How I Decluttered 80% Of Our Home & What I WOULDN’T Do Again | Mega March Motivation Collab

[@carilee49]

New to your channel and love it! I'm 71 yrs old and have lived in this apartment for 23 yrs now. My place has needed decluttering for many yrs but I was still working my way out of "life trauma's", and couldn't get focused for anything. I also couldn't afford a caregiver. So here I am now, really ready to trim things down and in just a matter of a few months I've lost the ability to walk. I'm trying to declutter from my scooter but it is hard to do. So, for what it's worth... people, watch her video and declutter before life moves so fast that something takes away your ability to sort your own belongings. You really don't want someone else doing it for you. God bless this lovely woman who's name I don't know.

[@dross24MA]

Hang in there - we are rooting for you!

[@dnk4559]

@@antiquenotdead7 thank you for this reminder!

[@jennifers1040]

Thank you for the advice! You motivated me to declutter more.

[@Gherkinlife]

Bless you, also her name is Mary Beth

[@lindamusser7370]

I hear you! I'm the same age and want to go through my own clutter, not have someone else do it. Being disabled can happen to anyone and very suddenly. Blessings on you.

[@BrendaPatten1977]

For those of you like me who just wanted to know what it was she wouldn't do next time you can skip to 13:00. Thanks for all the other info though. Very good.

[@DMills-un1tl]

Thank you! Exactly what I was looking for.

[@campseifer]

Thank you! You saved me 13 minutes!

[@BrendaPatten1977]

@@campseifer You're welcome!

[@kellimoneyhan3017]

Thank goodness!

[@brwneyedgrl2301]

Thanks, I was going to sleep, the voice is so calming

[@HeyHeyAlabama]

I decided that if it needs dusting I don't need it.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Amen to that! I like that idea!

[@sunflowers730]

How funny! I literally just this afternoon boxed up most of the decorative items in my living room and bedroom, because I'm tired of dusting them! It will be so much quicker to just dust flat surfaces. I'm not ready to get rid of them completely, they are things I enjoy seeing on the shelves, but I don't dust nearly as often as I should because I dread picking everything up and dusting it too. I'm going to put the box away for a while and see if I actually miss them or not.

[@sw4035]

1st time watcher! 🌹🎈 I am in the process of moving and downsizing. Have you read 7 by Jen Hatmaker? I am sure you have. Thank you. I look forward to more of your video’s. You are a busy lady and I am encouraged by you. 🙏🏼 God bless!

[@jesshothersall]

@@sunflowers730 In Japan they take one ornament out of a cupboard to stand on the surface. When they've had enough of really looking at that one, they put it away, and bring out another. A good way to really focus on each ornament, and the others don't get dusty in the cupboard :)

[@vivlee3840]

@@sunflowers730 That's what I'm doing & the first thing that goes through my mind when tempted to buy, is to see it as a "dust collector" or not.... Mostly yes! Don't get rid of precious items until everything else is gone.

[@ritalynb7070]

We live in a 600 sq ft house with just the basics. I am in my 3rd year of a no-buy challenge, which keeps things from entering our home. I got rid of about 75% of our stuff in 2017 and decluttered even more in 2019! Very happy now with only what we need!

[@poodlegirl55]

We moved to a smaller house in retirement that had no basement and a much smaller garage. I made up my mind that I just flat out didn't want to store anything. In my last house I spent so much time cleaning storage areas, so I used a spare bedroom as a staging area and I actually sold every tote on Facebook (in 10 minutes...guess we all have stuff). As I decorated the house I shopped the room and every day I picked through stuff in there and made a donation run every friday. Once the house was decorated I gave away everything left in the room. Everything I own you can see or open a cupboard and closet to see. Nothing in storage was a weight off my mind, it was just a bunch of delayed decisions. Having a big house just causes you to have excuses for not dealing with stuff.

[@sandragregg9079]

Great system.

[@1588chrissy]

Brilliant! I’m actually upsizing to a much bigger house - but that doesn’t mean more stuff. I actually plan to have nothing stored away bar a few diy things, paint tins and that sort of thing that you need but don’t want to see! Everything will be visible in a cupboard or shelf. Why have things that are hidden away.

[@poodlegirl55]

@@1588chrissy when I got done painting a room I poured the leftover paint in a jar and put in the back of the closet. Great for touch ups and I threw the cans away, they only rust and let the paint go bad anyway. The very last room...the previous junk room...I mixed all the half cans together and painted. It came out gray. No paint cans left....I was pretty freaking serious about no storage haha.

[@1588chrissy]

@@poodlegirl55 that is hilarious! I also pour all into jars - very handy for touch-ups and all uniform in shape and size so easy to store. I don’t mind having a small cupboard with these types of things (like brushes, rollers, tools) but I refuse to use my home as a warehouse for shops!

[@lollysaldivar3597]

The bigger the purse, the more you put in it!! Same way with a big house. My house used to feel big till “we” filled it with “stuff”!!

[@lucydeboxer2565]

I've never regretted getting rid of ANYTHING, only buying things I truly didn't need.

[@kristenmarie9248]

The regret of seeing how much money was "wasted" on items that were not a neccessary purchase is a hard lesson. If I could go back in time. Ever forward!!!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

That used to get me really discouraged, but certainly changed my buying habits! Keep fighting the good fight!

[@martaescobar7625]

....as the kids turn into adults, you somehow wind up with their "stuff" too. When I retired, as they came over, I purged all of it. The only question asked was "do you want this"? Then I purged all my mothers stuff she had dumped on me she didn't want. Any collections of glasses, dishes, clothes not being worn...gone. Senior Center loved seeing me coming, they had a small flea market. I want to be left with only the things I need.......feels great!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

My folks retired to their motorhome and I had a huge influx of stuff. I know both she and I are glad to have a whole lot less. And what a wonderful thing to be able to do for the Senior Center! Nice job!

[@martaescobar7625]

@@TheAtWhatCostBlog We have a lot of organizations, including churchs, that people donate to. I have seen them send large truck loads anytime there is a hurricane or storms that take peoples belongings. I think at different times in our lives, we accumulate what is needed for the moment, and don't get rid of the old.........it hit me at retirement:)

[@dross24MA]

I am *still* looking for places to donate good but no longer needed items. I have a hard time throwing out items that *should* be recycled but items that our collection service will not accept. I ended up with my parent's belongings, with family items that other members said they wanted but could "not take right now", with the kid's belongings as they headed off to college and new jobs far away, with friend's overstock when they downsized, and with my own things accumulated over the past 60+ years.

[@michelleschlorf1780]

I am so impressed with you! Working full time mom, clean house, Bible Study, youtuber! So inspiring!

[@TourPace]

I'm a busy mom too, and have found the only success I've had decluttering was to compartmentalize. One drawer, one shelf at a time. I can declutter a drawer in less than 5 minutes. If I do one drawer a day, my kitchen drawers are DONE by the end of the week. And decluttering is very contagious!

[@donnamanitu8673]

When I handle something, anything, I always ask myself "am I using this enough to keep" and "would someone else get more enjoyment out of this". That has helped me to get rid of so many things as I am not "losing" something but my donation may be a blessing to them.

[@lbw687]

You and your channel are an answer to a prayer. Decluttering while praising God. Your guidance and insights are exactly the motivation I’ve been needing and praying for. Thank you and God Bless.

[@marybethgaskill1766]

I live now basically in an empty house, it’s an echo chamber. Don’t miss a thing! It’s just stuff.

[@patriciabarton6373]

Mine is like yours, happy to hear I'm not alone.

[@mercurialpierrot7073]

That sounds too far for me. I want a warm space, just not cluttered.

[@S_H9260]

I used to think an empty house was lonely. But now I think it would feel freeing. I've been tied down by stuff, mine and my family's, for years and this weekend I filled a small dumpster. I thought it would be harder than it was, and getting started was *really* tough, but it felt so good as I tossed bag after bag and box after box into the bin.

[@karacole2304]

@@mercurialpierrot7073 Agreed. We can have a clean, minimalist home and still enjoy decor and such. I like having decor pillows and big blankets. Nothing wrong with making things "homey."

[@FM19MONTH]

@@mercurialpierrot7073 mine is a hot space lol. I am going to tackle it. I don't want my son to have to do it later. 💚

[@stephanieyates9551]

Children can and should be taught to help clean as a family. They are able to load a dishwasher and clean up toys, make beds at an early age. It makes them feel like part of a team.

[@kookietherapy9398]

Yeah, the kitchen looked like she is living w 3 wild animals, and obviously she has allowed that to happen.

[@JCX-9]

So true, I think one of the things where i failed as a parent. My kids are great otherwise.

[@jocelynrose7911]

I don't think I came upon your video by chance. I've prayed for guidance for my daughter with a new home & baby. I think your page was my answer . To God be the glory.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Praise God! I'm so glad you have found it helpful!

[@jukes243]

I collected items from each room and moved them into my attached garage. From there, I boxed up (and donated) what I didn't need. Left behind were my (useful but) occasionally used items which I put into clear bins then stacked on shelving units in the garage. My house is decluttered but I have what I need. Shelving units and clear bins are worth the investment.

[@maggiereeves8585]

I had a broken water heater, unnoticed for a couple of weeks. You just know that flooded some space where I had items I cherished stored. I started looking at what I called just junk, extra linen, books, furniture, televisions, you name it, I had it and most to none being used, stored in some of those bins. I offered what ever the grown kids wanted to keep and donated the rest to anyone needing it, the neighbors, friends. I took a month to get uncluttered, still living the same, and I wouldn't go back to that again. For myself, I am mid-seventies age, I don't ever want my kids to deal with anything like this after I'm gone. A little encourage to anyone of age, really, I had to take care of my Mom's and it makes it very hard on your heart trying to decide what to keep, I ended with a lot and she wouldn't have wanted me to struggle over making those decision. Best of luck to those ppl decluttering, it is worth the time and effort.

[@suetillman1517]

My kids are grown. We only have a cat. I started decluttering during the pandemic. I’m a crafter and I love changing decor for the changing of the season. I’ve come a long way. But I still have a LONG way to go. I’m not into total minimalism. But I don’t want to leave my children (2) with a high mess. So I keep plugging along. Everything I do purge makes someone else happy I hope.

[@lucilletorres5989]

I agree: when you clear your space, you clear your mind, your time and your resources for what truly brings you fulfillment and peace.

[@6pawc]

Please don't be upset with this comment - it's coming from relief, not from spite. I am so glad you showed the videos of your clutter BEFORE you decluttered- it made me feel so much better. I am just starting my declutter journey, and have tackled very small projects. After seeing where you started, I feel more confidence that our house CAN be decluttered, despite my family not wanting to get rid of ANYTHING.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

I wish I had taken more “before” footage, in those really early stages I didn’t think I’d ever put those pictures out into the universe. 🤦‍♀️ I thought my house was the only one. Nope....totally not the only one. Everyone has stuff somewhere! 😊

[@abshireinterpreting8443]

Thank you! I feel that "I'm just shuffling stuff from one place to another" and never see the clean results.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

It does take time....but the biggest help for me was to be ruthless! I also recommend the method Dana White describes in Decluttering At the Speed of life. She, Dawn, and Cas from Clutterbug have a course that will open again in April and it is excellent!

[@Soo_Blessed]

Don't be like me and spend 50 years shuffling stuff around Josh Becker said You don't need to shuffle it around if u get rid of it His story about his child outside and him not having time to play with him because he was so busy shuffling the stuff around got to me I can't change THAT in my life or my kids lives and my grandchildren lives Because it happened their whole life Then my granddaughter admitted as a grown-up they were embarrassed to bring people over to my house I didn't even know it cuz I was too busy shuffling trying to make room for everything. 😪😭 Be wiser Things AREN'T the important things in life God is Your family is You are your friends are .... Good luck

[@Dream-bebe]

@@TheAtWhatCostBlog : how did you handle when you kids wanted to keep their clothes or toys?

[@darladellana4961]

"I just need just what I need." Very wise. This will be my new mantra.

[@MsDana-mo9fp]

I have found that I want to OWN my items instead of my stuff owning me......meaning to have just enough of things that do not overwhelming me!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Amen to that! Love this!

[@leem200]

I love your voice it is understandable and clear. First time I have seen your channel. You would be good at doing audio voice books. Very clear and easy to hear. Just my opinion. Thank you for the content. Don't change it. I do not have to turn it up to hear you. Love your style and color in your home.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Thank you! I noticed that too. Thank you for the feedback, it’s much appreciated! ☺️

[@nancyblockcolsky1387]

I totally agree!

[@carolgeorge6409]

I also love your calm voice. It helps me relax into things

[@janpetsch620]

You are amazing. No way could I do all of that! Then again I am 69 years old. My sis and I have been working on going thru our family's stuff for over two years. Our brother left 3400 square feet in his business and his own stuff to mom and dad's stuff in the family home which was lived in for 66 straight years. Long story but I actually have two houses full. We both are in our sixties, work full time and have chronic illnesses! You are inspiring my dear.

[@angelacross2216]

You have a beautiful clear voice, so nice for us with hearing loss. Thank you.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Thank you Angela, that is so sweet. 🥰

[@Sugarblizz08]

I started decluttering the things I valued most. I did not want any other gods before me and where I was spending my time was where my heart was.

[@MyOver50]

The hardest part is starting & fighting with perfectionism. Done should be good enough but my clutter really stress me out. I love how you ended this video. Thank you!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

“Done is better than perfect” has been a sort of mantra for me for the past year. At some point I’ve got to call it done....it may not be perfect, and at some point I can go back and edit a space...but at some point I’ve got to be willing to just focus on maintaining it. My clutter stresses me out too. Truthfully maintenance helps more than decluttering for me, once the stuff is out. It’s like decluttering is a breath of fresh air and maintenance helps me keep taking those deep breaths. ☺️

[@peggynorwood8103]

I love your voice...you know how to punctuate and that makes it more enjoyable to listen.....Love your spirit.....

[@supercrazydesi]

I procrastinate everything because I want to do it perfectly. I always feel overwhelmed and achieve nothing.

[@chewlin3542]

Oh yes. I am not perfect either. I regularly declutter my closet, jewelry,.etc. but I have still have a problem. I already got the habit of decluttering the areas I am v.good at and can maintain quite well but always ignore my office stuffs. Thus, when I need motivation to declutter spaces I am weak in I will look at these videos. No one is perfect. I just take it as a journey

[@carolgeorge6409]

Totally agree❤️

[@barbklayman7429]

My parents decluttered in their 70s and it was a family gathering - so us kids were able to have some treasured items and mine are on display - I cherish them very much.

[@mallory7271]

I found your video just a few minutes ago and I must say I find your tone incredibly refreshing. I can tell that you're here to help without an interior motive. The way you're speaking is calming and inspiring. I am heading over to subscribe as I finish writing and watching. Thank you for inspiring me ❣️Also, I love the fact that you weave in time for Bible study and family time.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Wow, thank you so much for watching!

[@karengerber7158]

Oh my word! SOOO glad I found you. Not for me but to help my child. Your channel is so much needed. Thank you.💘

[@helenhilton2158]

The sacrifice of a brief season of time not spent with family is only TEMPORARY, leading to the freedom of time spent together that is TRULY quality, wholesome and lasting.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Helen, you hit the nail right in the head! Thank you! 😊

[@sophietyrrell3131]

My biggest mess : my kitchen. Got rid of a lot of spices. Also piles of clothes everywhere. I just want to move out and start fresh somewhere else.

[@nanilentz9695]

No....do not move out.... just yet!!? Stop buying this year... except for healthy food. But ...stage your place and declutter...get book from library...that gives you idea of what you need as functional. Carry everything else to needy people or give to church thrift or Goodwill. Only keep what you need...for weeks wear...and only few on Sunday or out with hubby wear. Get rid of fluffy stuff you wear ... hubby's don't like to see you in that anyway. Some women still want...that Grammy look??? I am 80...next month...love simple... not old Grannie look....and my given name is "Nani" 🤭☺️

[@christinewithers3283]

I have anxiety and I have way too much stuff! I am really trying to change! I know that I have way too much stuff. I am anxious as well. I want a clean clutter free home that I can be proud of. Some things are so hard to get rid of. Like grandma's dishes. I just have to realize I have grandma's memories I don't need her dishes. Your video relates to me so much! I move messes. Then I have more messes! You are an inspiration!

[@Camilla-cb4kl]

If you are not ready for the grandma dishes just do baby steps. Start with what is easier. Also for me it really helps to say thank you to that object aknowledging it was important in my life but i don’t need anymore. Or Maybe you can honor her memory having one of the dishes in display, and the others sold/given

[@christinewithers3283]

Thank you! I am so happy I found you all. You are all wonderful and I am blessed

[@username00009]

Also consider USING grandma’s dishes. I used my great aunt’s china as daily dishes when my daughter was in kindergarten and first grade. It’s been packed since we left that house because I don’t want to chance dropping it on the tile floor, but I’m hoping the next house will have softer hard flooring so I can bring it out again.

[@grayfortress3413]

Love the drapes in the background. Your home looks lovely.

[@davisholman6518]

I thought the same thing - wish she would tell us where she got them.

[@justineharper3346]

Seeing another working mom makes me more motivated. Sometimes when I see all of the SAHM channels, I feel like there’s no way I can do as much as they do since I’m gone from my house so much. It’s encouraging to know that it can be done

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

It’s tough! You are among good company friend. It’s all about maximizing short amounts of time. The less you have to take care of....the less you spend time taking care of “things.” But, I don’t at all regret taking a day off work to declutter when everyone else is at school or daycare. Just gotta do what works for you. You can totally do this!

[@22ERICSHELLY]

I just found your channel. So glad I did! I am a preacher's wife and I am trying so hard to declutter. I can totally relate to tote shuffling! Thanks! May Jesus continue to bless you and your family

[@DanTheManIOM]

ok, on 3/23 got rid of 3 engines (none worked, "oh they can be saved") yea, they can also be recycled. Today, two new tie rod parts for a car I let go 3 years ago.... and I also asked my uncle for a title to a wrecked car he has had since 1965 whcih he gave me in 2010 !! I have done very little to fix it but accumulated parts for the next owner to restore ! I can't wait for it to be gone, so tired of looking at it....the 80% of stuff going was on my mind this morning....

[@minimalqueen7523]

Finally! A full time working mom like me! I love you tubers, but I never relate because I have to work 40 hours and week and declutter in my free time / weekends. I thought I was blazing my own trail. Glad to see someone else is doing it too!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Same here friend! Welcome!

[@debbiebreeze903]

I've tackled more than haft or more of the house this past year. It's just me now but had my Dad's stuff he pass away 4years ago and was a single mom he out but left his stuff too. Pretty much the guys stuff is out of house, than it was my junk. I was so surprised, my bedroom just what I needed,instead of hanging or putting clothes away cleaned closet out had 5 bags including dresser stuff.than kitchen what I haven't used.

[@noracardona2527]

These points really hit home with me. As a teacher, I am too exhausted during the school year to care about messes when I get home, esp. during this pandemic. So, I was looking at summer as my time to purge. I created a to-do list which I thought would help but just overwhelmed me. Now that summer is near over, I'm battling frustration and disappointment in myself over what did NOT get accomplished. I know I need to embrace the "leave no mess behind" style and give myself grace and time. I love how you ended with the motivation aspect. Both of my parents died within a year of each other. The clutter that was left behind for my sisters and me to deal with hasn't been all fun (we did find some wonderful treasures among the clutter). I determined to NOT do that to my children. I also want to have more time for people in my life, not bogged down with managing my stuff. I love the added aspect of time with the Lord. That sounds so peaceful and necessary for my mental and spiritual health. Thank you so much for your words of experience and wisdom!

[@joannajohnson696]

I really like that you got straight into the subject of the video. Excellent start! I am decluttering my house. We downsized into a 1200 sq ft home. It has no room for clutter! It's a new way to live & does not allow for "wiggle room!"

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Thank you so much! Excited to see where this journey takes you!

[@kathymaske8997]

Having so much stuff just weighs you down. Keeps you from moving forward in life.

[@sandragregg9079]

Enjoyed your video. I just cleaned out my home office. Got rid of 3 hefty bags. My rule: only touch each item once. No shuffling...file get rid of. I worked from left to right. Took me 2 weekends. I also use fly lady method for my kitchen. Run dishes in dishwasher at night. No dirty dishes. It helps me stay centered and positive.

[@michellelyman7092]

you are so easy to listen to, you don't ramble and repeat yourself and you don't have vocalized pauses - your thoughts are very well organized and well presented

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Thank you for your encouraging feedback!

[@carolgeorge6409]

So true

[@amykiernan1595]

Once decluttering is done it should be a complete every family member needs to be supporting the effort everyday. Cleaning up after oneself. You're teaching children a life skill

[@floridasingularity3700]

I’ve only regretted one ‘rage purge’. The benefits usually outweigh any regrets. Onion method is too slow for me. LoL

[@pattymiles2688]

Your house is so warm and inviting. It’s beautiful!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Thank you so much!

[@christinecortese9973]

I’ve found that I really like having a good many things but can achieve the same serene external look just by having the right storage solutions. In fact before I bring something new into my home I plan exactly where I can put it so it doesn’t make the room look cluttered (I make art, collect crystals, sew, cook,etc.) With some foresight you can have it all and still have that simple serenity in your home.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

I’m so glad you’ve found a balance that works for you! Having things that you love and are able to manage is half the battle. ☺️

[@lindag5076]

You sound really organized. Would love to see photos or video and how you do that 😄

[@l.a.w.79]

@Christine show me how!!!

[@christinecortese9973]

@@l.a.w.79 I just buy interesting old dressers or cabinets from thrift stores or online. Then I load them up with my stuff.

[@BEAUTYnIQ]

@@christinecortese9973 do you know that's part of my issue .. I emptied out 2 storage units and don't hav enough room .. so in an attempt to 'organize' I also hav emptied the closets, cupboards etc so they are empty with boxes sitting in the room !!! (lol yes really) all waiting til I finish and decide what goes where, and what to keep .. oy .

[@samilombardo]

You should totally consider doing a podcast if you dont have one already. Your voice is perfect for it! (:

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

I have been tossing the idea around. ☺️

[@eileenh1]

Coming over here from the MM. First time watching one of your vids! Loved it. Been on this minimalish journey since last summer. It’s so freeing 😊 i share your sentiments of deepening my relationship with Christ.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

So glad to have you here! Welcome!

[@leticiatoraci9855]

I was surprised at how much my sons and husband decluttered their things themselves with me just being around to help them with that. I asked them to "put out of the room what they didn't want to have there anymore" and they got rid of 40 to 50 % of their stuff without any pushing from me. My next step will be the kitchen. The basement is a long work in progress. My goal is atm to declutter 50% of the things and see later how to proceed.

[@Jim-bh7gs]

Helpful, thanks. It is hard to imagine you flustered at all,you seem so calm. I see that when I sit down j7st to relax, I don't because I see all the books, "heirlooms", etc., that I need to deal with. U think I'll start anew in the extra bedroom, a/k/a storage unit so I won't have to SEE the clutter 1st thing in the morning. I really need to get ready for a retirement community.

[@Trebushea]

I have been on my journey to minimalism for 4 years now as I have found it is not just a one day thing and a continuous way of living. Continuing to declutter often and take a look at your "stuff" and life. It has helped me so much with my anxiety and being able to now spend so much more time with my family instead of spending all day cleaning all of the "stuff" we used to have. Now we are looking to sell our house so this minimalist mama is getting rid of SO MUCH more that I thought was already minimal enough. It's so fun finding new things to declutter and life without!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

YES! I wish we had discovered minimalism before we moved into this house. Turns out the amount of space wasn’t the issue. 😉 fishbowl syndrome. We just grew to fill it.

[@jackiepittman7686]

I’ve been desperate to get my home in order and declutter. I’ve been stuck for a long time and it’s been so discouraging cause even though my desire to do it is there, I become intimidated by the mess, the boxes of junk I’ll put aside and basics my bedroom became the room I stuffed everything in in order to have the rest of the house look decent. I always feel no peace and I know it’s the house, It literally had stopped me from being successful at homeschooling my kids, having Bible studies in my home that I feel God is leading me to do cause I’m always waiting to get it together but it’s like a battle in my mind and I decided that I’m not letting satan do this to me no longer! He’s under my feet snd I’m taking authority over my household. It’s overwhelming and often I start going through stuff and especially papers takes awhile and it tedious and I don’t end up finishing and I end up not following through to complete it and get an entire room finished. So I’m thinking I have to approach it differently like the onion method that Minimalist Mom channel talks about cause I started watching her now snd I’m inspired. I love how you talk about your goal being to grow in relationship with God having that time for him cause that’s exactly why I want to do this! I want to do Gods will and he’s calling me and I know he’s been dealing with me on the house awhile now in order to move forward and serve him snd my family better( I’m a mom of 5 with 2 step kids) I was a minimalist when I got married and had peace. But I had no idea my husband was I’ll say boarder line horder, we always stored his stuff for when we get a bigger house, It became a nightmare having so much that he didn’t want me to touch. So this is what makes it a bit harder. He’s trying and I’m being more consistent to pray for him to fully surrender to God as I have now, cause All this messy life actually cause much craziness and eventually I fell from the faith and into sin after awhile but God showed me I could do nothing apart from him! I repented of all the years I didn’t trust him and committed to praying and reading the Bible and I found the true Jesus of the gospels and have experienced so much deliverance and healing for me and my family! It’s been amazing the power of God. Anyone reading this please pray I overcome this stronghold and constantly persevere so get rid of 80 % of our stuff and my husband jump on board so we can have the peace, joy and freedom to serve God to the fullest, focusing on the things that really matter. I’m done allowing this to torment me, I believe I can do it with Gods helping me to not give up. Thank you so much.❤️🙌🏼📖🙌🏼❤️

[@juliec3437]

Can relate 🙂. And I only have two kids, and one clutterbug hub. But simillar issues! It's a process. 😔 Sigh

[@username00009]

The Clutter Clarity channel is great, as are The Minimalists, Minimal Mom, ClutterBug, and Dana K. White. The most important thing to realize is that we’re all different, and what we do with our stuff is a reflection of how our brains work. Clutter Clarity points out that true hoarders aren’t as common as one would think by how often the term is thrown around; it’s more likely that your husband either grew up poor and wants to always be prepared by having the things he may need on hand, or he’s an excessive accumulator who loves possibilities. If the former is the case, try looking up the Minimalists’ 20/20 rule. If the latter is true, Dana K. White is amazing because that’s how her brain works and she found a practical way to work past that. ClutterBug is great for helping people to see that what you may think is clutter is simply your husband’s preferred organizing style. Organizing styles are a combination of either micro or macro organizing preferences (e.g., do you like to throw all the office supplies in one container or have them sorted into smaller categories) and either visual or hidden storage. I hope some of these concepts will help you better understand both yourself and your husband!

[@valeriechaffins4638]

Honey, I really wish you tube was a thing 30 years ago when I was a struggling mother and wife! I tried so many books and I can honestly say, your videos would have been so much more effective for me! I have several young women in mind to refer to you when the topic comes up again, and I know it will. You speak very clearly and honestly, like a good experienced friend would have. Of course we were just getting into sharing this stuff with each other, hence the books, when I was younger. Live and learn and share.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

I appreciate that Valerie! Thank you! Send them my way...we all need support and encouragement!

[@nancylanderson8012]

When we have items that are not being used or kept in bins unseen, they slowly die in that space. Someone else can give them new life and be so excited to receive what we no longer need. I used to focus on how much I spent on things I donated until I accepted that that purchase served some purpose in my life at the time and that it was ok to now let them go.

[@mermaidmama8203]

Very nice presentation and you have a good sense of humor! Loved the plug and your house looks fabulous! They say that once things are cleaned out new and better things (not actual things but more the way your faith grew) come into our lives.

[@cameronparham5067]

I too am a busy mom attempting to declutter. Sometimes I really do want to hear someone else's journey. But if a video says it will be about the things a person would not have done and would not do again, please do not delay that information for 13 minutes. If someone had not posted where your regrets lay I would have quit watching. It is not to devalue the early part of the video, but surely you understand a super pressured busy mom might not have 13 spear minutes. Another time when I'm looking for comfort and understanding of someone else's stressors that is when the first part of the video would be worth it. Thanks to someone tipping me off about the 13 minute mark, I too will quit shuffling those bins! I'm still grateful just considered dividing videos like this into two or three separate shorter videos.

[@wendypursel3142]

I totally agree you have to decide not the kids. However, the best 2 hours of my life with my talkative lovey nephew (5), I asked for his help. I put two boxes, down dumped his bathtub toys into one. I asked him to choose his toys put the one he really played with and put the others in the box so we could gift it. He spent those two hours looking at each and every toy, sorting the whole time. We got rid, I mean gifted 2 toys. I was so pleased. Just thinking about this makes my day and I smile!

[@pamelagroves2142]

I use my “FlyLady Zones” decluttering the same way I shop. I didn’t buy it all at the same time, I get rid of it as I feel “I don’t use it anyway, get rid of it”!!! I don’t follow a time limit, nor a numbers game, “37 fling boogy”. Nor a one thing day one, two things day two & so on for 30 or 31 days. I do it at MY leisure. I keep a box at my front door for the stuffI haven’t or won’t be using, figuring if I need it BEFORE I get it to charity I can go dig it back out. Our charity shop only accepts donations Tue & Thur. Then there’s also my church who sells it to fund this event or that.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

You have really got this down! Way to go! 🥰

[@poodlegirl55]

That is great. I didn't know I had so much paper clutter until after I moved. I gathered the paper from every room and filled two large boxes. Every evening I took a little flat basket over and pulled a bunch of stuff out and would sit and relax watching videos and sorted the stuff. In the morning I shredded, trashed and filed the stuff. Funny, when the boxes were empty after about two months I kind of missed my routine, but I don't miss the stuff, I deal with papers every day.

[@Angel-yz8gt]

Love flylady

[@lydiahiott6164]

I was introduced to you this Sunday via The Minimal mom. Help? My husband will only allow me to declutter what is directly mine. I am so frustrated 😳💔

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

That is tough. I think we want our spouses (or others living in our home) to jump all in because we’re ready too. Most people need more convincing than our “latest endeavor.” I tried and failed many ways to dealing with our house. When I focused only on my own stuff and then maintained it my husband started to take a look at his own stuff and it’s been much easier for us to come to a place of compromise. Prayers for you…….and welcome! 🤗

[@lydiahiott6164]

Great suggestion❣️That’s exactly what I will do. Thank you❤️❤️

[@sherryyost786]

Thanks so much. It's encouraging to hear a user of Dawn's and Dana's methods.

[@violetnewby]

I have been looking at "decluttering" videos for a year or more. I have tackled various areas over & over. You give me some serious things to think about!!!!! Thank you!

[@barkerpoe9221]

So excited!!! Spreading His Word for His glory!!! 🙏🏻🛡⚔️

[@MissouriPrepper64052]

I’m still in the middle of our D clutter journey I have already given away hands-down 140 pairs of jeans the kids each had 14 pairs of jeans over the last two seasons of winters that they outgrew that I put up on top of jeans for myself not to mention all the shirts jackets hoodies sweatshirts and everything in between OMG well we able to donate so much clothes not only from my closet that went to the high school but my kids closets that went to the elementary pantry as well for others who can’t afford clothing we are on our journey to become more middle of stick and live a happier life style that’s organized first time I’ve seen your channel and I absolutely am loving this video I can’t wait to see more and go back and watch all the videos you have already put up thank you so much

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

WOW! That’s incredible! And great idea of donating them to the school. Way to go! And welcome!

[@midlifeprof3561]

Your honesty and vulnerability is absolutely refreshing! And thank you for the relatable reality checks! You rock!

[@jessicabrown6943]

I agree! Laundry and toys were huge for me too!!

[@JCX-9]

Decluttering is one of the best therapies you can go through. It feels so freeing and it clears the negative energy in your house. Magical. Reminder i need to start doing that again now that spring is here. Good time to do this. 👍 I just hate to throw stuff out that can be donated. During the pandemic it was hard to do that because the donation boxes were locked up and Salvation Army was closed.

[@lauraingeorgia5052]

Detachment from the material, the worldly "things" is the key to growing closer to Christ. It's also incredibly hard to do & so many of us struggle with it. How ridiculous is that when you think of the unimaginable glory of our God we are missing out on because we can't take our eye off of our "stuff!" My main issue is that my brain kicks in while trying to declutter. I literally argue with myself... What if I need it? You haven't worn it in 3 yrs... I know but what if... What if... What if... I need a "whatifectomey!"

[@gregcooper7789]

One thing that helped me was a set of safety pins for each child, when they take their socks off they would pin them together, put them in the hamper, then in the wash, and then off to the dresser. all ready matched fast and easy!!! BIG TIME SAVER!!!

[@nancywhitmore3497]

I do this, too! It saves time AND there are no more missing socks! Yay!

[@debk9664]

I've started to declutter- donating everything. It's very overwhelming at times. Hopefully I'll get there too!

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Yes it is! But it won’t always be like this. Keep going, little by little you’ll get there!

[@marleensimmonshomeoffice190]

Oh boy I can relate. Started botched and stopped. Will try again.

[@timberelburke]

Love that you are not afraid to talk about God. So many are afraid to be honest about their beliefs. Plus... I just decluttered. Shwwww... feels good!!!

[@AcornHillHomestead]

Boy I’m retired and I feel like such a slug! If YOU can declutter with three kids, I have NO excuse. Its well past time. I’m going to do this. I FULLY understand the rage purging. Time for me to simplify and stop being held hostage to my clutter. Thank you for this video! I am subbing!! I’m going to tackle one space at a time. We moved two years ago from a Victorian Farmhouse with a full basement and a huge carriage barn and we gave away sooooo much. Its STILL cluttered.

[@jamesmora1469]

I appreciate this. I inherited lots of important documents and things. The larger items like older furniture a piano and non sentimental items I ended up selling the vast majority online through various websites. I've become quite a salesman! However, the paperwork, books, family items and some awesome childhood memories items I've held on. I have one catch all room. It's all in boxes. I'm struggling to go through it. In total I have about 170 boxes containers to process. It stresses me. Please encourage me. Oh one note: a local church has occasional yard or rummage sales so a lady from that congregation helped me pack and release many excellent items for that sale. So I am progressing in this but I still have stress

[@lanegardinier760]

Great video. I am single and childless, but I have simplified my ;life tremendously by owning no white clothes that need their own laundry load, so for one person, I now do all of my laundry for the week in one load; however, it will bump up to two loads if I wash my sheets and towels, which are charcoal gray. I own bath towels that consist of 2 bath, 2 hand towels and 2 washcloths, and own one set of sheets, which I wash and put right back on my bed, all charcoal gray. My home has plenty of color though, because items that I don't have to launder are of a variety of colors, it's only items that go into the washer that I created a one-load does it all life for, and it's been amazing and very fast!

[@supercrazydesi]

I started decluttering last year. We are not big hoarders and purge every month and still our 3600 sq feet filled up in 8 years to a point that we are not enjoying our home. Staying at home during COVID inspired us to take it slow and study and purge anything we don't use or need. We donated several boxes, trashed some and sold few pieces of furniture.

[@HBDuncan1]

Thank you. I’m a senior & a G Ma in a 668 sq ‘ 1 BR w patio ! No storage space accept storage unit ! I want to let stuff go. I think they think seniors need no storage in these super small apartments in CA ! Lol. I only managed to keep things that mean something to me. I miss my basement or even an extra room. It’s hard for me to even go through stuff due to lack of space I am an overwhelmed Christian who needs help 🙌🏽❤️🙏🏼. I sized down from a 5 BR home w antiques to come out here to be near family after jaws of life accident ! I am grateful I didn’t lose my life. I still have a storage unit in Michigan ! Pray I get help. I have a back disability & am limited ! I have an electric bike which has a dead battery I need to sell or donate. My daughter helps but has 2 toddlers & they come & pull out the toys ! I miss my big house 🥲 in Michigan ! Should I give stuff away or try to sell things ? I’m in fixed income & could use extra funds ! Or maybe I should find a good Christian to marry ? Lol. Only kidding ! PS. My daughter is not that good at organizing or helping me decide on things to give up ! I need help !!! 🙌🏼. Praying 🙏🏼. Which room should I start ? Kitchen ? Closet needs thinning out Should I get rid of books, albums , DVDs, VCR tapes ? Patio set I never sit on?

[@maryannait]

I’m so glad I found your channel! I love finding other Christian woman to listen too! It’s a hard thing to find now days

[@gailremp8389]

Also I use thrift shop baskets and lotta basket for different items. And psychologically it looks beautiful to me and emotionally is very satisfying. So there are always ways to keep it simple but keep it where it gives your heart joy. My son is 47 now so there are not. so many toys around the house. Ha ha. But I do have CDs still. Those I really do need to get rid of. And I have six cats but I think I'll keep them. They're kind of cute and pretty good..

[@flourishfaithfiber]

Good point...time with family is not quality when we are under stress and our mind is elsewhere.

[@sherryhudson9075]

As consumers, all we need is enough. As Americans we definitely go overboard materialistically. This pertains to houses, clothes, decor, food, or even time management. God does tell us to be content with what we have. And not to covet what others have. Balance your life .

[@gailremp8389]

All of my clothes are stored in a dresser in the closet. And the blouses hang right to the top of the smaller dresser. It's very organized and it really works. I have no dressers in my actual bedroom area. It's small stuff like that that helps. I walk into the bathroom and I can shower and everything is right there for my needs. But the decluttering does make you feel good now I'm going to listen to what you wouldn't do and then it's time for Goid Friday service to stream. And then tonight is my good Friday service at my Lutheran Church in Winter Park Florida. Someday we will get through all of this together Peace and blessings to you

[@MindyourMatters]

Your hubby vacuuming in the background! So sweet👍🏼♥️

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

He’s a catch, for sure!

[@gloriajagus4242]

Girl you are preaching to me !!!!!!!!SO GLAD I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL

[@edennis8578]

You rage purge a lot differently than I do. I take garbage bags and just shovel stuff into them. Having extremely limited energy, I don't mess around when I have it! The last time I had a big purge, I'm sure the neighbors thought we were moving.

[@sarahjohnson9267]

I did quite a large declutter recently. I did some shuffling to get to stuff that needed to go. I got rid of more than I thought I would initially so some of the shuffling was to where it actually goes! I just finished school so I finally had time. In the future I will be much more minimalist. Something I ran into is now I have too many totes! Eventually I will need to get rid of them, but I also put things from cardboard boxes into bins. I foresee much of the stored items going as well. I have found I have to process some item mentally and then I am able to toss or donate it. I also can't declutter everything of my husband's, he needs to decide on his stuff. I also let kids decide what would go and let their decisions for their stuff stand!

[@ladbeethoven9]

Very encouraging. I did a major decluttering but need to do more. I like the tip about "Tote Shuffling" I have a closet packed with boxes and totes

[@juliejackman2649]

I've watched many declutter vlogs. I am a rare person who actually feels stressed and anxious if my house is too bare. I feel the best when there's a few toys and other things out of place. It makes it feel cozy and homey and worth paying the money to live here because it's lived in. I also love studying about Our Savior Jesus Christ each day💕😊

[@painteroflove]

My husband said it makes him nervous to have things too tidy. I thought he was JOKING (of course) because I like things beautiful (i.e. aesthetically arranged). Eventually I learned that he was NOT joking!? Go figure.

[@cherrymartini]

I think it is finding your own balance that works for you!

[@2Blessed]

Yes, I feel the same - I am currently decluttering because we do have way too much stuff that isn't used, won't be used, etc, but I certainly am NOT a minimalist. I enjoy watching decluttering and minimalism videos to get inspiration and ideas. My everyday home decor is kind of cottagey and cozy, with a good bit of decor, but everything is loved, beautiful, and has been collected over a period of time. Bare spaces feel cold and lonely to me!

[@livebeyondthesurface1735]

Same! I like some aspects of a minimal lifestyle - but I appreciate a place that isn’t too bare. I gained a few good takeaways here though. 👌

[@SCSC-qz7rr]

With this pandemic time working from home, I discovered (I hope as same as everyone else), that we really don’t need much to live. Staying home made me realized how much clutter I had, so I’m starting little by little. I’m getting ready to retire in two years so I thought let me start now little by little so I don’t have a lot at the last minute. I started in a hallway closet. I empty the entire closet, cleaned it, and started going through everything I had in there. I separated stuff to goodwill, trash and keeping. I used plastic containers to put some of the stuff in order. Not only does it look clean, organized and pretty, but I have so much room (but not going to put anything else in there unless I’m keeping). It feels so good when even a little part of your hose is in order and gives you the motivation to do other areas. I’m still working on different areas little by little, but I like to take my time. The garage will be my last project, but I’m planning to hire help so I can do it faster and not be so tired. Hopefully, by the time I’m ready to move out of state, it will be a lot easier for me to pack.

[@howbethdoesit5695]

This is my first visit to your channel. Let me say I so enjoyed your deep honesty about the work, both physical and emotional that goes into this process. I subscribed. Thank you.

[@SarahLizDoan]

Same here

[@sandrarice5575]

I have always felt over stressed over all the STUFF! Your spot on.

[@Terukuro1211]

Tnks to youtube recommendations and God bless you and your family for this vids!

[@flipflopgirl3786]

Thank you!!! I really needed to hear this. God bless 🙏

[@mpaplay9366]

Thank you for your guidance. I will follow your example. Just what is needed.

[@stillwatersfarm8499]

When people say more clothes make more laundry...This assertion denies the laws of physics 😁 A few things have to be happening. 1) People are changing clothes more than they should. 2) People are putting clean clothes into the laundry. or 3) The laundry is piling up making a bigger job once it is tackled (so the amount of work for the amount of days is the same, just is more pleasant to keep up than catch up). I used to do #3 when I was a young mom, and we had to address #1 and #2 with the kids. Having very minimal wardrobes for a time helped us develop the good laundry habits, but as our wardrobes have grown larger over time, the problem has not come back, because in the end it is about habits, not the number of clothes. We do like keeping our closets decluttered for other reasons though, like it is easier to find things and put things away.

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

Yes! That is very true. Our issue has been having way too much to dirty up before we "HAD" to wash it. That's the issue right, why wash laundry before the hampers were full or we ran out of undies? Our issue was originally enough hampers for 14 loads of laundry. Waaaaaaayyyyyy too much! Having less has definitely helped build more positive habits and if we get behind because well....life...it doesn't take nearly as long to catch back up.

[@bananaanna1373]

THANK YOU!!! 7 days=7 undies no matter how many are in my drawer. Most people have too much but I don’t want to have to wash my underwear 3 times in 2 weeks or go without. I have always kept up on my wash....it’s a natural thing for me so maybe that’s why I think it’s a little overdone by some in regards to the very few clothes. We should be able to go more than a week if we have to. We wear our jeans at least a few times. Tops, undies and socks don’t take up very much room. I want my clothes to work for me, not be under the g*n to wash them every few days even if I have to lose sleep to do it.

[@BEAUTYnIQ]

Laundry was my worst chore .. I was great with kitchen, food, dishes even vacuuming and taking care of kids, dogs, bathrms, the pool, etc .. but laundry always a huge pile ! and I dreaded it .. ugh

[@cabbagecrosby1993]

Faith and minimalism? So glad I found your channel! :)

[@lindamusser7370]

I'm listening to this for at least the third time. Clutter makes me rage. Thank you for your channel. ❤

[@TheAtWhatCostBlog]

So you’re the one, 😂 this video has just been hanging around for years now. I should do a review of it and give some updates.

[@lindamusser7370]

@@TheAtWhatCostBlog I would love that. I'm so impressed that you got rid of 80% of your clutter, regardless of how you did it.

[@dixibrat84]

Love your honesty on the dishes being left overnight! It happens. We feel guilty... ugh