I’ve had comments asking why I didn’t film more of the process while in the house. Simply put, it was out of respect to the deceased who was extremely private and never let anyone into his house, and the family. As well as the other people decluttering the house who did not wish to appear on film. Thanks for understanding! x
@lebe68634 жыл бұрын
I think you filmed loads this is one the best videos I have seen. Rest in peace to the owner. I dont want to leave a legacy like this to my kids. I want to stop it now and reverse it as soon as possible that is why I am here looking for help any advice greatly appreciated xx
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
le be thank you so much! I’m glad you found it helpful! I have a free decluttering training on my website which will give you practical tips to help you get started! 😀 www.simplymelliving.com
@lumijasminasmr35833 жыл бұрын
I am hoarding in recovery. Thank you so much for your hard work. ♥️🙏🏾
@SimplyMel3 жыл бұрын
@@lumijasminasmr3583 Thank you for your lovely words! All the best, you can do this. Be patient with yourself, one item at a time 🙂
@lifeismycanvas4 жыл бұрын
this really reminded me of my old house about 8 years ago, It wasn't quite at the level of this one but close. Took me a long time to declutter, truthfully I'm still decluttering.
@christinabo634 жыл бұрын
Keep going and keep in mind that every baby step brings you closer to your goal, whatever that may be. I'm rooting for you from Germany because I was and am on a similar journey as you are. 💐
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
That is fantastic, be proud of how far you have come! I am still decluttering as well - it's definitely a long process but well worth the effort!
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
I love this so much, and wish you well on your own decluttering journey! 😊
@lifeismycanvas4 жыл бұрын
Thank you ladies, I needed the encouragement today. I've been working on my craft room and struggling. I love everything but I know I can't use it all, seems too hard to decide!
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
@@lifeismycanvas one way of deciding is putting every item into a packing box, and only unpacking items as you use them. Set a date in the future, eg. 1 month, 3 months. After that time, anything you have not used/taken out of the box gets decluttered. Good luck - you've got this!
@CHSwildcats194 жыл бұрын
I thought this video was very respectful of the homeowner and their family. Often these people are elderly and/or disabled and have a shopping/saving compulsion that leads to them getting overwhelmed with stuff & they just can't manage it. Really great video!
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your kind words. I agree, it is an illness and it is more common than I realised. Have a great week!
@MariaMartinez-wq7sh4 жыл бұрын
Wowww 👏🏻, the AFTER looks amazing. Great Job 👍🏻 😀
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Have a wonderful week :-)
@jessicagoodwin34084 жыл бұрын
It's not often a house this hoarded has decent donations in it! That's so good to see, it's not all in a landfil. Thank you for your hard work! Had the homeowner passed on?
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Goodwin thank you! Yes it was a deceased estate.
@loreneknight97554 жыл бұрын
First of all, GOD BLESS YOU!!! This was hard to watch. It must have been very difficult for you, dear lady. I'm humbled by you & your willingness to take on this overwhelming challenge. Wow we zowie!!! Keep on fighting the good fight!!
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Lorene Knight thank you so much! It was a mammoth task but so worth it! 😃
@alanbirkner19583 жыл бұрын
My mother had moldy books and moldy clothes. She also had spoiled food. My brother and I used to try to help her clear out but she refused counseling and got angry. My dad kept it under control until he died. Tina
@SimplyMel Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that. It is a hard and tiring job. There was spoiled food (not a lot) and vermin in the house but I was trying to be respectful in not filming certain things as it was a relative of mine.
@RebeccaShepherd5 жыл бұрын
Omg Mel wow what an eye opener. Suddenly I don't feel like my house is that messy or disorganised. But what an experience for you as a minimalist
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Shepherd thanks for watching! Yes, it’s kind of unbelievable until you are in it, trying to clear a path through. Definitely a great experience - decluttering in my own home is now a piece of cake in comparison! 😄
@01baia4 жыл бұрын
The house looks surprisingly clean compared with many hoarder houses. It is very hard to keep things clean (eg. walls, cupboards, etc.) with so much stuff. Was it reasonably clean in your opinion, Mel? Maybe it photographed cleaner than it was!
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I guess it was relatively clean in that the hoarder items were old food or perishable items. However there was a lot of dust and dirt that had built up, hence the masks we were wearing! 😀
@charlenejackson62364 жыл бұрын
You guys did a great job.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Charlene Jackson thank you so much for watching and taking the time to comment! We were really pleased with the result ☺️
@NINJAROSE3474 жыл бұрын
Great job proud of you
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, it was a pretty huge job! I hope your family are safe and well.
@EzinOz4 жыл бұрын
Wow. Simply wow. I’m about to embark on a clean up of my grandpa’s estate. He was a hoarder and I’m unsure where to start. I really liked how to methodically went through each room and donated so much.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Erin Aust thank you! It’s a massive task - just take it one step at a time and it will get done 😃
@melissastugis384 жыл бұрын
God bless you for your help with getting this house cleaned out. How can a person live like this and no one knows about it? To much stuff to have.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! The decreased was a very private person. He would not allow people into his home and made himself quite uncontactable to friends and family.
@lebe68634 жыл бұрын
This is what my shed looks like and so I need to try sort through it as it's been years and years of build up
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
You can do it! Just start a little bit at a time. Delegate a space to set aside the things you want to declutter. At present, it’s hard to find places to take donations. However there are still people who will pick up free items from your front porch / front of your house.
@jamoss91235 жыл бұрын
You's need a few skip bins instead of mucking around with trash and as soon as you have enough for a car load to donate take it away so it's not too much once done
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
jamie shoesmith thanks! Yep we looked into getting a skip but there was nowhere to put it except the road and that would’ve cost extra for a permit. So we decided to get the rubbish collectors in at the end. We took carloads to donate at the end of each day but it was too much - the donation truck even had to make 2 visits to collect all the furniture, clothes and books. Astounding huh! 😃
@rachaelbean14394 жыл бұрын
Interesting seeing a hoarding video set in our lovely NZ and recognising the brands. Especially blacksacks.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Hi Rachael! Thanks so much for watching! Yes, love my hometown and miss a lot of things about it (maybe not the wind so much!) ☺
@jennygibbons12584 жыл бұрын
Amazing 😲 Great job! ☺
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Jenny Gibbons thank you so much for watching and for your lovely message!☺️
@afroditigreekmom4 жыл бұрын
Anyone else getting emotional watching this? I have a mom who likes to hoard things and it has been so difficult to help her. I am going through my own things regularly cause I know how important it is only to have what we absolutely need and it just makes me feel so good when I am not crowded. My work for myself this year is not to buy books but finish and donate the ones I read and begin borrowing from the library. It will save on space and money.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Bless you! Your mum is very lucky to have you on her side x
@janelleculpepper43323 жыл бұрын
What was the process of the sorting? How did you decide what was to keep for the family and what was to donate? We’re the family members there with you all sorting the items? Is there a checklist on what to keep? I have a deceased family member that I am helping to de-hoard and it is hard.
@SimplyMel3 жыл бұрын
Hi Janelle! I feel for you, it's a difficult process. There were family members sorting, and my best advice is to keep it simple. Any items still good to use were donated - the family only wanted to keep photos and anything similar that would preserve the family history. Take care, Mel
@maramilas19754 жыл бұрын
Time lapse is useful. And fun to watch. 👍
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Mara Milas thank you so much for your lovely comment - I’m very happy you enjoyed watching! ☺️
@djpatt815 жыл бұрын
This scary I obsessed with books think I use a kindle ebook and declutter some and another I love clothes I need declutter some those I wouldn’t want get that serious
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
DragonOrb Draconicwicca I just bought a kindle and love it! Prior to that I would use the kindle app on my iPad. I also borrow a lot of ebooks from the library and read them on my iPad 👌☺️
@kristisimonson4354 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel Have they invented Kindle for clothes yet?
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
@@kristisimonson435 haha what a concept! You should trademark that ;-)
@sandramcdaniel24 жыл бұрын
Great job! Very Inspiring.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I'm stoked that you found this inspiring! ☺
@sandramcdaniel24 жыл бұрын
Simply Mel 😊👍🏻
@JOHN-ht6zc4 жыл бұрын
Great JOB
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Erik Lindo thank you!
@lechat85335 жыл бұрын
This world and we, her people, are totally out of balance...
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Le Chat yes, so much stuff...
@lechat85335 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel Yes. Clutter in our homes, in our minds but especially in our hearts. You did a wonderful job. It`s a pity you don`t show more of the process itself. I wish you all the best in 2020 :) Friendly greetings from Slovenia :)
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Le Chat thank you! Wishing you all the best for this new decade ☺️
@kimberly81854 жыл бұрын
Is this a complete clear out or is the person coming home? You probably said but I missed it.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Cochran complete clearout! It was a deceased estate.
@RebeccaShepherd5 жыл бұрын
What a transformation mel
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Rebecca Shepherd it’s amazing huh! Such a sweet little house 🏡😀
@heathercreates84064 жыл бұрын
Did the person who lived there pass away? Bless him! Was this a paying job? How did people know to ask u to help?
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Hi there! Thanks so much for watching! Yes, unfortunately he had passed away and I know the family.
@mht0955 жыл бұрын
I wish you had shown the process ...
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Mojdeh H.Tehrani it would have been good to have someone film me while I decluttered. Unfortunately we were short on space and time so it was all hands on deck! Generally filming increases the time it takes to do something by about 2-3 times, as I’ve found when I make cleaning videos! I could do a video talking about how I tackled the job, as it is a process 😀
@mht0955 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel 🌸🌸🌸🌷🌷
@joytoyouandme45934 жыл бұрын
Most garbage companies have a large bin that can be dropped for massive rubbage. Then things only have to be moved once, from the house to the bin. Saves on cost.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Joy to you and me that was our preferred method, but unfortunately there just wasn’t anywhere to put a large bin.
@michellemilligan4 жыл бұрын
Did you throw away the 3 luggages on day 3?
@IamTheMom4 жыл бұрын
Amazing job 🌸 is this your job or just a one time thing?
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m a decluttering coach but the hoarder job was a one-off 😀
@gailchiu4 жыл бұрын
This house did not have a fridge or washer or dryer? It's surprising to not have a fridge.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Gail C I agree! I think possibly why the owner had so many new clothes stockpiled.
@d-anger-noodle3 жыл бұрын
final hand truck count: F I V E
@SimplyMel Жыл бұрын
I'm not sure, but my Dad said there were quite a few truckfuls that went to charity and to the rubbish tip!
@Upgradeyourlifetoday4 жыл бұрын
Is this nz? I could do with a cleaner to help me declutter and organise
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Cee Enn yes it was! I am based in Australia though, I was in NZ for 2 weeks to clear out the house. I have a free video training to help you kickstart decluttering! It is available at my website www.simplymelliving.com 😀
@markussirtl50804 жыл бұрын
Maybe you Yan do a time lapse video the next time?
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Hello! Thanks so much for watching. I wasn't really able to film a lot during this job, but I have a ton of other videos with time lapses where I have decluttered! For example, this kitchen with over 50 years of items to be sorted through! :-) kzbin.info/www/bejne/p2W7iKF8ga2JnK8
@marievilla88614 жыл бұрын
Years of accumulation
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Yes, decades worth!
@shegoeslightly4 жыл бұрын
This puts me off going to op shops. Clothing and books from houses, stacked with rotten food and bad hygiene 🤢 I'd toss everything..
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
I totally understand how you feel. I was little apprehensive before we went in. However, we were pleasantly surprised at how clean the house was, for the state it was in. The only rotting food we found was the normal groceries that you'd buy each week, that had been sitting there for a couple of weeks since the owner had passed away. The rest was a lot of clutter mixed with dust bunnies, but so many brand new books, DVDs and clothes. We did check everything carefully and only donated the new or really good quality condition items 😀
@mountainviewvintage3864 жыл бұрын
Man it was tough i bet not having a space outside to sort & bring out stuff.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching! Yes, it was a challenge but somehow we made it work! 😃
@michellefarris39614 жыл бұрын
Poor animals
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
The neighbours came around while we were decluttering and said they were taking care of them - at least one was adopted by a neighbour 😀
@Robug445 жыл бұрын
💜👍
@SimplyMel5 жыл бұрын
Rose Savage thank you 🙏😊
@maggiegnzlz4 жыл бұрын
🙅
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
It's a lot, isn't it!
@maggiegnzlz4 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel too much! Wow
@KT-ff8bu4 жыл бұрын
I thought this video was supposed to show the process not just the progress. Disappointed to be honest.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
K T thank you for for watching and taking the time to provide feedback! I understand - the reason for how this was produced was a couple of factors - prioritising the declutter over filming as that was the primary reason I was there, but also being mindful that the deceased and family wanted to maintain a level of privacy 😀 I know that ppl will be interested in the process so my second video explains it in more detail 😀 kzbin.info/www/bejne/aHO8d3p3arJpb7s
@LilacandJohn4 жыл бұрын
That much garbage
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Lilac and John I know right! Sooo much garbage 😳
@LilacandJohn4 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel it's okay friend
@kathymatthews48454 жыл бұрын
No offense..but this video is boring... It would be better off you showed us you actually cleaning an area at a fast forward speed of video recording... Just saying😉
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
kathy matthews thanks for watching! Usually that is the type of video I do when I declutter and clean. However due to circumstances I was not able to do that in this instance 😀
@pattir8204 жыл бұрын
I hope you had the house treated for mice etc.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Patti R absolutely 👍
@ingenuity1684 жыл бұрын
I've seen worse.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
curiosity 2019 I was glad that there wasn’t more perishable items in there
@ingenuity1684 жыл бұрын
@@SimplyMel Right. Other hoarders are just disgusting. Bathtub full of feaces and urine. 🤮🤮🤮🤮
@louisehorn80494 жыл бұрын
You are not even showing us anything. Havent seen anyone doing anything. Not one person. So boring
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
The other people there did not wish to be filmed. I respected their privacy and the wishes of the family, and did not publish anything without consent. Remember that this was someone’s life and home.
@sweetumsDenise4 жыл бұрын
Simply Mel Thank you for your work and sharing the before and after with us. I hate that so many people have commented on this video just to complain. Everything isn’t for everyone, but everything doesn’t have to be said either, especially if it’s not constructive, just criticism. I mean, who does that help? No one. Kudos to you for remaining professional in your responses 🤩
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Denise Nicole thank you! I appreciate your message 😃
@herzigharte4 жыл бұрын
Less talking, more doing.
@SimplyMel4 жыл бұрын
Herzig Harte in this instance, it was mostly doing, very small proportion of the time filming as we were there to do a job. Thanks for watching!
@minnesotagal5074 жыл бұрын
I agree talk talk talk, repeat repeat repeat. So boring