How Hurting His Ego Plays With a Man's Mind - Male Nature 5

[@ptyh27]

This is only working if the guy loves or has strong feelings for you. If he doesn't have emotional attachment with you and he has other options he will be fine without you

[@belinahgreatwoman]

I felt that 😢😂

[@Shotbytino914]

If he doesn’t love you then it doesn’t matter. Next victim lol

[@ashdacraft]

Right. These guys do not care if you are in or out of their lives. They have somebody on rotation.

[@jmc1111_]

@leilaandrade6022 💯

[@milanikarter8195]

Not true. U can hurt someone's feelings in general if u know what to say

[@LJ-mo7kx]

pleasure makes a man weak and comfortable - pain brings out the true masculine in men

[@moonaluvgood]

No no it’s actually the opposite I think

[@moonaluvgood]

Pleasure brings out a man’s true masculine because when they get what they desire off a woman it makes them feel manly af, incredibly masculine. Then the pain inflicted on them by a woman will make them weak, and by doing this the woman essentially gains control and the man falls in love

[@carollane8694]

Nah it just lifts the veil on their true character.

[@redefinedliving5974]

@@moonaluvgood Lol studymore

[@saddoc8222]

​@@moonaluvgoodnope it dont work like dat for real niggas trust me niggas like me dont chase pleasures thrills n all dat we chase fulfillment And pain brings us that fulfillment but not from a woman why tf would a woman make me get in my feelings thats stupid Dont get me wrong I got emotions but im not emotional Dats da stupidest shi A man can do is get all sad n cry for a woman Ion care how in love he is he gotta keep his head high n put what hes feeling into things that really matters

[@ladloca5252]

The key is to have a life you enjoy. A job, a goal, a desire.

[@thatfigurestoo]

That’s the core point 🤚

[@niloufarfarhadi4025]

I’ve been always so nice to remove all the doubts he could have, but after I feel I am not cherished anymore , I remove myself out of the relationship for ever. That hurts me but this is how I have been. I will change my way next time thanks to your logical advices.

[@abigaildavidholistichealth5878]

Shame....if this is what a lady has to do to get and keep a guy.....ladies let that man leave....that's not the guy for u....you are incredible and amazing and you deserve the energy you give 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@eadithcsiby1071]

Effectively this trauma bounding it is only methode, I was nice and always cheated...niceness is boring for men.

[@bonafide_forever]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@Tayishas_Facts]

That is the bad thing about me is I am too much of a good thing so thank you for teaching to be super duper unreachable

[@chrisharris2367]

I’ll have to watch rest of video when I’m not around my husband Alex likes helping ppl That’s what I like about his videos He keeps it real ; doesn’t sugar coat for views

[@wealthytntelias]

😂😂😂

[@loladiaz8954]

This young man is SO GENIUS! I’ve been following him when he first started his channel……This works in relationships when the person has taken advantage of you! I promise this good looking young man is smart…. IT WORKS 98% of the time.

[@primaprimavera357]

It does work. When I was leaving my bf he started buying me flowers from a reputable florist, and ordering me veggie sunomono from my fav. Sushi place but it was too late for me. I wanted out.

[@zoeytheLover]

Very true

[@prisma5653]

You're so right. I'm sick of my boyfriend because he's too present and he'd never give me any space. That's the problem with some people. As soon as they like you they try to be all over you and control you. It gets suffocating

[@gracelikerain5848]

Hes attracted to u u prob need to find someone your attracted too as well nobody wants to date a rigid cold woman

[@ladloca5252]

I get that. Even if you're crazy about each other, you need time for yourself now and then.

[@MangoOasis97]

youre probably avoidant

[@winninginlife]

That part....why is it hard for men to be loving & into you without the Need To Control & Suffocate🤔

[@Seven11seven7]

@@MangoOasis97 it’s not healthy to be with someone 100% of the time

[@lillyme9056]

Thats a really good prospective on how to make other ppl feel pain I've been always a nice girl it got me no where everyone walks all over me none of my relationships worked im pretty and young back then I didn't understand why but now I do its bot about being pretty and nice by watching you and reading for robert greene I understand humans better we are very complex . I'm not gonna show pain just to man I'm going to show it to the whole world, thank you Alex for your amazing videos love how you dive in deep into the topics keep it up best coach on KZbin Is you .

[@theo8261]

This video might make sense at some point but girls your goal is find love. That love can not be found unless you accept yourself fully and love yourself unconditionally. Look within first. When you are strong enough. Love flows and you carry that love energy everywhere. Another side of playing game is weak, lacking and fear. It’s good to set boundaries but don’t inflict pain just for the sake of inflicting pain. The best game in this world is, you’re able to love and receive love. When you play those low games, you think smart men don’t know you’re playing games and being manipulative? When you align with love and consciousness, love find you

[@csibiedit8046]

Than as a codependent no chance to find unconditional love in this life...i do not understand why not use father Alex methods all the toxic guys are running away and I am really fed up of them.

[@Rikkifitnessmama_]

This is so true. I’m experiencing this right now. Dude is now sending me videos while I’m at work. He never did this.

[@jmc1111_]

i’ve done everything that he’s preached ; I can attest that it works.😊

[@hanihamid4450]

How long until they come back?

[@jmc1111_]

@@hanihamid4450 every man is different. there’s no specific timeline. I just know they always return.

[@makeupstarish]

What did you do?

[@lindaanncornelius8834]

Again amazing! I love this 💜 I realise I make things too easy.....I will change that now and value myself more than I have in the past ....so I know it's okay to have my needs met and not be afraid to take a step back at times and let them fear losing me it's important to not get comfortable too quickly ❤️ I am always loyal and respectful though !

[@mexicanbeautyqueen7988]

I wish I would’ve known this information 10 years ago. This is really good thank you.

[@Trisha1807]

Thanks Alex for the reminder.

[@jenniferlorence185]

"it's like an Addiction!" Correct.

[@THEMYSTICYARNS]

3:59 Stirring up panic or playing the scarcity card is a whole other game than throwing shade or hate. That's like comparing apples to oranges, but hey, it's a killer topic and a slick move. And those thumbnails? Straight-up royalty, my dude.

[@ad6417]

This totally works

[@jeaneengant6771]

I love this.. I’ve in NC and living my life.. I see he’s watching my stories.. I know he misses me.. but I don’t think he’ll reach out.. be 3 months next week.. after 3.5yrs..

[@AB-sf2dd]

I came here for advice on some dude and now I’m in love with Dalexis hahaha ❤

[@Lidia.Bella.Italiana]

Sorry, if you avoid me or ignore me for too long... even a few days... i will feel played and i will get angry and resentful... and block you. So if you try come back... my feelings will have changed already and i dont trust or see you the same. You dont chase me, say all those things, have a connection and chemistry... abd then when i show more interest back... suddenly you avoid me and say you been busy outta the blue and stop reaching out... Dont awaken my love and then run... I will get hurt fast and there will be no time for you to come back. When a woman gets messed with 100 times... shes not fucking with another guy showing signs... im gonna get mad and go.

[@ChocolateLikesItHerWay]

I definitely understand going thru this now, I reached out numerous times text/calls to check to see if he ok and he ignored me so I pulled all the way back but we will see each other and cross paths next week I have a feeling that’s when he will try to initiate conversation, shit be crazy

[@naomikrahn1944]

@@ChocolateLikesItHerWay how did it go??

[@Innovativefocus]

You know he is talking about men right? What’s your gender?

[@angies2203]

Is it bad that I love it here? Lmao I’m using all of this

[@ThePhoinix33]

My late husband told me men respond to pain and consequences

[@michellemontgomery1575]

THIS IS LIFE!!! THIS IS TRUTH!!! I’M LIVING IT!!!

[@sladjanaurosevic31]

Hvala!

[@sherryk638]

You explain very well and practical too....I like your style of originality

[@heiditugers]

This only works with broken, insecure and ignorant people. Men who make me feel pain and play games get cut. Strong, intelligent people don’t put up with this kind of BS. I definitely agree that one should have strong values and boundaries, but weak and dishonest people play games.

[@helenoconnor6439]

I’d rather be alone than live that way

[@saddoc8222]

A real man wont even play games wit you dem niggas males they not men

[@Igniteyourownpotential]

Agreed! These are all tips for toxic people. Mentally and emotionally healthy people DO NOT need or want this drama to “ prove “ anything.

[@sadiekimmer3950]

💯

[@Innovativefocus]

95% of American men are insecure and dumb🤷‍♀️

[@Reyna_Rawr7]

Who needs “BetterHelp” when you have Father Dalexis 😂🤣 😈😈😈🔥

[@KmN3838]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@deborahocampo852]

Alex u know your stuff...a relationship genius in my opinion

[@yolandasalone7949]

Wow this is the best one yet ...love it

[@allie9015]

If you ladies don’t believe Alex on men liking pain, go listen to “Hurts So Good” by John Mellencamp ...Also, “Come Pick Me Up” by Ryan Adams

[@LoveLife-ho3rg]

Or “love you more” by eminem!

[@nabilaoukhiat7247]

Chose someone you dont love then You will live perfectly 😅🤣🤣🤣

[@ChrissykEats]

Lmao

[@nadinegilles5940]

True

[@thatomotshosa558]

Its painful😂

[@CrockyDile15]

But then you be mad cause you into them but not really into them. 😆

[@Innovativefocus]

Period

[@user-iu6bv8vu8o]

I’m inflicting pain & working the hell out of Alexis techniques-

[@nbee6217]

😂😂All the best!

[@marylcampbell2409]

Sounds like a Good plan🤣🤣

[@tammyhuynh4063]

How are you doing it?

[@Duncanexgirlfriend]

Does it work? Didn’t work with me, it backfired, he became more abusive instead

[@pianotnt]

It don’t work on certain type of men abusers and narcissistic men

[@Nsroma]

You always look so tired, but I looooove your work!!

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Huh 🤨

[@violetkamore6815]

Hahahaha🤣😂

[@paulinemumbi9103]

Haaah haaaah haaah you have killed me Ohh

[@oratile_chantelle]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@swestwest7222]

Lol

[@Lola_Leo777]

I love your hair!! Looks are deceiving! You look like you were out partying, stoned, on shrooms just lifted! Yet you are so intelligent & gives excellent relationship tips! Keep up the great work!🥰💋

[@deborahocampo852]

Your videos are better than anyone els on here...there very muvh out of a comfort zone .but thats the beauty and segret of your sucess ..debbie London 🇬🇧

[@nancygeldres586]

All I can say is THANK U

[@lazyki1480]

Me watching his videos on my loudspeaker as I’m getting ready for work

[@annjones2945]

Do we do this by ignoring?

[@dg-qn5mi]

Absolutely

[@dg-qn5mi]

Ignore, don't show too much attention, show you have other options, give backhanded compliments, and do not reward any bad behavior from his side turn collddddd

[@munix9351]

yes. and reduce your verbal words.

[@myriahj1976]

Blessings to you thank you for addressing the things you did here. 💗

[@modestone3752]

Right

[@girlletstalk808]

I really enjoyed this video. Learned something new. I agree with this. Crazy how we are this way though but it’s true

[@She_is_Marcii]

Although he looks like a hippie, Alex is literally the smartest guy I know.

[@Virgolove]

Hippies can be pretty intelligent

[@aanchaldubey1101]

Racist

[@RoadNetworkTV]

Love your hair styles. Very natural

[@elizabethseiden9938]

Dating multiple men makes my options more flexible and compliant!!😂❤

[@TheodoraKimmelHello]

I can’t do stuff like this. Either you’re here or you’re not.

[@private8302ee]

U have the best analogies

[@jenniferlorence185]

"NICE" PEOPLE ALWAYS GET PLAYED. Yes, indeed.

[@bautistabhelletatakofw543]

New subscriber here...love how you said it all!

[@shawneelawrence8667]

Nice people finish last! You are right

[@djdfac3230]

What does this mean ?

[@velvet273]

Excellent video as always Father Alex!!

[@artemisappollo1491]

I love Father Alex because he breaks everything down so well 👍 and he is also very funny 😅🤣

[@marylcampbell2409]

Saved as Favorite this one so powerful 👌🔥🤭

[@freshflower8327]

I love your videos thank you it is very helpful

[@xw6475]

Yeah! More videos of male psychology pleaseeeee🎉🪅

[@anastasijabeograd3903]

ALEX YOU ARE AMAZING !

[@Lys1234]

I think all these advices only work in toxic relationships… my friends family in healthy simple loving relationships don’t use these tactics or strategies lol

[@kirsinurmio9441]

I m not sure about this.. I think my partner finds enough challenge in making me happy. He asks ”are you now happy?” when he does something for me. It should be a challenge, but not impossible, to make a woman happy. That s enough, I feel.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

Trust me, he thinks he can't get better. Once he feels he can do better, he'll stop trying.

[@Eye_Said_So]

The politicians and pimp analogy was profound 💯

[@beeman441]

This is setting boundaries

[@anjalilydia3134]

Great examples, thank u

[@vicmegokojie3379]

You are the best 🙏🏾🙌

[@lynnmcdonald3401]

Sound advice thank you! ❤

[@Lkhyah]

Thanl you Father Alex. Smh, this is so sad but true. I must stay away because I am undervalued.

[@jaelawilliams700]

Does taking a break after an argument implements pain would he realize how much he wants you?

[@anitakimsingh4896]

Am way too nice that's why when I was married my ex husband used me as door mat. Glad those days are gone 3 years and 2 months not that am counting haha

[@annab2796]

Don’t be nice. Be honest! A lot of times we want to avoid argument and people take us for stupid and weak.

[@jasminjar6667]

Ur videos are pretty good. I like em. Can u pls make a video about the realtionship with the babydaddy who dont work hard for the ladie ?

[@aigbechristabel3546]

I needed this

[@bruceblea6579]

Now that women knows this I am scared to even let them in my mental health state or mind now I think I'm honestly safer single

[@Cvill502]

Thank you Alex. But this sounds revengeful . In my opinion , if a guy is not putting effort, move on, let go. No matter how hard it is, we must let go , no one should be given other choice but to let go

[@anapopescu7843]

You are cute with this hair 😊

[@elizabethseiden9938]

This reminds me of a song by Evanesence called Sober!

[@lillyclayton587]

Great content ❤️

[@carmaela2689]

I think the pain thing is a human thing. Because guys complain that nice guys never win. Too many women are addicted to the men who hurt them so I can see it being the same for men and the women who hurt them.

[@loombandz6722]

Omg your back again on my feed

[@chastityma]

This video was a need for me

[@Rileychorus]

Love you Alex!!!

[@Jhonsmithandy]

Thank you this coolest it’s to support you

[@marcuslong9761]

Dude you are hilarious! pls keep going. Omg lol

[@RConnelly]

Great video!!!

[@kawaiisrs07]

Please let me know when you are teaching how to traumatize them. Thats sometimes I'm 100% ok the abuse label too :)

[@a.healthbeauty9173]

PPLLLEEEEAASSSEE tell me what to do if he's now asking me for more attention. Hes a high man, keep in mind. He wants to know when he's on my mind and doesn't want to be the only one initiating contact. Told me he's okay with "sharing the power." Do I just keep doing what I've been doing? It's not natural for me to chase after men. I've never been the contact initiator. Is he just trying to turn the tables? Do I train myself to bend more? Perhaps this will give you an idea for a future video.

[@mad5467]

I would try to initiate for a week or so then see what happens when you go back to normal.

[@munix9351]

he is testing you. if he said thar to me I would distance myself even more🤣🤣 basically he is saying he doesn't want to take a risk with you. he playing weak games. he wants you to be the man.

[@munchkinsophie]

You NEVER chase a man. Period.

[@Lanafox1020]

Dalexis, May I know why you took down the video about the difference between rich high value men and basic low value men? I was watching it yesterday but couldn’t finish it due to work, then when I came back I couldn’t find it? Where is it?

[@bigmamaL]

I just saw it a few minutes ago. It's not gone. Keep looking! I'll see if I can find the link

[@CheAnn-jd5yg]

I never come to watch these videos as someone in a relationship I come to find out whether the guy likes me even though I know ow how it works. But no guy is doing those lists so I have to wonder what I can do at this point. It’s just funny really 😂

[@shrinidhipatil335]

He hurt me back.

[@giagia3733]

Lol love this keep going🥰

[@user-cb6ru7um6b]

How to create pain?

[@ebhb7070]

Good job 👍🏾

[@modestone3752]

Can you tell me what a healthy amount is?

[@leonorsilva134]

Love it!!!

[@Sweetheart0189]

Don’t this include if he’s secure & has high self esteem?

[@exmeraldaesmeralda3918]

I really like this❤️

[@queenr.480]

4:43-4:49. Word.

[@freeagent_girl23]

Dang this video is good!!!

[@dezyriquez5764]

Can we come up with ways to cause pain.....I can’t think of much,

[@dezyriquez5764]

@@wilted_rose510 I’m a nice girl.....I get played a lot!! 😂😅😂😂😅😅😂😂

[@munix9351]

keep it simple with "space".

[@multidrip3674]

Hey Akex can you make a video above the one who got away ?

[@AWokeafricanstv]

Love it father alex

[@queentippietaps]

Doom and gloom like closing the channel father Alex 😂😊🥰

[@aCrocodileMan]

Shall I give you a thumbs down to give you pain and make you work harder?? 😂😂

[@designhub360customapparel]

😂😂😂