How can I stop the cycle of sinning (eg : P*rnography) & repenting and find khushu in prayer?

[@elkapitan75]

Masha Allah beautiful answer. For me it was going to masjid almost everyday and making friends there Alhamdulillah. Sheikh and many people have advised the same thing: Don't be alone and always fill your time with something beneficial. Take up free online Islamic courses. That itself insha Allah will fill your time and you benefit as well. Find a Quran teacher in the masjid, anything related to Islam. And stop watching REGULAR movies coz that will lead you to having sinful thoughts. Even the regular TV shows nowadays have many sexual elements. As sheikh says: Cut the cause altogether. May Allah guide us and make us steadfast.

[@YouVsYou.123]

Thank you my brother for this beneficial comment. It sounds very motivating that you accomploshed it, allahumma barik. May Allah accept your tawba. And may Allah help us to quit our bad habits. Ameen.

[@EighteenthHope]

This is the best dua for repentance "Allahumma Anta rabbi la illaha illa annt, Khalaqatani wa Ana abduka, wa anna ala ahdika wa wa dika mas-tata'tu autho bika Min shari Ma sana'tu. Abu'u laka bini matika alaiya Wa abu'u laka bidhanbi fagfir lee fa innahu la yagfiru adhdhhunuba illa anta." If it helped you then please pray for my guidance to Allah.. May Allah guide me and help me to leave all kind of sins.. ameen

[@anikatahsin9940]

Ameeen

[@amanshaikh5241]

May Allah guide you and guide us all and protect us from all haram things aameen

[@SERIOUSLEE774]

this is my experience. After years and years addicted to porn. I do fasting and repent countlessly after doing it. Asking God for guidance. Its full of up and down. And now finally paid of, he listens. He can give you the result with unimaginable ways

[@Wyatt07]

Plz gimme some personalised advice bro

[@arkifex7514]

@@Wyatt07 Don't touch the phone or computer unless you absolutely have to. Keep yourself around respectable people so that you have shame, like your parents or some good friends. Don't use weird social media because a lot of stuff is hyper-sexualized there.

[@edmonddantes6817]

@@Wyatt07 Sit down for 30 mins and focus on istighfar. Inhale slowly, say astaghfirullah, make sure your thinking "I seek forgiveness of Allah", then exhale your breathe and then say "wa atubu ilay" and think "and to You I return in repentance and regret". Every time you think of something besides your istaghfar, imagine the thought disappearing into blackness and slowly breath and go back to istighfar. This will train your mind to be in control. I had issues with this technique because there is no hadith confirming it but it is definitely haram to commit this sin. It helps soo much subhanallah Listen to "Sufficient Answer" by Qalam podcast. The episodes are free. It is about a Muslim asking Imam Ibn Al-Qayyim about his homosexual sins and how he can stop. The imam writes an entire book on how. The book is called Jawab Al-Kafi (Sufficient Answer) or The Disease and the Cure. It was written several hundreds of years ago. Remember that you will always be an addict no matter how long your clean and that shaythan will give up one day because you keep turning back to Allah. Trust me. Its a war of attrition. Eventually you won't crave anymore but must be vigilante of the small things that will lead you back. Fight the long fight no matter how many times you fail because your hereafter is in the balance.

[@JustHxzim]

I am not giving up, brother thank you

[@userigubv]

Should I give up too brother. Look I'm doing it again again again. Give me advice please

[@AereForst]

Islam is a river of Power, Light, Energy and Meaning because of the Truth of Allah. So glad I embraced this religion all those years ago.

[@auntiesemite9295]

Alhamdulillah Brother, I also reverted 8 years ago and thank Allah for guiding us when He let others go astray.

[@taufiqrl]

May Allah ﷻ make it easy for us to practice Islam

[@parthasarathy7131]

When we stay close to Allah and seek His protection, we are under His care, which not only shields us from harm but also strengthens us to avoid sins out of gratitude and mindfulness of His mercy. Alhamdulillah

[@nawawwow]

Love it, may Allah guide me and us to be true muslim.

[@muhammadhmusthafa3545]

My advice would be let us Muslims stop Social Media for Entertainment! To those unmarried young Muslims who want to stop cycle of sinning and repenting it is impossible to you to use Social Media for timepass and getaway with it unscathed! Quran Tilawat and Adhkar is more worthy in our endeavor for khair dunya wal akhira!

[@muhammadshafiqismail8119]

Yeah. My mind speechless about your advice.

[@bashehu]

I also realised this realised that social media is the trigger for all these

[@youngjr1999]

Beautiful advice brother❤

[@Sambasaïd]

Yes, social media is very negative.

[@Sambasaïd]

@@bashehu so much girls that doesn’t cover awra etc.

[@adozahradeen9928]

Masha ALLAH May Allah guide us to the straight path and grant us Jannah as our final abode....Ameen

[@DawoodAbdulJabeen]

Alhamdilillah, a lot of times we dont feel khushuu' in any good actions we do, and we get sad and doubtful, but the secret is, KEEP ON DOING DOING SALAAH AND GOOD ACTIONS. Ultimately, ALLAH will reward you and will put pleasure in deen for you, JUST MAKE A DECISION, THAT YOU WILL DIE TRYING, AND NOTHING GONNA BREAK YOUR SPIRIT.

[@syedlifts23]

Porn is far more addicting than the most addictive drugs. Sheikh explained it in the most simple yet the most effective way to quit. Though i would add to his point that seeing what is haram on computer has more privacy than on phones since you can position your computer where it is seen. Phone you can easily lock your bedroom door and you can take it anywhere with you, such as bedroom, washroom, any other rooms that have locks and no one can see you, making you more inclined to see filth than on computer.

[@Sharfaiz]

How to cure addiction to Sins? . If I can use three words to explain the cure for sins (or lust or any addiction or sin), it is the remembrance of Allah. The solution looks so simple that you may ignore it. But, I repeat-it is nothing but remembrance. When the devil whispers, remember Allah. . And if an evil suggestion comes to you from Satan, seek refuge in Allāh. Indeed, He is Hearing and Knowing. - Sura Araf, verse 200. . Indeed, those who fear Allah - when an impulse touches them from Satan, they remember [Him] and at once they have insight. - Sura Araf, verse 201. . Remember Allah in your heart, practice it. Remember Him in your salat. Read the Quran, Understand it. . Remembrance of Allah is a habit. It may take time, maybe months, or more than that, but don’t give up.

[@ImReckless-kb8jt]

it is the persons intention. Make sure that the intention in all your actions is to please Allah, and strive against your nafs on a daily basis. If the intention is correct then it will weaken the desires. And remember Allah often by doing the acts of worship like dhikr, making the salah on time fasting, making dua etc. For the men praying in the masjid. All of this increases the believer in iman. But all of the actions must be made with the intention to do what is pleasing to Allah. I hope this is beneficial to whoever sees it.

[@ysfkrwn7095]

Very well advice, Brother Thank you

[@Strangerinthisworld19]

سُبْحَانَكَ اللَّهُمَّ رَبَّنَا وَبِحَمْدِكَ اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِي Translation: "Glory is to You, O Allah, our Lord, and all praise is to You. O Allah, forgive me."

[@mahmudteymurov439]

I always amazed by Sheikh, he is reading hurts. i love him for the sake of Allah!! MasheAllah Vallahi!

[@akidaabdulhakim9560]

Mashaallah impressed with the answer!

[@NabeelKhan-lx2ly]

Mashallah the brother Mufftee offers really practical advise to those of us who have to work with Computers

[@betuldede4829]

May Allah guide us all Dear Sheik. May Allah be pleased with you. May Allah guide us all. Ameen

[@m.tayyubbaig1581]

Cutting the means is the best way of getting rid of watching illicit films which affect the brain of humans. I fully agree with the Sheikh.

[@abubakarminshawy9690]

Wollahy brothers and sisters marriage is very vital especially when it comes to protecting self against immorality. May Allah make marriage easy for everyone. With Allah's help and you striving to ask for his help the moment you are married all these temptation will naturally go away especially if you are thanking Allah enough and you take the marriage as an act of ibadaat.

[@MursalSharifi-v2c]

1.اللَّهُ أَكْبَرُ · 2. أَسْتَغْفِرُ اللَّهَ · 3. اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ السَّلاَمُ وَمِنْكَ السَّلاَمُ تَبَارَكْتَ ذَا الْجَلاَلِ وَالإِكْرَامِ

[@genjutsu3053]

Great question and Great Explanation ❤

[@almunqidhfoundation]

I pray that Allah helps me so that i get a quran reading pen so i can learn all Quran

[@mikail5891]

As salamu aleikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuhu send me ur paypal email and tell me how much u need for that

[@ibrahimabdulrazak1772]

Zikr and Quran Stop internet Use Nokia avoid smart phone Cut the means of khutuwati Shaitan Dedication in salah with kushu

[@shahrukhaltaf8286]

The best way to deal with these kinds of sinning cycle is to make habits by doings these: 1. Replace with other habit e.g if your are a single and feel lust do 10 puch ups 2.Make it difficult for you e.g if you are watching somthing on phone at specific time they put your phone away form you on that time 3. make it ugly e.g tell your self the negative affects of things you will face in coming days due to this bad activity 4. i know it sound dramatic but you have to start crying in front of Allah after every salah. May Allah forgive us and grant us the strength to fight these harmful thoughts and actions. Ameen.

[@SundusAbari]

Maasha Allah sheik

[@somaliview1746]

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركا ته one of the scholars used to say if you dont busy your soul nafs with good deeds and you are free. the Nafs will busy you with bad things and sins there is a khutba imaam kareem How to beat addiction

[@zephyteh2628]

Very brave of the brother to ask in public

[@MizukiiFr]

Astaghfirullah Rabbi Min Kulli Zambiyon Wa Atubu Ilaih x3 “I seek forgiveness of my sins from Allah who is my Lord and I repent to him”

[@muhammadusmankhan7730]

JazakALLAH khair

[@rashidseerar]

Mansha Allah ❤❤

[@hero4847]

Plan A inshallah start❤

[@JustHxzim]

I will become better, no i am better

[@cynthiahassan9839]

Good answer

[@twmoo_]

I remember when my phone was broken, I used an old phone with limited access to internet and really slow performing one. Surprisingly I feel calm. The next week I got a new phone, calmness were gone 😂 being addicted again to phone

[@Wyatt07]

What if its the thoughts? I am not kidding, i have cut off internet, when i really needed to for studies only i opened MS office and stuff for like a week and BAM i did it, didnt watch anything, didnt listen to anything, just the thoguhts engraved in my brain. May Allah make it easier for me and the muslims who are struggling with any haram addictions and grant us jannah.

[@esaar24z]

Just the whispers of shaytaan. Seek refuge in Allah and do 2 nafl

[@esaar24z]

If it goes to your mind. Also you get these thoughts and it slowly tries to convince you whatever than leaves you after you committed the sinc

[@abdullahruhan2009]

6:03 No smart phones, no stupid phones 😂

[@luhitadori]

I understand it now

[@TimNowak-f6v]

Now i found a way . Listening to Quran and listening to lectueres . I wanted to learn Quran but my whole handy Display ist Brocken i guess what iam tipping rin .

[@Altaaff123]

Those who can marry.. Marry ASAP. Half of such problems will end. Other problems may arise but not so severe.

[@infj5196]

Are u married bro?

[@leylasahal2294]

Please brothers and sisters increase in istighfar and read baqarah daily

[@jakejad4427]

Hes so right

[@qwe213wed]

One of the way stop sinning the sins that you are on the cyle of sinning and repenting is Dont do that sin when shaitaan says "do it in this time and ask allah's forgiveness later and stop it permenently". Allah is most forgiving but dont do any sin with the thought of "Allah is most forgiving and Allah will forgive".

[@thescythe4507]

One more point to add:- Always imagine when you are about to sin that Allah is watching. Imagine you about to commit a sin and you think, Allah is directly looking at me to reward me while I am thinking if doing such an heinous act.

[@IIIISai]

Mmm

[@radityomuhamad2526]

1:35 the question

[@DontOpenThisChannel]

You want it to stop? The sinning? The reason you are commiting is because of lack of fear of Allah. And why is that? Because you have denied the day of repayment by denying the ayats of Allah. Denying day of repayment means adding something or subtracting something from your set of believes about Day of repayment as well as intensity or having yaqeen on those believes. For example: Saying Allah is merciful or He can forgive me if He wants but the question is will He? There's a difference between what He can and what He will. Do you think you are superior to others that if you live behaving in a certain way from which you deserve 🔥 and Allah gonna be unjust just for you? Haven't you read Surah Infitar? or you just listen to some "Islamic" misleading content and just believe all of that while ignoring Quran? As for saying He is merciful, what about intense in giving punishment and other attributes of Allah? Why are you fooling yourself? If Allah were that merciful without limit than no one would enter 🔥 but majority gonna enter it and yeah it's our fault. Repent now because we don't have any other choice you can't just live your life the way you want thinking you will be forgiven in the end or will be given a good death. You will die the way you live. So when you set of believe about Day of repayment gets fixed only then you will have fear of Allah that will be the motivation for your good behavior otherwise keep fooling yourself like the people of Surah Hadid. General reminder to everyone including me (not talking anything about the questioner), read Quran fully and see for yourself the wisdom of it if you doubt.

[@abdelrahmanalsaid3630]

He clearly feels Allah which is why he keeps repenting. All humans sin so with your logic everyone denies the ayat of Allah and doesn't fear them. Also yes with tawbah Allah forgives everything. You are in no way helpful with this comment calling him a fool and a deniamer of the ayat of Allah if he commits one sin which is the nature of humans.

[@UdamT_T]

i don't understand you sin does that mean you lack of fear of allah? does that mean you have denied the day of repayment? does that mean you deny the ayats of allah? cmon man we all fall into sins that what makes us human you are not perfect no one is stop doing this non sense we all sin the best of us are those who repent feels like this guy is trolling not serious

[@RafiKhan-oh2os]

My brother, addiction isn't easy like other sins. Remember, there was a Sahabi who was addicted to alcohol. You and I wouldn't dare to say that he had the qualities you described. He also struggled to get rid of his addiction. And Prophet (PBUH) confirmed that he loved Allah and his messenger.

[@syedlifts23]

Yes the fear of Allah is not sufficient enough to stop before doing the dirty deed in the first place, though at least repentance is done after. However, the idea of denying the ayats of Allah might or might not apply to the brother because a brother that goes through this does his best to do ibadat but he still falls into the trap since shaytan is very careful and planning how to make him fall into the trap. I would say following the sunnah of the prophet muhammad SAW will instantly transform the lifestyle and make one lose the desire of wanting to go near that filth. However, shaytan will try to make one miss watching that filth and he will make one feel a sense of nostalgia and whisper into your heart to take a look just to see if it does anything to that individual. Quitting an addiction is a lifelong journey especially Porn since it is wired to our biological urge to have children and thats where it damages men and women. Other than that though, you are right in everything else.

[@OneTruthOnly1]

The Prophet SAW said literally "Every son of Adam is a sinner"...

[@Abdullah_yunus_Farid]

its easy!GET MARRIED!But marriage isn't so easy! That is key problem!

[@najibahlassiter7573]

Marriage is not the answer... If you are doing this you have a problem... The only thing you will do is introduce.Filthy habits to your spouse because you would not be satisfied with her.. Marriage is very easy when two people do what they are supposed to do and remind each other of allah. I don't understand why people say it is so hard. Men are to provide for their wise are to care for their husbands.It's very simple... Men get mad and start projecting anger towards their wise because they have to go out and do laborous jobs to make her life comfortable.. They come home and because something might be out of place or one child might be crying man Assume that the wife doesn't do anything and that she is just relaxing all day long.While he is working hard.... This is the same attitude kain had😢... And so they become jealous of their wise and start neglecting her giving her no money to upkeep herself.And make making demands of her and ha constantly.Have it a bad attitude... All of this is due to jealousy.... Men forget that wives have to prepare themselvesthat only physically , but mentally for them to come home... Imagine throwing a birthday party for someone everyday... It would become a daunting task... Similarly, this is what a good wife does she perfumes herself She cleans the house.She has the food and cooked and the children in order After running herself raggedy doing there's.She's been.She then goes into overtime when the husband walks to the Dora.Make sure he has everything he needs.... So when a woman takes a break.Or something fall short... Men immediately become disgranted... Most men work a five day week... And their wife worked a seven day week... Every day with overtime...

[@justendeavor]

@@najibahlassiter7573so masturbation addition will make the sex eith your wife not interesting anymore, right?

[@Ayoushti]

@@najibahlassiter7573wow wow how beautifully you have explained this

[@zephyteh2628]

I have made the habit of leaving my phone and laptop downstairs. It has helped . In sha Allah it helps someone else. Tiktok, Facebook, Instagram, Reddit all full of fitna

[@KassiniKZ]

Jazakallah!

[@morshedzim8928]

Jajakallah

[@constructing_akhirah]

read more and more salah , do charity , the more good deed you do , the less time you have for sins and in the last its all about more good deeds than bad deeds , so don't loose hope by the will of Allah you will succeed and do not forget to ask help from Allah

[@hafidzahmad4540]

For me, every form of worship needs to be forced at first, everytime you feel the slightest urge to get close to Allah, push it.

[@zephyteh2628]

Shouldn't it be every child of Adam? What about the daughter? Is it only son?

[@momorin-e8o]

Where can i watch full video ?

[@ismailmugume9173]

Even if we don't use social media, many of us are living in non Islamic countries where women move almost naked

[@lejujacob5090]

Was the messenger the founder free of guilt? I mean from sexual perversity.?

[@rhezen_58]

How can watching a movie be sinful?

[@AishaUssi]

Watching movies can be sinful cause it shows haram stuffs like music as in beats in the movies,normalising haram relationships, showing men and women dressing inappropriately, Shirk and some makruh stuffs too .Thus tends to normalise these stuffs and deep in our minds we begin to accept them too but sincerely we Muslims are told that when we see a sin being done we have to either remove by hands ,if we are unable then by using our mouths and if we are still unable then hate them by our hearts and minds and that is indeed a sign of low iman . I believe it has opened your mind , all you have to do is sacrifice that worldly pleasure for the sake of Allah.

[@AishaUssi]

"If you leave something for the sake of Allah ,then Allah (s w) will replace it with a better one". Never feel as if you have lost by leaving the worldly pleasure but feel proud of yourself for u have won indeed .🎉

[@ThisisSnakey]

Finding a suitable partner will remove that addiction. Sadly my Parents chose me a spouse Im not happy with, and so my addiction won't stop.

[@abduljaleelsa616]

Then marry a second wife

[@ijpsolutions2483]

This is a cheap excuse brother, you have to be accountable, You are a man. You can’t blame your spouse. You need to fix it yourself

[@ThisisSnakey]

@ijpsolutions2483 I'm blaming my parents.

[@ThisisSnakey]

@@abduljaleelsa616 can't afford another marriage and kids.

[@ijpsolutions2483]

@@ThisisSnakey don’t blame anyone but yourself. You are your own person. No one is gonna change you but yourself.

[@HafizaAleeshaFatima]

Try k gunah ni kro ..Mgr agr ho gia to toba frn krre

[@manangagan115]

Masha allah .... try to stay in wuzu all the time and zikr of allah s.w.t shaitan vl stay away from you in sha allah

[@sakasulaimon-ji8bd]

ASTAGFIRULLAH

[@abrarawsaf7282]

Easy just go to saudi dance parties with asim al jaheel

[@skupsam]

fear Allah

[@ahmedsarkar5060]

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[@abz7800]

..

[@gdog8170]

yk even in english sons can also refer to the daughters too

[@gdog8170]

@@abz7800 sons of israel, does that not mean that it also points towards females as well? That kind of english

[@gdog8170]

@@abz7800 yeah, alot of rulings also apply to both, even if the hadith or verse they were mentioned in was talking about one of the two genders. Also Allah says in the Qur'an for the believers of men to lower their gaze, and also mentions for the women to lower their gaze

[@hutao.h1258]

Im a female and i struggle with this addiction

[@abz7800]

​@@hutao.h1258 if your talking about p then the only way to get out is to get married but thats very very hard in this day and age .

[@أبو-خالد-أيوب]

Get married as soon as you can. If you are single yet fast. And ask your parents to help you with the marriage

[@musicnvibes1658]

How can a neet UG student marry?😢how to control the feelings during student life.????

[@Steps-to-Ease]

​@@musicnvibes1658I can help you:)

[@shahbaazzz_179]

​@@musicnvibes1658 music is haram too so delete those

[@infj5196]

Im 31 man and still not married Thats how crappy my life is. When I was in early 20s, got a chance to get to know good amd beautiful Muslim women but my mum did not allow me to get married, she scare me about marriage life etc. Now Im committing sins almost everyday and have no more motivation for marriage. I become socially anxious, no longer interacting with friends.

[@shahbaazzz_179]

@infj5196 Sorry for u brother, you'll get over it

[@Last_Hang]

tbh I just went to a psychiatrist, told him the issue, and ge prescribed meds. Problem RESOLVED! no need to overcomplicate things

[@stefdee9162]

What ! Meds ? . Brother.. no…

[@Last_Hang]

@@stefdee9162 why? I mean they helped me so much and the doc said they weren't addictive. I mean they probably have some side effects, like sleeping too much, but y not?

[@TalhaSyedShahab]

Just get a concubine like me bro.

[@hutao.h1258]

Concubine?u mean a wife

[@TalhaSyedShahab]

@@hutao.h1258 No, please don't get married. please don't its a disappointment.

[@hutao.h1258]

@@TalhaSyedShahab well it's the only halal way to experience love

[@TalhaSyedShahab]

@@hutao.h1258 I am not teaching you about your own religion. As an Ex muslim - I refuse to teach u.

[@hutao.h1258]

@TalhaSyedShahab what?!

[@faithfulrights]

All humans are sinners! Don't talk about your sins, don't reveal your sins to anyone, Humans will repeat what they have heard about U! Only Allah will protect U, Repent to Allah, You are forgiven! Allah knows best!

[@Sambasaïd]

- Get the quran on you’re phone and read ! - Stop using social media like instagram, X and TikTok !

[@ibrahimabdulrazak1772]

Zikr and Quran Stop internet Use Nokia avoid smart phone Cut the means of khutuwati Shaitan Dedication in salah with kushu

[@ahmedsarkar5060]

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