How I Deal with my Anxiety as a Full Time Artist

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[@freshstart6673]

What a great way to let out all that anxiety yet share your experience as an artist. I find a lot of us hide it and try to go on our everyday and portray to others as if we are so called “Normal”. Once again M.Falconer does it again!

[@gabriellaschiller6012]

Yes this is so peaceful

[@rakeciapage2922]

You are so talented! I really connected with your process and thoughts on the colors your chose. I’m just coming out of a block caused by my anxiety and remembering that we are not always in control allowed me let my art flow and not think too much about it. Art is beautiful in all aspects and the final result tells a story. This piece is definitely calming and makes me feel like I can get through any struggle or negative thoughts. Absolutely love your work❤️

[@cerene4244]

Great painting! And thank you for sharing your input with dealing with anxiety! Keep up the great work!

[@DizzyfishArt]

This is STUNNING- you are an inspiration💜💜💜

[@pauli7457]

Thank you! 🌟🌹😘💕🌟

[@stefanbandura1731]

God, this piece is amazing! I really felt the peace of this and adding not many harsh lines really brought this piece together. I’ve been struggling with mental health for a while, I’m not too sure how to put it. But what really works for me, that my therapist recommended is focusing on my artwork, and creating awareness for stuff that is important to me. After watching this video, I’m glad to see another person that deals with their mental health through art as well. Thank you for telling us about how you’ve been struggling, I understand it can be hard to do! ❤️

[@stefanbandura1731]

By the way, this isn’t for the competition, this is just a outlet is a way.

[@llifeofllauren]

Gawd… I needed to hear this. Been struggling was crippling depression and anxiety and a lot of it has stemmed from my newly launched art business. This video was really helpful to relate to and to not feel so alone with living and coping with such paralysis. Thanks Melissa, glad to see you back 💛💛💛

[@Mfalconer]

You're definitely not alone! 💕

[@factorstudios5978]

Enjoyed the concept behind your work...really lovely to see a work like this🤩

[@laralaoise72]

I love this painting and your self affirmation series 💙💙

[@alannalove8980]

Love art and thanks for sharing the downs as well as the ups. How I handle the stress and anxiety was ignore it until now thanks for the information and sharing your experiences

[@groundedgrowth]

It’s crazy the timing of this video its like you knew I would need it lol. I’ve been struggling with so much anxiety and overthinking so everything about this video was so so helpful. Not only do I love the way the painting turned out but your words along with the art have inspired me so much! Thank you 💕

[@Mfalconer]

Thanks for your kind words. I’m happy to let you know that you have been randomly chosen to win the free canvas print giveaway! Congrats! Please email me at [e-mail] within 24 hours to claim your prize :)

[@groundedgrowth]

@@Mfalconer OMG I can't believe I'm just now seeing this response so late =/

[@rtistikhand1247]

I admire your style and approach. Doing such a great job. Thumbs up 👍🏽

[@Tengahpink]

one of my favorites ❤😍 I love the colors❤ you are an inspiration to me and i identify with your style❤ i also suffer from anxiety and when I'm more anxious, my peace is painting and listening to music, but.sometimes it's hard to deal with, but everything passes and it's having positive thoughts 😊 kisses from Portugal ❤

[@lonnielove8452]

this video and this painting was so inspiring and I can't wait to pull out my paints. I been wanting to paint a calming sky or sunset but been overwhelmed by the options and self doubt so thank you for sharing 💕

[@celesteharman5787]

so glad I came across your page. loved watching and yo art is incredible hunny keep it up 🙂

[@kimmistryart341]

Beautiful!!

[@chelsywiley2315]

This video was truly amazing. Thank you so much for creating this. It makes me feel not so alone. I love to create art work when I am feeling overwhelmed and listen to music.

[@Mfalconer]

Thanks ☺ And yes, music definitely helps me too!

[@coopt98]

A journey every artist must face- thank you for the video! I wish you luck on your journey as you continue on!

[@Mfalconer]

Thank you so much 💕

[@factorstudios5978]

Just what I needed 😩🙌

[@tblack9711]

From one over thinker to another be confident in your skills as an artist, it's what you are and you're not just good at it, you're GREAT at it. You have IT, NEVER question that. My art is the main thing I'm confident in because I finally accepted that failure is part of success. It's part of the process so as long as you keep creating you never really fail because not getting it "right" is just a necessary step to learn and grow to get to the goals you desire to achieve it's not a negative thing. I was way less confident in my art when I was your age too so listen to someone who's been there. You making the videos, painting as often as you do, starting your own business as a full time artist in your early 20's, etc. You're leagues ahead of me and a lot of other artists much older than you so keep at it, you're doing just fine and I for one appreciate your paintings and your inspiring videos. 👍

[@path1400]

Lately I have been dealing with anxiety also. I am a retired nurse who loves art. I taking an online graphic design class at a Community College and the power-hungry Professor is awful and mean. I have had 4 migraines over this class I hope to finish with a C. But in my illustration class, I am carrying an A. In all my other art classes I got A"s. So I know what you are going through. Keep praying and god to help you. Watch Anoosha Syed's KZbin channel. She like you is working at her art. I think she lives in Toronto also. I'm in Menifee, California.

[@simonetillman1551]

Love this piece, she really is so calming to look at. Thanks for sharing and even the opportunity to win a giveaway. Beautiful as always

[@Mfalconer]

Thank you, glad you enjoyed it ☺

[@vanessawren9616]

Good morning sister, I'm praying for your anxiety.. I suffered in my past with anxiety. And I'm glad you're getting therapy... but God is also the next step you need in your life. God created the universe and the world and everything we see. He is the highest power. We must trust and believe in him . If you believe in anything else... it's not good. I just want to help guide you the right way sister. You are a gracious and humble person. Keep getting the therapy and also God, he will heal your mind. 2 Timothy 1:7 kjv. Praying for you sister and stay blessed.🙏

[@Mfalconer]

Thank you, I appreciate your prayers 🙏🏾

[@vanessawren9616]

@@Mfalconer you're welcome ☺️

[@annclyde9158]

Girl, as an Elder (62) and creative, I've been dealing with anxiety for a minute..know that you are so not alone and though we are generations apart I relate to everything you shared..journaling for over 50 years has saved my life, so keep that as one of your tools in the toolbox..I am grateful for my therapist as well..wishing you peace of mind and spirit in your journey💕

[@alexandriapankey4999]

Wow! I really enjoyed your video today! I’m also an artist who struggles with anxiety and I really appreciate your honesty and tips to overcome it. I tried saying “Peace be still” while I watched the video and I’m definitely going to say this to myself more often!! May God continue to bless you and your artwork love 💙

[@Mfalconer]

That makes me happy to hear ☺Thanks so much 🙏🏾💕

[@eatpaintluvnetwork]

The first thing we should start doing or stop is claiming anxiety. Saying My Anxiety is holding ownership to something that’s debilitating. Speak and believe it’s not your to own. Give it back to the universe… You will never get over things but you can get through it😉

[@kimisaboss123]

Love this piece! One of my favorite verses in the Bible is Jeremiah 29:11, "'For I know the plans I have for you,' says the Lord, 'plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you a hope and a future.'" I used to stress a LOT about my future, and I tied checking things off of a to-do list to my happiness. I had to learn to, as you said, be still. I had to trust that no matter what, God has a divine plan and purpose for my life, and even if I can't see it, everything around me is working out for my good. Again, I love your painting!!! 💖💖

[@artfullyjaye3980]

I just came across your work, and I’m self taught artist also, I love how you embody the emotion, your work is beautiful thank you for sharing 💖

[@adriannalennox5497]

And even though so many have different words for it, the creation goes back to one person. The living God. The scriptures ur referring to can be found in Matthew 8 vs 23-27 Mark 4vs 37-41 Luke 8vs 23-25 I pray for your peace which God gave us once we believe in his word. It can be very crippling I went through it continue seeking him and pray. Most high bless your heart and your talent.

[@Mfalconer]

Thank you ☺

[@kassaArt]

I understand what you go through. You are amazing.. maybe you need some time out at times - don't feel guilty.x

[@moniquem1che11e9]

This is a great video thank you for being vulnerable. Being a creative writer and illustrator this is what I'm working on being more open about my art. I still haven't shared my stories as they are in the rough draft part and I'm not sure if they're enough for others like will other people find it interesting?. I'm working on eventually letting go of my fear moving towards change and not thinking so much.

[@Mfalconer]

I know it's hard, but just focus on enjoying the process of creating because that's the most important part, not what others think. Wishing you all the best on your creative journey 💕

[@moniquem1che11e9]

@@Mfalconer Thanks for this I will definitely need to remember to have focus on the creative process and the good vibes when making art.

[@calciferthebabygecko2186]

This painting feels so relaxing. I really related to today’s video, my anxiety gets bad because I work a full time job to try and afford starting up my art business. You reminded me to make time for myself.

[@brandonmooty3517]

Skills girl and love your mindset. think im in love

[@sheliaparker4573]

I enjoyed your process and love the finished product. I deal with anxiety by quoting Bible scriptures that remind me not to give any thought for tomorrow because tomorrow will take care of it self.

[@claricek2653]

What's the Best way for me to teach myself to DRAW portraits before painting? this is one of my struggles. I am in the process of creating a sort of portfolio to present to my principal for the next school year. My goal is to start a book/art journaling club with 5th graders for the next school year. This is to have fun, address anxieties, while learning about the world around us.

[@missmasoniawilliams842]

The music is so soothing. What’s the name of it? Also I like the part where you drew where you imaged at .

[@mimseydeartist1691]

Thank you for this video. I’m am so overwhelmed by anxiety that it seems I’m paralyzed with fear. I’m going to check out the professional help for this because it’s really getting to the point I can’t even clean my studio. 🙄 THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU SOOOO MUCH! I really appreciate you more then you’ll ever know.

[@Mfalconer]

Awww, trust me, I definitely get where you're coming from. The fear can be so overwhelming! I've gone weeks without doing anything too. But the therapy actually helped me more than I expected so definitely give it a try! I hope it helps you too! You got this! 🤗♥

[@adriannalennox5497]

Great art. Reading the bible helps as it speaks to anxiety and fear and how to get out of it. Most High bless you all

[@celesteharman5787]

kinda unrelated but what kinda paint do you use? 🙃

[@Mfalconer]

I use acrylic paint. Mainly Liquitex Basics

[@ericagyemang-dua7607]

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