Men and Online Dating!

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Tony Gaskins

Tony Gaskins

Күн бұрын

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@mocampbell1356
@mocampbell1356 4 жыл бұрын
You're right. I have tried it and all of them were insecure, socially awkward, and immature. I believe that the majority are troubled individuals who can't talk to women in normal circumstances.
@lafemme8
@lafemme8 4 жыл бұрын
Yep! That's the sum of the majority of the ones I ran across. Like talking to guys from middle school.
@MzSoulll
@MzSoulll 3 жыл бұрын
Phew. You said it all 🤣
@LostlikeNemo82
@LostlikeNemo82 3 жыл бұрын
You mean you don't like getting "hello beautiful" and "wyd" messages all day?
@katherineroberts5698
@katherineroberts5698 3 жыл бұрын
@@LostlikeNemo82 ... I know right. That is the favorites saying. Lol
@Sarablueunicorn
@Sarablueunicorn 3 жыл бұрын
Haven't you met them in person?
@RocSkater09
@RocSkater09 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 real talk! Dating apps is trash. As a man who is looking for a wife, I believe in keeping things traditional and meeting someone in person. I gotta feel that energy/presence.
@MinaMina-nb5tl
@MinaMina-nb5tl 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@tonya898
@tonya898 4 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@ayannatyler3059
@ayannatyler3059 4 жыл бұрын
exactly
@lyndapeoples8127
@lyndapeoples8127 4 жыл бұрын
@Nelson Gil..I totally agree with you. I don't belong to any dating sites but when you live in a small town like myself, the pickings are slim to none.
@stephnewhitfield7954
@stephnewhitfield7954 4 жыл бұрын
So true. You also have to get to know them in various environments as well. The traditional way works.
@gummbootoothbrush9060
@gummbootoothbrush9060 4 жыл бұрын
Who deleted their dating app after hearing the truth? 🙋🏾‍♀️ Tony is so right
@CeeJay060
@CeeJay060 4 жыл бұрын
I did!!
@paulagreen5433
@paulagreen5433 4 жыл бұрын
🙋🏽‍♀ I sure did girl never again...so so done with those, I will wait on God
@lesliesmart4595
@lesliesmart4595 4 жыл бұрын
I left them all alone about 5 yrs ago. I'm good. Most are married or full of bs. I was like this isn't for me Lord.
@STEPSOFPURPOSE
@STEPSOFPURPOSE 4 жыл бұрын
I’m making my way right now to my POF....let go and let GOD is all I can do.
@lueyes22
@lueyes22 4 жыл бұрын
I sure did 😂
@jayray420
@jayray420 4 жыл бұрын
I met my ex husband online, and everything you speak about is truth! He was pretty much chatting with women our entire marriage, as well is doing other things, I suspect. Please consider doing a video on alternative ways to meet men. It's not easy, especially for us over 50 gals.
@SoultanicalsTube
@SoultanicalsTube 4 жыл бұрын
I believe he has a dating over 50 video.
@jayray420
@jayray420 4 жыл бұрын
@@SoultanicalsTube Yes, I've watched it. 😀
@camilletaylor8660
@camilletaylor8660 4 жыл бұрын
Over 50. So true.
@klynnharrison5072
@klynnharrison5072 4 жыл бұрын
TG will tell you what applies to the youngins, applies to us more "mature" women..get out the house, do things you enjoy, network, talk to people and it will happen naturally and organically! Peace & Blessings✌
@HepburnSmith
@HepburnSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Wow sorry to hear this and congrats on being a badass and remaining positive and still believing in LOVE! Wishing you all the best ❤️
@indiaivory
@indiaivory 4 жыл бұрын
Shoutout to Gale! The stitching on those hats is gorgeous
@gailpdesigns
@gailpdesigns 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much!!
@mesheaforbes8179
@mesheaforbes8179 4 жыл бұрын
@@gailpdesigns G Er dd
@certifiedlifecoachdedras5916
@certifiedlifecoachdedras5916 4 жыл бұрын
@@gailpdesigns Hi, your work is FIRST CLASS-way to go with the stitching details!
@thenutritariannurse9074
@thenutritariannurse9074 4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to follow “ rat now” in my Tony accent😂!
@STEPSOFPURPOSE
@STEPSOFPURPOSE 4 жыл бұрын
Online dating has NOT produced anything positive for me. But today-he made me realize that there’s a desperation on MY part that keeps me on the site.....I’m going to remove my page. I look alright/I have a decent job/I’m educated....I’m going to let go and let GOD for once. Step out on faith...cause I really don’t have anything to loose y’all. Thank you Mr. Gaskins. This was a hard pill to swallow but I’m in a season of Discernment and I’m just getting more stronger and empowered. Peace Always ❤️.
@chrisparker6249
@chrisparker6249 4 жыл бұрын
These days all faucets or avenues taken to meet people are or can be dangerous. We were wearing masks before it became a requirement, think about it. Best thing is to do is what Mr. Gaskins suggests in regards to getting out there in public and allowing God to be the ultimate match maker. He did it in the beginning, right?! Don't put down your crown Kings and Queens.
@lasheikatucker4598
@lasheikatucker4598 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@TlangiBaloyi
@TlangiBaloyi 4 жыл бұрын
Well said Chris. 🙌🏾✨
@ayannatyler3059
@ayannatyler3059 4 жыл бұрын
Truth
@DSwitchQueen
@DSwitchQueen 4 жыл бұрын
So true, men have admitted to me that they use social media for dating... watch those inboxes ladies, there are sharks there too!
@chrisparker6249
@chrisparker6249 4 жыл бұрын
@@TlangiBaloyi 🙏👑💞
@yw6502
@yw6502 4 жыл бұрын
Message received, profile deleted....
@Loyaltyisalifestyle
@Loyaltyisalifestyle 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@serahtraore
@serahtraore 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! 😂😂
@paulagreen5433
@paulagreen5433 4 жыл бұрын
Yup me too I just did right away, I'm so done with dating apps never again
@HepburnSmith
@HepburnSmith 4 жыл бұрын
Same about to do mine 👌
@taddamikabond4038
@taddamikabond4038 4 жыл бұрын
Best thing you can do, boo
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
Some of these men online don’t even know how to conversate it’s like I have to be asking all the questions which is draining 🤦🏿‍♀️
@clarkclarke
@clarkclarke 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed.not everyone knows how to converse.... so it is good that you picked that up right away ...because at the end of the day how will we ever get to learn about the person if not through conversation ...be vigilant and pay attention .. be safe 💞
@tammerry9496
@tammerry9496 4 жыл бұрын
Omg yess I know what you mean.
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
@@tammerry9496 yes exhausting once I match with that person it’s like they don’t initiate the conversation I always have too
@MinaMina-nb5tl
@MinaMina-nb5tl 4 жыл бұрын
@GoldLoveee 😂🤣😅 so true
@ClowneryAtItsFinest
@ClowneryAtItsFinest 4 жыл бұрын
CONVERSE is the correct word to use. Conversate is Ebonics, NOT a real word!
@serenekindred5302
@serenekindred5302 4 жыл бұрын
I feel regardless of how you meet a person you still need to check them out and keep your eyes open and pray
@Chec35
@Chec35 4 жыл бұрын
And whatever this man says is not gospel. Where did the men on the dating sites come from? Not from space but from the population of men.
@missybella9046
@missybella9046 3 жыл бұрын
Agree Serene👏👏 Online, grocery store, family friend, church it doesn't matter. You never know a person "fully." There's crazy people everywhere.
@user-xt3gx5yu3b
@user-xt3gx5yu3b 3 жыл бұрын
That's 100% right!!
@user-msjazzy
@user-msjazzy 3 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@margaretwince2748
@margaretwince2748 2 жыл бұрын
Background check is important.
@breewelch5982
@breewelch5982 4 жыл бұрын
Somebody arguing with a relationship coach to justify online dating is like arguing surgery with a brain surgeon! This is your specialty Tony, I hear you. I’m currently single & I will definitely never online date. God is a good God & will send my husband. Let me focus on my 3 B’s & raising my daughter before I try to take this video personal or argue. Thanks again for all your guidance! God bless!
@elenap2215
@elenap2215 4 жыл бұрын
@Euphora eup lol so tell me how you going to meet your soon to be husband? Where ya meeting people?
@jussjess2829
@jussjess2829 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is not lying!! Ive been on those dating sites. I did meet one guy who was really sweet and nice. He brought me a few things as well. But one day I never heard from him again. It was a long distance situation. The rest of the men were crazy and weird as all hell. Ladies stay off those sites! You better than that. Trust me
@Dr.Elaine1
@Dr.Elaine1 4 жыл бұрын
“A man has no reason to get on a dating site.” TG
@acd1168
@acd1168 4 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else holler the whole video? TG is hilarious
@officialwatchamber
@officialwatchamber 4 жыл бұрын
The WHOLE video!! 🤣🤣🤣
@vanessaa.balladares2358
@vanessaa.balladares2358 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@kathleenmcconnell2384
@kathleenmcconnell2384 4 жыл бұрын
Yaaaasssssss he had me dying!!!😭😭😭
@IAmKaia
@IAmKaia 4 жыл бұрын
He really is a comedian
@brennaceja
@brennaceja 4 жыл бұрын
NASA😂😂😂
@Godsonechild
@Godsonechild 4 жыл бұрын
I've never been a fan of online dating. I'd rather meet someone the generic way...in person as stated. I love these kind of videos...keep speaking the truth. 💯
@CrystalsThoughts
@CrystalsThoughts 3 жыл бұрын
I just deleted my accounts while watching this video. No more. I deserve way more. Thank you ♥️
@Sassysouthrnbelle
@Sassysouthrnbelle Жыл бұрын
Tony is SPOT ON! On-line dating is Men being LAZY!!! Plain & simple! And most of them have multiple profiles they have had for years! It’s a sick addiction.
@michole369
@michole369 4 жыл бұрын
but that single guy you meet at the grocery store most likely has an online dating profile. The way you meet doesn’t change who the person is.
@cocoaxo6126
@cocoaxo6126 4 жыл бұрын
Not everyone does online dating. Many people are still very adverse to the concept and meet people in their schools, workplaces, etc a lot more commonly than the latter.
@rickimcfarland2269
@rickimcfarland2269 4 жыл бұрын
I agree. A lot of men have profiles but they might not be active everyday. But most have them.
@Chec35
@Chec35 4 жыл бұрын
Indeed!
@ieshjust16
@ieshjust16 3 жыл бұрын
Still doesn't change the fact that online dating is trash
@msjrene05
@msjrene05 3 жыл бұрын
This is true, but meeting someone in person, I can tell right off bat a lot quicker that they’re going to be a waste of time. I’m less invested. It’s easier to sell someone a dream that you meet online. It sounds weird, but there is a difference IMO. I also think online dating gives people access to us who never should have stood a chance. I know they say the wider the net, the better, but not always.
@DSwitchQueen
@DSwitchQueen 4 жыл бұрын
Tony is right, I met my ex-husband on POF, again, ex-husband... it took years for me for my eyes to open and walk away from that mess!!! And it isn't just him, I've dated men online and have noticed there is definitely a trend in them being crazy. Its not worth your time ladies!!!
@DSwitchQueen
@DSwitchQueen 4 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf Yes, that happens, a lot, both ways. I met someone who was an "engineer" trying to move into my place... what kind of craziness is that? They are also the ones that tend to try and pressure people into relationships... no sir, no ma'am! When we are out enjoying life and doing the things we love and meet someone, we can at least know we have something in common.
@missybella9046
@missybella9046 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you have enough self love and strength to know what you deserve and dont L and L. Wish you the best this year lovely lady 👍
@VintageAfro91
@VintageAfro91 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for doing this video. It’s a lot of low-vibrational people on these “sites.” Even though I’m a “millennial,” I prefer the old skool organic way of meeting people. It’s more genuine. People tend to meet one another when they least expect it, not when they are looking for it. I’m learning this more & more. 🙏🏾💕
@laraine7209
@laraine7209 4 жыл бұрын
This is the harsh truth ladies. I met my husband online 4 years ago, after a child and thinking we’re a great couple, found out he was talking to other women AND one of my associates saw him on a dating site and sent my friend a screenshot. Needless to say, we’re separated after finding out he was cheating. Online dating is just too easy for men and there’s too many options in their eyes out there.
@Nurseaholic
@Nurseaholic 4 жыл бұрын
Online dating = desperation‼️ Got it 👌
@LaTashaChante
@LaTashaChante 4 жыл бұрын
Perfect message, especially during this pandemic. You brought up all the excuses I’ve said when I tried online dating...slim pickings in my city and I’m a business owner, so it’s convenient. I have to admit, every single time I’ve gone on a dating site, I don’t last a week..I’m just not built for it. This is definitely a walk of faith. I have to do my part in continuing to refine myself to be suitable for the kind of husband I desire and trust that God will allow our paths to cross. It does get really hard when you start feeling invisible and the time keeps ticking. (Almost 8 years single) The process isn’t always pretty, but it’s a beautiful thing. 🙏🏽
@MarcinaRiley
@MarcinaRiley 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all know Tony’s granny is in Heaven just laughin.. he studied all her mannerisms. Such a blessing! 😂💛
@josie2919
@josie2919 4 жыл бұрын
If I get a personal lesson, you will need a few days off to seek a therapist and a few days for my prayers and then a few more days to rejuvenate. Cause babyyyy I been thru some stuff with these BOYS!!!! But keep these videos coming, im learning 🙌🏽🙌🏽
@andreamartin7007
@andreamartin7007 4 жыл бұрын
I am learning as well. Better late than never.
@lolaamazonia5218
@lolaamazonia5218 9 ай бұрын
Majority of these men online have massive insecurities they seek validation from women, when you text them they will purposely take days if not week's to respond. There are actually good decent men online who are actually looking for something serious and it could work etc busy life which doesn't give them time to talk to people. So not all are bad , but majority on there are weird
@sjltt329
@sjltt329 4 жыл бұрын
I’m old fashioned and always told myself my man will find me face to face but listening to other ppl pressured me to do online dating and I’m so glad I found this video.... confirmation to keep my standards high, deleting immediately
@fanniemartin6358
@fanniemartin6358 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely ME TOO!!!!
@taddamikabond4038
@taddamikabond4038 4 жыл бұрын
Your 100% right I was married to my ex husband on a dating site for 7 years, only to find out he never got off the dating site. He had endless supply. He had a secret live, class A narc. Waste of time.
@OsutaCaroline
@OsutaCaroline 5 ай бұрын
Sorry
@artanziarice2240
@artanziarice2240 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, I believe that men online are deceitful. I know people who have had bad experiences. It's no place to meet a man. Thanks for educating women.
@Chicarene22
@Chicarene22 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve tried online dating. Tony is right. Stay off of there...It’s trash smh
@jamesroberts7115
@jamesroberts7115 4 жыл бұрын
Chica Rene I try match online for 30 days it nothing but attention and no friendly response. It burn me out in 2 weeks so that waste of time never again.
@michellecampbell1115
@michellecampbell1115 11 ай бұрын
​@@jamesroberts7115 I got a lot of older white men there and that's not what I'm interested in at all.
@frederquejackson5409
@frederquejackson5409 4 жыл бұрын
Tony man you ain't Neva lied. The last dude I tried to date on bumble I think it was was tripping. I'm like bro you need to chill and turn that attitude all the way down. That was back in May. I'm done with the foolishness on these sites. I've always said I want to meet my guy in person.
@lasheikatucker4598
@lasheikatucker4598 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah these men on the sites are full of games. How about in April a guy canceled a virtual date with me because I didn't send him nudes. Only talked to him a few days before he asked me that. I will never get online again I was bored in the pandemic
@MinaMina-nb5tl
@MinaMina-nb5tl 4 жыл бұрын
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@love7loyalty-MHA
@love7loyalty-MHA 4 жыл бұрын
The snoring with one eye open is too funny 😂😂
@lsmith6718
@lsmith6718 4 жыл бұрын
“Stay off that online dating...”-TG. I’m speaking from experience. I was so naive and trusting. I had Just started listening to Tony, when a one year relationship from Elite Singles (yes, they’re trash too) went south. I was devastated. Had it not been for the Lord, the MANY Hours I poured into listening to these videos, AND a coaching session - where Tony can actually look at your picture to tell how you are being perceived, I honestly don’t know where I would be. Probably years of healing have been reduced. Tony, I appreciate you. May God continually bless you, and your beautiful family🙏.
@angelat99130
@angelat99130 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, what you are saying is so true. I know a man who works at a gym and has indicated that he's on a dating app. Now that you've brought this out a little more and I think about it, why is he on a dating app? He is in the perfect place to meet a lot of single women with at least one of the B's you described. Seems his intentions may not be in the right place. Ladies, beware... 🤔🤔
@csandusky3734
@csandusky3734 4 жыл бұрын
He's too cowardly to approach a woman in real life.
@Sarablueunicorn
@Sarablueunicorn 3 жыл бұрын
They approach women in dating sites and in other places. It's a strategy to reach as many people as possible. Like a job advertisement, a company can put it online, on a local newspaper, can distribute some flyers, you can hear about it from a friend. SAME.
@jimmyharrison290
@jimmyharrison290 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mr Gaskin for always showing love and encouragement by the truth you speak.. I'm a single man working on my 3. (Bs ) plus my personal 4th. ( B ) Believing.. because With God all things are possible.. I know you messages are serious.. but at times you can be so hilarious and your expression 😂. Thanks for the joy of laughter. A quick message to the single women.. keep hope alive we are out looking for you..
@stesfai
@stesfai 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@tracey5215
@tracey5215 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the encouragement. It’s frustrating when I’m a good woman but there’s guys out there playing games. I will keep hope alive!!
@Carolina480
@Carolina480 Жыл бұрын
Thanks but in this hard dating world it’s very sad to trust men and even in person they will play lie fake real love to damage your heart
@erynd.9911
@erynd.9911 4 жыл бұрын
I had a profile on hinge and I kept it for about two months..it just didn’t feel right plus all of the guys I matched with would ask the same question “what are you looking for in a man?” 🙄and to add insult to injury I saw my ex husband on there with pictures that were 5 years old AND he conveniently forgot to fill out the section “do you have kids?” Added the fact that he has a master’s degree but left out the fact that he has two kids by two different women 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🤔 Yea so I’m done with online dating !
@Afrocreolebombshelle
@Afrocreolebombshelle 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@VintageAfro91
@VintageAfro91 4 жыл бұрын
Wowww. You really can’t make this stuff up. 😂
@AD_2314
@AD_2314 4 жыл бұрын
Wow 😳 lol just wow
@lamorena8444
@lamorena8444 4 жыл бұрын
This comment made my day 😩😂😂😂
@chrissy1448
@chrissy1448 4 жыл бұрын
Wow... your story will make any woman cancel all memberships. Haha
@ericagafford2101
@ericagafford2101 4 жыл бұрын
Tony I agree, why would a man who has himself together have to go to an online dating site? I feel most of the guys on those sites are looking for easy sex, have some type of short man complex or an emotional problem. It's just so draining that the dating era is a mess. Sigh...
@mrsj7763
@mrsj7763 4 жыл бұрын
Most are looking for casual sexual encounters or a woman desperate enough to fund them. I stopped going on those sites years ago. They all come across the same way and want the same things which is sex.
@kristinbrittanysmith535
@kristinbrittanysmith535 4 жыл бұрын
Love it! I stopped online dating in my late 20s because I wanted to be approached the old school way....walk up to me and start a conversation...
@JAZZSTARish
@JAZZSTARish 3 жыл бұрын
Some gals don't have much conversation as before (always on phone) it was better on dial-up. Lol
@ieshjust16
@ieshjust16 3 жыл бұрын
I stopped in my early 20s 😅
@JustPivot318
@JustPivot318 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Tony Tony omg I just cancelled my subscription and removed my profile. This man is the truth “hear me”! Cause I didn’t look at it like that. Thanks TG
@ingridfrancetravels
@ingridfrancetravels 4 жыл бұрын
“The reason you may be single is that God won’t let anyone approach you! “❤️❤️❤️
@LovingMe-vr3jb
@LovingMe-vr3jb 4 жыл бұрын
I was on bpm and saw a picture of a guy from work. He said never married, no kids. He’s divorced with 10 kids by numerous women.
@ABlackGirlandHerCoffee
@ABlackGirlandHerCoffee 4 жыл бұрын
Wow😲
@nancyb6597
@nancyb6597 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@sandral5086
@sandral5086 3 жыл бұрын
😮
@miacreswell5427
@miacreswell5427 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not going to lie. I recently signed up for a couple of dating apps. And they’re filled with low value men. I just can’t do it. I’m trying to remain open, especially because of the world we live in, specifically COVID. But I just don’t have the patience and mindset for it. I thought it was just me...but there is no shortage of women. They have it EASY. So it does make me wonder why they’re on there...
@jessicagiles2941
@jessicagiles2941 4 жыл бұрын
I used to do online dating and I had a few men tell me to get off, to stop using dating sites.
@msjrene05
@msjrene05 4 жыл бұрын
Hmmm, did they say why they felt you should get off? I don’t like online dating either. I’m curious to hear the views of men who aren’t into it.
@jessicagiles2941
@jessicagiles2941 4 жыл бұрын
@@msjrene05 One of them told me if I was looking for a husband that I wasn't going to find him on a dating site. Looking back that was God using those men to let me know it wasn't for me.
@TamBella80
@TamBella80 3 жыл бұрын
Out of all the dating coaches out there, I resonate with Tony the most. His combination of giving it to you straight, mixed with the comedy gets me every time. Thank you for this video. Be blessed!
@BreeziDeezi
@BreeziDeezi 4 жыл бұрын
You are ON it man just the sheer relevancy of topics confirms you’re being led by The Spirit. Thank you. - a lost 26 year old
@clarkclarke
@clarkclarke 4 жыл бұрын
You are not lost my dear ... just lessons to be learned .... I was fortunate that as a young woman I listened to mom and my grandmom......I figured no need to go through what they went through...but everyone is different ... Tony sharing from a man's perspective is very important .... We have to hear it ..even when it is hard to hear ..and adjust accordingly.... stay the course and safe travels..💞
@dr.annetwanthompkins4953
@dr.annetwanthompkins4953 4 жыл бұрын
Sweetheart, you are not lost. Believe in yourself and continue listening to your HolySpirit. Wishing you many blessings 🙏
@patricemurray6412
@patricemurray6412 4 жыл бұрын
Honey you are a long way from being lost. You're thinking is on point! Keep your cookie in the jar. Many blessings to you.🙏🏾
@danielleperham5745
@danielleperham5745 4 жыл бұрын
Same here girl! Also almost 26.
@solochica81
@solochica81 4 жыл бұрын
Be careful what you speak into your life 😫 trust me.
@tilbalott8798
@tilbalott8798 4 жыл бұрын
Tony you are truly a blessing from God. I was recently online dating and I was battling the thought of being on there so I deleted my account and asked Lord please show me a sign if I am doing the right thing by logging off of it and meet my husband face to face. I deleted the app yesterday and I see the video today. Thank God for the blessing. Please sew into his ministry he is for real. I listen to the live question and answer just listening. I do not ask questions because I have been were these women have been and I have been abstaining from sex. It does take some time getting used to but listening to the lives showed me that as women we need to love ourselves. Know your worth and add tax to that. The man that will marry you will protect you. The clowns online offer no protection they are actually rude and quite nasty and disrespectful. Thank you Tony!
@kwdaughterofzion1760
@kwdaughterofzion1760 4 жыл бұрын
Meet my now husband online. His true colors have begun to surface now. I’m pregnant with our first child and he’s not being faithful. 😔 and when I found out he tried to justify it, God is giving me a strength to leave. But right now I’m just trying to focus on delivering a healthy/happy baby.
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
God bless you!!
@smiles9599
@smiles9599 4 жыл бұрын
Awww bless you hun, so sorry about that.
@allthingsdelightful8565
@allthingsdelightful8565 4 жыл бұрын
wow I am so sorry to hear this. Ladies please listen to this. Leave these sites alone. The potential for heartache is high meeting people on these sites.
@elizabethsamuel8440
@elizabethsamuel8440 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry K Williams. Prayers of strength and comfort for you Lady!! 🙏🏾
@loveylocbivens1397
@loveylocbivens1397 4 жыл бұрын
Pray!
@DD-mg2se
@DD-mg2se 4 жыл бұрын
I've never had so much fun being educated...You're the best Tony
@stellabellafontay9366
@stellabellafontay9366 4 жыл бұрын
My Covid-19 summer has been a disaster due to playing with online dating. So far, I've been ghosted, stalked and Punk'd since mid-July. Dating apps have men acting like idiots. 🙄
@mariahwilliams9867
@mariahwilliams9867 4 жыл бұрын
Quote of the Day: “If he’s tall dark and handsome...He’s a scammer!”😂🤣😂🤣
@graciem6562
@graciem6562 4 жыл бұрын
Girl!😂😂
@MinaMina-nb5tl
@MinaMina-nb5tl 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯 or he's creepy
@perfectlyyoubeauty
@perfectlyyoubeauty 4 жыл бұрын
Married!!
@tiffanieofficial
@tiffanieofficial 4 жыл бұрын
Hilarious 😂😂😂
@DSwitchQueen
@DSwitchQueen 4 жыл бұрын
Right
@corissacarter9845
@corissacarter9845 Жыл бұрын
This confirms why God told me to hide my profile and to get off the dating sites. Thank you, brother. 🙏 ❤️
@annaadams86ful
@annaadams86ful 4 жыл бұрын
I hate online dating!!! Hate hate hate! Filled with crazies!!!
@lasheikatucker4598
@lasheikatucker4598 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely
@pattygeee2298
@pattygeee2298 4 жыл бұрын
Crazies and perverts.
@HSBsoulsurfer
@HSBsoulsurfer 9 ай бұрын
And closeted gay men
@kishacalhoun6414
@kishacalhoun6414 4 жыл бұрын
My opinion when a man is seeking women on social media most likely they're straight narcs or just have low self-esteem. There are to many beautiful women out here on sight it's men out here spending unnecessary money on chicks he don't even know just for attention
@WatsonInRealLife
@WatsonInRealLife 2 жыл бұрын
I just deleted all of the dating apps because I certainly keep meeting narcissist after narcissist!
@HSBsoulsurfer
@HSBsoulsurfer 9 ай бұрын
Same, for TEN years
@vchild
@vchild 4 жыл бұрын
Those sights are the devil. I been on about four at one time, and I never got good results. Met some scammers too! Tony is right. You can meet guys better in person.
@Candy-h5t
@Candy-h5t 4 жыл бұрын
You have to keep in mind. Take your time, be content with your own life, have a take em or leave em attitude. A dinner and drinks just Isn’t enough to entice me. And some of them don’t want to do that. It’s COVID season. So chatting and moving slow Is an ok avenue online or off. Single people understand. All I know, I’ve gotten sharper than Samurai sword. No Jokers will get a chat let alone bite. Wiser with time. Thank you Jesus.
@Ms.Billie1234
@Ms.Billie1234 4 жыл бұрын
online OR OFF -- exactly. same rules apply. initial meeting takes place (online OR OFF) then talk on phone 1 hour daily until the 1st date in person, where you can meet up on a park bench & talk for a few hours and get to learn each other. either you'll both enjoy it & want to do it again & continue talking an hour a day in between dates, or not. the ONLY difference SHOULD be the initial WAY you met (online or in person). Otherwise, the rules shouldn't change one bit. the only purpose online dating sites Should serve is bringing that "match" to the person's attention. he should still approach you first. you need just as much discernment & live conversation in real time after meeting online as you do after meeting in person. With that, you can weed 'em out just as quickly if they're not the one. he can be just as slap-crazy & ready to hide your body in a box if he met you in person in the mall as he can if he met you online. be careful EITHER way. Discernment is just as CRUCIAL in-person as it is online. sadly, nowadays, most folks' sense of discernment, social skills & ability to carry on a decent, mature conversation is pretty horrific & the dating sites get blamed for it. ~ b.
@prettypenne662
@prettypenne662 4 жыл бұрын
Big Betty etc ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Candy-h5t
@Candy-h5t 4 жыл бұрын
@@prettypenne662 Yes lady, Big enough not to sell myself short out here. Not today, not tomorrow, not any longer If I had.
@destiniek3053
@destiniek3053 2 жыл бұрын
Wow, this opened my eyes! I tried online dating and it was EXACTLY as Tony Gaskins said it. All I can said is wow because he described my experience. I got played on there thought I was being classy and he was talking to other women behind my back. I don’t go out much so I thought it would be easier to meet online. It’s a lot of nonsense on there! I will do it the regular way and didn’t think about what kind of men that’s really on there. Not getting on there again! Thank you Tony for your wisdom! God uses you!!! We APPRECIATE you! Your helping many people! God bless!
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like it much harder to meet someone decent during the pandemic
@mspinkdiva3
@mspinkdiva3 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly! And with limited social ability trying to meet men in the grocery store is not working lol
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
@@mspinkdiva3 exactly it’s must harder
@SoultanicalsTube
@SoultanicalsTube 4 жыл бұрын
The pandemic isn’t forever. Patience is a virtue and I’ll wait for God’s timing!
@lwhite474
@lwhite474 4 жыл бұрын
@@SoultanicalsTube gotcha I beleive
@ascelinek
@ascelinek 4 жыл бұрын
I definitely feel this!!
@Stormy867
@Stormy867 4 жыл бұрын
“I know my momma don’t look this good” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@NewEra644
@NewEra644 4 жыл бұрын
To all the Queens out here! Know that, you're about to overcome something you've been dealing with. Your mind and heart will soon be at peace again. Be patient, everything will be just fine.
@shaniainsworth7092
@shaniainsworth7092 3 жыл бұрын
I so needed to read your message
@evocentricpodcast1643
@evocentricpodcast1643 4 жыл бұрын
That Smack before the woman’s voice 😂😂😂
@HeyyMonie
@HeyyMonie 4 жыл бұрын
*lip smack* "oh!"
@evocentricpodcast1643
@evocentricpodcast1643 4 жыл бұрын
HeyyMonie 😂😂😂😂😂 right?!
@CeeJay060
@CeeJay060 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@juanitacapric6505
@juanitacapric6505 4 жыл бұрын
Right although I've heard it from him many times however it still so funny 😂😂
@evocentricpodcast1643
@evocentricpodcast1643 4 жыл бұрын
Juanitacapri C everytime i hear it, it catches me off guard 😂
@naturallyfree01krj50
@naturallyfree01krj50 4 жыл бұрын
I have always been scared of online dating. Its bad enough you can meet ppl face to face and still have a hard time reading a man's energy right off. They show you the good side in the beginning and once they feel comfortable it could be trouble to pay. So you know online is worst.
@pamelahuelfer8691
@pamelahuelfer8691 4 жыл бұрын
Took my profile off a dating site yesterday. It's like a weight lifted off my shoulders. Literally.
@JAkk0428
@JAkk0428 Жыл бұрын
Taking myself off dating sites. Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Tony. You are absolutely right.
@jamiewilliams3938
@jamiewilliams3938 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Tony i am single and my girlfriend keeps telling me to get online to meet a man but I refuse I am scared to death to meet a man online. I will take my chance to meet a man out on the street before I meet him online I do not trust that so I totally agree with you thank you for being so truthful and helping us women out have a great weekend😊
@sophisticatedmm3632
@sophisticatedmm3632 4 жыл бұрын
Hello don't do it I just met a 54 yr old dusty ass dude that still stay at home with his parents & is a habitual liar. Hard Pass
@jamiewilliams3938
@jamiewilliams3938 4 жыл бұрын
@@sophisticatedmm3632 🤣🤣thanks for sharing!
@sharoncobb2547
@sharoncobb2547 4 жыл бұрын
@@sophisticatedmm3632 😂
@Callie777
@Callie777 Жыл бұрын
Yes, a man who is on a dating site is not ready. You are so right.
@juliaclayton1248
@juliaclayton1248 4 жыл бұрын
Great Video Tony! NOT desperate, but I am now more WISER and more CONFIDENT since I started listening to you!!! 🙌 🙌👏👏👊💪🙏
@MichaeldBenefield
@MichaeldBenefield 4 жыл бұрын
Once again TG you are on it again. Listen please ladies. A man can dress it up on a site to make it look good. Think about when a person goes in for a job interview. Most of the time they are trying to put on extra because they want the position. Same thing for men on sites they are trying to get you to hire them. It may take years before you realize he is not an employee you should have hired. Dont be blind! Pay close attention to detail, and don't be naive!
@lasheikatucker4598
@lasheikatucker4598 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@lerhondajones-bates3324
@lerhondajones-bates3324 4 жыл бұрын
I'm screaaaammmming!!! Tony talking bout mama and the dating site🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@toriyt2714
@toriyt2714 4 жыл бұрын
No online dating. Okay, got it lol
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
That part
@teeree8233
@teeree8233 4 жыл бұрын
Tony, I can't with you and the astronauts!!! 🤣 I can't watch one video of yours without busting out laughing. Thank you for all you do!
@HK80sbabii
@HK80sbabii 4 жыл бұрын
Tony I feel like we get to see more and more of who you are with each video and it gets funnier, more real, and hits home/confirms like never before. You told the 1000% truth when you say men don’t have the right intentions online because even OFFline men don’t have the right intentions; whether you meet them at a restaurant, church etc so it has to be triple quadruple so online. That comment sealed the video perfectly!! Thank you !
@davisemichaela
@davisemichaela Жыл бұрын
I just about died when he was talking about how girls can’t get that “snoring sleep” and then his demonstration of it 😂👏🏼 I know this is a serious topic but Tony is HILARIOUS!
@kittygalore2010
@kittygalore2010 4 жыл бұрын
This man has spoken 100% truth and many of us ladies will be rightfully convicted after listening 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@kay7216
@kay7216 4 жыл бұрын
TONY GASKINS YOU ARE GENIUS! After watching this video I dont believe there's a women with 2 brains who can't understand the point you are making. You truly are one of gods messenger's. Stay blessed 🙌🏽
@WW-hp7cs
@WW-hp7cs 4 жыл бұрын
These online men are foul and the women are desperate and they know it
@lisasmilez
@lisasmilez 4 жыл бұрын
The last 30 seconds of woman’s impressions “oohh...” 😂😂😂😂 I am hollering. Tony started going in! This man is fed up with caveats & nuances 😂💀💀💀 This is so comical but is he speaking the truth! Please do a part 2!
@trulyoptimistic3469
@trulyoptimistic3469 4 жыл бұрын
I've tried several times with online dating. All of them had a different set of issues....most were just interested in a sexual relationship. Never again will I online date.
@marzo-san
@marzo-san 3 жыл бұрын
And you think that men you meet face to face in real life won’t just be interested in sex?
@sadetrelove
@sadetrelove 3 жыл бұрын
@@marzo-san Hello, what are your thoughts on Tony's advice in this video?
@fandybonsu6375
@fandybonsu6375 3 жыл бұрын
Been binge watching Tony never gets old 🤣
@chantay7834
@chantay7834 4 жыл бұрын
Tony Gaskins, you tickle me! But everything you share in your videos is extremely helpful, especially in this day and time. Thanks for dropping knowledge and sharing real life experiences.
@LadyFay88
@LadyFay88 4 жыл бұрын
Please bring back Talks with Tony! I love all of your videos, but I really loved how you went in on those videos and addressed the viewers' specific question. It was insightful.
@margaritavid2182
@margaritavid2182 4 жыл бұрын
It makes sense, but in some countries of Europe you would be single forever if you waited for a man to approach you on streets. Men in Germany will avoid even looking at you. All thanks to feminists that were accusing men of harassment if they dare to approach.
@margaritavid2182
@margaritavid2182 4 жыл бұрын
@Euphora eup if it Turkey probably yes. May be Italy. Otherwise only Arabs, Africans and Turks approach women here.
@Sarablueunicorn
@Sarablueunicorn 3 жыл бұрын
Dating app gives you the chance of having a pre-evaluation of the guy, 90% of them will show their crazy or true intentions in at least 2 days, many in the first line, you just don't entertain and unmatch. If a guy can hold a normal conversation and seems interesting and tries to move on for a meeting IRL in a public,safe place, that's all right, if he invites you to his place or any location of his special preference (usually next to him) then you don't go. Easy. Better meet a man in a safe and public environment where you can leave at any moment (choose an area you know well and have available transportation) than just entertain a potential creep. A woman met this guy on the train back home, they talked back and forth and he invited her for a dinner at some nearby restaurant, after building rapport he invited her to his place for drinks, but then he threatened her with a knife, beat her up and raped her. I guess she wouldn't think a guy commuting by train was a predator, well he was.
@1984watchr
@1984watchr 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Tony! I just deleted the last app for dating about a month ago. This was perfect Godly confirmation and timing. Online dating success stories happen, I know, but I don't think it's the norm. I feel like I am on the brink of losing my sanity after a couple of years. Thank God it's over. lol
@lifecoachkris1486
@lifecoachkris1486 4 жыл бұрын
When you put too much emphasis on WHERE AND HOW you met your man/woman, it beats the whole purpose of meeting the right person. It’s about being upfront, with your intentions, set the ground rules, know and state your boundaries, know and state your non-negotiable. It is about HONESTY, TRANSPARENCY and JUST BEING A DECENT HUMAN BEING♥️
@pearlieevans315
@pearlieevans315 4 жыл бұрын
Great message Kris...
@marysmith6803
@marysmith6803 4 жыл бұрын
Some people can’t take the truth, they will argue with Jesus🤷‍♀️
@divinee.155
@divinee.155 7 ай бұрын
U live in the bong shop
@FollowingJesus17
@FollowingJesus17 4 жыл бұрын
I did online dating for a couple of years and all I did was get used and treated badly. It's not worth it. It's dangerous for the self-esteem. The only way online dating would be good a is if you're just looking to get laid, that's all it's good for!! . All the men on there they're not serious. Everything he said is true every time I met someone who I liked on line I would delete my account!!! and the guy never deleted he's!!!! he was still on there!!!! and if things didn't work out he just went back online he deleted his account. Never. Heartless. Online dating is cold and heartless
@daniellekea4462
@daniellekea4462 4 жыл бұрын
Truth. I met my ex husband on Christian mingle. Grown boy, narcissistic traits, thank God I only wasted 5 years of my life. Thank you! I shared this video with a couple girlfriends including a matchstick user & plenty of sharks user. So on point!
@Iamcherese
@Iamcherese 4 жыл бұрын
“Leaving wise and confident” 💯
@bariannmartin8728
@bariannmartin8728 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Tony!!! Nothing but scammers on online dating. I've been clean for 4 years and yes I was desperate.
@afrohersheys22
@afrohersheys22 4 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t agree more! Been there done that online dating! It’s trashhh as heck! Even though it is harder to meet men during this trying pandemic, I think this is the perfect time to focus on me and work on my goals. I trust that God will send me a great guy who loves, cherishes, honors and wants to build a future with me 🙏🏾
@mitz1919
@mitz1919 4 жыл бұрын
My favorite thing you reminded us of is if we are single doing all that we can working on the three Bs , we may need to tap in to our purpose and look for God to show us what are we supposed to be doing during this time. Like you said every one has a time that love and relationship will come. Ever since I heard this I’m looking at others in relationships different now instead of wondering why not me . The why not me mentality has been distracting me for some time now. Thanks for the insight and encouragement!
@CeeJay060
@CeeJay060 4 жыл бұрын
Why I’m starting to say.. point, blank, period... when I repeat the rules learned on this KZbin channel
@kikic7637
@kikic7637 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, I've been saying it a lot lately as well😩🤣
@reashabiggs2236
@reashabiggs2236 4 жыл бұрын
Lol he has me saying broke busted and disgusted 😩🤣
@CaramelKissez
@CaramelKissez 4 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the blessed tribe family 🙂
@CeeJay060
@CeeJay060 4 жыл бұрын
@@CaramelKissez Thanks
@stormisabella
@stormisabella 3 жыл бұрын
This video really helps, confirmation! God convicted my heart after 2 weeks of FB dating app, I felt so rejected because of the men I attracted but God was really trying to show me that He was protecting me from those jokers who would've only been a distraction from my purpose and also a trap from satan, thank God for delivering me from a trap and thank God for teaching me to prepare myself for purpose first, and to trust in His timing!
@syoung1564
@syoung1564 4 жыл бұрын
Whew, I just deleted my dating profiles. Thank you, Mr. Gaskins. This was great advice and confirmation.
@MichElle-py8lk
@MichElle-py8lk 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Tony for this message 💖 I have wasted so many years on dating sites! 😩 2020 is my end of dating sites!!
@UNEPIC9000
@UNEPIC9000 4 жыл бұрын
That online dating is no good. I did it years ago, did not listen to my mother; biggest mistake I’ve over made in my life. Don’t do it...
@MeMe1107
@MeMe1107 4 жыл бұрын
Tony I am so glad you did this video. I feel like God must be hiding me but I am believing God for my husband soon.
@bougiegal2074
@bougiegal2074 3 жыл бұрын
I gave up on dating sites years ago. Every time I go on there, my stomach turns.
@titisweets
@titisweets 4 жыл бұрын
Man you are truly a gift from GOD!! FACTS ALL DAY LONG!!! BE BLESSED BROTHER!!!
@ZfenProductions
@ZfenProductions 4 жыл бұрын
That cap looks very nice. I was always thinking what is TB it has to be TG. Very nice!
@brittbrat3232
@brittbrat3232 4 жыл бұрын
TB is Tampa Bay
@stesfai
@stesfai 4 жыл бұрын
Body, Brain, and Brand in that order!
@whatsnextsis2904
@whatsnextsis2904 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve definitely become more Wise & Confident by coming here, Tony!
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