"Cell phones bring you closer to the person far from you. But take you away from the ones sitting next to you."
@michaeljones16865 ай бұрын
That's a good quote
@tunamushroommelt5 ай бұрын
aww
@justlivinglife63155 ай бұрын
Just wow
@khyouness955 ай бұрын
Thank you mate! Imma look wise next Saturday night at the pub thanks to you ❤
@Djudj_5 ай бұрын
It also takes you away from the weird mysogine dude sitting next to you
@andreapinotti93833 ай бұрын
"Finding love should not be like shopping on Amazon " -My mother
@trith722 ай бұрын
Your mother was also the last generation that likely knew what it mean to be a woman. Modern females are critically broken, and society is suffering badly for it.
@TimmmmCam2 ай бұрын
Your mother has never actually used Tinder though has she? It's not at all like shopping from Amazon... Unless you chat with the garden hose you're buying and then go on a date with it.
@KrispyRootbeer2 ай бұрын
At least on amazon, I'll find something I'm looking for
@andreapinotti93832 ай бұрын
🤓 Her point is about the fact that on tinder you just give a look to the profile pics and you decide based on that. Not so different from online shopping.
@Avicenna102 ай бұрын
Smart mom!
@emmas5512Ай бұрын
“It’s me, George Mcfly. I’m your density.“
@cartooncraze5948Ай бұрын
Perfect comment. Needs way more likes.
@rubiomedeiros28 күн бұрын
"Just relax, Calvin, you got a big bruise on your head..."
@d.edwardmeade368328 күн бұрын
😂😂🤣🤣👏👏👏👏👍👍👍
@guerrerole27 күн бұрын
You are a chiken Mcfly
@andyjeanmacondo26 күн бұрын
Exactly!
@warqaanizar2527Ай бұрын
Social media has ruined our confidence in confrontation and therefore ruined romance
@edithflood63124 күн бұрын
Okay there are two types of pickup: the banal type with conquest as the goal, and the rarer type where the guy uses pickup skills to search for people of integrity like him. The guy looking on Tinder has developed none of the skills and self-knowledge that the PUA with integrity has achieved. He is less able, and that translates as less able to maintain that relationship long-term when he finds the one. The old-fashioned McFly approach in the diner is superior in all aspects.
@TheHennes3622 күн бұрын
Amen! And leading a successful relationship is all about confrontation. You have to confront your partner with who you really are and what makes you you - this will always lead to some sort of conflict. But it's normal - you need it!
@ryanb873620 күн бұрын
They are just tools. Dont blame the tools. It’s the sheer ignorance of people. A car is a tool, yet all these takeovers made a trend of people trying to get run over by these stolen cars. Don’t blame the tools. Blame poor education from schools and parents.
@war6nheaven19 күн бұрын
so then just get off it if that's how you feel about it
@njegussopotic134613 күн бұрын
Materialism ruined both romance and social life. The problem with social networks is that so many kids and teenagers are exposed to wide audience. And both kids and teenagers are stupid. They should play and have fun, but they are talking about complex stuff where they don't have nor experience nor maturity and know shit about it. And that is cringe and annoying. But that is it for socials. Real problem is heavy materialism.
@janettep5 ай бұрын
The more connected we are , the less connected we truly are.
@Jose-gc3xt5 ай бұрын
The more connections you have, the less you invest in those connections
@janettep5 ай бұрын
@@Jose-gc3xt yeah not wrong
@patientEYES7865 ай бұрын
@@Jose-gc3xtwow ur comment is just about the most real here❤💯💯💯💯💯
@Sam-ni6bc5 ай бұрын
@@janettepHes just adding onto your comment and you call him a bot lmao
@janettep5 ай бұрын
@@Sam-ni6bc was a typo. Sorted
@toasteeze7 ай бұрын
Everything is online now. More people are lonely. Technology can be great but it can also make us less human
@AnonymousGameWarden6 ай бұрын
We are more connected than ever. More bandwidth. More connections. More everything. More. More. More. Faster. Faster.
@dilukachamathka30496 ай бұрын
@@AnonymousGameWarden more more and at the end nothing but more pain. 😢
@robynstewardson6 ай бұрын
@@AnonymousGameWardenand yet so much less. 😔
@AnonymousGameWarden6 ай бұрын
@@robynstewardson it's all perspective. You think people are less connected because they are swiping on an app instead of asking people out randomly in public. But the moms and dads that have to travel internationally for work, that FaceTime their kids from oversees, doctors that are on call late at night that can't Tuck in their kids and want to say goodnight, or soldiers in the military that are half way around the world and want to see their family.. they would all disagree with you. When I was serving oversees, I didn't have the luxury of FaceTiming my family. If I was gone for months, the most I could do is give them a phone call when I was off mission. It's not the fault of the masses when the few don't leverage technology the correct way. The world will not stop advancing for the idiots.
@EXAML6 ай бұрын
@@AnonymousGameWardendefinetly
@adamcrary160219 күн бұрын
This is a good reminder to young men to not forget what normal actually is/ was. If you’ve never done this in real Life, you ought to. It’s good for your self- confidence- EVEN if you get rejected/ blown off. Hopefully most girls/woman are still nice about it. At any rate, taking chances and being direct is good for you. Fortune favors the bold, as they used to say. If you feel good about yourself , a bit of rejection isn’t going to hurt you… and you won’t feel good about yourself if you continually let opportunity pass you by. True story.
@rogerdinhelm467114 күн бұрын
I would say all of these fairy tales do not work because young men did try it and get constantly rejected. You can try to guilt-trip or gaslight them, as you are doing right now, but the reality is just different from your make believe.
@connor4305712 күн бұрын
@@rogerdinhelm4671Exactly. Most people are rude and unreceptive even if you’re as polite as possible when being traditional
@seafooddiablo568612 күн бұрын
It straight up depends how good looking you are. I found that out when my far less attractive friend asked me how I approached girls and had him do what I do and when I watched the results I learned how insanely difficult it can be for certain guys.
@dgpsf12 күн бұрын
@@rogerdinhelm4671 I have complete empathy for that as I was very shy to ask girls out for that reason, BUT the fact is that when you assume that 100% of girls is going to reject you and don’t ask, then you’re just voluntarily taking the same L anyway. You’re already picturing her rejecting you in your head and feeling the pain of that. So really you have very little to lose. Better to be rejected IRL a lot because you have greater than zero chances, believe me.
@bhavyboy748312 күн бұрын
This should also apply to women
@astr43usАй бұрын
This is like a cute little Black Mirror episode
@cdz94007 ай бұрын
Holy sh*t! This was just....amazing. This was very beautifully made, incredible work dude! 👏 👍
@yahyasaleem81736 ай бұрын
So simple and accurate
@holyknight95076 ай бұрын
I don't get it 😅 like does this show 2 different realities? One who asks out irl and the other who just scrolls through dating apps?
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
@@holyknight9507It highlights the obvious juxtaposition between society now and society at its pinnacle (approximately the 1990s) and how much society has “progressed” since then.
@ethanielm035 ай бұрын
For real! The production quality of this was good enough to be in a TV show if not a movie!
@emperornephew64875 ай бұрын
Amazing!!!! Wtf, just go ask that in real life, you can do that in 2024!!!!!
@Bourougne5 ай бұрын
2000 : 100% guts 2024 : 0% guts
@szymonbaranowski81845 ай бұрын
2000: People in their villages with actual equal chances 2024: somethings called people in one village of mutants battle royalling in equal chances delusion
@hallowrant80915 ай бұрын
2000: competing against a handful of guys in your town 2024: competing against millions of guys including celebrities and uber rich playboys
@basti777375 ай бұрын
2000: Having a job, a car, being modest fit and healthy, failing arround 50 times in a nice way that there's no interest or the heart is already given towards another person 2024: 6 figure income, a jet, sixpack, studied, tall, rejected hundreds of times + being joked about, constantly lying about everything Long terms short: "Men, we didnt destroy the culture."
@willygraphics3605 ай бұрын
@@basti77737and knows how to put a game on 😂
@jaydub25465 ай бұрын
Tbh you do need some guts to date online lol
@sinkingdutchman7227Ай бұрын
I started to do oldschool recently, and it feels amazing. Women are often surprised, but really delighted.
@Zyrock14 күн бұрын
Like cold approaching?
@itachir829013 күн бұрын
@@Zyrock Good question. Among people who we don't know the suggestion is to cold approach if I understood these.comments correctly. However cold approaching can come across as weird and uncomfortable for all parties so IDK.
@annafink94615 күн бұрын
Yep we prefer it
@Andy-mt9pl20 күн бұрын
You'd be labeled as a creep if you did that irl now
@craigieplaysstuff3 күн бұрын
What's wrong with dating a creep huh would you rather date a cheater
@anjhindul3 күн бұрын
Still going to do it. She doesn't like it, she isn't for me.
@vdorocketКүн бұрын
Not true
@nathanwhite980312 сағат бұрын
If girls think you a creep for actually approaching and shooting your shot, they ain’t for you.
@TMCNJ5 ай бұрын
And Emma would totally ghost this dude on tinder, let’s be honest
@filtheboss60035 ай бұрын
yep. That's why men need to step out their comfort zone.
@solus86855 ай бұрын
People lose interest, get over it. You can't force a relationship
@anaccount79235 ай бұрын
@@filtheboss6003Same goes for women . If a chick is into a dude, she should make a move .
@raezor825 ай бұрын
@@filtheboss6003With women they already know. Approaching strangers is how gay men get together.
@taynaragallo5 ай бұрын
I don't think they'd match, tho 😂😂
@AnthonyGugliotta6 ай бұрын
10/10 Storytelling!
@elijahdavid076 ай бұрын
Anthony!! Love your stuff
@ZayeedBaksh5 ай бұрын
Fr
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
Nostalgia is often valid, real, and healthy; for good, not backward reasons.
@basicpianotutorial5 ай бұрын
The Internet 🛜 made many people narcissistic
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
@@basicpianotutorial the internet was a mere tool to massively upscale the efforts of those who wish to propagate narcissism
@jessecreegan945116 күн бұрын
The amount of time is also very telling, 21 seconds told one story while 6 seconds told the modern story.
@nmanpro18452 ай бұрын
he forgot the part about them saying no and then laughing with their friends lol
@folchandreАй бұрын
...but this also makes us more humans, more strong! You've got to understand and live with a lot of "nos" in your life, lad.
@babo6595Ай бұрын
I also thought this would happen when I was 14… Actually the most girls will be nice even if they reject you…
@Protestan8823 күн бұрын
@@babo6595yeah they will also reject you if they like you cause they’re nervous so you’ll lose no matter what in most cases. I hate that it’s always blamed on men, women can do no harm nowadays
@war6nheaven19 күн бұрын
sounds like personal experiences, but you keep moving. women like that think puddles are deep cause of how superficial they are.
@whatthehirsch738514 күн бұрын
Because she has standards.
@CYB3R2K2 ай бұрын
If this guy has no chances, we're truly fucked.
@wordsmithington82702 ай бұрын
🙌
@1eV2 ай бұрын
fr
@trith722 ай бұрын
Only .001 % of males in the world meet female expectations. Women who are hard 2s and 3s are being told they are queens and deserve men who are 6'4, millionaires, and have 10 inch penises, and that this is the norm and they must not settle for less. And this is why more women than ever are alone, insane, miserable, sexually used up, and useless by age 35...
@CosmicMapping2 ай бұрын
This is a KZbin Short, it’s not real, they’re actors, it’s fake, fictional. You’re fine.
@DenNorskeFyren2 ай бұрын
@@CosmicMappingit’s the most realist fakest video I’ve ever seen then. Except it’s not fictional. This is a portrayal of how finding someone is today. Everyone wants to meet over the phone. It’s not even about going out and trying to find love or let it find you anymore cause trust me thousands have tried and failed. This is what society has become. This isn’t an argument for you to comeback on. This is just fact. You have your opinion for sure. But it’s not the same as reality.
@MartyOfEarth2 ай бұрын
"I'm starting to think smartphones are actually making us less connected" - Todd
@jellyfishtube2 ай бұрын
While phones are getting smarter, we are getting dumber.
@malibu36022 ай бұрын
@@jellyfishtubeBingo! Exactly
@mistyfreyaАй бұрын
Who is Todd?
@MartyOfEarthАй бұрын
@mistyfreya He's a character from Bojack Horseman played by Aaron Paul. He did a sofisticated party for adults and hired actors to say sofisticated things all adults say like "I'm starting to think smartphones are actually making us less connected," "That's politics for you" and "sir, you cannot remove your shoes in this Applebee's."
@galomagro1121Ай бұрын
Os smartphones estão nos separando as pessoas estão cada vez mais fora do mundo real não existe mais conversa olho a olho
@andrewslattery4945Ай бұрын
You can still ask people out like that. Phones just opened up another avenue to meet people. I asked out my wife for the first time like the first scene lol
@dacianodeluca240712 күн бұрын
Good job on the visuals and the dark feel of the transition to modern online dating👏🏼👏🏼 the point was made perfectly clear👏🏼👏🏼
@ShrektheOgre4real5 ай бұрын
Bro chose the perfect song for the topic
@ShrektheOgre4real5 ай бұрын
@@clangboomsteam the fbi song
@HAILFLODARELTIH5 ай бұрын
@@ShrektheOgre4realfbi anthem
@blitzy32445 ай бұрын
lol FBI song because it was on the Sopranos?@@ShrektheOgre4real
@MFLimited5 ай бұрын
Song about a stalker
@treasurechestofsorts5 ай бұрын
It's also the theme to the tv show, Stalker which is fitting imo. 😅 short lived show with just about 2 seasons with Maggie Q.
@Jurozaiten5 ай бұрын
The colour grading, theme, background music, lighting. Everything was just perfect.
@mikiplgames24375 ай бұрын
and the bloom in the background
@Fck.Victor15 ай бұрын
The outfit
@MDDeGrande19944 ай бұрын
Background music is not correct at all. The color grading, theme, and lighting depicted the 50s, but the song is from the 80s.
@sergioalmasy87224 ай бұрын
@@MDDeGrande1994The rock group Police and Sting's vocals, 1983.
@MDDeGrande19944 ай бұрын
@@sergioalmasy8722 I know.
@AzzyGG14 күн бұрын
“I’m here for a good time not a long time” the default tinder bio lmao so real
@rcghalohellАй бұрын
Now if you do that in person, you'll either get charged with harassment, scoffed, etc
@northwesttravels72349 күн бұрын
Certainly a talk with HR.
@alimd94478 күн бұрын
Who wrote that Law ? Who is bad with Men ?
@t_pric35 ай бұрын
This is the video that inspired me to delete dating apps. Thanks you for posting this sir.
@victor60105 ай бұрын
Awesome, I deleted before even watching this due the lack of any success lol I gave up
@kinazura5905 ай бұрын
thats epic but really, where can you meet people without feeling like you're intruding? i don't think dating apps are quite the issue here
@Loterrach5 ай бұрын
@@kinazura590 Meet people in a bar, meet new friends and take parts in social circles. It doesn't matter if you're intruding or not and even if you are, the person has to speak up about it and just back off, that's it. You don't have to meet people in a bar, you can meet them on a concert, you just have to keep moving and meet a lot of people. To be honest, I haven't tried this, since I became so introverted over the years, but I never used dating apps and I never will.
@777arksMa77_RGM5 ай бұрын
Same... Wanna become friends? @@Loterrach
@Eskimoso5 ай бұрын
@@Loterrachif you're introvert, why are you saying all of this? You haven't even tried it yourself. You have to have some experience to tell such things
@Galactea1016 ай бұрын
Online dating is exhausting
@opera84795 ай бұрын
the advancement of markets in capitalism can only go forward with the commodification of one's every aspect of life.
@Test-ny6uh5 ай бұрын
@@opera8479 the old form is not prohibited. People use tinder because they want to.
@opera84795 ай бұрын
@@Test-ny6uh because it is a way for corporations to make money from one's aspect of life, the only reason you don't pay a freezer prime subscription is because it seems extreme until it's not.
@opera84795 ай бұрын
@@Test-ny6uh that was far from my point.
@joshKirito5 ай бұрын
my friend said online dating helps with “consent” but hey we are all adults, whats so wrong with just saying no in public. I say show you are man enough to take a no and she will feel comfortable being honest with you.
@TheNathanStars24 күн бұрын
For introverted people like me, the new way Is a blessing
@denisborzov840624 күн бұрын
If you're attractive.
@jorgebarreras300221 күн бұрын
Newsflash people, you can still meet people offline, you are just choosing not to.
@bernardanderson81404 ай бұрын
Our guy is loyal, he didn’t swipe right on anyone else
I feel bad for young people today. In the 50's and 60's,70's etc. we met at school dances , football games, through a friend of a friend..... and you got to know someone before you dated him or her.
@ball36775 ай бұрын
And nowadays instead of competing against the people in your city. You now have to compete against the whole world... Everyone has the option of meeting Mr/Mrs perfect on the other side of the globe. Thats where the term "Fly me out" came from. Dating is brutal in the modern world.
@kiminias4 ай бұрын
I met my husband when I was hanging out with my friends and some other people at my friend’s house. Never used a dating app. But yeah, now it’s more and more common
@Buttercup6974 ай бұрын
80's...
@camodrums4 ай бұрын
It was safer as your date was vetted through people you knew beforehand.
@srbelnappa4 ай бұрын
That all happened up until well into 2000s my guy. My friends and I didn’t have cell phones until like 2003/4 🤣 even then there was hardly social media. Maybe like MySpace but for like our band pages
@artbya613Ай бұрын
I am obsessed with these videos! They are so true and beautifully done!
@michaelwellen286610 күн бұрын
Honestly, if you're as good-looking and confident as this guy, you could probably pull the diner trick.
@Dad_left_for_milk7 ай бұрын
That hits hard man
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
The technical aspects of how this was filmed and edited are very appreciable, but the story and the juxtaposed societal sentiment that it conveys is that much more appreciable.
@Blinkers2007GameDev5 ай бұрын
It really does
@TanCamaro-tb8cd5 ай бұрын
@@Blinkers2007GameDev cloud you pls explain?
@Test-ny6uh5 ай бұрын
@@Based_Is_Best the old form is not prohibited. People use tinder because they want to.
@Test-ny6uh5 ай бұрын
ei the old form is not prohibited. People use tinder because they want to.
@cyou1235 ай бұрын
Thank God there's people making videos like this opening people's eyes.
@AS-rr9km5 ай бұрын
Shouldn’t people have their own eyes open? Algorithms collecting data to “personalize your experience” is just a fluffy term for BRAINWASHING. All of this “relationships nowadays 😢” is just because people are basking in their own loneliness because they are too LAZY to get out there & make an effort. Obviously no one wants a lazy partner lol, which is why these online relationships never really pan out…(unless both are emotionally mature)
@aeonyoda5 ай бұрын
Lol
@1A_B_C15 ай бұрын
Nothing will change 100%
@grandmaster62155 ай бұрын
It’s not the men’s fault though
@JamesKeithProduction4 ай бұрын
WITH EYEESSS WIDE OUPPEHHNN!!
@cyberblazefire9 күн бұрын
I love the beginning song sm, I feel it matched the vibe of this video.
@MrS-pe6sd16 күн бұрын
I’m a kid of the 80s, you guys today are missing out. I genuinely feel bad for these guys today. They’ll never know the wholesome excitement and heroism that was involved in meeting girls before the internet. We were quite literally different people because of it.
@samanthap.8795 ай бұрын
I approached my husband! He was working and on a break sitting alone looking sad while everyone else was socializing around him. Turns out he was just relaxing and I’ve been driving him nuts ever since! 😂
@saintejeannedarc94605 ай бұрын
You had the guts to approach a random man, like at a construction or some sort of work site? I wouldn't have the guts I don't think, but what made him the one you had to approach?
@patientEYES7865 ай бұрын
We need more women like u😂😂😂. U hv guts💯💪,edit: the only problem is that you call the shots now. I personally would hv turn u down
@samanthap.8795 ай бұрын
@@saintejeannedarc9460 a hookah lounge with friends
@samanthap.8795 ай бұрын
@@patientEYES786 🤣😂😂
@patientEYES7865 ай бұрын
@@samanthap.879 😉
@rewolfer5 ай бұрын
Love the old way. Even the more modest dressing. And the self and mutual respect. Manners, gentleness. It’s all changed.
@jaydub25465 ай бұрын
Never once done online dating. I just go out lol
@karimabidi83125 ай бұрын
@@jaydub2546same. I am in my 20s and never used tinder, parship or whatever. I don't even have instagram. But I had 7 relationships
@egnoydavid78075 ай бұрын
Life befire the 2000's was the bestttt
@mattbrunson81415 ай бұрын
Conservative values
@HikerBikerMoter5 ай бұрын
subservient women, submissive women - men lead, female obediently follows
@nextgenbatman0419 күн бұрын
That was the best pickup line I have ever heard.
@SelectaWaynazz17 күн бұрын
It's gotten to the point now where women think men who approach them to chat or ask them out are creeps or pervs.
@alexchoy88005 ай бұрын
Facts. I don’t understand dating culture anymore. I do it the old fashioned way by asking them straight up but then girls get all weird and ghost you. I never understand it
@thefrenchempire144 ай бұрын
Maybe they are just arrogant
@jaminga1234 ай бұрын
This is true, multiple of my male friends have done this including me. The girls will be very slow with replies and don’t want to meet up for a date. We’ve given up
@Jamezar4 ай бұрын
They can't socialize in person anymore, they're incapable of it
@patnor73544 ай бұрын
You´re not Chad, and so they treat you like trash.
@thefrenchempire144 ай бұрын
@@patnor7354 huh?
@HandOfDoom02255 ай бұрын
Her response: “Eeewwww!!! Get away from me, creep!”
@Benny_Mel5 ай бұрын
Ikr
@merianviegas88225 ай бұрын
That's only of he forces or harasses her anyone else who does that is mad
@rutamupadhye18285 ай бұрын
the man was good looking. he new he would get her
@KomputerKid5 ай бұрын
Tell me you’re 14 without telling me you’re 14.
@Emily-51245 ай бұрын
@@KomputerKid Said the "KomputerKid"
@kospaghetti18082 ай бұрын
The transition is crazy good
@RobViceАй бұрын
I love the film aesthetic in the bar, feels nostalgic to me
@Ipernova96 ай бұрын
Bro went from taking mind blowing pictures to shooting mind blowing shorts with a backstory. 😮❤
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
Nostalgia is often valid, real, and healthy; for good, not backward reasons.
@Test-ny6uh5 ай бұрын
@@Based_Is_Best the old form is not prohibited. People use tinder because they want to.
@Klauskunze995 ай бұрын
@@Test-ny6uh it's sorta a prisoners dilemma
@macaryl95Ай бұрын
And soon to be taking backshots
@SupaPinkix5 ай бұрын
The color grading is absolutely beautiful *chef's kiss*
@mmaslav617628 күн бұрын
Well, nothing is stopping you to approach dating this way.
@AdrianDanielGuard22 күн бұрын
The cinematography here is awesome 🤝 same goes for the sound edit
@aleksandrolkhovskiy40755 ай бұрын
this is totally fking true how sad you feel on tinder. and how amazing you feel when you actually approach somebody you like.
@AS-rr9km5 ай бұрын
Adrenaline that’s the only difference ! Cmon people. Risk-taking is everything life is about. Swiping isn’t a risk whatsoever.
@saintejeannedarc94605 ай бұрын
I have not seen a man be positive in any way about approaching women in real life in too long. Most of YT comments are toxic about that kind of thing. It's true though, nervous or not. Odds probably against you she is single, receptive to dating if she is, and will say yes, I would think most men would still feel good at least that they had the courage to try. Bonus round if she's sweet about it. Bonanza if she says yes and you get a decent date out of it.
@pablo-zn1mg5 ай бұрын
I'm glad you have good memories about approaching someone in person.
@benjaminmorris49625 ай бұрын
Yes. A good feeling all the way up until you get fired, lose all your friends, and put on trial for a BS SA charge...
@crazycarlitropro24505 ай бұрын
And even if she says no u still feel confidence for the next girl!
@tlopez50695 ай бұрын
Social media has ruined finding that someone. It has damaged men and women. So sad.
@leroyrodgers60895 ай бұрын
Porn has done untold damage as well.
@Arcann-5015 ай бұрын
@@leroyrodgers6089 Actual facts
@danielsdiary83715 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you ❤ ✝️ Jesus is Savior of the world ❤ Jesus saves from hell. Jesus died for us on the cross. He rose again and is coming soon. We are living in the end times. Take refuge in His name ❤ ✝️
@tlopez50695 ай бұрын
So true, my friend who is 35 is so addicted to it. He doesn't do anything to talk to girls, and he has difficulty concentrating. @@leroyrodgers6089
@jm85855 ай бұрын
@@leroyrodgers6089 Undeniable truth. It ruined my relationship with my first love. However, we gotta get up and fight against this demon. I ain't stopping until I've defeated this monster.
@Rawlingm26 күн бұрын
Short men: “hi” Women: 🏃♀️💨
@user-pn8lj4dc3f20 күн бұрын
High man:hi Some girl:🏃 Police!!
@ryanb873620 күн бұрын
Find a short woman. Online dating was designed for just that. Use your tools.
@war6nheaven19 күн бұрын
wtf is this incel comment, there's short dudes who have confidence and a actual personality that can still pull.
@Ryan-kn7eg19 күн бұрын
I'm 5'8. Never had that issue. When you approach girls in person, it matters a lot less than people make it out to be on the internet
@Rawlingm18 күн бұрын
@@Ryan-kn7eg im 5'4", 39 years old. There is a huge difference between being 5'4" and 5'8". I am not saying 5'8" is tall, but what I would give to just be 5'8" lol
@soydixie666Ай бұрын
sic edit bro, musics fitting with the cuts, the transition, the song speed changing, that was perfect
@rawbones41172 ай бұрын
People talk about this but a more significant loss is the role your social circle would do in vetting out potential matches. Back in the day people had wide social circles and they would play an active role in choosing / helping find partners. Parents, siblings, best friends, and long term coworkers would actively match-make people. Dating near-strangers and trying to escalate that to a lifelong relationship is where a lot of the strife comes from. It's much more crucial to keep a large social network and eventually you find romantic interests within that. It's how I met my wife. We were both single teenagers and our mutual friends figured we'd be a good pairing - but we had just never hung out before. So they pushed us together. It helps immensely.
@noahfletcher3019Ай бұрын
This all surrounded church and communities. There's nothing tying people together since we've lost sense of community and religion. Unfortunately we're screwed.
@Bandit0313Ай бұрын
@@noahfletcher3019This is spot on. The only friends I ever made that I consider to be my brothers is from when I went to the Marine Corps. After I got out I went back to not having any friends again, I still don’t other than them but we all live across the country. I truly have no one around me in my state other than my parents and that’s it. Have never had a girlfriend still and I don’t think it’ll ever happen.
@aAa777-5Ай бұрын
Найти людей которые вместе объеденяться - это действительно сложнейшая задача в нынешнее время. Обычно если ты упустил момент в жизни, ну хоть капельку, то ты потерял всю свою долю и найти ее будет ну очень сложно, скорее заработать, чем найти. Девушку можно найти только если вы часто видитесь. Я к примеру человек времени. Со мной надо проводить больше времени вместе, а иначе я не могу построить здоровых отношений. Вот поэтому у меня из друзей, с которыми мы на волне - одногрупники
@noahfletcher3019Ай бұрын
@@Bandit0313 it can happen for you. You gotta go and get involved in something. Go volunteer. Go serve at a church. God will do the rest
@bent4645Ай бұрын
@@Bandit0313 God gives you what you need, just ask. I felt the same way as you and I really only found "brothers" at a church group I started going to in university. I went for a year and never met anyone. Then suddenly a new girl started coming and we slowly got to know each other and going out. She was sweet and loving but unfortunately we weren't really compatible after some time of dating. Regardless, God answered my prayer by giving me a clearer direction on the type of woman that I'm looking for. I suggest giving church a try.
@JessiGutierrez-zi8tu2 ай бұрын
"You look absolutely beautiful, i would like to take you out on a date sometime" "Sorry i have a boyfriend"
@BrandensOutdoorChannel2 ай бұрын
Aka lies
@calebcarl89192 ай бұрын
yeah that one can sting lol
@Beastmd2 ай бұрын
Boo hoo, you win some you lose some. That’s the best case scenario for rejection
@calebcarl89192 ай бұрын
@@Beastmd or just being honest but nice
@americanmariachi972 ай бұрын
Been there
@snuke37Ай бұрын
Its still possible to meet outside of the internet. If you dont meet your match in high school or college, join clubs, go to gyms, be social and interact. There is still hope.
@rogerdinhelm467114 күн бұрын
Only people who never went to gym advise the gym as a dating place. People in gyms do not talk to each other, unless they came together. Girls specifically always wear headphones to show that they shouldn't be distracted.
@snuke3714 күн бұрын
@rogerdinhelm4671 I went to the gym for 7 years straight, and on and off for another 5. Most of the time, yes, people keep to themselves at the gym. Especially if you are just working out solo. But if you take classes at a gym, it is certainly possible to meet someone. I know a bunch of people who have done that. Plus, it's not just about the gym. If you see that person you've seen at your gym, say, at the grocery store...that's a way to start a conversation. It happens. Unfortunately, most people are too timid, and in today's world that's understandable, especially if you are a guy.
@cryonim14 күн бұрын
@@rogerdinhelm4671 And you shouldn't, don't make it awkward for them there, approach them outside the gym and tell them how you feel and that you didn't want to disturb them in the gym, you show a lil consideration and still get your point across. If you truly want something or someone you make an effort in a way that does not bother the other person, that is how you get together and show that you respect someone.
@nataliareal824112 күн бұрын
Social media is ruining humanity
@thesunisinlovewithme5 ай бұрын
I am a woman without social media, and I wait for someone to talk to me like that😂
@declaredjeans75555 ай бұрын
Men don't do this too often, because too many women call this harassment.. And if you do, too many women are nasty in response, which puts us off the entire thing. It's not easy trying again, after being told "ugh, no way, you're too ugly", or "get away creep". I know people that have had that reaction, and they're normal looking people, some even good looking.. But there's nothing stopping you from approaching someone you find attractive, so go for it🙂
@joashedwards72065 ай бұрын
Why? That comes from a privileged positions
@faridwiser54415 ай бұрын
@@declaredjeans7555I'm sorry but that is very uncommon, that's like the one percent of women💀
@ayjeemusic45285 ай бұрын
@@declaredjeans7555bro wtf yall saying to get it misconstrued as harassment? Give a genuine compliment and read the vibes! It’s really not hard to read people’s body language, it amazes me how many guys keep trying to talk to girls that clearly aren’t vibing with them after they approach. They owe you nothing bro, sorry. We all gonna take Ls just move on to the next girl you wanna talk to
@juanpablosaenz90375 ай бұрын
@@ayjeemusic4528Sure Chad...when you get cancelled don't cry about it.
@lavatr83223 ай бұрын
This is the MOST Connected YET disconnected generation EVERRRR
@3a_li58323 күн бұрын
Damn son this vid goes hard Great editing 💯🔥
@risacademics15 күн бұрын
We’re in trouble. I see it every day with the children. Social skills are a cornerstone society and respect. 🐺
@marcosdoyter74605 ай бұрын
Nowadays, the girl would be afraid of the guy approaching her. Even though, he is just a regular person.
@yehuihe18254 ай бұрын
Yeah not even approaching. Just regular complements some girl will be like creepy vibe
@Corvusdotensis4 ай бұрын
Feminism!
@rcstl88154 ай бұрын
That's because media won't show pictures of bad guys because reasons. This would help women decide who is threatening and who is just a nice guy.
@cicatrene994 ай бұрын
Just be chad, bro!
@TheWizardprince3 ай бұрын
As a guy, it is even more difficult now. Imagine the wide range of potential complaints and outrage that even the accepted norms of the 1990s can cause.
@JaneThatcher895 ай бұрын
😭😭😭 I long to have this precious time in our history back! Even though I wasn’t even born until the 90’s. I feel like I’m stuck in a world where I don’t belong at all. I look around and just want to cry, all the time. This society is so detached, miserable, depraved and disconnected.
@abbedino5 ай бұрын
Go find your people. You can do it, I believe in you! It might not come right away just keep it going, you'll find friends for life along the way ❤
@DaoDragonFire5 ай бұрын
you're not alone there
@Chad-Tyrone-Pookey5 ай бұрын
Thanks to feminazi , “gender equality “, hipergamy.
@knowariddle94625 ай бұрын
People our age often say things like this and although it may be true that social media has destroyed our social lives, it’s also true that every generation faces unique challenges. It’s up to us to choose to search for happiness despite the situations we find ourselves in.
@roma-xr4nv5 ай бұрын
Feel that way aswell
@davidsf101Ай бұрын
I grew up in the 90s and the first part was the best and real way to meet people.
@nikolac290v7Ай бұрын
80's
@jakobbednarchuk5761Ай бұрын
Online dating text game is ok, but in person rizz is a skill that most men should still learn. Anyone can flirt online, it takes balls to do it in person.
@ilteschio82445 ай бұрын
I legit tried the first approach, not only she never called me, but her co workers now watch me and laugh like if i was a creep
@charlescarmichael11245 ай бұрын
What do you mean SHE never called YOU. Do you mean she didn't give you her number?
@Randon_Sander4 ай бұрын
Just keep trying man. There’s someone out there for you, and when you find her and she finds you, it will feel so much better that you did the work and put in the effort. It will be something worth keeping to you, and something worth fighting for.
@jasonhudson75523 ай бұрын
@@charlescarmichael1124 lmao
@Grapefruit0003 ай бұрын
@@charlescarmichael1124no, some men give their number so the woman can choose to contact the man if they’re interested. It’s safer for the woman and no upfront rejection is required.
@Leo.de993 ай бұрын
That’s why you never should approach in your area
@TruthGum5 ай бұрын
At least 90% of problems in the world would be solved without social media
@Firemarioflower4 ай бұрын
This is exactly why the illuminati want to keep it going
@grungeofilo24254 ай бұрын
Sure, like f.ex poverty or global warming. Right?
@rail76464 ай бұрын
actually less electronics would slow down global warming, yes, also poverty because people would start spending their money in themselves more if instant gratification wouldn't exist, glad you understand that buddy@@grungeofilo2425
@novadomenavedomia4 ай бұрын
Antisocial media
@Cthight4 ай бұрын
Well it would be bad for woman. No free likes and attention.
@ThatGirlLovesRatties11 күн бұрын
Im 39 this year and I can’t imagine being in the dating world. I’ve been married 16 years and my husband came up to me at a dancehall/bar. He said he had never approached a woman and he was nervous but the eye contact I gave him and some alcohol helped! 😁
@TechRonak15 күн бұрын
"Love is not about finding the right person but being the right person"
@fredbergeron21935 ай бұрын
The sadest part is nowadays if you try the to ask for a date when you are a mid they call you a creep....
@adamruzenec-freerunning98382 ай бұрын
How many times did you try?
@kolbywilliams72342 ай бұрын
@@adamruzenec-freerunning9838 That’s not the point he’s making. He’s pointing out a change in the cultural perception of getting up and asking a girl out. There’s a significant group of women, and even men, who would say you should never approach a woman in a public place like that, or when she’s with her friend because women are tired of being asked out by guys when they don’t want guys to do it. The exception would be that attractive guys can get away with it. Not all women think like that, but it’s not like a guy can sit there and determine whether or not she does think that way, and if so, whether he meets the arbitrary level of attractiveness not to be considered a creep, or whether or not she is in the mood for being asked out. I’m old enough to remember what it was like before, but young enough to know what dating is like now. Getting shot down was never fun, and I have resounding failures and successes that taught me so much. But it never resulted in the kind of villainization and contempt that it does now. A lot of young men do not feel that it’s worth risking, which is sad.
@albyfoster29212 ай бұрын
@@adamruzenec-freerunning9838I've tried over 100 times and think I have good confidence. It's just so easy for someone to find their ideal person online.
@adamruzenec-freerunning98382 ай бұрын
@@kolbywilliams7234 but these are all ideas if you not try it yourself. In my experience women dont mind approaching them if done correctly, your experience may be different, it depends on your area too i guess, but you should have that first hand experience before judging.
@trith722 ай бұрын
@@adamruzenec-freerunning9838 You obviously aren't dealing with modern American women. They are so broken and insane right now you cannot approach them without winding up in jail on SA charges unless you are 6'4, a millionaire, and have a body like a pro football player and the penis of a horse. If any of those are not met, they will put you on blast as a pervert and accuse you of SA for feminist clout. Men are avoiding women to keep from being falsely accused and locked away for years by genetically predisposed liars following a destructive cult called feminism.
@naughty.r0bot5 ай бұрын
1998: Sure, here's my number. 2024: You are not allowed to approach women, ever, for any reason
@topspeedfinder4 ай бұрын
SO damn true.
@April98-ju4ib3 ай бұрын
I love how bitter men like you be acting like it’s not men’s fault and blame it on women when it’s men’s to be blamed 🤷🏻♀️ stop playing victims cuz y’all aren’t 🤷🏻♀️
@April98-ju4ib3 ай бұрын
@@topspeedfinderNOT 🤡
@swappinqentertainment3 ай бұрын
If you do have fun with a charge lmaoo
@vitorbf3 ай бұрын
Everytime I see these comments I wonder if the commenter and those agreeing with actually approached any women at all... It's simple: just don't be disrespectful, and it will be fine
@Oneway.bm28 күн бұрын
That's so true bro dating has been ruined by social media
@natedowns3 сағат бұрын
This is so accurate, no color allowed 😂
@ZaraFazly7 ай бұрын
This is beautifully recorded
@mr.morales07075 ай бұрын
I wish every Netflix film was this wonderful
@shyshy304Күн бұрын
What’s the movie
@gzbmajor159622 күн бұрын
One hour the house collapses.
@dawntie7 күн бұрын
For those of us left behind by the narcissism wake: I love you. I love you more than I can cry. Pain in your eyes are mine, crushing hope into dust. Fearing losing you more than my fear of losing my life. Heart attacking slowly, killing me softly, morbid, vague, nicely numb unto steady a drum, dee dee dumb. Mute my love, your spirit speaks, trailing away, echos of crushed heart, Mine; dust magnets to your joy, of leaving my heart behind.
@majesticlukas7 ай бұрын
You are without a doubt the greatest I’ve ever seen, everything is insane man congrats! The stories are always my favourite
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
Nostalgia is often valid, real, and healthy; for good, not backward reasons.
@nine.045 ай бұрын
That’s so true and sad. I hate dating right now. 😢
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
Nostalgia is often valid, real, and healthy; for good, not backward reasons.
@TheHamburgler1235 ай бұрын
Don't use dating apps. Fight the power.
@byJessCh5 ай бұрын
I've never dated. I find it a waste of time. Most of the times it's just for hook up. I met my husband at work. We started out as friends and now we are partners in life. I would advice women to stay away from dating apps and hook up culture altogether. Don't friendzone nice guys, he might be the one😊
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
@@byJessCh based
@gaynzz68415 ай бұрын
@@Based_Is_Best that's probably a guy
@GabCom8882 ай бұрын
The timing of this video is actually crazy for me. Thank you.
@LostTemplateАй бұрын
okay “KyleNutt” 💀
@whyme3772Ай бұрын
?
@Amy_39917 күн бұрын
ngl your name isnt much better, and this guy is probably just using his actual name, "nutt" is a surname. grow up
@Alexandra_-_-_5 ай бұрын
I'm only 25 years old but I like to tell how a boy (now my husband) during my first year of university pointed at me and said "Hi, I'm Adam, I saw you in class, shall we have lunch together?" he was blushing but at the same time so confident, it makes my heart beat when I think about it .
@SolarMinerPH5 ай бұрын
why did you say "you feel empty" is that good or bad? sounds like negative to me
@bluebellcrushedvelvet5 ай бұрын
Whhaatt??? Tf you are talking about "empty inside"???
@Alexandra_-_-_5 ай бұрын
@@SolarMinerPH I'm sorry if my English sounds so bad, it's not my native language and I translated as I managed what I meant is "it makes my heart beat"♥
@Alexandra_-_-_5 ай бұрын
@@bluebellcrushedvelvet I'm sorry if my English sounds so bad, it's not my native language and I translated as I managed what I meant is "it makes my heart beat" thanks for pointing out the error in my explanation, I try to learn, I corrected it. ☺
@TS-wf3xb5 ай бұрын
I like the story!
@keithanderson82935 ай бұрын
The unrealistic part is that he’s not swiping right on all of the girls
@smiechu475 ай бұрын
Must be his first time
@lukemontgomery29344 ай бұрын
No bruh😂😂😂 ain’t no way u swiping right on all the women
@keithanderson82934 ай бұрын
@@lukemontgomery2934 You’d never understand
@bernardanderson81404 ай бұрын
She’s his gf
@ag-888024 ай бұрын
That's dumb. Honestly, I rarely like someone or "swipe right". Out of 10 maybe I'll like 2 or 3. I'm selective. I'm not looking for hookups and just clicking on every woman. I've tried tender, but females don't respond. I left.
@sasanice711216 күн бұрын
"Uaaaaah. Uauauauaaaaah. Uah." - Chewbakka from Starwars.
@Joe-zj7ux17 күн бұрын
The colour grading and the work here is beautifully done
@mysticalgd51755 ай бұрын
The transition is so clean
@arondavidvilagi5 ай бұрын
You forgot to mention, that nowadays the girls would think the guy who just approached them is cringe and they would reject him in a fraction of a second (and afterwards it would be a funny story for them, how that "creep" tried to take one of them on a date)
@hankova145 ай бұрын
Not really, no😕
@gabrieltheapostle5 ай бұрын
@@hankova14 Are you Russian? Knowing both Slavic women and western ones, i would say that what he wrote goes accurately for western women. But for slavic or more traditional ones, i would say that approaching them is just fulfilling masculine role is positive.
@hankova145 ай бұрын
@@gabrieltheapostle Belarusian😜✌
@raezor825 ай бұрын
@@sammyrockywellyYeah, stranger + complimenting looks is a no-no.
@godswarriors36645 ай бұрын
@@sammyrockywellyyou proved his point
@riyajansari375929 күн бұрын
Its technology that detect by that application the other phone with original accounts just like so complex 🙄 programming.. at this age..it was not possible before a decade..you born in right era ..❤
@xhead7527 күн бұрын
This yanked a chain on my soul.
@TrollMeister_5 ай бұрын
To video editors out there, this was a brilliant example of a "Match cut". Kudos to whoever edited this.
@garythestormtrooper55893 ай бұрын
Why are you acting like a match cut is like this unknown technique? It’s a pretty common technique in filmmaking. Not to dis on the short, the execution here is absolutely phenomenal.
@shyshy304Күн бұрын
What’s the movie
@Zaitekno5 ай бұрын
Strongest short I've seen in months. Artistically showing what is wrong today and that 'the good ol' days' indeed were better. Thank you!
@MasterMLG073 ай бұрын
Its propaganda removing women from agency and blaming a male model for saying nah to decent women. Unrealistic garbage that fails utterly to address a single real world problem or provide any workable solution whatsoever. Youre an idiot if you thought this was the least bit productive and not a wasted opportunity to show a healthy modern initiation as an alternative to negging ab "the problem". Stupid people see only problems and fail to see solutions. Stupid people misdiagnose problems in haste and target symptoms which allows the problems to continue and get worse. Data from dating apps proves that women are doing exactly the thing this video tries to blame men for doing and most men are not. Its serving an agenda and trying to push men to go sit alone at businesses and pay for food while they supposedly wait for princess Emma to slide off a rainbow and float into their life like the unicorn they're saying exists. This isn't 1950 and its disingenuous to suggest the problem is that men aren't doing what old school guy here used to be able to do or that they're the ones wasting away in the dark on dating apps. If guys aren't gay and are genuinely looking for a serious relationship with a girl they're not waiting for Disney movie magic they're using their legs and going to where women are and getting harassed and publicly humiliated taking the L and trying again somewhere else. Thats a real problem we could talk about but it doesn't serve the agenda.
@ShelterDogs2 ай бұрын
Agreed. Well made short. I just wish the song volume was lowered when the actor was speaking.
@MasterMLG072 ай бұрын
Nothing about this video demonstrated a real problem except that ppl don't have money to sit alone in diners waiting for unicorns in the form of potential mates lmao. And it didn't even go there the focus was literally "men are the source of the problem bc they're using dating apps and swiping away girls at a glance, do better men" which is horrendously out of touch with the real world. Dating apps prove that women are the ones swiping away men en masse based on appearances alone so this could've literally just shown a girl doing this instead of a guy and it would've been more accurate and informative. Alternatively it could've shown a more modern interaction and what a good vs bad approach looks like, instead of insinuating that guys just don't ask girls out or for numbers anymore, which is false. Whoever made this is losing their sh* over a small percentage of dudes online saying they give up on trying with women because of the social state of the world, and they're trying to combat this imagined disease by ignoring everything those men say and just further trying to shame them for trying, literally calling that "the problem". Its the dumbest thing I've seen this decade. You just treat symptoms then you enable the real problem to fester and grow. Stop removing women from agency cuz that's all this does and thats actually closer to the source of modern problems.
@Thatdudenice2 ай бұрын
You could do the opposite where she ends up getting murdered in real life and he swiped left on the app.
@MasterMLG072 ай бұрын
Ah yes my comment got deleted because I disagreed. What did I say, theres an agenda here and this is propaganda. Men are not the problem!
@admin4munich2 ай бұрын
time is changing and you couldnt stop it
@LightningRacer94 күн бұрын
As someone born in 2010, I will NEVER use Tinder. I’ll do it the old-fashioned way. Real love. By the way, thank you for reminding me of this nostalgic song.
@rushikeshauti87904 ай бұрын
That was the Golden Time.. I would really Love to go back in the 80's
@TheTarikL2 ай бұрын
This nostalgia is merely a coping mechanism. The 80s had bad stuff as well.
@eclecticx2 ай бұрын
@@TheTarikL Yep, the 80s did. But still, a remarkable decade quite unlike any other.
@LeNoLi.2 ай бұрын
as a child of the 80s i thought this was the 60s
@kozmo72 ай бұрын
@@LeNoLi.as a child of the 90ies, I thought this was the 2000ies
@LeonSKennedy77772 ай бұрын
We’re living in the best time ever! 80s sucked. 60s sucked. 90s sucked. 2000s sucked. Just go touch real grass and put down socials, my friend!
@minilux8392 ай бұрын
The risk is no longer worth the reward.
@banksconsilio1002Ай бұрын
Nope jail time if your over weight and if your broke they will call the cops
@justdaffyАй бұрын
There's literally no risk to walking up to a random girl and asking her out. Loneliness is a lot worse than rejection believe me
@olegnaumov225Ай бұрын
@@justdaffystill could be better than finding her OF
@theoldleafybeardАй бұрын
Yeah, what risk? It's just emotional, and you learn to accept it and thus become truly strong and flexible. Keep on trying, my fella. =)
@literallyanangrymoose7717Ай бұрын
@@justdaffyshe could very easily concoct some nonsense about an assault. Yes, just from his asking her out. It happens. Any woman can destroy a man if she chooses to.
@ReineckeF0x18 күн бұрын
It's oldschool like i am but guys its the strong move a confident man make to ask a woman in person even in 2024
@vikm1341Ай бұрын
This is so sad. Media has disconnected us from reality. It is also making people loose brain cells or something 🤷♀️ Going outside everyday is important ❤
@Phi16180335 ай бұрын
The only difference is in the old school version, she would give him a fake number.
@parodylover9995 ай бұрын
or her VoIP number
@nawelhamza25195 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@rickydugan82235 ай бұрын
He still shot his shot though, most wouldnt even do that so thats still a win imo.
@kapsi2 ай бұрын
And he wouldn't have a worldwide network of incels and other creeps to brainwash him into misogyny.
@fairygodmother139Ай бұрын
@@kapsiexactly. Back then it seemed people could handle rejection a little better but now men just moan and groan online, it’s hilarious. The amount of times I’ve been rejected it’s crazy but I found my husband in the end
@duskhorizon47916 ай бұрын
The real problem with dating apps is that they promote an attitude to life that fails to recognize that human nature is fickle. Fate is changeable, there are setbacks, people can discover new sides of themselves - a relationship must withstand all this. However, the consumer aspect of social media - likes on Facebook and other apps - rearranges the human mind in such a way that we can only think in terms of 'like' and 'dislike'. This makes it impossible to develop the personality structure necessary to sustain a long-term relationship.
@hil4495 ай бұрын
another thing is that most matches on tinder end up being a waste of time because either the person doesnt respond or the conversation doesnt go anywhere. That encourages guys to to like as many girls as possible to maximize their chances.
@stopper02035 ай бұрын
This is such a deep comment - very well said
@Shyzenth5 ай бұрын
Well tought observation.
@danmaertens78725 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this.
@Based_Is_Best5 ай бұрын
Nostalgia is often valid, real, and healthy; for good, not backward reasons.
@joey6058Күн бұрын
I think it would have been better if he rejected the same girl online to highlight how standards have changed for the worse when online dating.
@alexanderuffelmann3382Ай бұрын
Wenn man das heute macht, gibt's gleich eine Anzeige für Belästigung 😂