How does he know she’s the one? (Part 2)

Listening to the full video is imperative. There are a lot of caveats and nuances to this topic that can’t be fully covered in this video.
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[@kingsagenda]

"Men will choose a woman based on what he values." Makes sense to me.

[@jenniferhanson6467]

Yes, so if he values booze, coke and other women it's not going to work with and kind home girl, he'll want his own type to have fun with in his own way. Same for a man who has more wholesome values. Know your level and go for it. Don't over reach and strain unfairly but don't settle either. Hehe.. I've had so many problems and dropped my values to fit people who wouldn't cross a puddle for me never mind the ocean.

[@m.c.8877]

True but a low value man does not value a good woman...

[@alishadennis7769]

Then the issue having the man who is the man, the one who has the values that's the same kind as the Christian 😍🙄🙏 👠 woman has that she also trust & respect's to be with in marriage!!!!

[@fluffypinkglitterwingz8082]

True!

[@proudblackwoman4824]

Sadly, MOST of these men only value sex. So that is why I closed my kitchen completely. Thanks to Tony, a dude will be lucky to even get a hug from me nowadays. I plays no games! lol

[@jam1369]

Just be yourself, ladies! The right man will come and if not, a least you will be happy because you are living to please God and yourself. 😊

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen me personally I'm not going settle just say have a man

[@c.l.9344]

When a woman settles, she doesn't know her worth and value. And she doesn't believe she can have what aligns with her worth and value. Never settle!

[@patriciawilliams5519]

Amen & Yes!!!! Self-love, focused on Christ and pleasing Him first. (Matthew 6:33). We need to acknowledge the Lord God in all we set out to do! Be it purchases, relationships, etc.😊⚓⭐

[@IsisZabree]

I was giving my dog some treats and I caught myself telling him “don’t say I ain’t nevah did nun fa ya nie” and at that point I realized I watch Tony Gaskins video’s too much! 😂 anyways, excellent message as always!

[@jess_is]

😄

[@chareeanderson5146]

😂😂😂

[@kristyfernandez7510]

I can related I said to my friend POINT BLANK PERI’Odd 😂✌🏼

[@tiarachiffon8131]

😂😂😂

[@nitanita3493]

😂😂😂 right

[@khocolateable]

I love when Tony says “he got to go” instead he talks for 20 more minutes before he ends the video. I swear I can listen to him ALL day wit these gems 💎 😎.

[@nadinemartin9512]

Gotta Go! Lol

[@Azizajewelry]

I just wish I knew all of this earlier. Ladies if you are in your teens and twenties please pay attention. This knowledge will save you so much heartbreak. ❤️

[@OnlyQueenE]

Agreed!!!!!

[@pinkfreespirit4243]

Umm can we appreciate the "No girlfriend before the age of 18 in my household" energy? Because most dads only have that energy towards their daughters. Love it Brotha Tony

[@amandanicole8059]

“What you need doesn’t always come packaged how we think it should.” Love this message! Character, maturity, and purity is everything! 🙏🏽

[@beedubbya2278]

MEN NEED TO HEAR THIS

[@VintageAfro91]

That’s good that you told your son to remember who overlooked him and make mental notes. ✨

[@overcomerbtboj]

Thank you tony for always being polite and courteous and considerate regarding some of the questions and topics that come your way- i watched another video addressing the same topic and people were tearing the woman up for just asking a genuine question out of curiosity regarding aspects of physical attraction and how it happens - thank you for not talking down to us and shaming people for their looks regardless of where they fall on the looks scale

[@klickingkayasmr7585]

🎯🎯🎯

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING STRONG POWERFUL POSITIVE WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS! AND FOR EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U!PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! OCT2021

[@breewelch5982]

Tony I’m 6’2. My first long term boyfriend was 5’11 & I was in love with him & I thought he was gonna be my husband. We were together 5 years, I left him because he never married me & I realized our relationship was toxic & he wasn’t going to marry me after approaching 5 years. Love is love.

[@Salma_143]

As Tony always says, work on yourself …BECOME your worth & the person for YOU will come.😊

[@mariagrady8425]

Keep as close to GOD as possible. Jesus is returning to pick up HIS BRIDE. ASK THE HOLY GHOST TO HELP GET YOU READY. AMEN

[@Shanice1]

Amen!

[@fredajohnson506]

Amen that's what matters more than anything

[@5Luckyducky]

@Maria Right on

[@cherh]

Morning Blessed Tribe! One thing you have to do as a woman is heal and LOVE YOURSELF! No one will love you like YOU! Have a great Tuesday! Blessings 💫💖

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Amen Cher!!!🙏🏽👸🏽

[@brendabarba741]

Amen to that!

[@cherh]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 🙏🏾💯

[@cherh]

@@brendabarba741 🙏🏾💯

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

Amen!!

[@thesoutheastprincess]

I’ve had this one guy that I’ve been putting in the friend zone for over 12 years and he has been asking me out on dates for years and I always decline so I finally decided to go out with him this past weekend and I had so much fun. He may be the one and he was in my life the whole time.

[@kristenmoonrise]

Update?? If you don't mind 😊

[@CurvyKeto]

​@@kristenmoonrisehopefully Im wrong, but it probably didn't work. He chased her down too long? Hopefully he a grown man, but if he a grown boy she going to pay for making him chase her. Now he could be a good dude, but...

[@Hi.Shadow]

@@CurvyKetoyep I remember a video where Tony said the exact same thing. Payback for her rejection. Wow.

[@LadyAngela678]

No way Kevin Heart would have his second wife if he didnt have money.

[@Onlycanbeme1]

... what do you not think that love exists for kevin hart being celebrity with his attitude?

[@LadyAngela678]

@@Onlycanbeme1 I assume he has an okay personality, but far as attractiveness he would be considered below average.

[@christinan005]

I dont think he ugly.he jst a shorty and comes off lame .lol

[@aishacansler8183]

She has her own money though.

[@cassandra7778]

Watching your videos make me realize that i dont need to rush into marriage so soon. Im 24 this year and hearing my brother who is 21 complaining that he is not married yet let me see that he is not ready as well. He has anger management issues and cannot clean up after himself. I myself admit I do not have all the 3 B's and need to focus on my studies, my career, savings and my relationship with God. Just when i thought that i was ready for marriage. I realize i was wrong all along.

[@JermaineThomas4050]

Teach your sons: "don't label me something I'm not". - TG

[@blaire4082]

Uncle Tony can hit a topic from every angle DAILY... and folks still in the comments with foolery. Clearly not listening to the WHOLE video. The information is well said for such a complex situation as it is now with relationships. 🙏🏾 Listening!

[@cherh]

Those the ones with spirits on them. They rather live in misery then heal and be free. Bless they heart

[@cherh]

@@shalaundawhitaker5905 yo baby got your phone lol

[@Destinee36]

Yippee I love when he does a long video because I know he about to dissect some things !

[@JermaineThomas4050]

"All of us getting overlooked for something". - TG

[@reinaquisha9418]

An entire hour and a half🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Blessed new day tribe🤍🤙🏾🤍

[@Crys0219]

Getting to know a man (mentally, emotionally, spiritually) and becoming familiar with his character and values makes him attractive. Physical appearance is very important but it is not primary. People can change physically for better or for worse. So if you don't like or find the essence of the person attractive, how they look is pointless.

[@Bridi1973]

🎯🙌🏾

[@wandei4547]

OMG Tony, you're hilari😆us when you said, "I just had my hair line srayed on today, and when my hairline ain't on, I'm a little wispy up there". I can't believe you admitted that, however I really appreciate your transparency.

[@phillygdev]

Good advice to your son and to every woman out there. If someone didn't think you were good enough before, then you aren't good enough now. Trust I took notes in my head when I got rejected at a younger age. Come back from college more refined, people from your neighborhood all of a sudden got time for you. Uh, yeah, bye bye ...

[@KayBeOnline]

One and half hours?!?!😩 Tony Gaskins Jr, big brother...why are you blessin us like this 😭🙌🏽

[@aliciahall9553]

You hit it nail on the head. I was in the exact situation marrying a man who was much lower than my level and he used me until he abandoned me. I was devastated all though there were many red flags and I chose to ignore them and everyone who warned me. This was over a year ago and I’ve now been learning to value my self and I’m a work in progress and I have been learning so much from your video’s.

[@tarahbruno3793]

That hair is thinning because of us and our crazy questions lol . Thank you for your sacrifice and dedication Tony

[@beefaye6861]

😂....we stressing our coach !!!

[@tarahbruno3793]

@@beefaye6861 every day lol

[@sweetie932]

Jezebel spirits in the dm cannot even stand to see a happy married couple, the pain and insecurities they must be operating from. I cannot even find myself mentally or sexually attracted to a man as handsome he maybe knowing he’s married. It’s the mental for me that shuts down that attraction 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@disnalee]

Yes! If he roam on his woman, he will always roam until he find the one.

[@ericajanellelifecoaching]

This is so good and in-depth…. There are so many caveats and nuances to this… I’m here for the learning ! Thanks for what you do! It’s priceless.

[@cherh]

Morning Coach Erica!

[@ericajanellelifecoaching]

@@cherh Good morning honey! How are you

[@cherh]

@@ericajanellelifecoaching I'm great! Thanks 😊

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Grand Rising sis!!

[@ericajanellelifecoaching]

@@coachnatishamommatish185 hey sis! It’s so good to see my peeps! Sending you love 💕

[@virginiacharles437]

I have been ready to have a wedding since I was in my 20s but it's only been since I entered my 40s that I could say I'm ready to be a WIFE. My intended has been the one this whole time. We've known each other 20yrs. He has always been the one but I realize that God needed both of us to GROW into the people we needed to be to better each other. From the day he proposed we have been proving that we are ready for each other. Don't rush it but work on it!

[@Princessofimaginiation]

Did you prat for him

[@virginiacharles437]

​@Mias Pretty lil toys yes ma'am I did. And I thank God every day for hearing me!

[@user-pn6qh7nk5q]

I turn 40 in a bit... im happy in a successful job. I got my own car and apartment. I pay my own bills and i take care of my self. I feel like i dont need a guy in my life unless hes adding to my happiness and peace of mind and is genuine and also in a content space.

[@shiracobb3098]

How long you been single? I’m n the same boat. These guys are so selfish now a days.

[@kainikollovely4150]

Let's Go Tony..Be Blessed..I'm here For it..Teach 💪🏽🙏🏽✨

[@shenika1979]

I'm with you TG. Strip clubs have never been something i wanted to go to. Never will. I thank you for this advice. I have to look at what a man truly values. it matters.

[@Kellergirl]

I don't understand strip clubs either. Never been to one and never will.

[@Shanice1]

My ex was eager to take me to a strip and I'm like no way!

[@lindalovehearts]

Its messages like this when Tony Gaskins keep it 💯 and i admit Im not wifey material/ready...im self obsorbed always taking selfies, take pictures for attention, and thats ok. Im learning...but I can take the honesty..

[@virginiacharles437]

Your patience with us is amazing! You broke this down to where a 5yr old could understand it. But thanking you so much for taking your calling seriously! Listening you for over a year now let's me know my male guides in my actual life have told me correctly. I'm in a long distance relationship right now engaged about a year and a half. My instincts have spoken to me that he has waited a long time to let himself love me. But I know that he does. Thanks for keeping it real and making it simple!

[@ilenek.5428]

I dont believe that there is such thing as an ugly person. Sorry. There are so many looks: sweet, plain, eccentric, regal, rough, awkward, nerdy, ruggid, intense... lol. I think humans gotta beauty. Just wait on the right one! Lol.

[@TonyGaskins]

I agree with you.

[@mariahconklin4150]

I love this because I find certain people unattractive but as I get to know them their true beauty shines. Maybe they aren’t that good looking to someone but others may not see that.

[@bdailey8829]

Oh, wow an hour and a half video! Blessings to you, Tony for the morning insight!

[@Kellergirl]

And thank you Tony for the explanation on why a man picks a certain type of woman. Looking back on some of the men I've dealt with, I always wondered why they picked the type of women they were with. It all makes sense now!

[@JACKIE-wm3or]

Yes!! Hour + video! Every time I see a video from Mr. Gaskins it’s an AUTOMATIC “Like” before listening; already know it’s going to be good!! 😂

[@maggieedwards3951]

Society standards have set the normal for what is acceptable , when all people have is money then as it’s said you are poor , I have men of status that have pursued me , I remain single because they only have game,and I just don’t play games , the substance of a good women cannot be measured , Most men choose women that will look good to the boys , instead of seeking a woman that will be his ‘pillow’ . I do think there is someone for everyone , however no man will choose me based on I should be lucky to get him , both if aligned , are lucky to have each other . I will just remain in my cave and continue protect my heart , my mouth , my ears . Tony Gaskin and family blessed Sunday to you .

[@turner2952]

I just love this channel! Had to get a membership so that I don't miss anything. Thank you so much, Mr Gaskins. You are always spot on with all your messages. The Truth sets us free. God bless you and your family!

[@alexisforteza_]

Blessed tribe in the house 💜

[@madzbadz]

I’m here for the hour long videos🔥🔥Thank you Tony for this message ! You almost at 360k💯🙏🏾

[@LarennPBel]

He at 380K as of today April 28, 2022

[@lasha4585]

I just discovered your channel two days ago and I've been watching your topics back to back! Thank you so much for your insights/wisdom!!! I also purchased your first book, it'll be here tomorrow...I can't wait to read it!!! Thank you and God bless you and your wife!!!

[@wandei4547]

Wow, it's amazing I've heard that men are more attracted to a woman's natural beauty.

[@disnalee]

My husband says he like a woman who dont wear makeup. I was plain for years and it dont bother him to be around me in public.

[@SB0707B]

A pure blessing to receive this message. Thanks for taking your time to share your knowledge with us Mr. Gaskins. God is so Good. These messages be right on TIME!!

[@beefaye6861]

Hey Tribe ✋😁 ......another blessed day of knowledge from the G.O.A.T....."TG" 👏

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Grand Rising!!

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

Thank you for your transperancy and integrity.

[@virginiacharles437]

Mr. Gaskins I have been following you for about 3yrs now and I absolutely appreciate the love and personal interest you put into every video. You might be getting bank now but you work from your heart out of love. Just know you are so appreciated for that. My fiancé and I are international long distance right now and it's been hard. But men are men no matter where they are from and you have given me such good insight into what he means by what he dies consistently. It continues to make us closer so thank you so much. I have known him 20yrs when we met in person but he went back to his country. I haven't seen him in 14 yrs so this journey has been so hard. But every thing you said about the physical and how he appreciates me for me Without the makeup hair and nails. I've gotten video calls early in the morning just so he can catch my morning look! Lol but I understand he appreciates me as I am. So instead of feeling self conscious like before. I feel blessed and flattered. We've grown beyond our childhood desires and focus on our grown up needs. And we fill those needs in each other. Thank you for helping me see that!

[@jobossbaby369]

Thanks for the message… as women we are so sensitive about our weight.. very well and nicely said.. 💎💎💎

[@transformationstudio6158]

@29:53 I almost spit my coffee out! Wheww I needed that laugh, Tony 😂🐤

[@officialwatchamber]

HEY BLESSED TRIBE ❤️

[@reinaquisha9418]

Good morning 🌞

[@Ms.J.]

Good Morning!

[@cherh]

Morning Amber!

[@coachnatishamommatish185]

Grand Rising🙏🏽👸🏽

[@michaellewells5795]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all you do. No one can take that away from me.

[@naturaltress5774]

Nothing but truth T.G. 👏🏽

[@miss_aye8755]

Thanks Tony! Listen to you daily that even my 13yr old boy knows you...lol glad I came across your vids before I jumped into a relationship because I've learnt so much! God bless you and your family!! Appreciate you brother!

[@durbansaladyinaccra2173]

I dont think fashion is synonymous with expensive designer clothing. You can be fashionable without them. Having style and knowing what suits you is superior to all that. 💯

[@SweetTreatsBy_Marie]

Mr. Gaskins I really appreciate your time and knowledge. Thank you for all that you do .

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

Good morning, happy Tuesday!

[@reinaquisha9418]

Good morning 🌞

[@Ms.J.]

Good Morning! 🌞

[@cherh]

Morning! 🥰

[@joyariffic4217]

This is just wonderful. Thanks again for your work

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“You remember who overlooked ya.” TG

[@Kellergirl]

I can imagine how men feel about women wanting a tall man. I am a woman, and I am 5 feet 11 inches. And most men want a petite woman.

[@toriyt2714]

As a petite woman I am overlooked quite often as well because of my size. Men be wanting fine stallions from my perspective lol. Point is we all see things a certain way based on our experiences what we choose to highlight to form our perspective.

[@denisemyers733]

Exactly! Because they put up and tolerate the nonsense.

[@evedelgado2345]

Tony😆 You're so authentic. You're a great LISTEN. GOD BLESS YOU for all you do for our communities with this knowledge and INSIGHT into the male mind 💛

[@nubian_queen4471]

You mentioned before (can't remember which video, been binging on your videos since YT suggested ur channel) about listening to what a man says he wants and not as a woman, imposing what i want or whathaveyou. Yesterday, I had a beach date with a guy. We played chess and talked for a couple of hours. Before then, he made it seem like he might want something with me. I saved the most important questions for when we met. Long story short, he doesn't want a relationship. He said, "I want a hoe phase". I damn near rolled my eyes lol. He ain't a bad guy but he clearly ain't the one. Keep up with the videos.

[@aholm287]

You are one of the most amazing people on the planet. You and your wife are my new heroes.

[@nandyzoo]

Wow Tony Thank You for sharing and teaching this so valuable and so needed exultation!!!

[@elianedorelle2950]

Thanks for this knowledge Tony, I wish I knew this before, I wouldn’t be in this position today.

[@MizzMontanaOfficialChannel]

Not the spray on hairline 🤣🤣🤣 Tony you are too real and too funny! I love it

[@sheliasmith2975]

I appreciate your valuable time each and every time bless you

[@mariahconklin4150]

Aw Tony I’m going through this now. I’m attracted to a guy that gets called names like small head or just bizarre looks in general and as I get to know him I keep finding him more and more attractive when society may not see him as that. But maybe I’m just assuming how society sees him I’m making assumptions. But so far he is marriage material and I’m slowly becoming a better person just from knowing him. And I have really short hair so sometimes I feel like I look ugly other times not so much.

[@vanillaconover3484]

Mr Tony your wife in a natural state is beautiful🇵🇦

[@jam1369]

I would like a caveats and nuances shirt.

[@LarennPBel]

I think he has something like that already

[@danielleclay9219]

Tony said his natural hairline is baby chickish 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@santibanez333]

Lmfao I was hoping someone would have made this comment

[@nancinixon1985]

AMEN brother! Expose the devil. Love it!!

[@sheliasmith2975]

Bless U Tony 4 the lessons 👍. How I am.learning what I did not pick.up when I was younger. I appreciate everytime u giving your valuable to.this 64

[@donnamitchell423]

This is so true , I had a friend who’s husband was undercover and he was found out by her family, they had a meet to tell her and she was ok with it only because of her low self esteem and self insecurities. She’s overweight ,abused , and not wanted . He excepted her 😢

[@JaneInThisThang]

This was everything

[@nubian_queen4471]

i really be watching ur videos till the end. ur voice is captivating. u speak directly to my spirit.

[@lb1234ify]

Be Blessed, Lord bless you Bro. Tony.

[@joannclark2204]

Tony, I appreciate your candid outlook on life and relationships. I find it very interesting. Please continue to speak your truth. You're very respectful of people's feelings and that's a trait a lot of people in your position should possess. GOD BLESS YOU!!

[@Indiscrazyworld]

Absolutely Tony GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY

[@ericadoyle1715]

You better preach brother. I'm fearfully and wonderfully made by God. Your messages really inspire me and I will be inviting you to my wedding.

[@lumintalocke7724]

This video is excellent! It's the truth and nothing but pure love. Please don't get offended. Just continue to work on self love and it will show you how true it all is. All woman can look thier very best and there is someone just for them. But level all the way up. Bizmarkie said "they got the vapors" I can't help but to laugh at the video though..

[@hoooyea163]

This is really exposing the game thanks Tony

[@fredajohnson506]

Wow this incredible message part two was even better than one It's the truth because as believer I not interested in man because he has a lot money or he very attractive because he didn't know God as his personal savior no way he can connect with me. Thanks Minster Gaston you're are so knowledgeable concerning relationships you're really using gift God gives you God bless you and your family.

[@girlwakeuppodcast4622]

Brother Tony this is a MESSAGE!!!!

[@valeriebuford6171]

This is so true, women are or powerful I long for them to look within and see how God see them

[@judithsonnnier253]

You can't miss something you never had or met. Spiritually connected. Much-Love.

[@tikajoubert2473]

Hi Tony. Yes superficiality is definitely a word. Bless you ❤️

[@minimalassembly7893]

Income is tricky, especially if you’re in the $150K to quarter mil income bracket and you are looking for your equal financially and spiritually. As a woman, it is rare to find a man in that income bracket that also lives out his faith (at home, not just for the people). The ones that do are already married by 25.

[@ayado180]

This truth here is kinda painful

[@joannehightower4242]

God Bless You! Tony...We must stop comparison by European standards. We are powerful melaninated African People. Peace, Minister Hanifah Hightower, Detroit

[@danielokhrimchuk5429]

Thanks Tony watched every second of your video helped me a lot.

[@brittanythomas7217]

Big bruh be speaking facts

[@nubian_queen4471]

As an African woman, I have seen a lot of young women in my country slowly adopt the American woman's "dream man": solely based on vanity. It is sad cuz I see good men who because are below 6ft., get overlooked. Honestly, it wasn't like this before.

[@tiffanymitchell-ross6902]

Thanks Coach, You are so awesome. We appreciate the giving of your time and for allowing God to use you. God bless you and your family.

[@DebtDemolisherTV]

This is so good and so informative!! So eye opening!! I listen to your videos all the time and I feel like I hear it differently each time you share!! Thank you TG!!!

[@flydollronda1926]

Kevin Hart is a perfect example of what you’re talking about as far as who a man starts out with, and ends up with once they have enough money to have their pick of the litter 😅😂

[@flydollronda1926]

What’s NPD?

[@gigibrown_wright]

I immediately thought of him

[@CM-gd2cc]

Also Tracy Morgan, Rick Ross, Kanye West

[@zerogravity4008]

Jaime Fox

[@blkbutterfly7618]

Steve Harvey too

[@shar555]

Cheeks Clapping in the Air!!!😂😂😂😂😂 it’s the way you say that 😂😂😂😂

[@anishamc5890]

Thanks Tony your really helping me and I have seen this before so I know your keeping it real like always!

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

Catching up on these gems while running errands