It´s all engineered. Your feelings. Cosh you are engineered. Product. Owned by this Future Corporation. You are product.

0:04 But but but…. Finn-o wasn’t doing anything lol

Yes its real …. Now I am trying to quit because I cant take this anymore ….

Thank you so much for your content! I’m a certified pharmacy tech and at one point, I was very passionate about pharmacy. Now, I’m miserable and the industry is taking a toll on my own mental health. So, I’m quitting so I don’t end up on meds myself.

Excellent advice!

I quit my job a month ago after 21 years. My workplace environment had eroded over the last decade. There was no work/life balance or sense of teamwork. My employer refused to hire new employees and put the extra hours on my staff's back. 60 hours a week became the norm (12 hour shifts five days a week). My last supervisor got his position by default. He was lazy, juvenile and ironically a micromanager. I called him out on his nonsense and quit on the spot. I have never felt so free. Half a year's salary saved up and a bachelors degree. I can chill for a minute while looking for a job in my field. All I have is options.

Regarding Red Flag 6: You just have a feeling. If you have to keep thinking back about what your boss and your coworkers are saying to you at workplace, then It is 95 percent certain that It is time to leave.

watching this makes me want to go back to my bed

thank you for sharing!! i can relate. though i disliked my job when i left i felt like i had gone through a break up and i never quite understood why :")) love watching your vids!!!

Thank you for posting all these videos, I can relate to a lot of it and it has been so beneficial and inspiring to me :)

I finished my masters and started working as a psychologist at a hospital by the beginning of last year. Everything you say resonates so so much with me. Without going too much in detail, I reached a breaking point after only about five month and I quit that job. My self-confidence was so so destroyed after the experience, especially because I was so inexperienced and new at this. I was told that my collegues thought I was not cut out to be a psychologist / therapist and I genuinely believed it and thought about changing careers completely. Friends of mine encouraged me though to try it again at a different hospital. One advice that especially stuck with me was "Well, it's a pretty big decision to change careers. So you want it to be a well informed decision. And for this you need to make sure whether it was you or that workplace specifically. So try it again somewhere else. If it goes wrong again, then maybe think again about the career change. But maybe it goes right this time." So I started at a different hospital in January of this year and WOW, IT ACTUALLY CAN BE DIFFERENT! I think it was mainly a different atmosphere there, I felt like I had much more space to breathe, and I caught myself thinking all the time "Seeee, this is how this should be.". I still catch myself ruminating about my old job once in a while, playing some hurtful moments in my head, but I feel how I'm really recovering, feeling better week by week, and building my professional confidence back. <3

13:57 really identified with this experience

I believe I have trauma or PTSD after being my mother's caregiver for 5 years because she had dementia. She died almost 2 years ago and the regret and guilt I still feel has left me suicidal and doing self harm almost daily

I work at an addictions clinic, and I sit right beside our social worker, you guys really do amazing work, and I can't believe just how demanding your job is. The amount of traumatic events you have to work with, the terrible situations you have to witness on a daily basis as well. I hope your recovery goes well!

I am thinking atleast have 1 CR INR before quite

The days are long and the years short.😂

I remember wanting so desperately to work as a receptionist in an office back in my "2010" days. Pshh! I've quit 2 office jobs since then and was unlawfully terminated from a different office job in 2020. Feel free to check out my story. It takes a special type of person to quit and move on. 9/10 it's for YOUR good!

Don’t quit. Save up for 6 months. Take a Personal leave of absence. Do what you need to do to figure your stuff out. It’s extremely hard to start a business or find another job. Take a LOA first so at least you still have something to fall back on (if your current job allows this of course)

❤ love this. Thank you!

I recently quit my job as well. I spent around 10 hours working and 5 hours commuting to my workplace to do a job that could be done in a normal shift working from home. I did it for 6 months and my health deteriorated to the point that I was taking medicines every single day to stay awake and work. I had my wake-up call a week back and I had to decide to just let go of this opportunity and do something of my own. I was burnt out and I am still recovering physically and mentally. But I know that things will get better now that I know my worth and my goals. 😃

Thank you so so so much for sharing that you got some of these questions from your therapist!!! It sounds like you have such a good one, and I am so happy for you for having that support and clarity from a professional! I also really appreciate you saying that got some really good questions/prompts from your therapist because something I’ve been talking about with my manager is that I cannot afford professional help to aid in the my work stress (despite being one of the highest performers in the office and doing everything to manage the work stress)- these questions really benefitted me considering my situation, and I appreciate them so much. 💕 Thank you and thank your therapist! 🙏🏻

Generation-laZy . I remember in my day we had to work our way up and even spend years doing jobs we did not like before being promoted to mid-senior-manager level positions. This generation is entitled, mentally weak, and unprepared for 9-5 work hours.

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Where i work they are very resistant to change and updating

I'm kinda disappointed for the lack of information about disorganized attachment.

Thank you for this series of videos, I found them very helpful, baraka Allahou fik

Dayum you should do more content about it

very helpful thank you!

omg! I am listening you, I loeeeve to hear you Audrey!

If you have alternative income such as KZbin and living at your parents home or being supported by a partner, then quitting a job is not so much of a drama ! Stop milking your viewers

I just quit my job... and i don't really know what i am gonna do.. but i feel free... i know it is not gonna be easy.. but i am ready for my new adventure... the only thing i am sure about is: whatever will happen, i am gonna learn something new and valuable!

Thanks Audrey❤this is really inspiring me and giving me clues that i am in a toxic workplace right now. I feel relieved after watching your video cause it’s obvious that unsupportive mentor is sign of red flag😢 it’s not only my problem😔and actually there are so many factors mentioned in your video just click me😢 thank you for the video❤

It is so frustrating to me to see the comments on instagram about avoidant attachers. it's so unfair how they paint people with anxious attachment as victims and those who are avoidant as the victimizers. it's so false. I've always been avoidant in my relationships and my partners have been anxious attachers and THEY were abusive to me. their (insatiable) desperation for closeness led them to behave in really toxic ways, and a lot of anxious attachers trample over boundaries to try and get their needs met. it's not good guy/bad guy, there are toxic and unhealthy anxious attachers and unhealthy avoidants. there are avoidants who are doing their best and working on their stuff and have good intentions and there are the same for those who are anxious. people need to stop projecting their hurt onto innocent people.

I heard somewhere that you can have different attachments to different people in your life. I am not sure that's true, but that being said, yes, I think you can tell someone is rather one or the other, maybe a mix of some, and not pathologize them. Sometimes, it's good to know what's bad for you, and anything other than secure will make you aware something is wrong (a secure can fck sth up too, sure, everyone does).

Ah, this video felt so hopeful and reassuring. I gave in my resignation last month and I have last 2 weeks ahead of me in this job. So watching this with having already made my choice while I'm thinking about all my possibilities in the future felt like a hug i needed today ☺️

Don’t quit your jobs kids. If you have to ask others if you should you aren’t ready.

Thais Gibson and Craig Kenneth are also great experts when it comes to relationships and attachment therapy. Both are accredited.

Very entertaining and educational at the same time. Great job Audrey :)

Tick Tock, factual? Not so much.

There is a insecure and secure attachment…..

After 40 years of observation I am very tired of Asian American angst. They are all too often consumed by subjective issues too complicated to deal with. To avoid these issues it's best to avoid Asian-Americans.

Audrey, what kind of job are you doing now?

A therapist once said I have anxious attachment style, because I do call my bf out when he starts to act distant and cold. I don't do it because I am scared he is leaving me, I do it because I hate it that he changed his personality amd became super selfish. I am noy afraid of losing my partner, in fact, I try to end the relationships when I notice we are not compatible. Does it really count as anxious style?

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I have a strong feeling that I have the disorganized attachment style

Glad I found your channel 🫶

Girl , thank you!! I tried breaking up with my boyfriend a month ago and it felt so wrong because I obviously made all the mistakes you mentioned 😂 He got me around to staying... I'll try again following this guide 😂