HONEST Q&A | adopting a child, making new friends & who would propose??

[@TheJoelWood]

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[@crinkle2649]

I hate the fact that people use religion to hate others. True Christians don't hate people who are gay. Love you Joel 🙂

[@aknsd2009]

You are misleading the dull and ignorant, read your Bible. Homosexuality is not permitted. The Pope just released a statement that all homosexuals are welcome in the Catholic Church as long as they are not having gay sex.

[@mdunkin83md]

I am Christian and don't hate anyone that is LGBTQ+

[@bishbosh4815]

What I don't get is, if it IS in the Bible that homosexuality is a sin, how do you just overlook that? Or is it a case of misinterpreting things or interpreting them differently, or twisting words to fit an agenda, or do different groups of Christians just believe different things?

[@jaemin1112]

@@bishbosh4815 in the book of first Corinthians it says men who have sex with men will not inherit the kingdom of god. So it sounds like they're all going to hell but the next verse is often overlooked despite it's beautiful message. It says that's what we were but we were washed in Jesus Christ. This means that gay people can go to heaven as well but they have to repent and accept Jesus as their Lord and savior like every other christians.

[@bishbosh4815]

@@jaemin1112 repent for what? Homosexuality is still seen as a sin then?

[@Ekanas]

Your face literally lights up when you start to talk about traveling with Keegan… it’s adorable

[@terencejagger2429]

Your right Joel, friendships happen naturally. Good friends are few but treasure them. 😊

[@mags102755]

As another viewer said, Keegan does have beautiful eyes. 🙂I love it when you answer questions Joel. A gentle reminder to go easy on yourself and allow your joy to come through. Hugs.

[@k.vn.k]

I think Joel honey brown and Keegan deep blue sea compliment each other nicely.

[@SpunkySandiDee]

Hi Joel, I am a Christian and both my son and daughter are part of the queer community. As a Christian mother, love trumps all. God is love! He told me to love my children. I love the queer community and have a heart for all of you as a Christian. God made us in his image, the greatest commandment is to love one another! I wish more Christians were excepting! Love you Joel! 😊

[@SSTSFCA--Admiral_Nelson]

STOP beating yourself up!!!!!!! You do not acknowledge yourself enough as bein mentally okay. You are fine and do really inspire many of us wo really do understand you and your spoken insecurities and your securities as well. You are a beautiful soul and I do look foreword to each and every post of Keegan and yourself. Keep up all you do as you've no idea as to your impact on us in Joel and Keegan Land! ❤😍😍😍😍

[@yasminkhoshnood228]

I'd love a gay Christian series!!! I think it's so needed. I'm a bi Catholic and I think people could find such a series reassuring and healing.

[@lorettacrooms4398]

Amen brother! Bring it. I would love to hear you talk about being gay and Christian.

[@Kitchguy]

Preach it, sister. I'm gay and also a Christian. I knew I was gay (liked boys) since I was very young. God creates all of us and those who doubt God creating us this way is blasphemous. On a lighter note you guys are inspirational and really enjoyable to watch. Thanks for sharing parts of your journey. ❤️

[@mrg-k2r]

you will find out at heavens gate, that Jesus does love you; but your free will has guided you in the wrong direction

[@franciscajimenez9703]

I can see Fen in the back trying to see what’s on the table 😂 after Keegan walks in.

[@andreawallace7724]

Love your chatty videos, I always play them whilst I am cooking. It is like having a friend in the kitchen keeping me company😊

[@michaelmullard4292]

Yep, I agree with your therapist! Keep walking and sitting with your feelings. Long walks along the beach or in the countryside are amazing. Can’t wait to be in Edinburgh in a few weeks!

[@mz0715]

The Eras Tour is amazing!!! I got really lucky and managed to get tickets at retail and didn’t have to pay reseller prices or anything like that, but you are going to have the time of your life! I would go back and see it again in a heartbeat if I could!!

[@tarahmoon]

1. Love the shirt! 2. I think one of your series could be on books-- what you've read/reading, what You've liked and what you recommend!

[@pollyduron674]

I am a lonely introvert also. I say I want to make friends and make plans to go do things. Then, when I have a chance, I just want to stay home. Make friends with another introvert who understands. ❤

[@DannyJ2206]

I have started the ACOTAR series. Am halfway through book 1 and it's hard for me to put it down. I will usually read it before bed or while on lunch at work and there is part of me that doesn't want to put it down and keep going.

[@CristinaScordo-fj4me]

“Just relax, man. Chill out”. I should just make a bunch of t-shirts in different colors that says that for every day of the week. Keegan should totally propose to you!😍 S Club 7 are still together & touring??? I’ve only seen their old tv series years ago. I just couldn’t get into them. Back in the 90s, I was into female trio that only lasted about 7 years.

[@richiej5884]

I think a series on The Joys of Gardening by Joel is in your future. And I find gardening to be a great way to destress. Love the Q&A! Have a great week!

[@myhappythlife]

I'm very much an introvert....100% agree with you 😊 let friends come naturally....❤

[@mikeh720]

"How do you make friends?" My goodness, I'd love an answer to that! Now 47, and rather happy to be alone most of the time, I both want to make friends /and/ have nothing to do with them! Couldn't agree with you more Joel.

[@michaelc8126]

Thank you Joel for your views on being gay and raised Christian. I believe the same way and it helps me to hear you say it. Love your content.

[@MaggieAz602]

Spot on Joel. Live your life for your own goals and wants. A child deserves parents who enjoys them and feels fulfilled as a parent. Keegan’s eyes today are so clear and blue! Or am I late to notice those beauties? 💙💙 I read the Clockmaker’s Wife after your review/recommendation. That book is so good! Now I’ll need to find Coming to Find You to read.

[@neutrino78x]

22:51 I've only really been to three concerts...Sarah McLachalan in San Diego, Alanis Morisette in Las Vegas and Lady Gaga Jazz and Piano in Las Vegas....all amazing, all highly recommended. I think Lady Gaga is going to do another Las Vegas residency too, that's where they do the same show every night for like three months. Hers is all acoustic, it's pretty great. Especially "Born This Way" performed acoustically is great. 🙂

[@darlenenickerson1713]

I'm never bored with your videos. I enjoy them very much.

[@carolinemcdonald6289]

Hi Joel, thanks for your realness, you are so relaxed and a truthful person 😎, Caroline Ireland 🇮🇪

[@sallywhittaker956]

I just love your personality 😊 I’m the same as you, uncomfortable meeting people. Once a friend it’s a friend for life 🎉

[@barbarasherwood-rt9ty]

Love your Q&As; really anything you and/or Keegan post. Like you, I never had the burning desire to have children. I know the pressure of family and friends to do so when I first married in 1976 was great, however due to some medical issues I was unable to conceive. At the time I was a bit sad, but quickly realized it was because the choice was no longer mine, I just as quickly got over it. I've known family & friends that did have that burning desire and the ones that eventually did have children said it was their greatest joy, but still very difficult. I think if you don't have that burning desire, you do a disservice to any child you may bring into your life.

[@oscarwinston1159]

On your walk abouts and errands, greet passersby . It is a great practice and good base. Ex flight attendant suggestion.

[@Jamnicity]

I can so relate to the quandary of being an introvert and wanting to make friends, but also not wanting to socialize. I wish I had a bigger network of friends, but the thought of putting in the effort to create that just feels exhausting!

[@LadyRebeccaFashions]

I love that you're getting to see SClub7. They were one of my favorites when I was in school.

[@ifsaica]

Hey Joel, I get so excited when you post a new vlog. I just love your content, and yes, a reason I started following you is because you represent the gay believer. Plus, you are down to earth, and very relatable with us guys who are not wearing our sexuality on our sleeve. We just happen to be a part of a unique group of gay men who were born this way. I appreciate🎉 the fact that I am learning a lot about the UK. Just to share with you how I had this crush on you a while back. We’re both introverts, but don’t get us started on chatting. I love how you appreciate sweets, and take relish in a good tart. Both of us are easy going to the point where it might be better being with someone who can balance out our attributes. Can you imagine being with a partner who doesn’t remind you to go easy on the deserts? I haven’t even touched on your parents, who are a remarkable couple ❤. If you ever plan on starting a more faith based vlog, I’ll be there. As a big supporter of both you and Keegan, I wish you both well. I’m Alex signing off from Los Angeles. 💙🙏

[@JohnandCaraRetiredTravellers]

Joel you should take cuttings from your parents plants in the garden and grow them at your home. Look into it. I’ve done this so many times it’s fun sharing plants this way. ~Cara 😊

[@arianna4401]

Acotar is one of my fav book series ever !! So happy to see one of my fav KZbinrs enjoying the books

[@TinyDancer250]

He already has a daughter - Ava. 3 stepkids, too - Taylor, Fletcher, and Fenn.

[@TheJoelWood]

haha exactly! No time for any more children!!

[@Hotspot87]

About making new friends, I’m working on this myself. My friend can go into a room and make a new friend, she says, see what the person is wearing. If they have something cool, compliment them on it an a convo can start. They have cool hair? Hey, love your hair! Love your shirt! Etc.. then they might point something out and start a conversation.

[@Beth92800]

I am an introvert 47 year old. I want to do things, make friends and do things with them but really loathe casual conversation, listening and anxiety of planned plans. So I do none of it. It is a struggle because I do want to do things but then it is just to much.

[@ClaytonFNP]

Your Christianity is so refreshing

[@doc2log]

Your Keegan is truly a talented man! I love music BUT I cannot read it! It takes learned skill and patience which I did not have when I was forced to take piano lessons as a kid. Its a regret though but I,ve moved on from that! Be happy guys!

[@mattmonnnneyyy]

Joel you need to get into Hoya house plants. They are amazing!

[@rileyreed2230]

Yay, I love when you do Q&A‘s!!! 👏 a few of my friends and I went to see the Eras tour at the beginning of August in LA and we had the time of our lives! I’m so excited for you that you were able to get tickets and I hope you have the best time! It was such an amazing show and honestly one of the best experiences I’ve had at a concert, it felt like I was in a dream the whole time, it didn’t feel real. I was screaming and singing the whole time, and my voice was gone from the very beginning of the show. Lol 🎸❇️🤗🎶🎶💖❤️

[@LurkerSmurf]

Joel, how did you not think of applying to work at the concerts?! You've done similar gigs. It isn't exactly the same as attending, but it gets you in the gate.

[@crinkle2649]

I seriously think you two need to visit Mapperton. They have started a rewilding project that I think you would love. They have rooms in th he main house, cottages, campsites ect. I think you would love Julie and Luke too.

[@jhambly5200]

A really great and vivacious live chat. Enjoyed it immensely.

[@DesiderioPace]

Omg I also bought hospitality eras tour tickets at Wembley stadium in London!! See you there then 😍😍

[@TheJoelWood]

ooo!! Such a good hack!! See you there!

[@joannunemaker6332]

What a pretty plant. It's good to hear you again. I liked this video.😊❤

[@hollygrimm108]

Your stance on making friends described me to a tee

[@thickernell]

I always think vloggers should also do a "Dishonest Q&A" for contrast and comedic value.

[@verac6731]

You're very eloquent. Love your videos.

[@harvestmoon_autumnsky]

A big manor sized garden, perfect for Ava to run around. Sounds good.

[@kellyschurger]

I’ve seen so many people reading that book series. I’m in the middle of a series, but this might be up next.

[@waybrenda]

I always love hearing from you! You’re such a sweetheart! Love Grannyb

[@Brooksie603]

I avoided the ACOTAR series for years until you and Cherry said it was so good. I assumed it was because of others going on about it but I was being stubborn. I have since flown through them all and desperately want her to release another. In the meantime, I am listening to the Throne of Glass series and a few others here and there. If you decide to read that series make sure to read The Assassin's Blade first. It will help you understand the main character from the first book better.

[@jaimemactx]

As a heterosexual Christian woman, I 100% am with you on everything you said about modern day Christian's. There is NOTHING wrong with you and any other gay man or woman in this world, unless there is an ethics issue, which has nothing to do with someone being gay. Sarah J Maas has another series she has started is the Crescent City Series. I haven't started it yet, but it is supposed to be really good as well.

[@brucegreenberg7573]

Joel, as an American & English speaker, consider Great Britain the most important island in history. For it gave us a language and traditions with immeasurable import on the world. 🇺🇸🇬🇧

[@dianegilchrist677]

I totally agree that God made you the way you are& Ithank him for it.❤

[@TheJoelWood]

Thank you Diane ❤️

[@mrg-k2r]

God did not make gay or lesbians--- that is a product of free will

[@MaineCoonMama926]

I love your little croton plant. I have them in my yard here in Florida!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Edinburgh sounds awesome! Also, it’s nice to hear it’s a special place for you two.

[@michaeljohndennis2231]

Joel, next year, you and Keegan should plan to go to the West of Ireland for 2 weeks, anywhere from Donegal, Sligo, Mayo, Galway, Limerick, Clare, Kerry and West Cork - there is a railway and an extensive Irish motorway network, you have a car, you can go from Liverpool or Holyhead to Dublin, as well as ferries to Belfast and to Rosslare, so you have no excuse

[@orielwiggins2225]

Oooh. Thank you for this vlog, can't wait for all the fun new content. Also, Check out the Sarah J. Mass series called Throne of Glass. My daughter said it's even better than ACOTAR. I love the TOG series. but I've not read both.

[@briankelly85]

Joel, I agree. all of my friendships are very organic. I was not in the market for a friend. then one day I looked at them. and it became evident to me that we are friends. strangers are just friends we haven't met yet. unless they are carrying a machete!

[@LoveLeighEating23]

Yes I think ya oughta talk about being gay & a Christian🥰and agree I’ll be on here with ya through it all…agreed it’s a them problem not a you problem. Love ya bunches!

[@mrg-k2r]

" them"? you are doing exactly what you accuse for your own consolations

[@lelandpeck4585]

Never bored, Joel. You sure do keep the "conversation" going....and that's good!! I was thinking..... why don't you ask Keegan to give you some piano lessons. He knows enough now to be able to teach you. l Just think you could play duets together!!!!!! Now wouldn't that be fun!! (I can just hear you now). You talked about going to concerts. Now if I were in London or Amsterdam that first place I'd want to go is to hear the London Symphony Orch (one of the world's best) or if I were in Amsterdam, I'd want to hear the Royal Concertgebouw Orchestra. Many consider this orchestra to be the world's best Symphony orchestra. We all have many different musical tastes.

[@neutrino78x]

harrogate....just looked it up....not a bad idea. My first trip to Britain would probably be the London area for all the historic/touristy type stuff, then I would want to do a trip to Scotland for the highlander filming locations... that harrogate place might be a good idea for 3rd trip lol. I always like to plan travel even if I don't plan on actually doing it for a while. Good way to pass time imho. 🙂

[@valeriehill6382]

Great Q&A Joel 👍👍👍

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Lol I’m not a music person either and I felt seen. Also, I’m happy you’re going to the S Club 7 show! It sounds awesome!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

0:15 Haha you called me out. I’m very nosy and you’re very entertaining while being honestly answering questions.

[@crinkle2649]

You should have seen the ticket prices for Elton John in the states. And with the books, it's normally the publisher that is badgering the writer about getting a new book out

[@juliescott1976]

I only hang out with my dog. I sometimes wish I had someone to go shopping with or go to a nice restaurant. Whenever I ask my friends they are too busy. Then they will ask me to do something and I say no cause I don't want to leave my dog by himself. The music thing, I can sing along with mist songs but I don't need music like some people. But I would give anything to see Pink or Taylor in concert.

[@jeanclayton7342]

Joel, I've not watched you a lot, but do you have a church community in the North? Is that a place you could pursue friendships? Hard to believe you'd have a tough time finding acting work; you're gorgeous and have a fabulous voice!

[@PokhrajRoy.]

13:53 Fun Fact: I was supposed to go to Harrogate but I had to rush to London instead.

[@bishbosh4815]

I completely relate to your introvert dilemma

[@TheJoelWood]

Thank you, glad it's not just me!!

[@joemalick]

Love a good Q&A! I also enjoy a walk to clear my head, it works great, but you shouldn’t have ghosted your therapist. 😂 It’s funny that you say you wouldn’t want kids, cause I think you would make a great Dad! 🙂. I really only meet new friends through existing friends, it’s my go-to method! 😂 And hear hear on the fact that God loves us even if we’re gay, go Joel! ❤❤❤

[@TheJoelWood]

That's very kind Joe, not sure fatherhood would come naturally to me, but yeah I'd like to think I'd muddle through and be a good dad! hah!

[@janicesuddath9737]

You are absolutely wonderfully made just the way you are. Thank you for speaking out about being gay & Christian.

[@jenniferciliberto]

I am a married heterosexual woman and I love Jesus so much! And I agree with you about being a gay Christian. Church hurt is real and destructive, and it is so awful particularly seeing Christians be against gays, or anything that they deem unacceptable. I’m really sorry.

[@mrg-k2r]

they are not against gays, they just point out the truth about the sin of homosexuality

[@gwynethglas-brown9171]

Great video 🥰

[@missybelmont9830]

Many gays would love your support as a Christian, Joel!! A true Christian Knows Jesus Loves Everyone. Do the show!!❤❤❤❤

[@PokhrajRoy.]

12:55 Streaming platforms are interesting and have roles for amazing actors BUT funding for shows is a huge problem, stuff gets cancelled and writers can’t sustain a long term career.

[@cathyhellen5519]

I so understand wanting to make a few new friends but when all is said and done l want to stay home.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Quote of the Day: “Just relax, man! Just chill out.”

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Joel living a green thumbed princess core life sounds awesome 👏🏽

[@lizdestefano4905]

I'm the same way To Joel, I'm such an introvert, moved fron South Carolina to Nebraska and I want friends and kind of want to make friends but it's hard because I've been bullied all my life and my personality it's like other 31yr! I also want tobstay at home or be by myself! NF huge fan

[@jjjaimee]

I liked the Throne of Glass series by Sarah J. Maas even better than acotar! There's also the Crescent City series. And while you're waiting for the next book look into the From Blood and Ash series by Jennifer Armentrout.

[@TheJoelWood]

ooo really?? That's reassuring to hear because I'm worried nothing will ever measure up to ACOTAR

[@joethomas2354]

😂🤣😂 "I feel like it was a cash grab from Sarah J. Maas." You go, girl!

[@michaelp5790]

Joel, what do you do with all the books that you consume?

[@PokhrajRoy.]

12:15 You should get a “You are super talented and easy on the eyes.” T-Shirt. P.S. I’ve been hoping to see you in a period drama.

[@teresacastillo5274]

I agree with you in that gays are not mistakes. I believe life is a test and gays are here to test how we treat them. If we accept them and love them as our brothers and sisters or not.

[@mrg-k2r]

i dont care who you have sex with just so its not underaged or animals etc. just dont expect people to agree with you.. especially if you are asking them to betray the Word of God

[@deetles98]

“I don’t want to make friends”….but I do want to make a new friend….that is so me too. LOL!!😅😅! Love your Q & A.

[@WildatHeart123]

Joel, you are 100% right about being gay and a christian. I’m not just saying that, I know it for a fact from my own experience with being gay and having a close and intimate relationship with Jesus. I’m not associated with the church and I don’t need to be to have a relationship with Jesus. The church has certain teachings which if you follow Christ in your heart you are shown the truth. You are shown why the church has those teachings (no judgement) and why they are important for the evolution of the soul.

[@beverlydust5381]

I think that if you were planning on having a child that you would discuss it with Keegans kids given that they are older.

[@BusyBeeMaree]

Errrrr Joel the Cotswolds have plenty of dry stone walls and clearly in tut south haha love ya❤ get your mum to start KZbin.😊

[@stephanied.k.3589]

Box seats at the Taylor Swift concert😮 ❤that for you.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Joel back in the US? Also, bravery award if you’re going to Florida.

[@PokhrajRoy.]

As a gay atheist, you’re fine in my books. If queer people find solace in religion and spirituality that comes naturally to them and follow those tenets, there is no problem. Personally, I have a very different view of it depending on the particular Socio-cultural context. Also, conservatives will find a way to hate whether they have a veneer of liberalism or not.

[@mrg-k2r]

conservatives find a way to hate? i can bet you that liberals commit more crime and hate more than conservatives

[@jackb1000]

I totally agree with you in reference in your Christian testimony. The organized church has done gay people such a dis-service in the way they treat us. Jesus wants a relationship with us gay or not, He wants to be part of our decisions and all the good and bad. Luv ya brother!

[@TheJoelWood]

Agreed 100%! ❤️

[@mrg-k2r]

a brother or sister in Christ is doing his brother or sister an act of love by gently guiding him or her away from sin

[@greggor_48]

Let's play a game everyone: how many times did Joel mention Keegan name.....lol..... sidenote: You two are so cute together....❤🧡

[@jaimemactx]

Sarah J Maas has another series called The Throne of Glass if you are interested :)

[@cottonwood992000]

Love your channel! Just went on Amazon and ordered the series "A Court of Thorns and Roses" Hope I like it...or you'll hear from me!!!

[@jcbaily5559]

Good to get to visit with you again. Edinburgh is my favorite place too and I miss not getting to travel there although it is still on my agenda for getting over there sooner than later for I want to visit as many distilleries as I can as I love Scotch especially Glenmarangie! I am sure your parents, as great as they are, fully understand how you feel about children and want only the best for you and what makes you happy! It is a shame that some religions follow the Bible verse by verse and forget the fact that it was put together by humans who make mistakes and can make judgement calls that are not necessarily accurate and true. I have one book called The Nag Hammadi Library by James Robinson that lists a number of texts that were not considered part of the Bible when they should have been. The explanation given as to why, was the fact that the authors of the Bible way back when felt that including this information would make the Bible too large and harder to read and understand not realizing that the inclusion of the material might have resolved many issues that still exist today! So, as wonderful as the Bible is in its current form, it still doesn't tell the whole story of God's message! I would love to go to the great libraries and search through all their records and find the solution concerning homosexuals and put an end to all this chaos! But my life is nearing its end and without unlimited funds that just can't happen! You and Keegan make the best of your lives together and keep your openmindedness!!! Take care guys and I look forward to your next vlog and oh, I got the first 4 seasons of Yellowstone and started watching it last night and oh my, sort of heavy handed!!!!!

[@stephenhawkins1913]

Is it Keegan and me or Keegan and I

[@TheJoelWood]

Depends on the sentence structure!