How I Changed My Life!

[@EarlsFamilyVlogs]

Raya you have the sweetest soul! Thank you for sharing!

[@RayaWasHere]

+Rachel Earls Vlogs thank you so much Rachel! ❤

[@karinem1259]

Awww so amazing to see to amazing youtuber support eachother love it xxxx you guys are the best!

[@daristancheva4643]

Rachel Earls Vlogs Bulgarian souls are always really beautiful 🇧🇬❤

[@zarebafied]

This hit me pretty hard. I've felt that way my whole life. "If only I can feel beautiful, I can feel happy." My boyfriend tells me that he loves me and thinks I'm beautiful but I never believe it because no matter what anyone says I still feel unattractive. :( it's really painful never feeling good enough.

[@RayaWasHere]

I know exactly how you feel. Honestly, I think we all have some form of insecurity telling us that we're 'not good enough' but I hope that you can take this idea on like I did to begin to free yourself from that

[@nikki5095]

I respect you so much for being so raw.

[@nikki5095]

And I have to say that I watch every single video of yours. You're such a huge example to me in travel and in KZbin, and I actually thought of you a bunch of times this winter when I didn't want to make videos because I didn't feel I would look as good as you. So it's actually kind of healing for me to hear you talk about not making videos because you didn't feel you looked good. Thanks so much for this video. You're a great human.

[@theegyptianking8864]

i dont know too and i want someone to help me

[@gracegomez5635]

"we accept the love we think we deserve"

[@RayaWasHere]

+Grace Gomez such a powerful quote!

[@expressyourself2591]

So true!!!!! The movie is powerful too !! ❤

[@lartistatv]

which movie please ?,

[@expressyourself2591]

+Artland 24 The perks of being a wildflower 👍

[@lartistatv]

+Express Yourself thank you

[@LifeMeetSteph]

My story is being that perfect successful person who has the perfect job, finances, huge house, and knows what they want person. I came to realize that if I try to be like that I would never be happy so I've accepted the fact that my version of a perfect life is being creative, not having that 8-5 job, following my dreams of creating a blog and being content with living in a small apartment. It's amazing how much weight comes off ur shoulders when you accept that this is who u really are. Good for you Raya! Time to live life to the fullest!

[@samiabamia]

I couldnt agree with you more. If i had enough money to cover the basics and live a comfortable life, that will allow me time to pursue my passion and just LIVE I would opt for that than a $1 million a year where i had to work like crazy in a job I hated.

[@ThatOldBiddy]

I did the Landmark Forum about 12 years ago then followed it up by the Success Seminar that they put on. It truly changed my life. I was in my mid 40's and it is the reason that I'm at the age of 55 am able to retire early. I have confidence, self-esteme, just so much growth that I know would not have been possible without the teachings of the Landmark Forum. Its that simple. Its hard to recommend to people because it costs some money and most of us struggle spending an amount on self- improvment. But the growth is priceless. Good for you for taking it, congratulations!!!! Wait, I've now been continuing to watch and you say you've just taken the first day.... WOW.... wait until you gratuate! Your feet won't be touching the ground, you'll feel so liberated and purposeful. :) Wait until you get into the, "You don't know, what you don't know.... " XD or the "I'm listening to the story that I already know that you'll tell"..... XD Good for you!!!

[@RayaWasHere]

+ThatOldBiddy thank you so much! Congratulations on taking it yourself, it is so amazing to hear that it has impacted your life so greatly, I know that it will continue to benefit me in new ways I can't even imagine yet in years to come 😊

[@ThatOldBiddy]

If they have any additional free, follow ups I highly recommend them. Now that you've started this conversation I'm considering taking the forum again. I was introduced to it by someone who was taking it for the second time. May wonderous wishes fill your path ahead- :)

[@camillegauthier3575]

I know that you didn't make this video to get comments saying you're beautiful and it's not why I'm saying it, but I honestly think you are SO damn beautiful!!! Like, really beautiful! Thank you for this message... needed that right now!

[@RayaWasHere]

Thank you Camille!

[@tabriz12msc]

Thank you for sharing. I am in tears right now because that is also my story. Ironically, I have vivid memories of watching the videos from you and Louis about your Romantic Birthday Surprise and thinking of how effortlessly beautiful you looked and what I would give to have your legs. It goes to show that we don't always see ourselves the way the world does. Just so you know, I, for one, see you as kind, beautiful, toned, friendly and fortunate to have many friends and a boyfriend who obviously adores you.

[@lonesheep27]

Thank you, Raya for being so vulnerable. This is me too and your words helped.

[@michellelester7833]

This is so important, I'm 18, and looking back on my teenage years I'm start to realise how much these stories impact me and how I act now. Especially with social media being such a prominent part of day to day life we have such a distorted perception of our self-worth and love. At the moment I'm studying to go to university and the pressured environment has left me in such a low and vulnerable place. However I came across a quote 'Thoughts aren't facts' and just like watching your video, it struck a chord and the importance to ground ourselves. Thank you Raya x

[@lisranhub2233]

The facts and stories have ruled my life for 52 yrs now! I will continue to watch this video and other ones you post to help me grow. It's never too late! Thanks for sharing!

[@YouNeverReallyLOL]

Beautifully articulated, made me tear up, because I could see how much this was genuinely positively impacted you and I hope I can feel this too, thank you so much for sharing! xx

[@Yamimufdi]

i just found you and I love you. I'm so happy you're feeling free. Can't wait to feel the same!

[@rewildyourmind4334]

You are such a inspiring person Raya! loved this video, love how honest you are

[@RayaWasHere]

Just to confirm - this is not sponsored in any way and I am in no way 'selling a product' or trying to get you guys to sign up. I'm just sharing my experience and what I got out of it that has changed my life for the better and I want you guys to see if you can apply it in your lives to feel more free. Even if only one of you hears this and uses it to change your life for the better, then this video is worth it

[@milliemaeuschen]

RayaWasHere This honestly brought me to tears, because I've felt the same way my entire life. everytime I would have a great moment with a guy, my mind would tell me "well, he can't be into you, because you don't look good enough". It is so tiring! I will look more into this fact vs story thing and I hope it'll help me to be able to accept love! thank you for this video, I love when you open up about these things! Much love ♡

[@globetrottinglottie522]

Beautiful video you have shared with us today, perspective has so much influence x

[@mrfunkedude]

47 yr old dude here and let me say it warms my heart to see you come to this revelation. Thank you for sharing this and reminding me of this truth that you have recently discovered. One word of advice. One of the pitfalls of any self help seminar is that this high you are feeling now will subside and your old habits will attempt to reassert themselves. This is to be expected and is the bread and butter of these seminars. Fortunately if you remain aware that this will happen you are more likely to avoid it. Thanks again and you keep doing you!

[@colinreidcr]

I'm going through the same thing. But the other way around. I think I'm still overweight but Im being told Im underweight and thats why I think nobody wants to be with me lol

[@lancomeparis09]

Raya this video really touched me, thank you so much for sharing! I had no idea this was also affecting my life. This is a very powerful video, I will share it with my social media.

[@RestlessChildcz]

oh sweetie! i love that when you say "you need to hear this" it really is a thought everyone should hear. i only know you through videos but you are the most honest beautiful human being out there. we all struggle, i am so proud of you for sharing this and i hope to do the same. thank you!

[@RayaWasHere]

+Restless Child thank you so much! ❤

[@Rawrishface]

Jeez it's insane how much your story relates to me. I'm always constantly judging myself in what i eat, what I drink, what I wear or comparing myself to everyone else because I've made the story in my mind that I can't be accepted or loved fully until I feel I look good enough. I'm always constantly fighting myself because being slimmer in my mind would make me happy and even my my boyfriend happy. Growing up my family would always tell me I was too fat, that I needed to lose weight and while those may be facts, I've planted so many thoughts in regards to that, they hurt me on a daily basis. I know it won't be as easy as it was for you to let it go but this was really nice to hear. I wish I had someone like you in my life constantly giving me support and positive feedback. If you still lived in NY I would totally wish to be your friend. lol

[@NateJohnson101]

That was an awesome video, Raya. I appreciate how vulnerable you are with your audience. I've been caught up in a couple of stories this past year. Thank you for that perspective. I felt lighter after watching this video. You have such an amazing voice to share with the world. Thank you for being you and keep on creating.

[@RayaWasHere]

Wow hearing that makes me so happy. Thank you!!

[@yunliu9928]

i want to cry,you express my real feeling in my inner heart.i am not confident,i dont have perfect body.i am fat,i always think i dont desrve to be loved.the word you say:louis say he love you,you think he will love you more if you look different.i know this feeling.thank you very much for this video.i really appreciate it!

[@trackfield7]

Congratulations on doing the Forum. I did the work in the 70's and have enjoyed the ever expanding awareness to this day. Hang on girl, it is going to be an exciting ride!

[@GoSammyJo]

I loved this video but it is so true! You can limit yourself in so many ways and we need to stop doing it. Nothing feels better then breaking down these walls and beliefs!

[@janettev216]

I've never related so much to someone in my life. I have been the exact same way my entire life it's insane that I'm now realizing the true meaning of my problem. Thanks Raya💕

[@RayaWasHere]

+Janette V I'm so happy I could help see it! So excited for you to free yourself from it! ❤

[@v1d300]

I respect you Raya for being so genuine with your audience. Thank you.

[@Stoprewinderase]

This is pretty much the same story I have dealt with since I was a very small girl. Thanks for this video. Also, who else thinks Rays is drop dead gorgeous!?

[@LilyLeeTracy]

I read a bunch of spiritual growth books and videos but I've never heard something like this before! I really loved this, thank you Raya!!

[@DarcyJCole]

This resonates really strongly with me, thank you for making this video Raya! It's a big thing that i've had to confront myself really recently especially with my bad skin! So it means a lot to hear such honesty from someone who I always consider a great influence & inspiration

[@crystaltaysm]

You're such a genuine person, Raya. You deserve all the love in the world. Thank you, this really helped me to be so much more aware, it is truly a pleasure, and so uplifting watching your videos.

[@Edgesofearth]

- YESSS! 2 years ago I learned the the single most important thing; I learned to simply "let go". Let go of any and all belief-systems Let go of what people think of me Let go of trying to live my life the way that others want me to live Let go of...the list goes on and on.. Such a profound 'aha' moment, for me. I commend anyone who has broke-through the barrier and chose to let go!! Kudos for you, Raya, for sharing this. More people need to hear this message. To all - get out there and Fu**ing OWN your life!!! You deserve the best!

[@DarcyJCole]

'Nobody's thinking about what you're insecure about, they're too busy worrying about themselves' and 'We are all our own worst critic' have been rough quotes i've been reminding myself of recently!

[@alexiademonceau6188]

Actually, right before you started to explain your story, I was thinking that you looked so beautiful! Love you Raya, and Thank you for sharing, I am sure it will help so many people to understand this!

[@hunterburgtorf]

Thank you so much for pouring out your heart. I started RET (rational emotive therapy) therapy last fall. It is extremely similar to what you talked about and is a way to actively change the thoughts I thought were reality and distinguish those between actual reality. It has changed my life in such an intense way. I was stuck in this story of having to live a seemingly "perfect" life because that's what everyone expected of me, yet I wasn't actually living at all. And through the same process as you've talked about I've now let so much of that go and stopped living in so much fear, anxiety, and panic. I got a tattoo which is something I've wanted to do forever but was too scared of how people would perceive me, I got a nose ring, went to Amsterdam by myself for a month, and am now doing yoga teacher training. I finally feel like I'm living for myself and it's so freeing. It's crazy how we limit ourselves by what we feed our minds. I'm so happy you've experienced some of th esame freedom and I wish you the best in your journey! Thanks again for sharing.

[@RayaWasHere]

+alwayshunter wow this is so amazing to hear! I'm so so happy for you! Sounds like you're living the most beautiful life ❤

[@Pauiej]

You have a rare beauty that comes from your positivity, kindness, loving and exited personality. It's pure and authentic. The kind of beauty this world needs a lot more of.

[@dnicoler92]

Recently (within the past week) I also made a realization about self love and FULL self acceptance. I noticed how much worthlessness was ingrained into my personality and how much I didn't notice. I completely understand you Raya!

[@nicoleyoung3927]

I think this might have been the best video that I've ever seen as far as self help! You have an amazing mind and are so much further ahead of the game the most people… Thank you for sharing it!

[@kimberlyalvarez]

This is so beautiful. I am so glad to know that you found your inner freedom. Be confident! All of us here, on youtube, your friends and family all love you. You are such a pure soul! Thank you for making such an eye opening and inspiring video.

[@KarlaHernandez-pg2bo]

I love how honest you are in this video and please never let anything stop you from posting more videos we love watching them !! Thank you for your inspiring words that help us accept ourselves for the facts of who we are not who we think we are or for what others think we are . Love your videos !

[@cawfeedawg]

CLarity is a rare and wonderful thing... congratulations on finding some healing clarity. We really love your spirit ♥

[@Rubrickmusic]

This video was honestly made on the perfect time, i'm going through a difficult moment on my life on accepting myself in different aspects and i can't tell you how much i felt related to that idea of creating stories based on facts that you just blow out of proportion, thank you so much for this video, it made me cry out of happiness and im so thankful for it.

[@beccadallas]

You are beautiful no matter what. Your soul always shines through. Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this today. ❤❤❤❤

[@chanakrevsky5584]

Raya, You are so brave to share this with everyone. I can imagine how freeing this is. You are such a beautiful soul and I only wish the best for you and Louis.

[@buzzingaroundwiththebusbys]

Thanks for putting yourself out there in such a raw publicly way. Just remember not to take to heart the negative things you may read on KZbin in response to your videos. You seem like a very awesome person to know. Beautiful heart like Louis!

[@davebroadley6715]

Just watched this and was so moved I showed my wife she has just said thank you so much it's what she has been going through since being around 13/14 she is now 58. Very wise words on young beautiful shoulders

[@regularguy812]

Raya, I cried when I watched this video. Tears flowed with compassion for your passionm and your willingness to bare your heart and be so open with anyone watching. The compassion came easily because I too have done this work - the Landmark Forum - and I KNOW EXACTLY what you're talking about. Since doing it in 2011 my life has never been the same. Since my daughter did it a couple of years later she too has never been the same, and since my girlfriend did it in 2015 her life and ours together have been a hundred times more magical and loving and caring. We now communicate with ease each and every day, even when there's a breakdown. Several more friends saw those changes in me and those around me and they've been signing up left and right. I can't say enough about what this 'look within' does for a person. You've really put it out there for the world to see and I can't thank you enough :) You're an amazing young woman :)

[@neleweisener8761]

Laying in bed crying because you explained exactly how i feel most of the time and showed me there is hope. I thank you from the bottom of my heart Raya, you are a truly amazing person!🌸

[@dianadragoste5816]

This resonates so much with me. These "stories" that I created for myself I realize they were giving me so much anxiety. I think it's a hard journey to be free of your "stories" but oh how I wish it. Loved your video, Raya.

[@GPanndaful]

wow, this literally gave me goosebumps!! I'm so, so happy you were able to find this light and change the way you feel about yourself! After this video I realized that I often do the same thing (with body image and other things too!) and I will definitely start putting your advice into practice. But honestly, what truly inspired me was not only the message you transmitted but the happiness and relief I saw in your eyes... I'm so glad I came across this video and I hope you stay strong throughout this journey of yours of becoming more accepting of this amazing person that you are!! lots of love, Giulia xx

[@RochelleFoxTV]

YES GIRL! This is so powerful, loved how you are being so raw and real! I've never heard of this program but learnt all this stuff though books and self development and it's sooo amazing to let of stories and get back to facts! xxx

[@RayaWasHere]

+Rochelle Fox thanks love! It really is so amazing! ❤

[@domeniczattraytofficial4592]

Rochelle Fox can you suggest some good self help books you have read?

[@Jess-xk7rx]

This is so honest and raw, thank you! I needed this, I have just started a mental health nursing course and have been quiet anxious and telling no myself I can't do it, but I haven't given it time yet! I completely agree about accepting the facts and letting go of the stories. I have to believe in myself and have confidence in myself. Thank you again :)

[@magdalenasergeeva7121]

Out of every video that i have seen on youtube about how to change your life for the better,this one hit me the hardest.I as well have been struggling with body image since i was 13,but this video made me realise that the problem has been there for longer than i can imagine and all because i made a story out of the help my friend and my family offered which i took in a bad way. Thank you for sharing your experience and what you have learned.

[@SeraJaneable]

I never ever comment on videos on KZbin. But I just found your channel and I am so glad to find someone REAL. Things that I can actually relate to. THANK YOU! xx

[@ceza1487]

raya this had me tearing up ! so raw and beautiful, thank you for being so authentic with us x

[@esmeevogels1990]

I can't imagine that you don't love yourself. you're my role model! your inner beauty but also your exterior. you're a beautiful person and I think everybody would be so happy to get the chance to be friends with you. I love you girl!

[@HUMANZA]

Dont be to hard on yourself Raya. You're as amazing as you make yourself feel.

[@Adorationxx]

If you've ever read the Art of Happiness by the Dalai Llama, he talks a lot about a similar topic- the power of perspective. Just a few positive thoughts of compassion and acceptance- towards ourselves or others -can change the entire way we live our life. Definitely read it if you have the time. I hope you continue to find this freedom for yourself Raya. (:

[@mastercontrol200]

I love the part about the stories we tell ourselves about life and who we are and what people think: "I can't be fully loved until ... " So true. The new story is: "I am beautiful as I am now and I am happy as I am now".

[@madeleinerose2067]

Raya, I've had the same story as you for such a long time and I've never gotten rid of because I felt like it was all the truth, thankyou so much for bringing a new perspective into my life. It means everything. I love you x

[@Save4289]

Congratulations on participating the programme. It also was my life-changing seminar !!

[@jp12320]

can't thank you enough for making this video for all the people who might be going through tough time right now. keep up your charisma. Xx

[@phanypaxrcool]

I went through a program very similar to this recently and I can honestly say that my life has completely transformed. Raya, you're just at the beginning and I promise that the best you is about to explode in the most incredible way. Very happy for you. Sending you love and support :)

[@RayaWasHere]

+Hanna thank you Hanna! That is so amazing to hear, congratulations! 😄

[@leticiagerardo9747]

This really spoke to me. I related to you in so many ways. You are beautiful on the outside, but most importantly, on the inside.

[@kasicasillas]

I can't think of any stories yet, but I'm sure there are plenty and I'll take some time to think on this. I'm glad you can finally feel truly loved by Louis, your tears and honesty warmed my heart to know you're so happy.

[@wiktoriakaszta5985]

I literally cried watching you being so inspiring, so genuine and relieved! I've had similar struggles concerning body image over the past couple of years and sometimes I catch myself thinking: "I didn't succeed because I don't have the perfect body", "if I weighed 10kg less, he'd certainly go out with me". Damn, it's so destructive, it really is :( I'm so happy you found this inner peace and I hope I'll find it too! Lot's of love all the way from Poland

[@HakunaMatata09865]

it's beautiful to see how you are becoming free the things that hold you back in life. thank you for sharing

[@MiaLunaaaaa]

Raya, thank you! I have created and lived by this story all of my life! It has stopped me from doing everything I've ever wanted to do because of the same idea that people would just reject the way I look. I have conquered cancer in an miraculous way and still have not been able to conquer this... Just the idea that I've created this story and that it potentially is not true and just something I made up is so motivating! Thank you for sharing your story... I hope that I can muster the courage to create videos and share my life story with the world very soon! Thanks again!

[@rachaelclare4202]

I've definitely struggle with similar insecurities. This sounds like something we've been talking about at church. We as people, really need to let go of our insecurities and fears and downfalls because we are so loved and forgiven by God ❤️ so glad you feel better about yourself. You are a beautiful person inside and out 😘

[@caitlianna]

yep there's courses called Restore the Foundations or Sozo which are great (in the UK) which are life changing and I'm pretty sure they're free or very cheap, at least mine was! be blessed!

[@sekhon92]

I always see how genuine you are in all of Louis's videos and seeing this really made me tear up and I think so many of us can relate. Thank you for being you and sharing this

[@Nimbleful]

This reminds me of a famous Shakespeare quote: "there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so" Our "stories" or "beliefs" really do mold the way we feel about things in life - it's so important to try and boost awareness so that instead of being blind victim to our non-factual thoughts, we are more in control of choosing freedom from these thoughts and choosing happiness ♥️

[@ChristineNavarrete]

I LOVE LOVE LOVE Landmark! So happy you did it. I will say that if you loved the forum you will LOOOVVVEEEEE the advanced course. The advance course, in my opinion, is the BEST one! You take the forum in order to experience the advance course. TRUST ME. You have to do it. Its on a whole other level than the forum and you will be mind blown!

[@RayaWasHere]

Yes!! I'm doing it as soon as I get back to LA, can't wait! :D

[@ChristineNavarrete]

Oh good! I'm super excited for you! It's going to be super intense but so worth it.

[@MyLe_tolakaze]

I always fail to evaluate my worthiness in other's eyes. I refused all their love, their kindness, their concern just because I dont think I deserve well of them. I think it's time to open my heart and soul to receive beautiful things, like the way you did. Thank you for all your sharing. it's really touched. You have a genuinely sweet heart :)

[@Amz11_13]

Going back and watching ALLLLL your videos because I just discovered you and Louis a couple of weeks ago and I'm obsessed with your content. 2 things that hit me hard about this video: 1. "I've been limiting the love I've been receiving"... Ouch, I feel that. I think I've been doing this too. 2. It is so surprising to see someone so beautiful like you, feel like you need to change your body. I look at you and all I see is radiant beauty inside and out, like literally pouring out of you. It goes to show that everyone has their own personal struggles. And I'm so glad this was years ago and that you've been able to find freedom from this story that was holding you back. Absolutely love how raw and vulnerable this video is 💖

[@MighTestimony]

Wow! I loved this video, I'm soo glad I watched it, I def want to shed the 'stories' I've created and move on

[@RayaWasHere]

+Migh Testimony Im so excited for you to see your potential when you do so! Good luck! xx

[@ArielColmoreWilliams]

Raya

[@fionabrown3428]

Wow! Raya I would have never have guessed you felt like this inside. I've watched your videos from the beginning & have always admired how naturally beautiful you are & the confidence you give off.. I'm so glad you have managed to address & distinguish the story from the facts & now realize that people just love you for being you.. Keep believing in yourself & hug Louis that bit more the next time you see him! x

[@Shayy675]

"Stories" A really interesting way to put it. Wow! This really hits home. Thank u so much for sharing! Hugs n kisses all over that beautiful face of yours

[@meaganmccoy9063]

I didn't realize how badly I needed to hear this until you said it. I also struggle with self image and constantly worry about how others must see me even though that's a story I created in my own head. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@christal.g]

it's really brave of you to admit what you are going through internally. We all struggle with irrational thoughts and perceptions of how the world views us, and it's nice to be reminded that I'm not the only one. Thanks so much for making this video :)

[@giuliag5895]

It's incredible how honest you are with your viewers. Thank you! You're beautiful inside and out (although what I, or anyone else, thinks doesn't matter) x

[@reshmajoly8980]

I watch KZbin videos trying to make sense of what I want to do, how I want to do. But this right here is not only relatable but also comforting and IT MAKES SENSE. Thank you with an extra topping of Nutella for being this open about your insecurities and how you have powered through them. It helps. For sure :)

[@CookingwithKarma]

You are such a beautiful soul Raya. Everything you said resonates with me soo much! I look at you and think what a beautiful, intelligent, confident woman .. and yet you have been feeling like you don't deserve the love that you are receiving. It just goes to show that you really don't know the struggle that people face. I think I really needed to hear this. The way I feel about my body has held me back from so many things. Thank you for making this video. You are a gorgeous gorgeous girl .. don't forget that xx

[@biohackingbestie]

I was doing the Transcendental Meditation all weekend and could say the same thing - learning how to appreciate what you have instead of constantly imposing your plan onto your life :)

[@DanielCuberoBeltran]

Hats off. Sharing this kind of experience requires an incredible amount of courage! Thanks!

[@HayleyJanzen]

A story I've told myself: I'm not worthy of friends (even when I have plenty)! When I was in elementary school my best friend bullied me. Ever since I've had a fear of the closest people in my life hurting me on purpose. I know that's a story for sure and it has definitely affected my relationships. You can't put that kind of story on anyone... thank you beautiful for sharing this message! So many young girls need to hear it!

[@lollipopppp]

After watching this, I didn't realize the impact this would have on my life but when I get anxiety now, I find myself going through the story-->fact mindset and it has really helped me. I left this video without feeling too affected but it's been really helpful. Thank you so much.

[@krystalmillar7939]

I know exactly how you feel Raya! I have had body issues for as long as I can remember. Bullying leading to depression, anxiety, bulemia and self harm. I've never felt comfortable in my own skin, and am constantly worried that people are judging me. My fiance and I are getting married next year and no matter how many times he tells me I'm beautiful I always tell him he's wrong. There's always that nagging voice in my head telling me I should skip the next meal, because he'll love me more when I'm skinnier. Going through the wedding planning process, the voice keeps asking me if he really loves me enough to spend the rest of his life with me. This video made me realise that the only one who doesn't love me is me. That needs to change. Thank you Raya. You are a beautiful soul, as well as a beautiful person. I'm glad to hear you're feeling happier with your life! I hope I can feel the same ♡♡♡

[@lilianaespino3049]

This video is so powerful. Thank you very much for sharing, Raya. Since I got into college I've felt inferior to every single one of my classmates, I've created this story that I am simply not as smart as everyone else and every time I fail even if I studied for weeks just makes me confirm the story. It doesn't matter if my friends fail as well, they're still better than me. I so wish to get rid of this story I created because it stops me from trying harder and proving myself that I can do it. I am going to try, I don't really know how to do it, but I'm gonna try to be as free as you are now. Thank you so much.

[@barbarakomorowski2773]

What a wise and valuable lesson! Thank you for sharing it with us. I hope all of us who have heard this will always remember it and keep it in mind. We are our own worst critics.

[@samanthawells8480]

aw Raya thank you for sharing this! I identified with a lot of your story and I think it is amazing and brave of you to share it! I think you are a very beautiful person and I am so glad you found freedom from those lies; you made me cry girl, so much love

[@ShahedHussain1]

This is so honest and connected with me on so many levels- so happy you found your happiness! :)

[@gregvierra6141]

What a beautiful act of compassion and kindness sharing your new understanding of yourself. It certainly will help untold viewers. I was particularly moved by your expression of self love. It touches me. I'm immediately thinking about my own self limiting stories in my head. Thank you Raya! 🌹

[@naturelixir]

Ohmygod this video made me cry. This is exactly the journey i have been on recently within myself. Felt so much inside watching this and sending so much love your way and to anyone else out there realising this too, and sending love to little me haha we musn't forget the love for ourselves. thank you for being so open, honest and sharing this and your journey for the benefit of others, it means so much and does so much for many people. Things like this on youtube is so important

[@Erik007]

This is awesome! Keep sharing your experience of Landmark because it really is a life changing course

[@michaelraygoza1108]

Well said. So glad that you had that breakthrough and so many others. It was great to meet you and share this weekend with you! Continue to inspire the world! ☺

[@Sarah-go8lr]

This was so beautiful and I'm really glad that you made this video. This helped me and hopefully I can share this with other people and help them.

[@sweatandyoga]

Sarah yes exact same thing I was thinking - I need to share it w so many people so they can benefit

[@Healingclari]

This really helped me out. I added it to my list of positive quotes I always add to. I'm going to make a video soon reading them. Thank-you so very much! Radiate peace, kindness, love & blessings into the universe and it will come right back to you!

[@pleaseimmastar17]

This video was so helpful, thank you so much for sharing and being vulnerable. I hope this helps others as well!

[@mattgoodwin6925]

I want a double thumbs up button for this! Thank you so much for sharing this, it helps so much to have inspirational people such as yourself guiding others.

[@alessandragamadeoliveira9854]

Raya, you are so brave to open up and show your vulnerability to inspire and help others. Bless you chick :)

[@Sofiascorner17]

Guuurl! I 100% felt that. I am soo glad you shared this, feel like crying from relief because as you said, its the realisation hitting you that sets you free and you can let it go

[@irisj2264]

This video was so inspiring and eye opening for me. Also, I love the title of the video! Usually you hear things like my boyfriend changed me, or like my friend changed me, which are not bad things, but it's so just so refreshing to hear that YOU changed YOUR life. I'm so proud of you!! ❤️❤️

[@ingisfr]

I totally feel this! I keep comparing myself to others, and keep telling myself that they are more successeful than I am. The last part you said is so true😊 Everybody deserves happyness, love and success!!