Hoarder Refuses To Participate In Therapy | Hoarding: Buried Alive

[@idontcare-sf1vb]

“I know I’m depressed what can they do give me vitamins?🤷🏾‍♀️” you can go to therapy get to the root of the problem and work through it. So delusional poor woman

[@fractalgem]

And even if its major neural imbalance type depression not life event type, vitamins are STILL the wrong approach you need proper meds!

[@TheCosmicVagabond]

She needs thousands of rounds of electro-shock therapy until she improves. Then she will need a double prefrontal lobotomy.

[@raine6813]

shes literally acting like a 4 year old, standing on the box like a child sitting on their favorite toy so that their parents cant take it away from them

[@widowkeeper4739]

I see so much of my mother in Louise. It was NEVER her fault, it's always someone else's fault, and she cared far more about money and having things her way more than she did about her children or all the other friends and family she drove out of her life by acting like that. Yes, for the record we tried everything to help. If you can think of something to try, we tried it. My mom died alone in her hoard like she wanted. It literally took us 9 dumptrucks and a crew of 10 to clean out her house. I hope Louise manages to have an epiphany about her immaturity before she ends up like my mom.

[@thegreenmanofnorwich]

That's really sad. It must have been incredibly difficult

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

Dr Heaton has much more patience than I would have with this very rude lady. I've had depression for almost thirty years. I take anti depressants to help me control it. I eat well, I exercise, I've had therapy. In other words, lady, I do things to help myself move forward.

[@TheSMR1969]

Right and ? Some people have depression that is far worse than yours and they can't do anything to change, the simple fact that you were able to recognise you need help says that your illness wasn't as bad as some people

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

@@TheSMR1969 you don't know that. You have no idea how bad it was, and I've been suicidal. But no matter how bad it gets, there are tiny windows of time when it's not as bad. Those are the points we need to utilise. My original point was that this lady is doing nothing to help herself. She may not feel able to right now, but there'll come a pint when she will. I wish her all the luck and support in the world.

[@TheSMR1969]

@@itsacarolbthing5221 it's pretty obvious that there are others who have had worse depression than yours, (it's not a competition) unless you are seriously trying to imply that no one has had it as bad which is just wrong, also the simple fact that you were able to better yourself proves that yours was not as bad as some people's, as some are so far gone they require a lot of care among other things, so I think it's safe to assume that your depression isn't the worst anyone's ever experienced. But back to the discussion , again some people have it so bad that there is no points to utilise again you are judging depression from your own experiences when everyone's is different, in relation to how difficult they are to deal with, some are not as bad as yours, whilst some are far worse, again it's different for everyone, the point is just because you were able to do things to help yourself doesn't mean others could, everyone recovers at different times. And hoarding requires constant support and is one of the hardest to deal with because of the massive social stigma around it.

[@tuxdog7342]

Yes maam.

[@AnxiousFork]

Its not the depression Olympics. Some with depression can do those things,.some cant.

[@triggeredcat120]

“What can I do for depression, take certain vitamins?” Girl I have depression and I take MEDS GORL

[@nothanksplease]

Do you still have depression? Yes obviously the hoarder isnt going to be good at managing themselves. lol

[@nothanksplease]

Dont ignore how much actual good nutrition can help though. But I mean she has cancer so like... youre gonna be sad when you are sick sick. im not found of this person but depression is a c word.

[@geminigenu]

I don't see how some of these volunteers don't go off on the hoarders with their bad attitudes and entitlement.

[@HerpaDerp999]

Going "off" on these people is the exact opposite of what they need.

[@AlehandrosArhangelos]

@@HerpaDerp999 They need a slap in the face and they might wake up lolz

[@josephkhiangte5835]

I Love Jesus❤💖💞

[@christopher.saint.christopher]

@@josephkhiangte5835 He just wants to be friends.

[@kathrynjensen2752]

@@HerpaDerp999 doesn’t mean they don’t deserve it (stuck living with hoarder parent)

[@therealbingus978]

You can see how sad the man is to admit he hasn't been able to get inside his dining room for 15-16 years and that's not good...

[@malxdriot]

It isn’t good at all.

[@نويرهسالم-غ6ق]

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[@jeanniemeyers8951]

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[@johnnyholmes8840]

@Ruff and tuff Entertainment what's your issue? No one cares.

[@Lizdoglove07]

I feel bad for Adam...he tries to help himself but his Mother is holding him back.

[@miawagner4245]

This house gives me anxiety

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

What they should do is get the hoarders out of the home for a few days and then just get rid of the lot.

[@drkmgic]

That doesnt work. They just hoard it back again and exacerbate the problem.

[@rp338]

yeah they just recollect and hoard twice as much without psych help

[@elizabethogden8341]

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[@susanneshaw6234]

First they won't go; second they will just refill their rooms within a year

[@rebeccastewart8078]

Hoarding is a form of OCD. You can't simply throw everything away and the hoarder will be all better. That can cause a hoarder to have a mental breakdown. It's a very serious mental health issue. It takes therapy and hard work to overcome hoarding.

[@amandabr9562]

How can anyone stay with a hoarder like that? I know she has a big problem but seeing this house is overwhelming.

[@immortalwolfy8105]

This women is just 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@earnold1896]

@immortal wolfy.... "woman" (not women). Woman means 1 and women means more than 1. (Women is the plural) .

[@deboracopeland4795]

I had MDD for 50 years and it’s no excuse to treat people like crap.

[@FrankM1394]

You have to want help in order to be helped. Even if that help comes by accident, you will only be changed by it if you accept it, not if it’s forced on you. I feel bad for this person, but objectively it makes a lot of sense why she would refuse help.

[@joanacastro7628]

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[@A.M.Noon94]

the more you entertain these delusional fantasies the more you will have to respond with blunt force and verbal responses.

[@VincentBalducci]

When the Louise threatened to get barbed wire or electrical devices I could not stop laughing 😂

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[@joyceclayton4536]

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[@makyiadavis2909]

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[@libraw864]

I know someone who lives like this and they are actually ashamed when you come in their home!?

[@amandaacero1438]

@Ruff and tuff Entertainment en español las quintillisas

[@lorinebarber6387]

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[@LunarNightLights]

this was over 2 years ago, shes likley passed by now. i feel so bad for the kids having to clean that out when shes gone

[@melrose8213]

The son is a doll. I adore his personality and his lil hippie/big lebowski way of talkin. hehehe

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[@stoney-51999]

This was so hard to watch. I want to be furious with Louise but I know she’s suffering from a disease. I just wish someone or something could break through to her.

[@SherylPerruquet]

Adam was no different than his Mom. He's been a dumpster diving hoarder his entire life. Sadly his Mom Louise died in November 2015 two days before Thanksgiving. Adam ended up losing the house and is a total mess living at his youngest sister's house since then.

[@deboracopeland6356]

He needs to move out. She’s holding him back

[@Maz-zb9uf]

Nothing the therapist can do if she doesn't want the help.

[@TheSMR1969]

Not true

[@lindaallen4067]

You can't help people who DON"T WANT help! Why are you wasting time and resources on these people?

[@jackmaster4811]

You're going up against 2 hoarders and a whole Crappy Headquarters, And you send 1 therapist??? What you DO need to fix that is the police, an ARMY of maids, the construction workers and negotiators. 1 Therapist isn't going to fix THAT type of mess

[@iwaito5116]

No

[@amandabr9562]

Army of maids?😂🤣 While the problem is serious, your comment is funny .

[@wubblebubbleball5433]

Actually therapy would help a lot. Hoarding is driven by mental illness

[@mxxxn]

You can see she's trapped in her head & it's terribly sad. I hope she opens up to help & therapy soon

[@zephyrr914]

So difficult to change for them. They rarely face the problem for the hoarding. They just want to throw it all. It’s sad. She has to get to the point of wanting to get help for depression.

[@karenashton5053]

It’s hard to face your issues and depression. My sister started after her husband’s death and her cancer diagnosis but in the end we cleaned after she passed away. I grieve for her loss and for her pain and living conditions.

[@MackeyDeez]

My mom was a hoarder and it didn't matter if it was a piece of junk or trash because you'll be thrown out before it will if you try to put it out with the rest of the garbage.

[@shetalks5867]

To read the comments on a video like this of your family member is not a good idea. Remember this is someone’s mother, grandmother, loved one. She has since passed from breast cancer. A lot of you lack empathy and compassion. My grandmother was sick. Please try to be kind.

[@einienj3281]

She doesn't want help..

[@casgallagher]

Which makes her delusional. Maybe when her house is condemned and taken from her she’ll wake up.

[@einienj3281]

@@casgallagher luckily not.

[@teniseharper1121]

@@casgallagher 1q,

[@lamichael8659]

she needs to it tho more than anyone really. we need to offer help as much as we can and hope she changes her mind. adam tho... she is a bad influence on him sadly

[@pandasquad1295]

If that happened, it would make her even more depressed and before you know it, she would be living in an abandoned metal shed and would be hoarding nothing but garbage in it in order to feel safe.

[@ZKs905]

They should’ve condemned the house and kicked her out to teach her a lesson

[@leairscott5616]

Rrtvt7t{I will have a talk to him and family

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

Excuse me, this is my grandmother. She passed from her cancer shortly after this. Why would u wanna teach someone a lesson for wanting to keep memories

[@jamiebaker7066]

You can't help someone who doesn't want to help themselves!!

[@bongrat.656]

being stubborn is such a toxic trait

[@chobers5659]

I'd be grateful for help. I think it'd be best to burn the house down and start fresh. Maybe build 2 separate units.

[@TheSMR1969]

You're not a hoarder so you don't understand what it's like

[@chobers5659]

@@TheSMR1969 I might be...have you seen my home?

[@TheSMR1969]

@@chobers5659 if you could just burn your house to ground start fresh then you're not a hoarder, hoarders experience instense distress over the removal of a bit of paper, it's a mental illness, the point is these people don't choose to do this and they can't control how they feel

[@chobers5659]

@@TheSMR1969 It's ok, you don't need to explain. I wish I could start fresh, I didn't say I was capable. I doubt any hoarder is truly happy or at peace living in a state of disarray. I get it.

[@ebonyobrien5895]

Why on earth would you bring two young kids to this?!?! It’s so unsafe and the mum is so volatile it seems so irresponsible and dangerous to have them there and expose them to this shit.

[@mulderitsme5234]

I'm sorry but I couldn't help this woman, these people are saints for not getting extremely annoyed with her and walking out. Completely stubborn beyond any excuse.

[@shereewordell2433]

How can people live in such filth? That’s horrendous!

[@AimeeMairead]

she obviously has mental health issues, once you develop depression you don’t care about that stuff anymore and and it can be incredibly difficult to do the simplest things, it’s also probably really embarrassing

[@AimeeMairead]

she also has CANCER, that’s incredibly life altering

[@HerculePoirot-lr6kp]

@@AimeeMairead I understand the depression but I think this is more than being depressed. She has an addiction. It's probably more complicated than I can imagine.

[@BringerOfDestructionAndDoom]

You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. I can already see the steps she's going to take. 1 is she's going to lose the house. 2 she's going to lose whatever whatever she can salvage from the house. 3 she's going to start hoarding stuff on to other people's property. If she doesn't change soon she will be spending time in jail or a psychiatric hospital. So sad but so true.

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

No she died from her cancer. She actually got rid of a lot of her stuff when the video took place. It's been almost 10 years since she passed. This is my grandmother. Please remember this isn't fake these are real ppl with real lives. Be kind

[@death2putin718]

Adam is not the problem

[@m.susandenton1077]

Louise needs to see a psychiatrist for depression. Medication and therepy may help. This may help her son as well.

[@VirgoCali89]

TLC needs to leave the hoarders to A&E

[@michellegable3191]

I hope he keeps doing the best for his own life. Sad to say but I think mom’s a lost cause.

[@Trund27]

Throw the whole filthy house away.

[@Halfcertified]

Hire a arsonist

[@amandabarfield4242]

I don't believe I've EvER heard anyone say the Hoarder is hoarding to keep themselves safe. Seems like a bit of a contradiction considering how much danger she's putting herself in. Guess that's what the therapists are for.

[@widowkeeper4739]

It really is true. The hoard is like a physical bulwark built against whatever it is going on in their heads.

[@wavesonswim8738]

It’s about having control

[@ThePrincessCH]

I'm surprised both mother and son are hoarders. The son seems so much more inclined to get rid of stuff.

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[@jennifercoleman6218]

Wondered if they were going to have an episode filmed here in Oregon. We have a lot of hoarders here. In Washington state too. And wtf no not just vitamins for depression. It's called getting out and not hoarding making you more depressed

[@TheSMR1969]

She's severely depressed

[@barrydabwob5321]

they need to jail these people for hoarding they aint eer gonna learn or care anyway

[@physiquegirl]

If I had to live there I’d be depressed too

[@danikamoranhi857]

I love the fact that it's longer than 4 minutes long not saying that all the hoarder episodes are four minutes long

[@danikamoranhi857]

@@babawali3021 did you read the whole comment

[@Moleanimationchannel]

Hoarders rarely seek help or even admit they have a problem. They must be forced to deal with it. They should not present when items are being removed otherwise they will fight for their right to keep garbage.

[@lanivillano9491]

Poor living hygiene that's why she got more depress because the mom she don't want to get rid all the garbage stuff so that her place organize and clean.

[@earnold1896]

Dr Rebecca Beaton seems so kind and nice. Always liked seeing her.

[@haweater1555]

6:48. WOW what a mean SOB.

[@tuxdog7342]

APS APS SOMEONE should have called cps when those were babies. I bet she always been awful

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

No she wasn't, she was the sweetest thing ever and always looked out for her whole family. You can ask any of her kids or grandkids. Loosing her tore our family apart. Seeing coments like this years after she passed makes my heart hurt. Your a horrible person

[@Aussie565]

Louise cracks a tantrum!! Rude

[@Wisdomseeker5]

I couldn't never being a hoarder. I had not money 😖

[@TheSMR1969]

You don't choose to be a hoarder

[@fractalgem]

Hoarders with no money will often collect flat out trash or go deep into debt chasing shopoholic deals

[@basicburrito1157]

She needs a punch she’s so childish Them poor animals she needs to be in jail.

[@ciyabenoy4459]

She is almost equivalent to being medically ill

[@ciyabenoy4459]

Have some compassion

[@susanlett9632]

​@@ciyabenoy4459 So now mentally ill people can break the law?? Well I'm mentally ill. Guess I'll rob a bank. Ridiculous

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

Please be kind. Our whole family looks at these videos to reminisce my grandmother. And seeing this breaks us.

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

​@@susanlett9632mental and physically ill. She passed from cancer shortly after this. Be kind

[@marcb8934]

Hoard it heap it throw it chuck it

[@DizzyKizzy64]

Seems Louise has very stunted maturity

[@hcklberypinkbrownies5170]

She is just lazy.

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

No that's you

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

Where can I find this full episode

[@dirbrody]

The Mother & daughter look the same age…

[@acetanilide]

What the fuck are those roaches?!?! At 6:16

[@monicaalcorta557]

Doesn’t Dr. Zasio look like a Who from Whoville?

[@Fola1895]

I think the solution for horders is to put them in a hotel for a few days finish the job and bring them back to a clean house it's useless to discuss anything with them.

[@JaneAlison008]

You can't be more wrong. I'm not trying to be mean by my comment but that idea is a disaster to any hoarder and only leads to intensification of hoarding.

[@TheSMR1969]

Maybe you should actually do the research before speaking

[@fractalgem]

Thats counterproductive most of the time. They just see allll the empty spave and buy teice as much stuff as before

[@Galworld761]

It is illegal. Even the government gives them an opportunity for clean up before going in and cleaning up, fines or taking property. Second, it doesn’t treat disorder and they just fill it up again. Third, it can lead to suicide or mental breakdown. So, the cleaners feel great but the hoarder still have the same problem.

[@meekkocat]

use me as the “WHY?!” button :)

[@Kayyleee_22]

why?!

[@claire040776]

Why? Bc hoarding means people are suffering mentally!

[@nenaelliott8058]

@@claire040776 exactly. It's their way of coping with an underlying issue. Some people drink, some people do drugs. People deal with their problems differently. This problem is mental but doesn't mean she's crazy. It's usually brought on by depression usually from a huge loss in their life.

[@claire040776]

@@nenaelliott8058 ..... thank you ..... someone with sense and empathy!

[@nenaelliott8058]

@@claire040776 I just hate to see people down on the lady because they won't try to understand. She's not lazy and she's not dirty, she's I'll. She can't help what's going on. Just like a person that has Alzheimer's, we should pity them, not make fun of them.,

[@wilmaknickersfit]

I don't think much of the therapist's approach towards Louise at all.

[@gillianbrookwell1678]

This therapist is irritating to the point of pampering her.

[@earnold1896]

@@gillianbrookwell1678.. Yeah they can pamper a bit but Rebecca Beaton is kind.

[@TheSMR1969]

That's because you are ignorant on how hoarding is treated

[@dyghee_]

I Always thought a room filled to the brim with snacks but never this

[@xROXYZx]

Key words used to sit at

[@cheryljohnson4292]

Burn the house down

[@Ava_Orchid]

I know its a mental issue but How can they help me with this giant stinking boil when I know it is a bacterial staph infection...give me a lightbulb..... makes about as much sense as the idea that since you know you are depressed that somehow makes it harder to deal with than a mystery...

[@Ava_Orchid]

You see individuals that are having a really strong mental issue with tossing things but logically when spoken to they do understand they can not live like this even if they dont know how to go about working through it. This case you have no mental ability to handle anything but also a total lack of logic and awareness of consequences so she has nothing at all to be motivated by. Shes just going to die clutching her trash alone. She may not be legally considered an adult based on her reactions. She is taking delight in causing stress and agitation and misery for others like she is winning something when the prize is homelessness and solitary death

[@kathyeller1621]

A year later.....what does it look like now?!

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

She passed from cancer shortly after this. Adam sold property, and didn't give any if the family any money or her things. The new owners remodeled

[@deepseablu91]

Who else thought of Hamilton when the doctor said “diametrically opposed”

[@katherineb5872]

":Foes."

[@fading_nebula]

*WOW*

[@amykins9870]

I have many disorders I dont want to share with anyone else. I get where she is coming from but I would not give value to such a worthless item. I then love when I can say see we would've had to stop everything go in the car and spend money buying that when I saved it 6mo-1yr ago you said we'd never use that. Has is been a bother in the drawer no. Its when my basement is filled again because my girls moved out and left their stuff and baby stuff but now baby is 2 and I wanna get rid of the little baby stuff. I hate that the dump cost money and we need a truck. My husband hates spending money on those types of things.

[@thekenzieandkenna]

have a yard sale? Lol.

[@websterbodybuilder]

Disgusting

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[@christianworthinton8000]

Depression? Get rid of the damn sunglasses, get outside and get some sunshine!

[@LemmonPi3]

Oh the ignorance 🙄 don’t tell people with mental illness what to do if you’re not a professional. Thanks.

[@earnold1896]

Well yeah temporarily. However getting outside can help a bit and give a welcome break to a depression sufferer. You are right there.

[@TheSMR1969]

@E Arnold there is no choice involved, you can't choose to be better

[@sevanahrichardson1147]

She couldn't she had cancer!

[@tuxdog7342]

How? Wtf

[@imsellingtoday]

Gross

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Is this all real or scripted ?

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Get accutane. Or topical benzyl peroxide

[@neuroness]

Louise what can I do with depression take certain vitamins Me an intellectual yes

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