How I knew it was time to quit my stable 9-5 job

[@cHriiSzbEe]

Signs it’s time to quit your job 1: You wake up unmotivated 2: You’re lethargic 3: You’re unenthused 4: You don’t care if you get fired 5: You’re physically tired and emotionally drained 6: you no longer enjoy the work

[@atmostfeareric205]

I thought those was just part of the uniform

[@taynguyen7792]

I got all from that list and I was hanging for last 6 months and today is my last day at work

[@khakikohii]

​@@taynguyen7792 hello, do you have a new job after ?

[@PowerHittingMania]

All box is ticked😢

[@half-ass5754]

isn't it normal to feel that way?

[@bosnianpotato3935]

I'm working until the end of this month and then I'm going to chase my dreams. I'm buying a laptop, a camera and I'm going to travel around my country and shoot videos. Wish me luck 😃

[@sophansen579]

I'm on the same boat.

[@raffaelladaniel]

All the very best!

[@30somethingg]

How’s it going so far?

[@jamalgreen3056]

The thing is I want u all to pay attention to what I am about to say u have to look at things from an financial and economical level not from a personal level I heard her mention in her video they increased her salary by only 1% to account for inflation what I learned is yes they increase wages and salaries after inflation and the cost of living has increased and inflation and the cost of living is increasing by much more than 1% a year it’s increasing by 9% a year so when y’all think about it if u don’t have your money sitting into an asset or if your not doing anything where your money is multiplying constantly even though it may not do it predictably by sticking at a job like caregiver or even an event security or even working for Meta u will still be behind the cost of living and inflation because all wages and salaries that are being paid to everyday people aren’t competing against the cost of living nor inflation it’s to keep u behind so u keep working and striving for what u will never have and for u will never be in between u also have to pay for your rent light food and if u have a car your car note gas/transportation so u technically are stuck in a rot

[@jamalgreen3056]

But it doesn’t have to be this why I have recently started back doing one of the not so easy but not impossible for everyday people to do and i know a lot of people try to sell everyone onto real estate and affiliate marketing and multi level marketing or print on demand of having your own business or getting paid online by doing surveys or playing video games or by telling u to invest in the stock market through stocks bonds mutual funds or even by saving through traditional savings like irs or a cd the problem with all of these things is that they don’t produce outcomes that is in a timeframe suitable for everyday people and in uncertainty times today we don’t have much time to waist they also require a decent amount of money to even start off

[@brendaechols5929]

I know the feeling. I had Depression, exhaustion, vitamin deficiencies, headaches, body aches, muscular issues, i kept making mistakes, neck and shoulder tension, mandatory over time, etc

[@07xGH0ST]

@laverdadescatolica5 what does that have to do with sex? I guess men don't operate on vitamins? Make it make sense if you're going to be an asshole.

[@Galaxybeyondgalaxies23]

I quit my 10 year career due to depression , anxiety, high levels of stress and physical health decline. I didn't put myself first but instead put my career first. I tried my best to get an award each year, especially during covid, I overworked... but no award. I dedicated myself so I can be recognized but in the end, they didn't care when I submitted my resignation. You can be instantly be replaced and your work productivity won't mean anything. I lost so many family members along the way too, and some I could not attend their funerals because of work. It really sucked. Put yourself first people. I wish I took better care of myself but its not too late... I'll get back to 100% myself because I am feeling different... happier and free... no stress.

[@CJ-fh5xq]

Everyday at my Data Analyst job at the major bank. I also worked hard to get this far but im burnt. Thankfully Im still young, single, and no debt. I have a large nest egg to fall back on.

[@roxannenoriega5661]

Im a nurse. I presently work 2 jobs. I submitted my resignation to both this past week. I pray this will allow me to be more mentally, emotionally and physically present for MYSELF and my FAMILY!

[@fromaudreykao]

how exciting! wishing you all the best in this next chapter!

[@JohnBowl14690]

You're a nurse and you worked 2 jobs? Yeah...that's possible, but an RN in Cali makes $100 per hour. You might want to check your spending habits. I could easily make it as an RN working 24 hours per week.

[@xmistaxcashxcoll]

I'm starting from scratch. I can't wait to scratch the surface again.

[@jlo3349]

I work in an investment bank and it is literally bringing out the worst of me. I really dislike who I am becoming. So happy for you to have found your next role that is more align with your goals and strengths! All the best!

[@aim-for-greatn3z947]

But you make the money though 😂 you have to sacrifice something and be a slave to the financial system. I bet you love those pointless phone calls your not even needed and having to take notes for no damn reason. Especially those days when dealing with overseas clients 😂

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much! Hoping you find something that brings out the best in you - you deserve it 😊

[@gone.golfing]

Everybody hates their job lol what a society!

[@marykgarciapalacios5981]

I used to work for the bank industry. I left 5 years ago .

[@ErikamGar]

I got a job as a hostess in a guests house and that included helping in some chores the cleaning lady (the staff was only me, the owner and the lady) then the owner was almost Always mad at us because of all the work on his shoulders with very few staff, I brought out the worst of me, I did quit, didnt not last a month.

[@abby3359]

I’m commenting on this 1yr later, but oh my goodness does this hit home. Sis, I completely get you when you said your previous job made you an entirely different person. I am such a kind person in general but my current job is bringing out a scary side of me because I genuinely cannot deal with this environment anymore. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m hoping I will get another job offer soon so I can leave this hell hole.

[@TheBishop12]

Same. Before this job I was practicing on doing more listening skills (although I am an already quite agreeable and considerate person). But this new job my supervisor keeps telling me to keep the transactions at the counter to 5 mins max and not to overstate “extra” information or else “they would get the wrong idea/direction.” She keeps micromanaging and cutting into my transactions by saying just go to x floor. Also she has grandstanded numerous times by proclaiming even though she knows the answer she won’t tell them and sends them to another department because it’s not her job to explain it. And your job is to only x, y, and z. Seems all of this is just so she doesn’t have to deal with additional questions (I’m still training). Feel like a robot and can’t wait to transfer out in a month once my probation ends.

[@bosnianpotato3935]

I will have to write another comment, because when you started talking about how work started to affect your mental health and how it all drained your energy, it was unbelievable, but it was as if I was listening to my life story. Simply, work took away my energy, mentally health, I neglected my friends and even my family, and what hurt me the most was that I stopped smiling, and people used to recognize me by my wide smile. Now it will finally come to an end, I hope, I'm going to make my dreams come true, so let it be whatever happens. I wish everyone from the bottom of my heart to realize their dreams and live fulfilled and happy lives

[@fromaudreykao]

Thank you for your comment and I'm glad to hear that the discussion on mental health resonated with you! That's amazing that you're taking action to find work that you find fulfills you more and I really hope it works out for you!!!

[@Neta_2525]

“Here here”

[@nicoletiana]

wow. yes, THIS IS YOUR LIFE!!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO LIVE IT!!!! I JUST QUIT MY JOB AND I FEEL SO FREE AND RIGHT WHERE I NEED TO BE.

[@TheBishop12]

Update? I’m counting down 27 days until the end of my probation and I can transfer out from my hell to another department that’s a better fit

[@t.j.sonofjonaslove8225]

I quit my job in September 2023. I was putting in almost 9 to 10 hours a day, and they tried to force me to come back into the office even though i was told i could work from home permanently. I would have been dedicating almost 12 hours a day there(1 and a half hours getting ready driving there and back). It would have been too much stress. Also, some of the people I would have been going back into the office to work with were some of the most toxic human beings on planet earth. They were a bunch trouble makers and all I wanted to do was do my job and go home. It has been a month since I quit. I'm a lot happier and my blood pressure has dropped significantly. I'm now looking for a new position and living my best life.

[@traderhines76]

Sheesh. What’s going to happen if you don’t find a job within the next twelve months?

[@scecko]

Definitely contemplating quitting my job. It's a great job, but I feel like it steals my most creative/productive hours. But... quitting is scary. 🤷‍♂

[@fromaudreykao]

Hi Scecko! I'd be curous to know what scares you about quitting?

[@scecko]

@@fromaudreykao Really just the financial stability. I have kids and a "lifestyle" I guess you could say. If I fail, then I have people to answer to, and it would be hard to justify. On the other hand, if I quit I feel like I could better on my own.

[@maestro93]

i feel you man

[@RetroMobGaming]

@@sceckosame feeling my friend; just put in my two weeks at my Tech job and feeling super anxious. However that contemplation of leaving or not leaving will ultimately keep you in the same place. The last straw for me was they decided it was ok to hire 16 people with no experience and pay them 10k more; expecting us to train them….. yeah I’m done. We are all expendable; I refuse to stress myself over a job that doesn’t stress themselves over me. All that is to say; trust your gut my brother, with God by your side and faith that you can attain better means you will. Good luck 🙏

[@CantoBoo]

Same here. I don't think I'm that enthusiastic about my job anymore for months, and I always have another dream of creating sth. Like product design, wanna design products for those have special brian or physical conditions. Now I just started my Cantonese KZbin channel. And I got fired yesterday 😂. And I'm so far quite hopeful for my freelance path. Hope I keep with for my creative spirit

[@thesilvertechie3070]

I totally understand and resonated with you. I quit my stable job as a software engineer for 7 years when my son was born and I was very frustrated with how little time I could spend with him. You only get those years once and while it certainly wasn't the best financial decision, I don't regret it! It's only through retrospect that I realized I felt pointless in a huge corporate machine, failing to find any meaning. Now that my son is in preschool, I'm older and wiser I finally feel ready to rejoin but have to decide to pursue a more meaningful career though it actually will bring me less financial stability. At the end of the day we only get one life and we need to really think about how we live it!

[@fromaudreykao]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I admire your courage to quit your job, especially after so many years, to prioritize the things that was more important to you, your son

[@HouseOfJolene]

I quit my job on tuesday and I have been negotiating my notice period. I cannot wait to start living my life and figuring out what i'm going to do instead of a 9-5 because bills don't stop coming in.

[@abdulnourseddiki4749]

How's it going now?

[@siyabongadlamini7852]

​@abdulnourseddiki4749 he or she is probably too broke to answer now 😂😂😂

[@leifdux7277]

How's it going now?

[@siyabongadlamini7852]

@@HouseOfJolene broke

[@HouseOfJolene]

@@leifdux7277 Hey I ended up going straight into a part time job while i figured out what I wanted to do for money and ended up absolutely LOVING my part time role and new team so much I ended up staying 🙂 Reading my comment is crazy considering how much has changed in the past year! I hope you're alright though.

[@medjeff8930]

Today makes four days since I quitted my job. It was my dream job but the mental and physical drain is crazy. I was working in a Big Four Audit Firm. I had itchy bloodshot and teary eyes for the past two years which have cleared up just four days away from staring at a laptop for 8+ hours everyday. I feel so alien looking at people go about their business under the sun. I have an event hall that I'm working on and may never go back to corporate life. Life is short.

[@dystanysam9896]

I’m going to quite my job tomorrow, that how’s I’ve been feeling this couple of moths just been so draining ..lately & dealing with constantly bullying almost ,everyday from my co worker .

[@joelmckaig946]

I quit my last job because my boss treated me really bad and discriminated against me everyday. And she was going to fire me and I wasn't going to let her have that satisfaction.

[@dfuk66]

Same here lol I sensed b.s from bad hungry managers so I quit...in the future when those 2 managers get fired...the truth will come out that I quit the bad managers

[@kelatero07]

Enjoy your new life 🎉🎉❤❤

[@Zulethe992]

I’m a clinical social worker at a hospital as well and now I just do PRN and I love it. I work when I want and take days off when I want. Of course it helps that I’m financially able to do so.

[@stewartbone4236]

So true, burnout is destructive so I am giving up, taking an easier role, relaxing, getting into what I like. BS job was pointless, watching my colleagues resign, feeling crap at work.

[@dejahblue96]

This video is so inspiring 🤩🙌🏾 I still work my 9-5 but am grateful to no longer need a job within the next couple of years. One of my good friends is teaching me wealth building principles and how to get my money working for me outside of my job, so far I got debt free! Chase your dreams guys! Jobs are great temporarily or if you went to school for it and your job calls for a degree but otherwise, there are so many other opportunities to immerse yourself in✨ wishing you the best of luck in all your endeavors!

[@nathananderson8720]

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 5 months ago about self development. Now I have 324 subs and > 100 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I couldn’t have learned without getting started in the 1st place.

[@Herman-ug5ok]

Dude your channel is amazing. I've just watched the shorts on it, but tonight, I'm planning to watch the long form videos. Please do what you're doing man. You definitely have potential. Your channel may not blow up soon but for the amount of videos you've uploaded, the numbers are pretty impressive. Personal development is definitely your thing from what I'm able to gauge from your shorts. Just one small constructive criticism I would like to offer is, "Work on your Thumbnails". There's too many things going on in the thumbnail. I'm no expert, but I'd say if you upload consistently, you'll certainly make it. Good luck to you, my friend. I hope you achieve your dreams. New subscriber of yours!

[@nathananderson8720]

@@Herman-ug5ok Thanks so much! I realized that the main reason for doing this is not about the success but the inspiration I've been providing some people with my stories while helping others do the same as I shared the lessons & experiences through making videos to have a sense of meaningful purpose. Therefore, I’m planning to quit nursing to pursue youtube full time as there are lots of issues in our traditional health systems as these don’t align with my values. It’s a huge learning curve but I love helping people through making videos. Also, as part of my video creation progress, I’m switching to a better editing software and a camera so the learning curve is much higher and slows down the completion speed of my next videos so please hang on tight! I do appreciate your support and kind words! I am hoping that you can join me with this endless personal development journey! :)

[@Herman-ug5ok]

@@nathananderson8720 Good to hear back from you, Nathan! Great to know that you're upgrading. I will watch out for your content.

[@nathananderson8720]

@@Herman-ug5ok Please note that my next video progress bar is posted in my KZbin banner or cover photo. Speed is not the greatest determinant of progress. Enjoying the process of creation while providing as much value as I could are more important to me. Trust me, even when it’s slow, that doesn’t mean that I haven’t been moving forward. :) In fact, most likely, I’ll be uploading my next one this month, which is > 1 hour long and packed with footage and tons of valuable information that I wanna present in the best way I can. I’m looking forward to improving as I go and provide as much value as I can. thanks so much for your support! :)

[@N.F.E.]

My job let me go over 6 months ago and I knew my time was coming because of how I was being treated. I was considering quitting but the favor was done for me. I can honestly say I've been much happier especially mentally. I may pick up a side gig and make money that way. Working with others has become more difficult these days which makes jobs not worthwhile.

[@iamomarhachem]

Totally felt this. I got let go from a stable job toward the end of 2022, right before the Christmas holidays - it was very sudden and unexpected. The way things were handled was pretty stone cold. No warning. No decency. No willingness to move me to another area. I thought I finally found my place, but I was completely wrong in the end. It still triggers me to this day when the thought circles back. I haven't applied to another job since and I don't think I want to; that realization has become the silver lining. I've been an entrepreneur at heart from a young age, but it was always something I just did on the side and never took seriously. I'm multi-passionate, so I figure might as well take all the things I enjoy (and that I know I'm good at) and turn it into something great. Sounds like you've arrived at a similar realization for yourself. Best of luck to you!

[@N.F.E.]

@@iamomarhachem Everything you said was spot on. Everything happens for a reason. Best of luck to you!

[@anitaknight3915]

​@@N.F.E.I was let go as well and could tell I needed to exit due to how I was being treated too by a gaslighting manipulative employer. Initially I felt devastated and betrayed but choosing to see it as a spiritual catalyst to find better place that values me and freedom to follow my purpose. Best of luck to you! Everything happens for our highest good.

[@anitaknight3915]

​​@@iamomarhachemsending you positive vibes ✨ 🙏. Same exact thing happened to me few months ago where I was ambushed and fired in a very cruel abrupt way. It's devastating and unsettling to have no decency or empathy nor allow parting ways on professional terms with a notice or resignation. I understand the grief, anger, and rollercoaster of ruminating emotions. Like yourself I had the realization I wasn't valued, appreciated, drained, & gaslit and meant for freedom of self employment to pursue my passion. We'll be led to something better that values us and it'll be a blessing in disguise 🙌.

[@N.F.E.]

@@anitaknight3915 Thank you so much for the kind words and your positivity. It's unfortunate how cruel people can be and I hope things are working out for you and continue working out for you!

[@internetangel-t6p]

You summarized it perfectly. I related to and thought about everything you said nearly 100%. Our time and energy is very precious and needs to be spent as such. People are afraid of instability and the unknowable future but I think it's worth taking a risk for the possible benefits and potential growth, especially when you are young.

[@arnelpen8751]

I'm about to quit my 8-4 online job. I've been working since I'm 19, that would make 17 years now. I've finished my mortgages and had 7 figures in my savings. I've reached the point of looking on making a good chapter of my life after a long years of battling life securities. Everyone would get to the same point as I did, but I suggest before that time comes, make sure you have some of the life necessities about to get in place - property assets and financial stability.

[@Urbanchicaful]

what job do you do?

[@arnelpen8751]

@@Urbanchicaful im a graphic-web designer & developer🙂

[@theinquisitor18]

I'm in the United States. I'm a recent grad, as well. I was gonna go into the tech field, but the lay-offs turned me away. I've secured a government job. I'm gonna get paid around $37k. I'm willing to take such a low salary because I care about stability over prosperity. I'm happy for you. You go!!!

[@speedyfeint]

wait.. what? you can't even survive with 37k salary in usa.

[@theinquisitor18]

@@speedyfeint, it's definitely doable.

[@Bigboss-xe6lm]

Jesus, you need a grad to get that kind of pay? Thats terrible

[@theinquisitor18]

@@Bigboss-xe6lm, I do not disagree, but a good portion of entry-level positions in my area pay trash wages, like just pure trash - even lower than $37k. Since I wrote this post, they've upped me to roughly $40k. In a few months, they'll up me to around $43k. In about a year, they'll up me to $50k I am getting decent raises. I could have gotten higher paying positions that started out straight at $50k, but it would have required a major relocation, one I'm just not ready for. I'm in public service, btw. 😊

[@Bigboss-xe6lm]

@@theinquisitor18 That sounds more doable. Good for you!

[@Michevell]

You literally spoke to my soul, I am in the healthcare field and you’re absolutely right about everything you just said. I am currently trying to get myself out of it. I realized it wasn’t for me since I was in college but I went along with it because I invested so much already into it but I want out. Best of luck to you ❤

[@fromaudreykao]

so happy to hear that my story resonated with you 😊 I hope things are going well for you as well and you find something that's a better fit for you!

[@jamesgraves9858]

No one understands the demands of working in healthcare.

[@Michevell]

@@jamesgraves9858 lol it’s certainly endless fun 😅

[@carlosquall15]

Living in the Philippines, it is almost expected for anyone not to choose your job with the kind of economy we have. It's difficult for someone like me who just takes jobs so i can have the means to pursue the career i really like(career in art). I made the decision to quit and do freelancing for 2 years because my day job is consuming everything in me, (travel to work takes 3 hours, same as going back home, imagine 6 hours a day just for the travel! In addition to the demanding nature of the job itself, we're almost living in the office). I need more time to pursue what i really love

[@Lizbeth36961]

Im in the same boat, my heart goes out to you.

[@JLee14]

You really hit the nail on the head with the points you made. I couldn't put into words some of the things you felt that I also feel but you did a great job describing everything!

[@Kimmilloyd7581]

Thanks for putting this out. Can totally relate. I’ve been burnt out for years and finally diagnosed with depression and brought out the worst in me. Quitting soon.

[@sierramccarroll9657]

this is where i am at right now

[@siliconeyes]

All these questions you posed are all very good questions, especially the last one. I'm currently working in retail and there's been a lot of changes in working conditions for the company I'm working for I'm slowly getting burned out and feeling like nothing about the job feels meaningful to me anymore. (Have been thinking of quitting, too.) And when I heard your last question, it just hits me how much of an a**hole and irritable and angry I've become these past months when dealing with people, even with my family. When compared to how I was when I first started the job... I just don't feel like old myself anymore. Also, when you talked about difficulty thinking and making decisions (which includes the question of whether to quit or not), it's just like there's a bulb lights up in my head. I remember thinking while you touched on that subject, “Oh, so that's what's going on with me!” I thought it only affects stuff like concentration or being blank most of the time. Thank you for the enlightenment! I'm still having difficulty deciding on whether to quit my retail job or not (one more thing I've figured out about myself is that I like to overthink and worry about a lot of things), but thank you for making that decision making process a little bit easier for me with this video. I wish you all the best with your therapist job (yup, I've also watched your update video) and hope you have a good day!

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much for sharing your experience and I'm glad to hear that my video could help you come to some important realizations within yourself :) taking your time to make a decision is not necessarily a bad thing if it helps you to make the best possible decision for yourself. wishing you best of luck in whatever you decide to do next 😊

[@jessicazhao88]

Decided to quit my 9-5 last day is next week. Looking forward to getting my health back on track working a 9-5 has taken a tole on my mind and body sitting at the desk all day 😅. No plans yet not sure what to do i really want the freedom to choose my own schedule. Currently have a side gig so maybe will work on growing that as most people and ex's talked me out it saying money isnt stable not a good long term career i also got the feeling its not as prestigious title as a makeup artist but its what I'm more passionate about. Will see how this goes!

[@fromaudreykao]

how exciting!! rooting for you 😊

[@JimmyHuynhdesign]

I've watched a handful of these quit your job videos and I would love if they would share how they're handleing the financial side. Of course it's easy to say quit if you're feeling like you're having a tough time at work. Most people would quit if they didn't have to worry about needing to pay the bills.

[@cjay2074]

I couldn’t have found your video at a better time. I also work in healthcare and everything you’ve said resonates so much. I want to quit so much but the guilt has been holding me back, time to break that cycle!

[@fromaudreykao]

i'm so glad to hear that you connected with my video :) sounds like you've already made your decision 😆

[@yse2010]

My previous job was a stable one with promising bonus every year.. however the workload were increasingly and bosses are getting more demanding for creatives, I did wish I could continue to work there because the people there are less age gap and working happily even though it's very stressful. When one day the management changed a policy where all new staff joining would start with the amount which I took 4 years effort to reach; a new superior joined recently that I kind of not want to cross path with ; and same time reaching a body weight I couldn't control, together with mental health uncheck.. That's when I decided to finally quit... The company was the best workplace I had worked with so far, yet I felt that I'm just not good enough myself.

[@behappydamnit2752]

I'm a Canadian SW as well and I've been working for a corporation for the last year and I have been feeling everything you have described. Last week I gave my notice and my last day is coming up quick. At first I actually felt guilty for giving up my safe source of income, especially since my family was so proud that I got this job. but hearing stories like yours helps solidify that it isn't (and shouldn't be) all about the income. I am fortunate that I already have a part-time job that I'm able to make full time over the summer as I do not even have the mental energy to apply on new jobs. I'm not even done my full-time job yet and I can already feel small parts of me coming back. Burnout is a terrible thing! Thank you for sharing your story, it's good to hear of other similar experiences, especially when those around you do not understand and question your decisions!

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much for your thoughtful comment and for sharing your story! It's also nice to know on my end that I'm not the only one who has gone through this 😅that's really courageous to leave and find another path that works better for you, especially when you're also facing judgement from family. Congrats and wishing you all the best in whatever you choose to pursue next 🥳

[@behappydamnit2752]

@@fromaudreykao Thank you for the kind words! :)

[@skytech168]

Well done! Actually, today is my first day of being unemployed! I could not been more happier and definitely looking forward to something better as I've been stressful and burned out. Good to hear that you have done a right decision. Again, stable income is good but if that makes our mental health affected, that's gonna cost a lot more in the coming years.

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much for the support and congratulations on leaving a situation that was not serving you! I'm excited for what's next for you :)

[@migz_8894]

Man social work is such a tough job, I also work in the field and have been plotting my escape. Between the poor pay, poor environment, and the fact that you are spending your time and energy with other people who come to you with problems ONLY. Not solutions, or anything positive, it's pretty much all negative and you have to remain positive and provide service to people going through the lowest points of their life. It's impossible for it not to affect your personal health and wellbeing. It's honestly not worth the trade off and it keeps you from thriving and enjoying in other areas of your life for sure. Thanks for sharing! Caviot, i agree you will meet the nicest people ever in healthcare and social work careers.

[@fromaudreykao]

we're in this together 🥲 the bad days are BAD but it's the best feeling when you're actually able to make a positive impact in someone's life. I personally find a part time schedule much more manageable and it allows me to actually enjoy my work. I hope you're able to find a similar balance for yourself!

[@migz_8894]

@fromaudreykao thank you, I hope so too. you have an LCSW right?

[@jamesl.o.h.6000]

Being young at your age & having the courage to make a life long decision for your dreams I'd say go for it. Those wise questions really hit the nail on the head. You've decided to pursue dreams & I'm sure your passion won't let you down. I believe when our mind really make a decision & want to go something, it always leads you to your dreams.

[@Lavida-melody]

Loved the video! I was in your position in the beginning of the year. I’m pretty sure the burn out caused me to develop alopecia. I finally got out of my soul sucking job and landed something more flexible and enjoyable. Things will work out when you believe that they will!

[@MariaEspinal-pg4pn]

How is your alopecia now?

[@malithiahdez7453]

Me running into this video as someone who works in healthcare. This is a sign 😭

[@fromaudreykao]

we see the signs that we want to see 💁🏻‍♀️

[@bunniewood]

Why cant companies treat us right??! We need to fight for our rights

[@francis1961]

Greed.

[@crocus5632]

I also quit my job and am going to feeelance. I am sure to find enough clients with my expertise. I've been going it for 20 years for a company, ns will now do the same on my own. Totally excited about not having to ask for vacation time and get rejected.

[@robhype2372]

Thank you for posting this video. There are soo many things I can relate to this video. I work in tech as a software programmer in a high performing environment with high demands and relatively low compensation. I can tell you that burnout is a serious issue we take for granted and it cam definitely affect our mental heath and sustaining our relationships with our family/love ones.

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you for sharing your experience and I'm glad to hear that my video resonated with you 😊 interesting how the issue of burnout exists in a variety of industries. I do hope that, now that the world is coming out of the pandemic, that workplaces across the board will make some changes to better support their employees. If not, I think employees have had a huge wake-up call about what they truly want out of the work that they do and will be less afraid to go after it 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@DavidAllFire]

I’m not okay with how much of my energy goes to my job each week, but I’m definitely not quitting to “follow my dreams”. Instead I will find a way to make my dreams work, THEN quit my job”. Your stable 100K job protects you from the worst type of stress and anxiety, which is financial stress and not knowing how you are gonna pay the bills…. It’s okay that a lot of people want out of the 9 to 5 world, but be smart about making your exit 💯

[@seafarer_]

I had the same experience leading to me leaving my job. It was literally killing me - constant head and stomachaches, new autoimmune issues leading to emergency surgery, and had minor depression. Free for one month now, and I feel like a different person. Now I remember what makes me happy and I’m getting all the things that have been on my to-do list for ages done. I’m taking on a new role with a new company where I can see that the growth path is actually going somewhere I want to be. It doesn’t feed my ego as much as my old job, but I actually feel happy thinking about going to work there. Also - can I just say that you are so well spoken! You can really tell a story and make it engaging while still keeping things concise. Super easy to follow!

[@fromaudreykao]

I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through that. I'm glad you're recovering well and in a more supportive work environment! And thank you so much for the positive feedback, that really means a lot 😊

[@faithlollipop]

I can totally relate!!!! It was the office setting for me.. an hour drive to work and back.... the promotion is unheard of with my ex company and I had to beg for it.. no recognition, feeling stuck, dissatified and not rewarding at all. My job working with events agency required creativity + physical + understaffed. the joy in me gradually left my body lol. I dreaded work, i dont have enerygy for anything, i started feeling depressed and the time i decided to quit i was burned out, crying every night, i cant sleep well, I dont have any joy on doing things and depressed. I QUIT. I'm in much better mental state now doing a different line of work, nope im not making as much compared to working corporate job but im not gonna put my mental and emotional health on the line again for someone else's gain. Myself is more important than any money or corporations.

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you for sharing your story! i really respect that you put yourself first and created a better situation for yourself. wishing you all the best!

[@Lizbeth36961]

What kind of job do you do now?

[@BlackkWiidow]

When you mentioned napping, woooooo! I never did that until I started this job 😵‍💫

[@john-atallah]

Thanks for this video Audrey. I am a clinical social worker at a psychiatric hospital. I find myself more drained than I ever have been in my life. Similar situation where I went to school to get a masters but then wonder why I chose it. I am considering quitting after the holiday craziness and moving to private practice. Thanks for you insight.

[@fromaudreykao]

Thank you for your thoughtful comment John! I can't even imagine what it must be like being a social worker in a psychiatric hospital. I don't blame you for being drained. I hope you are able to find something that offers you a better balance and more of your energy back!

[@john-atallah]

@@fromaudreykao thank you for you're kind words Audrey ☺️

[@Zulethe992]

I’m a clinical social worker at a hospital as well and now I just do PRN and I love it. I work when I want and take days off when I want. Of course it helps that I’m financially able to do so.

[@Zulethe992]

I’m a clinical social worker at a hospital as well and now I just do PRN and I love it. I work when I want and take days off when I want. Of course it helps that I’m financially able to do so.

[@Frkdsnbrd4103]

I can relate with all your points especially about the salary cap. I'm going to ask my manager if I can switch part-time this coming August so I can focus on my health and invest time in learning new skills.

[@amycolucci6769]

Im a hospital dietitian 15 years in 39 burnt out😢😢😢

[@DS11110]

Thanks for sharing your story ❤ I do what works for me. It doesn't have to make sense to anyone else except myself 👍 I do value my time and energy too. It took three close people dying to know how overworked I was in terms of my energy.

[@MsCamilleB]

Thank you for this video…I’m exactly in this situation right now…going back and forth, deep down feeling that it’s time to leave.

[@kellyquestions]

I love that you shared where you ended up! Glad you found a new opportunity that is making you feel fulfilled! 💚

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much! 😊

[@sheldonchitray6093]

This is exactly were I'm at .These questions were what I needed to ask myself. Thank you for sharing

[@turboZ3]

it ain't for everyone that's for sure - i do it just cause i like routine and predictability but i'm doing a foray into the private sector rn and liking it also! liked the video thx for sharing!

[@Rockin.Bakken]

Thank you for sharing. I have beating myself up for being so irritable. I’m giving myself until January 2024 to put in my notice to chase pursue my passions. Wish me luck! 🎉

[@fromaudreykao]

eee I'm excited for you!! Best of luck in your next chapter 😊

[@adammorra3813]

@rockin.bakken did you put your notice in?

[@Rockin.Bakken]

@@adammorra3813 God I wish. Not yet

[@AdonisGaming93]

I work full-time in retail and I completely related to the thing you said about finishing a day of work and just not wanting to go do anything because of being so tired. My job just drained all of my energy. I haven't quit yet but I'm working on saving enough to do it soon. Fingers crossed

[@samyakhan88]

i just quit my job to pursue a passion i only discovered last year. i have no concrete plan but just going to go for it! 😅

[@fromaudreykao]

ooh i'm excited for you!! Best of luck!

[@prodbyfatur]

I'm 28, I have 3 months left to quitting my 9 to 5 job as audio product specialist, I was burnout to handle some product complaints from customer that didn't work. Making youtube video for the company, selling online product on tiktok live streams🙂 2025 will be my new journey as music producer, challenging myself, more creativity without any expectation at all. Thank you for the content, Audrey 🌾

[@arabellamuller2461]

I’m 55 years old , I always had to battle with how I will get to cope , if I lose my job as an MD , luckily for me I faced my fears by diversifying my Income and pays from my job , invested them to make more money and savings for my self … THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN’T DO .

[@francisvelazco7501]

How did you manage to diversify your funds to fetch you more money ?

[@elizabethsweattallison8633]

Diversifying ?

[@arabellamuller2461]

@@francisvelazco7501 There are different kinds of investment you can try and as well get good returns on your capitals. I focus more on cryptos, NFTs, real estate crowing and IDOs. With the assistance of a financial consultant, I’m doing well for myself.

[@francisvelazco7501]

@@arabellamuller2461 Thanks for your response but how do I get access to your financial consultant? Can you share more info about him or her if you don’t mind.

[@arabellamuller2461]

@@francisvelazco7501 I have been working with Carmine wilson consults for a long time now

[@Uncle_Tijikun]

I quit my job as a sales exec in a big IT company to go back to a simpler, less prestigious customer service job for the same reasons. It was just not the role for me and I can't wait for the week to be over to start the new job and finally have time to learn new things and retrain in something else I like more. I needed the validation feom this video, thanks! 😂

[@fromaudreykao]

i'm excited for you! wishing you all the best in your new chapter 😊

[@michaellim7635]

Love this story and reflection questions. I don't think people reflect enough about their trajectory and get overly focused on their current position. Look above you people. Do you want their life? If not, get off the game now and start playing another one.

[@FraZzJ]

I remember when I was like 19, I was the best worker in my company, and when new workers came in they were making more or the same to what I made. I realized then that hard work truly doesnt pay, and it makes sense to rotate jobs because longevity is not really rewarded.

[@Priinsu]

I'm in the military and just got back from deployment. I was working 18-20 hour days for two months straight. I've been on a two week vacation back home with my mom and all I've had the energy to do is sleep in until 4pm. The symptoms you described is exactly how I'm feeling right now. I have three days left of vacation. The idea of doing this for 10 more years to get a pension is giving me anxiety tbh.

[@pamelamaupoy7453]

My current jobs brings out the worst in me. I always hope to be kind in all situation but the people in my workplace brings out the evilness in me and i dont like it. Hopefully, i can quit by the end of the year and have a fresh start by next year🙏

[@Speckled_Butterfly7206]

I understand fully. My recent job I was there for a year & 8 months after doing a temp job for 2 months after leaving my previous job( the very last time I went back to after graduation) I was completely burnt out from everything, also being a new mom to a 1 year old. I got to the point where I hated the job and couldn't stand it anymore, and because I was, I guess, showing it around work, knowing the newbies with no experience were getting almost $2 more than us with years of experience, and it got the point where i had enough, and they tried to coach me after reporting a manager for harassment and I refused to sign it knowing it was BS. Fast forward to 2 months ago when my mother had to have surgery, my work had known i would be leaving for a year, and instead of worrying about LOA knowing I wouldn't go back, I resigned. I know the burnout feeling for sure. I have been doing the research into starting what I can do and most of the steps require money up front. And then bc I have used all my reserve funds, I start feeling defeated, but I just keep going between listing things on marketplace & ebay. Just to try to generate some extra income. I hope you are doing better now.🙏🏻 I know its been a year since this video but still 🙏🏻.

[@compassionatepeercounseling]

Thank you for sharing your experience. It was really interesting how the burnout was affecting your decision making. I also appreciate your description of the energy investment outside of working hours that happens with a job.

[@fromaudreykao]

thank YOU for watching! hope it could offer some insight in some way :)

[@prodbyfatur]

I'm 28, I have 3 months left to quitting my 9 to 5 job as audio product specialist, I was burnout to handle some product complaints from customer that didn't work. Making youtube video for the company, selling online product on tiktok 🙂 2025 will be my new journey as music producer, challenging myself, more creativity without any expectation at all. Thank you for the content, Audrey 🌾

[@rubikscube6722]

This entire video is excellent and your description about the body and mental signals you had in your terrible job are exactly what I’m feeling now

[@fromaudreykao]

i'm sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. hoping you find something that's more supportive for your wellbeing and that you have a speedy recovery 😊

[@RanDom-bk8tt]

What a helpful video!!! Bless your soul!! I wish you well for sharing such interesting perspective and advice!

[@koreanpinaycouple6558]

I am in healthcare field. I do overtime 4 to 5 days a week. I feel anxious everytime I'm working. I am not sleeping well and I get depressed most times. I am not motivated anymore because I feel so exhausted. I know I am burnt out. I am giving myself about 1 more month. It would be 5 years in this company for me by then. I dont have a new job lined up. My calling is to be an entrepreneur.

[@fromaudreykao]

I'm sad to hear that you're feeling so burnt out and exhausted. I hope you're able to find something else that makes you feel excited and energized 😊

[@reneepiper3620]

Thank you so so so much for sharing that you got some of these questions from your therapist!!! It sounds like you have such a good one, and I am so happy for you for having that support and clarity from a professional! I also really appreciate you saying that got some really good questions/prompts from your therapist because something I’ve been talking about with my manager is that I cannot afford professional help to aid in the my work stress (despite being one of the highest performers in the office and doing everything to manage the work stress)- these questions really benefitted me considering my situation, and I appreciate them so much. 💕 Thank you and thank your therapist! 🙏🏻

[@fromaudreykao]

i'm so glad to hear that my video brought you some insight! wishing you luck in your decision-making 😊

[@ehwick8175]

I'm on the same boat when it comes to climbing the ladder in my industry. Becoming a project manager in architecture means coordinating and getting people to do all the work its takes to put drawing set together. I love 3d modeling and drawing details so that means giving up the majority of my time doing that and making calls and emails instead. Not to mention convincing interns and lower level employees to work overtime to meet unrealistic deadlines not even set by the PM's. I'm hoping to divert into another area of the industry into the BIM manager roles, so that at least I still have my foot in the 3d world and may even still get to model and troubleshoot models for ppl and can consult other industries that use BIM. I would like to be a consultant or contractor for BIM, so that i'm not tied to one company and their success.

[@Billybobthor]

Saving this video to rewatch when I retire in about 6-7 years. Nice job with it.

[@Billybobthor]

Subscribed too.

[@bradmesser4807]

Same here. I hit a dead-end in Big Tech really quickly. We just operated at two different places and it just didn't make sense. By the time I left, I was far outstripping what my peers could do and since they couldn't keep up, it was time to go.

[@emp0rt]

I'm quitting my 6 figure job. Last day this Friday. You pretty much nailed my thought process on the whole thing.

[@TessaMoore]

LOVED this video!! I think as young people in the workforce there is so much pressure to grind with no care for your mental health - I'm with you on low energy and brain fog. also OMG the sunshine list comment sent me, I remember always checking my profs on that list and thinking "how on earth are they making that much for this..."

[@fromaudreykao]

hahah! the sunshine list is such an eye-opener 😂

[@Stopit77]

I am a teacher, you just described every symptom of my life, I want people to understand the effects of such jobs on every single aspect of your life. I have no energy left after working each day and, honestly, it is no way to live. The reality is I can’t leave right now, but I am planning on leaving before true retirement age. I need my life back so moving abroad is an option in order to afford another life. Thank you for this video ❤

[@rodneyh1947]

I teach also as a side gig, but I am a sub. So chill, I just have to show up and do the job for the day, no grading, no lesson planning, not responsible for the kids except for the day I work. I would never be full fledge teacher.

[@mourninggirll]

I love listening to you speak! Your speaking style is succinct and approachable.

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much for your positive feedback! that really means a lot to me 😊

[@RealArtVandelay]

I just quit a 100k a tear job in broadcasting because I have been feeling trapped for well over 25 years, I love this field of work but my creativity was suffering and doing it just on the weekends and at night wasnt cutting it. Like you say, the time that you have you spend it sleeping or unwinding because youre exhausted from your day at work. I feel terrified but also fullfilled for the first time in decades! Going back to University this September, wish me luck :)

[@marcoscastro1398]

I feel drained and I want to leave this job 😩, but is been 30 years for me and I have two years to go before I can get a check from the annuity. But my health is getting worse and I. Not a healthy men anymore.

[@sozekyser2837]

Never ever put your health or mental well-being on the line for an employer who would replace you within a day of leaving them. Your life and health should always come first Marcos Castro :)

[@SunnyDepth]

Thank you for sharing this. I SO needed to hear this and consider these factors.

[@fromaudreykao]

I'm so glad to hear that my video could bring you some insight 😊 all the best!

[@bkhkh7285]

Very enteresting) I live in area we don't have such an option as hiring jobs. Basicaly we live in paleolite era. Gathering, hunting, fishing a cetera.. But very similar, if you miss a season you f..d up by winter.

[@jamrellb]

OMG Thank you for this video! I feel so spiritually drained at my job and want to be a content creator. Glad to see someone like you prioritize their physical and mental health over the money and prestige.

[@fromaudreykao]

I'm so glad to hear that you connected with my video! hoping you're able to find something soon that's more supportive and energizing 😊

[@teamkaskas]

I am a mental health and addictions nurse in Toronto. I need to get out too 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 Glad I found your channel ❤

[@fromaudreykao]

Working in healthcare in toronto is its own beast 😅 That is a really tough job and I have a lot of respect for what you do. Wishing you the best in your next chapter!

[@CF-fx9eo]

These are excellent questions - extremely helpful advice to so many. Thank you so much for doing this video!

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you for watching! I'm so happy to hear that my video could be helpful to you 😊

[@JXinChao]

I can relate perfectly well with what you said. A nurse here. Great job 🎉

[@fromaudreykao]

Having observed what nurses do on a daily basis on the job, I have a deep respect for the profession. I hope you are taking care of yourself! And thank you so much for the positive feedback 😊

[@Thelegendaryskunk]

I’m planning for my shop relaunch because my current job has caused so much burn out. I’ve also vocalized my burn out to my manager and there’s been zero change. My therapist mentioned rephrasing how I’m burned out to something specific to workplace environments because companies will easily take burn out as a you problem and not an overall problem even if it’s affecting multiple people. I won’t be able to quit my job once my shop relaunches BUT it will help get me to the point of quitting.

[@nicolejay4153]

As a miner , I have very little energy on my days off to where I just don’t want to do anything and my hobbies just feels like a damn chore . This video helped a lot in figuring out what’s wrong with me . Thanks

[@Lizbeth36961]

Perhaps we’re all slaves of the system. I’m an admin assistant but I want to return to my home country, but the pay is too small there and I feel here is also not great for the current economy, I’m also looking for alternatives to the 9-5, mine is actually 8-5. It seems like they’re giving one person the job that should be assigned to 2 people 🧐

[@taragozay]

Working in social work at the bachelors level while doing another job I enjoy for the same rate. It’s given me great knowledge and I love my team but we sometimes get treated like numbers. However the job has good benefits, but it’s still not keeping up with cost of living. I still can’t get a studio apartment in my area on this income so I keep wondering if I just need to find my passion again or move where I actually make money. I long to add more to my KZbin and my friendships which I have neglected. I feel the whole “unable to make decisions” thing. The irony is I coach people on sleep, nutrition and finance and yet those are all the things that have been inefficient for me while working 60+ hours a week. Considering a total career switch / work from home or actually learning in a different sector like real estate/marketing but I’m honestly missing the time to teach, create, and play shows!!

[@londonunnie]

Love your cheerful storytelling style ^^ Congratulations on your awesome reflections!!

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you so much for the positive feedback! 😊

[@TheKylesampson]

Thank you for posting this 🎉

[@fromaudreykao]

thank you for watching, Kyle! :)

[@urassisdragon]

So work in healthcare for 3 years. I hate my job as I am limited to having the patients no one in the office the other clinicians want to see and anything unusual I am not allowed to see. My income is capped and my disposable income/amount saved will be decreasing for the unforeseeable future. I am bored to death at work. However it does offer good insurance and good work/life Balance. My thought it to quit in January but I will have to find a job doing something else. To stay in my specialized field I would have to move cities and not quite ready to do it. Love the video -lots of things to consider-very eloquent!

[@fromaudreykao]

it's a tough choice but I'm sure you will make the right decision. Thank you for your positive feedback and wishing you best of luck in your next chapter 😊

[@jlprescott7243]

You got your time back, which is more important than money. Cheers!

[@learningtogetheredu]

I actually quit my toxic job last year and i started a KZbin channel and though I have realized that it is hard to grow a channel there is no regrets for i know that one day that KZbin channel will pay off

[@markuchiha7737]

I even cried losing a job for some reason but leaving it all behind, it was a huge win. I'm proud of leaving it. Theres more to life than this shit.

[@badcholesterol]

wrong. for all of human history there were worker bees, and various societal echelons. Or were thou so naïve as to believe serfdom went away when feudalism "went away"?

[@dfuk66]

proud of you

[@rushanejclarke]

The days of working a 9-5 for decades is over.

[@samruddhiingale3666]

I recently quit my job as well. I spent around 10 hours working and 5 hours commuting to my workplace to do a job that could be done in a normal shift working from home. I did it for 6 months and my health deteriorated to the point that I was taking medicines every single day to stay awake and work. I had my wake-up call a week back and I had to decide to just let go of this opportunity and do something of my own. I was burnt out and I am still recovering physically and mentally. But I know that things will get better now that I know my worth and my goals. 😃

[@RoleyChiu]

I was also trapped in my creative role in gov. The next step up was management, but it would take me away from the creative. And it people management was not what I signed up for. So I've been preparing to replace my 9-5 with my amazon business in 2 years. Your video is inspiring as I follow a similar journey. Thanks for making :).

[@masonpines8345]

I am new to the healthcare field, just got a job there. It’s nice to feel important like you said so for now I’ll stick with it.. but I wonder if I’ll ever feel tired of it in the future. Will update later maybe.

[@fromaudreykao]

please do keep us updated! 😊

[@abdullahiosman1485]

Really.. cute, calm, articulate and humble. Please stay this way when you have grown up as a KZbiner.. 😊