How I Found My Midlife Style

[@jackiestarling1664]

Hi from Bend, Oregon! I'm 69 and retired 3 years ago and let my wardrobe go beyond casual, not sloppy, but too casual. My husband never said anything about how I dressed until one day I felt like dressing up a little and added some jewelry. My husband made a point of telling me how nice I looked and I really appreciated that. So, over the past couple of months I have been redoing my wardrobe with "Casual Elegance" and only neutral colors and yes I "Ditched the Prints" with no regrets. I really love this way of dressing and it boosts my moral. I feel so much better when I get dressed now. Thanks Valarie for how you present all your ideas, with common sense. My wardrobe is still a work in progress, but I am having fun.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Jackie, thank you for trusting me - you have no idea how happy this makes me to read!!!

[@suzannegabrielle]

When I retired, I transitioned from a corporate NYC wardrobe to living in south Florida, and it took me 8 years to finally give up most of my clothes. I became inspired, however, when I was in Publix (every Floridian knows!) one morning. It was scorching hot and an older woman emerged wearing white linen pants, a black tee and minimal jewelry. I don't remember shoes, bag, etc. but I stopped her to tell her how nice she looked. She said "this is my uniform, I wear a variation of this almost every day." My wardrobe is casual, but I make an effort to look put together and only wear shorts around the house or on my daily walk.

[@alittlebitlaura]

I also moved to South Florida (Jupiter area) after a lifelong career in corporate communications and am finding it SO hard to let go of my former (corporate) style. Fall is so hard. Glad to know I’m not alone. ❤

[@midlifeposhcloset]

That is so inspiring - finding a “personal uniform” is a game changer when it comes to midlife style. Have you found *your* uniform yet?

[@suzannegabrielle]

@@midlifeposhcloset I'm getting ready for a year of travel living out of a carry-on so it's a challenge.

[@nicoleduhamel1218]

I haven’t retired yet but went from a 5 day a week office job to 100% work from home. I have been home four years and am still trying to figure it out. I was a suit and dress office style and I love that style however, I”m not going to sit in my house alone with the cats in a suit. I’d say I”m about 90% there I got rid of a lot of stuff that was just ok that I knew I’d never wear. I will still wear a suit jacket for zoom meetings but not the pants I love the dress pant yoga pant for work from home. It’s definitely a process and nice to know I’m not the only one who struggled with it.

[@tl2940]

Hi there from Omaha Nebraska . I am 62 and working full time. When I was 60 I did a no buy year because I had so many clothes that it was overwhelming. This was the best thing I ever did because I was forced to wear what I had and if I didn’t want to wear it, I got rid of it. The next year I was able to clearly see the pieces I was missing. Now I have only the clothes I love. So I feel great about my wardrobe. I love your clothing choices and the way you put outfits together. I appreciate new ideas.😊

[@valeriecoopet9897]

I am 73. I love my style. This fall I am wearing soft cashmere or cotton sweaters and jeans, denim and cords . I have lost 30lbs and I am in the gym 3-5 hours a week plus enjoying Zumba and cardio dance. I am happy with my wardrobe and appearance. People think I am much younger, but I think it is because I am a positive person, smile a lot and have good posture.

[@margaretbambuy6160]

I love your videos. This one was especially relevant. I am 81. I’m pretty sure I’m one of your oldest viewers. I am having so much fun updating my wardrobe. I’ve learned so much from you and other influencers. I think you are right about the prints. I don’t have too many of them but I am going to put them aside and see what happens. I am happy with my appearance. I have noticed that since I started the revamping my closet process (about a year and a half ago) I have received many compliments on how I’m dressing. Thank you!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

You are inspiring, and you make me so happy to have created this channel! I keep saying the world needs an 80+ fashion creator…

[@barbarahaynes-bi4hk]

82 and still trying to get it right!!!

[@margaretbambuy6160]

@@barbarahaynes-bi4hk Isn’t the trying great fun!

[@sharonworyn1911]

Hello my Michigan friend! I feel great about my appearance because I have maintained my weight and I don't have clothes that don't fit. I love my classic style but I keep it modern and current. Love my blazers with jeans! I did some purging today of handbags I no longer use and shoes that I can't wear. That was emotional because I can't wear heels any longer and some of them were almost new. I feel it's so important that your shoes are right for the outfit. Letting go and accepting the changes that occur with aging is emotional. I decided that what wasn't serving me well didn't belong in my closet. My challenge now is finding attractive shoes that are comfortable.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

You and I are on the same wavelength today. I started a journal entry about still wanting to wear those pretty designer “Carrie Bradshaw” shoes…but my midlife body saying NO WAY. 😂

[@kristinekapteyn8973]

@@sharonworyn1911 yes giving up our heels and fancy shoes hurts however not as much as my feet.

[@wandayoung7106]

I agree. The biggest change in my wardrobe is shoes. Comfort is my #1 priority. I really appreciate the shoe recommendations.

[@loriwong6173]

I used to LOVE all my heels, then I had a major ankle injury and can only wear flats with arch support. It's hard to make Birkenstocks look sexy!!!😂

[@airwavesintheair]

I'm not midlife yet (in my 20's) but I LOVE you and your style! I gratuated college in '21 so instead of going into the corporate world, I went to work in the family business -- a much more casual setting. I feel pretty good in my clothing, but I'm craving color! I'm a bright winter, so I'm keeping my eyes out for bright green, purple, and pink!

[@missmilimakk2246]

I agree that over the years, my clothes reflected that specific period in my life (taking care of kids, work, etc). I retired from wearing scrubs five years ago and found myself reaching for the classic neutral pieces that I've owned for many years. Those pieces don't age me. They make me feel classy, chic, and comfortable. These pieces are also my travel capsule wardrobe. The only new pieces I purchase are the lovely scarves from my travels. Thank you for your lovely informative videos. Love your channel!

[@kimcolangelo180]

I lost 60 lbs - I found you at the right time. I’ve given away so many clothes from my closet and have rebuilt it. I still feel I have to much but I feel good about where I am right now and will continue to modify. I love my new classic look. I applied this new perspective on a recent 10 day trip. I had a carry on and personal item with my capsule wardrobe and I still had at least 5 pieces I did not wear. I’m a work in progress. I have ditched the prints and gone neutral and it’s paying off.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this - well done!!!

[@mehitabel6564]

Very very interesting! I have a similar professional background to you, aged 59 and formerly worked in the City of London here in the UK. Now working from home. I loved my business suits (tailoring is my favourite clothing), and had a tough time realising I didn't need it so much. I've worn tailored classic clothes since I was around 14-15 years old so it was a strong part of my identity. I am pretty happy with how I look at this age, mainly focused on staying fit, and very good haircuts. I completely agree about prints, they are rare in my wardrobe and only have one monochrome geometric print blouse. Although I wear mostly warm neutrals, very similar to you, I've found that the occasional colour highlight with mostly texture and silhouette and very good quality fabrics hand-tailored for me just works. I've replaced most of my blazers with chic bomber jackets, don't wear jeans much it's mostly tailored trousers, good leather loafers and low-mid heels. I've spent a lot more on accessories such as silk scarves and good belts. Nice cashmere. I keep a bit of a rock vibe in there too. I'm still evolving, and am a new subscriber. Thank you.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I’m so glad we found each other!

[@susanclancy-kelly9319]

Thank you for your honesty! Your wardrobe advice is spot-on. I'm 67, retired almost 3 years from HR, l live in Northern Ilinois. I ditched the office clothes, now have a classic and timeless wardrobe. I'm 5'4" size 14, I never wore prints as they were not flattering.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It sounds like you’ve really found your style in the midlife years - well done!

[@donnaschindlbeck7457]

My lifestyle is very casual but active these days. You points, although a little painful 😩are spot on! My waredrobe is still a mish mosh of a little bit of everything. I have little need for dressy clothes at this stage but I miss them😢. I often feel like I need 3-4 different wardrobes. At home, activities ( there are at least 3 right there) and casual out and about ( dinners, lunches, entertaining etc.) almost like I need several mini capsules. But then I get board with them. But I do know solids go much further than prints in the scheme of things. Sometimes it’s frustrating. And I’m a true petite at 5’ 1 1/2”.

[@Mimi-ni3il]

@@donnaschindlbeck7457 i would invite you if you are not already to look at several style channels including Lydia Tomlinson’s channel. she’s young but she’s a wiz at styling more casual pieces for dressy events! it’s an art to take casual pieces and class them up with jewelry/bags and the right shoes. i rarely buy dressy clothes anymore but can still dress up my look!!

[@Mimi-ni3il]

really agree on the prints. Nada Manley’s channel breaks this down in detail in some of her videos. she describes high quality prints and how to spot them. she explains what prints look cheap and dated and can age us and why. best to stay away from them. and even stripes work differently on different people. my features are low contrast so i’d only wear low contrast stripes - higher contrast stripes distract from my soft features and don’t add anything.

[@marilyndoering2501]

Very helpful video! I just turned 70, also a retired professional who had enjoyed wearing suits, and I’ve gained some weight. I cleared out the clothes that no longer fit, donated a lot of professional looking suits, and bought some classic pieces as the foundation for my new wardrobe. I’ve learned to accept my size, and that I can still dress smartly and feel good about how I look! I wear clothes that make me feel comfortable and still look modern and stylish, and I complement my good quality basics with wonderful jackets, colourful scarves, classic jewelry and great hats and coats. I love to add a pop of colour to my outfits - it makes me smile, and apparently it makes others smile too! Lately I’ve been loving my wide leg jeans and pants! We are never too old to make a good impression.

[@glgardener4972]

Great video. I am in the process of cleaning out my closets.....I am a retired health professional that dressed in business clothes. I am a classic dresser and I love blazers....I will be donating my clothes and it feels good to clean out those stuffed closets. In the winter I dress in sweaters (to stay warm) and pants. In the summer I garden and wear jeans and t shirts.... and when I am not gardening I love to wear linen midi dresses.I love to dress up and wish there were more activities to do that. I love to dress and it feels good. I have read the comments below and I am sad that so many women seem so lost....our age group is not the focus of the fashion industry. I love accessories and look for unique pieces. I just purchased a beautiful sequin top to go out in, a silk blouse-feminine, a knit dress( my husband loves it) and fab boots.....they are my reward for being a good girl!!!

[@NancySommer]

Hello from Las Vegas - I retired 4 years ago and immediately donated all my business clothing. It was freedom for me, but as you said, it was a change. I am now in the process of changing to a travel wardrobe so your video really resonated with me. Thank you for the honesty.

[@2021-j2d]

Very interesting and on point, Valerie. Personally I feel quite pleased with both my wardrobe and appearance in this chapter of my life. Do I wish each were as they were 10, 15 years ago, of course but I’m so happy to have the privilege to be at midlife that I’ll continue doing my best. Years ago someone gave me what I still think the best compliment. She said that whenever she saw me I was smiling. I keep that with me til this day and try to put a smile on before I consider my wardrobe or my appearance. I think we get fewer compliments in midlife than when we were much younger. I try to take the time to tell woman, and men, my age or older when I notice something about them that is flattering. Thank you for provoking good thoughts.

[@juanitakramer2281]

I love how you emphasize “feels” good to us! This is key and so important. We have to “feel” good to look good and to ultimately show up as the best version of ourselves. Thank you for sharing your story and restyling steps with us! I retired two years ago after a 40 year career and I’ve been rediscovering myself and how I want to fully express myself as I continue to grow and evolve.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

You have picked up on something I think is important: there appears to be some degree of disconnect between what we wear because others tell us look good on us (or we think others believe looks good on us)…as opposed to what we feel good wearing. I want to explore the difference there a little more.

[@juanitakramer2281]

Yes, it’s a real thing! Our true thoughts create feelings and our subconscious mind responds and takes actions based upon those feelings/emotions. If we don’t feel our best, then we are out of alignment somewhere and we want to hide and avoid people and things. This was me! I’ve been practicing this for awhile and have discovered that “Feeling is the Secret”. It’s like an internal GPS that we can guide with our thoughts & beliefs! It lets me question what’s going on inside, what I’m currently believing and then I can easily realign with better thoughts and updated beliefs. Enjoy exploring this idea!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

@@juanitakramer2281 I LOVE THIS!!!

[@mindycollie6548]

I am 56 and have lost 30 pounds and discovered watching you tube videos on how to dress with more confidence and style. I was ready to throw out all of those tunics and leggings! I was so happy to discover you during my transformation. I wear scrubs 5 days a week so I love to wear something more stylish and put together on other days. Knowing how to elevate some basics has made an incredible impact on my closet. I plan to use your tips to further embrace my new style. Thank you for candidly sharing! I am watching from Port Orange, Florida.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Congratulations on the weight loss - 30 pounds is AMAZING!!!

[@rebekahschroeder7949]

I am 50 now. It hit hard. Some of the dynamics of my life leave me floundering a bit when it comes to style. I will share a few of those dynamics. I lived at home until I married at 30. Because of that I felt like a teen until 30 in many ways. We were never able to have children so I never fit in with the Mom crowd. My husband teaches the college and career (18-30) Sunday School class in our traditional Baptist church. That means I am surrounded by young people every week and the class comes over for dinner every other Sunday night. Then to add to my confusion, I landed in the hospital for month in ‘21 with Covid Pneumonia and it has left me with my lungs only functioning at 60%…a great improvement from the 30% I struggled with for a year. So that has me feeling even older, especially when surrounded by the young, energetic friends we are with often. Oh, and then I need to lose about 30 pounds. So I am not 30 any longer, but I’m with young people the most, however I’m overweight and can’t do the physically active things I used to…but I’m not a grandmother…and I haven’t had to work for 20 years so I don’t have a job to dress for. Where does that leave me? Confused. 😂 I go shopping and try on clothes. I’m 5’2 and 30 pounds overweight. I walk out empty handed. Every time. I order things online, only to return them because they are too big, too small, or just unflattering. I would rather wear 5 outfits that I feel good in than a whole closet full of unflattering clothes. I sound quite mournful here, but I truly am a happy, grateful person for the wonderful life I have! I just need to be taller, thinner, healthier! 😂 Solids are my best friend! Somehow prints often make me look even more overweight, it seems. My favorite colors to wear are mostly dark. Black, green, navy, white, cream and denim. And a great leopard print ballet flat goes with pretty much everything. Watching your channel is inspiring. I appreciate all of the thought and effort you put into your videos. After waning on here, I forgot what the 2 things you wanted to know! 😂 Surely I covered it in my life story in this comment. 😉

[@sherryobar5750]

See yourself healthier, and keep saying it! You've been through a lot, but you're on the right track :) Be Blessed In Jesus' name amen Psalm 103 Romans 15:13 ✝️

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you for giving me this insight into your situation as helps me to plan future posts. It’s good for us all to have health / wellness / appearance goals, but we also have to meet ourselves where we are at right here, right now. I journaled some thoughts about this today and will post soon!

[@suefisher5369]

I am glad I am not the only one who is feeling this way. I turned 50 in January and took on a new job. Had to buy more business casual clothing because all I had was tee shirts/sweatshirts and jeans. I don’t like how I look in anything I wear. I am sure that is because I am 5’3 and 140 lbs. I carry all my weight on my rear. I feel your pain ❤

[@midlifeposhcloset]

@@sherryobar5750 I love this!

[@margaretalmodovar8401]

Enjoyed this chat! Well, I was quite lost going from a wardrobe that consisted of suits, cocktail/party outfits, great casual wear to just lounging/casual wear upon retirement. Since I moved to a beach town in Puerto Rico (hubby's idea) my clothing here is light and casual but I keep a capsule wardrobe for when I go back to NY (basically fall/winter favorite seasons). In addition, I keep a capsule wardrobe at my daughter's home in Barcelona. That way, I travel light. Basically, I live in neutral colors, no prints, casual wear. I do invest in accessories and that's wear I give a boost of color to my outfit when I go out. 😊

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It's so interesting how our wardrobes evolve as our lives change! And well done on keeping the capsule wardrobe in Spain: I keep a totally different wardrobe in our home near Key West than the one I keep in our Michigan home.

[@deepost2604]

I’m age 82 and my primary activity is gardening which has had me looking very frumpy. Suddenly, my long neglected closet is getting an update. I am crediting change because I’ve lost some weight off my belly. I’ve noted that just five pound in my mid section affects how I move and feel about myself. That sounds bizarre but self image impacts me that much.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

HATS OFF to you for the weight loss!

[@staroliva6502]

New here. Thank you for addressing midlife years. I’am 62 went from traveling and enjoy life all over the world with my husband ,to being full time caretaker for my lovely 91 year old mother living with us now.Ive always loved fashion but now I just try to look classy and comfortable most of my days.My social life definitely has change but I’am good with that I feel more at peace with a small selective friends. It’s been very emotional for me.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I totally know what you mean about feeling “more at peace with a small selective” group of friends. I feel the same. I salute you - being a caregiver is a tough role.

[@MtPleasantMichele]

I turned 60 this past July and I just want to simplify my life and your videos were an inspiration to start with my wardrobe. Your tips and advice is so practical and achievable. I've been eliminating so many things, prints and anything uncomfortable! Thank you for that little tidbit! With the prints gone (good riddance!!) my wardrobe looks clean and streamline. And who wants to wear uncomfortable anything?? I recently ditch the underwire torture device that held my, I'll just say, ample-ness, in place for more comfortable undergarments. Right now, I'm enjoying the changes I am making. Following your videos and sense of style helps me create a simplicit, scaled down, yet elegant and comfortable wardrobe. I also feel better about my appearance. Clean, classic lines and style never goes out of fashion. Thank you for helping me into ease into a more wearable and ageless sense of style.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I want to the the *Snoopy Dance* after reading this - thank you for trusting me! And well done on your part!

[@SheilaE1953]

71 yr old grandmother here who is happily married 51 yrs! I worked in an office environment for 47 yrs and never once questioned my outfits of choice. Now that I’ve been retired I can’t seem to get my act together and feel happy about how I dress. I have a few stylists like yourself that I follow online and a local lady’s clothing store who produce styling videos every day of the week. I seem to be more confused than ever and I chock it all up to the fact that I’m currently overweight and simply don’t like my current appearance 😕 I’m in the middle of transitioning my spring/summer wardrobe over to my fall/winter clothes and I’ll definitely be keeping in mind the recommendations you made in this video. I’ll be saying goodbye to all the clothes that don’t fit me anymore along with the ones that aren’t comfortable!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

HOORAY! Thank you for trusting me!

[@carrieuzelac22]

Hello from Doylestown Pennsylvania. I am 62, retired, happily married,brand new grandmother, financially comfortable……I feel my style is blah. I have gotten better over the last year of not impulse buying clothes, and I’ve really purged the majority of my prints from my wardrobe because I felt they aged me. I can’t believe I still can’t settle on a comfortable, smart , consistent style. It’s frustrating!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

We are going to help you find your midlife style TOGETHER. I’m finishing up editing a video today that will help us all find our “personal uniform”, which is the next step after resetting the closet. I’ve got you, Beautiful!

[@valknox9569]

Hi from Val from Jacksonville. I love this post. I am 68 and have a new career as daycare for our amazing almost 2year old grandson. We love him to bits and are so happy to be able to look after him. This in itself brings wardrobe challenges. I love clothes and love to feel put together but most of my time is spent chasing after him or crawling on the floor. I have never been into wearing gym clothes all day as so many people do in Florida. I see lots of things that I would love to buy and wear but I have to be practical and wear things that suit my lifestyle. Also the weather dictates what I wear , being so hot most of the time. I really struggle with semi smart hot weather clothes. You give great advice and it really is very helpful.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

We spent 12 years full time in Jacksonville, so at least you get more of a break from the heat than other parts of FL. I hear from lots of women who are caring for their grandchildren, so I have made a note to style some “active” outfits for the GiGis!

[@ruthmalcolm3028]

Hi, this is such good advice. I particularly like the idea of storing things away. I don’t declutter immediately, occasionally I go back to a piece. After retirement I lost a lot of weight so it was a perfect time to rethink my wardrobe. I now feel comfortable within these three style words: casual, coastal, bohemian.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

As soon as I throw it out, I will immediately need it for something. So that is why I advocate for just storing it away!

[@Ashbyee]

I just love your channel. Thank you so much. I lost my style about five years ago when my farther was very ill and I was caring for him. Also, stopped drinking during Covid and consequently, I don’t need the going out cloths. I like spending on new workout fits and running shoes. lol Now at 60 I don’t know where to start over. So thank you. ❤️

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I am finishing up editing a video today for the next step in helping us all to find our personal style and hope to post tomorrow. We can help you find your midlife style together!

[@KimFales]

Greetings from Dartmouth MA! I feel really good with my appearance and my style! You tube has been so helpful. I love to shop, but I'm trying to be much more selective in what I buy. Even though I retired almost 2 years ago, I love getting dressed every day. It's more "smart casual", but not sweats. Love your channel!❤

[@CocoB22]

I so miss going to the office and my work clothes. I work full time from home - I need to elevate my telework style. But haven’t had the time. As far as my look I am happy with it now. Especially when I go out. I have a great makeup routine that takes about 5 minutes and recently upgraded my “socializing” wardrobe. So getting ready is good.

[@americafirst9144]

My life is changing from mountain girl to international traveler. I'll get to dress up much more. Glad I kept my velvet items and silk scarves.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

WOW! Where is your next big adventure?!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

(I think I might have asked you this already…)

[@melodygardner6169]

I can so relate to your leaving that group. The same thing just happened to me, and yes, it was very emotional. I sew garment, and had been in this wonderful ladies garment group that meant for lunch once a week for 16 years. We had even taken trips together. However, just as you described the gossip and back biting became very prevalent, particularly towards some of the members. One lady was ready to leave because of what she felt the "mean girl syndrome" was aimed at her. And it was! This lady and I were genuinely great friends. I addressed the issue head on in the group, and three of the oldest members who were causing the challenge, split off, never to return. The rest of us regrouped, added another two members, and now we have fun lunches with no pressure or stress. While ending a very long relationship is sad, I feel very freed up to just be myself with scrutiny or criticism. As far as my feelings for my wardrobe, I do sew and create a lot of my own garments. That causes a whole new emotional attachment to that very personal piece of clothing. I am 78, and have consciously gone through a well thought out transformation in the last few years. We are discussing body type, color choices, and style loves. I am getting there. I do love some prints, but not as much as I used to. I am opposite of you, in that I am a true winter that needs contrast, and I can wear some prints if they are done right. And how do I feel about how I dress now?? I have the three words --- CLASSIC, CURRENT, AND FUN!! I feel confident in what I wear, and it is a fashion puzzle I enjoy. I love your videos. I will be following along.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It is so liberating to get rid of the drama and focus on yourself - well done!

[@aligdanae]

Hi. I'm 57 and live in NC. We visited Michigan in June and loved it. I have appreciated your advice as I've been transitioning to retirement. I feel better since I've been wearing less prints and figuring out the best colors for me as my hair and complexion change.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you so much for trusting me, I'm so happy to accompany on your new journey!

[@queenie197754]

Minnesota gal here! I spent so much money watching you. But ....... the payoff is great. I have staple pieces that are classics now. I feel like I have been reborn. LOL.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this - thank you for trusting me!!!

[@alysonwallace6600]

I love your channel, your style and your advice. I became an empty nester in 2019, and then lost 2 years when covid hit. I am trying to elevate my style to an elegant casual. It must be comfortable and I live in Texas where it is hot much of the year. I also lost alot of weight 2 years ago and have had to get rid of everything in my closet. I am slowly building a wardrobe that fits my life.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I’m so glad we found each other…and thank you for trusting me!

[@Judypruett]

Wow. You are a mirroring me. This summer I also looked at friends and decided to change them. This week I've reworked my fall/winter clothes to reflect my current life. I feel understood. Thank you.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I feel validated hearing this from you. Thank you for taking the time to comment!

[@joylynne8]

Hello. I'm from Oklahoma City, OK. I have been gradually creating a new style for myself. I am a retired attorney. I kept some of the blazers and I may wear them with jeans to create an elevated casual look. I am about 85 to 90% satisfied with my style. I have implemented all of your tips, except I have just a few print pieces that I will remove. Today, I purchased some nice flats to incorporate in my wardrobe. Revamping is fun!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this, especially from a colleague. Thank you for trusting me!

[@Tammy-uu1ts]

I’m a 55 year old Texas gal. I’ve been slowly following your steps this past year and while it’s been helpful ( especially now I see why I buy prints but feel uncomfortable wearing them), I still just don’t like the way I look anymore. I used to be a thinner size 2 at 4’ 11” and 85 pounds to now a solid 10 and sometimes 12 at 140 pounds! I also carry most of my weight in my stomach area. I’ve got the right tools now to create a nice wardrobe, but I’m not going to really look and feel good in any of it until I lose the tummy, so that’s my next goal… getting in better shape!

[@vintagegirl68]

I so enjoy your videos! You look beautiful! I have been dressing well everyday now. I got rid of everything that was uncomfortable, now I have pleated dress pants and just LOVE them. I also cut down my closet because I was feeling very overwhelmed, I have about 65 items for fall/winter, not including shoes and winter coats. It feels about right to me. I have been wearing vintage vests with the pleated pants and feel great! I am sorry you had those kinds of people around you. I really enjoy humble, grateful people. Cheers!

[@mariabarnes9197]

My midlife style is in transition due to newish health challenges. How do I feel? Sometimes meh or so-so, & sometimes hopeful & encouraged. There are times when I feel sadness about my overall appearance, & find myself wishing & hoping for different circumstances (full healing?). But then, I find ways to lift my mood. I remind myself of hopeful & inspiring things by looking at channels like this, reading the comments, & talking to my daughters, & sister. After this, I can more easily locate pieces that complete outfits & this brings me feelings of happiness. (And surprise, these completer items may actually already be in my closet or may be purchased)!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this - kudos to you!

[@charleena.callais5447]

Thank you for your videos. You are very inspiring and informative. I am 67 and 3 years retired from retail pharmacy tech and wore a uniform. Southeast Louisiana with mild winters. Trying to sort through my closet and finding my style which i am hoping to take yours and working it with my current pieces. Thanks again.

[@charleena.callais5447]

Ps I love your neutral pieces.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

We are going to help you find your style TOGETHER!

[@jlayruss]

I'm 63 and live in Dallas, TX. My life consists of watching my three year old granddaughter, playing golf, lunches with friends, dinners out with husband and church activities. Before I began watching Midlife Posh Closet, I thought that I looked fine. But after learning so much about fashion through your videos, I am much more put together. I love the fact that you are 5'1" (I am 5'2") and look so wonderful in your clothes. My family has definitely noticed that I have upped my game! However, my struggle continues to wear things that hide my middle section. I am contemplating trying the probiotics that you mentioned.... Thank you for sharing all of your wonderful Ideas with us!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Do your own research on probiotics and check with your doctor on it. I’m so glad we found each other…thank you for trusting me!

[@theresasilverthreads443]

Hello from South Africa. I've just turned 54, retired and live in a small country town. Most of my time is spent at home, but I still want to look good and feel good without looking over dressed. I feel that my current clothes are just not working. I have a lot of prints and that is my problem, they just don't make me feel as good as I used to feel 8n them. I'm recognizing, thanks to you, the value of plain fabrics. I still love colour though .

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It sounds like you are on the right track. We can help you find your midlife style together!

[@Ingrid-mr4lb]

Thank you for a great video. I retired 2 years ago. Had lots of business suits and formal clothes. Now I want to wear clothes that feels comfortable and casual, but good looking. I have kept some blazers in different colours - but I never use them anymore. I haven't used them since I stopped working, but have hung them in a separate cupboard. Then I get to go through some day and see if I want to keep any more than the black one. I live in southern Norway and the cold weather lasts for a very long time of the year. So when I'm at home I mainly wear lounge wear. But my wardrobe is still a work in progress. You have so many nice tips in your videos. And I am working with ditching the prints......

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Good morning, Ingrid! Ditching the prints is the hardest to grasp for most women but it is the most transformative. You can do it!

[@lckendel1079]

I’m 53 and back in university! I usually wear jeans, a sweater, a blazer, and either booties or sneakers. I have kept some of my pinstriped work pants, but I wear them with sneakers, white T-shirts, and a casual jacket. I can’t bring myself to give up my favourite pieces. But I agree with you; I had to get rid of the prints (except subtle stripes or colour blocking).

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Love this! It sounds like you have found your personal uniform - congratulations!

[@juliafees4675]

I, too, wore suits everyday during my career. When I retired I was still dressing in threes. I love my menswear’s patterns, but have started to change to three-piece more casual styles. It’s the same format, just more relaxed. Blazers became sweaters, pants became pull-on pants with no zipper. Yes, these can be found in comfortable, stylish materials and styles. Blouses have become pullover styles, again like the pants and sweaters. I like to keep these simple t-shirts or thin sweaters since they don’t really show. I do love a structured trapezoid purse but am slowly moving to a zippered tote bag. I have softened my makeup and jewelry. Shoes have become 2 inches or less and closed toe so I do not worry about pedicures as often. I keep my nails short and use a skin toned polish to blend in yet with a finished manicure. I have cut my hair to a short, curly style to enhance my curls.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Such attention to detail and a well-defined sense of style. Hats off to you! 🎩 🖤

[@stanleyjaneway7834]

Hi I am retired from nursing and are getting rid of my nursing scrubs and my prints and some of those are nice. I am really trying to go to classics. So far it is working.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It sounds like you are doing great! Converting to a classic style wardrobe is such a game changer.

[@sapphireblue7975]

My uniform for the last several years has been skinny pants and tunics, with prints! Will keep those for around the house or yardwork. Evolving to more of the classic styles including flared leg pants that make for a more balanced look on me and shorter tops. Thank goodness there are more of these styles in the shops at the moment! My newer additions to the wardrobe fits my current lifestyle. I feel like my appearance could be improved by toning up and loosing several pounds.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love reading this. It’s good for us to all have goals, but we also have to meet ourselves where we are right now. I’ve written down some thoughts about that today and will post on it soon!

[@beckymorton6655]

I'll be 64 in January. Retired to Florida from the legal world up north. I loved to dress up for work. And when I was younger and alot thinner I always received alot of compliments for how I dressed. 60s hasn't been kind and I do not like what I see in the mirror. My mom was a beautiful woman and boy she hated getting old. I see now how she felt. My closets are full. Not alot fits. I live in skorts and tshirts here in this very casual hot part of the state. I swim every day in my pool. Very quiet laid back life now. But I miss seasonal dressing and getting dressed up. I do love to travel and that's my time to wear real clothes! But I'm definitely going to start making changes to my life here. Starting with your checklist in this video. Weight loss is critical too. It definitely affects you mentally when you don't feel good in your own body. I gain my weight in my bust and stomach so I find it very difficult to dress this body shape especially in hot weather year round. Tshirts are not my friend! Positive vibes for a new year 😊

[@lose999]

Hi. I feel a little invisible at 72. My hair has been silver for 7 years and I really love not worry about my roots (I was a brunette) but I feel like I need a new style. I default to a ball cap and a ponytail a lot. As a retired teacher, my wardrobe is now more relaxed and I feel pretty when I wear my Boho printed tops. I'm a hippy child of the 60's and now I can dress more like my true self than when I was teaching. I like your style; it seems so effortless. I thrift most of my clothes so I only buy what I love and will wear for my current lifestyle. Btw, I take classes so I need to be put together 3x a week.!😉

[@lose999]

@@edennis8578 I actually do this and save them. Great idea.

[@marshalukasavich965]

@@edennis8578so true! I have ditched so many clothes after seeing me wearing them in a photo, clothes that I THOUGHT I looked great in!

[@kristinekapteyn8973]

I am past midlife (81 years) and have lost a lot of tone so not happy about my body at this point, wish there was someone who addressed the issue of older women. Thanks for your guidance. Live in British Columbia.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

At a recent conference, we were commenting that there were two 70ish creators in the room…but not a single 80 year old blogger to be found. When I find her, I will put you in touch with her. In the meantime, let me put you in touch with a couple of 70ish bloggers: www.AWellStyledLife.com and cindyhattersleydesign.com

[@lauriefletcher117]

Hi there! I'm from Oklahoma, 64 yrs old and have been retired for about a year and a half. I have way too many clothes and need a huge revamp/purging session! I mostly need casual clothing, but also still dress up for church, travel, going out etc. I've also gained about 10-15 pounds; so not feeling real great about my appearance lately. Just don't feel good in my skin! Your videos inspire me and make me want to work on my closet and my appearance, and not live in yoga pants and t-shirts haha!

[@DanitaReynolds]

I did the 3 Word Fashion Method. Choose a word that best describes these questions. 1. Practical or Realistic Word: Describes your regular clothes. 2. Aspirational Word: Describes your ideal style. 3. Emotional Word: Describes how you want to feel in your style. My 3 answers. Though number 2 and 3 have 2 words they do describe my ideal style. 1. Comfortable 2. Elevated Casual 3. Put Together I recognize your suggestions are valid but I think it depends on what region of the country you live and the kind of person you are that determines what is worn. I’m retired, in my 60s, and live in the Pacific Northwest. I do wear different styles of jeans as well as pattern tops. I’ve also learned to wear graphic t-shirts with pattern flannel shirts and I have gotten more compliments than I’ve ever had before. You can’t just wear any combination. It has to be curated. I love it. My style doesn’t make me fade into the background unnoticed. I also wear solids with a fun pair of shoes or accessories. My style isn’t loud. My style is just the right combination of “elevated casual” and “put together” that embraces my comfort with my hip personality. It works for me.

[@janetdaniel9661]

Brilliant advice, i have followed you quite sometime and have noticed you have lost a lot of weight and you look terrific, I shall certainly be looking at my wardrobe unfortunately I have gained weight over the summer so until I loose these extra pounds I shall box up my lovely fitted trousers and give myself a couple of months to work towards getting back in them. I love the casual style you show, still very smart without going over the top.

[@srking1183]

An other excellent video. I was drawn to your video for the simplicity it shows. Now in my 70's I also transitioned from formal office attire, but was not sure what direction to take. First I tried dressy casual, but it looked to preppy for the environment I now live in. I am not a denim jeans person and have never been. Now I find I'm not a dress or skirt person. I have removed all patterned clothes to another closet. There were only six of them. I have also donated all my grey clothing and accessories to a charity. I am low contrast in colouring but found the muted heathered colours aged me. Black, navy and whites are my best colours. I now feel better when I get dressed and when I look in my closet. I am still working on the feel of clothes. Living in a four season environment I have some scratchy wool sweaters to deal with. Ontario Canada.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Good morning from Northern Michigan! Thank you for giving me this insight into your situation. We can help you find your style together!

[@angier2289]

I feel like Mrs. Frump’n’Dump. I’m in transition yet again with weight and am wearing the same few things on repeat because I don’t like the way I look so I can’t bring myself to shop. Off to the gym now. 😊

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Give yourself some grace and take care of YOU in the here and now as well. You are worth self-care as you are right now.

[@marionannmacredie]

I’m 75 live in the countryside in New Zealand. I’ve lost weight and am now “normal “. I would love to wear “jeans and tee” but find jeans so uncomfortable- I’ve tested hundreds. I climb back into joggers or if I can find them stretchy pants. I love being able to relax in comfy stretchy clothes. I would love to wear shirts but can’t be bothered rolling up sleeves whenever I do something. So a simple tee- sleeveless or long suits. I fast walk everyday. I don’t go out much but can wear better pants etc when I need to. I still HATE wearing a bra but have retained boobs I feel are too large so my preference is dark tees. 🦋

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Kudos to you for staying active!!!

[@bethajean82]

Hi from Central PA- I recently retired from the medical profession, and my wardrobe was suits and scrubs, then changed to all scrubs during/after COVID. I am still hanging onto my suits, which I need to ditch. My daily dress is yoga pants and decent workout tops. I need to improve my daily dress ( I think my husband tolerates the attire), and I am not a fan of jeans. I guess looking into nice casual pants that can withstand outside yard work and maybe a few nice button-down shirts- I don't know. My fashion sense left when I started wearing scrubs every day. I feel comfortable in my " going out casual outfits"; however, the day-to-day wear is lacking.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It’s time to rediscover your personal style! Is it liberating to not wear scrubs all day?!

[@christineshields1714]

Hi from north Texas. I'm 69 and retired. My wardrobe is quite casual these days. In fact, I feel that is almost too casual. My goal is to have a wardrobe that is comfortable, casual yet elevated, and suitable for traveling.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you for giving me a little insight into your situation, as it helps me to plan future posts. And I love to hear that you are traveling!

[@courtneyannbougie1219]

Good morning from Portland, Maine. I’m a nurse- 38 years - now working in the “corporate nursing field” x 8 years. I’m 65 years old -😮-what??? I was just having babies and starting out in life- 😂- I’m getting too old for JCrew, no longer have the budget for Talbots- at least with any consistency- I’ve lost 30 pounds (put on with my corporate desk job) and poor choices- nightly wine to “de stress” I’m not going back to nightly alcohol and carb life- protein all day everyday and feel wonderful. My figure has changed from even my previous thin years……I dread social events because I have little to wear and living in LLBean country is, frankly awful. Unless you’re camping or skiing. I FEEL…exhausted about my midlife style. Struggle every day to maintain classic style. I FEEL….when I’m able to pull together an outfit, my appearance is tasteful, appropriate, and presentable. HOWEVER, it may take 3 tryouts and modifications before I get there. Again, exhausting. I found Carol Tuttle, “Dressing your truth” years ago and have found that very interesting and useful. LOVE YOUR CONTENT AND PLEASE KEEP THESE VIDEOS COMING. I’m learning from you!!❤

[@betterlivingonabudget]

I love your style, and agree with you on avoiding prints, especially florals. I do have a few blouses in neutral modern prints because sometimes I get tired of head-toe solids. My biggest closet focus now is upgrading the quality of my basics, which is slow-going but that's okay. Like you, I got off the corporate ladder in my 40s, and now am working in real estate. I live in SE FL, and prefer business casual in soft or flowy fabrics - I avoid anything with zippers.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this - thank you for trusting me!

[@Janiceshabet]

This was the best video!! I am in exactly the same place. Needing an update as my job responsibilities have changed, I am working out consistently, and need to purge and refresh the wardrobe. Looking forward to more videos to curate a wardrobe at this age and not just buy new stuff.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

HOORAY! Thank you for watching…and for trusting me!

[@wendythomson8382]

I love your style Valerie. I’m 66 and have been retired for 6 years. I also worked in the corporate world for many years and right now my style feels much too casual. I live in jeans/chinos and sneakers and while that suits certain aspects of my life running after all my grandchildren, I feel sloppy. I’m wondering if upgrading my shoe wardrobe might help? I’m happy with how I feel within myself other than getting back on the exercise train 😁

[@sherryobar5750]

Thank you! Still need to ditch a few prints, getting there. Feel good about my look and my continuing progress toward a newer style! Central Texas. Be Blessed 💜

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Kudos to you for making progress!!!

[@lindacretella8970]

A lot of great ideas Valarie, that is why l follow you for your fashion and advice. After I retired I had a hard time letting go of my dress work clothes. It took a couple of years but finally donated them to "Dress for Success" in my area. I am into a more casual dress style now. I feel good about myself....I have been blessed with staying thin. My hair has thinned out but I do use Aveda products which help me. We do have to embrace the fact of aging. Lookng good is also when you wear a good attitude and a giving heart. That's part of my wardrobe. But there are the days it's not so easy. Have a great weekend and thanks for this video. 🌷♥️

[@midlifeposhcloset]

“But there’s re days it’s not so easy.” I totally know what you mean. Thank you for watching…and for trusting me!

[@mkbrown3902]

I am a caregiver for my 95 year old dad. I retired early to do this, which i do not regret!!! So, I feel my current lifestyle is extremely casual. I feel my overall appearance has taken a backseat to my role as a caregiver. I do get dressed everyday, usually a 2 piece casual sets and sneakers and put on mascara and lip color. That's about the best I can do. I've learned to keep it neutral and simple. Thanks.

[@kimski5391]

Hi I’m Kim from CT , I’m 67 retired now. I love your videos ❤I worked up until we had our daughter in 1996 then I went back to work part time when she was in college. For 2 yrs. That’s when I realized I want to look more put together when we had date night or out with friends …..even casual outfits for around the house or grocery shopping sounds silly but….so I looked at my closet it was time to update a few things : slacks(3), jeans(4), (5-7) shirts I love, (4) sweaters……..so far it’s working 😊 I love your wardrobe ideas ❤

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I don’t think it’s silly to look pulled-together to go to the grocery store…you never know who you will run into. Well done on your part!

[@kimski5391]

@@midlifeposhcloset thank you 😊

[@bethw6439]

Hello from Maryland! I’m a happy person, but I’m not very happy with my current style. I don’t know much about fashion, so I have really appreciated all of your videos and LTK posts, as I feel I am learning a lot from you. As for being happy with how I look, I lost 130 lbs about 8 years ago, and have kept most of it off. I know I am healthier and look better. However, when I look in the mirror, a part of me still sees that larger woman, and I am still figuring out what looks good on my particular post menopausal midlife body. I am definitely a work in progress! LOL

[@marionannmacredie]

Yes the old body often looks back at us! 130 lb !! You should be PROUD!

[@bethw6439]

⁠@@marionannmacredie, thank you so much! I appreciate your kind words. You are right, the old body tends to show up in the mirror, no matter how long ago that body existed. It’s all a process, physical and mental. Whew!

[@marionannmacredie]

@@bethw6439 I have kept 60 lb off for 10 yrs after a lifetime of of struggle. Maintenance is a constant thing isn’t it? Even now with a good body i find it difficult to know what to wear which surprises me. 💞

[@bethw6439]

@@marionannmacredie I hear ya! There is definitely a bit of a disconnect between what is in the mirror and what is in my head. I love how Valarie talks us through why she has chosen what she did. Thank you, Valarie!

[@sheristrybos5831]

I’m very interested in hearing about your journey to a style you love. I can’t say that I have that right now. Have spent too much on color analyses ( many differing results) and can’t settle in on a style I love. Definitely a casual lifestyle for the most part now, but occasionally need to dress up. Love hearing your guidance and inspiration because I am drawn to your classic style. Thanks so much!!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you for giving me a little insight into your life and needs. It helps direct me with future posts. Thank you for watching and for trusting me!

[@susancheslin7274]

Hi I'm a retired petite lady. I wear what I can buy that fits me well. There isn't a great deal of choice in the uk for petite women over 60. Clothing tends to be shoddily made and aimed at young people. I prefer quality well made clothing, classic edgy styles and items that suit my body shape. They're usually like hens teeth as in not easily accessible or very expensive to buy. I'm fairly happy with how I look. I would like a more edgy timeless look to my styles.

[@kristenmorrison7323]

Covid has changed a lot of things. Thank you for saying that!

[@CM-ey6qy]

What helps me too is to have a go to color palette.

[@ColleenThompson-o5d]

New to site. 60 years old semi plus size recently retired professional having a hard time transitioning to casual but classic daytime clothes. From Sacramento California

[@donnac.8310]

Hi from Spokane Washington. I am 67 and retired 5 years ago. Shortly before i retired, a health scare motivated me to lose 40 lbs, exercise more, eat properly and then naturally a lot of clothes that no longer fit. Your video’s are helping me focus on replacing with items i can use to look more put together. I struggle with other aspects such as hair style - is there a point where shoulder length hair is no longer age appropriate? I’m also curious how you do your low bun - would you show us sometime?

[@midlifeposhcloset]

People ask me about the low bun all the time so making a note to do a quick video this week. Stay tuned. And this makes me so happy to read - HATS OFF TO YOU!!!

[@donnac.8310]

@ Thank you!

[@renitasalter2832]

Love this! Totally agree with you about getting rid of the prints....except I do enjoy a little little leopard print!🥰

[@midlifeposhcloset]

“A little leopard print” is totally okay…as long as it’s “a little”!

[@caseyyoung8330]

Loved this video- thank you for sharing your insight and being so candid. Your points on looking at your wardrobe were super insightful and I feel like they can help me get mine under control too. Thank you for sharing

[@midlifeposhcloset]

We will help you find your midlife style together…I’ve got you, Casey!

[@sharmanyoung5591]

Great video with the best line ever not yet ready for Chicos😊

[@Nickysmom]

I have so much and get overwhelmed. All expensive and not disposable but I will clean out things I no longer love. Some of what I have doesn’t fit but I want to keep. Maintaining an extensive closet is just too much work any more. I need to do some serious work

[@midlifeposhcloset]

You don’t have to throw anything away - just put it in a box and set it aside. This will allow you to look at your closet with fresh eyes!

[@pattybouley8803]

Hi from Minnesota, great tips! I’m retiring next July and planning to move closer to family. Can’t wait. I’m saving this video to go through my closet and make the edits you suggest. Love your videos! Thanks.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

HOORAY and congrats on your retirement!

[@sheilaternovacz3958]

Hello from Temecula, CA. I am about to turn 70 next month. I retired early due to medical reasons. I was very sick for about 15 years before getting diagnosed with toxic mold, and have been recovering since 2018. I’m a very young 69 year old and all my friends were always younger than me. My style is casual and I feel I’m stuck in the younger years and I’m at a loss of what to wear. I’m also very limited at what I can wear. Because of Thoracic Outlet Syndrome, I can only wear a v-neck or scoop neck top. It has to be a deep enough vneck so as not to trigger my nerves in the thoracic area as it can be very painful. The styles coming in this year are pretty much all crew neck. Also, my body is such that high waisted pants are very uncomfortable/painful, so I prefer mid rise. I don’t like having to tuck my tops in as it doesn’t look good on me. I’m 5’4” and weight about 123 lbs. I tend to carry my weight in my tummy. I don’t have many prints in my closet - mostly solid colors. My sister recently commented to me that I don’t wear a lot of color. She wears mostly Chicos brand. I just feel lost as the styles are changing and I’m unable to wear them.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you for giving me some insight into your personal situation! I love v-neck and scoop neck, but most midlife women are against showing the chest area….and midrise pants are getting really hard to find. Alas, we will help you find your midlife style together!

[@sheilaternovacz3958]

@@midlifeposhcloset - ❤️ thank you!

[@tplayspiano]

Retired financial advisor and multiple business suit owner here! 3 years in, still transitioning to a more casual dress code- kept my most fabulous blazers and shoes. Our local charities benefiting women do not want any pieces that cannot be machine washed…that leaves most of my work wardrobe out so my challenge remains re-styling those beloved pieces for a different life. Overall, I feel great and now have the freedom to flaunt my inner cowgirl with boots, fringe, etc. 😂

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this! Your comment definitely highlights that personal style will vary slightly according to region and lifestyle…without being over the top or “trying too hard”. Flaunt that inner cowgirl!

[@ΒιβηΖουμπακη]

0:04 This was a very good video!! I'll follow your steps one by one. To answer to your questions, i think my style is very simple but some times i feel invisible.

[@buckshot1488]

Hi from North Carolina. I'm 76 and very casual. Mostly levi's and t's, but I feel really old looking, blah and dumpy. I am 50 lbs. overweight. I mostly like simple or casual elegance with a nod toward the 1940's-to 1950's but I never wear anything like that. Honestly I just put on the ill fitting jeans and t's or hoodie or sweatshirt, and and just suffer with feeling sloppy.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It sounds like you were done, over it, and ready for a change!

[@Golfgal4661]

Getting rid of prints has helped me the most! Also limiting an outfit to only 2 colors

[@midlifeposhcloset]

WELL DONE! We are going to talk soon about how to incorporate three colors in order to create depth, dimension, and interest!

[@andreanixon1370]

Hello Andrea, here from the Midwest. The Midwest, because I live in Indianapolis and have a good vacation home on the Illinois River and spent two months during the hot months of the summer in northern Minnesota. In the winter, we live in northern Florida on a yacht with a tiny closet! I am happily married, but have six wonderful grandkids through my husband, of varying ages. We like to go out to eat a lot like and I like to look nice when I go out. Ihave two closets full of clothes and like many women when I go to get an outfit I don’t know what to wear or I just put on the same thing I wore the previous Friday night and that just drives me crazy. I love color so my closets look like a rainbow. I am a fairly tall, overweight, redhead, and have a hard time with all the videos on KZbin because it’s always about a little black dress which I can’t wear because of my complexion. Finding a wonderful tan or brown dress has been very hard for me. But I am still on the hunt. I have watched numerous influencers on KZbin and I have picked up different tips from different ladies. I love that you say don’t wear if you don’t like the way it feels. I have never kept anything that does not feel nice and soft on my skin but it made me think if I wear something and I’m constantly pulling it down or having to tuck it in that it just doesn’t feel right. So it’s time for them to go into the donation pile for a shorter torsoed woman. And I hope she loves the shirts. I am going to donate. It will be hard because I love the look and the style of them, but as you said, they just don’t feel right. I look forward to seeing more of your videos.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this! Also, I am going to recommend Suzanne at @atalldrinkofstyle on Instagram: she is 6'0 with red hair and should be able to help you! instagram.com/atalldrinkofstyle/

[@teresanash-mcneil-hf1fo]

I totally agree with everything you said in this video

[@debbiedemarco4934]

I am 65 years old. I feel the same way you did…not wanting to look too young or look too old. I want to follow the trends sometime, but realize I shouldn’t. I wear jeans everyday with T-shirts. I have never worn a lot of jewelry because I don’t have a lot or know how to wear it. I feel too casual and sloppy lot of the time. I do need to lose weight too. I don’t want to waste money buying clothes because my weight is always changing.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

It’s good for all of us to have goals, but we also need to meet ourselves where we are at here and now. I’ll post about it soon, but know that it’s okay to buy a few pieces now (even if it’s just something other than a t-shirt) to pair with those jeans. We will get there together! (PS: I started this account on items purchased at the thrift store for under $5…items that look just like what the retailers were selling brand new. *wink*)

[@jilltodd622]

About my midlife style; I feel a little better now that I’ve edited my closet thanks to many channels about fashion over 50. Wide leg jeans & trousers are a godsend. As for overall appearance; I know I could do so much better but lack the discipline to go to the gym and cut down on sugar. Most of my life I was happy with my appearance but on my 60th birthday I cried all day because I was miserable. Too many changes all at once.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I cried all day on my 50th birthday. Sending you big hugs and lots of love today.

[@Donnamorgan-w6p]

Excellent video. Thank you.

[@Fac725]

This video is so well done. Thank you 🙏

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Hope this helps - thank you for watching!

[@FindsoftheNCFoothills]

I’m 64 and on the cusp of leaving corporate life. I don’t know how my retirement style will be. I don’t want it to be too casual. I like workout clothes and that may be the direction I take. Another thought, I have blazers, expensive purses/ bags, and shoes. What do you do with your corporate items when you retire?

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I hang on to my blazers and wear them for things like dinner or lunch and in place of a coat or jacket. I donated most of my suits to a charity shop - that one hurt but its not up to me what happens to them now.

[@wandayoung7106]

Excellent video! Thank you 👍

[@yolrambhavesarach2883]

Thank you.❤

[@Sandra-m3g]

Thank you for this, it is excellent advice!

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Hope this helps!

[@kimnagyvathy8627]

Do you consider stripes and polka dots as prints? I would love to see stylish lounge wears/ pajamas ideas (lots of prints for me there). Exercise clothes recommendations.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Ditch the Prints - Exceptions to the Rule kzbin.infoQRZeN3neZe8?feature=share

[@TanyaRamirez-z6m]

Excellent video

[@midlifeposhcloset]

Thank you for watching!

[@shellydavis2980]

Wardrobe: getting there. Me: great for my age! But always room for improvement😊

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I love hearing this - well done!

[@crawfordsusan2436]

It’s more print tops that are the problem as opposed to bottoms. Most print tops look matronly esp if a woman has extra pounds on her. And pls don’t wear black near the face - black robs the face of color so best to wear shades that flatter your coloring.

[@midlifeposhcloset]

I agree about the prints, but respectfully…and politely…disagree about black around the face. 🤗

[@brendawilliams1869]

I feel unstylish and sloppy ,with a closet and totes full of clothes 😔