How I Discovered I had Colorectal Cancer | Amy's 3b Colon Cancer Story | The Patient Story

Amy was told her symptoms were all in her head. As a mom of two, she began to feel "off" and tired and got some bloodwork to assess her health. After her bloodwork returned clean, her doctor attributed her symptoms to anxiety. She started seeing a counselor and prioritized her mental health but her symptoms only got worse. After finding blood in her stool, she demanded a colonoscopy.
After the procedure, her doctor admitted he was wrong and Amy was diagnosed with 3B colorectal cancer.
In this story, she voices how advocating for health saved her life, the importance of knowing your genetics and how she’s working to break the stigma of colorectal cancer.
The interview has only been edited for clarity.
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[@DQ_Mine]

Good for you for speaking up. My step-brother died of colon cancer at 32. He suffered for years, but was too embarrassed to tell anyone, even a doctor. They found his journal hidden.

[@elmidouihasnae7591]

Freaking society, same for my dad

[@amyhenningsgard8618]

That’s so sad. I’m so sorry for your loss.🥲🌹

[@tequilabumbum4373]

Thats terrible :// im so sorry he felt like he couldnt speak about it

[@ShellysLivingLife]

I am so sorry for your loss and that he went through his battle alone because of embarrassment-I have felt the same way just embarrassed to talk about symptoms s Today I went to a GI and have a colonoscopy scheduled but it took a lot to talk about it and be seen

[@samanthamorena3585]

I almost died when I was 17 & 19 for the same reason. Liver, kidney and heart failure etc for the same reason. Especially that young and 20 years ago you didn't ask, talk. It turned out to be Crohn's. I'm sorry he felt so alone, I was there. Sending you love light and peace. ❤❤

[@beatpirate8]

I was 21 when I had cancer. I had surgery and chemo and so far I’m still alive and kicking. Thank you for sharing your story!

[@rbk7876]

🙏🙏

[@dellchica2373]

Wow. Thank God

[@eggbenedict-gt7mw]

What cancer

[@newseeker2590]

21 is so young, what cancer was it?

[@AbhinavKumar-tz3ew]

What type of cancer ?

[@tamarafaurot]

I was 64 and had never had a colonoscopy. Tsk tsk. I was tired. Anemic. And bleeding that I ignored for at least a year. At first, blood when I wiped. Then blood all the time in my underwear. Then I was passing blood clots. Then the pain that finally sent me to the ER. I got a CT scan and the sweet Dr made a colonoscopy appointment for me, put his hand on my shoulder and said, don’t miss it. And I didn’t. A couple of weeks later I left the hospital without that 2a egg sized tumor and 12” of large intestine. Had an ileostomy for two months and have lived to tell the tale. Love to you girl.

[@Christina-xu3yb]

Glad to hear your story! Praying you continue to be cancer free! Did the CT Scan by chance see a tumor or anything suspicious that had the ER doctor order a colonoscopy?

[@deborah3686]

I went to my doctor for rectal bleeding and pain. She told me it wss just hemmoroids and said I could not get a colonoscopy until I turned 50. After a year of complaining, I finally got my colonoscopy. May 2022 is when I got the news of my colon cancer. I spent most of 2022 in treatment. Chemotherapy, radiation, and so many trips to Mayo in Rochester, MN. I'm now in recovery. Thank you for sharing these stories. It's good to know I'm not alone.

[@joycenesselhauf1220]

I’m so happy to hear you’re doing better! My prayers are w you!!! You can get a colonoscopy any age you want to! How dare she say 50 is your time line.

[@JaneDoe-xn3ct]

hopefully you sued your doctor

[@crocadoodle7101]

There is no specific age when it comes to symptoms such as rectal bleeding. Shame on that doctor. Wishing you good health.

[@niellalien]

I'm glad you're doing better. That's so insane, being told you're too young to get tested for something!

[@realself9599]

stay cancer free...prayers

[@rbk7876]

Lost my spouse to colorectal cancer at age 48, she did not catch it early, married 17 years, I'm a percussionist in a classic rock band, met her at a gig, thank you for helping others and I'm praying for you and your family, 🙏🙏, be strong.

[@kelseylandon1224]

hope you're doing ok

[@Rach113]

Sorry for your loss 🙏

[@Rayman30]

Did?

[@shubhamghoshroy9876]

His symptoms?

[@daniellebrown6887]

I am so honored to be a small part of your survival story! You were such an amazing patient with so much love and light. Thank you for bringing that everyday.

[@cherylsloyer6872]

I had Stage 3 Colon Cancer... Lynch. I beat it! 🙏🙏🙏

[@navbharat1443]

Good. How long u have been cancer free ? It will give hope to many others who r going through this pain😊

[@trublu3483]

God bless. Did you have blood? What are the first symptoms you experienced?

[@SonyCamry]

ARE U STILL OK?

[@saifkhan-tq2kl]

im stage 4 colon cancer patient, i have seen on youtube that they dnt guide or replay to other so they can faight or learn that what should i do, anyways plz plz must pray for me

[@محمدالعراق-ق4ع]

@@saifkhan-tq2kl I hope you recover. What symptoms did you have

[@jame2870]

I'm 22 and getting my first colonoscopy. It feels awful when your family doctor waves your concern over symptoms. Labelling it as "just your anxiety" is so overwhelming. Luckily I have a specialist who listens. My heart goes out to you.

[@americafirst9144]

Colon cancer in young people since the 💉has skyrocketed. Hmm.

[@IbenLeonoraGiljeVold]

Im 19 and concerned that I might have colon cancer as well.. my family says the same + my doctor dont think I have it because I havent lost that much weight..

[@no_country_for_real_men]

Sorry but she is incorrect. Modern doctors are not educated. It's just the opposite. Modern doctors are uneducated college degreed idiots. The older generation of doctors are the true professionals

[@stephmartin1148]

@@IbenLeonoraGiljeVoldwow I am SO sorry! Dr’s should not wait until you are in your death bed before a diagnosis. Prayers with you that you get that answers you need. And also Jame! ❤️

[@mdenjoyer831]

news?

[@beausoter1763]

I am stunned by your story! I just beat stage 3 colon cancer and my diagnosis came in 3 days after going to the E.R. The E.R. is the place to go if you have a "gut" feeling.

[@rayddonovan2608]

I’m 51 and was diagnosed with 3B as well 2 yrs ago. I’m currently in remission but continue to test every 3 months for recurrence or metastasis. For me, the mental anguish of whether this comes back or not is far more worse than the surgery and 6 months of chemo. I wish you all the best in your recovery

[@elmidouihasnae7591]

I wish you a lot of courage , have as much fun as u can . Live

[@tfoxen7518]

Can you inform us of the tests that you mention here?

[@rayddonovan2608]

@@tfoxen7518 Mainly blood tests every 3 months: CEA and ctDNA with annual CT scans

[@juliejohnson789]

💖🙏💖🌈

[@schl8675]

3B as well, 6 months folfox, five weeks radiation and then surgery, as bad as it was, it is amazing how fast you rebound when done. My symptoms were brushed off because i had a negetive cologuard test, it was a false negetive, only after a trip to the ER for a complete blockage was my cancer found, DO NOT USE COLOGUARD. I agree about the mental part of recurrence, it sucks, i will likely have to have a bag the rest of my life, but it is not as bad as you would think it is, i can do what i want and eat what i want, and not live my life around a bathroom.

[@Mike-01234]

Co-worker was diagnosed with Colon Cancer 3B his only symptom was a few days of unusual looking mucous diarrhea no pain at all. When the GI doc found it said it was blocking about 75% of his colon. If he had not gone in and doctors took him seriously, he would have died if he left it for another 6-12 months. He was age 40 when he was diagnosed the GI doc up until the colonoscopy kept telling him he was too young to have colon cancer. He was shocked to find colon cancer said it was unusual. He ended up finding another doctor who actually said it's lot more common now days and any GI doc who turns someone away from a colonoscopy that has some symptoms is going to miss people who have cancer. That was almost 5 years ago he got treated and is has a normal life today.

[@humanbeing00009]

did he had any other symptoms or like every time he passed stool he had mucous diarrhea?

[@humanbeing00009]

Bro plzz answer?

[@carascottvo]

I cannot believe this poor woman had such a hard time getting a colonoscopy after BLEEDING. That's freaking tell-tale, even if you're younger than 45. We have an awful food supply that's been sprayed with Round-Up, we're bombarded with fast food and sugar every day of our lives, new moms are stressed beyond belief, and people are getting sicker much younger. Doctors should already be aware of this and be willing to test. Bravo to this woman for fighting for her health, and standing up to the lab coats that all apparently think patients are stupid or hysterical.

[@creativegirl9710]

Most people eat shitty, It's called the Standard American Diet aka SAD. Grains are horrible for your health. Processed foods, GMO foods, Monsanto foods, Frankenfoods, you name it. Most people eat crap. It's no wonder there's an epidemic of cancer.

[@sarahcloer9261]

I agree its not like anyone would want to willingly go get a camera up their azz if they werent worried sick. Yeah, Im sure there are the very few hypocondriacs but if I was a doctor i couldn't live with myself if I turned someone away and later found out they had cancer and it progressed bc of me.

[@robinmcknight4459]

Exact thing thing happened to me. I was diagnosed a year ago at the age of 39 (originally told it was just “anxiety”) I have went through all of the radiation and chemo and surgery coming up in a few weeks. Definitely been the hardest year of my life but I have 3 young kids so we must push forward. Thank you for being an advocate and sharing your story. It’s so helpful to know we are not in this fight alone💜🙏🏻

[@trublu3483]

Did you have bleeding? I'm sorry to hear. Good luck.

[@cynthiacarlson6404]

Glad she advocated for herself. Too many women are treated with psych and psych is a symptom of a physical or spiritual or environmental issue. Physical should be carefully looked at and taken seriously

[@cindysackett4942]

I thought my bleeding was internal hemorrhoids but it ended up being colon and liver cancer. I've been receiving treatments for thirteen months and I always tell anyone new at the Cancer Center to never lose hope.

[@jessicagriffin5920]

Did you have red blood?

[@PacksMozart]

Red or Black blood?

[@130crowd]

Your doc is handling it differently (for others going forward) because YOU were brave and insistent. Many, many people have you to thank.

[@myrnajoven9339]

Thank you for sharing your story about colorectal cancer I’m on my therapy now and I’m hopeful that I can overcome this serious situation. God is Good!

[@faaque]

You need to be your own advocate when it comes to dealing with healthcare . I was in horrible pain . Got misdiagnosed by ER's twice in different ER's . I got referred to a colorectal specialist . He took one look at the "hemorrhoid's" within seconds of just looking . He said it was rectal cancer . Your pain is real . Sometimes you need to fight the system . It was stage 3 , had radiation and chemo and I am cancer free 2 years later .

[@dellchica2373]

Thank God❤

[@miac2382]

You didn't have to have surgery?

[@iotanb1772]

Very interesting… just so u know, im a 38 year old man & was told by most doctors to see a psychologist. In my opinion, theres only a small percentage of doctors that are still curious or care enough to investigate past a few blood tests. The sad truth is if they thought i was a celebrity or abundantly rich, they would of tried harder. no accountability for the common person.

[@EEA1981]

Oh my heart hurts for you and all you have gone through. Good for you for advocating! It is SO hard to face a medical professional and stand your ground like that. I was born with a very common heart defect and it rarely causes any discernible issues, especially in early to mid-life. I started having crazy arrhythmias, super fast heart rate (180’s just sitting still,) getting very short of breath, and palpitations. I spent more than a year seeing cardiologists and more often than not I heard, “it’s probably just stress, you’re too young (I’m now 41) you’re a busy mom of 3, do you drink a lot of coffee and have you tried meditating?” I KNEW it was more than that. I FINALLY found a cardiologist who really listened and went the extra mile with extensive and invasive testing. And finally, I learned what is really happening to my heart…it is failing. In exactly 4 weeks from today I will be undergoing full on open heart surgery to replace two severely leaking valves. I was so angry at first, thinking about all of the doctors who blew me off. But now I’m just grateful I will have the chance to see my kids grow up. Stay strong, you are a warrior! 🖤

[@cinemacritic2715]

And you are also a warrior!!! God wins. Many prayers.

[@dopeymark]

I went to the hospital on multiple occasions because of bleeding. I was told I wasn't bleeding enough to die and sent home. Two years later I was diagnosed with late-stage colorectal cancer. I just finished radiation and intravenous chemotherapy. Now I have to have a fairly dramatic surgery. I'm pretty angry it took two years for a proper diagnosis.

[@lzzygrl9ify]

How often did you bleed??

[@trublu3483]

Did you bleed often? And was it mostly liquid stool?

[@73cidalia]

Apparently, a lot of doctors think that 99% of women’s problems are psychological. 🙄 It seems nothing’s changed. Even the word “hysterical” comes from the Greek “hystero” for “uterus” (think “hysterectomy”). Apparently, we’re mostly crazy hypochondriacs.

[@TheresaLourens]

Totally true.

[@RR-ss7dn]

I’m praying for complete healing!

[@SuperAngelic5]

I had abdominal pain 3 months ago. It was a sharp pain just above the appendix. Went to urgent care and the doctor did not know what it was. Went to my primary care, and she did not know what it was. The pain went away but I decided to go to the GI doctor anyway. He immediately ordered a CT scan and it showed a tumor. It was cancer. I am having surgery in two weeks. I am so glad that I kept pressing for answers.. Please do not ignore symptoms. Do not accept it when they pass it off as anxiety.

[@sarahcloer9261]

What kind of cancer? Prayers to you.

[@SuperAngelic5]

@sarahcloer9261 I appreciate then prayers . They said it is an endocrine type tumor.

[@PacksMozart]

​​@@SuperAngelic5do you had the pain just before stool or permanent?

[@SuperAngelic5]

@@PacksMozart I just noticed your comment. The pain was always there for about three weeks. Then it just stopped hurting. It was a neuroendocrine tumor, stage 3. They removed it, and my last PET scan was clear.

[@Ghetto-toaster22]

@@SuperAngelic5after trying almost 3 years i finally gave up. A few weeks ago I decided to see a new doctor and they immediately said i needed an colonoscopy which i am having in 2 weeks. My symptoms are extreme fatigue, extreme constipation, occasional blood in stool and hip and back pain, mainly hips though. I have many other symptoms but prolly not related tho lol. I have has some strong stomach pains, like i was being stabbed. But prolly bc of the constipation tbh. How was your surgery? And i hope you are doing good!

[@oberhasligoatfarm3085]

They told me my 14 year old daughter had anxiety and that’s why she was showing TORETTS like symptoms. Turns out her vertebrate that connects to the skull was out of place.

[@carrierobinson4206]

So glad you pushed to get the colonoscopy. I am so annoyed when doctors shrug things off especially because some of us pay a lot of money for health insurance.

[@miac2382]

I think a colonoscopy is like 1,000 dollars. If people want to get it they should be able too. Especially if they have able normal stools for a long time and blood.

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

My little cousin died at 24 years old. She was overweight up until about age 20 she suddenly thinned down-we thought she was working out…she thought it was from exercise too. In January 2014, she was rushed to the hospital due to extreme abdominal pain. They thought her ovaries were the issue…opened her up and found cancer everywhere in her pelvic area…gave her 6 months-she lived 11 months 11-28-14. The doctors think she had cancer for years. Maybe even was born with it. Trust your instincts💙!

[@Voluntarists]

All of this is caused by diet. Stop blaming god.

[@Voluntarists]

@@KatherineLaura6564 cancer is caused by humans, not genetics. Genetics heal cancer. You are still blaming God. It's not my God.

[@thothkemet-lv8wq]

Most doctors will tell you that cancer cells exist in everyone. The immune system gets rid of it daily. The mystery is why the immune system misses sometimes.

[@SilVia-hs2kb]

@@Voluntarists how do explain Babies having cancer? 🤡

[@Voluntarists]

@@SilVia-hs2kb the damage is cumulative on dna..

[@Blueberries-447]

I’ve been having signs of anxiety and coming across this video actually just made my anxiety worse but it’s nice to share your experience that doctors are not always right, and always do daily check ups your doctor

[@lj9524]

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Too many women get blown off by physicians. I too am a cancer survivor. You are a survivor who has been through hell and back again. ❤️

[@GuiLOST-lz8su]

Why you just thing jist woman get underdiagnosticated?? Men have more cancer than woman and most later diag

[@ddramos7997]

I'm so glad you advocated hard for yourself, and everything worked out so well in the end. God bless you and your beautiful family. Attn everyone: NEVER allow any doctor to use that "It's just so unlikely..." line on you to get rid of you without seriously addressing your concerns! So many people have ended up dead because of that. Follow your gut, and stand strong until they follow through. A "You were right" or "I'm sorry I was wrong" when it's too late for you to survive is criminal!

[@beverlyhoward3512]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@vincentkosik403]

Same woth my Sister...she had colon cancer and the initial Doctor didnt think it was serious illness...afterwards she had a screening and it was advanced ....she passed away after a long treatment...very painful...breaks my heart to hear storys like yours....God Bless and prays for your recovery

[@LudiCrust.]

Same thing happened to me at age 37. It took me going to see a Jordanian GI doctor out of network that had just started practicing after emigrating here to give me a colonoscopy. He told me he’s been seeing it in younger people overseas for years & that doctors here need to start looking for it. This all happened in 2018 so hopefully it’s starting to change. Imo I think the driving environmental factor causing this is either PFAS and/or plastics. Bottled water is transported in hot trailers which releases microscopic pieces of plastic into the water.

[@yaelWolfebaz]

I’ve been thinking it’s plastic and PFAHS for years too, just intuition

[@colleensmith3374]

Thank you for sharing this info re: your journey. Advocacy is so key. Great job. I lost my mother to colon cancer in 1990. Had my 1st colonoscopy at 33 after my 1st child was born. Since then I've had 4 or 5. I did fight with the last one when they wanted to go out to 5 years. I am 56 now, the same age the mother died. I have 3 college age sons and tell them how important taking charge of your health. No one cares about your health the most except you! So many folks are getting colon cancer earlier? Best to you and continued good health.

[@TicTacMI]

Thank you for the stories of colon cancer patients-I’m 28 and having a colonoscopy in a few weeks since I’ve had some drastic changes in my habits and pain. Hoping for IBD over cancer, but I like to be prepared for the worst

[@ThePatientStory]

We're thinking about you here at The Patient Story! Thank you sharing your story

[@catherinebiermann7940]

I wonder how many of these doctors ever apologize for being wrong, and dismissing patients’ concern.

[@dekjules32]

Praying for a good outcome for you. So glad you are going in.

[@dutchgirlfarida]

I need an colonoscopy as well am 30

[@DQ_Mine]

​@@dutchgirlfarida Good luck. If you can, bring a supportive person with you.

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

What a lesson. Always listen to your body. It speaks. Sometimes it YELLS.

[@TH-xx9cn]

Exactly Amy, so many stories of "your too young" etc. Instead the professionals need to listen & stop down playing it. God bless you 💛 and thank you for sharing your story.

[@anitagurns9480]

Good for you! You stuck up for yourself! You have to! I went through same thing! I had cancer too. You helped so many people sharing this!! Blessings to you!!!

[@boomeradvocate]

Thank you so very much for sharing your story!! I am in midst of GI testing to determine cancer or not. On my 3rd gastro doctor (others during Covid and dismissed all symptoms). My 3rd Colonosopy is in 10 days, but it's been 3 yrs since last one. Your message has given me strength 💪 to advocate for my health. Ty 💗

[@vivaciousom5347]

How are you doing? I hope you are well.

[@kristenarndt9015]

Everything come back okay?

[@peterbland7227]

Thank you for your story. My mother died of colon cancer in 1993 after a five year illness. I’ve been getting regular colonoscopies since then. There are 9 children in our family, and every one of us that got colonoscopies had pre-cancerous polyps.

[@EmilyHaysisabutterfly]

I did 23 and me because I carry the colon cancer gene. At 46 I had 6 polyps removed. One was very big. I never would have pushed for the colonoscopy if it wasn't for the DNA test.

[@chukchee]

That is so brutal...I send hope to everyone who has to go through cancer....

[@cherrypie3942]

Thanks for your concern/prayers for everyone 😅

[@colleenwilliams1452]

You are right. Women do know their bodies. I have a lung condition and I can tell in minutes if I am getting an infection.

[@melz6019]

My dad died from colon cancer at 63. After he died, his sister had a colonoscopy and it was discovered she had early stages of colon cancer. I then found out through obtaining death certificates that my dad’s mom died from colon cancer, as did her sister. I’m terrified now and know I need to have a colonoscopy.

[@MrJamiez]

Family is cursed bro

[@speaktruth9313]

What doctor would refuse to give a colonoscopy at patient request..and she had malaise,weight loss ,change in bowel habits, rectal bleeding, ,family history of colon cancer…..sometimes I think these docs need to be investigated and replaced by a computer for diagnosing. So tired of this…my adrenal tumor was 6 cms till another doc found it.

[@seasidepaper]

I had colon cancer stage 3 b - went through surgery and chemo but now for the one year follow up which should have been done in October 2022 - I can't get a CT scan scheduled. It's been 6 months on a wait list. I'm in British Columbia Canada , so I'm going go to a private clinic to have my annual CT scan done at a cost of +1500. Im tired of waiting with scan anxiety.

[@Rombizio]

I am glad I left that shithole of a country years ago otherwise I would be dead. Canada's health care sucks balls. Get out if you can.

[@lindahill9215]

I'm just starting this journey, if you want to call it that. I have been passed around by 4 doctors now. You have to fight for test. You know your body😊

[@theresaakins2317]

If the doctors would have listened to you and not ignored you, you might have had 1st stage: cancer to be corrected and I am very sorry that you had to go through all that. You are a very smart and brave lady.

[@svaught1]

I am so sorry you had to fight to get what you needed. I'm glad you are doing well. Hugs.

[@tranquility9325]

Imagine the numbers of women who lost their lives due to being dismissed.

[@alleyoop5185]

Only women? Why wouldn’t men be included also?

[@notmyrealaccount8564]

@@alleyoop5185 Women are more likely to be dismissed though which is what the video is about. I am not a woman but get dismissed for other reasons that make them think I am not a reliable witness to my own body. It’s sad and ridiculous but being a woman means doctors don’t believe you and probably the only reason I’m alive today is because I’m not a woman. I have been so close to dying from problems caused by doctors who kept dismissing me until someone by chance discovered what was wrong at the last second. Something that would not have happened if they had any other reason not to bother trying to find out what was happening because they presumed I was just anxious or was exaggerating and not worthy of further investigation or testing.

[@GuiLOST-lz8su]

Why just women?? Women live lomgee better than man misogenic your speecg

[@GuiLOST-lz8su]

​@@notmyrealaccount8564 Nooo they arent woman go much more to hospital cara than man Males die 10 years younger than male and 90% males deaths in violence suicide and drugs orverdose you should educate yourself

[@BrianJuntunen]

I'm glad to hear that you were able to be treated successfully.

[@JJ-5145]

My best friend doing amazing so proud of her

[@BLFulle]

I've had 3 types of cancer in 13 years,. The breast cancer has come back twice and it looks like it's back again. That's 5 battles with cancer. Each time I was told there was nothing wrong with me. I had to fight to have basic tests done. When they removed my first cancer (thyroid cancer) the mass was the size of a racquetball. All along they kept telling me my numbers showed nothing. I finally had an allergy doctor tell me he felt it was thyroid cancer. It was because of him I finally got a biopsy. Same thing happened with the breast cancer the second time. I was being seen at what's considered to be the best hospital in the world. You must fight! If you know something is wrong don't give up. Get second and third opinions. Research, present your case. Don't let them put you off until it's too late.

[@mycharmedunicorn8715]

If I ever get breast cancer they will both be removed. Everyone I know gets breast cancer back with a vengeance and it kills them

[@annairwin8147]

I’m waiting to see if I have colon cancer and I’m 75…..had five polyps removed…I’m very scared but I know that God has me I had this done last Tuesday. God bless you and everyone here🙏🙏..I’m an old lady but I know what an eye opener for all of you young people🙏🙏..No family history

[@50toinfinityatleast]

Did you find out your results? I hope everything is OK.

[@givenfirstnamefamilyfirstn3935]

Only 5 polyps is great for your age, everybody grows them in the end. It doesn’t _mean_ cancer and Bowel Ca grows slooow anyway so fingers crossed you’ll be fine. ❤

[@annairwin8147]

@@givenfirstnamefamilyfirstn3935 Thank you and Thank the Precious Lord they were not cancer

[@javixavalier4456]

I got a colonoscopy in November because was suffering weird symptoms. I’m 26 so some would think that my doctor was hesitant about a colonoscopy since I’m young. My doctor is Asian (don’t know if this matters) but he quickly wanted me to get a colonoscopy as he explained it’s the absolute best way to diagnose something by finding or excluding possibilities. Everything came back fine and am now being treated for a deep anal fissure.

[@unknownthetruth4895]

What were your symptoms ?

[@LamHoang-cz6cr]

It’s funny but when i was in Vietnam, they would do any test needed to find the issue IMMEDIATELY. But when I came to Canada, all I got is blood test and “you are young, everything will be fine, just your anxiety”. Back at my home, they never ever blame anxiety for physical problems without further test

[@marylovesss]

Ughhh! It quite literally pisses me off that your doctor brushed you off, due to “anxiety”.😡😤 I suffered for years, I was told it was anxiety, it was all in my head, over and over and over again, so I quit complaining. On one normal routine pap exam, a young P.A. at my OB/GYN clinic did a panel of labs and sure enough, I had been feeling sick, because I was sick, I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease. When NO ONE LISTENED TO ME, because I was “too young”. You’re a rockstar! 🎉 I’m glad that he’s learned from you. No one deserves that, we know our bodies. ❤

[@ew7512]

Nothing grinds my gears more than doctors dismissing women as anxious. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@crocadoodle7101]

Amy you are very well spoken and shared great information. As well, you have shown much grace to the various doctors.

[@ketovida7250]

My dad had a CT scan which showed nothing wrong, then had a colonoscopy 2 weeks later and a big tumor was found on his sigmoid colon. Yes c having a colonoscopy is very important.

[@sti302man]

I’m glad you said this. Because I just had a ct scan for this same issue and it has come back negative. Now I’m going push for a colonoscopy!! Thank you. !!

[@zacsborntorunrunningadvent3441]

Wow that just shows its important to get the colonoscopy!

[@trublu3483]

Was he showing signs of fatigue or bleeding? Was his stool always liquid or narrow when hard?

[@ketovida7250]

@@trublu3483 No fatigue or blood in the stool (that he could see). The only change was the consistency of the stools as it wasn’t as formed and smaller in size. He kept complaining of a feeling of something obstructing his bowel and he was so right. I’m so glad his doctor listened.

[@maryguillen5421]

I relate to you, after 3 years of feeling sick having symptoms and going from 3 different doctors having all sorts of bloodwork and nothing but you are told it's depression, hormonal changes, and yet my mammograms come out normal. My primary recommended compounded progesterone, well that just accelerated things as I had fibroid in my right ovary and was experiencing breast pain off and on for 2 years my ob/gyn recommended supplements for the pain. I told my primary that he should refer me to an oncologist prior to taking the progesterone and he said it was my hormones causing my symptoms. Well I was diagnosed with breast cancer that had metastasis to my uterus, had a total hysterectomy. Had low dose chemo plus took oral chemo as well. I did it in 2016 and 2019 but I decided I don't want anymore chemo or oral. I'm doing holistic changes by diet, juicing, doing mindset affirmations, rebounding, supplements and other things as well. Stay away from sugar it feeds the cancer. Knowledge is power educate yourself. Most importantly the power of prayer and Faith. 🙏

[@jojoFranklin]

Such an inspiring woman. Thank you for sharing your story and your determination for self-advocacy. Life saving messages.

[@ThePatientStory]

Thank you watching!

[@ThapsieT]

Thank you very much appreciated 🙏

[@kennyh5083]

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[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

I think women are always told it’s just our feelings and in our head. My grandmother died at 44 and I never met her. I want to have one but while some insurance companies say family history says 35, others ignore family history and tell you to wait until 45 (in other words after my grandmother died).

[@elizabethc3842]

Stomp your feet, get on the phone with your insurance, as for a patient advocate, yes the insurance does have those and you have a right to one... push like your life depends on it

[@shannonbloebaum4164]

My mom and grandma died from colon cancer and people are getting this at such a much younger age so please get checked and do not let your dr give you the run around!

[@sanddollar252]

I did a Cologuard fecal test months ago that came back positive for Colorectal Cancer. I’ve also had pain, bleeding, etc for six months. Unfortunately, I have been refused a Colonoscopy, and I’m 63 years old.

[@jesswinnett9186]

Please keep pushing. Go to another doctor or hospital. Praying for you! 🙏🏼💕

[@Mimi-fe2gm]

Always go with your gut!!! We know ourselves better than anyone... stand up for yourself and hope and pray it's nothing. ❤ xo

[@donna3465]

Shame on the medical professionals for dropping the ball BIG TIME. If I were a doctor, the very first thing I would check for would be cancer. This is inexcusable.

[@givenfirstnamefamilyfirstn3935]

Gee you would make a first class _shaman,_ you have wisdom without learning.

[@ericablaschke3497]

Doctors are good at that not taking you seriously and blaming on anxiety. Mental health and psychosomatic people who work in mental health and medical providers believe people who have a psychiatric history are being psychosomatic stigma stigma. I work in psych for 15 years it happens too often. Trust your gut you know your body fight don’t listen to them. If you have a psych history don’t share with providers because all they see is psych most doctors won’t take you seriously and attribute it to psych. Not everyone but a lot. Stigma is in our healthcare system and needs to stop

[@sandilobianco6734]

Erica, Primary care doctors now give the mental health test by Pfizer. My friend + I filled it out. We were both offered psych meds. The tests asks if you are very tired and do we sleep a lot. which could be a physical symptom of something.

[@ericablaschke3497]

@@sandilobianco6734 that’s why I don’t bring up mental health symptoms and if they ask about depression I lie. The pcp I have now is better than ones I had in the past. He is knowledgeable and he listens. He doesn’t dismiss you. He probably wouldn’t subscribe meds he would probably send me a referral to psychiatrist since that is not his realm of expertise. I don’t take psych meds. Over the years I have learned they just cause me problems. They make me anxious I make mistakes or I’m so zoned out or feel absolutely nothing. I just find other ways to cope; uplifting music, going to the gym, keeping busy having structure; work is good for me, I like most of my coworkers and they like me, I like the patient population. I get depressed and upset around my toxic family, have high functioning autism and trauma very isolated when not at work. My cat is comforting as well and being around children. My mom takes loads of psych meds for her mental illness, she has tardive dyskinesia. She tried to drug me as a teen with these drugs. I was called the crazy girl for taking these drugs. Since I’ve stayed away I have not had not had to be hospitalized in years. I work on a psych unit and don’t care for psych and the lack of real treatment patients are given just drugs no therapy or skills group, just rec therapy groups instead, little pay, high stress, some populations dangerous, little staff with high acuity.

[@d011p4rtz]

been dealing with chronic stomach issues and nausea for the last 12 years since I started college at the age of 19; have spent so much time being gaslit and ignored by doctors telling me I'm too young, nothing's wrong, this that and the other...I gave up a long time ago because I got tired of all the procedures, being poked and prodded and ignored..I stopped going entirely. I'm on state insurance and they only cover so much and have a really long waiting list..at this point, I just hope I live long enough to see my daughter grow up into the person she's meant to be...

[@amysuhy3550]

Nobody’s life span should depend on how much insurance they have! I’m so sorry and this needs to change! Yesterday!!! Your in my prayers!!!

[@shortcakecanadiangirl4722]

So many Doctors pas off symptoms; it’s your diet: your sleep; whatever. You always need to advocate for yourself and don’t take NO for an answer! They follow standard protocols and if bloodwork is good they immediately think great no problems. They don’t do enough screening , early enough or frequently all because of $. It’s sad. I would gladly pay however that may upset those that can’t afford to.I’m glad you got in in the week. I know of many waiting weeks for CT/MRI and surgery.

[@tinaboyd7574]

Thank you for this! I am in chronic pain, judt had a CT Scan with contrast. Now I need to push for a colonoscopy.

[@pamelcakes04]

I have lynch too and have been feeling yucky for like 2 years. I am hoping it's not something but the doctors l see, seem to all gaslight me and tell me that its all depression and anxiety or me being overweight. I weigh 219 pounds and have always been heavier. I need help and its starting to weigh on me. 😢

[@anniewilkins2620]

God bless you and your family. You are a beautiful person. Thank goodness you pushed for it. Stay blessed young lady 🙏 ❤

[@kimglass4851]

Had colorectal cancer in 2016 almost stage 4 at age 48,,,,I had been losing weight and had horrible stomach pain....dr sent me for a CT scan and didnt hear back until 2 weeks when the dr called and said he set me up with a surgeon....I asked what for and he went silent....then he asks me if anyone had called me with my results and I said no.... he then blurts out that I had cancer, I went through hell and even though Im still alive, the side effects have been horrible and continue to be horrible. almost 7 yrs later. Not sure if I would go through that again if it does come back....maybe I should have kept the colostomy bag.

[@vancekershaw6876]

I hope you feel better soon and my heart goes out to you and I'm sending healing prayers for you

[@aonayemi1]

Keep following your instincts.

[@Trogdor1365]

I've lost 3 aunts and 2 female cousin to lynch-related cancer. And multiple female cousins who have had cancer and tested positive for lynch syndrome.

[@jessiedoggie1942]

It can happen suddenly as it did for my wife on Valentine's Day 2013 when she woke me up in the middle of the night and told me that she had excruciating pain in her abdomen. We went to our local hospital's ER where they did a CT scan, found a mass in her pelvis, and transferred her to another hospital for surgery. By the end of that day they had removed a tumor at her ileocecal valve and did a double shotgun resection. It was stage 3b and she started FOLFOX chemo soon afterward and stayed on it for 6 months except that she stopped the platinum drug after 4 months due to increasing neuropathy. CT scans were negative for years afterward and eventually stopped. She still has the neuropathy in her toes but no other issues. Prior to the Valentine's Day event she had no symptoms at all But since the tumor was in the ileum which is much smaller diameter than the colon, it must have gotten totally blocked and caused the pain. Unusual I think for colon cancer to present at that site.

[@piyushdharmadhikari7959]

Your Brother from India. Hope you are feeling better now sister. Thanks for the video. I am also 47 and patient of IBS. Will go for colonoscopy very soon.

[@c.c.6930]

This is a very nice comment.I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you, Brother..

[@piyushdharmadhikari7959]

Please take care sister. I just lost my job on 28th March 2023. Hope will find another soon. Keep up the spirits high for yourself and others as well. Give my regards to your family. Namaste.

[@ellensoucek1914]

Colonoscopies shouldn't be age-related. Blood in the stool, as well as other symptoms, should be enough to facilitate a screening. Good for you for being your own advocate.

[@cathyholt5215]

Good for you girl!!❤

[@lyndalou2892]

Thank you so much for this very powerful and informative video. Blessings to you on your healing journey ! 🌅🌅🌅

[@Bugsy0333]

You are an inspiration to all thank you for sharing this it has been very informative You are amazing !

[@Shackbanshee]

Oh my god. I'm so lucky I got my colonoscopy (I'm 35) after bleeding. Turns out it was mild proctitis, treatable, and I'm doing much better! I attribute some of my fast care to my asshole attitude. After having pain he dismissed in the past as anxiety (ended up hospitalized with meningitis), I have learned to be kind but pushy.

[@dehelwig]

Reminder to be empowered: If you know something is wrong health-wise and you feel your medical team isn't listening to you, not providing adequate medical care/testing and rushing your appointments...BE YOUR OWN ADVOCATE AND DEMAND ADEQUATE CARE. It's okay to be "that patient" who is aggressive, demanding, or is called "difficult" by actual medical personnel. If you ask for testing and are denied for any reason, get it in writing that you were denied. Because nobody, including your medical "care" team, cares more about your health than you do. Call out bad care and get second, third opinions...it's okay because it's YOUR LIFE. Stop being polite and start expecting medical care teams to do their jobs.

[@preese100]

Thank you sis....good information and video extremely helpful!

[@christieleonard4359]

I just found out. My mental health definitely got in the way. I knew something was wrong. Didn't know it would be cancer. Should have cause the last few years my dad has been in to get precancerous polyps removed & had a bowel resection early this year. Bleeding was always dismissed for hemorrhoids. The doctor talked to my husband & said he would call later in the day. That was the 27th & this is now Halloween. I've got so many questions & concerns. I'm 47, scared & alone.

[@sawdust2556]

❤❤❤ Thank you for teaching us. Take care.🙏🏻💕

[@naturegirl5681]

The Gastro dr told me I just had a colonoscopy 4 years ago and cancer doesn’t grow that fast. I too was bleeding and he said that was probably a hemorrhoids said I’m bleeding and I need a colonoscopy. He did it and when he came out afterwards with eyeballs the size of silver dollars. He said you have a cancerous tumor the size of a plum and we need to schedule you for a sigmoidectomy immediately. They got it all with robotics and they got it all. Thank the Lord. Today you have to advocate for yourself.

[@HudsonChalmers]

My GP told me it was piles, he did the finger and glove test. As did you I got fed up and told him to send me for a Colonoscopy. I was Stage 3a.

[@elizabethmcleod246]

😯

[@JDMimeTHEFIRST]

Doctors have to do continuing education so even older doctors have no excuses for not knowing updated criteria.

[@scottjackson163]

This is a horror story. I’m 64 and about to get my 2nd colonoscopy. So sorry that this has happened to you. Anybody would want you as a mom.

[@cindyhouston6789]

Amen! Praying for you.

[@slowrunner40]

Can you share the treatment you did? My sister passed away from it and she tried to get a colonoscopy and her doctor refused for 10 years. When she finally got it the tumour was through the wall. She fought for 3!years. Now I am concerned as we have that history as well as my sister has crohn’s and now my young 23 year old dd daughter is having major IBS. So I should look at the genetic testing. As soon as my sister was diagnosed they also found it in her ovary as well. My gyno immediately scheduled me to have my ovaries removed and I was 56. Now they only want to do composing me every 10 years even with my history. So I am going in to the doctor to find out what I can do about that.

[@katytaylor681]

Very interesting, thank you and wishing you the best of luck.

[@ddflower7]

Sorry this happened to you. I hope you will invitecjesus as your savior. Hope the best for you and healing and many years.

[@steinbauge4591]

Here (Norway) you can get a colonoscopy at a private clinic for 5-600 $. Its good to remember that it is a procedure with a certain risk. I wanted my doc to put me on the list for one but he did not think I had enough symptoms, and he was right. I had a sluggish digestion from poor hydration and irregular sleep.

[@Truecrimebabe]

Is that true for non citizens? Like if I could do that while being there on vacation.

[@matthewthomasjames]

I’m glad you mentioned the risk factors. Not everyone needs to be running in for colonoscopies because of these risks. I have ulcerative colitis and I detest getting them. I’ve had terrible reactions from the anesthesia. Have also heard that dormant tumor cells can break off during a colonoscopy and spread to other areas. Still, it is unfortunately the best way of detecting a tumor in the colon.

[@overton1963]

Prayers for you.

[@DaRyteJuan]

It’s so weird. The patients who _don’t want_ a dang colonoscopy, they pressure us to get one. The patients who _need_ a colonoscopy can’t get one.

[@23VMB]

You are a warrior! Thank you for your wise words. May the universe shine it’s light on you and yours

[@skdkskdk]

Living in Europe I'm experiencing public healthcare disintegrating, some places faster, some places slower, and getting anything else than an X-Ray is getting tougher, colonoscopy? No way Jose!

[@Chahlie]

In Canada as well. I'm lucky enough to have a GP but it's hard to get an appointment and when you do get one he doesn't have time to even lay hands on you. Broken legs and so on are fine, but anything internal you will die here. Luckily we can see our bloodwork online if we can get someone to even order it. I've been waiting over a year for an ultrasound for stomach pain. And I'm a kidney donor.

[@elizabethmcleod246]

@@Chahlie Are you in BC? I was left to die there with a severely pinched groin nerve. I got the surgery I needed because I hired a registered nurse consultant. No doctor I saw in BC would help me even though they said they would.

[@deniseadams1703]

I’m in the UK but I must be registered with a really good GP surgery. Yes, have to have a telephone discussion first but then face to face appointments when necessary. I developed an autoimmune disease eighteen months ago and I cannot fault my treatment. Recently I had to be referred for a pelvic scan which was done within fifteen days and I have received an appointment for an unrelated problem from the hospital within three weeks. Neither of these appointments were arranged under the two week rule for cancer concerns just issues with my adrenal glands not kicking back in after tapering off steroids.

[@followyourdreams8673]

I’m terrified to go to the doctor again because they just roll their eyes and say it’s just your anxiety. My poor stomach is so sore after eight months and I want a second opinion but that is like getting a winning lottery ticket. I just live with it because I don’t want them to label me anxious any more.