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[@jenniferarchibald7590]

Thank you for showing the realities of parenting two kids. I understand influencers not wanting to show there kids having melt downs etc but when everything is cut out of vlogs it makes parenting look easy and perfect when in reality some days are going to be hard. You don’t need to answer but I wondered if there was an update with the tongue tie and if you had decided what you were going to do with it

[@marinamelling9799]

Lovely realistic vlog of a solo mum smashing life with a new born and toddler. You are doing amazing. Keeping it real. All these comments about not letting him watch tv! I feel you hun you need a bit of down time / break and so does george after nursery! Maybe not loads all night. Good suggestions about audio books, going for a walk, reducing nap times. Perhaps tea at 5, walk at 6 (walk dog!) bath George at 6:30, books bed by 7pm. In bed by 7:30. I followed nanny Louenna routines on Instagram for my second so I could fit a routine around my 2.5 yr old. And give my attention to her and my new born son. And I had help! Giving positive feedback on hear would benefit Shan. She is smashing realistic parenting 4/5 days a week on her own! 😊

[@kimredsell7579]

I just wanted to remind you that your doing a flipping AMAZING job and are the best mummy to both your little ones. Keep talking to us (not just because we obviously love your vlogs but also because it's good for your mental health) stay strong because your brilliant ❤

[@katerinakokki2013]

As for the bedtime struggle…I think he senses that you can’t be 100% with him even though you do your best! Maybe he needs some more time to adjust to the new situation, it’s definitely difficult for everyone! Sending you a hug from a very tired mama too! 💜

[@Hercules_Morse]

Going for a drive for the win! Forget worrying about ‘bad habits’, George needs sleep & you need a bloody BREAK at the end of the day! Like you said, it’s not forever so do what you need to do to get through!

[@killeremma]

I feel your pain! A few tips from me who has just gone through this with a 2.5 yo and 6mo now. I think when your husband is back and you have the backup you need to go cold turkey on TV as it massively over stimulates them - at least 2 hours before bed time. Gro clock to show when they can and can't get out of bed. Maybe drop any nap he still has, tricky at this age as they are half way between needing it and not. So hard sending love x

[@therealistminimalist992]

Have you tried a plug in/battery hospital grade pump like the lansinoh one? I know it’s a pain that you can’t move around as much but it can really help with output, plus, make sure you get your pump flange size checked! ❤

[@Hercules_Morse]

OMG you’re a superwoman! How you’re coping with 2 kids all by yourself and on zero sleep is honestly beyond me! And then having the strength to ‘choose to laugh’ - you’re amazing! I know when my toddler isn’t getting quality/enough sleep, it’s so much harder to get him to do ANYTHING the next day, bedtime is a nightmare and he’s even more overtired…it’s a complete vicious cycle! Think your idea of trying to get bedtime back on track by staggering the time is a really sensible idea - and can you let him cry it out a bit too or is that difficult because of disturbing neighbours? Not long til your partner’s back with you I think though so just keep counting down the days!

[@mailarps]

Hi Shan, my son is the same age as George and sometime recently his energy levels have shot up and he doesn’t feel sleepy almost till 9 on some days, even when he is in the nursery and hasn’t had a nap. So I think this is part of a growth spurt and we just make sure we follow bed time routine when he wants to sleep.

[@G_L_R123]

P.s love seeing actual reality! The main reason i watch your vlogs. Our boys are the same age and i always feel its just my boy who has tantrums! You're doing absolutely amazingggggggg

[@clairep8875]

Thank you so much for showing the real side of 2 kids. I felt like a complete failure when my youngest was born as everyone kept going on about how 1-2 was so much easier than 0-1 and i just felt like i was drowning!! You're doing amazingly! Especially doing it on your own!

[@joreedo0830]

0-1 was EXTREMELY difficult for me. 😅

[@jackyc704]

Take the easy road !! I have 3 under 5 and when my 3rd was born everything went out the window I let the older 2 fall asleep on the sofa with no TV then I put them in there bed. Everyone is quick to judge other peoples situations but do whatever helps you to get through ❤ We also do the drives on difficult nights 😂

[@jaded0811]

My eldest is a tiny bit younger than George and he doesn’t nap at all, hasn’t for well over 6 months. We noticed that the days he had naps, bedtimes were horrendous. Now he doesn’t nap (maybe sometimes a very quick snooze in the car!) bedtimes are a breeze. Maybe worth a try! I also swearrrrr by bedtime baby bath 😂 I like it myself!

[@katiejessop959]

My girl did similar to what George is doing when I had my second. I tried everything, the best thing that worked for me was to go upstairs from 6/7pm bath, stories, then chill in mums bed until she fell asleep. Now they are 20 months and 4 years old and I can sit in their room until they fall asleep. My first told me she felt lonely going to bed on her own, that’s why I choose this route. Good luck in what ever you choose! :)

[@mothercity_mama]

I completely understand where you are at. I had a new born and a 3 year old and did solo parenting, the evenings were my worst and there were many dark days navigating through it. I found they were very rough moment but they passed quickly even though they felt like they were going to last forever. I found ways to make things work for the 3 of us and even today, I still nurse my 1 year old who doesn't always sit still while I'm trying to read to my 4 year old. Strength to you hun. Thinking of you. X

[@FinanceDee]

You are INCREDIBLE! I’m watching this through the lens of wanting to have a second baby close in age to my son who is 8 months old, and a husband who sometimes has to go away for work for days/weeks at a time. You’ve shown me that it’s tough, understandably, but it is possible. Just about 😅 thank you for being so real. You’re amazing ❤

[@LPLP5]

Hi Shan, I’m not trying to tell you what to do or anything, but just to say that I have a boy who is a lot younger than George (he’s just turned 1), and we were really struggling with bedtime because he would just scream every time we put him to bed at night. After doing to some research we decided to cut out tv completely for him. It was difficult but worth it. He’s a much happier boy and bedtime is a breeze and I no longer dread it. A friend of mine did the same with her daughter as she was having tantrums a lot and her behaviour is completely different now. I’d definitely recommend looking into it, apparently it can be over stimulating and create problems x

[@serenagrace8493]

Yes I second this. Although I haven’t cut out screentime, I have reduced it considerably and try less stimulating shows like Julia Donaldson animations. You could try getting him a Tonie box or yoto for background noise or something to listen to than watch 😊

[@charlieehstephenson4893]

As a veteran mum of 3 sons I’d say tv in the evenings has to be cut out completely and screen time cut off or reduced so they aren’t over stimulated or even walks to burn off energy and do relaxing unwinding calmer play bath time with sleepy products lavender etc having more scents around that are calming and milky drinks with book’s honestly we stupidly put a tv in my big sons room when he was 8 it was quickly removed and he’s now 25 and still has no tv 😂and we didn’t allow a tv in our youngest two sons rooms til our youngest was 16 years old screen stimulation is horrific and we still do family time in front of the telly instead and my lot think this is normal we didn’t do sound machine’s because we consulted a sleep clinic who didn’t recommend them it’s crazy the tiniest changes can bring peace to a household and we picked our battles somethings really are not that important also give yourself some grace George is actually a normal toddler and is probably going through a change in life a growth spurt and some stranger ie the baby has taken his spot mums arms and he’s probably thinking if the babies awake I’m awake and has fomo 😂I’d let George help do the babies bed time routine then do his and let him think he’s helping out and just follow his sleepy cues and let him go to bed much later with no screen time and walks if possible to let off energy forcing bed time isn’t going to work for him also summer is tricky it’s not dark everyone is awake and he has to go to bed 🫣 toddler perspective I genuinely used to trick mine we would walk around shutting the house down lock doors windows close all the curtains clean up put on lamps load washing machine and it would be a family event turn down beds including ours bath times hot coco it got to a point when my kids would rather go to bed than help shut down our house 😂 there’s no right or wrong way no manual for parenting you will find your feet soon

[@nicolepilgrim3142]

Screen time is not recommended for children 2 and under, I let my 22 month old watch only about 3 hrs they recommend 1 hr of high quality shows (relaxed soft and slow shows that are not overstimulation and are educational) a few good ones are - mr Roger’s neighborhood, Daniel tigers neighborhood, puffin rock and tumble leaf , maybe Dora and Pocoyo, not recommended are high pitched fast overstimulating, addictive shows like Cocomelon, blippi, etc I also use the yoto mostly at night to read stories etc also use lavender scented epsom salts for bath time to help them relax

[@laurencooper6023]

i don’t have two children so i can’t give solid advice but we have cut out screen time from the moment our daughter has tea… so she will have a good 3-4 hours of just purely play xx it has worked for us for her to get to sleep

[@ClaraSais]

That’s interesting

[@tracycornfoot6078]

Love your dog chilling out on sofa in the background.x

[@Fran-qk9tu]

You are simply amazing. Thank you for being so honest.

[@dawnb986]

I know how you feel with the bed time routine. Friends have recommended getting a tonie player so im going to try that. 🤞

[@Tariachan]

I would echo the advice on dropping the nap. Ours child is a bit younger but if she naps bedtime is past 9pm. Even if she only had 20 minutes!

[@luciannaashton-smith1204]

You are doing fabulous Shan! This is such a realistic vlog and so relatable and comforting for parent life xxx

[@sarahhuen3108]

Hi I saw a hack somewhere and the parent taped up all the lids together in a line so that that you don't lose the felt tips and it also helps you to keep tags that they all have lids on x

[@jayineetaylor5040]

For a long time I felt like a failure for struggling with one toddler but it’s comforting to know we all go through it and it’s ok. ❤

[@RebeccaPoole1994]

i know every child is different but if it helps you at all, my little one is 2 1/2 and has been very attached to me and daddy she wont sleep unless your sat next to her and read a million books then pretend to sleep. but we've had a revelation she sleeps much better if she doesnt have a nap or if she does it can't be longer than an hour.

[@mirandathomas8888]

Oh Shan I just want to give you a cuddle! You have been dealt a rough deal right now (and also a blessing of course with 2 babies!) Continue to give yourself grace and get whatever help you can. Lots of love xxx

[@cd1372]

I have been going through this with my 2 year old and it feels so good to not feel alone like I’m the bad one when she doesn’t get an early night. I can’t imagine how it is with a newborn also & your still smiling you got this 🥰💯

[@TamaraHarrison-v1f]

I did that before! I had 3 kids at the time 3 and half Yr old 2 and half and a new born .. omg head went west . Hope your okay xx

[@mrsg3460]

I follow jess from nurtured mum, the bedtime battles course is great. I can imagine moving the whole bedtime until really late will leave an over tired kid melting down and not getting in jammies or brushing teeth, we try and do it gradually to help not rush my middle kid(4.5) Also you can do a what to expect routine list for the day, and talk about bedtime when they're not in a tired emotional state. But I've had a 2 year old and a new born and I've had a 3 year old and a newborn but never as a solo parent so I can't imagine how hard bedtime must be. And sending strength until he is back home! ❤

[@AtHomeWithMercedes]

My daughter naturally goes to sleep between 9 and 10 at night. So I just work our night time routine around that I don't feel guilty as I'd rather she sleep happy. And I now have a bit of a morning to myself before she gets up. Everything is so much more relaxed xx

[@sophiemair4871]

My son is exactly the same at the moment. Suffering with morning sickness and I don’t know how you do it- you’re such a trooper! 🎉 xx

[@shahrzadvos4376]

I love this vlog! Absolutely Real life! You're a strong woman and a great mum

[@Sophieshuckford]

I admire your patience and sense of calm ❤

[@carlarue87]

I am terrible at packing spare clothes in bags as I take them in and out depending on whether oldest is at nursery while I have the youngest etc. Now I have an emergency bag in the car and it does not come out, if I use anything I set an alarm straight away to remind me to replace the spares 😂 in there I even have spare dummies, wipes, pull ups, snacks, water... Anything I might forget when I have 2 children to handle 🎉

[@clairekennedy5900]

You are doing amazing job, and on your own for most of it, be proud of yourself, it is NOT easy. Take care of yourself ❤

[@sophiejones757]

I have 3 kids under 5 I don’t know how I do it and you are doing an amazing job keep going at it you’ll get through it

[@AbiBloomUK]

This is the best video you’ve ever done. I feel like you’re more relatable than ever. ❤ Re bedtime, it changes all the time as they grow I’m sure. My little boy Will literally be chased around the house and we are very hyper pre bed and he’s fast out. I know this won’t be forever and isn’t advised, but it works. However we have a battle of 4am wake ups and cannot seem to shift it. I think it’s his body clock with BF still. Honestly, hats off to you for being so real. This type of vlog was so good to watch.

[@kirstythorne8534]

Honestly, your doing amazing. ❤

[@jackie73100]

hello shan your doing amazing just take each day as it comes only advice i can give for bedtime is feed baby 5ish bath wee man after she fed so by 6ish your sorted give him some supper and only have low calming music on till hes in bed switch tv of at walls. i never had toys in there room at this age.pop low lighting on up stairs and then feed baby on your bed so if he falls asleep on your bed its easy to carry him to his you will find he will be asleep before 8pm good luck

[@bipolarhippiechick206]

Bless you! You’re doing a great job and I bet you feel like you’re caught up in a whirlwind. Your natural hair looks amazing 🤩. I have 4 under 5 and a 16 year old and it’s absolutely mental and I know for sure I could not do it without their dad around!! Keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll get there x

[@devisree754]

You are amazing… I am following you since you are pregnant with George. I am very much motivated with your patience and managing all things all alone. But now you are another level with newborn baby. I want to comment all the time but I didn’t. Now this is the time I really want to comment to appreciate you for your excellent mother power. I wish you good luck and more power to handle them. 😊❤

[@laurenjane6432]

You’re nailing this.

[@rosiet7158]

This was exactly me 2 years ago! Exact same age gap, now mine are just turned 2 and about to turn 5, bedtime routine is (mostly) much easier and calmer. Thank you for sharing, I always had the advice of “baby 2 just fits right in” and I didn’t feel this at all in the early days, I appreciate you validating how tricky it is, thank you ❤ it does get easier and lots more fun, I promise 😘 you’re doing great xx

[@BabybelAndMummy]

Oh bless you. It seems like George is definitely ready to drop his nap. Isabelle’s not even allowed to nap for ten minutes now otherwise she’s still up at 10pm 😭x

[@chloerhodes6122]

Shan I feel you, I’m an army wife too with an almost 3 year old and a 10 week old 😬 it’s not easy at all but we’ve got this!

[@Nicknockk9]

You’re doing a great job! ❤ I would definitely recommend not having a nap in the day where possible as that helped us massively. Remember this will pass! You’ve got this ❤ x

[@georginakenna2428]

Does he still nap? My 2 yesr 2 month old doesn't nap in the day only occasionally in the car. But if she has too long or too late bedtimes are a nightmare. I mean they aren't great atm anyway 😂 but what I'm trying to say is maybe stopping a nap if you haven't already. Obviously the new baby sister will probably be what's caused it and hopefully gets better asap for you x

[@LHMLHW]

Half 10 bedtime the norm here too for our 16 month old! We were down to an 8pm bedtime in the winter but the light nights have been a nightmare 😅 little one wont fall for a blackout blind - far too skeptical for that

[@themoldovanbrit]

Oh Darling, you're doing amazingly! I am sending you a virtual hug and lots of love ❤ try to sleep as much as you can and remember that it's just a phase

[@maisy3887]

Hi Shan, wow! You’re doing amazing by yourself. You have so much patience with George. Random question, but I just wondered how you manage walking Molly each day with both kids? It’s something I’m struggling with and am thinking about getting a dog walker.

[@liannedobson1670]

It must be so difficult doing it all on your own.. you’re doing a great job. Just wondering where your solo parenting leaves Molly re walks and attention?

[@katerinakokki2013]

Wow! You totally have my respect ❤️ I have currently a 20 month old and a 2 month old and I can’t even imagine how I would solo parent 😅 you are doing a great job!!! 🌼

[@nicolepilgrim3142]

I’m struggling with one22 mth old girl and I have her dad helping and it’s still hard… the tantrums are something else

[@abzgail20]

Wow! You're doing great! Having a newborn and another little one is HARD! My youngest is George's age now. I highly recommend reading the book The Child Whisperer by Carol Tuttle. It was a game changer for me to understand my kids tantrums and their nature. Keep doing the amazing job you're doing x

[@vickyhawkins6400]

You are an absolute superstar 💫 I am in awe of how you do it, I have one child and that’s stressful enough!! Don’t be hard on yourself, you are everything to your children and they adore you ❤ you should be so proud of yourself! X

[@siyanapollachi2286]

Aww bless you sweetheart, i want to give you a hug. You are doing great huni. Its really difficult i know, just remember that it will get better and everything is going to be ok. 💝

[@amyrichardson-ob9vv]

No advice…(I also have a 2 year old!! 😅😫😳) just that you are doing an amazing job mama. Give yourself all the grace because it may not always feel like it but you’ve absolutely got this. Sending all the love. X

[@lindanewton1142]

Bless you shan your doing so well you have to do whats right for you its all new for george at the moment things will get better not long now befor your husband will be home with you ❤ x

[@joarblaster2873]

Thanks for the skin and me code - i just ordered my first one!

[@catherinebrown7578]

Shan you're doing the best you can and i would take any advice that people give you with a smile and a nod and just do what makes your life easiest. Don't you wish night nurseries were a thing 😢 xx

[@hannahemery885]

Shan you are an absolute superwoman!!! I know it’s not been easy for you but I honestly would just be sobbing trying to manage a newborn as well as my toddler 😂😂 you’re doing amazing! Xxxxx❤

[@JasmineStrongman]

Hey Shan - not to be that guy but might help with breastfeeding (as someone who went to an LC solidly every 2 weeks for 4 months) have you looked up paced feeding the bottles it’s a massive game changer for combi fed babies.

[@athomewithliv]

You are doing amazing, we got this xx

[@xFionajslifex]

Hi Shan, my boy same age as george and our bedtime is awful too atm. He also wakes 3 times in the night he used to be such a good sleeper xx

[@melann6791]

My 7 year old needs to be in bed by 7. I start she night time routine at 6- dinner, baths, books, tv off by 630 so she can wind down. If she is in bed at 715 ive lost the night and she will be in awake until 10pm she has had this routine since 6wks old. My 8 month old runs the show and does what he likes so im trying hard for a routine with him which is so hard. Good luck just keep swimming

[@melann6791]

She also knows she isn't allowed out of her room unless she is busting for the toilet. It took a long time to train her to not come out though and it's hard at first but eventually they learn.

[@missbeautytricksbyracheltr9900]

Well done Shan for keeping it so together... I think I would have been crying on screen for the whole vlog if that had been me. How are you getting on with the Stride Pump? Worth getting? You look fantastic btw. Sending love xx

[@stillolivia2230]

I find these so interesting thanks for being honest xx

[@muzo]

Loved loved loved how real this was ❤

[@LemonFozz666]

My boy is like this when he's overtired. Your body produces a hormone to keep you going and gives you a second wind, but that's really hard to wind down from. Does George still nap? My boy is almost 3 and when he doesn't nap we have to do bed much earlier

[@mailarps]

And how do you do this all by yourself!!!

[@juliacox1755]

I love the raw reality of this video 🤍 you are an absolute power house of a mum don’t forget it! Thank you for being so real with us, even though I know it must be so hard 🫶

[@heatherwilcox8234]

George ‘sorry mummy’ 😭😭😭🥰🥰🥰 so cute! Well done Shan you are my inspiration atm 😅 I have a 2y/o and baby due in 9 weeks 🥲 loving your videos, keep going, everything is a phase remember ❤

[@Maria-ks8cp]

Hi i just want to tell you that you are a great mom and your doing very well dont put your self down you are amazing, but you dont deserve to be a solo mom coz your not you should talk to your partner and try and get more help from him life doest work like this if your with someone and you have kids they should be there no matter what his doing or what caree he chose maybe its time to make some changes and talk to him

[@hannagoldfinch3133]

Have you thought about combi feeding?

[@ClaraSais]

Gosh you handled the outing well I would have had an anxiety 😟 inducing breakdown! Have you also tried the gradual retreat method with little man? It’s so hard with two so young I’ve been there on my own x

[@shaunawhite2924]

What I did with my kids I would put them to bed after stories and that stuff then close the door if they come out say it’s bed time darling if they come out on the third time don’t say anything keep doing that they will go to sleep but you have to stay consistent Hope this helps ❤❤

[@vanesamendelyte8298]

We do this too with my almost 2 year old sometimes he gets out like 10 times but eventually goes to sleep

[@jacquelineyoung5027]

Already liked as I know it’ll be Amazing ❤️ Definetly going to watch once my little one is in bed tonight ❤️🥰🥰🥹

[@cattoll1]

Ahhh sounds like a bloody nightmare for you at times, how you cope all by yourself (most of the time) I don’t know. What if you start your bedtime routine at like 6… so by the time half 7 rolls around it feels more ready for bedtime. Do you still use sound machine and black out blinds? Hahaha I honestly feel your pain ! So intensely. ❤️🤣 these vlogs are great, I love how realistic they are! I know people say about ditching tv (screen time) can help, I’ve started to watch less stimulating shows and now watch Daniel tiger 😂

[@hannagoldfinch3133]

Hi Shaun where is your water bottle from?

[@hcarey372]

I really hope nighttimes get easier for you once Ash is home. In the meanwhile I am in awe of you! I struggled with one and a full time husband to help 🤣.

[@marieangelini1850]

There’s no wrong or right to parenting my 4 year old n 3 year old has a tv in his room and if he’s been good he gets rewarded with 20 mins of tv time in his room after bath time it works for me I’m expecting baby in October

[@sk-nb5tl]

Where is ur sofa from?

[@asmaalami4534]

@homewithshan thank you for making me feel normal 😂😂😂 youtube vlogs always look so unreal

[@jndb19]

Shan I just want to say, sometimes I let mu 2 year old stay up to midnight. I used to get super stressed with the idea of having him in bed at a certain time and then I thought who am I impressing? I just go with the flow now. 😊

[@jennysimpson7838]

Not something that would be easy to do unless someone else can be with Halle, but the stay in bed technique would be worth looking into for bedtimes!

[@becbec3541]

“Why is it wet?” Oh the dread of the answer, I know it SO well! 😂 x

[@paulineelphinstone4725]

He knows when to push your buttons he’s gone from having all your attention to now sharing you you’ve got to be firm and consistent that I don’t think you are you keep giving in to him you’re wee boy feels lost speak to him like could you help me with this would you manage to do this and always thank him xx

[@Miyagi-s8k]

You’re doing an amazing job ! Xx

[@kirstyosika7815]

Do you not have your partner home some evenings? I have 3 and need the help of my hubby to get the 3 of them down for bed! X

[@fairytaleviola]

Why do people do super early bed routine for toddlers?

[@xjessii89x]

Because it works for some people. My daughter goes to bed at 6.30 because she's tired. Then she wakes at 6.30/7.

[@michmellis]

You're such a great mum ❤️ my second is due in 8 weeks and I'll also have a 21 month old. Sh*tting myself! How old is George btw? X

[@ievagorbaciute5354]

Thank you for a real life video 😊 well done mama you are a though cookie! I have a 2 year old I can’t imagine adding another one at the moment. And watching your videos I just want to hold and help you! Do anything that works for you ❤️ send all my love ❤️❤️❤️

[@rebornbabydolllaramaysmith462]

Your bay is so beautiful

[@ForeverChloe97]

Does Halle fuss a lot? my lo is 3 weeks and fusses for hours in the AM and before bed. Does she enjoy the carrier

[@katerinakokki2013]

Totally normal and exhausting! 😅 we had the same a few weeks ago, now it’s better!

[@ForeverChloe97]

@@katerinakokki2013 Just can't seem to settle him at all with anything. How long did it last for you?

[@katerinakokki2013]

@@ForeverChloe97 our first boy cried a lot every day before bed, it lasted almost three months! Boy no2 is 12 weeks old and cried a lot until week 9-10 and now is pretty chill…every baby is different but it helps a lot to think that it will pass!! Sending hugs! ❤️

[@katykent8195]

Probably colic

[@TheEnchantedDolls]

Can't wait to watch

[@katykent8195]

I woukd put the baby down for 5 minutes (crying or not) and read your child a story so that he can actually see the pictures. No wonder hes playiny up when you're standing up reading a story that he cant see whilst holding a baby.

[@heidiii25]

You’re suggesting to leave a newborn baby crying for the sake of showing him the book? Genuinely what is she meant to do in that situation, both need her but ultimately the crying baby has to be the priority there. I’m not surprised people worry about showing these things, if she had left her to cry while she read there would be so many comments saying poor baby. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@katykent8195]

@@heidiii25 yes I am. It doesn't hurt a baby to cry. And maybe if she didn't show every detail of her life on the internet to a bunch of strangers then she may not get judged so much. If I can manage on my own with 6 children then I'm pretty sure she can with 2!

[@katykent8195]

@@heidiii25 and it wasn't the case of 'showing him the book' it was the case of giving him a tiny bit of one to one before he goes to bed. She may aswell of not bothered!

[@heidiii25]

@@katykent8195 with 6 children you’d think you’d have more understanding towards other mums and know how hard it is? Offer supportive advice if any

[@katykent8195]

@@heidiii25 you'd think wouldn't you. But Shan lacks basic common sense so it very hard to be understanding towards her.

[@G_L_R123]

Superwoman!

[@marieangelini1850]

Poor dog is like help haha