one who goes to jail tonight. The police had to see proof in order to not arrest my brother. This is sad because wisconsin is a mom state, because they will take the moms side over anyone's regardless of how wreckless they are.

[@maixialao4483]

❤

[@kachang8899]

Cas koj yuav tsis listen to your brother or asking he first. I have brothers too but when they have problems I always listen to both side not one side. Yog mas cov neej Hmong yeej muaj tus phem muaj tus zoo tsis yog tias lawv yuav phem txhua2 tus mog es thaum muab teeb meem no thov listed to both side nej thiaj li tsis yuav kev es thiaj li tsis too late for you guy

[@Gvang83]

Sad and very true in the new generation of Hmong marriages here in the States.

[@skincrx]

A lot of thing thing on social media is toxic, there’s always two side to a story. As a hmong man I don’t support the whole “the man is always right” 😂 a lot of things are a joke. Smh

[@poquvanga395]

Tuaj txog meskas teb no poj niam hmoob tig ua phem rau rxiv neej hmoob vim muaj kev cib nyeej grudge for the past, kuv yog ib tug txiv neej hmoob xabmaim tshiab no , kuv pom mas pojniam hmoob ua tsis yog lawm, muaj ib txhia txiv neej zoo, coj zoo , siab zoo mas raug pojniam tsim txom ua phem rau vim pojniam chim siab rau lub neej thaum ub ces ziag no lawv tuav ua phem pauj, kuv yog ib tug uas nkagsiab txog txiv neej and pojniam cwjpwm li cas. Kuv pom li no, vaj tswv ntuj yeej created txiv neej muaj cwjpwm heev neeg, tsiv nyaum vim txiv neej yog tus yuav tua dab tua tsov, tua yeebncuab ces vajtswv txawm muab txiv neej ua lub siab ntsws li tus neeg heev nyaum, yog ib tug txiv neej li pojniam es tais caus ntshai tsov ntshai dab tsis kam mus luaj teb ntov ntoo, tsis muaj peevxwm mus yos havzoov ces lub cuab yim neej ntawv tsis tau qoob loo tsis tau noj nqaij tsiaj qus li, yim neeg twg tus txiv heev nyaum ces mus deb mus ze twb tsis ntshai dab tso ces yim no pojniam menyuam feel safer, tabsis ziag no pojniam hmoob ho xav tias txiv neej tsis muaj nujnqis vim tsis ntshai tsov li qub lawm, kuv xav tias lwm hnub yog ntiaj teb tig li qub ntshe kuv tsis protect pojniam lawm pob yom, nyias heev nyias tiv thaiv nyias txoj sia , tus twg tsis heev ces tuag kavliam xwb, kuv yuav tsis cawm leejtwg li lawm lau.

[@nightowl7261]

American laws benefit women. Just look at White and black men. They are going through the same thing. And it's also the reason why they are not engaging with Western women anymore. They go overseas now too. 😉

[@ktleepwtsaugzogstories]

Eye opening for me too. Great job Leng.

[@kojhikoj4797]

Yes not all Hmong men are the same. 😊

[@noumoua_channel9852]

Ua tau li no yg yam zoo hv li lm o yv ua tau kj yu nu muaj kev kaj siab hv lm o

[@TheNoobComment]

What a horrible sister. Didn't help her brother until he passed away. Especially one sister that is a social worker and couldn't even help her brothers children back until it was too late.

[@shoualis920]

A man has no love from society. If a man shows emotion, then he is weak or unstable. A happy wife, happy life doesn't flow in my house. A happy house, happy spouse is the new way.

[@warlordswarriors4613]

Txhob tos lim lawm es mam tig pom pab tsis tau lawm os.

[@yaajpete]

Don't be sad live with your bias self. Keep that same hate you had for your brother while he was alive. He's dead now don't regret how you acted

[@nightowl7261]

💯 % on spot! F that lady. She got her brother killed.

[@TheOnlimeeh]

Looks like the sister f*cked up. But I’m glad she did better at the end. As a sister. I know my brother very well. I know the things he is capable and the things he’s not. So there for if my sister in law was to say my brother hit her. I will never believe that. Cause all my life I have never saw my brother hit any one. You should know your brother

[@stacyheu4475]

Your biggest mistake was making assumptions and judgment on your brother for your dad’s abuse towards your mom and so you never gave your brother a chance . A mistake you will never be able to fix. As any human being, you should never make assumptions on any situation until you know for sure. A life lesson learned the hard way for you. Your brother didn’t deserve any of that.

[@darlinn42]

This is a sad story but I don’t get why the person was blaming those movements for his bitter relationship with his brother ?

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Hmong people need to open up to mental health. Domestic violence is still not okay. Your brother had issues but our hmong brothers were never taught how to deal or cope with problems which tends to lead to worse habits and suicide. No one will know what was not told, silence is not always the way to go. I hate toxic masculinity but I don’t agree with extreme feminism too. There is a fine line we walk with fighting for the right thing and its all situational. Don’t forget to check up on your family members. Women who cry wolf like jay-noj-pho, should be ashamed!

[@chuelis3639]

Dang scary ?

[@xueshi2887]

What a horrible sister

[@theguyyah]

Not every apples is bad. Sad.

[@the-onethatgotaway5257]

Good story. My older brother is going thru something like this... but instead it's emotional abuse. Sorry to say, but you cannot help the one who doesn't want to be help.

[@pazaolee5696]

I stopped supporting the feminist movement a long time ago and realized that we need men.

[@ntawvdabneeg9993]

So her ex sil is an Amber Heard??😮😮😮

[@pleasesweetie]

A lot of Hmong Americans are too influenced by Crazy Americans idea. They lose themselves in their feeling vs their thinking. Being consume by feeling to make decision ignore the feeling of others as your own feeling matter the most so you lack understanding. Very sad.

[@FrameRot]

A person that supports BLM and Feminist movements already tells me the kind of person you are.

[@nightowl7261]

That's a high percent of Hmong American women today. They are quick to support others. But when it's Hmong related or non Hmongs crime against Hmongs. They stay quiet as a cricket.

[@KojKuvPebStories]

Amazing job! Good learning story!

[@ChewyVangPYSH]

My two favorite Hmoob meskas story teller ❤ ❤

[@KojKuvPebStories]

@@ChewyVangPYSH thank you 🙏

[@Kojtxiv5555]

The sister is STILL a POS. He called her and she ignored him so she shouldn't act as if she cares. She didn't care when he was alive.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

Feminism is not toxic-it’s the perception of people that Mae feminism toxic

[@nengyang209]

Your brother would’ve been alive today, if you have given him a chance to explain his side of the story. You’ve only brought out the true color in the ex wife but your brother died In sorrow and in pain. He didn’t deserve death. How can one live knowing someone who is dear to you committed suicide and you’re a part of it?

[@sheenalauj8441]

What ppl don't say is, everyone watches the person kill himself long alway and they let it happen. the car crash was just to finalize it.