HOW I FIXED MY LIFE | from broken to limitless

[@ljclay02]

“Work hard in silence, let your success be your noise” ~ Kim 🔥🔥🔥

[@valencia9981]

Frank Ocean, actually.

[@Gracieinspired]

I’m pretty sure this saying was around before Frank Ocean popularized it. My African dad used to say this and other African proverbs to me and my siblings all the time when we kids, and I’m 37. I’m glad he introduced this concept to a younger generation though.

[@valencia9981]

@@Gracieinspired anything is possible, quotes I have seen credits him🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Debtanz49]

You are a gem for every young woman and man. And even to a mature person like me. Your story is amazing. You seem to have made huge strides which would probably have occurred just with growth, but you really put bells and whistles on the journey! Just awesome. I’d love to hear your journey on your academic successes and your views on managing money! So sorry for the wounds you carried so many years! But grateful to God you learned how to cope and then some more! Blessings in your amazing future beloved! You have a lot to give. Don’t stop telling your story! I’m sure it was very motivating for so many to make changes in their lives. Blessings..😃😃😃😃🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@taradavis5970]

Took me awhile to learn and adopt this principle but I got it.

[@QueenZWhoProsper]

"...nobody is coming to save you." Period. True accountability. I appreciate you for this🙏🏾💙🙏🏾

[@wendypowell4630]

The "set goals and shut up" hit me so different. I have always felt like I do so well with my goal progression until the moment I start sharing small successes with everyone and trying to pull people along with me. This happens in so many instances, such as your weight loss journey, business goals, savings... I swear... it happens all the time. I said the next time I diet, I will keep it to myself. Thank you so much for the confirmation of my thought process on this.

[@sabren81]

Yesss! I do so well, then I share the progress and it goes downhill.

[@Brownmahfun]

I do not understand WHY people have to be like that to other people, its SICK.

[@gina85girl]

Same with me, I always say I will do something and it never gets done

[@ms.r1271]

“Life was doing me, now I’m doing life” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾That was right on time!!

[@reneiswatching]

I have quietly watched you for many years. Just wanted to thank you for sharing your personal journey to happiness❤️

[@TamikaTheCreative]

Same. She's opening up after all these years. Happy for her.

[@Luminousone_624]

Same here. So relatable.

[@Vickiepickles1974]

Same. Thank you for sharing Kim. Completely relatable.

[@nataliewalker9192]

Same!! This was really nice!!! So relatable. I have to admit I came in to be nosy, when she said that I was like, dang…she didn’t have to call me out like that…😅lol but the tips are so on point and perfect timing!!! I literally told myself, driving to work…”nobody is going to save you, it’s time”

[@kimberlycampbell1142]

Thank-you Kim!

[@jacklinerabongo5367]

"You can not talk big dreams with small minds," That was powerful 🙌🏽

[@krbk26]

Yesssssss

[@griefonline4139]

Awesome tips Kim! As a Therapist/Coach, I always tell my clients that change requires change. If you want something different you have to DO something different. We are to be transformed by the renewing of our minds- Romans 12:2. The walls that we build to keep out pain also block us from experiencing joy. It's time to begin to tear down those walls and start living an authentic life... in peace :) Gratitude is key!!!

[@paulalewis567]

Wow! I love your comment! Spoken like a true believer & professional! Just by words, it’s easy to say you are probably an awesome therapist/coach! ❤

[@sakinamaria6211]

I would love to speak with you.

[@griefonline4139]

@@paulalewis567 Thanks :)

[@Joy_LaFaye]

Yaaas!!! Come on now!! This was so good!! 🔥🔥🔥

[@tomikaashanti2244]

Do you have a website??

[@Ashley-og9ti]

Feeling like an outcast/just somehow never 'fitting in' is SO relatable, the entire experience honestly. It's surreal how even when you feel so alone you never really are.. 💛

[@msdyamonddiva]

🗣Sis!!! When I tell you I needed to hear this LOUD & CLEAR right now… I know this was nothing by GOD and HIS timing. Thank you so much Kim with tears in my eyes. So many similarities in life and mindset and needing to make the major shift. There is so much here for me to unpack mentally, emotionally and spiritually! I will speak so much of this “pouring into others” while not actively elevating myself. And I know better. Thank you for the reality check. I just cashed it in… starting today 5.7.23. With love and gratitude! ❤️ GOD bless you and anyone else who needed this right now. 😌

[@thechicnatural]

Bless you dear ❤️ The first step is having the awareness to know you need to make a change. You are halfway there, keep going, great things will unfold for you!

[@stacylawson488]

I was 6 minutes into the video and had to stop. By the time I was 21 my Mother had passed away and my father was already re-married with another family. I was angry about my Mother passing away so young and the same year she passed I got pregnant with my first child. I have never really leaned on my family financially and I wish sometimes I had. I just walked into my kitchen and told my daughter that you so eloquently were speaking to my life. As TheBossyChickSix14 stated I NEEDED to hear this today 5/9/2023. I have dedicated my young years to husband(s) yes plural and family and my children often times putting myself last. Now I sit and wonder where has my life been and where am I going? But God, after listening to you so many things have been made clear, like a light finally turned on!!! Thank you for being so vulnerable and willing to share your story! God's continued Love and Blessings for you and your family and to those others that need to hear your story.

[@naturalgalwilliams]

Hello friend. I’m trying to keep positive and need my dosage in the Word and positive people. Many blessings. OneLove ❣️

[@j.robinson1130]

Praise him Sis He with you sweetheart!!!! 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

[@laralee7769]

@@thechicnatural Hi can you link the hair you used in your braids please

[@belindamarie3222]

I'm 69 yrs young and have debilitating anxiety and I have an adult child with mental illness who drains me emotionally but I'm committed to being there for her as we only have each other as family. What you said about anxiety and gratitude not being able to co-exist.. and if you make a point of acknowledging gratitude several times a day it will combat/counteract your anxiety. This tip is powerful to me and I am going to practice it. Thank you for sharing. Your pass experiences have made you a wise young woman. Negative turned into positive. That's awesome👏🏾👍🏾

[@eboni257]

❤❤❤ praying for you 🙏🏿

[@ShanajayeandEric]

I’m in my 40s and I’m still “growing” and do things differently…this was so inspiring! Thank you.

[@midheaven_mimi]

Same! It’s never too late!

[@mindfulpositivity]

Same here, definitely an ongoing process.

[@aliciajones8672]

Turning 40 next week and this video was such a confirmation for me.

[@hunnybutta9]

Same sis!

[@Spiritualgrowth1982]

Turned 41 May 13 . I'm great full that om not the only one.

[@jobenren]

"Work hard in silence. Let your success be your noise." Love it!

[@annawisniewska4365]

As for point 3 ... You wonder how you can be like the guy who opened the door for you... This video is you being like this guy. You used to hide behind "the wall" out od fear of being hurt, you avoided sharing the "deeper" info about your life, you have been on social media long enough to know that you can get hate for even a make up video. Still you decided to be vulnerable, you decided to share things which weren't easy for you, because you know this video could help someone. I can feel the warmth, positive vibes and honesty in you. You don't have to TRY to be like the door guy, you ARE the door guy. Thank you for this video

[@thechicnatural]

I swear you just warmed my heart. I actually had an internal debate on whether or not I should post this video, but something told me I just HAD to do it. I truly want to help people and I'm so glad you guys are receiving it how I intended it to come across. Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

[@MsTaLaiah]

This is such beautiful comment 🥺

[@lifewithangelina92]

@@thechicnatural I’m glad you shared and was vulnerable with us. I feel like I could relate and implement these things in my life.

[@dralicekoech]

As a coach I 💯 agree with you. Anger affects us in ways we can’t even imagine. Rewriting your script is the first step to mindset shift and growth. I few years ago, I made the decision to be 💯 responsible for my actions and my happiness. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@chiantibliss5846]

Could you please share your information? I just made similar statements to a friend last night. I have got to get it together!!!

[@Bossladylj]

THIS VIDEO NEEDS TO GO VIRAL!!!! ❤❤❤ As women, particularly AA women, we hold in a lot of our childhood and what we have been through and it all comes out in our behavior as an adult. Been there!!! I am a grown woman and I am still working on childhood trauma and drama. I can certainly relate to your video and YES I HAD TO STOP AND TAKE NOTES!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH. It is great to hear authentic advice from someone who has lived it and now is on the other side of being broken. LOVE THIS VIDEO!!!

[@Freedom1090]

This!!! We overlook how much childhood traumas translate into our adult life.

[@natashamason-walker2913]

@bossladylj YES to the whole video 🔥 and absolutely everything you said! I needed to see this, this morning!!

[@melw905]

I am 38 and currently learning these things. I have a hard time leaning on others when needed. I isolate myself a lot but have been healing and working on myself.

[@quaschaymonique5033]

This is very inspirational and definitely what I needed to hear bc I am going through a tough time. Hearing you’ve overcame everything that was meant to destroy you gives me so much hope.

[@lyliesasakwa562]

Sending you virtual hugs 🫂 one day at a time ❤

[@cholewilliams4006]

Same ❤

[@ltarleton7527]

This needs to be a TED TALK! 💛 Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing. Your growth is evident just in what you have shared.

[@kenishah.2041]

I definitely clicked on for many reasons - knowing that you are a private person- I knew this took a lot, so thank you! thank you so much for sharing your journey & your victory with us. So many gems in here-I need to re-watch to remind myself of them. Thank you again for sharing❤❤❤ ❤

[@KC-qr3wk]

1,000% agree with not forgiving everyone. Some things are not forgivable. All we NEED to do is reconcile, let it rest, and move on

[@MissJ74]

You’re right. Placing boundaries around your life against narcissist and toxic people is the best way to go. My life has improved tenfold since I been distancing myself from people that drain me.I thank God I have some accountability friends who we encourage, edify, pray and uplift each other ❤ Thanks for sharing 👍🏽

[@dooseabege]

So spot on, I was so “woe is me” and fell into depression and was always angry and a dark cloud a few years ago, but I decided to change my mindset and victim mentality and I’m doing a lot better now. I have a more positive approach towards life, it’s very far from perfect , whatever perfect is but I always look to the positive, I have my down days but i don’t let myself stay there , but in my sober reflection I’m amazed at how far I’ve come and how I’m so much more than that dark cloud I used to be . Thank you for reminding me of these vital lessons 🙏🏾❤️

[@Moli37]

Omg you made me cry. I’ve been through so much in my life as well. People have done me so wrong that now as an adult I feel alone. This was so helpful Kim. Thank you

[@jodeciluvah]

Please accept this hug.

[@ocnmind]

❤️❤️❤️

[@ladawnwarren8570]

I appreciate your testimony and transparency! I grew up in the foster care system, struggle to build friendships , was a loner as well. I don’t get along well with my 2 sisters only my younger brother. You shield so much insight and I’m still working on me, moved to a better area, in school, still growing! after falling out with sisters yet again 😫 so I’ve decided to be at peace with them ( Doing it for me) blocking them out of my life and focus on me. What you said forgiving isn’t always easy, you are so right!!!! being at peace, moving on I’m cool with! Thank you for sharing 💚💚

[@kamylahwillis6096]

“You cannot talk big dreams with small minds.” 👊🏾 I’m taking this. I am so glad that you posted this video. I pray that your life continues to get brighter! Thank you!

[@faithlynmckie1412]

I shared this video with my granddaughter who is a teenager trying to find herself. Thank you so much. Ran into this video at the right time.

[@ErikaDawn]

This definitely was for me today. I’ve been working over the last 3 years to just walk away from all the build up. The betrayal, feeling less than, an always upset. It’s crazy that I would be so mad but could be a listener to others and pour into them. Thankfully I’m now pouring into myself. Thank you for the video ❤❤❤❤

[@nikki5360]

This was Beautiful, I am now reworking myself again at my 47 year old age. My daughters are grown women I had 2 marriages that didn’t work and I was a young mom as well. Now I am really focusing on my inner self and the things that I want and need for Me. I can do that because my babies have the skills to take care of themselves. I can focus my energy on Self Care!

[@rekanova3757]

Love this for you ❤, I pray to be there soon as well

[@aprilmay4992]

You are amazing, so proud of you !!

[@Manifestyourlife1st]

I came back to this video, because of life changes, I just want you to know, you really helped raise my vibration, I am so grateful for you. God bless you.

[@eboni5125]

I’ve been following you for years after I left an abusive relationship myself. I’ve always loved and respected the fact you kept apart of your life private but, girl!!! You are far more relatable to me than I thought and I appreciate your honest transparency! Thank you! ❤

[@naturalstylesbyz3362]

Thank u i needed this. Sometimes i just want to end it all because of different situations i been thru but i keep going . As much as id hate for someone to treat me like im a victim, its worse for me to treat myself that way. I had to learn to grow from certain situations

[@brittmar538]

Hey, I’ve been watching you for years. I’m in my 30’s, and have been feeling this internal shift for a moment. I’m making steps to change. This video was insightful ❤

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Wow you don't give me angry vibes. You always seemed so polished and calm. I always felt like I didn't fit in either.

[@yvetteg.7443]

Your story is so inspiring to hear. I am a retired Family Crisis Therapist and I used to tell the families dealing with certain types of issues, not to allow their situations or their environments to define them. Set obtainable goals and do what you can to reach at least one of them. This includes a supportive support system of people. I am glad that you were able to turn things around and prosper. You are truly a blessing to those going through any type of situation. GOD Bless you! ❤

[@enkayar718]

Thank you for sharing! I'm in my early forties going on my deprogramming & reprogramming journey. Doing that while at rock bottom in life is tough, but I'm doing it and not looking back. We create our lives from our self-concepts and I'm committed to changing mine.

[@dawnrobinson2923]

@Kim, I don't know you personally, but let me say this, you are speaking to so many people, both young & old. Congratulations on your transparency with us. It shows and radiates through that beautiful smile and personality. Our stories are already written, and your light is shining, sister friend. Continue to grow and florish.

[@IdorenyinIbanga_]

Girl, I am dam proud of you listening to your story. Sending you love from Nigeria 🇳🇬

[@brandivaughan2467]

Kim, I’m so glad you decided to make this video. I felt the same as you growing up in terms of never feeling like I fit in and growing up in a single family household. I know in previous videos you mentioned Baltimore as your hometown. I’m also from Baltimore. I’ve tried so many things to upgrade my life such as going to college, getting my certifications, moving to multiple states trying to figure I where I belong, building my professional experience, etc. but it always seems like I come up short because those opportunities I went after just fell through. I feel like the economy is to blame. Things are so out of reach and so expensive nowadays; it’s so hard to build wealth, especially if you don’t have a talent, spouse, or resources to help you thrive. I feel like I did all the right things in my life. I went to school, I have a job, I never got in trouble with the law, I’m in good health, I have supportive family…all in all, I’m blessed, but I’m still struggling immensely! It’s hard out here in these streets! I just want to thank you for having the courage to be vulnerable on this platform. I feel you are extremely talented and have a lot to offer and I’m so glad you are sharing your story with us to elevate other people who may be having a hard time. Keep doing you and uplifting others! -Brandi

[@SugaRumBrown]

This!👏🏾💯

[@ksdkemp]

Oh wow, I can totally relate. I realize how blessed I am, yet I still feel so isolated and alone. 😒

[@territerri1234]

Internet hugs bc this comment right hur!❤

[@zakiyahmartin2696]

I like the fact you are opening about what you went through and I appreciate that because I’m going through it and I’m 24 and I’m just so angry at the world and I’m learning its really a process but thank you for this video

[@TheAPlusFamily]

I commend you for even allowing us into your world. Even though you shared the surface, everything you said was perfect! Even that alone can take a lot but I know you’ve helped many out there watching this. Your intentions are beautiful and wish you nothing but everything you want in life. This was great mama! Thanks for sharing ❤ Awesome tips 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@debvrabeckwith6567]

Thank you my sister for opening up and sharing with us , this is your TESTIMONY! I'm sure it has helped many. Including myself! We overcome by the words of our TESTIMONY!!!😊🙏💖

[@ieshaatkins6915]

Thechicnatural,this video made me cried, n how thankful it was for you open up about yourself and it was beautiful n we all understand circumstances and situations and you preach the entire thing to us and we highly appreciated you Kim and look where it got you, you never did quit or gave up on yourself because you believed in yourself and that’s girl power my big ups to you Kim, keep it up 👏 🙌Have a great Mother’s Day as well

[@thechicnatural]

thank you Iesha, I really appreciate your comment ❤️

[@nitaatkinson4707]

This is by far one of the best vids I’ve seen on KZbin

[@ghenety]

I'm so glad to have found such a positive person. I'm in the process of transformation, mentally, spiritually and physically. one step at a time. Thanks

[@MercadezMichelle]

Whewww what a Testimony! Especially when you spoke about pridefulness I had it bad, but at the same time I realized all I had was me because no one I knew was in a position to be a helping hand… I love this video thank you for sharing 🫶🏽

[@cherylhodge8650]

Life changer super powerful 33:19 message from your experiences to our ears. I hear total forgiveness in your heart that happens when you sit in the seat of understanding.

[@Simply_Me_AND]

Self audit, insight, self reflection is very very difficult. As humans, we don’t want to know nor see our flaws. But it is absolutely necessary in order to make life changes and one’s dysfunctional view of the world. I applaud you for sharing very personal challenges you’ve experienced and I’m amazed at the insight in spite of how those challenges shaped your views initially, but you found ways to change them for the better. You have successfully changed your path in life. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@howellareyouSHINE]

Sis, you just preached a WHOLE WORD! I love this! Thank you!

[@Minicarrotjuice]

I so needed this. Scared of big (but positive) life changes coming. Moving to a new state, trying to figure out student debt, still gotta go to grad school, helping bfs parents pay rent while I stay with them...I feel so inexperienced and worried. I grew up in a dysfunctional household and have been having some issues with trauma resurfacing. I keep saying my parents this, my parents that. I need to keep being reminded that yes things were crappy but I'm an adult and I'm responsible for me. I can fix myself and work through the trauma to start healing BUT I also have to stop with the momma and daddy blaming. Got dealt a crappy hand of cards but it's my job to win the game 🙌 Thank you ❤

[@TheNicoliyah]

You got this!

[@Eternal.Sunshine21]

I’m gonna be watching this video everyday for inspiration. That’s how much I am impacted right now ❤

[@lyanimoody6554]

Hey Kim 👋 excellent video! I am still learning to manage my anger issues due to trauma and things I endured in life and I'm 37 going on 38 next month. I stay in prayer and quiet time and relaxation days. Thank you for sharing your testimony if you will 😊 it takes a great deal of strength and courage and I can grateful for your tips very informative and helpful, so thank you you're doing an amazing job and this isn't flattery because I'm not that type of individual, this is just pure honesty. Thanks Kim 👍🏼 Shalom peace and blessings to you 🙏🏼

[@laprayalittle9316]

Sis I just grew a love for you even more. When I say I just felt even more connected to you than I did before. I love that you allowed yourself to be vulnerable and that you’re ready to motivate the masses. Your strong and blessed and beautiful and I’m so glad I’ve been blessed to be in your space. Thank you so much for being you! ❤

[@ms.fortune2957]

And this is why I continue to support your channel. You and I are like minded and I promised myself to embrace more people who are like minded instead of allowing these energy vampire to drain me with their foolery. I am always open to a good read. So thanks a lot for those two recommendations doll💝 Be well and be proud of yourself because not everyone can look in the mirror and make the shift.🏆 GREAT JOB DOLL

[@lisamccurdy8797]

This should Absolutely go viral. So inspiring and uplifting. Thank you, Sis.🥰 You possess the gift of expressing yourself so well.🤲

[@ValerieAdah]

On my way from church I thought to myself "I need to make a change this year", but I began to get scared cause I knew it would take a lot of painful growth, this video is definitely confirmation. Thank you for sharing 💕

[@terrahall4537]

Congratulations on a new mindset. You sound like you've got a good head on your shoulders and moving in the right direction. I wish you continued success and happiness.

[@NaptuRo90]

I pray for you continue healing and peace ❤. You’re setting a good example with expressing your healing journey for others who you look up to you, your children and you

[@BellaMecia]

I think this is my favorite video you ever made. Thanks for being so transparent and offering this phenomenal advice. Can you create a video on how to find yourself again after becoming a mom. I know you touched on this briefly in that same vlog clip you showed us but would love a separate video on it’s own. Just about self-care, elevating your style and just finding overall balance when you have young kids.

[@Alexlittle9]

*28:43** you cannot talk big dreams with small minds!!!!! Hunteyyyyyyy* 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Bossladylj]

I AM SAVING THIS ONE!!!❤❤❤❤❤. I do not know the words to describe it. Your sincerity and realness came across. Thank you so much!!!!!

[@kgray8390]

I’ve been a longtime subscriber. I love your content. I’ve always learned from you. I’m 49 and I want to start my own business but I don’t know where to start. I’m living check to check and barely making it. I appreciate your honesty and openness in this video. You have a beautiful spirit and so helpful to us.

[@tiffanys4971]

❤Thank you for sharing. I’m 40 and this is advice I wish I had many many years ago. Over the past few years, I started to realized if I wanted to come out of depression and better my anxiety I have to detox from drama and just overall bad vibes. I needed positivity in my life when possible. I have actually had a multiple family members tell me what my boundaries should be. That being said I had to work on my worth and how I show up. Command respect and speak up for me. This is hitting me deep! Thank you so much! ❤

[@imagemaker8268]

Thank you Kim for your transparency and letting us in on some of your life. I can relate to you and I use to read self help books, eat right, do yoga, etc.. Things would look good from the outside and there would be good changes but, nothing permanent. I would always back slide and nothing helped my soul except asking Jesus to forgive me for my sins and save me. I didn’t really know what true ❤ forgiveness, and peace was until then.

[@Top5onPrime]

This really spoke to me. Appreciate you sharing 😊

[@Mrs_Chiques]

Well done for being so candid and open. A lot of people would have us believe that their worlds have been perfect from day one. I hope you continue to enjoy your newfound joy and peace and that you inspire others to do the same ❤

[@kamarahall683]

This is literally my entire life beginning to end being told back to me😢😢.WOW I’m so happy to see just how much you blossomed into such a beautiful intelligent women❤

[@audreydee74]

Thank you for your transparency! I’ve been watching you for over 3 years & only knew that you had a child. I just found out that your name is Kim 😊. Nice to meet you Kim & thanks for showing up in a way that is so motivating & encouraging for us sistahs who desperately need to change our lives in a way that helps us identify with the greatness inside! Awesome testimony ❤

[@MFH-ik3oy]

I've been following you for years and truly enjoy your content but this video is the first time I felt connected to you. We have so many parallels. Thank you for doing this.

[@krystalnykole]

This video was everything I needed. I watched it yesterday and it really motivated me in a way I can’t explain. I literally been so all over the place with running a business, being a mom and partner, I tend to neglect myself and home. So immediately after this video, I got up and cleaned my house, got cute and just felt so much better. I’m here again today rewatching this video because it’s just that powerful for ME!! Thank you Kim! 🤎

[@thechicnatural]

you are so very welcome Krystal! ❤️🤗

[@martigross5751]

This testimony is definitely going to help a lot of people. Thank you. I can relate to a few of the characteristics you described. Growing up in Baltimore city to a single mom, I felt different because I wasn’t doing what most of my family and friends were doing, so that made me the odd one. But thank God I knew better. Keep proving positive Light. Peace and Blessings.

[@peachysoul8286]

I saw this on my recommendations and this really resonated with me. i’m also a middle child, and i’ve always felt very out of place, average, etc. and in a way i still do. due to different experiences throughout my life, i’m hesitant to make friends, i’m aloof, and its ruining my life. i’m starting therapy tomorrow, and i’m really excited to take what i learn there as well as what i learned in this video to use.

[@kanikad7084]

I’ve been following you for years and I fell off from watching your videos simply because I stay off of social platforms, but I’m appreciative of you sharing some of your story and inspirations. I can relate to soooo much that you’ve said and since I made certain changes in life I also began to thrive. Not exactly where I want to be but I’m getting there. Keep doing your thing beautiful!❤

[@RichardThomas-o7t]

After watching this video I was blown away by hearing how much you been through and to see you triumph over it all without giving up or quitting is real power that you possess

[@delphinerankin8011]

This took a lot of courage. Thank you for sharing. I’m happy to see your growth and happiness. You’ve helped someone else today.

[@TheTata78]

Wow! Abandon the victim mindset... that hit me hard! You go girl!!! I've been following you for many years and you are a true inspiration in and out. Keep going and doing your thing

[@essentiawaterDR2]

Thank you for this… I’m actively working on being a better version of myself!!! I needed this video today ❤

[@crystalpar1359]

Your story made me tearful because it hits so close to home. I literally said she's telling my story. I'm sorry for what you've been through but i'm so happy for all that you've overcome. You give me so much hope and inspiration. Thank you for sharing!

[@tianathompson6891]

Dear sister, I have to tell you that this message really touched me in a way that I needed. It really amazing how the universe works. I have been thinking about this very subject for some time now, and today, you confirmed the changes that I know I need to make in my life! Thank you so much for sharing yourself with us! When you said emulate someone that you admire, YOU are one of those people for me. I have watched your transformation for several years now, and WOW 👏 PLEASE continue to do the work and share your journey with us. Sending love and positive energy your way 💕

[@Tumbleweed1919]

Beautiful outside and inside, the biggest takeaway was "Take 100% control of your life!" Thank you for this upload, yes I was being nosey, but there was a lot in here, I was not expecting.

[@TheExWife]

Hi Kim. I know it's not easy opening yourself up like that but you are right. Some ppl may not know how much you've gone through to get where you are. I think this platform is a good way to share and inspire others. Sending virtual hugs!

[@trhg0002]

Thank you for this video. I also forwarded it to my brother, who's currently going through trials and challenges. One of them... entitled narcissistic family/friends.

[@JasmineWood41]

I needed to hear this… seems like most of us felt like this. Thanks for sharing your story queen!!

[@monicamyers1022]

I’ve been watching you since I was about 18-19, I’m 29 now and I really appreciate you opening because sis coming out of a shell can be the hardest thing, especially on social media, thank you ❤

[@erinnjackson638]

This video even got me emotional because I’m a single mom too, however I didn’t have a support group of people even from my ex husband. So I had to learn to wing it on my own and I had to fake it speech to myself. However your video has helped me to get on track in my life. Keep up these inspirational pep talks. I greatly appreciate it

[@ritarunninshit6476]

The thing I love about this woman is that she's not scared to speak her real. Never knowing who it will impact who have also walked similar lives. I knew it was more then just hair and makeup. Thank you Sis for sharing and inspiring others to not be afraid just to speak on there truth. And you are extraordinary beautiful ❤️ past pretty chic. When people be grimey to you it's because they knew you were one of the amazing ones. Some can be so hateful because they hate there self.....Thank you❤️👑♀️💪🏾❤️😘

[@HairstylesbyCarol]

woman, I've watched your videos for awhile, but honestly, I did click on this particular video because I was NOSY about your personal life,😜 but after listening to you, you touched something in me and I know I must make a change, and it is difficult because all the behaviors have become a lifestyle, but I know in my heart I need to take ownership of my life for sure. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you for sharing.

[@Trainingwithtroya]

As a day one subscriber I appreciate you sharing the personal part of your life! Thank you for inspiring and giving us tips to help us be better! You are a GEM 💎

[@royalpriestess3467]

Omg we have the same name 🤭🥰 Hi Troya I’m Troya too 🤍🤍

[@Trainingwithtroya]

@@royalpriestess3467 OMG I HAVE ONLY MET TWO OTHER PEOPLE WITH OUR NAME! 💗💕

[@NerdyGirlPlanner]

Thank you so much for sharing your vulnerability. A lot of black women hurt in silence thinking they are the only ones and this shows how much we can overcome in silence while making it look easy. May God continue to bless you.

[@chriscynthiachambers4748]

Whew... THIS! We have some similarities and it feels so good to be honest with yourself, truly become self-aware, and make real changes! It releases weight and you just feel free. I started following you because of your butterfly locs tutorial. I thought you were gorgeous and just felt a "glow" about you. And, you made me feel like I could do that to my own hair if I just try. (I still haven't done it, but it's on my list!) 😆 Now hearing your story, I see that you truly are beautiful inside and out!

[@soulady00]

I was almost in tears by the end. I needed this word!! Im starting TODAY!

[@theresawilks9426]

I thought this video was so thoughtful and very inspiring, your old self is my oldest Granddaughter who has just been so angry for a lot of years and still holding grudges. You just made my deep talk with her easy I am going to apply a lot of the things you just said and share over your video. Thank you for all you do and YOU JUST MADE MY DAY❤

[@w.k7866]

So happy for your growth. I've followed you for years and I too see now how "light" you are.

[@misskittykitty7220]

What a testimony! God has us hand on you. Continue the let Him use you

[@tahtah0780]

This advice is on point. As a Trauma Coach these are great recommendations for anyone who is looking to change their life... thank you for sharing

[@flyvirgo913]

You so beautiful inside & outside! Our young people need to hear more story time like this! I definitely think how you do; I manifest and speak positively! Thank you so much for sharing 😍

[@KatrinaWillis-hf6ht]

Hi, I have been following you and oh my God today was just amazing. He gave me a lot to think about. He gave me hope for myself. Thank God for people like you young lady I am 56 years old but today you just made me feel like I was a newborn and getting ready to start my life over again, I’m so happy for you that you have overcome all your obstacles in life and now that I see that is hope for me too at the age of 56 you’re never too old to learn I would never have admitted this to anybody, but I’m not ashamed to admit it to you that you taught me somethingand I know you’re much younger than I am. Thank you so much. I’m trying to get your cookbook and how to start my new life with plant base. May God continue to bless you and your family.😢❤

[@petiteTana]

Thank you for being so transparent. I too, acted 1000% the way you described yourself. The majority of my anger came from childhood trauma. I was the most evil, hateful person that you can ever come across. I didn’t believe love existed, and hated “humans”. I made my positive shift in my late 40s, I’m 50 now, and I feel so much peace. It was a long, long journey but I am still a work in progress. I am HEALING, not HEALED. Therapy is key for me. Thank you for sharing 🤍🤍

[@donnalp2387]

Kim, I had to rewatch this more than once because at some point a I couldn’t stop seeing myself. It brought me to tears as a mom and as a woman as well. Every single word you shared resonated. What I sincerely appreciate is your opening up to be intentional with your platform to help others like you….ME! You are truly a beautiful person and it truly shows. The inner work shows. Thank you so much Kim❤

[@jamievarts]

You and I are both middle children. Both went through a lot. Both felt like we didn’t fit in! I am still struggling with a few things at the age of 34! This helped me a lot ! Keep sharing!

[@aprilmay4992]

You got this!!!

[@christchild1711]

MORE OF THIS PLEASE, and CONGRATS on you Bundles of JOy