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@ninaderena
@ninaderena 9 күн бұрын
everything you said in this video is SO RELATABLE! thank you for sharing, I felt like my feelings and what I'm going through right now have finally been validated!
@ethanmackler1160
@ethanmackler1160 11 күн бұрын
I'm looking forward to moving out of my hometown and to fully recovering from my injury. I might tey the letter. Nwver heard of it before but someone came to mind when you mentioned it.
@jamesjohnson1094
@jamesjohnson1094 12 күн бұрын
Genuine question - what are you meant to do if you're a white guy and attracted to asian women? Not because of the stereotypes about small meek submissive crap. Just visually attracted. Is that yellow fever? How do you approach someone without being creepy like the stories you mentioned in the video? I always found a lot of asian women attractive since I was a teenager, before I even knew these stereotypes. Maybe I have an asian fetish. I don't know if I'm supposed to feel guilty about it.
@jennycheng1183
@jennycheng1183 13 күн бұрын
Wow, this video was very insightful and I learned a lot! I really appreciated how thoughtful the questions you came up to ask your interviewers were. This is so spot on!
@kjdaniels3267
@kjdaniels3267 14 күн бұрын
Thanks for recommending the wise mind 🙂, I tend to lean more towards the highly rational mindset. I relate to staying in a bad job situation, due to practical reasons. I got a lot out of this video.
@beaur252
@beaur252 15 күн бұрын
Men find them sexually attractive, oh boohoohoo!! Feminists are nuts.
@DavidKnicks
@DavidKnicks 17 күн бұрын
Well done! 😎
@mrc_vp
@mrc_vp 17 күн бұрын
Thank you very much for sharing all of this! Wishing all of you the best in the coming year ❤ Take care
@--Singularity--
@--Singularity-- 18 күн бұрын
We talked in the past. 15 Years ago. You were then 28 years old. Should i let it go ?
@Yasmine91646
@Yasmine91646 19 күн бұрын
Many people experience this. There are just some people in the world who take their attraction to what is opposite of them to the extreme. I have been fetishized by white men. Many white men have also shared their experiences of being fetishized by Asian women. The act of fetishization isn't particular to one race. Everyone experiences/can experience being fetishized.
@shadennn17
@shadennn17 22 күн бұрын
chat gbt recommended me this !
@carolangeli1025
@carolangeli1025 22 күн бұрын
30 years as a nurse and at yet another job that makes me want to cry. Lots of effort. Little pay through orientation. The pay wasn’t disclosed until yesterday (regarding orientation rates). I’m wanting to walk. But I’ve already been living off of credit cards for a month. Finances are skinny
@moonlightxyz8728
@moonlightxyz8728 25 күн бұрын
I’m in my 3rd year after quitting the corporate world without a backup plan. No more dealing with bosses, two-faced coworkers, or toxic work environments. I run an Etsy shop and Amazon KDP to support myself. I practiced living extremely frugally for the past 2 years, but I’ve toned it down a bit this year since my finances are improving. Now, my mental health is at its best, I’m living my dream life, and I’ll never go back to the 9-to-5 world. It’s not all rainbows and stars (yet) being a solopreneur and choosing an unconventional way to earn a living, but I’m 10x happier than ever and can already see the light guiding me on the path ahead. Even if no one in the world believes you can make it - not even your mom - you must trust yourself. What I am today is because I trusted myself back then.
@JakeRhoades
@JakeRhoades 26 күн бұрын
I've always had confidence to be honest never fake it.
@liannegraham7284
@liannegraham7284 28 күн бұрын
Great job Audrey! Loved this video - hope you're doing well. :)
@TaliCali-k6b
@TaliCali-k6b Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤embrace the beauty that they tried to define as unatractive based on their racist majrity standard
@hotstuff697
@hotstuff697 Ай бұрын
Do not quit a job without a backup plan. Make sure you have some savings set aside. Don't listen to these youtubers
@ExplorerBob
@ExplorerBob Ай бұрын
The problem with your take on "self-assertiveness" is that, had immigrant Asian parents taken this same attitude, most of the children of immigrants would not enjoy nearly the same successes without extraordinary support from their parents, and be worse off. You are correct that mental health is often swept under the rug, and not enough is done within the culture to acknowledge, much less address burnout. Stable jobs are valued for good reason though, and nothing hits it home harder when a person is struggling to make ends meet and not be able to pay the bills (i.e. some people do not have the luxury of switching and gambling on uncertain work).
@stefaneedtv
@stefaneedtv Ай бұрын
I’m glad you were honest about why you stayed. It’s similar to mines, I like my title and income… but hate everything else. I’m grateful for the opportunity but I’m drained.
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
it's so tough to leave the comfort of a stable income and impressive title 😬 eventually, the burnout got to the point where the title and income were no longer worth it for me to stay 🤷🏻‍♀️
@emichoochoo
@emichoochoo Ай бұрын
You are a great speaker !!! :)
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
thank you so much for the positive feedback! ☺️
@DerWinkler
@DerWinkler Ай бұрын
I love your videos, always happy when a new one comes out. You have such a positive and inspiring personality
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
this comment made my day. thank you so much 😊
@--Singularity--
@--Singularity-- Ай бұрын
So you have a choice to drive to your old work place ? You see my friend. You don´t have a choice. It´s made for you. It´s all rigged. And wish you well..
@--Singularity--
@--Singularity-- Ай бұрын
If you don´t feel well on a road to your old work place. Believe me. It´s all rigged to the road. Thin AM6 Laptop simulation can´t run anymore bots there. And you would notice, that they´re all the same. Same BOTS than before. It´s all rerun simulation. Enough this charade ! Ask Riker. kzbin.info/www/bejne/hJ7Zfpmefd51iKs
@--Singularity--
@--Singularity-- Ай бұрын
Your psychology doesn´t help in this Simulation. But it´s gives food to the table. One day you might notice that it´s rigged Truwoman show. All is rigged. Your work, home, thoughts, feelings. Trump will be Speaker of the House Kamala will be President
@donc-m4900
@donc-m4900 Ай бұрын
I'm not sure how to fake confidence.
@starryskies6510
@starryskies6510 Ай бұрын
Please make a video about accepting our bodies
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
on it 🫡
@nervousmilk
@nervousmilk Ай бұрын
thank you so much audrey, i really appreciate you making this video!💙
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
thank you for the kind comment! I'm glad you found it helpful 😊
@PinkPensieve
@PinkPensieve Ай бұрын
I have been seriously thinking about quitting my job since early this year, around March maybe...for the exact same reasons. 😟 I do not like who I am becoming because of the stress and lack of freedom that came with the job. This is the longest time I have stayed in one company, tbh. I been in my current job for almost 8 years now, something that my 20-something self could never imagine nor tolerate. 😅 But, yeah, now that I'm in my mid thirties, I find myself waking up grumpier than ever- if I do manage to even get to sleep. I feel all kinds of pain in my body~ muscles, joints, nerves, you name it! Crazy migraines, allergic reactions that led me to the emergency room again just the other day. I'm sick of it~and I'm working from home! I don't like the idea of feeling tied anymore and having to ask for permission to take days off. 🙃 I'm finding my way towards freelancing as soon as I can! 🙏💖
@Jinglesthekat
@Jinglesthekat Ай бұрын
It’s as if I’m reading my own story. I’ve been in prayer and thinking about quitting and doing something different in the meantime. I just chicken out because of my bills and supporting my son. It’s rough. I’m praying that God would give us clarity on what to do.
@PinkPensieve
@PinkPensieve Ай бұрын
@@Jinglesthekat hugs and prayers! 💖🙏
@QueenmotivationK
@QueenmotivationK Ай бұрын
Unfortunately i can’t rely on your experience since you have a chanel and you earn money from it so there is always a backup plan for a content creator who has already certain number of followers/subscribers. What about normal people who must face the research of a new job ?
@FraZzJ
@FraZzJ Ай бұрын
I remember when I was like 19, I was the best worker in my company, and when new workers came in they were making more or the same to what I made. I realized then that hard work truly doesnt pay, and it makes sense to rotate jobs because longevity is not really rewarded.
@KansaiCool
@KansaiCool Ай бұрын
I knew it was time to go when my sense of humor turned morbid and defeatist. Every morning had me asking what I was even doing.
@NoDramaAllowed
@NoDramaAllowed Ай бұрын
You say you do therapy, you a therapist? So you have a degree??
@megansteele6302
@megansteele6302 Ай бұрын
20 videos finally actual advice. Thank you ❤
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao Ай бұрын
thank you so much for the positive feedback! it really means a lot and I'm glad you found my video helpful 😊
@Matthew_A_N
@Matthew_A_N Ай бұрын
So funny once you hear the definition of "Quiet Quitting" then you are like oh so you mean just doing your job.
@michaelm3404
@michaelm3404 2 ай бұрын
I'm impressed at how accurately you talk about this.
@Fredsta4christ
@Fredsta4christ 2 ай бұрын
It's taken me almost 3 years to quit my job. I still haven't. lol.
@AlexaLikes
@AlexaLikes 2 ай бұрын
As nice as a pension is, some of us will pass away before we see it. And what’s sadder is spending your life working something you dislike and not even get to use the pension.
@taragozay
@taragozay 2 ай бұрын
Working in social work at the bachelors level while doing another job I enjoy for the same rate. It’s given me great knowledge and I love my team but we sometimes get treated like numbers. However the job has good benefits, but it’s still not keeping up with cost of living. I still can’t get a studio apartment in my area on this income so I keep wondering if I just need to find my passion again or move where I actually make money. I long to add more to my KZbin and my friendships which I have neglected. I feel the whole “unable to make decisions” thing. The irony is I coach people on sleep, nutrition and finance and yet those are all the things that have been inefficient for me while working 60+ hours a week. Considering a total career switch / work from home or actually learning in a different sector like real estate/marketing but I’m honestly missing the time to teach, create, and play shows!!
@torialvs
@torialvs 2 ай бұрын
Nice channel, congrats
@drb-kb5sp
@drb-kb5sp 2 ай бұрын
I love Asian woman. Not as a fetish. They are feminine, delicate, and have marriageable traits. American women look and act single, even though they are married.
@jasonl3254
@jasonl3254 2 ай бұрын
I don’t understand people like her who say they need to find another job because they want to continue to learn and grow. Learning can be done outside the job. She can always read, self-study, or enroll in masters programs. Ultimately, her primary objective is not to learn for the sake of learning. It is to learn to increase her money making potential.
@fr0z3n-tuna
@fr0z3n-tuna 2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your tips for seasonal depression. I have been noticing myself feeling more depressed lately so this video was perfect timing.
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao 2 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to hear this video was timely for you 😊 hope things feel lighter for you soon!
@Keshly16
@Keshly16 2 ай бұрын
Im gling to.try to hold a job until i know what im about to do. Id rather have headaches as to living out another mans house.
@erinelizabeth5164
@erinelizabeth5164 2 ай бұрын
Can you be my therapist 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
@erinelizabeth5164
@erinelizabeth5164 2 ай бұрын
I really like your delivery. You’re very smart
@Osha1
@Osha1 2 ай бұрын
Man if I don’t relate to this. I currently work with my city and it’s a really great paying job but man I am so burnt out I absolutely jump on every chance I get to take a extended vacation or extra day off
@AvogadroAvogadro
@AvogadroAvogadro 2 ай бұрын
I know this: Asians are more trustworthy to me than those people.
@liannegraham7284
@liannegraham7284 2 ай бұрын
As usual, great job Audrey!! :) SAD is tough and hope you're hanging in there. <3 Finn was so adorable in this video lol
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao 2 ай бұрын
thank you for the support as always Lianne 😊💕 hope you and Medli have a cozy fall/winter!
@LoveEverything-h4o
@LoveEverything-h4o 2 ай бұрын
I left my job 10 months ago, and it was the best decision I ever made.
@joyfullencounters
@joyfullencounters 2 ай бұрын
as a seasonal depressive disorder girly, i feel seen :") thanks for this video audrey!! also your dog doing a downward dog is so cute
@fromaudreykao
@fromaudreykao 2 ай бұрын
aw thanks for the support as always joy 😊💕 hope you're hanging in there!