How Black Women Justify Dating Out!

How Black Women Justify Dating Out!
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[@bkboy88]

"Love has no color" until it's black men...then it's colorism!

[@Infinity-mb8lm]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😀

[@ClassicStang]

On Point 100%

[@lavellelee5734]

Facts 😂

[@boogsybrooks]

Micheal B Jordan got dragged by bw just for being in the same space as yt women.

[@lavellelee5734]

@@boogsybrooks true unfortunately

[@dred9174]

She needs to stop the cap all BM know that American BW aren't interested in good BM they only want the Pookie and Ray Ray types.

[@nocappn]

My advice to good black men. Say what you mean to these ladies and mean what you say unapologetically! That's where the good men keep going wrong. The street dudes invest very little emotion and make MW feel like they can be replaced regardless of how successful they are. Good dudes can't help but care and that's where the problem lies.

[@MultiDiceman]

and if they cant get a Tupac with a degree its right over the fence to Non BM lol. Aye bro just be happy they will make white men step fathers to pookies bastard kids and not us. Black men are the highest reported step fathers in america in a community where BM are the highest cases of false paternity

[@dred9174]

@@MultiDiceman Oh I'm going foreign to find a BW.

[@prid6427]

The ONLY Ethnic group of women that are NOT attracted to the Men who are the Best & Brightest Minds in their own ethnicity!!🤷🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@MultiDiceman]

@@dred9174 Im from the Bahamas bro id recommend going down their for a wife or to other Caribbean women. No women is perfect but you will get the bare essentials of respect your asking for more or less.

[@nicholas77086]

Long fingernails, tattoos, blonde hair. Can you image a high value white man bringing this woman home to meet his family? Oh wait most likely a single mother.

[@I_Love_my_adblock4408]

🙋🏾‍♂️ Funky smelling wigs and weaves too.

[@mrexcelsior1414]

Pookie and Ray Ray approved lol

[@33markiss]

Can she talk without moving her clawed hand around for every word. I hope she never has to talk to the police while handcuffed behind her back. 🤣

[@oligarchytheatre777]

There ya go, "BLING!!" Point well said!!! I was going to say all of that as well... 😂😂🤣🤣😅😆😁😉😉😉🤗 ***I'm going to say something well known and why we're moving on past the low quality, brainwashed blk women... *The HONEST TRUTH is MATURE MEN ARE LOOKING FOR MATURE WOMEN TO HOLD THEM DOWN AND BE THERE FOR HIM AND THE OFFSPRING, NOT THE IMMATURE WOMEN!!! **THE SYSTEM TRAUMATIZES EVERYONE UNDER IT'S UMBRELLA... Check, the sister said the rest, so I don't have to repeat it and go beyond... Most of Western women (USA, Europe and Canada) I've traveled my whole life, (military raised up) and still travel for business and most Westernwomenfollow, NOT lead naturally andmost can NOT find themselves their divine feminine cause they can NOT be real with themselves, they're litterally going the other way...

[@MrOneWay5000]

She’s living ten miles deep in delusion

[@Zulu-Lemon]

If bm show those positive characteristics she speaks of they’re called boring, lame, corny…etc We’ve witnessed this just this week on social media. But bm who’s accomplished have been saying this for decades

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

This!

[@jakaryreason8696]

Degeneracy at its finest.That is exactly how so many feel right?We can't make a mistake either without being extremely criticized.How the two exist in the same mindset baffles me.

[@stephen74gc]

I looked at her page. She said her Blk female friends said,yte men do not come up to them. She said to not have a resting BI face and be a whole vibe. Have a smile on your face ,and they will come. Is this not what Blk women have told Blk men that we are not going to get that? LOL Proof that KS was right again. He had a woman on the show that said the same bs. She knew to get a different race man. She would have to lose weight,become more church centered and work on her attitude. Our women give us the least but will break their back for other races.

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

One of my friends does this, she will yell and cuss at me call me a ninja if I make a joke but when it’s our non Black friends it’s something to the effect of “ :< wow guys!” Even when it’s the same type of joke. It’s so wild the white friends mentioned it cuz she does it to all the Black males in the group but not a single non Black person

[@xSYNDICATEDx]

Facts bw aint shit

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

@@xSYNDICATEDx this is not true, they are shxt but the culture has been damaged on both sides.

[@dustinmaxwell259]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/hYfGp3Rnp9upnac Brad laid down the rules and they'll follow. Heck yes, they'll bend over backwards for non-black men.

[@YungEmperor305]

Exactly bruh. They give us the attitudes and say that we’re not masculine enough meanwhile when it comes to the YT man they INSTANTLY drop the attitude and become feminine. Such a depraved group of women

[@jayzeejm]

2010’s: I can do it all on my own, I don’t need no man 2020’s: we are tired of doing everything that a man is suppose to do. 2030’s: Wow, these men really got their passports and refuse to deal with us at all

[@dathip]

2040's: Imma get me an AI 🤖🤖 😍😍

[@KNGDDDE]

💀😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@askiayis4842]

Yep

[@blas4me50]

What's some real s*** that's exactly what's going down

[@babyg7796]

Are we supposed to be sad/mad when they leave? Those women can deal with them now-I truly wish the best for them

[@f0x268]

Why can't black women date out without disrespecting black men? She says that other races of men are taught how to treat women at a young age, are focused and pursue their careers earlier, and are not traumatized. However black men with those same qualities get labeled corny and lame by black women en masse. This nothing less than internalized racism. It's time to start calling it what it is

[@lavellelee5734]

That's the irony 😂

[@gordonallen9095]

The delusion and denial among a significant amount of black females ia astounding. SMDH.

[@christianhutchinson4559]

No one is stopping BW from dating/marrying out, especially BM. I wish her well on her journey.

[@TheFirephoenix76]

Black women are least picked across the board...not bothered...

[@tau566]

This. How is the backbone of the community being held back by the so called weakest link of the community?

[@dustinmaxwell259]

The sad part is how she truly believes that BW are "just now" starting to date outside the race. BW have been doing it for HUNDREDS of years. Heck, 1/5 of all kids born to black women have non black fathers.

[@lawreecefluellen4872]

@@TheFirephoenix76 it’s so delusional how they talk like they have leverage. Lmao other races detest the common attributes BW have even more than BM.

[@Achilles645]

Truthfully the only thing that's stopping black women is Asian Indian and Caucasian men do not want to date interracially the vast majority of them want their race of women.

[@carronhalfpookiehalfhenry]

The most disloyal women

[@earlem9771]

She’s tired because her poor vetting is wearing her out

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

She chose the men that she wanted when she was younger, now that she’s older, she wants a “good man” to come and save her.

[@wesleysnipes3645]

That's the bottom line!

[@zonedoutentertainment4778]

Her and her snatch

[@NkrumahTure]

She act like black women didn't start sleeping with white boys until now.

[@NkrumahTure]

​@@wesleysnipes3645 Mr Snipes!

[@bzb8554]

Broken single mom leftovers complaining about the men they raise 😂. ABW are SLOW asf

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

Yep

[@RealJonIvy]

She's tired of BM but not tired of that smoke alarm chirping in the background...make it make sense 🤔

[@MultiDiceman]

The more these types vocalize their opinions and how its based in dishonesty is a blessing as they will either take those issues to non BM or help even the lowest BM to avoid them. The BM hatred of divester Black women needs to increase honestly because we have to breed out that self hate ideology

[@Infinity-mb8lm]

Sorry man that was set in man a BW 100s of year's back. Actually dating back to 1471 en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_people_of_color

[@godzilla6490]

​@@Infinity-mb8lm Yeah, "Racial Blanqueamiento" is a REAL PROBLEM!!!!!

[@Buckshott_54]

WORD 🙌🏽

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

The crazy part is, some of these ppl do in fact not take their issues to non BM because they know non BM won’t tolerate 1/5 of what BM will. However if they have a Black son and he comes out the same tone as her or darker…. God help him…

[@MultiDiceman]

@@Infinity-mb8lm yea they are socialized to be this way. But as Black men make better choices and date women outside America, be it Caribbean, Africa etc maybe things will change because its seems no matter how vile the Black women, be it a Cynthia G or Paris Milan, towards us, they still seem to find a Black men to have sex with or marry. its pathetic

[@sleepyg2011]

Once you BW divest we wish you the best don't call on BM fix the mess.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

The world is finally analyzing American BW and it’s not looking good at all.

[@Infinity-mb8lm]

Yep

[@marvl6472]

WW been laughing at them since the Feminist movement

[@lawreecefluellen4872]

Facts

[@tipsandtricks6071]

No matter the race, the male gender is the one that pursues females. If other races of men actually wanted bIack ladies, these guys would have already picked them. At what point do they ever use any logic? 🤔

[@busyrand]

She's too busy using her knife and fork to use logic...

[@ClassicStang]

They never have any logic.

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

Idk man, women of other races tend to Chase Black men, it’s only women in the west and especially in our community women refuse to do it.

[@mississippigod3938]

Black women Pursue white men . Take them to dinner , be submissive from the door to a lesser white man . Than a black man with his stuff together. She will scheme and try to take from him instead of building with him. The average white and Asian American have 600,000 dollars from their parents at birth or when they died they pass it on . Black men just now starting to get wealth and if he gets it the black woman will tear her house down and take half and raise traumatized kids for the world and next woman or man to deal with

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

@@mississippigod3938 one of my friends when the Black people in our group make a joke it’s “Fu*k you punk a** bit*h a** ……” when it’s the non Blacks it’s “wow guys come on :c”….. I’m not the only one who noticed either… You can guess her skin tone

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

Not once in my family I heard someone say don't bring a white girl, and when I ask people who were told this it was always by a single mom or a woman who was very angry and biter. After seeing the backlash Michael B Jordan got and what is happening to the passport bros I am inclined to believe this is not about culture, its about feeling you won because someone else who looks like you won...

[@playablue]

Why u think w… e supremacy is so prevalent is becuase w… women love to win

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

@@playablue While I agree white women sure do love to win, I don’t think they are the main drivers of white Supremacy tho, at least primarily. I think it comes more from ppl who try to capitalize off racial tensions being high because “It’s provocative it gets people going”. It’s typically rich people or people who use controversial situations to turn profit.

[@JamesSmith-rq7mv]

👀😳😶🤫

[@martyxakabluecollarmoochie5465]

As a black man from two parents I was always told to avoid dating white folks and I’m fine with it there are good black women it’s simple dating out can be considered weak and lazy to people with a strong family background

[@tw82rone5]

It's actually quite simply being problack for real real actually does involve reproduction with actual fellow Black ppl just like pro white & so on actually does. And as a American BM myself I'm simply done & going to divest away from America & sadly way far too pass the point of repair or saving Black America in general these American European white folks can have y'all both American BW & BM Negropean A$$es sadly on average they already got y'all mentally/spiritually anyway. With the only thing remaining being the outer melanin coating yet once again that mind European whited the F out while ironically wondering what the problem is Death to the Negropean

[@georgeadeyemi4107]

I had a sister tell me directly that she isn't interested in history. I think it was a way for her to avoid correlating our past with our current condition. And she has a masters degree, ironically.

[@cocolokoflacco]

she's an educated fool

[@KNGDDDE]

That's not ironic, that's typical.

[@dman221]

I had a American Black Woman darker than a eclipse in 1995 that she wasn’t from Africa and that she wasn’t black. Oh yeah! I was a single black and childless young man. I told her I knew she wasn’t from Africa but her ancestors was from the Continent. She insist I was wrong. Long story she tried to call herself liking me with a bastard child. And when I rejected her advances she told a white manager that I was flirting with other women on the floor. He called himself trying to tell me that he would be watching me. I told him to “F off” and he could take that Bullshyt job and stick it up his @ss. And walked out…..

[@superafrikanmedialabs8237]

That's very typical.

[@tw82rone5]

All I'mma say is I'm done divest from America & Black America all together death to the Negropean BW or BM in general F whited out BS with only a mere outer melanin coating remaining & thats sadly it. Which is sadly actually Black America in general on average

[@Bxconnect]

Chez: I think for many of us, it’s a lack of options. If bw had the options Asian, Hispanic and white women have, we wouldn’t be having any of these conversations. I’m in Bangkok where the world comes to play and maybe find a mate. Asian women don’t ‘talk’ divesting. They don’t have to.

[@triggered3625]

Very intelligent observation.

[@ClapperDan]

Black women in the US do have options. The US is one of the few places where there are men from various culture, many of the single. The problem isn't not having option, the problem is not being an option, and I believe that's the primary issue. 1:4 US black women are married and that's to anyone, not just black men

[@Bxconnect]

@@ClapperDan ‘not being an option’ for those men, means they don’t have options. Given the choice of death or death, life isn’t an option. Single by choice, or single b/c of your choices is still single. Semantics be damned.

[@SolitudeofaTiger]

Notice its always dating out. Doesn’t count unless Conner puts a ring on your finger at the altar sweetie. Other than that you’re just something to do until a ww comes along.

[@davidisrael1165]

Yeah, yeah we been hearing for 60 years. It's our fault. And thank God you BW have found the solution. However, I just left the International arrival at LAX and "ALL" of the single BW returning had the worst (Resting "B") faces, and I couldn't help thinking "how did that trip workout?". But you go girl, and I mean "GO" we good. Shalom

[@technopirate304]

😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@virgilwilliams8018]

BIG FACTS!

[@darkpower6406]

And who were melanated men traumatized by in their childhood? BLACK females! SYSBM AND PASSPORT BROS!

[@primeva7579]

Why don't bw just admit they choose poorly on purpose when it comes to bm? They choose poorly when they date out too, but they try to use bm as an excuse to date out when bm don't care. The way bm talk about dating out you would think they were successful at doing so lol

[@smokindatshit8268]

Tired of being men in the relationship? Naw, they choose that role themselves They great us with negativity and combativeness And great others with open arms and an open mind 😂😂😂

[@dustinmaxwell259]

"Tired of being men" as they cheer for Woman King . A film in which the women become men.

[@cocolokoflacco]

greet*

[@lavellelee5734]

​@@dustinmaxwell259🤣🤣🤣🤣💯

[@davidsauce5051]

Trust and believe it’s nothing stopping black women from dating outside their race. I wish them the best! The only way the blaming and putting the black men down will stop is if black men go to where they’re appreciated! Be free black men! Travel and enjoy life

[@tashdavidson4046]

Yes, there is something stopping them. The object of their affection is not reciprocal.

[@gueundhrb1702]

@@tashdavidson4046explain I don’t understand

[@bobd7871]

You Told NO LIES, The Brothers don't Care because we Have More Success in Dating and Marrying Out at a Higher Rate than Black Women, it's a Reason that Black Women are the Least Desired to Be with, Black Men are only behind White Men, So We GOOD Over Here 👍

[@rockfresh5359]

Why are they bashing BM to justify they're love for 🛏️🔧 inching

[@HeruUrAusar]

Date and Marry who you want to marry, just don't be a hypocrite about it and finger wag at the other sex doing it too. If you feel you need to leave your ethnic group to find love, then do it. This talking down about the opposite sex in your ethnic group when you do not even seek a relationship with them exposes your own self-hatred.

[@urbancommute5239]

Bw only spew this bs because she's on the same racist western soil that bred her bedwenching nature, in truth she's at home.smh

[@Zulu-Lemon]

Also divorce rate in the white community is at an all time high and marriages in the white community is at an all time low.

[@williamljonesjr6695]

And these are the same ABW that try to tell us Passport Kings not to announce our departure when we go overseas to find our Fit, Friendly, and Agreeable Wives 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@technopirate304]

I’m an HBCU alum. I graduated over 30 years ago to provide context to what I’m about to say. Once during undergrad a female student in a gender mixed conversation felt the need to blame BM for BW dating out. All of us male and female looked at her like she was nuts. Think about it - enrolled at a Black college and complaining that she needs to date out because BM are horrible. 1) she couldn’t read the room and 2) she claims NO man on campus was good enough for her. After laughing, I replied “If you want to be with a white man go do that. You don’t need to blame us for that?” This foul attitude has been going on for a long time.

[@ct4470]

HBCU's are the worst

[@dman221]

They blame US….the Enslaved Black Men for not using OUR bared hands against MASSA’s guns and weapons to save her from having the desires to sneak into MASSA’s bedroom at night and play house slave girl with whips and all. And also wanting to bare MASSA’s bastard children. Yeah….it’s been going on for CENTURIES.

[@YungEmperor305]

They always use black men as scapegoats to justify their obsession with the YT man bruh it’s insane. They’ve always wanted to date out they just pretend to be race loyal

[@langston122]

You must be white.

[@dman221]

@@YungEmperor305 : BINGO!!!! Their only problem was the feeling never been mutual. Why would a white Man with any substance want to give up an Mercedes (WW) for an outdated KIA (BW)…with a couple of car seats in the back?!!! 😆😆😆😆😆 The DELUSION is real with them. Oh well, let them gathered amongst each other and enforce each other Stupidity. They have been doing that for decades and decades. To the point you really have to start asking yourself. Are they being medicated with drugs or do they have the lowest IQ on the planet. I am leaning to both…Medication and Low IQ.

[@laughsinmisogyny8827]

So does she understand that BLK men are tired?

[@Infinity-mb8lm]

😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@k.leathal3206]

They keep forgetting they are the ones's raising these Black Men. Something New, would be to give custody to the Fathers. Stop participating in the Lost Value System.

[@amandlaawethu1538]

She has a selfish narrative & she blamed blk mn, once again. She said nothing about the system or her own issue. It was everyone elses

[@tonybowie9317]

She is delusional

[@charlesdorsey7594]

Years ago had to check this sister....she was saying WITH A SMILE, " the racism has stripped y'all of everything your name, your culture, your manhood your language!" I waited for her to family and I asked, " WHEN DID YOU GET A PASS?!!!!

[@cerromeceo]

Black people have to understand that you are not the first pick of other Men/Women from different communities. Their Men/Women comes first. I don't believe in dating out cause I see bigger than myself. I understand passing down land, wealth, and resources to the next generation of black people. That's the number one reason

[@ConsciousRebel85]

You need to have a culture that embodies the values that will help create that wealth to gain land and resources to pass down first. Black people have fallen and it won't be fixed. It has gone on too long and when the average women in a community doesn't respect their men, then it's a wrap. Black men and women want different things. It's been spiraling downward for 50 years. It doesn't matter if it's two black people when their values don't align with each other. Most bw don't have the same values that I do, but I do like it when I come across a bw that does. I'm not going to pass up a women from another race or community just to stick it out in hopes of finding the right bw. If black people in the U.S. disappear it's not a big deal because there's way more black people on this planet. There likely won't be many more generations of black people left in the states. We have negative wealth, we're in a dying economy and the world is currently going through a global economic reset. I hear very few black people who are focused and aware of this. The 4th industrial revolution is going to destroy tens to hundreds of millions of lives in the West. We're still busy fighting a gender war between bm and bw. Maybe the best thing is for the bm and bw who want to be together to do that, but the rest probably need to just walk away from each other.

[@malachithemomentous2175]

​@@ConsciousRebel85 I rarely see black Americans talk about geopolitics

[@cerromeceo]

@WormsInTheRain Nigga I'm not reading all that. It's up to you as an individual to change all that

[@derekm4819]

I disagree. Having been to 47 countries, plus many cities and states around the U.S. Black American are the most desired guys on the planet besides white guys who many (but not all) women seek for perceived money and or privilege.

[@tw82rone5]

​@@cerromeceo Sad part is you wrote a whole paragraph just to basically say you are ProBlack for real real & not for play. When did being able to claim problack with a nonblack mate/spouse come into style. Now I gotta gangbang on my fellow American skinfolks Death to the Negropean who is already mentally & spiritually whited the F out with only a melanated outer coating remaining. Which is sadly a nice % of Black America in general both BW & BM. And I don't give a sh*t who is offended if the shoe fits you know the rest don't get mad at me look in the mirror & get mad at your damn self mad enough to unEuropeanwhitewash yo self mentally & spiritually

[@oRuTRa45]

"The only way we can put other races on a pedestal is if you don't know them." 🗝️

[@ChezCharde]

Bingo

[@lavellelee5734]

Big facts

[@gabrielmeth4844]

The desire to be Ms. Anne is on display.

[@edwardcrudup3526]

You want to be treated like a woman start acting like one😑

[@musaazakar7393]

Ain't nobody gonna put up with that madness

[@donduchiee6923]

“Only satisfying YOU” she’s selfish .. the sense of unity/community is gone. She won’t admit it but she is aiding in the destruction of the black family by divesting like this. It is what it is.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

they all are

[@sharronewilson4761]

They still using that old lame talking point and now can easily be debunked because the excess to information

[@dolladollabillyall2305]

Her taking points were disingenuous. She was slick dissing

[@ClassicStang]

Guess finger talker does not realize you can only date people who want to DATE YOU. That is your level.

[@thedarkwarriorperspective7475]

I'm tired of them. At 52, it's time for me to give up and understand that we've exhausted all of our means. I'm done. I quit!

[@justinwebb01]

She’s so tired, she can’t change that smoke detector battery!

[@enjoyingthedecline4319]

Smoke detector beeping = Chronically single

[@cocolokoflacco]

the godfather stay on point

[@sBaby-xi8en]

This is interesting, black grandma and black momma pressure their daughters to bring home a light skin baby

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

they should teach them how to find a KEEP a man who will eventually propose.

[@mr_knowitall]

She talks like BW grew up in different environments than BM, and they're immune to the dysfunction. They need to stop searching far and wide for reasons to date out. You don't need an excuse. Just do it.

[@NWO-v1c]

Make sure you leave the bonnet and the colored hair at home 😂🤣

[@Anukinihun]

Black men she is talking about are raised by single black women so she saying single black mothers are the ones destroying black men. She said it, not me.

[@BGSIBMOR]

Nobody cares. Swirl in good health

[@ninjaperson]

"we'll help you pack" - David Carroll

[@Infinity-mb8lm]

This is one aspect of BW many moons ago en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Free_people_of_color

[@robinsanders431]

What’s really messed up today is that I find Modern Black Women telling us black men to accept them for who they are. They want us to be patient with everlasting love as well as accepting there traumas and understanding them. Unfortunately MBW refuse to be patient with us, listen to us even go as far as shame us for our traumas which equals to the failure of understanding Black Men. This is terrible

[@zonedoutentertainment4778]

Oh, if you people only knew the power of the greatest team ever, the black man and woman. I don’t promote mixing but I understand why men do it. As for women, I’m sorry, it’s like you guys are built to make stupid decisions. You don’t learn much from experiences and you blame everyone else but yourselves. If you go after only drug dealers do you expect a stress free peaceful life? If you see a guy with 3 baby mommas, what do you think, he’s making good life choices? A lot of our women are superficial. I’m with a woman, a black woman I would not trade for the world, one who is feminine, cooks, cleans, every damn thing without my asking. Do you think she was my first choice, no, I like thicker women but I realize a trend with thicker women. So what did i do, run from black women all together? No, I started to look for personalities and mannerisms and stopped looking at the outside. You may think she probably ugly but, far from it and to think I nearly missed out because of some superficial shit. Do Better

[@Ordinary_Operator]

Contradictory. First she claims women are taught to love/date within their races, then she says she wasn’t taught to look at skin color ? Which is it ?

[@Curtchrisdagod]

Can't believe anything them brawds say.

[@Ordinary_Operator]

@@Curtchrisdagod True. They always talk about being taught this and that. But we all know when women get a certain age they are not listening to anybody giving wise counsel at all. Everything parents have taught, every lesson learned, every bit of sound advice goes out the window in lieu of attention and their feelings.

[@godzilla6490]

AND STILL NO ONE IS TALKIN ABOUT THAT WEBSITE GHETTO GAGGERS??????????????????? WTF

[@Mia-ey9yr]

No one talks about that because it doesn't represent true bw/wm couples. My husband and i may role play but it's nothing like GG. Keep dreaming

[@empowerment_007]

​@@Mia-ey9yr 😂😂😂

[@BigBlaze772]

​@Mia FOH🔧🛏🦝 WE'RE TIRED IF SEEING AND HEARING YOU🐕‍🦺....GO MAKE SOME MAYO SANDWICHES FOR BRAD 304...

[@godzilla6490]

@@BigBlaze772 EXACTLY

[@YungEmperor305]

@@Mia-ey9yr oh no that fetish shit between white men and black women is very common. Remember the massa challenge on tiktok that BW participated in? 😂 it’s pathetic how BW will humiliate themselves for the amusement of a YT man

[@cpthetrucker9067]

That's why The British Monarchy inbred so much.

[@LoLo-ir7fd]

The most ironic thing is she said black men would not talk to Mary and grew up in a world of trauma. And if you look at the statistics most black men are raised in a single-parent home by the black woman. So where does the trauma come from? You guessed it the black woman. They love to say the father is not in the home and the only parent is the mother. Will that would mean this is the result of black women. As far as I'm concerned I wish a lot of them would do do it. I absolutely agree date out as much as you possibly can because that allows the black man to experience women of other races also and it will help us. Maybe clean our race out of the undesirables. I am tired of the boss chick I am tired of the argumentative disrespectful woman. So if the white man can get her to do right. Have at it but in the meantime while he's busy with her I would like to date out to his women. Because I am so tired of the boss chick attitude. I want to try something different so bad I'm so tired of the independent black woman that could do it all herself. Far as I'm concerned he can take as many as he want.

[@ClassicStang]

grew up in a world of trauma. Pay for some therapy with that weave and nail money. That is your problem. Not ours.

[@LoLo-ir7fd]

@@ClassicStang exactly exactly

[@sBaby-xi8en]

The average black child is surviving not thriving. Black mothers are very damaging

[@nonyabiz12]

She points out that a lot of brothas are traumatized but didn't go deep into why that is.

[@axxelfoley3304]

Lady you should be tired of yourselves leave you won't be missed this is beyond mending the divide between black men/women

[@jakaryreason8696]

One thing I can say about bw is that they keep pressure on bm. Probably making us better mates for other races of women at this point.I guess being nice coupled with everlasting criticism is too,too much to ask for.

[@BjtheLawyer_]

What’s further ironic is a bw can exercise their option to date other groups, but, bm get demonized for doing the same 😂

[@stevepatrick8734]

The whole black 'women are tired' nonsense is getting monotonous. As if they are a completely different entity that can exist without the black man. You did not create yourself. You will only obliterate yourself.

[@FBA_Ambassad0r]

I listened to this twice, and noticed two things: A) the young lady in the review video did not mention having a non-Black man for herself, and B) her smoke detector was chirping in the background the entire video, which to me signifies she has no man.

[@ChezCharde]

Is a chirping smoke detector an instant revealer of a woman's marital status? lol

[@edavis8560]

You’re tired of the role YOU CHOSE to walk in because of all the things (mostly material) YOU wanted for YOURSELF and how quickly YOU wanted it! That’s what sacrifice is. Love also does not have a price tag! Most ladies today chose to completely ignore that.

[@kimscott5552]

These women don't realize that they're not going to be first choice when the high value yt men wants to get married and have a family.

[@dustinmaxwell259]

But he will snash and pass them around. They're cool with that as long as those men are yt.

[@sBaby-xi8en]

BW when dating out are taught to NOT VET wm which is why they all tell you they are dating a billionaire when they do get with a WM.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

NO MAN gonnan choose them first when he can get a feminine woman to follow his program. too much headache dealing with black women. I am a black man.

[@jimmyroute2085]

Please interview me. I come from a 2 parent home, grew up in one house , went to church 3 times a week, Did nightly devotionals, went to a predominantly Caucasian private school. I am in a high level career and very accomplished. According to this woman thought process a guy like me should have no problem finding a BW since she says men from non traditional backgrounds are not ready. I have a counter to add as someone who was prepared to me a husband and father.

[@dustinmaxwell259]

She'd never take you , guy. These so called "Divestors:" are just thirsty for Brad. That's ALL there is to it and it's nothing new, they've been doing it for centuries. 20% of the kids within the black community have non black dads.

[@jimmyroute2085]

@@dustinmaxwell259 It is very sad that the women of today are clamoring for them. My mom shared stories of having to run from them as a girl to be prevent being r%#ed

[@dustinmaxwell259]

@@jimmyroute2085 I heard some sad stories from elderly BW. As you said, it seems that back in the day, WM would go around graping BW as they pleased. But omg, will these so called "Divestors" die in defense of them today. They are PERFECT MEN. They would NEVER harm a BW ! Nevermind how some BW are getting kidnapped/enslaved/ deleted by Brad in these modern times. A "Divestor" won't hear any of it.

[@aakim58]

Honestly I don’t think Blackmen really care anymore. Things are too far gone and Blackwomen at this point are saying anything. Just quietly go if that’s how you really feel.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

facts!

[@marleneschultz9092]

Who said we were not traumatized as black women. She never said we were not.

[@sakanouyenotamuramaro7718]

So if you or black women are tired then go and date someone from another race or ethnic group cause the men that were tired have already moved on thus the red pill men and the passport bros🤷‍♂️

[@hr9336]

She was “taught” how to swap out a smoke alarm battery either.

[@winningwave4313]

she said single mothers shouldve taught the men and fathers active in their life and they tired of being the men. well drop the careers, go back to putting men 1st and staying out of zaddy courts. and no more wanting to focus on money. problem solved

[@cmearl2009]

My mom told us when we young “I don’t care who you marry but don’t bring home any kids”

[@stephen74gc]

On the first lady. She talking about yte men. Watching Lean On Me. And the smoke detector is steady beeping. This poor woman confused. LOL

[@technopirate304]

She should ask the Daberge family about how their W father treated them and their mother.

[@dnice6120]

I feel sorry for today's single bm, you will neverrrr be able to deal with today's bw. We have the worst women to deal with on the planet, they simply refuse to take accountability for anything that they do. I'm married to a bw, but I got her yrs ago, these bw of today simply ain't it.

[@tonybowie9317]

Mrs. Charde let’s have the woman making the comments on your show with me. Please!!

[@Mrk3lly]

They've been preaching this dating out movement for awhile now, it seems they can't find happiness outside black men either. All they do is complain about men in general not messing with them. Welp not my problem.

[@jayjay7978]

If love has no color, then stop hating on and bashing your own men

[@nonyabiz12]

So she's saying she wants to be a submissive wife?🤔 Men that are serious about marriage aren't looking for combative women.

[@anthonysmith4649]

White men date out and black women are there last option there white men first option are Asian women Hispanic women not black women Brad is not checking for Keyshia

[@YungEmperor305]

Exactly bruh. That’s why the marriage rates between white men and black women are extremely low

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Pure projection. No one is mad that she or any other BW want to date out. That's why she made the post. No one cared so the next step is to SCREAM it on social media in hopes she'll get pushback. It's a free country. Go where you are appreciated.

[@chrisrussellca]

Black woman is tired because the momma didn't teach them..... makes sense

[@factsnotfeelings3247]

15:51 "...alot of people [she mean black men] are stuck on that racism issue..." She say this now but will will make a quick u turn when a racist cop whoop her ass at a traffic stop.

[@quantumsolace5864]

Like I've said before and I'll say it again; gentlemen, we don't have to say or do anything. Their constant self-loathing and narcissistic pride of self, indirectly says it all. The hole that they have dugged for themselves, it is to deep to even see the surface of light. Hell; it makes me think about an old fable of a kid crying wolf. Now they have no choice but to become accountable; for a Great Atonement, is at hand.

[@unclejesse4271]

This is true. Social media is displaying this shit in masse and a lot of these women are probably scaring away good white men that might be into it because they are freaked out by how weird black women are acting

[@wesleyhillard4491]

The initial woman was so insulting to black men. But she implies she's not. She said nothing profound. She gave it up to other cultured men but said black women are tired as a result of us black men. Duh, black men are not tired?? She said that's why others get married and buy houses before us. Do u think racism had anything to do with it?? She is trying to be crafty in her insults. We have heard it all before. Yaw black women need to make better choices in choosing your mates. Again we've heard all the insults before. Passport Life is on. We got next....

[@keithwright9093]

Dating out isn't always the answer it's not gonna change anything or who you are some one once said if your garbage then you will attract garbage

[@charlesdorsey7594]

... Not laying my life on the line protecting this!!!!

[@joejoerunya8908]

Gotta run to that white zaddy

[@minervainri2]

After seeing what I've seen online plus my personal experiences living in different cities and states around the u.s., i think it's safe to say that a lot of them(bw) feel this way and have felt this way. I personally would go as far as to say the majority of them feel this way. They deal with black men out of convenience.

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

I would say 1/3 maybe but majority? Idk man, though I do sense a lot of BW want a unique dynamic with Bm where they may want all the same benefits of men but none of the responsibility. In short best of both genders.

[@minervainri2]

@@HorizonMediaGaming You feel how you feel i know what I've witnessed. I could have said all due to the fact that all the black women I've known through my years have had an infinity for pale skin. I say most because i know they all can't be that way, benefit of the doubt. Where does this unique dynamic you speak of come from? Not trying to debate just curious.

[@HorizonMediaGaming]

@@minervainri2 I genuinely believe some Black women hate Black men and those who love Black men we should champion.

[@superafrikanmedialabs8237]

​@@HorizonMediaGamingthat's the best we Can do.

[@minervainri2]

@@HorizonMediaGaming The woman in the video specifically said she loves black men while advocating for black women to date out lol. See what i mean? Case and point. Stay safe and may the creator look out for you brother.

[@theresidentteacher2438]

The PROJECTION and GASLIGHTING that constantly happens AIN'T WORKING ANYMORE...."It's Black Men WHO ARE TIRED". and black women are SCARED, but will DOUBLE DOWN🤦🏾‍♂️

[@VR-gs9hd]

The invention of the camera and social media ("modernity") gave no one the right to self-obsess. Go ahead and develop unrealistic superficial standards for happiness at your own risk. No one owes you a thing and none of them sees the lifelong regret coming from poor impulse control.

[@parkboi3800]

Potato head with a chest tattoo? Hard pass

[@thedadgeek4793]

Tired of what exactly??

[@NB-yu4lj]

They’re tired of chasing thugs over and over and choosing to have kids with them over and over

[@sunniblacc78]

Who cares she'll be back!

[@busyrand]

Situps...

[@MultiDiceman]

Tired of not being able to get the niche BM they want to commit to them and somehow think non BM, even in their own opinion are of higher value will somehow view and pedestalize them over their own. Wish em luck at least they are being vocal so BM can avoid them

[@theoriginal5371]

She won't feel as tired if she turns her TV volume down in the background and change the battery in her beeping smoke detector.

[@freddybear5106]

LOL, we not rushing to be on child support, jail,prison, shoot outs anymore! !! DUECES

[@NWO-v1c]

She needs to be looking in the mirror talking this s*** to herself. I see one too many signs that says this is not what you take home to the family 😉

[@qqqcalls]

"You should only be satisfying you" Why would anyone marry someone with that mentality? If someone is indifferent or hostile to their own family, they will not make a good wife.

[@Anukinihun]

Asian women are leaving China, Japan, Korea etc in droves especially in China because they are treated like second class citizens

[@antares3097]

Yep! I'm traumatized; however my three sisters that i live in the same home doesn't...🤔 ' makes sense right.

[@lawreecefluellen4872]

The least desired demographic is really arrogant.

[@triggered3625]

Nall just delusional