How do Filipinos feel about foreigners marrying Filipinas?

[@eddietowe8897]

I really like your frank, realistic content. Keep it going!

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you for your kind words! Happy New Year to you and your family!

[@123pb]

Philippinas are gorgeous on their own

[@marvindockery-lo9cw]

Filipinos have been mixing For over a thousand years.

[@DonFarmer-hq5sw]

Like your mother said: “it’s just as easy to fall in love 🥰 with a rich man 👨🏻 as a poor one” ☝🏼 😊❤

[@eddietowe8897]

I wish you the best with your channel. I’ll be following you.

[@ernestmalonkane8668]

I honestly find you channel very informative and interesting. I have just subscribed. I really love the Philippines 🇵🇭, Filipinas are some of the most beautiful, respectful and friendly people in the world. You're beautiful too and you epitomizes the Filipina qualities. Thanks for the good topics! 👍🏻

[@stevesilver7437]

I just want to post and tell you! I appreciate the time you put into your videos!

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you! I appreciate that!

[@charlesweatherly3586]

Very spot on observations. All your comments I believe are accurate. Your points were very well presented giving the historical perspective was a very good way to give your viewer/audience a good lead in to every area you spoke about and understanding of the Filipino culture and traditions . Keep up the good work you articulate well. Hope to hear much more relatable talk of substance that will give anyone contemplating moving to the PHilippines and those who find your talk compelling clarity.

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate it! Thanks for watching!

[@jimmyzarkis6276]

So I asked my Filipino friends this weekend, what's the word for foreigners, white men, that come to your country, steal your women, and act like a holes. They gave me a word. I said it, and they laughed. As i get to know the group better, which changes every 30 to 60 days due to visa/passports expiring, I learn few of them are actually Filipino. Most are mixed with all types of cultures. The one I am chasing, is part Japanese part Filipino. Her best friend is part Chinese and Filipino. She referred to the group really as mutts because of all the colonization. So its pretty hard not to have an interracial relationship when those individuals are already mixed. I am learning the culture, and mindset from in person conversations and watching videos like this to really get to know what's going on. Plenty others are mixed that I meet as well. I asked them how they feel about white men specifically dating their sisters, cousins, aunts. They all said it doesn't bother them. There are plenty of Filipinas to go around.

[@horacesubayar794]

You have a commanding knowledge of the English language and you are well-spoken so there is no need to be nervous.

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you for your kind words!

[@johngatliff7648]

Thank you for your insight, very good information.

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you for watching!

[@John_N_from_NC]

Your English is just fine😊

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you!

[@iamjuleshimself]

Great video! I think another good point to mention is that foreigners are more attracted to the women that Filipinos find less desirable; the “exotic” ones. It’s rare to see a foreigner with a very attractive Filipina, which is probably why nobody gets jealous lol

[@gerbourke1952]

"She's with him for a better life" What woman isn't? Whether man or woman..... nobody enters a relationship without the expectation of a mutual benefit. A career driven woman is not going to date a McDonald's worker. I'm not just talking about the philippines. I'm talking about the world over. Men date down. Women date up. That's just human nature

[@Mr_Fairdale]

Just my observation as a white foreigner, I think the women get the better end of the deal when it comes to being mixed race. Lots of beautiful non mixed Filipinas too, but the white/filipina mix seems to work out better for the girls than the boys. Not saying there aren't any handsome mixed men, there definitely are, but it just seems more likely the girls get the looks.

[@danejohnson8430]

No matter where I go people gossip as outlined but I don’t really care what people think. Three years or 30 years, let them talk. it will not change my way of course jealousy may be a prime example or others but if people talk let them. I don’t care. I am used to this in America every day of my life so that’s why I don’t mind if dogs bark because that’s all they know how to do

[@voiceofreason5893]

Very interesting. The word you were looking for regarding that man you mentioned is "compassion". You felt compassion for them. That you could show such grace in such an intense situation says something about your character. Your husband made an excellent choice. Be well.

[@conservativefilipina]

I appreciate your kind words. Thank you! Happy New Year to you and your family!

[@jacksmith3128]

Most Filipinos only knew one kind of foreigner they used to see downtown on the street of Mabini Manila . The first cousin met me it was back in 2008. We met her for lunch in Makati. I was tall neat hair, not bald clean shaven no three day growth , clean shirt with collar, no tattoos on arms or legs , no aged pensioner look , looked 42 not 72 , athletic not fat and boozy big gut , clean hands clean fingers no ciggy stains , all my teeth none missing, smart Levi’s and clean shiney black shoes no flip flops . I was fully employed with my own car and house back home. Her cousin hadn’t met an Australian before. She told her Aate “ Gurl your so very lucky nman naa ! “ 😊

[@conservativefilipina]

Good for you, and for her!

[@jamez2u]

In 1953 Marilyn Monroe stared in a movie called Gentle Prefer Blondes. In this movie she makes a comment, where she says if you had a daughter would you prefer that she be with a man who can take care of her and give her the things she wants to make her happy. Instead of man who struggles in life and the woman is goes to bed every night wanting more for herself and her childeren. In response to her only dating rich men. So if someone is making a comment that a women is dating a man who has the means to give a woman what she wants, they are really just showing their own insecurities of their shortcoming to make that woman happy. Every man and woman should want more for their daughters and sons

[@jimsullivanyoutube]

Nice discussion! Thanks for sharing!

[@giacomoliga]

you are a well spoken woman.

[@rgtunderworldrgt7773]

Don't fall for the backhanded compliment. That's something white people Never say to other white people. Ever. It's something they say to Everyone Not White. Most do think it's a compliment Think about it? That's all I ask

[@jamesjenningsjr6337]

💯💯💯

[@conservativefilipina]

Happy New Year to you and your family! God Bless!

[@jannarkiewicz633]

Great as always.

[@pete98146]

I’m married now for 16 years to my Filipina. My wife and I were walking in Cebu one day. I was approached by a Filipino male on the street. He told me “ it’s ok if you Kanos marry our ugly Filipinas but it’s NOT ok if you marry our pretty ones.”

[@andre1987eph]

A confederate paid for by your wife 😂

[@pantherman8719]

Wow.... So we can't marry the pretty ones? 😂😂😂😂 Ok. Tbf, a lot of Filipinas are average looking but they can get ANY foreigner. I just recently started liking them because of how humble the women can be. Even the Americanized ones are more pleasant.

[@conservativefilipina]

That is kind of funny! Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder! So, as long as you find her beautiful, that is all that matters! 😀

[@Hoochie243]

That is really not called for. Who is to say WHOM is Pretty and not pretty...this was just a per ignorance statement 😕

[@Hoochie243]

I see this alot when a filipina calls herself.. Ugly..and this is not her fault someone else called her this in her life and she believes it...

[@coffeebotography]

I subbed!😊

[@josiah5776]

I don't see anything wrong with a woman trying to improve her life through marriage. That is what a man brings to the relationship. Men go for beauty, women go for security. That's that natural way of things. People who object to either usually have some kind of ideological ax to grind.

[@hoken706]

Thanks for your wise advice.

[@GettinReal]

Wow as straight as you will get. What is age gap between you and your husband?

[@conservativefilipina]

We're three years apart. Thanks for watching!

[@natedoesfortnite4975]

I do understand from the men's perspective, because in my country we have a lot of them here right now that a lot of the women are taken by them. By no mean's i support the way they act by shouting at you. In my country it is small and you see limited amount what's available to you. There are upsides and downsides to foreigners in a country. Plus side is you get exposed to new things and you do interracial marraiges, downside, is when there are too many of the same looking. My GF is filipina, but when i was there, i went to her hometown in the province, I have had many questions from many women wanting a foreigner. A lot of these women do not want anything to do with the men in their own country, That is the negative side I see about it. This leave men with less options because it seems like a vast magority wants what it outside of their country. As a foreginer I do encourage filipinas to marry their own men, because thats how it should be. without that then the culture die out. Everything is inluenced by everything and before you know it what was once a culture is gone. I know this, i have seen this in my country. Our culture has died out, and my fellow people has fled and, gone overseas or here with someone else that is not from the country. I had to seek elsewhere because in a country so small with 70k people living in it you see the difference. When i was in PH i spoke with a few young ladies and told them can be an option, but the men in their country should be the first option. Not all are positive and will be an end all be all when you date a foreigner.

[@conservativefilipina]

You have good insight! Thank you for sharing! I always appreciate the comments. Happy New Year to you and your family!

[@robocop581]

Last I looked 97% of marriages in the Philippines were between locals. There were 450,000 marriages in 2022, only 3% were with Foreigners. This is why I always take anecdotal stories with a grain of salt

[@user-wq2ve7kq9e]

Hi. Where are you from if you don't mind me asking?

[@conservativefilipina]

@@user-wq2ve7kq9e Born and raised in the Philippines. Now a Floridian. Thanks for watching!

[@freddieallan5727]

Julia Roberts and Hugh Grant

[@lesliewood4069]

Your channel is only get better my dear 🌹🌷❤️👍🙏

[@StarChild.no1]

This may sound ignorant but when I think about it, I’ve never seen a Filipina woman in a relationship with a Filipino man. It’s usually either white or black men - form my encounters on the topic.

[@juanareas5317]

Have you ever been to the Philippines? If so, you must have had a blindfold on.

[@StarChild.no1]

@@juanareas5317 I can only speak on experience existing in my community. But of course I appreciate that same race relationship, makes up the majority.

[@JunBermz]

You can find most Filipino couples in big cities in the US. I live in NJ and I see more Filipino couples than intermarriage couples.

[@natedoesfortnite4975]

Ive been in philippines, and there are WAAAAY more women with the men from their own country.

[@devante28]

Many if not most foreign men date and marry the morena Filipinas. It is my understanding that they are often looked down upon by Filipinos. Do you think the men generally care that those women date foreigners?

[@conservativefilipina]

It depends. To some degree, I can tell that there's a preference for mestizas (fair skin), but the average Filipino man doesn't really care that much about skin color. Thanks for watching. I appreciate the comments, too! Happy New Year to you and your family!

[@lesliewood4069]

You are so wonderful my dear 👍🙏🙏🙏

[@eddietowe8897]

I have a Filipina friend in Nueva Escija. I hope to see her in March. We’ve been talking for 18 months. I really love her. Do you have any advice?

[@conservativefilipina]

It's good that you plan on meeting her in person. It's very hard to really get to know someone unless you spend time with them. Get to know the family, and ask the important questions. Good luck to you both!

[@ealingbroadway2000]

My wife has family in Nueva Escija too. Make sure she is definitely single, don’t send silly money. If you’ve never been before you will love it, I ended up staying 1 year and then another year after that.

[@pantherman8719]

Go over there? 😂

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

I woke up at 2:40A.M. and you were there front screen. Great video. So based on the group of men/situation, you and your husband encounterd during the Manila walk, what's your opinion of foreigners moving out into the province with their female companion/partner/wife. Is it just a safety issue waiting to happen. I know its on a case by case, but do you think it's something to take into consideration?

[@conservativefilipina]

In general, it is safe a safe country. However, it is always good to know the demographic and the history of the place before settling there. Some areas are safer than others, and it is always wise not to get yourself in situations where you could get in trouble. Hope that helps. Thanks for watching!

[@user-bh1se9hn9j]

Big age gap. Is questionable Just seems odd I myself just couldn't do it

[@DoD_DD214]

How about a 60 yr old guy and a 25 yr woman. There’s a guy who met his wife when she was 20, he’s 55. He, they recently returned to Florida. Now 5 yrs later. From their videos on TikTok and or Facebook it appears he doesn’t want her to go out of the house without him or her have a part time job (out of his eye sight).

[@user-bh1se9hn9j]

@@DoD_DD214 hes a fool. All I got to say

[@Gizziiusa]

@@DoD_DD214Odds are against him that they will stay together. 1) She will acclimatize to "Western feminist mindset" and simply monkey branch to a higher value man closer to her age. its only a matter of time. 2) Filipinos have solid social media networks and even physical meetups, so she will most probably be urged to do so.

[@horacesubayar794]

I will agree with you because aside from the obvious benefit, how do you have a meaningful and intelligent conversation when you stem from such a vast generational gap. Before I get any negative feedback, I realize there are exceptions to every situation.

[@Gizziiusa]

@@horacesubayar794 How about neutral feedback? As in, is it absolutely imperative to have meaningful, intelligent conversation with your spouse that most probably speaks limited English? Are you saying all marriages must have such? and if so, why?

[@cucumber1004]

Until the Philippines becomes rich enough, young Filipinas will continue to look for old foreigners.

[@ShredzZ]

Im 29 and I don’t have problem to date Filipinas, so its not only for „old foreigners”. 😉

[@shawnbippley1407]

I love the way you drill down into the culture, and explain the way it is in PH. Pleas keep going! Also, can you give me a way to contribute to the channel?

[@conservativefilipina]

Thank you for your kind words! I appreciate that. My channel is currently under review for monetization. I am thankful for folks like you who show support with encouraging comments! 🙂

[@lesliewood4069]

I just started to watching you and I just Love you very 🌹🌷❤️👍🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@peterinbohol]

I’m white. My wife Filipina. We have two extremely good looking boys. The Filipina white guy mix is a good one.

[@jamesdobbs6942]

Without foreigners money coming in for tourism and supporting filipinas the economic will tank so why should they not be happy

[@lesliewood4069]

You are very honest

[@kristallmenschkristallwolf1969]

well HI i seen in the past 8 Weeks Hours in Videos from Filippina Woman most about this and i say to that if the Filippina Man leave the Woman alone then it gives this Man a very bad Image so i dont care what they think at First and Second i wil ldo everything to make the Family of the Woman an relaxing good Feeling that she is with me cause i will treat her with love and caring

[@michaeljohnston4117]

Empathy

[@George-ux6zz]

I think us Americans are influenced by Filipino culture as well. I know I'm influenced by Filipino culture. Not as much as I would be if I lived there though. If Americans didn't adapt to the Philippines we couldn't live there. Everything is so much slower there. 5-10 things we can do in the US we can do in one day. In the Philippines 🇵🇭 it can take weeks. So we definitely adapt.

[@conservativefilipina]

I completely agree with you on this. Another thing is the food. My husband had to get used to eating rice pretty much every day! 😅

[@George-ux6zz]

@conservativefilipina Most of my family is Filipino with a few Vietnamese. So I'm used to some Filipino food, but dislike a few dishes as well. I don't like dinuguan, dried fish, or especially balut. I tried it and it made me feel sick the rest of the day. I'm sure it was partially psychosomatic. 🤣🤣

[@George-ux6zz]

@conservativefilipina I love chicken adobo, pancit, lumpia, and quite a few dishes I can't remember the names of. I eat the spaghetti 🍝 with hot dogs too. I must say I like my spaghetti 🍝 much better, it t tastes more Italian.

[@Lync1111]

Question regarding the reality of the men and native women of the Philippines. From what we hear from the outside is men of your culture use the women and move on to the next woman. Could it be that this type need foreigners to leave their options alone?

[@conservativefilipina]

I'll go ahead and talk about that in my next videos. Thanks for watching! I appreciate the comments too!

[@Scrunchychingo]

Way off topic, but I can’t ignore what’s in the background. You’re a Marvel fan? And a baseball fan? Particularly Nolan Ryan?

[@conservativefilipina]

Hi there! My husband collects Marvel figurines and MLB collectibles. Yes! I am a fan of Nolan Ryan! 😃 Chipper Jones and Atlanta Braves! I love baseball ⚾️ 😃 😊. Thanks for watching! Happy New Year!

[@trackmancaterpillar1411]

Hello, what do Filipinas Ladies think of guys with blonde hair and blue eyes. Would that be something else they look for in a western man?

[@conservativefilipina]

Some Filipinas would like that. Thanks for watching!

[@kimonharamis7812]

Hugh grant

[@Galloway737]

My wife gets much of the treatment you spoke of from filipino/filipina at home... On the statement you made about "One less filipina for filipinos".... if the guys would stick around with good women and not shoot and scoot, maybe more good filipina would not look abroad for a good man? Not to generalize i have many very good close filipino friends and family. Just many single filipina mothers struggle because the man they "thought" loved them take off. Enjoyed your honest video

[@conservativefilipina]

That's just one of those challenges interracial couples have to deal with. I do agree! That is a sad reality in the Philippines. It's something I'd like to talk about on my next video. I saw the profile picture. Your wife is gorgeous! You look lovely together! Happy New Year to you and your family! God bless you!

[@Galloway737]

@@conservativefilipina Thank you and Happy New Year to you and yours!

[@elephantinrm]

Honestly, until Spain planted their seeds, most in the Philippines were not as attractive. The ones that look Spanish are absolutely beautiful.

[@rgtunderworldrgt7773]

??? I'd call you a Racist idiot. But you already know what you are. You really posted this? Amazing

[@vmac144]

U sound really dumb

[@George-ux6zz]

I'm happy Filipinos don't hold any hard feelings about the Americans occupation of the Philippines. Most of my family happens to be Filipino. My daughter inlaw is an American filipina and my grandsons are half Filipino.

[@Lync1111]

Are you married to a Black American?

[@conservativefilipina]

He's Caucasian.

[@123pb]

Wonder why he asked that?

[@Lync1111]

The question was out of curiosity. Is this bothering you

[@horacesubayar794]

I can't believe people are still asking those idiotic questions in today's times.

[@horacesubayar794]

@@conservativefilipina We wished you hadn't answered that question because not only was it out of line but it was also too intrusive.

[@TruckerBill0531]

Another great video but my Filipina thinks the same way. She can’t wait to have beautiful kids lol

[@AyaMama532]

That means she finds you attractive 😅. Happy New Year to you and your lovely wife!

[@TruckerBill0531]

@@AyaMama532 my best friend and partner

[@2nd2none73]

My question is are you single?

[@conservativefilipina]

I am happily married. Thanks for watching!

[@nandrisolven3641]

Why you put so much efforts to make these sl*ts look good!!!