How children develop good habits? | Urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

[@meharsharafat358]

MashAllah sir aap jasy loog es qoom k leyae Allah Tala ka tohfa hain Allah aap ko afiyat wali zindgi day sehat day

[@AwaisAliRajpot]

Sir you're my Teacher from heart ❤️

[@AsmaAsma-nd4ew]

Bht Acha sikhty hn great man hn ap

[@sayyedmdqasimrehan2141]

Most of the parents don't take raising a child as a task/job. One should take Parenting as a serious and an important assignment.

[@qamaranjum]

I am a great fan doctor sab you are superb man

[@FoziamohsinLodhi]

Dr sahab aap hmare liye mashale rah hain jazakAllah

[@waqasgood465]

Sir u r a great personality

[@javeriamohib610]

I respect u v much

[@fatimakhan7678]

You are great sir....

[@shailanadim4487]

Asslamualikum sir, Mai apki her video dekhti hun , mane apse bhut kuch sikha hai Aap plss btaiye k aftr 15 years hum apne baccho k sath kis trh rhe , kyuki mere bacche 15 and 18 k han or Hum nhi chate k humse koi bhi mistakes ho....Allah hafiz 😊 thank you

[@desisabor91]

Very nice

[@lubna8480]

7 years tk k bacon k sath aur attitude aur 7 se baray bachon k sath different hy.aik ghar main different age k bachy hain tou routine kesy set krain

[@rovaidabibi4594]

Sir I am also have this ye 7 sal tk bchy ko school na bhejaen,, sir phr Pakistani nizam e education me kia Karen,, yahan sat sal me bachy ko school le k jaen to koe admition nae krta kia karen

[@KamranKhan-qw2dg]

Agar bacha bilkul hath se nikal chuka ho bachay ko Ham kuch bi bolre he unhe asar hi na par ra ho bato ka to ese bachay ka kya kia jaye

[@suhasinijedhe1571]

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[@fazilasarfaraz4436]

Dr sahb bchy ASI ASI hrkty krty hn k jinka hmary pas jwab nh hta , unhy ktna he pyr s smjha lo lkn jb tk danto Maro NH unhy smjh nh ata

[@muhammadazeem2524]

Conclusion of Doctor Sb Saying "Eye is the Learning tool till the age of 7 instead of Ear".

[@MuhammadAli-jd2ut]

No.

[@muhammadazeem2524]

How?

[@sajidaaziz4516]

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[@muhammadazeem2524]

@@sajidaaziz4516 What U want to say?

[@mohdshahabaz6783]

For more clearly, From 0 to 7 years childrens learn by observing their surroundings and make inferences out of them about what is to be done and what is not

[@AmjadAli-wq9be]

پاکستان کا ایک ہی حل نظام محمد صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم

[@antiextremism]

Unfortunately many parents (especially fathers) think their sole responsibility is to bring as much paisa as possible to the house. Theý fail to lead by example while most mothers yell at their children to get them to do chores. Common in Pakistan, India and Bangladesh.

[@Dr-hassan-naqvi512]

Legends of legend dr javeed , king of medical world

[@mohdmairaj7562]

Dr Sahab Muhammad Mustafa “ﷺ” Ki Hadees Hai " أنا مدينة العلم، وعلي بابها، فمن أراد المدينة فليأت الباب. I am the city of knowledge and ‘Ali is the door. Whoever desires to enter the city should enter from the door.

[@properlifewithraheen]

AoA, sir im really very inspired by your videos mashallah you have such an inspirational persona sir i have a request from you can you plzz plzzz make a video on how to quit smoking coz you have a speaking power to change mind mashallah so plzz sir its a really needed video so plzz make a video on this issue plzz sir...May Allah Pak bless you

[@syedraheel9872]

Sir main job k silsily may Dubai may rehta hun, long distance relation ki waja sy meri family life may bohat c complications hen, wife k sath bhi or bachon k sath bhi, main proper time dene ki koshish karta hun, lekin phir bhi bachy meri baat ko itni importance nahi dety, wife bhi apna rona roti hy k bachy akely meri zimadari to nahi etc.. Sir mujhy mere iss issue par aik detailed video banaiye, k long distance may kesy spouses apas may behter communicate kary or relationship strong kare. Or second bachon ki tarbiyat may main kesy aik effective role play karun, kiss andaz sy bachon sy baatain karun k wo meri baat ko importance dain, because mere pass voice or video call k ilawa koi or option nahi hy.. Apki videos dekhne bohat pareshan rehta hun k kahin mere bachy mujh sy kharab na ho jain or main kal ko afsoos na karun. Or ye akle mere aik insan ka masla nahi, mera ye sawal lakhon logon ki taraf sy hy jo meri tarhan long distance relationship may hen or pardes may nokariyan kar rahe hen. Ap k jawab ka muntazir rahunga. Jazakallah 😥

[@saqibshah8586]

Respect sir Yah sari baatay tab hugi Jab parents educated hugay..... Jb parents hi educated nahi wo apnay bachay ko Kia sekhai gay..... Or

[@quratulainshiraz524]

I think ye complete video hai pareting ko samjhny k lye ..is sy zada deep video koi nahi hai meri nazar me ...Jazak Allah Dr sahab Allah pak apko iska Ajar e azeem ata farmae..R hm sb parents ko in baton par amal karne ki toufeeq ata farmae Ameen 🤗

[@nabihamubarak2284]

I did the same consequence with my son he was in kg and he wasn't eating he felt so hungry the next day from that day onwards he eats on time 😄

[@rainbowpreschoolactivityce4249]

Namaste 🙏 I am very impressed by your child development theory and got too much to learn from your all videos...stay blessed Sirji...

[@Sobiasajid16]

Very nice speach I have to become a mother like that inshallah

[@RenuSingh-hk2qv]

Assalaam u alaikum Dr. Saab. I really didn't knew anything about parenting. Have two boys aged 11 and 7, I could only say it Almighty's grace that as of now they are very good and polite kids they even share their daily stuff be it friends, strangers, school or anything. But as my elder one is going towards puberty, I stay scared of myself as I'm little strict. Could you please share some suggestions for parents like us, how to handle this transition, before we commit some regrettable talk or scolding them?

[@hirasaffi2455]

UU

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[@syedhassan4447]

Well Done. Please correct spelling error in English and insert missing word in Urdu in Thumbnail.

[@asasaseaert2636]

Sir agr 3 ya 4 Saal Ka bacha zid kare to Kia uski jar zid maan Leni chahye? Agr wo kahe mujhe Khana nhi Khana Sona nhi hai so on to hame Kia Kar a chahye? Plz btaeye GA.

[@temzart9725]

Please please please please make more vedios on parenting.

[@saqibshah8586]

Respect sir Yah sari baatay tab hugi Jab parents educated hugay..... Jb parents hi educated nahi wo apnay bachay ko Kia sekhai gay..... Or

[@abdullahyaqoob9051]

Educated logo ko zeada seekhne k zarurat h

[@saqibshah8586]

Ok

[@naumanalhaq9405]

Work shop are online? How we can take part in the workshop? From India.

[@homosapienssapiens4848]

🤞 Sapiens: A brief history of humankind ~ Yuval Noah Harari, that's the book in thumbnail! 🤞

[@imrankhalid7640]

Some people are lucky 🍀 and some people are talented but you are both of them

[@qasimarif4256]

Dear sir kindly ask your management to refund my 45£ pound i pay for your Manchester dinner event on 27 June .which is cancelled by your side . 🥺🙏🙏🙏

[@rumesakhan7144]

sir we all offer prayers regularly bt really our childrens make us mad to ask them fr prayers,study etc,recitation,,its really become difficult,

[@sundusshaheen]

Can I undo the mistakes I have done in parenting till the age of 5 years if baby? Can next two years be fruitful now? Or is it too late now?

[@abdullahyaqoob9051]

OfcOUrse وَسَعٰی لَھَا سَعیَھَا اور اسکے لیے وہ جو اسنے کوشش کی اللہ کوشش کی جزا رور دیتا ہے

[@fauziaawais8589]

5 years is not too late u can start good parenting from today n keep praying

[@gulafshazubair988]

Assalamualaikum.. as u said that 0 to 7 years is the age of listening to kids and after that we should include discipline.. so what is the solution if after 7 years we have to change things.. plz suggest

[@farhatmir4655]

Fabulous lecture please tell me if father is not following rules like wakeup early togetherness food taking etc how mother inculcate good habits in children please answer zaroor dein allha app ki Har mushkil asan kare

[@shahzaditehmina3342]

❤ ALLAH ap ki Khair kry Hiffazt kry SDA APNI Aman Afeeyt se nawazy

[@sadier6955]

Asalamoalaikam Dr Iqbal. Please can you advise how we can encourage a 8 year child who is lazy at learning...

[@artworldofsarwat247]

Thanku soo much sir. Apne bahut achhi baat batayi h.mai isko puri tarah apne upr follow krungi.taki mere bacche pr abhi koi stress na ho

[@arzoo434]

Sir. I really inspiread with you vedios

[@meherazeez8952]

I'm having a daughter. sheis 7 years old now. I'm sumwhat late for understanding this topic as i ruined the tym period of 7 years for my daughter's upbringing but In sha allah i'll improve my parenting by ALLAH PAK'S grace and with d help of ur advises in dis video. May ALLAH grant u success in this lyf and in lyf hereafter. AAMEEN

[@Parentingtips_by_faiza]

I’m practicing in the field , as a child Psychologist. This is truth, 110%, have seen so many cases like that. I’ve tried so many ways to explain the algorithm to the parents but majority of them don’t understand or ya tow woh samjna hi nahi chah rahe!

[@afshanfarooqi8255]

Salam can you plz share your no i really want to discuss my child problem plz it's humble request

[@arkanafzal5359]

السلامُ علیکم سر انشاء اللہ آپ خیر یت سے ہوں گے سر اگر کسی کے پیر میں درد ہو اور patela کے نیچے بہت سوجن ہو گئی ہو شدید درد ہو body سوج گئی ہو تو پلیز سر کوئی مشورہ بتا دیں برائے مہربانی اگر آپ کے پاس وقت ہو تو ویڈیو بنا دیجیئے سر پلیز ارجنٹ ہے اور وہ بھی سوجن کی وجہ سے گٹھ ٹھے پڑ گئے ہو تو کوئی پرہیز گی یہ علاج

[@AmjadAli-wq9be]

لبیک لبیک لبیک یا رسول اللہ صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم

[@aynoormuzaffar7747]

Very nice information Doctor sir,love from jammu and kashmir❤❤

[@salmanraza9740]

Mashalah kmal ha sir bht acha smjaya apny mn b asy e kro gi absy thnks

[@Rumi_kaukab]

Aap ki sariiii video's bht beneficial hai hm sb k liye ❤️❤️

[@ummabualimirza6618]

Assalamualaikum. Sir zero to 6 alhamdulillah we were on track as a parent but 6 to 7 due to circumstances our behavior was not as before ... now he is turning 8.... What is your comment on this situation. Love n respect from India Assalamualaikum

[@shireenzameer7043]

Jazakallah khair kitni achchi or zaroori batien batayi hain apne

[@alimalik444]

سلام ڈاکٹر صاحب نشے کے استعمال، چھوڑنے اور مریضوں پر سیریز آف ویڈیوز بنائیں پلیز

[@shahinaparveen7673]

Assalam o Alaikum sir i really appreciate the way ur teaching parentig & child development. It's quite helpful for new generation.

[@mrandmrssoomro18]

I have started scolding my kids just now but I will not after watching this video, Thank you so much Dr for working on it this!

[@hafizhabib7670]

ماشاءاللہ ایک عرض ہے کہ اپنے لیکچرز میں انگلش ضرور بولیں لیکن ساتھ اردو ٹرانسلیشن کردیا کریں تاکہ سادہ عوام کو سمجھ آجایا کرے

[@khanhamadkhanhamad7679]

میں کسی اور فون سے میسیج کروں گا آپ حقیقت چھپائیں ڈاکٹر صاحب میرا میسیج آپ تک پہنچنے سے پہلے ڈلیٹ کیا جا رہا ھے

[@abuanas9489]

ایک بات سے آپ کی تائید کرتا ہوں کہ سات سال سے پہلے نماز پڑھنے کے لیے بولنا بھی حدیث سے منع ہے۔۔ دوسری بات سے ایک سوال ہے کہ کیا آج کل کے تیز طرار بچوں کو بھی سات سال سے پہلے سکول نہ بھیجا جائے ؟

[@sanahamed4925]

Hats off sir completely impressed with ur every single word

[@waleedshahid6263]

Aslam o alaikum....sir me ap k lectures BHT sunti hoon.mera beta ab 11 years Ka ha....7saal tk jis trha behave krna chahiye .shayd me nhi Kia west.isi wjha SE ab wo wesa nhi krta jesy me chahti hoon. Is age me hum kesy apny bchon ki habits KO theek kren? Plz guid kren.

[@basharbilal3756]

Assalamulaikum .....iam from India.....I have 4 children........2 bacche bade hain13 saal se aur 2 bachhe chote hain 13 saal se .....bade bacchon ki tarbiyat me hum se galti ho gayi hai...hum jo bole wo us se ulat hi karte hein... is liye chote bacche bhi unki dekha dekhi Karte hein.kya karu samaj hi nahi ata aap is per please video banaye jazakallha

[@basharbilal3756]

Same here...please is topic per video banaye......

[@basharbilal3756]

Jazakallha

[@samishaikh9157]

Allah aapko bhut jazae khair de javed sahab hamari rehnumai k liye

[@robinakosar5333]

Well done🥲🥲🥲 you are amazing uncle you always did great job

[@shaguftashaikh8239]

JazakAllahu khairan..

[@sumanaroyjain7893]

Namaste sir. watching you from India. You are so eloquent and amazingly true.

[@rabiashahzad2073]

Asalamoalaikum sir I hope u read my comment .I want to ask a question if the first 7 years of child u could not do these things and at 12year u want to improve child in something then what to do

[@khadijabasharat730]

Parenting not starts from birth to onwards but actually starts in pregnancy after 3rd month when a fetus develops

[@user-a1aa2]

لیکن اگر تیرہ سال آپ کے بتائے گئے میٹھڈ سے الٹ گزرے تو اس کو کیسے درست کریں پلیز لازمی ڈسکس کریں اس پہ

[@ShahdadKhan-te1ub]

Allah ap ko lambi aur sehat wali zindagi sy nawazy aur apne bachon ki khushya naseeb kary

[@GhulamMustafa-q7n]

Mai tu apnl life k 37years guzar diy unfortunately mujhe parenting k baray Mai itna tafsil sy pata tha aur net tak rasahi b almost six month phalay hoi maray 4bechy hain two 13sal k aur aik 9sal k aik. 5sal ka tu ab means bharay bechoun tu 13sal Mai yah principles Jan tak na saki tu ab,nafisa mustafa

[@AmjadAli-wq9be]

تاجدار ختم نبوت صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم زندہ باد زندہ باد زندہ باد

[@shahinawalile1978]

Assalamualaikum sir, very nice information for child up and growing up, development.

[@dubsmashbychildren171]

AOA Aap baat bilkul thik kr rhy hn. Ye hum apply bhi kerny koshish krty hn. Laikin masla ye hy Ager aik maa ko time hi na ho Kbhi khana bna rahi hy Kbhi sfai wghera Aur bachy ny apni zid, cheekho pukaar, oltay kam. Aur 3 bachy hon 1 se 7 saal ki age limit mn. Ab woh tu pagal ho jay gi pora din bachy ky msail suntay aur samjhaty aur phir kam kon dekhy. Asian maain kia kuch sehti aur krti hn already Ab maa os bachy ko beth kr

[@habeebafirdous8163]

Dr sahib . JB 7 sal sy pehly bachon ko Sahi r ghalt ki pehchan n Hoti.....un 7 sal me unhen nasiht n krni ...to pher Kesy un k sath argument kren?

[@manoch1384]

Ap bilkul thek kah rhy han..mgr meea bacha to agy se tahapar marta ha... Juty marta ha baron ko... Bht tez awaz mn chekhta ha... Kia kron m bht preshan hon?? Osko kis tra smjhao ye sb .wo nai smjhta 😭😭😭

[@fancinanci6783]

Very good advices for parenting Sir..bt sometimes we can't answer there questions or you can say we don't want too like my 8yrs old daughter ask me, mom how can parents knw tht they hav a boy or a girl child,,whn the baby is born cz in the initial age all kids looks the same nd they even hav same kind of hairs,,so how can they identify tht their child is a boy or girl??? Nd i didnt answer her... Also she once asked where was i whn i didn't born?? Like where i am tht time whn i didn't come in tz world??? I didn't answer both of these questions ,,cz she is just 8 yrs old nd i dont wana give her soo much awareness regarding the identification of a child gender... How to handle such kind of questions??? Plz explain.

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

When my son asked this question I said to him that u were woth krishna ji when u were unborn....he was taking care of urs in heaven....2nd question.....I said to him directly that doctors team already knew with a device that whether a baby boy or girl is born...if they will ask about that device u must say ultrasound machine...when she will ask whats that...u must say I will show u when vl visit doctor next time for sure.. Love from 🇮🇳

[@fancinanci6783]

@@unsheladcyberninja5066 thank you for your time nd replying...love frm pakistan.

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

@@fancinanci6783 my pleasure dear

[@Magictricks139]

Zbrdst Dr shahb 100%agreed ....we need this one jzakillah

[@smi1576]

Assalamo Alaikum Warehmatullahi Wabarakatuhu Very well explained...do it your self infront of your child instead of only telling him.

[@aartisolanki7535]

Thank you so much sir

[@hafsaatif4305]

Aslamualikum, my daughter is17years old, till 5 class , I never beat her, she behave like samajdar bachi, but now, she always trying to fight with her sisters, my all effort was wrong?

[@attiqashafiq9977]

Sir hm Pakistani gharon mn joint system he SaaS naandon K apny tor triqe hen wo Jo bachun Ki maa he wo to ziro he aadhi zindgi kha jaty hn nafsyati hoo jata he bnda bachy b Ghar walon K tor triqe skhty hn na K maa k

[@doctorzainabmalik]

Very impressive

[@naraehaidriyaaali3647]

Aoa ser mere do bche hainek beta ek beti beta 5 sal ka or beti 8 sal ki hai. Main bewa hn or Bht preshan hn k min ap ki 2 videos dekhi Hain jinhe dekhne k bad mje realize hova hai k mj main b Bht mistake Hain jese apne 0-7 year or 7-13 year k bachon ki tarbeyat bare bataya

[@shumyla.azhar.2960]

If I follow the instructions that u said than what about our kids having age of 4 ,2 and 1 I have 4 girls . 12,4,2and the 1yr.up n down ages distraction

[@idreesniazi9533]

Mem ka sira line pr hy ya nae waqi zindagi mot ka masla bna jata 😂🎉😂🎉😂its true

[@maryammalik1374]

❤️

[@waseemaminwaseemamin3584]

MasaAllah... Allah ap ki lambi omar kry... ameeen

[@dasiworkingmother3138]

Dr sab im so worried mere 3 babies hai one 7 year 2nd 2 years 3rd 1 year smjhe nhn ata k 7 year walae p saktae karu or chotao p nhn how is it possible 7 years wala phir alag hi jata hai k mama mji pyar nhn krtae

[@mohdaneesmiyanchisti1201]

Your speech absolutely right sir 👌

[@sabhameer5909]

Salamun alaikum 7 Saal tk kuch mistake hogai pr 8 Saal se amal kare to challenge sir Our study me best bn ske ispr b btae

[@bushrarao8109]

mra question ye h ap s agr 7 sal to bache ki sahi parenting maa nai kr saki 7 sal bd use ehsas hojae r wo khud ko chng kre to jo 7 sal guzar gae us m us se jo ghalti hui parenting m wo tim wapas to nai la sakti to wo 7 sal bd bache ko sahi tim kese de jb k bacha maa s nraz rehta h k jb m chota ta ap mje dant ti ti marti ti wo tim maa wapsi to nai la sakti to maa kia kre? is p video bnae please

[@naraehaidriyaaali3647]

Mere Bache apes main Bht jhagra b kerte hain or pyar b Bht hai ehsas b .main Dr sahb apse milna chahti hn plzzzz btain k ap se kese Mila Jai main apne bachon ko b milwna chahti hn

[@mariaaqeel5281]

Im sorry to say sir jis country may hum rhty han lakeer ka fakeer nai ho ga to kary ga kia..ap to parh parh k yahan tak pohnch gya ab aik middle class ka bacha parhy b na to kia kary ga phir..asy nai hota

[@meenakshisanjay2238]

Sir mera beta seven year ka h lekin school nhi Jana chata aur padhna nhi chata.use padhayi k liye kaisa intereste paida kre .poochta h padhne se kya hota h.mujhe nhi padna

[@T.S.1020]

Dr Sahib, could you please reflect on the following? In the US now, there is a trend towards sending kids to nursery/pre kindergarten at the age of 2 years, for "early learning" for reasons anyone can Google. I would greatly appreciate a response from you on this new trend in early childhood education/development. Thank you!

[@naraehaidriyaaali3647]

Main bewa hn or akeli b mje apne bachon k liye un ka pate palne k liye ghr se bhr jna perta mehnat kerne .main unhe wo time nh de pa Rh Jo jesa apne video main btaya .

[@deebayasmeen362]

Sir please aap un bachchon keliye video banayenjo ma paap ki koi baat nahe sunty maan kya kary jo wo sudhar jai

[@noorejanatpreshayfatima9359]

اور سر اگر سات سال گزر گئے ھوں تو پھر کیا کریں 😭😭

[@smaqpu9404]

Sir mere 2 sal ke bete hai bahut rote hai or zade hai or apne hatho ko chak Marta hai jub o ro rahi Ho apne ap ko Marty hai mere urdu sahi nahi hai plz help my daughter 7 months ke beta bhi hai mera or mere bete darte bhi hai