How God changed my preference in men

[@thebiblechick]

This topic has been on my heart! I pray it edifies and encourages you!

[@MattSTaylorsVersion]

Your God is not real, Tay. No amount of praying is going to work. 😐🙁

[@tomlambert915]

@@thebiblechick I doubt anything is on your heart except yourself.

[@Williammyers-yoel]

IT WAS ENCOURAGING TAYLOR! GOD BLESS

[@daveharvey6700]

I'm a Norse pagan your God isn't real but we can have our own opinions may Odin be with me until the end and your religion says I'll go to hell if I don't worship Jesus

[@michaelp5283]

I’ve found that women are attracted to bad boys because they think nice guys or good men are weak. In reality I’ve found that most muscle bound tuff acting guys use it as a cover for low self worth. It’s “fake confidence” that leads to suspicion, jealousy, and abuse of the person they’re with. Glad to see you’ve figured that out Taylor. Happy Thanksgiving to you! 😎⚡️

[@BENEATH_THE_SEWERS]

I agree, people who are clean, and read books, and dont party, and they exercise, and dont sleep around, and dont drink , and dont smoke, and dont do drugs and dont eat bad food are the only attractive people to me. Happy Thanksgiving Taylor.

[@LordSurma]

God changes you completely if you let him. He has changed the type of woman I want to date and now know He has our best in mind.

[@AlexARY3]

Amen!

[@AntoninaJytte]

This resonates with me so much! I was also one of the girls who was obsessed over bad boys, but a book named Feminine Ancient Blessings changed my mind forever. Now I am happily married to my prince who treats me right in every way 💙

[@josiahcunningham3006]

Taylor, you are a hero. You are absolutely correct, and I thank you for having the unmitigated gall to speak the truth to our generation. And for the men, it is not about not looking at porn or doing things right for the sake of doing right. It's about loving the King, and treating His children how He would treat them.

[@sammajor2075]

As a "thrilling Bad Boy", I approve this message. 👍 👍 👍

[@JasonTimothyK]

It's encouraging to hear this as someone who has never been particularly successful with women but truly wanting to have a wife I can love and show servant leadership toward one day.

[@MikeLantz-pt2mp]

This an amazing message Taylor ❤. As a man I can honestly say our country is starving for young ladies like you! And no I'm not saying that to justify all the (bad guys) either I know us men have a lot to do as well to fix the brokenness. 😢 great message to both genders!!

[@runtheptnite]

Yes, you're right. I was just talking about this; initial appeal is mostly visual, but attitude/spirit quickly becomes significant.

[@ServantofLordJesus]

This gives me a lot of hope and faith. This video means a lot because the women I dated for years cheated on me for someone more wild. I was Christian and started to really get close to Jesus. Then she left me. It gives me hope that she may come back to me if Gods will do chooses. It will hopefully help me get closer to God again.

[@BrianJones-CQ-fo2eq]

So much wisdom. The Lord Jesus is my head. If I need changing, it is His job - not the job of the woman.

[@davidchambers44]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="366">6:06</a> it's true. The peace and joy of the lord will shine through. The right guy will notice the Godly confidence an grace in your life.

[@TheSeptacle]

As a guy, I want to confirm that you’re right.

[@johnnycab1000]

You are spot on Talyor - It truly is that simple. May our Heavenly Father bless you richly.🙏

[@JerroldNaylor]

You are so right sister because I am a god fearing man looking for God fearing woman. As always sister in Christ good work Taylor, can't wait for the next one. God bless your 🙏

[@thelittlefoxbuddy]

love your work, God bless you!!

[@thebiblechick]

Thank you so much!!! Its cuz i work for the best boss in the world ✝️

[@georgew.5639]

You’re exactly right. And very few women get this. And I want nothing to do with women who won’t listen to what you have told them. They’re toxic!

[@benhull1506]

Thanks for sharing little sister. I thought you were going to say your relationship with your dad was what influenced your self esteem. You are indeed The King's daughter! You glow with your Father's love and the newness of His creation. God bless you! 👍👍

[@jblynch2001]

Every Christian girl needs to watch this. So many of them blindly make this mistake often

[@LFDNC]

This is unfortunately true. I decided that though I want a family, I’m single now so I’m going to embrace it. If I get to be a family man, I’ll embrace that.

[@SookaNooka]

I believe you because my taste in movies changed. I was very into really dark horror, it was bizarre when I suddenly realized I don’t find that appealing anymore

[@AlanThomason-o4s]

Trust God and wait for his timing ✝️🙏❤️ God bless.

[@angelicascarlett4176]

I also want to tell you how SIMILAR our before lifestyles were, I was so so lost, I also hid behind contacts as weird as that is haha, I hid behind makeup, hair dye, anything to make me feel "pretty" as much attention as I'd get, id get treated horribly in the end regardless! eventually I realized my worth was not in the way I looked, not in the way I dressed, I needed Jesus. My story goes so much deeper than this but I just wanted to let you know I am so proud of how far you've become and how close to god you are, it's so refreshing to see. I love your videos, I used to watch you before too but I never connected as much to you until NOW. My fellow sister in christ

[@thebiblechick]

I’m so sad to hear the world did the same number on us but overjoyed to hear that it both led us to the king of kings!!! I love you my sister 💜🦋

[@sparticusmoulds1]

Thank you for this encouraging video, Taylor! This was a great reminder for all the godly men out there, God's wisdom and timing is everything. God bless. -Andrew

[@Sam-el6hq]

Finding a lady that likes the “good” guy type is impossible now. Trust me I’m looked at in a way I don’t want to be. I open doors, pay for dinner and respect who I date but that doesn’t seem to be the trend now days.

[@BrianShelby-n3c]

He's a very very lucky guy taylor.. you're the good lords masterpiece! Always love you tay!!

[@Retiredmco]

Taylor absolutely appreciate your cander about these topics.

[@jasondurham3652]

I pray that your message will reach many young and older women. Your video today is spot on!!! I have watched a lot of your videos it’s clear that God has anointed you greatly my sister, one minute before I listened to your message I had just listened to another video about women going after “bad boys”😂

[@Jacek_videos]

This is heartwarming ! Thank you for representing God on Earth and telling people about His love for them ❤ I admire your courage 👍 God bless you

[@StayArtsy]

Great advice!!! I love your channel so much~~

[@PandaClou]

first minute! God bless your channel

[@TedLospinoso]

After my divorce 14 years ago, after a few years I was ready for another relationship. I knew what I did wrong in my first marriage and I had so much love to give to a woman. After endless failed attempts and realizing this day and age most woman want the bad guy I just gave up. With all this discouragement I am convinced that God wants me to alone and single for some reason.

[@HalinMississippi]

I was the nice guy always friend zoned etc. finally found someone who loves the Lord and understands our biblical roles. Thank you Jesus! Keep speaking the truth Tay!

[@Chrisy-3-__-]

Heyyy God bless you for your ministry ❤

[@awcabot1]

God bless you, always. The Biblical Man for your life is going to show up the day you will be expecting less.

[@boringpolitician]

Great message! As a man I... this is a different world that I don't know and don't venture in. The message is very good though. Also, glad to see you film your hands as well. You do a lot of communicating with them.

[@thebiblechick]

Oh my goodness YES ! You noticed lol. I talk with my hands ALOT. Nobody can usually see it because it’s not on camera. Definitely the Italian in me lol

[@andrewmeguin6152]

Mentor, muse and soulmate. ❤️🌹

[@angelicascarlett4176]

I love you Taylor, you are such a bright light in my journey. Thanks for letting god shine through you! I pray daily for god to change me in ways I cannot even imagine yet :)

[@thebiblechick]

PRAYING FOR YOU RIGHT THIS MOMENT SISTER

[@ttime5756]

You’re wise beyond your years. Another great video! I wish more girls would listen to your videos.

[@thebiblechick]

Thank you so much 😢! I pray God puts this on the right feeds!

[@ttime5756]

@ me too your channel deserves some love! You have great content.

[@michaelfloydofficial5509]

It's funny how what is to be desired is now something people look with distain, not too long ago we respected people of high intelligence, people with good moral values,women loved men who respects and loved thier parents, society cherished men who are honest and kind. But now if you are smart they call you a dork even in high school the kids who don't read or do any school work are respected and seen as role models just because they can play football or basketball, men who loves their mum are now called Mama's boy, and if you are honest and kind women say you are weak. It's funny how they want all the wrong things yet complain when things turn out wrong right. May God help us.

[@AbelQuintana-n4b]

Oh my goodness Taylor. There are so many good things in this video I don't know where to start. So I guess the best thing to do is share this with my young niece and have her share it with her friends. Thanks for this Taylor and I'll see you in the next one. I hope everyone here is doing well and TO GOD BE THE GLORY.

[@lorensims4846]

Fascinating! I lost my first wife because she said I was not what she had come to expect from a man. She had boxes and boxes of romance novels. If I had bothered to take a peek at any of them I might have had a clue. You are beautiful just the way you are. You have always been.

[@thebiblechick]

WOWWWWWW. Stop !!!! That is quite insane. Who knows if that could’ve been me! I’m so happy to expose this. It’s wreaking havoc on women and the men around them. I’m so sorry to hear that it ended in divorce. We’re almost home ✝️🙏

[@eliorr1551]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="10">0:10</a> bold of you to assume I've dated somebody lol

[@anuktouceda5242]

Yep 😭

[@DerekPK2nd]

I dated a girl one time, she was 3 or 4 years old. Don’t worry, I was also 3 or 4 years old.

[@anuktouceda5242]

@DerekPK2nd oh thank gord you scared me so bad with the first line 😭

[@thebiblechick]

Oh my goodness 😢😂😢 I’m sorry.

[@Rtfr-gk3vc]

As a black brazillian trasgender muslim woman I agree with what you have just said.

[@kallistaanne]

I love God. Seriously. I don’t really fight what He does anymore. He’s always helped me and kept me safe and given me wisdom and intelligence. I hope He does the same with you all!

[@Christianwomann]

Oh my I just break up with my bf yesterday and here is the video that I need 😭

[@thebiblechick]

LOOK AT GODS TIMING!!!!

[@JohnChampagne-io3xr]

Hahaha, it's NOT just you, it's EVERY woman screaming, I want a bad boy." Well bad things happen to those women just like they SOUGHT out. The math adds up perfectly. Albert Einstein once famously said, "the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result." Women mistake being a bad boy with someone who is confident. Whoops 🤪.

[@tomkjr1]

When it comes to exciting books and movies, good guys are simply boring subjects and don't sell well. I am 68 and single mainly because I was just a shy guy that was a late bloomer a got left behind. I always thought I would eventually find a girl that was like me but it never happened for me. So I can relate to what you said about the bad boys getting the girls. But later down the line you find many broken relationships and divorces when they realize their mistakes.

[@JediLantern]

I’m a bad boy who loves Jesus, Jesus said no one is good, not one but God

[@AvaArneson]

Thank you for this!

[@TheDisBeat]

Sounds familiar I was the same then stopped focusing on it and focused on myself and my career and god brought the best woman to me himself and now married for 17 years

[@donmacdonald4937]

I have to give you credit Taylor. I'm a 51 year old married man and I have to say, as a Christ follower, you are an EXCELLENT example setter for young men and women today. Thank you for being a light. See you in the clouds soon! Keep up the great work my sister.

[@angelicascarlett4176]

<a href="#" class="seekto" data-time="254">4:14</a> amen sister! you speak it so well !

[@thebiblechick]

😢😢😢😢❤

[@GEORGIOARCADE]

Taylor thanks for sharing your journey from what you used to like to what God wants you to like in a partner 🙏🏽 I think our preferences change to better people when we become less of the world and more of Christ. Things happen in our past for a reason. Nevertheless, I wish you and everyone here a blessed Thanksgiving holiday ✨🧡

[@JamesVestal-dz5qm]

I was a thrilling bad boy at Kansas State University who lifted the dean of students up to God.

[@Bibbs-y7h]

Amen sis praise God 🙏💯🔥🙌

[@tomlambert915]

she still won't pick one, like most women today.

[@danieldancer4065]

tough for good guys out here. God's timing i guess.

[@Luke-na-510]

Taylor I just wanna share there was a time when I was trying to impress man instead of God and it feels like something is lacking in my life the good thing is God changed me and he should be the only treasure I have on earth and I got reminded of the bible verse “where your treasure is there, your heart will be” thanks again bigger sis for this powerful vid I better share this to the youth group 😂😂😂. And also I am thankful for the timing of the Lord for me to see this vid because recently I almost had a relationship with someone who doesn’t know Christ good thing God told me stop many times 😅😅😅 and that I should look for a proverbs 31 woman in God’s timing.

[@kevin12061998]

Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awe job tsylor drop a like for yoh and happy thanksgiving to to you

[@oreally8605]

I can't watch this video long. I'll like the video to support Sister Taylor, but it breaks my heart that there are so few Christian women that aren't already married and taken. 😊 Well for me at 58 anyway lol

[@ehallam08]

I was in a similar boat albeit I'm a man. One thing is I kept jumping from one relationship to the next not understanding my value.

[@theturquoiseball1255]

As a guy, it’s refreshing to see Christian women who actually seek to live like Jesus. Finally! 😮This world is completely filled with wicked men and women who are just so perverse it’s insane. Thanks!

[@michaeltempleton8873]

you need someone who is "called" like you are. It won't work for you if you don't. You will be unequally yoked to someone who is not on the same level of commitment as you. Jesus will guide you be patient you are on the right track.

[@emmanueldedmon6690]

Happy for you

[@Eric19877]

I would love the chance to know you Taylor, if that's ok. I hope to one day have a woman who puts Christ first, is modest, respectful, thinks for herself and i will certainly love and cherish her as she deserves.

[@mattdickerson9642]

If you control him you don't fancy him. It's man's responsibility to be the king of his queen. A little testing of leadership is righteous, a lot is vindictive.

[@GamalWilliams-r9h]

AND BORN AGAIN CHRISTIANS DON'T FORNICATE

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

no need for supernatural intervention, ladies.. just stop going for the guys that are out of your league that treat you like garbage (because they can and you let them) and find a guy who's slightly below you who will put in the effort.

[@Williammyers-yoel]

Good man does NOT mean tame man. What I mean is the stereotypical 'knight in shining armor' is still a dangerous man. A fighter. Unfortunately these are characteristics that alot of the bad boys have.

[@ceespo745]

Nice guys, have pride. Reject being second yet again.

[@AlanThomason-o4s]

Amen Sister ✝️ 🙏 ❤️.

[@shugardad]

I am a bad man in private times. And an angel in public. I treat my ladies like the queen she is lol!

[@DerekPK2nd]

Finally you getting married

[@3AMentality]

Hi singles. God will give you a godly woman or man. Every good gift comes from God 😊❤

[@tomcarter3586]

Thanks for this. My female cousin still struggles in this area and she’s in her forties. She was asked why she just didn’t settle down with someone like me and her response was he’s too boring. She’s moved from man to man because of it

[@Charliedave4332]

Oh my! the movies, this was the first thing the Lord dealt with when I first came to him. 😅 I had to decluter my mind from the relationship standards displayed in movies

[@JSFGuy]

It's been a bit let's check it out.

[@seeker2182]

For all the men complaining that women like the bad guys. Do not mistake good for weak.

[@xtgeek]

I might have said this on another video of yours. The man who dates with eyes will never take her home to meet mom and will never marry her. But the man who dates with his heart will know when he has found the right woman. Growing up in a Christian home with 3 sisters and no brothers I was aware how hurtful dating can be. I vowed never to be that kind of guy.

[@leonrowe5923]

💯 Taylor!! Spot on!

[@garbagetrucksofsanmarcosca]

Nice video Taylor

[@WATDC]

I think courtship should be part of modern society. Courtship is a better route to take than dating. The majority of people today buy into the idea of dating because that's what modern society has instilled in us. For every christian on the planet, we need to stand out from the average. Something to think about.

[@Blue-bz1ke]

Cant wait until I find my angel!

[@CoachLombard]

Congrats 🎉

[@nicholasking6066]

People focus on the part A of the verse "wife be obedient to your husband, the forget that the whole thing says "as into the Lord" as you would be to the God who is truth and love and sacrifices for you. What people don't usually say is that part A is your leg jerking, part B "HUSBAND Love your wife as I have ALREADY LOVED the church" is the Dr tapping your knee with the rubber mallet thing. In six hours he PHYSICALLY experienced every desease every wound every cancer every child birth every rape EVERYTHING physically and emotionally and mentally and spiritually that everyone ever has or ever will and he experienced all the BILLIONS of times more that our behavior warranted but we were never forced to go through to the extent that he was literally visibly recognizably HUMAN! Husband put her first in everything and when there is danger or someone is going to be in pain grow a spine and a heart and step in front of her!!!!! In God's word First in your life is GOD Second is your spouse Third is your children EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE ELSE is a VERY distant fourth. Spouse first after God yes, but couple that with HUSBAND Love your wife as I have already loved the church. With that first through fourth, self is not on the list. If you allow your own needs to be on YOUR list, you are telling your spouse And God that you do not trust them to meet your needs. If you are putting your spouse first after God, then they do not feel the need to focus on their own needs. When your spouse is oblivious to their own needs to the point of you sometimes having to shove food in their mouth lol REJOICE! They have so much trust in you and in God that they are unaware of their own needs! They are blessed and they KNOW it lol

[@Yyyyzyyy]

I would argue, as a psychological expert who took one psychology class in college, that women have a hard time finding guys that will "treat them well" and go to guys that do not treat them well is because they never had meaningful, strong father figures in their lives. We become the way we are raised, and if we are raised without a father, or a loving father, then that is all we'll know other men to be. For women, that means they will go after what they know-bad men-because, as stated, that is all they know men to be. It's not what they 'like,' but it is their comfort zone or the boundaries that were established from early childhood. The spike in issues that young(er) women are having with men coincides and parallels with the spike in single motherhood that has gotten worse over the past few decades. And guys without father figures end up messed up in their own ways, they're not off the hook, either.

[@iamthehumblemofongo89]

Amazing perception

[@billgraveman1845]

Amen sister, Amen!

[@AmericanFarmerHVAC2024]

Happy thanksgiving!

[@JoyAshwood-s1b]

Hi Taylor! I was wondering if you could do a video about "Should Young Girls have Boyfriends?" If you can't, that is totally fine. Just wondering.😊

[@thebiblechick]

Sister thats literally IN my next video! It’ll be out Friday :)

[@elijah2078]

Happy Thanksgiving!!!!

[@JamesSmith-u9c]

Taylor please answer this question do you think God makes people to say single

[@rorywynhoff1549]

Movies, TV and Entertainment are called "programming" for a reason!

[@Ruthangel2023]

Amen 🙏

[@LuisIbanez-bh5hg]

Amén gloria a Dios 🙏♥️

[@brickmaster518]

“How you ever dated somebody..” no, no I haven’t

[@steelcitysportsfan1436]

A lot of women want bad guys. And they friendzone the good guys. Then, at 35, women be like, "Where are all the good guys?

[@nope-xb2ex]

There's so few masculine, God fearing men. I struggled with this alot due to the fact that it's easier to date a "bad boy" who owns it than the "Good guy" that is actually a fake Christian who doesn't actually care about you. Of course that's wrong but it's what led me down the wrong path. Atkeast with bad boys you standards start on the floor, only up from there 🙃

[@dominicsedillo1980]

Here's also a good rule of thumb: you want to find a husband who loves Jesus MORE than you (and vice versa).