*HOT TAKES* 😱 NEWBORN MUST HAVES as a first time mom (& products you DON'T need!)

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in order of mention in the video
items mentioned:
burp cloth: amzn.to/3zCCjZo
wildbird carrier: bit.ly/4hlFCEP
crib: www.nestig.com...
changing pad: amzn.to/3N1XRlh
diapers: bit.ly/4hcz3Vp
wipes: amzn.to/47OIPJd
bibs: amzn.to/3CuUIJ6
gerber onesies: amzn.to/4gBKtC9
diaper cream: amzn.to/47Kok0e
applicator: amzn.to/40BcCBV
tubby todd: bit.ly/3CjjYlJ
love to dream swaddle: amzn.to/40XGAAz
halo swaddle: amzn.to/4gffAly
sound machine: amzn.to/3ZINlqB
trash can: amzn.to/4giQjH8
booger picker & medicine paci: amzn.to/4aCKN0S
saline spray: amzn.to/3CydPSD
suction device: amzn.to/4hfWgWq
nail file: amzn.to/3WEC6gM
portable sound: amzn.to/3ZHnZJZ
thermometer: amzn.to/40RMnss
tylenol: amzn.to/4aIBU5N
monitor: amzn.to/4eBkpFX
monitor attachment: amzn.to/4encYli
bouncer: bit.ly/3PZsTvL
play gym: amzn.to/3zNv8O5
tummy time water mat: amzn.to/3Eichg4
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bottles: amzn.to/4aHaKwo
formula pitcher: amzn.to/3PXJcJk
mylicon: amzn.to/4jGwLPZ
bath tub: amzn.to/3XYGoR9
wash cloth: amzn.to/47ISh0S
stroller: bit.ly/3ZK7M6C
diaper bag: minabaie.com/p...
pee pads: amzn.to/4jypfX7
car camera: amzn.to/42yWX8Q
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[@SamanthaMichelleP]

Fully shed tears over the 'having peace with whatever happens' and 'I can only control so much' sentiments. It's so hard to let go of the anxiety of what's out of your control and I commend you for finding that peace!

[@jadynhardesty7790]

Love it!!! Now we need the postpartum must haves for mama!!💙

[@CarterSullivan]

me watching this and taking notes as if we have a kid already hahahhaha- your hair looks extra LUSH and pretty in this video

[@RachelVinn]

Hahaha 🥰 thanks Carter!!

[@KelliDW]

Saying he’s never been rocked to sleep as you rock him back and forth in the carrier the whole video 😆😂

[@RachelVinn]

LMAO

[@deannaweisel9142]

This was one of the best videos I have watched for new born baby items! Loved how you guys splurged on items that make a difference vs the cheaper option. Will definitely keep this in mind for when our baby arrives.

[@CAT02_M]

FINALLY A REALISTIC BABY PRODUCT HOT TAKES. ❤❤ YOUR DOING AND LOOKING AMAZING. JESSE IS SO PRECIOUS GOD BLESS HIM. ❤❤

[@deirdreshue4465]

You will LOVE having the hatch once he’s a toddler and learns his colors! It cured my two year old from his almost year long 4AM wake-up time!

[@Turkeysubs]

In a world constantly pushing consumerism, it’s so refreshing to hear your take on what is an isn’t needed for a baby. Thank you!! 💕

[@paolaarletty6525]

One of the best baby must haves videos as it emphasizes minimalism and cost effective alternatives. We certainly have the same philosophy when it comes to baby purchases; less is more. As for the full size bed in the nursery, it’s very smart if space permits. Works well for parents and/or nanny to sleep there and then can be used by the child as they grow older.

[@itsssdamiasmr219]

LOVE THIS VIDEO! I’m here panicking at 20 weeks feeling anxious like if I won’t have time to do the nursing and stuff and ahhh this saved me lol 😅. Love your videos Rachel! ❤❤❤

[@pinkbrown5]

Hi Rachel. My baby was a high demand baby (not an easy going one), and most high demand babies need certain tools to sooth themselves. Examples are the hatch and pacifier (and some rocking). But you are right, easy going babies usually dont need those tools (learned this from my sister in law and her easy going baby). Simply sharing info :) Love you ❤

[@TA-np4mc]

Sorry not to be mean, but the contradictory to using cheap diapers and needing to use diaper cream every change. 😂 for the ones taking this advice, get good absorbent diapers, make sure you are cleaning well, use a soft towel to dry up any wetness left by the wipes or let air dry before putting on a new diaper. Diaper rashes appear and need moisture to thrive. For prolonged hours like night sleep, use aquafor or petrolatum in the creases to keep moisture off baby.

[@MrsDrJiggles]

The bandana bibs are nice for more mobile babies that are flipping around and trying to crawl. The circle bibs seemed to just get in the way of movement while bandanas were more snug

[@HeavyInYourArms12]

Nice recommendations! My baby didn't need rocking he just slept in his basinet until sleep regression hit at 4 months and he start teething at 7 months old. Now he needs to be rocked. And I don't have a rocking chair, i hold him in my arms. 😂 I call it my workout for the day as he is very big 😂😂

[@liannabond4981]

Hot take- Doonas are the best for the first year! We used the doona for over a year. We even flew to Canada when she was 10 months and it worked so well- having the car seat & stroller in one, and not having to bring the stroller. My husband and I loved the minimalist design too! 💛 Of course our baby grew out of it once she was 13 months old and started walking but it was so worth it in my personal opinion lol

[@danielle4nay]

Fully agree on getting a good baby carrier and one that fits the baby properly. Joining a baby wearing group can help a lot for FTM. I loved my boba wrap to start and now I love using my ring sling (baby is 2 months old) 💗

[@FamilieDiez]

Such a fun video! We’re also expecting our first baby, so it’s super interesting to see what you actually need. Thanks for sharing!

[@JS-sh1xs]

Discovered KZbin videos when pregnant and started watching several channels related to pregnancy. My baby was born 11/22 and I found your channel shortly after. 32 first time mom up early right now with my little watching from Nashville! Really enjoy the simplicity and authentic content. We definitely went overboard and do not use half the things bought or given. You hit the nail on essentials in this video.

[@user-yn3lb4sx2i]

My baby is only a few days older than Jesse so I really enjoy your mom content! (This is my second baby) But oh my god, you’re so blessed with a baby that sleeps through the night. 😢 we’re in the thick of the 4 months sleep regression and it’s been crazy. But even before that he used to wake up at least 2 times a night. 😅 My first was also a terrible sleeper until 3 years old so no luck here lol

[@allywhitacre4119]

I agree when they’re this little the extra sound machine features are not necessary, but I got the hatch for my first and she’s almost 4 and we utilize it every day. It helps with transitions, quiet time, she gets to pick the colors, the sounds, etc. definitely worth the investment in my book

[@lauradavaloz2755]

I admire how much you’ve grown as you’ve settled into your new season as a mama! I look up to how much faith you have in God ❤

[@anitoee]

Agreed but rocking motion isn’t just from the chair. They know it from you carrying them in their belly and just holding them everyday in general

[@Tommie_Don]

This video was very informative. Thank you! Where did you get the organizing / shelving unit that you have in the nursery room closet? I needs! Thanks in advance ❤ Btw my daughter LOVES your videos just as much as I do 😊 You and AJ are doing an Amazing job with Jesse!

[@adrohetvorster2963]

I just wanted to say thank you! I am 36 weeks now, and this video was exactly what I needed! ❤

[@RachelVinn]

I'm so glad it helped! 😊

[@denise2864]

I love these videos! I’m due in April and we live in a one bedroom so definitely some differences with the monitor, trash can, etc. but I still loooove listening to your opinions and experience. It’s so helpful!

[@bregrkn]

Babies are picky with pacifier shapes. You may have not found his preference yet. I tried 4 different brands and my daughter’s favorite is MAM

[@aliciamitrowitz3122]

agree on no need for bassinet and rocking chair. We have a 1 bedroom apartment right now so I didn't have room for a nursery. Honestly it was less stress for me while pregnant that I didn't have to worry about setting up a whole room. I know some people love that process, but it was nice for me to just get a crib and necessary items. We also didn't know the gender of the baby so between my multiple baby showers, I got items we really needed and I bought the clothes online with Amazon and Target gift cards after baby was here.

[@lindsayfoster4759]

I totally agree on the bassinet. It was more of a luxury idea in my head. We only used it for a month max

[@Victoria-ot8wf]

Extra hot take: you dont need to warm bottles at all. Babies process cold milk just fine and it is way easier to deal with when you are out and about.

[@brooklin_bernek]

👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@yourfavourite28]

I used to, and my baby would scream while waiting for the bottle to heat up, so I gave it cold, and he drank it, so now it's always cold. It seems to be controversial for some, lol.

[@MrsDrJiggles]

Wow i didnt know that! Definetely will try next time im out

[@starmstrong]

I tried this before I offered a warmed bottle (cold first) but unfortunately my baby would not take a cold bottle. He would scream and turn away from it. Extra high maintenance so we warm it for him! But we did realize he will take it at room temp so we do that when we can.

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

​@yourfavourite28 it will produce gas.

[@rebekahelias3303]

The diaper rash could also be due to the diapers. Our baby had diaper rash if we didn’t use diaper cream with pampers. But when we changed to Huggies we no longer needed to use diaper cream. I know each baby is different and it doesn’t mean thats the case with yours. Just a thought.

[@KOK-sc8ez]

Same! Just came here to comment the same thing. We use Huggies Little Snugglers and the Target brand diapers and never had a diaper rash again since switching.

[@roxanaopariuc9514]

Same

[@RachelVinn]

That's so interesting, thanks for the tip!

[@shelbyritchey]

We had the same thing with Rascals, Huggies, and pampers! Switched to Millie Moon and haven’t had a diaper rash since. We just use diaper cream once at the beginning of the night for longer stretches.

[@RachelVinn]

We were using Huggies at the time of the bad rash just to clarify!

[@roxanaopariuc9514]

Actually the Friday nose sucker was life saving for us ! The best You have to use the Friday saline water 2 pumps and then when is all moisture and not dry go with the sucker. But don t over do it . Baby nostrils are sensitive of course

[@olgatwiggy1531]

That split night thing with your husband is one in a million...Rachel is very lucky 😍 ❤️

[@Melchang99]

Oldest sister here.. I pretty much raised my siblings without any of the fancy expensive items, so I won’t be getting them for my baby lol. Yes, some things are a luxury that we can now afford.. but they’re also not necessary like some current moms/influencers/ads push onto new moms.

[@Proseccoandpacifiers]

My son absolutely hated his bassinet and started sleeping longer stretches at night when we moved him into his crib at 2 months. He’s a very light sleeper so with our pediatrician’s blessing he started sleeping in his own room at 2 months. I will say we have that changing pad and it’s not holding up well. At almost 19 months it has a few tears and we will likely need to get something else now for this next stretch before potty training. The bouncer is something that didn’t work for my son he hated it so much along with the water mat. 😂 For any new mamas watching this just know that every baby is different. So what works for one won’t necessarily work for another.

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

@Proseccoandpacifiers you Don't need your pediatricians blessing for anything. It's your kid you make the decisions.

[@kmarie60]

Too funny how different babies are! All of your must haves are things we never needed (bibs and burp cloths, diaper cream) and your things you didn’t need were our top items (lounger, bassinet- got a huge one we used for 6 months each, rocker- rocked each of my babies to sleep until they asked me to stop 🥹)

[@KatieMovchan]

Found out I’m pregnant with baby #2 at 9 months pp. thank you for posting this very helpful even with baby number two, with what I should do different next time 😃💕

[@bebe4choco]

We had a bassinet that was rarely used in the first month .. but now we put it in the living room so we can put him there while we do chores or I finish cooking .. I line some contrasting cards around and he can stay 20-30 minutes by himself

[@taylornsegar]

Do you clean the diaper cream applicator between uses? That may be why he has constant diaper rash. If it’s coming into direct contact with his bottom every diaper change without being cleaned with every use then it could be making the diaper rash worse.

[@angelicareynoso9199]

I also have a 3 month old and highly recommend a recliner/rocker it made breastfeeding so comfortable. I own the Doona stroller and I liked it until I had to go grocery shopping alone. It has zero storage so for me it’s not worth it. I will be giving it away.

[@KelliDW]

Only using one or two wipes for a poopy diaper is WILD! 😂

[@as1S0Yyo]

We were told at the hospital that those blue bulb syringes can only be used 24 hours because they can’t be cleaned well 😱 we’ve been using the innovo twist silicone syringe that you can take apart and it works great!

[@aprilemmons3936]

This was so helpful for me. I’m 32 weeks & everyone keeps telling me all of these crazy expensive products that I need to buy & can’t live without. This calmed my stress soo much. Thank you!!!!

[@PeytonOlah]

I didn’t have a rocking chair until my daughter was 9 months and I wish I had one 😭 she was always wanting to be held and rocked and all I had was the medicine ball to bounce on. It hurt my back so much.

[@brooklin_bernek]

I treated myself to a nice rocking chair after my 5th baby and holy cow it’s AMAZING!! now we NEVER used it during night feeds - I use it during the day while watching KZbin or reading , even just skin to skin and I do really enjoy it (but YOUR CORRECT ITS NOT A NEED AT ALL) plus do people actually get out of bed to go into the nursery for feeds every 2-3 hours when they are infants? That’s crazy if so lol!!

[@brooklin_bernek]

Bassinet (not the snoo that things is stupid expensive ) is a must for my home and family. Having baby right on the bed (we use the halo) it’s like cosleeping so breastfeeding is soooo easy during night feeds, all while still being in their safe space. After a few months (still very little ) they go into the crib and it never has been an issue but all babies are different so some maybe have a regression *also have been using the same halo since my rainbow 🌈 baby was born in 2025 so totally worth it lol

[@sarahbunny311]

I have the maxi cosi tyla travel system stroller from amazon. It’s half the cost of the nuna and I love it. I also was gifted the Donna but I’ve never used because it was heavy on its own to get in and out of the car. I can’t imagine with my baby in it.

[@lauramarina7948]

The rash is probably the diaper brand, but a small pack from other brand and you’ll see. Also for baby shampoo mustela is great on their skin.

[@RachelVinn]

We were using Huggies at the time of the rash

[@sarahskinner7553]

Some babies are just more prone to rashes! My baby was one of those babies. The brand didn’t matter, he always needed diaper cream

[@ashleymetcalff]

I also got a lot of these things! Must haves forsure! I love the mommy content & it’s something I enjoy vlogging as well, it’s relatable ❤

[@MalinaCC]

You’re a real one ❤ love all these tips and your advice. Planning to have a similar setup to you because space is limited. So helpful to hear what worked and what is a nice to have especially in this day and age!

[@RachelVinn]

So glad you found it helpful! 😊

[@DayofelGod]

My baby had baby acne and tubby Todd really helped her,she’s my 4th baby and I wish I knew about this before.

[@CharlotteCitron]

Another hot take.. you dont necessarily need a crib. We transitioned our first to a floor bed (mattress on the floor) at about 15 months and it was amazing! Our second has been using a mattress on the floor (using a Kid friendly Newton mattress) on the floor since about 2 months old. We use pool noodles under the fitted sheet so that he cannot roll out. Then you do not have to worry about the transition out of the crib and it allows for independence as they grow and get older.

[@rachellenale]

Oooo I haven’t seen the scalp serum yet. I’ll have to try it. You got me hooked on Ouai when I first tried the detox shampoo. It smells amazing and works well.

[@virgosun1991]

This is all such personalized information. For instance, we don't have the space in our room for a crib so we opted for a bassinet for now (the snoo). And I'm so happy we got a glider because our nursery is so small and there would be no where to sit besides our bed or tiny couch in the living room. We live in an 810 sq. ft place in Southern CA. It all just depends on what your family/household is suited for and what you want! Although, thank you for reminding me I need some burp cloths ;)

[@Heydrayheyhey]

She literally says if you have the space for it. I was debating on whether to get a bassinet and a crib and now I am not getting a bassinet bcs of this video, very helpful tip so I am glad it was shared, even if it wouldn’t work for YOUR situation 😂

[@allisong3736]

Baby aquaphor cleaned my babies diaper rash and cradle crap! I still out aquaphor on my one year old after almost every change just for preventative measures

[@annakoretchko688]

this one was very relatable

[@allisong3736]

The Frida nose sucker is better when they're older. It also doesn't need to go up the nose, just on the outside is good

[@gerryryan1372]

We did not have all all the gadgets for babies. . I little tweezers worked for buggers. Their nails, you can just nibble them off for them as they are so soft xx

[@melissagranados4090]

Cribs did not fit in our room but you can always thrift bassinets.

[@KOK-sc8ez]

If you switch diaper brands, you may find that you don’t actually need diaper cream. His current diapers may not be absorbing the wetness quickly enough to keep him dry. Btw the Frida snot sucker isn’t meant to go in, just sit it at the opening of the nostril. I had to watch a video to figure it out and it worked so much better than a bulb syringe when my baby caught my cold.

[@yvettekennedy1114]

Hi Rachel, I’m really similar in being minimal and practical when purchasing baby items. I find that so many products can be convenient, which is nice, but are truly unnecessary and cause me overwhelm in the long run. Would you please be able to link the diaper organizer you have on the dresser?

[@heather6404]

We never used the changing table ee put together. Our daughter is almost 2 and we still just put her on the bed and use portable changing pads. Due with our second baby in June and there are so many things we are getting rid of that our daughter didn't use. Babies honestly don't need much

[@marleysmith281]

I kept a pack n play in our bedroom! We ended up getting a rolling bassinet so I could pull him around the house and cook etc lol. All of that could have been accomplished w the Nestig. I almost got one and didn’t and it’s my biggest regret. Will be purchasing when there’s a baby 2 lol

[@Nava_77]

Not you calling my friend Jesse, bald. Lol 😂 18:28

[@mrsginny]

I got a bassinet that converts into a pack and play so I get more use out of it❤

[@ervinsmoviecorner8748]

Love this one, Rachel!

[@roxanaopariuc9514]

Also if you will like to add probiotics for you baby they will help a lot with them digestive comfort . We use biogaia .

[@TateJohnson]

Hot take: I regret ordering all the supplies for a vaginal birth when I ended up needing a last minute c section. I spent SO much money on all that stuff and now I will never be able to use it (I’ll always need c sections moving forward due to the vertical incision)

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

@@TateJohnson that's unfortunate

[@TA-np4mc]

Amazon prime delivery was amazing for this. I literally ordered postpartum diapers and ice packs in my hospital bed. It was delivered the day I went home 😂

[@Yuliana-wm9id]

Thank you!!! Very honest and authentic:-)

[@RachelVinn]

Glad you liked it! 🥰

[@marengcc]

Not me waiting for my Nestig delivery HAHAHA. Glad you make this video! Thank you! ❤

[@RachelVinn]

You are so going to love it! 😍

[@marengcc]

⁠@@RachelVinnthanks Rachel! ❤️

[@hasienasoebhan8707]

Hey Rachel, i havent seen your cat for a while

[@julianneackerman8172]

Mine also gnaws on the side of the carrier. 😂

[@lesandthecity]

I’m saving this video and hoping I will be taking all your baby items recommendations sometime this year. #ttc Ps. Your hair looks GORGEOUS! I took a screenshot of it so I can show it to my hair girl at my next appointment.

[@natashathompson3557]

I hate to sound mean, but I currently have a three-month-old baby as well, and it concerns me that I never see you with yours. From the diaper rashes to the comment about forgetting you even have a baby, to not buying him cute clothes, and not rocking him to sleep-it’s worrying. In another video, your baby was talking while you were speaking, and you said, “Shhh, mama is speaking.” That was wild. You even asked, “Do we need to speak to your baby?” I don’t see a lot of love and attention being given to your baby.

[@missmegs37]

Im 38 weeks rn and I got the Evolur changing pad! It's a little soft and wipeable and still "aesthetic" enough. Literally do not get why everyone buys the keekaroo! I've also heard from my friends that the rocking chair is literally just for aesthetics. You really do not need one. The baby industry is pretty insane.

[@as1S0Yyo]

We love the evolur! So easy to clean!

[@EsitaMalone]

Hey Rach what is the name of the carrier you have. I wrap my baby but it’s a lot of fabric looking for carrier that’s light weight

[@danielleayde2330]

I love Ouai too. Jesse is getting so big.

[@ryanrowe1975]

Love it!

[@kaleenlopez494]

Hi Rachel what company did you use for the placenta encapsulation? Do you recommend ? ❤

[@RachelVinn]

I didn’t do this!

[@kaleenlopez494]

@ Sorry girl could have sworn you spoke about this topic lol must have been someone else I watched.

[@iamthelightoftheworld5028]

You dont need that many things. But i understand as first mom you got all of it. Rocking chair is key for us.

[@annaades4157]

How does it feel carrying AJ in a carrier?

[@vickicebulla419]

"He doesn't know what it's like to be rocked," she says as she currently rocks back and forth. 😂 Anyway. Don't let that take away from the fact you don't need everything people say you do. Also, buying second hand is amazing. I've seen brand new never used bassinets for $50 because "we accidently got 2 for Christmas" the crib I got was free. We got our $175 carrier for $20.

[@mdickens9680]

@@vickicebulla419 yes omg I was like you are rocking him right now 🤣🤣🤣😭😭

[@RachelVinn]

Hahahahahaga you right!!

[@cc82JesusisKing]

Me wanting to scream “he spat up againnnnn” 😂

[@RachelVinn]

Hahahhaha

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

I never lost hair over 3 pregnancies

[@lillywildflower]

Bassinet attachment on the pram is a waste of money. Our son had reflux so we couldn’t lay him flat in a pram…glad we didn’t buy the bassinet attachment

[@maiko2022000]

3:34 so true!

[@Alisha-hs8xj]

I truly don’t get why the Carters brand clothes are so popular? Most of them feel so scratchy 🧐

[@jenn366]

He is so adorable Rachel your doing amazing but just one thing you really need to be more careful with his neck

[@TamaraLukovics]

yes, it hurts just to watch 😭

[@traceydecarvalho5533]

Using cheap diapers is not a good idea, they do contribute to nappi rash. It’s always a good idea to use a barrier cream. Rather spend more on diapers especially when he starts with purées etc. Poor little Jesse doesn’t deserve nappi rash, , extremely 🥴 uncomfortable

[@samanthadeleon5636]

I’m getting dizzy from watching you rock the baby as you stand. 😢

[@iLuvMY99]

i think u need to invest a little bit more for a good diapers.

[@katiemercs]

hey rach you should definitely buy mesh liners for the cot, prevents baby from getting their arms and feet caught in between the bars

[@aly_roll.]

♥️

[@ewe392]

Just a thought, we let her face get irritated for a bit of a week and then it cleared up on its own without intervention

[@jenn366]

And why wouldn't you wanna put him in cute outfits

[@brooklin_bernek]

Cause babies like to be cozy and usually cry

[@TerriSiler-hv8in]

@@brooklin_bernek if you are staying home what's the point. Sleepers work just fine.

[@brooklin_bernek]

@ lol, because sometimes you wanna just dress your kiddo? Whats the problem? Sleepers all day every single day ? Nothing else at all? That’s fine for you…

[@leeannellis7615]

First

[@cancerseason]

Saving this video for the future me 🫡