How do you know if you're bisexual? Signs, myths and bisexuality explained

[@abbeyestand]

Question of the day: Do I want to be her? Or be with her?

[@yuyu-ff1wj]

FORREAL

[@brocken6228]

Totally felt that

[@onthevergeoftearsallthetim3890]

bye me with my best friend- i’ll be like “i wish guys liked me” then “i wish she liked me” then i’m just like 😀😄😀

[@brocken6228]

@@onthevergeoftearsallthetim3890 smile through the pain

[@pantheraviva]

M O O D

[@lana2062]

im confused about my sexuality but im even more confused how the person was writing backwards

[@Thebigcoffee]

Me too

[@camioriginal5677]

Thats what I was thinking

[@shannongrummisch8881]

I too am confused about my sexuality. I can’t tell if I have a crush or am just craving affection from anyone who talks to me more than twice.

[@mitskily8960]

relatable-

[@marlidupreez9260]

The screen was flipped😂

[@harrypotteriseverything7469]

Bi friend: Its okay to be bisexual! Me with a homophobic family: w h a t

[@agrestetapes6348]

lmaoo me, btw love the picture of young Tom

[@vincent-uc6kk]

hahah same. my uncle is gay and noone in my family supports him. im scared 😀

[@apollos_flower]

I'm still figuring it out but my fam is homophobic, even though my dad's cousins is a lesbian women and gay man and my cousin is also lesbian non-binary. I seriously can't understand my family 😑

[@charlifilms8176]

My dad's homophobic

[@agrestetapes6348]

@@charlifilms8176 my entire family is homophobic and both my parents are racists

[@Eraldo_Coil]

The sad thing is, I have a female friend who came out as bi and a lot of people supported her, but when I came out as bi (me being a guy) sure I got support from friends, but got a lot of hate from people too, compared to my female friend. She never got any hate (at least not publicly) but people would comment saying I was a f*g and all this stuff. So for any males out there who are coming out as bi or gay, just stay strong, someday it’ll be more accepting as bi and gay dudes.

[@Cody-Bear]

That's why I try to be careful who I tell

[@jiliciar.1423]

Sending hugs 🫂😊

[@Kadaitchi]

Men really shouldn't announce it (generally speaking). I am myself 80% female and 20% male preference being bisexual. Although I am not afraid to answer people directly should I consider them to be genuine. I would certainly not announce it to the public or entertain the curiosity of trolls, phobes or extended acquaintenances (just ignore them completely) it's none of their business. Men are more generally respected for staying cool, calm and collected. Be comfortable with who you are just remember we'll never be celebrated the same way women are celebrated.

[@geno5169]

You’re coming out story sounds messed up! I’am sorry you weren’t so supported by everyone like your friend! I also tried gay sex when I was in my teenage days! This might sound weird! But my cousin and I started a sexual relationship together! I enjoyed it so freaking much! Then with my friend! I enjoyed that connection more with my cousin! I actually miss that with him! And gay sex! I did get married and he did too! I miss having sex with a guy! That’s probably why I got married I couldn’t find that connection again !

[@kristoff1skalet176]

​@@geno5169 Your story isn't weird in my opinion. I believe the type of incestuous relationship you describe is much more common than most will ever admit.

[@teresa-bm6wj]

signs you might me bisexual : "wondering if you are bi" me : shitt..

[@haha_confusion]

Same

[@user-bl7lu4wb8v]

same

[@ariayeetsu]

Oh shout......

[@animewatcher5007]

Hahahaha

[@diyayaaa]

Ohh godd no

[@kishasfilms]

How to know your bi : You clicked this video.

[@alice6272]

I feel ✨called out✨

[@yourlocaldemon2195]

@@alice6272 ✨i n d e e d✨

[@eriannahsofia]

@@alice6272 ✨me too✨

[@lifeisworthlivingsoliveano463]

Lmao call me out

[@heyitsella117]

I'm a lesbian actually, but I find this kind of videos interesting.

[@shownusthaifoodinhongkong4843]

"I'm bisexual" "What gender are you dating?" "A guy?" "So you're straight right now." "What?" "You're straight when you date a man and you'll be gay when you're dating a woman." I no longer talk to that person

[@Oh_Low]

Bruh-

[@Kris.krisis]

uhhh 👁👄👁

[@flopkima]

good thing you dropped them

[@drpepper.ismine.14]

Ikr

[@lulu_the_third]

Wise decision. Carry on my fellow valid bi friend.

[@gay_alien0529]

5:55 Before realizing I was bi, I came out to my elder sibling as lesbian. I went to different phases and now figured out I am bi. It basically proves that, you can question your sexuality and gender and its ok also it proves that its NOT necessary that every bi person will turn up being lesbian/gay or straight.

[@user-ho3uu4sn4p]

Sign #1: you heard one of the signs and said “oh shit”

[@demonshadowyt7162]

Yep that was me when he said the first sign

[@eisthebestletter7836]

@@demonshadowyt7162 yes

[@Valentina-th6tm]

Yeah 😅

[@DORKKYY]

Yep

[@priscilla6944]

yeah

[@evelyn2327]

I’m definitely just confused about my sexuality 😹😹

[@lizethchavez1112]

Same here

[@ray-gu5qm]

Same

[@pidgewidget6612]

same lol, i have absolutely no clue 😂

[@Ananyaagainstallodds]

Mood

[@Vega.voices]

Evelyn Me too. I don‘t know it yet

[@maneskin_for_life_1427]

When he said victorious I was so relieved it wasn't just me jade 😍😍

[@verybored4026]

yep same

[@PikminandOatchi]

Andre though.

[@martha-hy7vq]

OMGGGG

[@verybored4026]

@@PikminandOatchi fr

[@Ag_Ai.senia06]

ha same

[@garencrownguard6286]

My friends: you're dating a guy that *GAY* Me a bisexual: HUMAN IS HUMAN

[@BTSLiveUploader]

@Izuku Midoriya A.K.A Deku This comment!!! 😂😂👏🏼♥️

[@grahambrake5495]

That would be pansexual not bisexual. 😅

[@Creative_mess4]

@@grahambrake5495 no doesn't bi and pan have only small differences first off bi is mostly with preferences where pan just isn't but you can have no preferences as bi as well so it's mostly just what you identify yourself with. Bi means you are attracted to more than one gender and pan is more like you don't have preferences and you are attracted regardles their gender it's a little complicated but hope this helps you undersand it better!

[@grahambrake5495]

@@Creative_mess4 they way she said it fits your description of pan sexual though

[@Creative_mess4]

@@grahambrake5495 it's really just about what they identify as so who knows

[@candybomb6483]

me: I’m bisexual for sure, 100% bisexual video: are you bisexual? me: idk let’s find out (edit: WTF HOW DID I GET SO MANY LIKES HELLO LGBTQ+ COMMUNITY) (edit 2: um ok so i recently found out im actually a lesbian but bisexuals i love you)

[@Eztli__Void]

Yes!

[@dinonuggets8973]

AHAGSAJSASSH

[@stells8518]

Same xD

[@dianadjumanazarova7026]

If it ain’t me 😂

[@Mateiisback]

Lol same

[@skylarmercykilled1986]

Bisexual culture really is having a crush on Jade and Beck, cause same man

[@trishalennex4630]

Yeah, I didn’t realize that happened for me on the exact same show

[@Sddvhjkkll]

I don't rlly like beck but I have a really really really tiny crush on jade like

[@felicitynotfound]

Omg victorious was my favorite show! I was obsessed with jade and beck. Over the summer I watched the show 4 times and I couldn't stop staring at Jade and beck. Omg the fact that he brought this up in the video literally meant everything to me.

[@lavender_crystal6420]

@@felicitynotfound are u a thundermans fan If so who is your fav character

[@felicitynotfound]

@@lavender_crystal6420 yes I am a thundermans fan. My favorite character is Phoebe. I named my cat after her.

[@felixettos]

How to be 100% sure that you're bi: -you have had a crush on a guy at least one time -you have had a crush on a girl at least one time Edit: just to clarify, not just crushes, any attraction to both genders

[@kalathomas20]

Ur just joking right cause ive literally only ever had a crush on one guy he became my boyfriend then we broke up and i ve been questioning my sexuality for 2 yrs now, this year more then ever

[@vivinotfromloona]

tho one thing to remember!! comphet does exist (it's something lesbians experience where they think theyre attracted to men and force their feelings because society expects women to like men) and its incredibly common, so make sure to think "did i have a GENUINE crush on a boy? did i have a GENUINE crush on a girl?" and make sure the crushes are real/obtainable, lesbians crush on fictional boys or celebrities because its impossible for them to ever date them. im just sharing this because im a lesbian and i used to think i was bi because of comphet and i just want to help others 🥺

[@kalathomas20]

@@vivinotfromloona thank you this is really helpful

[@heyitsella117]

@@vivinotfromloona same, thank you for clarifying

[@SpideriMan]

Not really. I’ve only had one crush in my entire life and it was a guy, but I’m 100% sure I’m bi. You just know it and it feels right. Just some people can’t fall in love easily.

[@lisforloser444]

I was pressured into questioning my sexuality by my ‘friends’ two years ago now. Since I was ashamed of having a crush on anyone (childhood stuff I won’t get into) I thought I was asexual/aromantic. Now I’m so entrenched in it, I’ve noticed myself immediately shut down any romantic/sexual feelings about anyone. One of my bisexual classmates would always stereotype people on what they would wear and what music they liked. I felt like I couldn’t talk to her about my sexuality because I didn’t cuff my jeans and I didn’t watch victorious as a kid. Also my so-called friends at the time gave me the wrong definitions of bi, pan, ace etc. The label ‘bisexuality’ just feels rights, as you said, and since 2020 I’ve been seeking out bi content on the internet. Most of my friends are lgbtq, and my family is mostly accepting, but if I’m not ready to come out to myself, how can I come out to them? As for gender, I’ve always felt quite comfortable identifying as a cis (y’all it autocorrected to customer 😭) girl, and no other pronouns feel right. I know pronouns don’t always equal gender, but yeah. I’m so fucking confused, about sexuality mostly. Wow that felt good to get off my chest! Whenever I have these talks it’s always about someone else. Update: I ordered a bi flag off of eBay in the middle of writing this comment, and I definitely feel more confident as identifying as bi. Still not going to bother coming out, as there’s no real pressure to, I guess. I can identify how I feel right now, I can always change my label later.

[@islaonyoutube]

when you convince yourself that you're a lesbian but then there's that one guy that you find attractive

[@altf4_pls]

Same but except I am a boy

[@errorno1085]

....... maybe it’s the vibe you get from them?

[@altf4_pls]

@@errorno1085 yes that's what we're saying

[@5thgrdrz]

look up compulsory heterosexuality, you might be a lesbian

[@errorno1085]

@@5thgrdrz or just bi lol

[@LunaCloudyGacha]

me: mom i am bi! my mom: you're too young to know! me: *triggered*

[@CatsRc00l]

My mom would probably be the same :I Edit (a month later): I'm 11 almost 12 and I told my mom I'm bi- She supports me 😅 So it your my age don't worry your not alone 😌💖 And LunaCloudyGacha you grew alot since i was last here 👁👄👁

[@LunaCloudyGacha]

@@CatsRc00l :(

[@yoloitsme1221]

Come back at them with the "how old were you when you knew you were straight?" question😏

[@kurokenismyotp5943]

haha... literally happened to me a few days ago.... funnnnnn

[@skylardominguez3091]

I haven't come out to my mom yet, I never will cause I don't wanna get yelled at or anything ya' know. T

[@Arryn-witch]

KZbin: pits this video on my recommended. Me: ITS A SIGN FROM ABOVE. In all seriousness though, I really enjoyed this video as I have been wondering what and who I am. But this amazing video has helped and I am now convinced I am BISEXUAL. Thank you so much.

[@-_a_single_flame_in_the_ni5467]

Congrats!

[@Arryn-witch]

Thank you!

[@avi5259]

Congratulations,welcome to the community!

[@madwrld8769]

I am legit confused on what I am...really. I feel like I'm straight but i do get attracted to some girls too. I think for now since I am still figuring out who I am that I wont put a label on myself. I'll just be "curious" for now and see how it goes 🤷‍♀️👍 edit- I completely forgot I had this comment on here until I got a notification from a reply. I was bi then pansexual last year and now I am straight again due to my beliefs. I hope y’all are all finding yourselves 🤍 and good luck to anyone out there figuring out their sexuality.

[@ellaharris8103]

Same

[@vaishnavimishra5161]

Same

[@SmileSmile-gk7jk]

Same i am a girl too I dont know i cannot understand if I am bi

[@squiggles790]

Same!

[@beckysberries4441]

Yea I’m so confused, especially since I think I’m romantically attracted to only boys and sexually attracted to mostly girls but like a liiiittle bit boys, but I’ve also never been attracted to a girl irl. And since the attraction feels different my brain just keeps thinking “what if you’re not actually attracted to boys? Were you just pretending?” But like I’ve def had crushes on boys but l feel like I’m faking it ughh

[@sksp5149]

I don’t know if I’m bi or not I kinda think I’m bi but I’m not sure

[@raquelmarino4616]

Same I have always been attracted to guys but lately I have been interested in a few girls as well and now I just feel very curious

[@johannabarriner2905]

Same😔

[@taekooktrash9607]

@@raquelmarino4616 samme2. I even searched acc on ig about girls..? Not boys, but girls. But when I watch tv, I just tend to pay more attention to the guys.

[@charlottetrevena2574]

@@raquelmarino4616 same for me

[@elinebuchanan9316]

@@raquelmarino4616 This is literally me!

[@ssstella.a]

If a homophobic person says: “God hates the lgbtq+ community” Just remember... “Why would god create something he hates?” Hope this helps you if someone has said this to you! You are valid! :)

[@CrackedPropane]

I’m pretty sure God hates humanity equally

[@oh6489]

@@CrackedPropane yeah god doesn’t gaf at this point, we’re all just tiny ants on a tiny rock in space anyway and he knows that

[@kingzkb2195]

God didn't create the different sexualities, he just approves of it. Humans created an affection for the same gender, not God. He just doesn't stop it. If God wanted to, boom snap of his fingers everyone is straight. But he likes playing with man kind. He likes seeing our progress as we go on

[@caffeineaddict9761]

this comment: being LGBT+ is not a sin so you might not go to h*ll me: i still will after hearing some "sounds" that i now want to unhear xD

[@darthestar8791]

@@kingzkb2195 God works in mysterious ways........

[@dani-qy2ns]

I'm straight, but I like watching people being themselves and not being afraid to show how they really are, and I support

[@brocken6228]

I like that

[@joonsfavlucy7293]

This is the most relatable comment I have seen today 😭

[@bobthenob5453]

What are you, then?

[@loading8434]

@j omg I thought you were about to be like: “I used to support lgbtq but then I realised it was bs” and I was so ready to rain down anger and how beautiful the community is 😂 I’m happy that you do support tho ❤️ 🏳️‍🌈 also who? If your talking about mcyt as in mc KZbinrs than I can relate

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

Please, help me. I have 2 out of 5 signs according to this video. I consider myself as a straight woman, I never had a crush on woman, but than, I kinda freaked out when I find out that when I see orgasm and moaning woman turns me on. And also, as the video says, it's not always split 50/50 feelings above 2 genders. Am I bi? This is important for me, because I live in the religious society. Though, I'm not againts lgbtq either.

[@BenNewtonCliveOswald]

3:57 *Me, who simps for many female and male fictional characters who don’t exist:* THIS CONFIRMS IT! I’M BISEXUAL!

[@AF-pq7wj]

how do u know that ur bisexual: u clicked this video

[@bangtanimosity8564]

Accurate

[@Ally_cat-nm5le]

I'm ace and demiromantic I just wanted to watch this

[@kcr9274]

Video: “You are attracted to men” Me: mhm Video: “You are attracted women” Me: mhm Video: “These are the basic foundations of being bisexual” Me: mhm Video: “You are bisexual” My brain for the past 4 months: no ❤️

[@hiitsme9283]

JUNTA- 😳

[@AF-pq7wj]

@@hiitsme9283hi its me

[@karlaewe4294]

the "Not always a 50/50 split" made me so RELIEVED, is one of the things that make me doubt myself the most, and when i first heard that i didnt need to feel the same amount of attraction for all genders, it blow my mind off, and every time i heard it, it just makes me so happy

[@zagorskaewelina]

Same!

[@urmum1o1]

Sammmmmeeeeee

[@r.s.fletcher7066]

I think mine is like 90/10💀 Im sexually fluid with women and honestly sometimes I feel like I just identify with being gay

[@ivetakopa5957]

I'm bisexual (this is me coming out)

[@rosiewatson5432]

Congrats!

[@lains2710]

Yuppp congrats you are so loved and valid

[@alisha5207]

Congrats🙃

[@alisha5207]

Congrats🙃

[@ivetakopa5957]

@Cam Morrison lol no

[@baileywithab9863]

This was really helpful. I'm a 29 year old woman, and I didn't understand my own attractions until I was 25. I had spent years seeing other women as attractive, but genuinely thought it was something all women experienced- or that I was just saying it to get the approval of my male friends. I've also never dated a woman, so it took me a long time to reconcile that lack of the experience doesn't mean the feelings aren't real. I mean: how does anyone know they're straight before their first kiss? They just know. Just like I just know now

[@Violet-oy9us]

I know im young, i know that people will think that my phone has made me like this and its just a phase, i know i havent even kissed anyone before, but i know that i like girls and guys. (coming out yAY)

[@gisleidymacias521]

congrats !

[@mariaalejandravaldez1168]

Congratsss!!! I’m so proud of you

[@Thebigcoffee]

Congrats

[@burninngg3294]

Congrats! And me to :)

[@tarrenituptv4121]

Congrats to you my friend!!

[@rebeccasanchez3651]

The toughest question: Admiration or crush?😭😭

[@urjakanabar2232]

Oh god yesss😭

[@el1941]

I have a massive crush on a girl that thinks she’s straight now and it kills my heart-

[@uhh3457]

@@el1941 me..

[@Neha-us2nf]

Same thing , i today's liked 2- 3 girls at same time 1 boy

[@wrench697]

@@el1941 yeah nezuko-chan

[@jeonJungkookgirlfriend]

Well I don’t have any girl crushes but I can imagine my self with a girl and being married

[@PK505]

Same tho...

[@hiimfromarea5162]

youre still valid! and actually maybe if you think about it you might have had girl crushes in the past, ive been thinking alot about it recently and ive realised ive had a shit ton of crushes on girls before

[@sandra8990]

ur pfp is um interesting 😁👍🏻

[@jeonJungkookgirlfriend]

@@sandra8990 what do you mean😔

[@sandra8990]

@@jeonJungkookgirlfriend U CHANGED IT-

[@jacethemenace3640]

Why am i so proud of this guy for telling his story

[@happygustofwind1610]

Me straight af... This video pops up in recommended Alright let's see...

[@Anna-ji3hd]

Omg same

[@saturn.stqrrr]

Literally why I clicked the vid

[@yourmum1963]

Same

[@lizzyzwarttas1383]

Same haha

[@malex027]

I got news for u--

[@noah.leis.na.puca.]

to any one scrolling I hope that you know that you are valid no matter what and that there is a lot of people out there who will accept you for you 💖🧡💛💚💙💜

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

It's just so hard when you lived in my country

[@n.e.o.n3983]

@@idontwannabeanonymous4725 which country do you live in?? There must be ppl accepting you :) You just need time to find those who love you for who you are , you can't live pretending to be someone else. Dw sweetie everything's gonna be fine , you'll figure it out as time goes💜

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

@@n.e.o.n3983 somewhere in south east asia

[@WSASWholesomeScarfsandSweaters]

Thanks

[@noah.leis.na.puca.]

@@WSASWholesomeScarfsandSweaters have a good day😊

[@MJY5more]

Someone once replied to a comment of mine saying “your not 50% gay and 50% straight, but your 100% gay and 100% straight”

[@JumpiiB]

Bisexuals are great They aren’t gay They aren’t straight They are *graight* Yes I stole this from Reddit, I forgot who originally said it though

[@joelledieduksman]

*you're

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

Please, help me. I have 2 out of 5 signs according to this video. I consider myself as a straight woman, I never had a crush on woman, but than, I kinda freaked out when I find out that when I see orgasm and moaning woman turns me on. And also, as the video says, it's not always split 50/50 feelings above 2 genders. Am I bi? This is important for me, because I live in the religious society. Though, I'm not againts lgbtq either.

[@shineesdiamond3218]

@@idontwannabeanonymous4725 you may be curious, you have a side of you triggered by women, but little. Or you are bisexual with all the meaning (romantic, physically etc). A reaction isn't enough to really named. You need to think deeply at things you like at both, what is really important and get a result. I realised I'm bi from a young age so I don't know how to explain the searching. Think about situations, be calm, this happened to a lot, if you are bi, love yourself, if not, again, love yourself

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

@@shineesdiamond3218 thanks, your heartwarming reply more helping than all my family

[@mars-oz6gb]

i have realized i was bisexual about four years ago. ever since then, i've been discovering my gender identity and i now identify as a genderfluid bisexual. the way i feel around men is the same way i feel around women. they give me butterflies, they make me feel nervous (in a good way), all of that love and romance stuff! i have experienced a lot ever since i came out as bisexual on the internet. but, it has been genuinely humiliating because people on the internet are trying to ignore the problems and biphobia bisexuals receive. we're starting to get less representation. we're being viewed as sterotypes (etcetera) unlike other sexuality's and it hurts. i'm tired of people saying that bisexual people don't exist and i'm tired of people saying that all bisexuals just want attention. these things that people say make me feel that im lying to myself. they make me feel that i'm lying about my own sexuality, which i'm really not. i literally can't control these emotions i feel towards towards both (and more) genders. i'm so mentally drained from non-bisexuals speaking over us.

[@ethangraham9976]

I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back, after being separated for months. all thanks to Mr Adewolu whom help me to get back my ex again, I will suggest y'all get help from him and it works within 48hours........

[@ethangraham9976]

Whatsapp him for help*🙏*

[@treasurearerookiemonster5839]

Signs: *You listen to Sweater Weather*

[@mariaalejandravaldez1168]

Don’t attack me like that please

[@kosalraman2381]

I listen to a remade version of Sweater Weather is that ok?

[@mariaalejandravaldez1168]

@@kosalraman2381 it’s totally fine, and a song doesn’t define your sexuality, just believe in yourself and what you feel

[@therealsalemjules]

Shit I listen to that a lot

[@kaidouhottopicgiftcard]

Another sign: You have a clear phone case

[@wonky_chicken3449]

I feel like I’m attracted to everyone but don’t like anyone-

[@potatoe9716]

Same

[@jay8256]

I think that might be: omi, and a sexual

[@gracebeshears4397]

That could be bi or Asexual

[@sibilansnel]

Could be pansexual and asexual

[@Illiviestrations]

Not to assume but, here’s some labels that might fit! asexual ~no or lack of sexual attraction towards anyone demi-sexual ~may feel sexual attraction towards someone after building a connection gray-sexual ~rarely feels sexual attraction, but may feel it under certain circumstances fraysexual ~sexual attraction fades after initially meeting someone aromantic ~no or lack of romantic attraction towards anyone demiromantic ~may feel romantic attraction towards someone after building a connection grayromantic ~rarely feels romantic attraction, but may feel it under certain circumstances biromantic ~romantic attraction towards 2 or more genders (with or without preference) panromantic ~romantic attraction towards anyone no matter their gender (typically called ‘genderblind’ also without preference) omniromantic ~romantic attraction towards all genders (with preference) polyromantic ~romantic attraction towards multiple but not all genders (with or without preference) frayromantic ~romantic attraction fades after initially meeting someone Hope this wasn’t offensive in anyway possible!

[@Vivigreeny25]

Me: *Knows that I'm Bi, maybe something else under that umbrella term, but definite attraction to both binary genders, and maybe non-binary ones, Im not sure lol* Also me: *Watches video because I de-validate myself on a daily basis, wtf brain*

[@azale_2241]

Same here

[@sadies8100]

Same, and also assisting the bi-curious peeps in the comments on figuring things out.

[@RebelQueenAmelia]

I'm demi, but I can sure get the whole "self-devalidation on a daily basis thing," hopefully you can be more confident in your validity in the future.

[@nightthinker4440]

this is me. 100%. all the time.

[@angeline808]

Stop attacking me 😂

[@andreabell8130]

Ever since I was very little (about 7) I have always thought about liking girls, I used to watch vines created by a lesbian and thought to myself "That would be fun, liking women." I never knew there was a name for it. I kind of pushed it down and ignored that I still very much had crushes on girls. I still liked guys though so I just thought I was like confused or something. Eventually, I found out about bisexuality and it just fit me so much I am a very happy bisexual :) Thank you for coming to my TedTalk.

[@zoharporat5429]

im a 13 year old who is very much confused, every single example that you said described me. now im very sure i am bisexual

[@jaywaypeeeasassybaka3184]

The country that I’m from is kind of conservative people are homophobic and racist but mostly homophobic I mean it’s full of white people so when a person of different race shows up people stare but I can’t really call that racist , when I first found out about gay people was when I was about 9 there was this one hella old anime a bl anime that I accidentally saw I still remember the scene so clear two characters were fighting it was raining and a Night time the only light was from the lamp at the background and the taller guy pulled and forcefully kissed the other guy honestly my heart went pafff it was beating so hard and I was confused af I was surprised and keep thinking about it for some time but quickly forgot about it, then when I turned 13 or so I had this phase I thought I was lesbian I was really scared and confused I told my mom and she told me that “it doesn’t matter what you are , how you look like or who you like at the end of the day we all bleed red” I don’t really identify as anything I’m just me plus I’m too Busy reading BL mangas and watching dramas to date lol but I know that even if one day I ended up with a person same or opposite gender it won’t matter, the only thing that matters is that I’m happy being with them and happy with myself as who I am I also have days where I hate myself but working on that for now, I can’t really tell you that you won’t receive any criticism cause that depends on people around you I honestly sometimes forget how homophobic some people are cause I’m mostly with my family and close friends who accept it you know what’s funny it’s funny how most people are ok with it until it has to do with them and people around them I hope you will be happy wherever you are and happy with yourself as a person wish you the best

[@dekicvikerott]

i relate to this so much

[@austingilman4100]

thats meeeee

[@Abbyyyh]

just ask yourself these questions. 1. Would u kiss a girl AND boy? 2. Would u date a girl AND boy? 3. Would you marry a girl AND boy? If you answered yes to all of them you are bisexual.

[@kirishimassoulmate2259]

@@Abbyyyh looks like I’m bi-

[@Hazyla]

If you’re wondering if you’re bisexual, you’re probably some flavor of gay. Edit: emphasis on some flavor it can take a while to find something that matches up with your experiences or if you don’t feel like it don’t put any labels at all and say gay or queer (I’ve used those as umbrella terms)

[@alice6272]

I feel ✨called out✨

[@DreAnimates]

😑

[@schwärmerei]

Then I think of it I always think later no no I'm not gay, I can't be

[@barlowsanai8904]

i don't know why but whenever i see gay people i always randomly get really happy😂 i think it is the ( possible ) bi in me.

[@peyton9520]

@@barlowsanai8904 same lmao like overly happy

[@aliprentice8366]

This made me realise I’m bi but I’m to scared to tell anyone

[@kirishimassoulmate2259]

It’s ok! Tell someone who supports LGBTQ+ first so you have someone to go to if your parents don’t accept. I myself am bi and I support you!

[@lilmama1307]

Same

[@brokenheartx6144]

Same

[@dal3800]

Same

[@perlagonzalez4377]

Or just tell close friends or If you have any friends in the lgbtq+ community tell them, they will for sure support you. At least that's what I did I literally came out as bi on the first of Jan sooo yea lol and either way I support you guys 🏳️‍🌈❤❤

[@hero_kid6996]

I'm super confused about my sexuality, I thought i was straight because I've only had crushes on girls, but from time to time I would catch myself thinking about guys like I would a girl, it always confusing and I'm just 13, so I didn't really think about it until seeing this video

[@x13Mango13x]

I've thought about the possibility of being bisexual for the past year or so, but I've started seriously questioning my sexuality in the past few weeks. This video was very helpful. Thank you!

[@sinaluff4200]

I've been identifying as bi for 4 years now - KZbin: how do you know if you're bisexual me: hmm idk? let's find it out!

[@poppetsiena5732]

You copied this- 💀

[@Isabelle-tl1hb]

You have 123 likes and I don't wanna ruin it so take this comment as a like

[@eline8745]

me questioning my sexuality: i might be bi... bi stereotypes: yes.

[@mrdictionary728]

Me watching this video like:

[@defnotamiraa]

Hey to anyone reading this. I don’t know about the rest of you but after watching this I had a mental breakdown about my own identity crisis. I didn’t recognize myself but then a funny little thing happened to me. I saw my headphones sitting on my desk after I looked for them for an hour. This just made me laugh after realizing that we’re all humans and suffering is easier to get through if you have a few laughs along the way. Anyways I’m happily listening to music now and I hope the rest of you reading this know that whatever and whoever you are, you can’t live a happier life if your not being true about yourself to yourself.

[@oa5538]

Why does he sound like Daniel Radcliffe...

[@mariaalejandravaldez1168]

No u did not just say that

[@anaidonthavealastname8258]

I can't unthink that now

[@elisinghal8292]

He dose

[@leenotfound_2650]

Wkjdjdjjwjfnfj HELL

[@poets_and_books5523]

Good question.....

[@avayates4914]

"if you find yourself fancying both male and female characters" me: looks to marceline from adventure time, then at marshall lee from adventure time o h update: nvm im a lesbian-

[@rebekastojanovska3828]

BRUH I had a crush on Marshall AND Fiona

[@kaila9513]

Bro i think everyone is attracted to those 2.

[@vanivanil824]

Way to call me out

[@jus_jp024]

Omg yess there both beutiful

[@Sddvhjkkll]

I don't know why but I find it funny how you edited this and said oh nvm I'm les

[@OrielleAloysia]

I'm a closeted Bisexual and I can relate to all of the signs in this video. My Mom is also a Bisexual. My parents grew up in Christian households but broke away from that faith. My parents say no matter what they will still love me. That's how you know you have a supporting family. And I know that when I am ready, I will still have a loving family. Keep up the great work PinkNews.

[@Dylanthesimmer223]

I'm a closeted bisexual to

[@Titanium6]

same here.

[@Mae-tp8rw]

Me to

[@Shimeih]

I have suffered with this a lot. I always thought I was straight because I’m mostly attracted to women and feminine men. After a long time I’ve finally learnt to accept myself and live my life how I feel

[@updated_autopsy_report1]

well, i might be a month late. but today, 2020/10/05, is the day that I officially came out as a bisexual girl. I had been questioning my sexuality since I was 13 years old (now i'm 19) and i saw your video two weeks ago. and i have all of those signs and i wanna say that i'm so proud and happy that i found my sexual identity! thank you for your help♥

[@lasairfhionakennedy3012]

Well done and congratulations ❤ :-)

[@bubbletea1229]

congratulations honey! I'm so proud of you

[@isabelle6444]

congratulations i’m happy for you

[@ltna15]

Yay congrats :)

[@janasafa225]

Congratulations! I’m proud of you❤️

[@emmapile8770]

i already know i’m bi but i’m watching this anyway???

[@emmapile8770]

Elsa Nikander YES! THIS!

[@sushikat1896]

@Elsa Nikander same lol

[@jolieramos8982]

SAME

[@heath6802]

Me

[@actuallyflora5041]

Same Edit: haha I’m lesbian actually I was just confused

[@marieauhasard]

me knowing damn well i'm bisexual: oh let's click on this video to see if i'm bi!! :D

[@ScorpihoeOfficial]

Same💀💀

[@hmmnani358]

Oop- Same 🤣

[@perlagonzalez4377]

Same xD

[@crystaldaze1501]

Pretty much same

[@wowowowow9]

Haha same

[@siddhoot]

one of your points really stood out to me, the one where the woman in the clip said 'im in a relationship with a man so people think that i'm not valid/i'm straight'. when she said this, i thought to myself 'but then if you're a woman in a relationship with a woman, using your logic, you're not valid either cause you're lesb/gay'

[@josephwodarczyk977]

Yeah, this is pretty much how it works. Everyone just wants bi people to pick a side.

[@Kat-Kobold]

Bro your head looks so close to the ceiling, be careful

[@softsoba4427]

Ikr I was thinking that the whole time

[@okidokeyyoewr3926]

Wtf?!?! HAHAHAHAHAHA

[@photoshophasstopped6900]

After years of repressing it ive finally realized that I’m bisexual. I had a HUGE crush on jade and the other guy (forgot his name), and then in 6th grade had a crush on this girl. Well, I grew up christian, so I was taught to just brush it off. At the same time, I had also developed a crush on a guy in my band. At this point, I was obviously pretty concerned as to why my head was going back and forth. After that, my mom gave me a book about the women’s body and growing up. Inside of it (mind you, this book is from the 70s) it talks about different sexualities equally, not like how the Bible talks about them. It talked about heterosexual, homosexual, and bisexual. I remember seeing the term, and just thinking “that’s me”, but not wanting to internalize it. So once again, I brushed it off. After that, one of my closest friends came out to me as Bi. I told her I was happy for her n all that. From 5th-10th grade I just stayed “the straight girl” in my friend group, not saying there weren’t other straight people in my friend group, they just always made a bunch of straight jokes specifically towards me. Now, they were definitely funny n all, thing is? I wasn’t straight. And I knew damn well, that I wasn’t straight, but never wanted to say anything. After my first break up with my first boyfriend (who was very conservative might I add, and kinda added to my self internalized homophobia), I met a girl who was also bisexual. I still think about her A LOT, That was when I finally told myself “yep. I’m bi.” I don’t see her anymore sadly, but I wish I still could talk to her. About a month later, I got with my second boyfriend ever. About a few months into the relationship, I finally came out as bisexual. Well, sadly he isn’t my boyfriend anymore. She’s my girlfriend. There was a gap in our relationship that I didn’t even know was there, and I’m so happy she’s finally able to be herself around me n vise versa. So finally, my junior year, I came out to everyone as bisexual. To which everyone responded “yea it was pretty obvious”.

[@bangtanimosity8564]

Congratulations!!! ❤️ That’s such a cute story about you and your girlfriend!

[@_maddie_makes_music]

ITS BECK HOW COULD YOU FORGET HIS NAME??!!!😆😆😆😂😂🥺🥺🥺

[@gawd-zila]

I love how he is so open with his sexuality and gender. I aspire to have this confidence.

[@shanwild1096]

I've been married to a man for 4 years in a completely monomagous relationship. Recently I've come to terms with the fact that I've been attracted to just as many women as I have men throughout my life. My first time falling in love was with a girl, my best friend (cliche I know) and my second time was my guy. We've been having a dry spell in the bedroom and I kinda just worked out why and told him. I don't want to open the relationship or be with anyone else sexually, but it just felt right to be totally honest and be understood and loved in return. It's been weird but this video really helped me reaffirm that telling him was the right choice to make. So thank you.

[@spaceforthesoul6286]

I think I am bi, at least 80% woman, but never had a relatioship with a woman, and right now I do not feel like exploring. I am more inward process now. But a relationship/being loved in return doens't determine my label does it? I think it doesn't matter.. like this example of the bisexual man.

[@sallyglover4281]

Same here. I worry I’m more attracted to women sexually, and not romantically, but I’ve also never been in a relationship with a woman to actually find out.

[@komlat253]

I was puzzled for a while until i actually explored. I felt i was just gay when i was younger but i just had no experience with either but just close guy friends. I've always admire women and the idea of marriage..fast forward i eventually had thd chance and realized that although i like men ,i didn't feel i was ever gay enough lol kinda weird so i would try to avoid some stuff and my gay friends thought it was strange but i find myself loving my guy friends as friends and allowing it to go wherever .so i thought i was bi although i didn't yet have sex with women but i only had girlfriends and i always felt confident around then and in the relationship. I was nervous but i wasn't unwilling to try so after many years of internalizing that i was bi ,and found out i was. I've been romantically attracted to women and i sexually attracted to my best guy friend. Its not so easy for the people involved so honestly im just alone lol

[@Lumaspod]

Me knowing I'm bi: This video: "Are you bisexual?" Me: *hmm I don't know lets find out*

[@jooniesbonsai4064]

Wondering if you are bi? *'AH YES THE FLOOR IS MADE OF FLOOR'*

[@my_rurumi]

ARMY! 💜

[@someone2279]

@@my_rurumi army

[@obskins7530]

Love that meme

[@ginadanca9595]

super helpful video!! I'm glad you covered bisexual myths in such an informative way

[@honeymoonave.3962]

Me : OK so, there's something I wanna confess- Her: You're bi Me : No, no thats not- wait- how tf did you know- And that is how my bff came out to me as a psychic.

[@redcheese3676]

Underrated

[@cristian-bull]

Best short story ever

[@Thewibblewobbler]

Lmao💀💀💀

[@maximexicorn]

Thats one of the best comments ive ever read in a my entire life🤣

[@mariahconklin4150]

Lol

[@kaylalewis1151]

if you watch this, you are probably most definitely bi

[@Oh_Low]

Not exactly....

[@flashbash0712]

No😂✌🏼

[@R4YPixels]

nope

[@silverdustyt4886]

Nope-

[@paintthenigh2280]

Yes 🥲

[@michaeljacksonsheeheee]

i wondered if i was bi because i started having a crush on this girl cosplayer but i thought i was just being "quirky" so i stopped then i had crushes on girls in animes and cartoons but again thought i was lying to myself then i started having a crush on this girl in school and now i just think im bi curious cause of my friends

[@barlowsanai8904]

well do you like boys and girls or just girls? because if you are bi you like boys and girls,if you are a lesbian you just like girls. not trying to be rude, just trying to help☺

[@michaeljacksonsheeheee]

@@barlowsanai8904 i like both but girls have like a higher scale so if youre asking the percentage its like a 60 percent for girls and 40 for guys

[@barlowsanai8904]

@@michaeljacksonsheeheee i don't know much about being bi since im trying to figure it out myself, but i think that it is normal to like one more then the other. I don't think being bi means that you like boys and girls the same amount it just means that you have a love for both. It's like chooseing between your favorite colors, you like them both but you're gonna like one a little bit more then the other, and that is perfectly fine:) ( i should probably use this advise for myself lol )

[@michaeljacksonsheeheee]

@@barlowsanai8904 okok thanks for the advise

[@barlowsanai8904]

@@michaeljacksonsheeheee yw

[@carol7635]

99% of me: Im bi / the other 1%: im definitely straight / its soooooo confusing T-T Omg tysm for the likes!!!

[@Error-wr8wk]

Ikr

[@evacosio4585]

Ik I am like that right now✌😣

[@caslaga4199]

U can be bi but mostly straight 😌

[@suzymendez978]

FELT

[@lucyblvd]

IKR 😭

[@KuchenFan-bq1cb]

When he said Jade and Beck i totally lost it Im so Bi lol

[@kimber.1226]

Beleive or not my sister has victorious on the TV rn and I try my best to hide how giddy I get when they both show on the screen lol

[@eisthebestletter7836]

Yes

[@marianaguevara9815]

it hit hardddd

[@arunnalunaru]

Me: contemplating if i'm bisexual or not This video: *pops up in my recommended* Me: 👁👄👁

[@niaranjan7952]

Omg same! Nvm, I realised I’m straight!

[@evelinszabo9691]

Sameee

[@Bgyumjj]

Same

[@arunnalunaru]

@@niaranjan7952 aye, that's cool. Congrats on finding out and settling on your sexuality :D

[@niaranjan7952]

@@arunnalunaru thankieee 🥰

[@anuisancecalledsam]

This was one of the first video that I watched when I started questioning my sexuality and it truly helped a lot. Thank you for making this video. I am always going to be grateful to you guys for this. Now I'm an out and proud bisexual.

[@angelrock30]

Video: The 1st sign is "wondering if you're Bi" Me: well-

[@kitcat7807]

I can relate.....

[@tatianastark.laufyson1366]

I can definitely relate

[@misfit-hu1xk]

Lmaoooooo I thought I was the only one that related

[@miljanaglogovac8710]

I felt this

[@JumpiiB]

M e

[@kotori3062]

3. Liking both female and male fictional characters Me: *Attracted to anime waifus* Also me: *Not really attracted to irl girls*

[@nourmohamed3992]

Wait ME TOO DOES THAT MAKE ME BI?

[@quixoticfangirl106]

SAME

[@euph4687]

:0 Me

[@fancyflamy8675]

SAME SIS

[@atifplayz2302]

Sammmme

[@xxhannahburdenxx3733]

The fact that this video can up in my recommended after listening to girl in red for an hour says a lot 😂💗💜💙

[@nataliea9703]

Under the bi bracket falls bisexual, bi-curious, pansexual, polysexual and omnisexual. I recently discovered that I identify as omni-sexual. I am attracted to all genders but the differences in gender expression has a significant part to play in why I am attracted to the person - unlike a pansexual person who is 'gender-blind' as some would categorise it. Either way, I find it so empowering to find a label that I know is me. Bi-sexual didnt feel right as my label but pansexual didn't fit either because my attraction is not gender blind - so I am comfortable saying I am an omnisexual woman! I hope more people learn about the subcategories within the varying LGBTQIA+ labels and that more awareness is brought to the bi, pan, poly and omnisexuality community in the near future!

[@chloenator_exe5998]

i thought this was gonna be a video about like bi stereotypes like finger guns and cuffing your jeans

[@_maddie_makes_music]

It's ironic cus a lot of the time they are true. 😂

[@drpepper.ismine.14]

Same

[@clairlele_]

lol, i do peace signs, awkward thumbs up and oversized sweaters

[@clairlele_]

@@_maddie_makes_music MY NAME IS ALEXANDER HAMILTON

[@kendewendy]

@@_maddie_makes_music we just have good style

[@latoyaclaudia6584]

Omg I’m first!! This is going to help me figure out myself 🥺❤️

[@Lina-nc9sp]

Me, 100% sure I'm bisexual since 2 years, seeing the video and I'm like: Wait lemme just check if I'm right or if I'm lying to myself 👁👄👁

[@danielg1680]

It's simple... Straight girl doesn't exist... My opinion as a straight guy

[@Lina-nc9sp]

@@danielg1680 yeah I think so too. Well at least I can't understand how some girls can be straight...

[@amylee3274]

You are straight. I bet you’re 13 and the fact that you have a whole pfp about “your” sexuality and says that straight girls don’t exist just proves it. No one’s gonna talk you seriously in the future with this shit lol, i hope you grow up one day

[@amylee3274]

@Wolf Of Fire nahhh.

[@easyboo8208]

SAME😂

[@Very-Tired]

It's 2 AM right now and I'm worrying about my sexuality when I have school in the morning lol

[@lailabrooks9916]

I literally thought this: "Man, I wish I was in a relationship with a woman" Also me "Man that guy cute!" Oh yeah edit: I came out the last week of January as bi! The for love and support thro likes and replies!

[@ameliapuchalska5040]

see this, this is the reason as to why idk if i’m bi or not

[@ihavenoidea2805]

@@ameliapuchalska5040 probably yes

[@ameliapuchalska5040]

UPDATE! I am now bi 😂

[@flashymuffin7646]

Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

[@nataliamoreno7713]

Same lol

[@Mattisntgonenaymore]

Friends in lgbtq+: it’s okay to express who you are Me, constantly thinking my family will disown me for who I am: I still want my family

[@oculusanji24fe48]

@@sofmi4750 it's very relatable, I fear my family reaction to me coming out as bi , there letraily no one In my family as gay or lesbain or any of the sort. I'll be the first and I know many would be shock

[@Hyein_luvrr]

SAME

[@hanabanana7041]

@@sofmi4750 it is you just have the privilege of not relating to it since you don't have this problem

[@solariushuang8289]

Someone just threw an onion bomb at me 🥲😭

[@thobekamzalisimqikela8630]

You can tell them at the right time. For example when you move out

[@astridcortez9725]

I’m so far in the closet I can see Dean Winchester in here

[@inkyio]

lmaoo don’t call my boy out

[@sahana6693]

pffffttttt-

[@hebatarig6741]

LMFAO I love supernatural so much bruv

[@trishalennex4630]

Man you must be really far in there

[@june3811]

PLSSS-

[@nicolerae6415]

The end “you don’t have to put a label on or come out until you’re ready” I came out at 15 years old as bi. And everyone in my life said “it was a phase” blah blah. I’m fixing to be 30. Around 25 years old my true friends were saying “girl, you’re bi” but because of my initial responses I’ve decided to not label myself. I find men and women attractive. I have been in relationships with both genders. But the stigma still scares me. This video had helped a lot.

[@MaevenPanda]

him: if you're finding yourself searching "how do I know if I'm bi" you might be bi the tabs where I looked up just that: am I a joke to you

[@MaevenPanda]

damn that was half a year ago wtffff anyways i figured myself out and i now go by she/they and I'm a lesbian

[@static-scribblez]

My mum: No dating guys until you’re 18! Me: Okay Also me, a few months later, realising I’m bisexual and preferring girls over guys: You clearly didn’t think this through...

[@brenos.5017]

My biggest fear is: "am I just gay or I really into gals?". I'm so afraid that I'd marry a woman and don't feel loved cuz i into men

[@siya1166]

Then why don't talk to your parents about this they may help you

[@ript0kyo]

You’re valid! Don’t be afraid, bisexuality isn’t something to fear ,youre loved no matter who you get married to. Just go with what you want, and feel most comfortable with!

[@brenos.5017]

@@ript0kyo that was soooooo cute 'n sweet, thank u for all of it. It's confuse but life's 2, If it were easy it wouldn't be feelings

[@brenos.5017]

@@siya1166 sorry for keep you waiting...i'm from a very homophobic country, then it's better 4 me just wait 'till my marriage

[@siya1166]

@@brenos.5017 Yeah same for me I am from India and there Being lesbian or gay is not a thing and I am very grateful that I am Bisexual cause If I would be lesbian than My parents will never expect me Though you can still talk to your parents or someone who is close to you Maybe they can help and don't lose the hope

[@estevangarcia1089]

I have been questioning my sexuality and wondering if I was bi for quite a while and this video really helped me out. Thank you so much for making this! ☺

[@emanuelvazquez6492]

My brain is literally: Men: You are sexually attracted and sometimes emotionally attracted to them women: You are only emotionally attracted to them Me: So I'm bi? My brain: Oh honey you are just confused

[@aitana6084]

lol that's exactly what happens to me

[@aitana6084]

it's good to realise ur not the only one

[@ltna15]

You could be biromantic?

[@dumpsterfire424]

Yay I’m not the only one

[@gracethomson1543]

I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE

[@dudewelp822]

i came out to my mom and she said it was just a phase and said that i can’t know it until i like a women...? bisexuality feels so right on myself but i keep feeling like i am not valid, this video really popped out on my fyp telling me “ u r bi stop feeling like this” 😭 thank u for making this video ;3

[@leodorine]

I swear, Santana Lopez was like the main reason I started coming out to people ❤ Rest in peace, dear Naya.

[@redcheese3676]

Rest in piece 🙏

[@Кира-м2у3п]

R.I.P

[@joburkell]

im definitely bicurious but ive never had experiences with girls and im just not SURE yet if i like girls or not yunno. like they are SO hot but.... idk if i could see myself in a relationship with them igggg. i definitely have internalized homophobia because thats how i've been raised all my life, i think thats why it's hard for me to determine if i'm bi or not. i LOVE the label i reallllly resonate with it but i CANT come out for at least a few more years and i just dont know what ill do....

[@joburkell]

also i have a bf rn and idk how he would respondddddd

[@Рэгын]

Jocelyn Hadley You could maybe be heteroromantic and bisexual. Sexual attraction doesn’t need to align with romantic orientation.

[@moonskies]

@@Рэгын i feel like im heteroromantic bisexual but im scared if people wont see me as a valid person in the lgbtq community (if that makes sense)+

[@dalinezd2837]

You've described what I'm exactly going through

[@minfuzzle]

felt this so hard

[@teodoracristinadinu9099]

I feel so comfortable when they talk, it's incredible. I feel so okay with my sexuality now and the way they explained the whole thing is just awesome🥺❤️

[@screamhihigh1617]

Honestly, I realized I was bisexual when I got into kpop. I began watching a lot of girl groups, like BLACKPINK and TWICE and LOONA, and soon realized I may actually 'Fancy' females and males, because I certainly did 'Likey' them. I spent a couple months tossing around the idea of being lesbian, or maybe I was just questioning my sexuality, but then I realized that I had already had a crush on numerous females, including Lauren from Fifth Harmony, as well as a female classmate. I have only begun to come to terms with my bisexuality, and I felt like sharing my happiness. Thank you for reading this far!💜

[@cayladomnick3052]

Wait me too ! Only after I got into kpop especially Twice, Blackpink, Red velvet and Mamamoo did I question my sexuality... and love those puns 😂

[@screamhihigh1617]

@@cayladomnick3052 How You Like those puns? Honestly, how can any female be straight when DREAMCATCHER and LOONA exist?

[@terciaabrahams4849]

YES LAUREN JAUREGUI I idolize her and look up to her and many times she has made me question my own sexuality

[@anaochoa]

bruh Olivia from Loona is really making me question my sexuality a lot 😭😭 like i kinda always knew girls were nice to look at but omg

[@Notmebutstillme]

@@screamhihigh1617 IKR !

[@ria890]

I'm a 13 y/o girl can't even figure out who I am. I had attraction to both girls and boys and I'm really insecure about it for what society would think, I feel so insecure to talk to my parents about it. That sucks! LGBTQ community always feels like a family to me...🏳️‍🌈❤️

[@itzanuh]

yes i also can't even🥲. figure out

[@gemmsp441]

me: *can't even tell with guys if my feelings are romantic or platonic* ummmmmmm how am I supposed to tell with my friends that are girls then

[@malaikakamilah5453]

I am in the same probs...........what about my parents :/

[@violetskies3397]

Same bro... not sure if I like girls or just think they’re pretty...

[@siratlas8198]

I think picturing yourself in a romantic setting with that person could help figure that out. When picturing yourself being with that person romantically, does it feel like something you’d like or do you feel indifferent/grossed out by that scenario? It’s a complicated thing to figure out but this could be a start!

[@yourlocaldemon2195]

Yep same

[@evaaaxsheep]

Meeeeeewweww

[@mmcneill2528]

This entire video is calling me out as bi, I’m currently questioning my sexuality and this really helped a lot. Thanks!

[@amelia15077]

Me 100% bisexual: Video: Are you bisexual? Me: idk let's find out

[@idontwannabeanonymous4725]

I read "let's find out" sentence in Mr. Peanutbutter tone

[@amelia15077]

@@idontwannabeanonymous4725 omg-

[@b0ringgg]

before i was so comfortable in my sexuality & my mom keeps saying it’s probably a phase or i don’t actually find other genders besides men attractive. it was so repetitive to the point where now i’m questioning myself again & trying to force myself to think i’m straight.

[@astronomygirl3492]

KZbin: Let's recommend her that video to confuse her even more Me: *realising every sign fits* oh shit

[@bsweeting1481]

Same I think I'm bi, I have had crushes on Jodie Whittaker (as the 13th doctor) and the red power ranger from Power rangers dino charge lmao, I'm a girl btw lol

[@leeal4216]

Same

[@deimoslyric]

It can be scary to find out more about yourself, but also wonderful the more you start to explore and discover