How dating has changed.. pt 2

[@strangegiraffe]

As sad as this is, it also doesn’t have to be like that; we’re the ones with the power to make our relationships whatever we want them to be

[@aprilsouthers7318]

@strangegiraffe Exactly right well said it's as simple as that.

[@ganiasarasmita]

From "Excuse me, sir. May I take your daughter to date with me?" To "Dad, mom. I'm going now! He's already here! Bye...!"

[@LiveViewYouTube]

Relationships are two sides, both sides have to work in synchrony for it to be a successful relationship. Are you even thinking before you type on your keyboard?

[@LiveViewYouTube]

@@aprilsouthers7318if it was as simple as that you would see these relationships everywhere.

[@rriicckkyy07]

Yes, and settling for the bare minimum doesn’t nearly prepare us for a long lasting relationship we want these days.

[@XCforever_]

I’m 17 I still believe in the old school way that my dad taught me and my older brothers. No matter if you are dating or not always go to the door and walk down to the car with them. I always bring flowers for my girlfriend and open the door for her and treat her as she should be any chance I get I’ll try and have a relationship that’s not all tech. I also make sure she is ok with it all as well and most importantly she’s comfortable with the state of the relationship. We are the ones in control of this and this is a sad reality that relationships have changed into this (Edit:Thank you for all the sweet comments and likes really appreciate it)

[@shinycastle]

Wise words, my man

[@ModestClassyGirlie]

❤❤❤

[@Helpadoggoreachsubs]

Bro u got a gf? Man where u from? That's cool yo I'm 17 too

[@above7846]

I'll be 17 very soon and until now at least I never really had a girlfriend. There is one person at school who I somehow like, but I feel to ashamed to ask her out.

[@shinycastle]

@above7846 why u ashamed? Don't feel worthy of her love or something?

[@AnthonyGugliotta]

Let's go BACK!

[@studiohq]

No just go forward, you can still be a good person

[@uniquegod1997]

we dont want to go forward anymore​@@studiohq

[@-SimonRiley]

Yup, I thought Gen-Z was the rock bottom but then I looked at Gen Alpha and they are only showing new levels of boneheadedness ​@@uniquegod1997

[@Jennifer_Leigh1]

Yesssssss ❤

[@Bususy]

Collab? KyleNutt x AnthonyGugliotta

[@bananafromatree]

How the internet changed everything...

[@AnonymousGameWarden]

You really wish the internet and technology didn't advance.. So diversity would slow to the point of incest and one master race? Big yikes

[@agkmotivation7979]

Mostly for the worse💯 May God bless you🙌

[@grindgoddess534]

internet didnt change me u wont change if u hv senses

[@AnonymousGameWarden]

@@grindgoddess534 bahaha exactly... people out here getting addicted to prnhub, tik tok, and OF. They derailing their life by doom scrolling, dropping out of school, getting addicted to drugs, getting arrested for stealing catalytic converters, then getting out and shooting up meth then schools. Terrible cycle if you ask me. I don't blame technology though. I blame the Oprah Winfrey and rock the Dwayne Johnson.

[@darlingdeb7010]

Naahhhh. Parents aren't teaching their children.

[@ajrproductionsni]

Back again with another masterpiece ✨️

[@itsparthfx]

19s : You look beautiful. 20s : You look bootyful😂😂

[@itsparthfx]

@@aen69690 that's fact🤣🤣

[@Stranger15918]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@nylayziyagil8777]

😂😂😂

[@tscheburaschka4851]

more like: 20s: what gender do you identify today and what are your pronouns

[@highgroundproductions8590]

2024: GYATT

[@j.s.p]

I love the fact that the second clip is darker with a grey/dark rainy sky in comparison to the first full of sun & colourful clip which gives the difference between now & the past society in many ways.

[@litzyreavaldez8309]

Lack of worshipping Christ.

[@indraneelpalsapure857]

yes. that's the art of cinematography 😄, the color grading and set is perfect.

[@dancikn]

FUN FACT: that's how it is around these days, the colors in the environment become actually more greyish less vibrant, vivid and colorful. As a society we just turned everything more greyish through last decades.

[@catwoman7102]

also nighttime… the bootycall

[@MalissiaCreates]

Also houses too close together and no trees or space.

[@Laurel_Kay]

Once dated a guy that came to my house, sat down with my dad and chatted. He then asked if he could take me out on a date.. My dad said as long as we take my little sister. So we went and he paid for me and my sisters meal. Dad never forgets him, he made a great impression on him. He continued to pursue me but unfortunately I was depressed and not in the right mindset. His sister was also my one of my bestfriends from the military and he and I were still in those first stages where I could choose not to continue. I already knew I wasn't a healthy person to be with at the time and I did not want to put my sister (friend) in an awkward position. Tragically, he went missing and was pronounced dead 😢 I'll never forget the way he treated me and how he was so kind to me when I was so lost and broken 💖 Definitely set the standard xo

[@winexhd9373]

Just so you know, he didn't need to, nor should you expect to (if you are about having fair standards anyways) the same. There are men out there who are treated by women in this following way. They have great careers (doctors, lawyers, nurses, etc.), who cook, clean, everything, even pay for their man for his shopping. Suppose his name is Adam. He has a doctor girl friend, who cooks, cleans, everything, plus has s3x whenever he wants. Somehow his gf dies. So he goes out to the dating world again. He looks at women mingling around, he looks at you. You tell him what you'll do what you can't, he calls you a disgusting piece of sh*, "below standard you are". How does that make you feel? Could you blame him, she set the standard. What I did here is I created a fictional male version of you. Bless his heart, but his first mistake was selecting you. Believe it or not, I am not your enemy. The thing is when a lot of men do these things for women, they become more and more entitled. This may have evolutionary, biological roots here. We all do actually. We remember what we give, and what we owe. It is built into our biology from what I have read. The thing is that if a man (or any human being) gives and gives "gifts", there is that biological impulse to want back. This is why women are bewildered by stories of men who harass women after the men gave "gifts", women take these "gifts", and get attacked after a rejection. And even though men should check their entitlement, these expectations are present due to men and women. It is kind of funny and sad to see women go protests on "men's entitlement" then proceed to stick to social norms that create the cycle of "men's entitlement". I know what you want to say. Men shouldn't give gifts if they expect a non-rejection. While I agree with you logically, the biology works with a different set of logical rules. On one hand, men should give gifts only if there are no conditionals, but men are expected to give gifts to be eligible. See how it creates the cycle of abuse?

[@cecil3602]

Soo sad for your friend , hope he’s at peace now

[@canchero724]

Only the good get taken early, damn that ending hurts

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

Hope you have the depression monster well under control. That can be a lifelong battle for many. Sorry about the one that got away. Tough to wonder what could have been.

[@susanh1104]

Oof this hurts my heart 💔 for both of you 😢

[@bellaambrose3604]

My sophomore teacher told all us girls that if a man texts you to pick you up, don’t respond, just sit in your house and wait until he comes to the door.

[@winexhd9373]

I don't think that is fair advice. Suppose there was a man who was equal everything, cooks, cleans, chores in the house, works, respect boundaries. But you applied your nonsensical rule and you lost him. Suppose there was a traditionally masculine and abusive man. He went up, you'll respond? Not replying to text is rude. That man brought his car to your doorstep. The least you can do you entitled puck is to be there when he gets there. Do you think car works on love? Why is he paying for the gas? It is like you think equality is a buffet, that you get to pick the nice things. Women of the past were treated better, maybe. But those women also gave a lot too. Cooking and cleaning was all on women, no equal share. Women had a role and they played it. They sacrificed their careers. So it made sense that men would care in a deeper way. Do those things that those ladies used to do and you will maybe get that guy. But if you want to talk about equality, no gender roles, but then expect him to adhere to his roles, what type of logic is that? Make it make sense.

[@AmeliaBondarenko]

​@@winexhd9373Are you from a woke family 😂

[@winexhd9373]

@@AmeliaBondarenko No but I understand why you think that way. I am criticizing both ways of living. I am not asserting any truth. I may want traditional gender roles or I may not. It's a bit more meta.

[@samanthaesene5233]

@@winexhd9373 There wasn't a need to be mean, she just said what her teacher told them I think you could either text him at the same that you feel it's more appropriate for him to come up to the door, orr better still fit me, I'd say at least the first time, you could go meet him out, and while you're together, bring it up and talk about it. Sitting on the couch and ignoring because he didn't automatically know isn't any better than him texting So we all have roles to play in making our relationships work, some majors of those roles being love and consideration

[@francookie9353]

​@@winexhd9373 I think I understand what you're getting at, but this seems like the wrong hill to die on. Yes, gender equality etc. etc. but the innocent magic of old school chivalry still works today. Especially in the early dating phase. Plus, she might not look at her phone. Might actually not have seen the text. She's spent time and energy on being pretty and put together, walking the few meters to the door is such low effort but it makes you feel special. Holding a door open isn't necessary, but it makes you feel cared for. Flowers aren't survival essentials, but they make you feel thought of.

[@carinamazzuco8339]

I’ve had a guy pick me up but instead of staying in the car he waited outside of his car and opened my door. It made so much of a difference to me. It’s the little things

[@lionheart4109]

Are you two still together?

[@badwolf3618]

Did you ever pick him up?

[@sofiabravo1994]

@@badwolf3618 not how it works

[@badwolf3618]

@@sofiabravo1994 um yeah it is actually.... If women want actual equality. You don't get special treatment and equal treatment at the same time. The whole comments section of this video shows just how much women still expect to receive all the privileges of traditional romance without any of the downsides, and also that too many men are willing to continue holding up their end of traditional romance without receiving any of the upsides of that tradition. Women don't want equality. They just want to have their cake and eat it too. If you want actual equality, then you need to be taking him on dates too, picking him up too, bringing him some kind of gift (could be flowers, could be a pack of beef jerky), and you need to be paying for him on dates sometimes too. If I see women doing those things, then and only then will I believe women when they say they want actual equality.

[@frenchwannaloseweight]

😮 And the other guys were waiting INSIDE?!

[@UghThemBiscuits]

I’m 36 years old, I learned to hold the door open for women; walk on the outside near the street, pay for the meal if they are asked out. No matter how much the times change I will not nor will my tendencies.

[@khkhj]

Proud❤❤

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

I admire you fortitude. Most guys I see online now just dont' think women are worth it anymore. It's pretty tragic. There's the feminists and now the meninists.

[@badwolf3618]

And why should you have to do those things for women? Why should her safety be more important than yours? Why do you gotta be the one getting by a car just to protect her? Is your life less valuable? Why can't she hold the door for you too? Is she royalty and you merely are a peasant?

[@saintejeannedarc9460]

@@badwolf3618 Well, don't do anything for women, don't expect to get a quality women. Put her last, ask silly questions of why you'd want to treat the one you love well and show her you love her, ,and see what you get for it. Your choice. So many bad attitudes and you guys wonder why you aren't getting quality women. Oh, it must be that all women are bad. Great answer, it's always the other person, never you. That's where we need to start looking.

[@badwolf3618]

@@saintejeannedarc9460 ok but then what can I expect from women in return? If women want traditional treatment, they should be traditional too, right? Why is it only the man that has anything expected of him?

[@BKing007]

I've watched both shorts and man it slaps, + the color grading makes it so beautiful

[@wetwillyis_1881]

This makes me proud to be a Gen-Z kid who actually brought a girl flowers and came to door. It didn’t end the best, but at least I’m trying to keep the old ways alive.

[@badwolf3618]

Did you teach him that he deserves to be treated well too? If a woman expect certain things from him, what can he expect from them?

[@kimberlyturner820]

Keep it up.

[@RuNZiT1]

I respect 🫡

[@xannecorinnex]

What happened? Why didn't it end well?

[@wetwillyis_1881]

@@xannecorinnex We just went our separate ways. No big blow up or anything, just grew apart.

[@jamesdaniels8297]

This guy’s videos always make me miss something I never had

[@GreenRiver72]

The right movies and TV shows can still help you live it.

[@texbecks6682]

Totally fixable behavior. Beautiful little film!

[@LICHTinc]

Everything's fixable, it's just that no one dares to try

[@joitus]

Absolute masterpiece! Very inspired, and true, and sad! Thank you for this series!!

[@RexTyrano]

The way you compose these videos is so impressive I’ve doing videography for 4 years and would struggle to be able to tell this story in suck a short time slot. You’ve earned a new sub Keep up the good work ❤

[@DrePanawa]

You should do more of this project, it will help people to wake up and realize social media are not helping us to get our life realized and archive the best version of ourselves

[@lilarose6792]

Ha ha I remember one time I went to see a guy to his department. And I texted him so he could go downstairs and open the door. I waited 15 mins and I was like wtf is he doing??? And when I realised, I had texted MY BOSS 😂😂

[@Memerandcritic]

Crazy 😂

[@palakondarayuduuppu6420]

😅 dude that vintage one is amazing, we are missing lot of fun. We need to bring back vintage love. Please do more on this series. #vintage

[@thescience786]

Bro please make more

[@_anna]

I want to watch the whole movie like that

[@The_NutritionChef]

Most of them don't even want to pick you up they'd rather just send an Uber now!

[@Ryan-cb1ei]

Why should he?

[@Memerandcritic]

​@@Ryan-cb1eifr

[@TheWeaponizzer]

Wow Man ; The Filmography is Amazing; With A Smooth Transition; and The With the Greatest Colour Grading 🔥

[@IV0016]

Bro has the best music taste

[@Jaalejaale12]

what is that song bro

[@IV0016]

@Jaalejaale With or with out you by u2

[@Jaalejaale12]

@@IV0016 Thanks Man

[@JHalle02]

Heck yes. U2 🤌

[@sophieminter0]

He really does

[@sophieminter0]

I WAS JUST LISTENING TO THIS SONG TODAY!! I LOVE U2 (AND JOURNEY)

[@phoenix09044]

It hasn't been a week since i subscribed him but still i am addicted to his videos. Literally the greatest Videographer i have ever seen🙌

[@shubham6703]

That gta vice city car😂😂

[@Edgar_Deltoro911]

Amazing man. KZbin needs more people like you.

[@genasseeceline]

This is not a good thing 😉 We can choose to keep the respectful, traditional ways! Keeps the chemistry strong too and idk who wouldn’t want that. 🔥

[@throughfrankieseyeznow]

Biblically speaking, it should NEVER change. The Lord wants the best for a man and woman He unites. Modern society changes everything. God is the same yesterday, today and ALWAYS❤

[@kyladanae]

The last time someone bought me flowers was 2012. Don’t know what valentine’s day’s is anymore.

[@MTJoe406]

Picked up my girl that way in 1986. Still opening the door for her 38 years later and still madly in love. Gent's get back to the basics and drop the phone. Great video in so many ways.

[@NoctLightCloud]

I wouldn't really romantisize the past and demonize technology that much. You can still do this, there's no one stopping you. And most people in the past didn't have this.

[@Perrio77]

wow these videos are so well done…just amazing 🤩👏👏

[@hydra553]

Thank goodness my Dad and Mom is straight old school. My parents has this motto of a relationship, and is "Treat your husband like a king, and treat your wife like she's a queen" And because of that, guys tends to avoid dating me, because how strict my parents are. But because of that, I also found the only true love that could love me REAL. And yeah. We're engaged now. We've learned a lot, but theres still more to go

[@itzkennz5822]

It’s still sad people do that now- the only thing is my bf comes to the front door and rings the doorbell like the guy did in the first video. But saying “here” on the phone is just sad- also video was a masterpiece!

[@ankaramesi3824]

And what do you do for your bf?

[@itzkennz5822]

@@ankaramesi3824 honestly not be one of those typical girlfriend who is a complete and utter bitch to their own boyfriends. Honestly, my relationship is like an old-fashioned relationship. What’s your relationship then?

[@mr.turtle2589]

this is literally how my grandparents grew up, they were both born in the mid to late 30s and they probably dated in the late 40s early 50s back when people had style and manners and they got married in 1955 and they’re still happily married to this day

[@Based_Is_Best]

More of this. Much more of this. (yes, more videos like this.. but more so, more life/society like this)

[@macmarion421]

I still clean up my ole truck that has seen 3 generations of dating in my family. I walk up to her door shake her dad’s hand hug her mom high five her brother and walk her down the steps and open her door. I still hold the door for her. It’s sad to see my generation not doing the same.

[@badwolf3618]

And what does she do for you in return?

[@Moonlover1492]

I love the old style romance 🤍 my bf and i are like that even though were both in our mid 20s. The right person will treat you right. I cant even explain how real that actually is.

[@bobthompson209]

Ah yes, the old days where sound tracks played in the open air and the color filter was a warmer gradient..

[@jennahtailya4726]

Wild please keep making these

[@Chelseangel]

everyone always talks about how dating has changed but they never rlly take the initiative to be old school and get flowers and open the door for others etc.

[@MemeTeam6900]

Bro the first one gives out vibes of high school movies and tv serieses of early 2000s and 2010s. Very nostalgic😢

[@OrajiEmpire]

You really inspire me, friend. Can this comment get love from you?

[@lydiapiano24]

With or Without You is the best song❤

[@logangreer001]

My girlfriend said her mom approved of me when she learned I always hold every door. It is always worth the effort.

[@shga-b5b]

Times have changed after all…

[@beeribaluka]

Bro i have to tell you i'm watching you since you had a something like 100000 subscribers and you did crazy improvement and I took inspiration from you on my !channel even thanks for your videos bro🙏

[@ellasmommy9278]

It was kind of always like that as long as we've had cars. A real lady waits for her gentleman to come to the door. And in this day and age, text back, 'great! I'll meet you at the door'

[@seth4321]

@@Scottydoesntknow1989I know a girl that did this. The dude rolled up and blew his horn. She never went outside. They never needed up going on the date. Good for her.

[@andrewharris9302]

Some of us keep the best of the old ways alive while leaving the worst of it behind.

[@umeshh3486]

Proud to say that I’m a 90s kid and I still never forget to grab some flowers for my lady and open up the car door for her ❤

[@badwolf3618]

And what does she do for you in return?

[@moneymakinmitch8130]

I ain’t even a 90s kid n I’d still do all that

[@bunlenglay]

This really cool bro!!! Even the tree bro even the tree!!!! Wowowww

[@northernswedenstories1028]

Bro that volvo was beautiful

[@MySaviorAndMe]

We can change this!!!! ❤ it’s up to us!! Ladies please raise loving men and women raise respectful women! Let’s go back to standards & value!

[@Galaxy12Gaming]

It's sad yet true

[@AshtonBenna]

Most of the time I think to myself I’m glad to be 15 in this age with all these video games cool technology and stuff. But the other half of me wishes I could’ve grown up in the 80s because life was way better back then.😢

[@G.O.A.Tfootball]

The edit glows 🔥

[@faithvu623]

Guys if you do this and she rejects you, be glad because she showed her true colors. But don’t give up. There are soooo! Many girls that will love you for this kind of affection. Go for it!

[@aon_555]

oh. my god. if a guy just texted me “here” to get me for a date, i just wouldn’t even come outside

[@becca53444]

I’d delete his number tbh. Lol that’s so below bare minimum effort

[@seanl6478]

It makes me look stupid every time I am on a date, I ask a question or make a statement about something I can't remember, and the response is "Look it up on your phone." Uhhh, no, I'm here talking with you, even if we don't get to the bottom of it, I don't want to look.

[@hastag_talk5]

Can we appreciate his JAWLINE!!!!! Like

[@TalantDuolingo]

His jawline is awesome❤❤❤❤

[@JadaLynnOfChrist]

Too relatable

[@echezona.ukachukwu]

Nice volvo. Why is everyone pretending they didn't see the Volvo?

[@BlueLils]

But it's not about the times. Now, if you want to put in the effort, you get out of the car and ring the bell anyway. Then, if you didn’t want to put in the effort, you just honked. It's the people, not the year.

[@totus_tuus3]

I wont settle for anything less than the first clip

[@joshuathompson4058]

Back then, humans were more alive and happier now, we all just broken into pieces with depression and other crap 💩 choosing to break hearts before our own hearts are broken by the other person 💔 only out for ourselves nowadays by taken people for granted 💔

[@nilima_rupoma_]

Dude,,,, love it...

[@Adrianaxoxo282]

This is so sad I wish I lived in the 80s and 90s so hopefull a man would treat me this way. I walked by a group of boys one time and they where all looking at one of thems phone and said tell her to send ass pics, what happens to our guys in society where they had respect for woman and where actually gentlemen

[@viktoriavichkutkina9147]

Thank you so much guys for highliting this issue ❤ it is sad, be it’s us who created it. Hopefully still can turn around, at least in lives of some people who believes this is the right way

[@winexhd9373]

It can't be turn around unless women and men act like that before. The argument is pretty principle. Men acted that certain way (open doors, go up knock, meet the dad, care about woman walking, opening doors, paying meals) because women acted that way (feminine, submissive, took most of household chores, took most of domestic duties, conservative norms, etc.). Women don't act that way anymore, therefore men don't act that way. Statistics show us that women have more freedom, and greater gender equality compared to the "good old times". At what cost? At this cost. This is part of the cost.

[@badwolf3618]

​@@winexhd9373they wanna have their cake and eat it too

[@heartofartichoke4340]

@@winexhd9373 i'm middle aged and feel there was a time where men and women just looked after each other.

[@winexhd9373]

@@heartofartichoke4340 I wish we cared about each other. But a war exists between, swords pointed at each other's necks. Like a stalemate, both stubborn.

[@heartofartichoke4340]

@@winexhd9373 it is so strange how love can turn into that. Anyway, all good wishes to you xx

[@calebhudson2059]

First date I ever had when I got my first car I did text her I was there, but went to the front door the proper way as I was taught it left a better impression that even though it didn't work out, when I see her family around town they see me as a proper young man like I was taught to be. Small things go a long way

[@timothyblack1098]

Hey, the second one is exactly what bad marriages look like, and probably how they start too.

[@kurlykaitlyn]

Lolz idk any boys who were walking up to doors anymore in the early 2000s. They texted to meet you somewhere or they honked outside 😂

[@whitneytravels]

This can work in modern life too. Get the love that you deserve and communicate with your person, they need to come to the door or you’re not going.

[@Brax2576]

I was born in 2005 and have had the same girlfriend for two years now and I still do this everytime we go out just about, never text

[@kanyaeffendy]

Modern dating though : both meet at the designated time and place. No one picks up anyone cus equality right? 😊

[@D.M.S.]

This is not change. This is just no effort. I do all the good things, if they let me. The more I see such stuff, I realize how unique I am as a man.

[@martinezjuarez]

Well, kinda inaccurate... Father will open the door of the house.

[@rhomeanimation]

I love old school. The guy is gentleman. But in this generation no.. 😅😊

[@Julia-Klara]

Just pathetic… the only word I can describe dating nowadays is

[@Jchillin_]

I’m 15 and I feel like I missed out sm 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 makes me wish I was 15 then 😭

[@Dontmess550]

He's here to pick her up...a few years from now men won't even do that😢

[@RogerioNat]

Hoje em dia os homens não abrem a porta, não dão flores e querem dividir uma conta de jantar e ainda ficam chorando na internet.

[@MemeTeam6900]

The color change is truly depressing

[@danielhruskocy1624]

3x girl dad here...dated in the 80's and 90's. I refuse to allow my girls to leave the house for ANYONE that does not come to the door first. They are NOT picking up my baby girls like a cheap trick on the street corner somewhere...one fucker actually leaned on the horn in my driveway...his expression changed real fast when I opened the front door and showed him my 12-gauge being loaded...

[@awsambdaman]

Ok maybe relax a bit with the 12 gauge..use your words pops

[@yourfriendlyneighbourhoodvue]

I still open doors for women, including my sisters

[@RiaNeill]

I would accept this but no guy would give it 😒🙄

[@toast4736]

People may call me old fashioned for this, but i would love to be with someone who would come and greet me at the door.

[@FantasyDaliaWrites14]

Im still in my pre-teens and i would honestly perfer the old school way.. ❤

[@leonardomcguire1769]

Great content! We went the wrong path, now message in this clip is more sensibilising than entertaining😢

[@anna-mariadickmann7032]

Makes me happy that my bf is still old school! Even when he picks me up from a friend’s place he would come in, have a little chat with all of us and then we leave.

[@dzamadzama_llama4536]

Jesus loves us

[@gauthamsankars8844]

I love the transition of aerodynamics ❤

[@nikusita]

Well at least you're still picking her up

[@Over-The-Bridge-202]

I really like these content Kyle. Wishing you a Happy New Year 🎊

[@kevinmichael4829]

I’m 45 and have experienced both ways. Youth it’s up to you to decide.

[@iplaymhfu]

wow im early

[@Musiho_Hubaibu]

🫶🙏

[@FrogsonFilms]

Rizz❤