How Do I Teach My Kids To NOT Be Entitled?

How Do I Teach My Kids To NOT Be Entitled?
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[@xktwnxl4zlx213]

We need more moral and appreciation these days rather than greed

[@samuelclemente9896]

I love greed. Pushes you to thrive

[@DagnirRen]

@@samuelclemente9896 and is the cause of tragedies and injustice throughout history. You lack wisdom.

[@samuelclemente9896]

@@DagnirRen not in my case. Greed help us stay safe! Weird but true. And I many cases still true to this day

[@jamesgrant3812]

@@DagnirRen what if u just don’t care about that

[@DagnirRen]

@@jamesgrant3812 then you’re inherently evil. Have you ever heard the phrase “greed is the root of all evil.” ? It’s simply true, that’s a big reason wars all over are started.

[@agentooe33AD]

Simple. Have them earn what they get (even if it's toys). That teaches them the value of work, and the reward of earning what you work for.

[@rainbowspongebob]

I don’t do this and I’m not spoiled

[@johniii8147]

I don’t know why people complicate this it’s very simple. Regardless of how much money you have You teach your kids they have to earn their keep and I don’t mean that in an abusive way. you have your chores you have your responsibilities And get a job of some sort. They’re gonna have to learn to be independent in their own life so you have to teach them that

[@harrykashouli9774]

This was just a brag call.

[@TartarianTopG]

@@harrykashouli9774 why does everyone assume that

[@genxx2724]

Right. The same way it’s been done since the beginning of time.

[@markg999]

Kids learn from action of parents. If your not acting entitled yourself and smart with money kids will usually also be the same. Dont spoil your kids and once old enough a part time job will also teach them the value of hard work and money.

[@MR3DDev]

"Every parent trying to outdo the other parent" Sounds like when it comes to your kids you still try to keep up with the Johnses.

[@biz4smitty]

Which is ABSOLUTELY terrible as an example to kids because it doesn’t teach them love and appreciation for each other and things.

[@asymptomatic84]

It's joneses

[@biz4smitty]

@@asymptomatic84 Doesn’t matter, it’s still wrong...

[@MR3DDev]

@@asymptomatic84 my bad never kept up with them so didn't know how to spell it.

[@asymptomatic84]

@@biz4smitty I'm saying "keeping up with the joneses" is the correct phrase, genius

[@cw9515]

Always make sure your kids have some skin in the game.

[@nataliazakula3400]

I just started paying them at 12 and 14 for outside chores. However, they are taught that indoor daily or weekly chores are part of loving and respecting themselves and the family.

[@jessicah3782]

I like that! People shouldn’t keep clean for money but for self-care 😃

[@CaseyBurnsInvesting]

The best inheritance is self reliance.

[@janethughes2775]

Amen! Self entitlement and victimhood are destroying our country.

[@alexfonseca2063]

The best inheritance is self reliance plus a little cash.

[@appleforever6664]

Casey is like a kid who feels entitled to comment every video without watching its entirety. SPAMMER!

[@jellygurl27]

I think it's so important to understand that everyone doesn't have the same life or even make the same amount of money. A lot of people who may be in better financial standing sometimes do not understand kids too.

[@JM.TheComposer]

I'm not even a parent and I think this call was brilliant.

[@aprilswallows9609]

I think there is a fine line here. We don’t want to put the burden of finances if the family is in a deficit or give them to much information about finances if the family is in a really good place. When children become teens and need to learn about money that is a whole other thing. I am not a big believer in letting the kids know about finances at a young age. They just are not mentally ready for those type of things. Let kids be kids. The world wants kids to grow up so fast now days.

[@pprreejj]

@A Laputa i don't think they were suggesting kids get stressed but more so that they live an incredibly privileged life so they don't grow up in a bubble. I think the suggestions given in today's video were great... The party IS the gift, the fun you have with your friends and memories you make is what is valuable. Maybe the kid can get a couple of gifts too so that they don't miss out.....

[@pprreejj]

@A Laputa also thank you notes for gifts given is awesome!

[@rossetti1313]

I'm not a parent and idk if i will ever be but this is so amazing.

[@lovyng]

What to deprive little kids of gifts

[@Rubberglass]

Serve and give to those who have less. Get them to experience the truth that it’s more blessed to give than receive,

[@DanielGonzalez-br9tk]

I love these two together. Coleman and Delony are a dynamic duo

[@Slingsomelead]

She said thank to Dave and CHRIS…rip

[@pagalhokya]

Haha, I was looking for this comment. Ken Coleman was so awkward.

[@heroshyma69]

Chris helped change countless lives. What's sad is that Chris is being made to a really bad guy. He made a mistake. We're human.

[@millionairemoveclub]

That’s an awesome story love to see that 🙌🙌

[@derekosgood3230]

By saying no.

[@patricksanden3575]

I really enjoyed this video, I rewinded it and watched it a couple more times. For the reason of how well they spoke and the actions they do. Great, really inspiring.

[@superwhitt21]

never give an "allowance". give your kids a few bucks after they work for it. "allowances" same amount regularly with or without working for it creates entitlement.

[@dedalliance1]

I think usually allowances means you do chores and if those are completed you get paid your allowance.

[@briannahenwardpersonal]

Ooo, snap. She mentioned Chris 👀

[@jaketyler7088]

gotta take this video down now

[@bmmk12]

Ken's face when she mentioned him!

[@martinparmer]

And don't get them or let them have everything they "want". Give them the gift of "want"

[@marquelmcghee]

Their faces when she mentioned Chris! Ha ha!

[@richthepup]

Salute to her for keeping it real he helped a lot of people who don’t care who he’s sleeping with

[@poupeth1]

Don't spoil them.🤷‍♂️

[@starrbeeler629]

Words of Wisdom !! 😁

[@gardenlife-vz7pi]

Oh my goodness! Love this topic, what an inspiration and wonderful values to pass down to our children. Thank you caller for a great question

[@JustinWalker951]

Gasp! She said the forbidden name lol

[@shawnhillis5829]

One of the best pod casts I’ve heard.

[@mariodorsey9260]

I love this !

[@millionairemoveclub]

That’s so true!👊

[@innocentrage1]

"Were in our mid 30s about to be multi millionaires" not with three kids you're not

[@TartarianTopG]

They might be making 500k or have been making 6figs since their early 20s. You never know

[@RealGalaxyGamers]

Kids aren’t as expensive as people think! You don’t need to be giving your kid a lot!

[@Givethanks24]

My favorite episode. Great advice. Children’s hospitals and charities could really use the toys. What a great idea

[@drakekessler9107]

I'm a birth to three therapist and have a little insight into the younger age and learning perhaps this might be helpful: as a three and four year old (depending on their cognition and receptive language abilities, this may look like a five or six year old, but certainly you can simplify it enough to talk to this with a two-year-old which we did with ours) you can talk about the general concept of money. Now for starters we don't want to go into fight or flight and make money a stressful and nervous topic to talk about and drill them anytime you pay a bill touch your wallet or a checkbook. Keep it simple keep it brief and keep it slow when you talk about it. Hey baby girl Daddy has to go to work to make money and money is what we use to stay in the house and pay for things (or mommy). We do three things with money. We save it we spend it and we give some away. What should we buy your brother the ball or the action figure (when we give two choices we set an appropriate limit for a child and we imply that it is going to happen not that they can't do it, the trick is to make one choice that you control in one choice they control. Another example of choice would be Johnny do you want to walk in or should Daddy carry you?) Back to the example: The ball great let's use some of your money to give your brother then let's put some of your money in a piggy bank. Now what do you want to buy for yourself? Now this isn't something we do every time but sometimes. Kids fall into habits and routines quickly so if you do this every once in a while then they also build moderation and delayed gratification. If every time you go to the store you do it then they assume every time they go into a store they need to buy something. Hope this helps!

[@sherriemyles2776]

Give them house chorus and pay them. No chorus no money. As they get older teach the responsibility of spending in saving money. This how I taught my God children's.

[@marktheshark2569]

Very good. My mom did that with me except with me it was getting to go to chucky cheese’s. We had a chart and if I did x number of chores in a week or month whatever it was she would take me to chucky cheese’s. It worked bc I would always do a lot of chores cause I liked going. I don’t know the exact age but when I got to be 7-10 somewheres around there my dad would take me to work with him. He was in construction, and I would do some cleaning up and he would pay me a little bit of real money and I continue work with him as I grew up. I was not taught much about saving but I did learn it bc my parents would always fight about my dad’s bad spending, so they never talked to me directly about saving but always hearing how bad my dad’s spending was helped me learn to save. Wish I would of been taught investing. Didn’t find that out until 20 on my own through KZbin. I do spend money on hobbies I enjoy but I still manage to save and invest. 21 now, I have about 31k between cash and investments. A 10.5k car that I payed for, and between $5k-12k worth of stuff I could sell if I wanted to. I enjoy the stuff so I’m not selling all of it but will be selling some stuff

[@jeffhunter4387]

hey dave got some new i almost killed my self you see money brings insult you know dave.... i almost lost alot of things i cos i want to save my daughter.... wish yall help me thank mr hilda kromer for saving me

[@martinabelsen1151]

I have been able to secure a steady inflow of returns off my investment, with him also and so far would say he's the best in handling profitable accounts..

[@reedhaddon5827]

any recommendations pls...

[@jeffhunter4387]

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@kroemerhil08

[@hsbcint2982]

Thank you for the information.. means alot

[@MijoShrek]

And please teach my peers that the pursuit of happiness is a folley. Life's not going to be nor is it supposed to be happy all the time and learning to get through difficulty, navigating course correction through failures and mistakes instead of instead of shielding them from these facts of life that are sure to end up coming to us no matter how hard you try to avoid. I got a guys community group because Im finding alot of young men scared to try things and fail with anything. Soo much looking for pleasure and distraction on the constant and alot of folks don't know because they've never had, hard conversations that need to be have and that therefore actually make it life easier on ourselves on the other side of them. I grew up on poverty and moved to Utah and these kids living in a bubble and I get it, but man I'm talking with people in their 20s acting and sounding like 12 year olds and it's upsetting because theyre now seeing how their not set up to deal with the realities of life out here.

[@biz4smitty]

Give incentives or rewards “at times” with certain behaviors. Teach them about money. Let them see some of the money struggles while talking the budget out “with” your husband. Teach them stewardship with tithes, offerings, and talents and work. Chores are good and follow through on things you say like really take things away from them when you say you will to teach them to manage what they have well, discipline and appreciation. It teaches that mismanaging things and time will cause them to loose things.

[@marktheshark2569]

I with u on everything except tithing the rest I agree with

[@isaiehheiken1665]

I think the root of messages being lost today is because of the lack of intentionality within the family

[@ajr993]

What happened to the EPIC guitar riff intro? dun du du dun dun ... DUN! DUN!

[@oness1334]

The new one sounds like Fear the walking dead intro

[@alexplotzke1]

Ken: “Don’t tell them how much money you make” Both of them: “Make sure they understand the budget, how much you make…” Huh????

[@moniquecaesar1350]

Great advice in this segment

[@joyaustin6581]

Let them think you have little in excess

[@rileystauffer3232]

I hope every here fines the Financial successes that they deservedly guys can do it just got to stay focused

[@wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303]

"I hope everyone here finds their financial successes that they deserve. You guys can do it, just have to stay focused."

[@firepatriot42]

Easy. Make them work for what they want. I never had the latest tech or gizmos. I wanted it I worked for it.

[@firepatriot42]

Growing up.*

[@yesseniaescobarable]

6:30 oh I thought I was only one! This is so awesome 👏🏽

[@dancerfruit2]

Love this!!

[@YadraVoat]

You could also develop your own intra-family money so that children have the opportunity to learn all five types. (commodity, fiat, debt-fiat, measurement, and cryptographic)

[@jbeav3902]

Make them read warren buffett stories. They won't want to spend a dime.

[@RealGalaxyGamers]

@Living Traditions Homestead Reported you bot/scammer!

[@r987p]

You won't know what entitled means by the time this inflation ends

[@AaAa-ri4uf]

Lol she mentioned Chris!

[@jeffdorris5321]

Nice work ✨🎇🎆

[@theoutlier66]

So yes, that’s why my dad never told me how much he made.

[@lindagibson5227]

I love the party idea

[@RealGalaxyGamers]

Them: Don’t disclose your salary to your kids! Also them: have them play on the floor when your talking about how much you made how much you give etc. Me: 🤦‍♂️

[@tsze06]

Tell your kids to work early

[@JesusCervantes-vl4mb]

Chris😂😂🙊

[@barbieblue3336]

People paying 2021tuition, getting 1981 wages

[@EmpireTextbooks]

Why do they say “tithe” instead of “donate”? That’s kinda weird

[@Spaceysgurl]

Ooh she said a bad word.

[@inmate0054]

God help you if that was the firefighters that came to your rescue

[@fauxbro1983]

Simple don't entitle them

[@bridgetnash638]

Get some play money and let them do a kid-level budget alongside you. Maybe they start out with 10 of play money in different dollar amounts and change, have them count out dollars and change for made up categories like saving, donating, toys, happy meals, etc. Make it easy math so when they ask, you don’t have to think about it too hard. 😄

[@marktheshark2569]

That’s fine except the donating part, they r kids they won’t be donating for many many many years if at all

[@bingerz237]

Don't spare the rod! Use it to teach them measurements and value.

[@mambofuego5101]

Pay allowance when they pay rent…

[@alej_adame]

Parents in the guetto need to hear this

[@5_C_G]

Don't buy them anything lol

[@miketheyunggod2534]

How ironic. A millennial asking how to keep their kids from acting like their entitled. The entitled generation.

[@dedalliance1]

Every generation has had entitled people.

[@staceystrukel1917]

Funny, the older people in our family act more entitled than the younger ones. Maybe you should stop judging people based on their birth year. Only ignorant people make comments like this.

[@miketheyunggod2534]

@@dedalliance1 the difference is ALL millennials are entitled. That’s their mantra. Bernie Bros.

[@miketheyunggod2534]

@@staceystrukel1917 awwww. Are your FEELINGS hurt? Poor baby. You need your safe place? Don’t you?

[@dedalliance1]

@@miketheyunggod2534 lol. You've met every single millennial huh? Lets use this for example, just about every person who faught in the middle east wars is a millennial. A millennial is anyone who turned an adult in 2000 to 2015.

[@djpuplex]

She sounds like a helicopter mom. How much do I share 🤷‍♂️

[@davidcarson8950]

Working on the Lord’s Day. Tsk, Tsk, Tsk

[@mikieemiike3979]

This may not be for you. Im just saying this- the Lord's day is the day of the Lord's vengeance. The Sabbath is the day of rest because that's what it means. The word Sabbath in Spanish is Sabado. Sabado is, by default, Saturday, also. Saying the Sabbath is on Sunday is like saying Saturday is on Sunday. Utter nonsense.

[@yomocute9403]

By making them earn everything, you want a cookie? Sell you pacifier.

[@johnmirbach2338]

😁✌👌👍🖖😎