How 500 Days of Summer changed the way I view Love

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Nicky Reardon

Nicky Reardon

Күн бұрын

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@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
COME JOIN THE DISCORD!!! discord.gg/FjSrEF2JZ4
@GabrielFerreira-ue8hs
@GabrielFerreira-ue8hs 20 күн бұрын
Nicky have you ever seen the trilogy Sunrise, Sunset, Midnight? It's such a great plot with a very realistic look on dating, having a partner and love overall. 💝
@Juvenalpinedastaysfit
@Juvenalpinedastaysfit Ай бұрын
🗣️” Who’s that girl?” - It’s Jess👩🏻‍🏫
@MichaelRhodesno1
@MichaelRhodesno1 24 күн бұрын
Hey girl, what cha doing? Hey girl, where ya going? 🩷🩷✨✨
@Caitlin_Mahina
@Caitlin_Mahina Ай бұрын
YES. Absolutely LOVE this movie. I think this should be required viewing for every young adult navigating the dating world. Every time I've watched it, I've felt my opinion slowly shift from one side of the spectrum to the other. When I was younger, I was team Tom all the way, because it's so easy to see Summer as a heartless woman who doesn't believe in love (and as a society, we always root for love!) But when I grew up and realized that having healthy adult relationships means taking what people say at face value, and that sometimes no matter how much you might love someone, it doesn't mean they are actually a good match for you, I'm now team Summer.
@DESHPLEASE
@DESHPLEASE Ай бұрын
I remember exactly where I was when I saw this movie as well. I was on a date with a guy I'd been dating a while and I remember sitting in the theatre, watching this film, and thinking in that moment that I was Summer and he was Tom and on the way home I was honest with him about this realization I was having and we basically called things off. I now can relate to both characters in this story so much. It's such a powerful film, so beautifully shot like you said but also the writing and acting capture both sides so perfectly. Far too relatable and not shying away from the pain that can come from falling in love with the "idea" of a person as you explained so well. I also love that quote about rose-colored glasses. LOVE this content Nicky. Been following you for a bit, love all your pop culture content but this was so refreshing and I am 100% here for this type of content as well, always love your takes and deep dives on topics you are passionate about. Also joined your discord. Much love and congrats on all your growth, so well deserved! ✨❤‍🔥
@architectsneedunions
@architectsneedunions Ай бұрын
Absolutely hated Summer when I first watched this in the early 2010s, was 100% team Tom. It took living through the plot of the movie myself as Tom for me to revisit the film ten years later and understand that Summer had been telling Tom exactly what would happen all along. I definitely learned to believe what people say about themselves the hard way. Thank you for discussing this important cultural artefact on your show! I've been a fan since your first video this past summer
@ninaharper7801
@ninaharper7801 Ай бұрын
LOVE your insight ! fun fact joseph gordon levitt said he actually didn't life this character of his because at the end of the movie ... he doesn't actually learn anything .. he's just moved on to the next thing 😂
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
Interesting! I do think he does learn something though. Like him quitting his job and pursuing his dream of being an architect is meant to be this physical symbol of his growth
@brooklynnmcconnell
@brooklynnmcconnell Ай бұрын
I loved this video and it helped me look back on my first relationship that i got out a year ago and your explanation of love and relationships really helped! Like when you were talking anbput your break up I spiraled thinking of what was wrong with me because they moved on so fast. So thank you Nicky for this video. It makes me want to put myself out there again and actually make an effort for my own happiness and that not everyone is moment for anyone and it doesn’t mean I’m a bad person.
@theofficialboxyladiesyoutu4525
@theofficialboxyladiesyoutu4525 Ай бұрын
I loved that movie and I couldn’t ever really specify why. Thank you for breaking this down for me!
@jrobertr
@jrobertr Ай бұрын
Needed this video. I’ve gone on such an amazing healing journey the last 4 years but this was the part I couldn’t quite figure out. It feels comforting and a bit therapeutic to hear this perspective. Definitely going to take what you said and try and apply it when this happens again
@RainTheStrawberry
@RainTheStrawberry Ай бұрын
i'm currently in a grey spot of confusion not knowing if i'm the summer or the tom and i'm scareddddd
@cr4zyptvgf
@cr4zyptvgf 14 күн бұрын
me too omg
@RainTheStrawberry
@RainTheStrawberry 13 күн бұрын
@@cr4zyptvgf wishing you the best 😭❤lolol
@Kermitt_thee_frog23
@Kermitt_thee_frog23 Ай бұрын
I never watched the entirety of 500 Days but the parts taught me a lot about expectations & love (even though I've never been in a relationship). I also really enjoy how the visuals enhance the storytelling. Movies like it & Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind are my favourite kind of "romance" films.
@Swag_Gaming
@Swag_Gaming 10 күн бұрын
Just finished watching 500 Days of Summer and I loved the movie to be honest. While watching I had some mixed feelings and I was kind of confused but ultimately everything was clear. So let me know if I should watch the movie you've mentioned like what kind of romance is that and how different is that from this one. Also don't give me any spoilers just let me know what do you think
@mileswittig8744
@mileswittig8744 Ай бұрын
14:24 real 25:33 also props to you for being so open 26:59 too real
@faithingram5478
@faithingram5478 27 күн бұрын
I watched this movie recently and it is unfortunately the most realistic slap in the face a hopeless romantic (me) needs lol It also really validated how I felt in my past relationship where overtime I kept coming back to the same conclusions (that I didn’t love him) but wasn’t being heard, and was manipulated into staying. I love your videos! Your point of view is methodical, well rounded, thought provoking and so so real. Keep doing you🤍
@Isaiah_McIntosh
@Isaiah_McIntosh 17 күн бұрын
Next step is to read White nights by dostoyevsky. Had to stop the first 2 times because it was bloody painful how relatable but repulsive the main characters POV felt.
@Swag_Gaming
@Swag_Gaming 10 күн бұрын
​@@Isaiah_McIntosh is that book also like this movie? Will I like that book if I loved watching 500 Days of summer?
@hannahclark4838
@hannahclark4838 Ай бұрын
you gave me a new appreciation for this movie
@monyashadfar
@monyashadfar Ай бұрын
I thoroughly enjoy your videos!
@tatiannawilkins1278
@tatiannawilkins1278 Ай бұрын
Love your realness and analysis’s. The videos I know I needed!
@beausebastian
@beausebastian Ай бұрын
This video is so helpful to anyone who has attachment issues on either side!
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
That makes me so happy to hear🥹
@mayakumar7685
@mayakumar7685 Ай бұрын
my favourite movie ever!! loved that u covered it
@newbery.claire
@newbery.claire Ай бұрын
I think you changed the thumbnail and title for the video and that helped me to click on it. I didn't know it was yours when I was scrolling through my recommended but once I saw you in the thumbnail I went "oh, it's Nicky! click."
@OneDoodlingBug
@OneDoodlingBug Ай бұрын
26:16 NOOOOOO oh no 😭 u r so real for keeping this part in tho fr 😂 I get that we're adults or whatever but I still hope u hooked up with his best friend. I fully support being healed & analyzing it calmly & rationally.... & still get petty revenge just for good measure
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
HAHAHA thank you!!! I’m honestly not even trying to get “revenge” in any way. I’ve just moved on
@OneDoodlingBug
@OneDoodlingBug Ай бұрын
@@nicky.reardon that's the best revenge :) love ur videos btw I cant wait 'til u get to 1mil!
@LupitaLaChona
@LupitaLaChona Ай бұрын
This movie is a must watch for ppl in their 20s
@a.d.rian444
@a.d.rian444 28 күн бұрын
This is how i would musically summarize this movie and it's different perspectives: Tom: Casual by Chappell Roan (if it was written from a male perspective lol) Summer: Vortex by Lizzy McAlpine Their dynamic / relationship: Reckless Driving by Lizzy McAlpine
@RainTheStrawberry
@RainTheStrawberry Ай бұрын
omg (first???) a video by one of my fave youtubers making a video about my favourite movie??? i adore this movie so much, i am sadly summer and tom at the same time 😔 (my name is also literally summer lolol)
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
@@RainTheStrawberry this is literally my Favorite movie of all time I could talk about it for HOURSSSS
@RainTheStrawberry
@RainTheStrawberry Ай бұрын
@@nicky.reardon omg SAMEE (and i can listen to people talk about it for hours and then i get more talking points, the cycle continues hehe). i'm so glad my dad loves the movie too because i have someone to rant to about it as much as i so desire lol
@edumuchogusto743
@edumuchogusto743 Ай бұрын
Did not expect to cry in this video, tbh
@Antenna11
@Antenna11 Ай бұрын
What if the guy you love and know is the only person you’ll ever wanna be intimate with again doesn’t support your creative pursuits like can’t handle the artistry because he’s so conventional .. when we first started dating, he used to like try to impress me by playing the guitar and now he never wants to talk about my music or anything. I don’t know. I don’t think that anyone should be with a person that doesn’t support what they love to do. Period. Literally just as a hobby.
@Grenda-b9u
@Grenda-b9u 20 күн бұрын
You'll get past old situations as soon as you're in a better one. Then when things slow down you'll kind of want that old "good" situation again, but then you'll fall into a better one and forget it all over again, and so on lol
@Antenna11
@Antenna11 19 күн бұрын
@ Ty 🥹🙏❣️
@Antenna11
@Antenna11 Ай бұрын
Woah I didn’t realize this was your channel till I clicked on it. Yay I love this movie. It’s kind of fucked up and depressing though I’ve known girls like that actually I think I’m kinda like that. Fuck.
@meganamy2225
@meganamy2225 Ай бұрын
Amazing video!
@jennaroark
@jennaroark 9 күн бұрын
Went through a relationship like theirs, actually watched this movie with the guy and still didn’t see it 😅 Hindsight is 20/20 🤭😂 Happily married my old teenage love now, life is strange and beautiful ❤️🫶🏻
@princess_zulica
@princess_zulica 3 күн бұрын
If you wanna get serious, figure out where the other person stands. if your close with family or have good friends, get them involved in observing their actions and character for a clearer perspective. because you should only get into a relationship if your serious and have a clear perspective on the other, because peoples hearts and your own heart isnt a joke. thats why i personally prefer traditional methods because i feel like it helps you figure out who they are before you get involved with them, because thats when things get messy. however, if your family doesnt allign with your values, it becomes a bit harder but you can have friends, but you need a support system because emotions get the best us all. prevention is better than the cure always.
@cottageapollo
@cottageapollo Ай бұрын
Will this episode be on spotify?
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
Yes! Running into technical issues. I already contacted their customer support and they’re looking into it, but as soon as it’s resolved it’ll go up! :)
@Antenna11
@Antenna11 Ай бұрын
2:20 I’m so down for discord. Hell yeah I want to talk about music with you.
@kitrinoulios
@kitrinoulios 26 күн бұрын
any comment
@DichterUndDenker187
@DichterUndDenker187 Ай бұрын
4 the Algorithm
@nicky.reardon
@nicky.reardon Ай бұрын
My hero
@DichterUndDenker187
@DichterUndDenker187 Ай бұрын
@@nicky.reardon always at your service, sir 🫡
@Silvalobos
@Silvalobos Ай бұрын
Bro why do you keep saying she doesn't want to be a boyfriend 😂she doesn't want to be a GIRLFRIEND
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