HOW A WOMAN DEFEATS JEALOUSY by RC Blakes

[@tifipaul5686]

It’s your job to make sure your self esteem is full. It’s your man’s job to make sure it overflows.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

You worded this soooo beautifully 😍

[@charmbizzle]

Sometimes jealousy stems from the Man treating/doing things with others that they don't do with you. .

[@samco63]

Exactly.

[@gracefullyrachel6573]

Truth 💯 makes you feel insecure and unwanted

[@msprettysunshine]

So true but what I had to learn.. is don’t do no arguing.. say how I feel. How this affects me.. if nothing is done about it.. maybe after 2 to 3 times.. I’m out… that man is not healthy and is toxic.. I had to learn this the hard way.. like Blake’s says… stop chasing men that don’t want to be chased or that are so immature u have to keep running him down.. girl self esteem in the ground.. let’s glow up ladies !!!

[@quietstorm2974]

Some men know things trigger you and still do them out of spite or to play on it because they know it bothers you

[@BurhanKaçmaz-q3z]

I'm retired at 27, went from Grass to Grace. This video here reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, honest husband, $35k biweekly and a good daughter full of love ❤️

[@MarkSuprock]

I'm highly inspired. Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.

[@BurhanKaçmaz-q3z]

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[@ElizabethFilder]

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[@ElizabethFilder]

I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!

[@JasonMichael-ib4yz]

< I know that woman(Christina Ann Tucker) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!

[@lindamartin1811]

The best thing you can do before entering a relationship with a potential spouse, is to spend time with God, seek healing , enjoy your singleness make the best of this time you and God , then at the right time , when your Healthy Mentally, spiritually, you will Build that relationship and not tear it down ❤️❤️🙏

[@jilliansimpson9698]

Pastor RC Blakes, I just finished Masters Degree program a few days ago. I am so excited about the next level.

[@slcollazo.2911]

P R E A C H, Pastor. I've had to learn to go where I'm celebrated NOT tolerated. Thank you for sharing truth!!!

[@LucyLucy296]

So true 🤝🏾

[@nowKissthaQueen]

whew Chile🙌🏼now ain't that the truth. This was a good class

[@LisaFerguson-jv7ew]

Communication is always number 1, if you don't communicate everything is DEAD

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Amen Yes and yes

[@ChildofGod98765]

Jesus give me strength. As a single mom and it is hard to have everything on my shoulders. Especially because both of my sons are special needs but despite the challenges I face it’s only because of GOD I MADE IT THIS FAR. I keep faith even as I struggle to pay rent and as I struggle to buy groceries for my children. Faith over fear. I love you Lord.😢

[@generationk2095]

You are more than a conqueror your not struggling ❤

[@gingermarcotte1]

This talk has been saved into my “Mental Health Therapy” folder. I have only found the men interested in cultivating an atmosphere of confusion and triangulation equaling toxicity. I have faith there is a man out there who can accept the assignment in handling the management of the jealousy aspect as you describe peacefully. Brilliant talk Pastor RC.❤

[@nyanniaprince4288]

Bishop when I tell you, you are aligned in the Spirit of God. A few nights ago, the Lord showed me that I deal with jealousy in relationships through a dream. Mind you, at this very time the Lord has given me strict rules not to date or entertain any man, as well as living a sanctified life. He is molding me for His will for my life and I’m very grateful. Anyway, when that dream was given to me, I asked him what can I do about it and then I kid you not, I saw your video that was scheduled to talk about jealousy! Thank you for being used by God and allowing him to use you to answer my prayer! God bless you and Mrs.Lisa ❤️

[@tristamarie7115]

Just want to say, Kudos to Mrs. Blakes for not being jealous with all the women who follow and love Mr. Blakes! Guessing that would be tough for a lot of women!

[@VendieSolde]

Cringey and awkward thing to say

[@nzingahoney]

Yup. Cuz a lot of women are insecure. She ain't

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

I AM HEALED WHEN I AM HEARD.

[@ShaheenTaylor]

Sometimes jealousy isn’t even a fear of losing something valuable. People experience jealousy with 🤡

[@S7Beauty]

Facts but then we must still must go within because those 3 points he made is still the case. Even if a clown made you feel inadequate to another woman..

[@suzanneordonez1097]

I wish someone had said all of this when I was a very young girl!!!! Thank you!

[@Ruth-vy1qj]

We need to hear this we all can experience jealousy or someone else jealous. We got to deal with our insecurities the right way. R C Blakes keep it real even if it painful to hear.

[@IK_4]

I am so grateful that I don't have jealousy as a 46 year old, happily single woman. I would love to hear about MEN who are jealous because that is the type of jealousy that tends to end women's lives and turns neighborhoods into battle grounds that are unsafe. I do not run after any man, and any woman who does needs help. Have you not LEARNED? SMH I don't get it 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@madelinebigio7565]

You are so right! We need more of this kind of videos and talks about men and jealousy! I agree with you 💯

[@BossLady-w2g]

What does SMH mean?

[@tracym.worley3214]

@@BossLady-w2gshaking my head.

[@tracym.worley3214]

@@araceliv4710You love who you love, but I pray you love yourself more❤ I have sent many years hoping to be loved by that person the way I need to be. After a while, I had to make my healing a priority. It doesn’t mean I love him any less, I’m intentional about loving myself more.

[@michellevibonese5673]

Everyone has not achieved your level of healing & realizations. Don't be condescending towards those women who aren't there yet.

[@kre8504]

I’m not normally a jealous woman, however Mr.x triangulated me with another woman, in order to make me jealous. He was a covert sociopathic malignant narcissist: In other words, a wolf in sheep’s clothing: creating comparisons. I’ll never marry again, unless he has a godly foundation.

[@RhachelleJohnson]

I’ve experienced this as well. An insecure jealous man will project his insecurity on you and triangulate you to boost his ego while attempting to destroy your self esteem.

[@leonablack3516]

Yes narcissists play everyone off on each other ,making it look like they themselves are the greatest catch and women are fighting over them. Its to also make you feel insecure. They love it , name dropping women . Sick . Run as fast as you can in the other direction ❤❤

[@VYT6171]

This came right on time for me. So excited for it!!!! 😅

[@KorayI88]

You are a blessing.I am lucky to live in your era of uplifting womanhood.Thank you 🌹🕶️

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

Knowing Yourself (SELF-AWARENESS) is the Beginning of All Wisdom.

[@michelladas3004]

No the fear of the Lord is

[@maren1679]

​@@michelladas3004iktr🙏 . Amen

[@sharonalbright4150]

I love your insight "Your picker is broke". Analyze patterns to pinpoint your triggers.

[@ashleymitchell5968]

I know the topic is about women being jealous. Once we get ourselves back in order "together", most of us gradually setback and trust the process that God has planned for us. With that being said we need to stop basing our past relationships on to the next. There's still good men and women out there. TRUST THE PROCESS 😘😊 😁!

[@naomiadams6157]

Replaying! Blessings Bishop RC Blakes Jr and Lady Lisa Blakes!

[@kimberly1868]

R.C. this message was so therapeutic for me today! Thanks again 😊

[@Holistretch]

Lord knows I’m in my season of isolation because I have been chasing men who feed off of my insecurities. 😣

[@poeticflowerz]

exactly what i need to hear!

[@shawnkimi3872]

Amen!!! Needed this , def a GOD sent message at the right time.

[@missmlb3842]

I wish I heard this when I was younger.😢. This is so rich in wisdom ❤

[@janellamurphy5665]

Good evening watching from Massachusetts. Thank you Bishop Blakes for discussing this important topic!!

[@DoctorCarrieHall]

Please address the man that's chasing the woman, and she doesn't want him. Isn't his picker broke?A confident woman isn't confident because of what she possesses, she is confident because she doesn't have low self esteem. I'm confident because I know my value, and have added tax plus interest.🎤

[@VendieSolde]

Maybe...but the bigger issue is her chasing a man! Women should never chase a man, RC Blakes has said "queens don't pursue, they ATTRACT AND APPROVE!" Go watch that video baby!

[@deborahsterling1776]

Thank you, RC Blakes, for your inspiring message. You are truly anointed ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@WeAreNot4Sale]

When you're picker is broke , You will pick a broke 😂 Love this. ROFL

[@lj9592]

lol 😂

[@meditationandrelaxationmot6121]

Girl, when I tell you, 'your picker broke' had me on the floor 😂😂😂

[@brickecharga1102]

Do a show on unhealed men who - because they never dealt with the hurts, offenses and relationships of the past - affect their new relationships with their toxicity and make the new women/relationships pay for what the old ones did, making them collateral damage.

[@teebookwriter]

Amen! They keep in touch with them because they will not emotionally detach and say it's just a friend to make your jealous of the connection!

[@evelyneverett1127]

Wonderful message --- one of the best, if not the best. Thank you. God bless you an Lisa.

[@takilathestar4758]

When we as women realize that we can't control anyone but ourselves and trusting our choices we will mature to this mindset.... in reality you don't really trust yourself and that's the real problem..

[@lwarfield52]

This is good! Thank you Bishop and First Lady Lisa! 🙏🏾❤️

[@ziziphofrancis6070]

Your picker needs out of order sticker 🤣🤣🤣✍️😂Thank you Bishop just left my type that couldn't even communicate, nor maintaining consistency 🔥❤️such a beautiful era I'm at peace no pressure patiently waiting for an evolved King 💖even if it doesn't happen l am going to rock my singlehoond with God❤️🙏

[@TanikaNakeyaLewis]

Jealousy Is Fear of Loss, Not Enviousness: "Gelos" = "Madness". 😶. Respectively. Tanika Nakeya Lewis, 6127

[@lakeishaallen8831]

Pastor, thank you for sharing this message. I always listen and apply these lessons.

[@thewannabevegan5191]

The look in his face when he said your type is the type that doesn’t want you! I just shriveled up 🤦🏾‍♀️ I’m gone get myself together rettt nah!

[@Emily-cc6gg]

I will have to watch this so many times to truly comprehend and apply it to my life I am literally going to take a notebook and break it down There is so much of value here and has shown me the inner work I need to focus on Thank you

[@lisaaustin2699]

Thank you!

[@lavernelangston2938]

Amen for this word father

[@hurricane8416]

Powerful, thank you

[@deborahfranklin9370]

I read the Soul Ties book and blessed a friend to help her get free!!

[@courtneykirk478]

Excellent.

[@janinepolanco319]

Great and important topic. Thank you!

[@KAAT2239]

Love this topic 🎉🎉❤

[@crystalgrose]

Love the countdown 😃

[@anicialugo8997]

Thank goodness 🙏 for this message and your Ministry RCBLAKES ❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@SavedbyGracethrufaith.7]

Godbless you, Pastor. I have past on your wisdom filled videos to my daughter Bella. We are so grateful 🙏🏽

[@CherieChrist]

Veeeery important topic🎉❤

[@cameronmartin679]

Hi Papa👋🏻💜

[@weireffie29]

Thank you... Awesome Truth again

[@ShondaAnderson-e2l]

I really enjoy the teaching .I have learned so much ,, Thank you .

[@mosesw100]

Knowing I'm different I don't worry

[@NatashaEllis-tf8vd]

Ready ✨

[@theantoinettewells]

The talking I was doing to the screen on this one Bishop!! Lol!! Yes and thank you!!!

[@vbvalbro.]

What about when men gauk at women right in front of their Woman's Face?! How disrespectful! Talk about that!! When the trust is BROKEN I'm sorry doesn't mean a Damn Thing!! Plzzzzz

[@VendieSolde]

That's different. Dump him!

[@maren1679]

This. And then gaslight and say, no I didn't. How can you work with that? This really needs addressed. It's a pandemic. Lol. Honestly. It ruins everything. Ladies need to cover their bodies up and be modest. But no, they want that attention and lust from everyone. This will separate the good men from the bad.. Where discernment will be much needed.

[@tonya1529]

What a blessing .

[@tarrasashurst6788]

My ex was so so jealous. He called me a lot and wouldn't get off the phone. The worst thing he was jealous of the relationship I had with my ex husband and my children

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Can you talk about a friends with benefits? This is becoming a norm for many in these times.

[@maren1679]

People went from courting and waiting until marriage, to having sex without dating. It's just gross to share that intimacy with mere strangers. Need to stay pure and become re newed for your soul mate. Or your Adam is just getting used up goods. Not you, but in general. Much respect sisters in Christ. We need men as our cover. But it needs to be the right one. And we need to be right for him when we finally meet him.

[@leonablack3516]

It's disgusting, I know men that just call into different houses have sex then leave. A lot of Women these days doing prostitution for free. They are all lving in the flesh driven by lust. Men don't want to settle down, why would they , sex with no strings attached. A sick society . I think chances are very slim to meet a good man , just love thyself , do not think you need a mate to complete you. You don't. Be happy single . ❤

[@resteralexander3891]

Thank u the word

[@pistolannie0714]

He was manufacturing things. It wasn’t making sense and it brought out the jealousy in me and I hated it! That is so true he was making it happen and I couldn’t make him see it he was blaming it on ME I had to walk away!!

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

BE VULNERABLE -Communicate Your Feelings

[@drekiab]

Struggling now in all honesty.

[@CC-qf6zz]

My boyfriend feels there's nothing wrong with looking at provocative photos on social media, and liking them... He admits to being involved in Provocative photography Before we became involved. I've spoken about this to him I've let him know that I He should be more discerning About where he put his eyes. He's never been married, he's in his 50s and has always had close relationships with females ---He says as friends, but he likes to hang around with her that are much younger than him . This is all made me feel very insecure and he doesn't seem to understand it at all. What's worse when I do something right away throws at me that I'm the insecure one and he gets mad instead of looking at his behavior and how it might affect me

[@11080698]

Run! Run while you can….better to keep your PEACE…with this type of guy…better to be alone ….you will eventually be alone anyway ….so choose yourself ….and wait for someone who makes you feel safe and gives you Peace…I know theses types of guys….thats why he is still unmarried at 50….OMGOSH! RUN …RUN…RUN while you still can…don’t be stuck to one like him…you’ lobe lonely in this kind of marriage anyway….so what’s the point bickering with him….😝

[@thelmadouglas8942]

So true that was me at a time in my life Thank God I’m at peace with myself and love me

[@sedrickgranger428]

I’ve definitely lived that prison sentence before😂😂😂😂

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Lol Ghost😂 Ive done that and didn't realize it. Not block , just said to leave me alone after I was overwhelmed as the lovebombing was initiated toeards me. It all falls apart

[@tarrasashurst6788]

I thank God I am not a jealous woman but, seems like the men I get they are the jealous one's by insecurities.

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Social internet hookups have destroyed many relationships, for aman and a woman.

[@Ella03434]

Liked✅ Shared✅ Subscribed✅ Joined✅ Crown✅

[@Oliviaaaalove]

In that ORDER

[@siennamillerbroadcast]

COMMUNITY IS THE FOUNDATION OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT!

[@kitaevans8686]

Waiting

[@AugustRose10]

😂😂 “Yo pickah broke, Bae!” Used to be guilty as charged. SMH

[@shirleynorah3116]

Waiting for the word on to night 🌙 😊

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

They choose you when its too late

[@Mzlinlin28]

I'm going through all if this right now 😢

[@generationk2095]

Say it again ❤Mark

[@favouronyemelukwe5007]

Amen and Amen!

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Out Of Order omygosh 😂

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

Choose the man that chooses you...

[@tonya1529]

So true

[@hurricane8416]

Yessss🙏🙏🙏

[@WulitaTsegaye]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@lindam.7709]

Jealous?! Who? Me? OUCH !! 😮😮

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

Someone is extremely jealous of me

[@tonya1529]

Facts

[@DinaMejia-qj7sz]

Hello everyone!

[@janellamurphy5665]

😂😂😂😂😂😂Picker Broke!!

[@barbaralandsaw7949]

If a guy starts sending sexual pucs and videos to you theres a fine line is drawn.. a woman that would never send pics of her body before then starts to send them back, thinking the man will want her more, the woman loses her self worth and becomes not confident in herself. Consent isn't permission

[@t-ricetrice6690]

Oh, never mind, someone just mentioned the count down

[@Beautifullysaid]

Right ✅️

[@VictoriaBradley-o2s]

Someone please tell me how I can join Pastor Blake’s Church.

[@tonya1529]

Amen

[@conniesamaniego5020]

Ghana

[@chalmapittman2946]

My maiden name is Turner.I just noticed that you said your daughters last name is Turner.

[@SugarHigh-p3m]

ME JEALOUS???! LOL. WHO TOOK FROM WHO?

[@Rikashari817]

Thank you and I receive this message 🙏🏿🫶🏼