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Hi Kvg Hi 326 Express I’m a lady aged 32 yrs married with two kids. We recently relocated to our new house early this year after many years of building. As soon as we moved in my mother in law fell sick and we had to take her in with us. The plan was for her to go back kumusha kana vasimba but she ended up overstaying…with mum around I now needed a live in maid so mhamha was quick to suggest titore a widow from her village whom she recommended kuti anogona basa zvekudaro…ndaisada coz this lady was bringing her too kids ages 4 and 7. Luckily Takavaisa mu cottage and Taigarisana zvakanaka until I started noticing kuti mhamha doesn’t eat well when I cook during weekends and just to put it out there I’m not a bad cook…Mhamha will say muriwo wenyu ndautadza hapana kana mukaka zvawo ndipedze sadza!!! It went on for a while and It mad me feel bad in front of my husband.I started feeling inadequate but I would try kuitira mhamha zvese although I really wanted her out of my house now. I spoke to my husband and he spoke to mhamha kuti Miri zvayasimba taakukudzoserai kumusha. Haa Kvg I could tell that she was not happy she said kana ndakutodzekera the helper ndakudzokera navo because maziso angu akushupa I need Munhu we kugara naye…I really liked this helper vaishanda but what was I to do I rehired my previous helper…I bought groceries for mhamha after ndavati nyorai list re zvamunoda I even bought two extra blankets considering the cold this winter time…. In less than a week Kvg takanzwa kuti mhamha varwara food poisoning we drove kwa seke only to realize the helper and her two kids two were muchipatara… I asked vana kuti Makadyei and they said takadya spaghetti kwaGogo I never bought spaghetti it wasn’t on the list….I came back home the next day and noticed that my pantry was missing a few things including a few canned spaghetti and beans that I had instructed the old helper to throw away dzaka expire kare I think last year October. This meant kuti pama groceries that I bought mhamha stole more from the pantry…I just kept quiet. My hot issue my mother in law vakazotumira message asking me for $120 vachiti ndeyekurapisa the helper and her kids. I called back ndikavati Ko isu taakurapisa sei Munhu ari kushanda tichimupa Mari kuti akuchengetei it’s not part of our agreement. She immediately called my husband and told him kuti mukadzi wako akatenga chikafu Chaka expire ndicho chati rwarisa musha wese and asked for Mari kurapisa the helper ne vana vakatumirwa…Ndaida kusimudza muromo wekuti mhamha vakaba asi murume wangu azoitii… So now she is recovering and my husband requested tivatore futi and I don’t want her in my house anymore…can I open up and share my discomfort about having her around and should I tell him kuti mhamha vaka rwara ne chikafu chavakaba…Maybe that’s the only way to keep her away from my house she is toxic…I need your help vedare
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[@pterrymugabe3816]

Just imagine uchitengesa mabhero or vending mu town or any other tough work zvako kuti mwana aende ku Uni ,ozoroora ovaka imba , mukadzi wacho oti yoy have over stayed ,maba ,muri Toxic ...pafunge ipapo... varoora chingozivai kuti after 20 or 30 years munenge mavawo ana Vamwene as well ...and Karma will stike you thrice.... chingodai ana amai vevarume venyu ndoumwe mupfuhwira muhombe iwoyo....vamwene ngavaiswe padhuze dhuze dhuze .... love them ,know them ,talk to them ,bikaiwo zvavanoda not zvamunoda mega...rem most of them havadi ma spices and fried foods zvine mafuta...vanoda zvakakwatiswa.... its simple wani....

[@phillthedrill]

Zvekutengesa bhero hazvina basa wangu, thats your duty as parent and can not be used as an excuse becoz hapana umwe anofanirwa kuzviita. Why focus much on muroora, who is the mature here? vamwene ndizvo vanotofanirwa kudzidzisa muroora, but what she did,she do she override roora on who must be a maid, she brings in her friend let alone with 2 kids. then she goes on to steal and moti vakuru this and that covering them you are enabling them to steal more and not respecting boundaries. Kana mukuru achiba and not being corrected about it, you are indirectly teaching muroora do to the same kana vaa amwene. As parents lets give our children space, yes for murume its easy kugara namoms vakes 24/7 becoz she gave birth and raised him. On the other hand 24/7 anambuya vake can be hard becoz you are learning to live nemunhu anema old habits and also entitled as ambuya, you can only pray kuti ambuya vari very accomodating kwauri. In this case vamwene is not accomodating kumuroora they chose a maid for her(vamwene over stepped boundaries) lucky the maid was said to be good. Lets not be biased becoz the parent ndewako, check also kuti your own parent ari accomodating and welcoming here to your partner.

[@kelvinmangoma6578]

@@phillthedrill Ma old age agara anonetsa afofana kuzvi accepter otherwise achapwanya imba yake ega. Muroora uyu anofana kunzwisisa kuti ava ndi mai respect them kutaura kuti mai maba either sides itori ngozi iyoyo accusing mai kuti imbavha. I think if u accuse mai ve any man kuti imbavha unogona kurambirwa nyaya isina basa that could avoided.

[@phillthedrill]

@@kelvinmangoma6578 wangu, i do t think ambuya avo fit mu old age meaning 70 and above, anyone below pfugwa dzavo ndakakwana period what do we learn from an elder anoba? hanzi gudo guru peta muswe. Vamwene havana respect, she should have let muroora run her own house aka choice her own maid, if she let muroora be self respect yairamba iripo and zvekuti overstaying wasnt going to come out. Lets not defend bad behaviour becoz of age and lets not try to address muroora 1st without addressing vamwene, its vamwene 1st . Mai imbavha period, whether she was going to say it nicely or not conclusion would be mai imbavha it doesnt change behaviour yataridzwa namai. Mai kana vasingadi kunzi mbavha or vane ruoko she should stop the behaviour period. Whether mumba me mwana or not kutora usina kupihwa kuba.

[@pterrymugabe3816]

Zvaunenge muroora wacho 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@phillthedrill]

@@pterrymugabe3816 kana am actually a dude,let not empower vakuru with bad habits.

[@lewismukumba]

Amai ndiAmai n u should know that nyaya yacho inofira kwako sis

[@epiphaniachikowo5438]

Yooo Zimbabweans 😢😢😢😢 why are people afraid of the truth. Mai vakaba simply, and she is toxic. Vanhu vatema havadi maboundaries. It is such a shame.

[@Lara-ks7hc]

Ah kuba vakaba havozve n she was wrong pakuti vanoti munhu akatenga zvinhu zvaka expire ivo vachinyeba

[@wellingtonmaredza]

But vakaba havo amwene😂 kungoti chete hazvina kujairika kuti munhu mukuru akatora asina kupiwa. Dai vakangotaura kuti muroora ndatorawo svi spaghetti isvi😂😂😂😂

[@primrosenyathi8282]

Ya. Marriage is hard!

[@mcdonaldmseka4975]

Amai vari toxic?????? Wooow!!!! I don't think this one akabva kumba kune vanhu and why are you keeping expired groceries in the house

[@mmc307]

Muroora une dambudziko ,tora Amai varapwe

[@nyashamavhudzi1616]

Dai vari amai vake ayiitasei

[@phillthedrill]

uri kufunga under tunnel vision, ko vake kana vakamu teacher to call mbava as mbava? she was going to call her out as mbavha becoz thats what she taught her. besides ukaona munhu ava kuita reverse the issue kuti dai vari vako, it means you are shy to admit the truth

[@takundagombera9007]

Makoti you're overreacting nezvinhu zvisina maturo