How I Live with 2 Mother-inlaws in My Marriage - Morayo Afolabi-Brown YourView

How I Live with 2 Mother-inlaws in My Marriage - Morayo Afolabi-Brown YourView
Here is how I Live with my 2 Mother in-laws in My Marriage by Morayo Afolabi-Brown of YourView. Marriage Clinic @ 3 hosted LIVE the Chief Media Consultant, Kabiti Media & Host of YourView on TVC - Morayo Afolabi-Brown as She Speaks on Daughter in-law & Mother in-law Relationship. Morayo's Story is a Prolific One as She has her Husband's Mother & Grandmother (i.e. the Mother that gave Birth to her husband + the Mother that gave birth to her husband's Mother) Living together with them under the same roof in her Marriage. This means She's Living with 2 Mother in-laws at the same time & both MILs Love her so much like their own Daughter and they will always say will rather give up our Life for Morayo than Watch anything bad happen to her. How is She able to Live amicable for these Many Years with 2 Mother In-laws at the same time under the same roof with her in husband 's house in a World where MIL & DIL usually Live like Cat & Dog? Make it a Date as She will be sharing that with us LIVE come Thursday at 6pm Prompt on Our KZbin Channel - Marriage Clinic TV via the Link kzbin.infoOG0KH0k2ZFA
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[@RM-ee8se]

Morayo, you are a gift to our generation. Femi Brown is my hero for his leadership qualities. He needs to open a clinic for men👍👍👍

[@wendaoued8874]

My mother in law is the best thing that ever happened to me. Sooo lovely, calm, joyful, respectful, very caring, prayerful and sincere. She helps me a lottttttt in the house. She has been staying with me since the birth of my first child and i never mind her staying. I like it. Its been 5 years. I even think that if she leaves I might suffer more. She is just precious. I love her and very proud to show her off. She is very cute too. 63 looking like 47. Just a pure soul. All what I can say is thank you Lord.

[@jossieo8530]

Thank you Lord. Very happy for you.

[@abimbolailesanmi9179]

Congratulations Such are very rear!!! Most are extremely selfish They often want their sons to succeed While the wife is restricted, frustrated and stranded I rejoice with you sincerely

[@eniolaanibaba1180]

I am happy for you,God bless your mother in law immensely and you too in Jesus Name

[@dorcasadebayo1403]

God bless her. I'm so happy for you.

[@kumbiaros216]

God bless mama for you...you are blessed sis❤❤

[@ogonnaokechukwu1761]

Morayo has a very good mother, if her mother was bad she would have destroyed her home since she was her adviser. I celebrate Morayo's mother for been so kind n understanding. May she continue to rest in peace. Amen

[@themortgagechic_ca]

Morayos mother in law is a precious soul.. so calm.. soft spoken , i lived in her BQ in OAU staff Quarters .

[@oyedoyinajala9645]

In my opinion, ill state a few things I picked from here, (that helped Morayo): 1. Her Mum helped a great deal, thank God for mums like that. 2. She's matured to sieve out advice, not allowing friends' advice to jeopardize her home and future. 3. Her maturity. 4. Her husband's love - If her husband does not love her, she would've been out of that house. 5. There's Money to put a lot of things in place. - Else, all these things will not work. I learned a lot from this. Thanks, Sis Morayo, and bigger thanks to the host.

[@nwachukwuifeoma1695]

Exactly

[@esthersbrief]

Why am I crying? Morayo your such a sweet soul. The part of the two women coming out to look for you during the endsar era was it for me.

[@YeyiloTV]

Exactly, it almost got me teary too.

[@chizobaumeh3571]

I am telling you!! Morayo is such an angel. God will really bless her. She is really sowing a seed.

[@GreenageStore]

I really miss my mother in-law. But unfortunately, things didn't work out well. 1. The husband is the main player here. Firm and a good leader 2. The wife must have a job that she is not always in the house with them. She must also be well brought up 3. There must be enough finance to feed everyone comfortably 4. There must be househelps to do every little chore not expecting the wife to take care of everyone or the mother in-law acting like a senior maid. If all these are fixed, no matter the calm or wicked mother in-law, things will work out.

[@ogunlekeolayinka8722]

Exactly

[@nwachukwuifeoma1695]

On point dear

[@DayoAlao]

I thought I loved Morayo but now I totally honour her. Little wonder God is blessing her and she ain’t seen nothing yet. God bless her beautiful heart…💜💜💜

[@Folashade_momoh]

I totally agreed with Morayo. Your husband has to be a leader. I presently live with my mother inlaw because we just relocated abroad. But one thing I can say is that my husband is a firm and that makes it easier for us. Also my MIL is a sweet woman even though we have our own disagreements, but overall she’s a great woman and I’m happy

[@oluwatoyinadams3215]

Oohhh, tears running through my eyes when she said the two old women came looking for her amist end Sars rioters. I wish I'm this lucky with my sister in-laws that stands as my mother-in-law

[@bdoye4021]

Sorry, but do you regard them as so.

[@journeyingthru1733]

Morayo's mother is a key factor in who she is now and I'm happy that her daughters have her too.

[@realtobiloba]

Morayo ooo. My respect for you keep increasing by the day. You're such a gem! Thanks for sharing your wealth of experience on MILs, and shout out to Mr Brown!

[@RM-ee8se]

Morayo’s mum, God rest your soul. You did a goooooooooood job on your baby!!!! She leads, we follow in being a Christian wife

[@kafayatoyinkansola2176]

I'm not even crying. Aunty Morayo is a total inspiration. Thank you for always sharing. This is a guide to us gilrs. May our best part always shows up in us.

[@UntangledMind_CPM]

Morayo, your mum was a very good and an unusual mother. Thank God for the mothers in your life. It's a great blessing.

[@margaretadegoke7151]

Morayo I congratulate you for having a good mother.

[@randomdynamic4664]

I love this woman ,she is real ,she didn't pretend to be perfect she didn't fake anything thanks alot

[@SisterAmaka]

This interview contains a wealth of wisdom for the single and married, honestly it was quite enriching. I have subscribed to this edifying channel. Honestly, all I got from this is that this life, handling the delicate relationships that come with it, all requires wisdom. May God help us. And God, may we marry husbands that are sensible and understand how to set boundaries. Thank God for the life of all involved - I like that it's not like Morayo's mum-in-laws started saying maybe she bewitched the husband because of how firm he is.

[@themortgagechic_ca]

It will be nice to have Morayos husband come and tell the guys how hes been able to manage the relationship between his mothers and wife.

[@doryk5833]

I agree with you Cos if Mr Brown were a mummy boy,no matter how good Morayo is. This will certainly create an emotional insecurity for Morayo. Even Morayo said that her husband will tell her that this is your house in his mother's presence

[@angelaodah5690]

Morayo you are an inspiration. Real words of wisdom to guide women. Mother inlaws are a blessing, and should be treated with love and respect after labouring to raise their child turned adult, who is now our spouse, it's a gift. Most women have problems because they use the assumptions in society about MILs to relate with their mother in laws. Treat her with love and patience and you will enjoy her. Even when there are disagreements settle it with love and without bitterness. I enjoyed a great relationship with my mother in law, but we lost her in 2002, and I wish she lived longer to enjoy the fruits of her labour.

[@willsdaring6090]

I enjoyed every segment of this discussion! Morayo! The maturity you are displaying is a gift from God! You have a kind of heart that women should inculcate. Yes, your husband has a firm resolve and knows when to draw the line; you played a vital role that led to that.

[@atilolaomotosho6550]

Thanks so much, this is indeed a blessing. Every woman needs to watch this video

[@sidicniy874]

It is not that couples that need their space from in-laws are bad people because some couples even decide not to have children early in their marriage so that they can enjoy the first and two years of their marriage. The most important thing is when a man is a discipline and firm individual it will be easier for the wife because she will be alright knowing her husband can handle the situation and control it wisely unlike a mummy's boy husband that everything the mother does is not to be questioned.

[@marriageclinictv]

Right. True...

[@danielopara2025]

Morayo has earned my respect. Good 👍🏿

[@yemi5193]

Thanks to both the host and Morayo. This is a beautiful segment and I’ve learnt so much from this video. Much appreciated

[@olatooreraola8409]

I salute Morayo's husband. Na real man he be!!! God bless you Sir. E maa pe fun wa. My mother did everything but because my dad didn't stand up for her, she was walked over like a doormat, her absolute tolerance and warmth worked against her

[@beatriceekunboyejo5728]

Thank God for the husband as a head of the family he played a good role in this home

[@deboraholufunke1846]

I was so blessed with this episode, God bless you morayo. You are indeed a great daughter inlaw and I am encouraged. Thanks to the host, its indeed a wonderful program.

[@akebukola7309]

This makes me so emotional. Thank you so much for sharing this depth of wisdom

[@joanayo-ajayi4055]

Morayo you are such a sweet soul.Your marriage testimony is as blessing to me.God bless you

[@youngsam5250]

God bless your husband, his being firm helped a lot, Your mum is a jewel. This aspect of you really made me to respect you more.

[@The.health.Republic]

Wow! So much wisdom from Mrs Morayo Brown..Thank you marriage clinic for bringing this wisdom close to our ears.

[@yewandeomotoyinbo8160]

I love ❤ this interview, I agree with everything Morayo said. God will bless you more with wisdom Morayo and Kudos to Mr Brown for being a "correct man" .

[@mamiemoore5015]

I cried just hearing how Moroyah mother's in-law when to look for her omg what a blessing d

[@NURSEFELICIA]

This session indeed got me sincerely, now I know why I love Morayo without reason. Although I have an amazing mum in law but I have learnt alot more and more.

[@wokeholayinka4294]

I love Morayo's advice, thank you ma

[@stellaayinde5856]

Morayo,you had a very good mother n you were well brought up.Your husband is loving n balance his life.You will both live longfor honouring your parents.

[@olabisiogunbase1803]

I learnt a whole lot listening to this. Thanks Morayo and Morolayo.

[@bisoladeborah]

Wow! This is timely, I love every answers that she gave and so much wisdom was displayed.

[@marriageclinictv]

True...

[@opeyemishoniyi1948]

Morayo, you have sown a good seed, you future daughter-in-law will take care of you too. i doff my hat for you, you are an angel for taking care of your TWO mothers-in-law. GOD BLESS YOU

[@numberkayjonathan6985]

Thank you so much for understanding @morayo Brown. Life would have been so easy if everyone can tolerate each other like this and also for our men to be matured enough to handle situations like your husband (firm) and not being ‘mama’s boy’ or being partial. God bless mr Brown o. Firm, playing the manhood role. Supporting his wife/mother when necessary. Not being partial and everyone know him for that. Kudos again mr. Brown!!!🥰

[@tariolusola4029]

Wonderful interview. Reminding yourself always that it’s temporary is so key to coping.

[@StorytimewithAuntyBee]

😭😭😭😭😭 so much to glean here! Unfortunately my relationship with my MIL is still in the works. My husband is a very good man but didn't have a father growing up or have a father figure so he is still learning in the area of being firm and drawing the lines so I've been through a lot. Thank God for The Holy Spirit, I've learnt to forgive and operate in wisdom with her. Thank God too for Mentors it has helped my husband and he is better but we can't deal with living with mil yet. You've painted a most beautiful relationship (not perfect) but its so beautiful....what a legacy it is for the kids! And what a testimony it is for us watching!!! God bless you!!! And YESSSSSS to earning his respect!!!

[@tobialabi7108]

This is so me

[@olabisiawobajo980]

Thank God 4 your hubby's firmness,love and wisdom and thank God they're not sick or bedridden.

[@tosinadeniyi7660]

I appreciate your honesty Morayo. God bless your home 🙏🏼

[@telmauzoma4198]

Oh my God Morayo is such a sweet heart...... God bless you my dearest. For those who read what the Bible says about husband and wife please also don't forget what the Bible says about LOVE...... Morayo showed so mush love. And she is happy and her marriage is intact.

[@oyinvalakinboade796]

This was really insightful. Thanks for sharing. Interesting line of questions. So much wisdom

[@wokeholayinka4294]

What works for me might not work for you, great advice. GOD bless you richly

[@randomdynamic4664]

I like her realness and openness most times we criticise people because we are not in their shoes ,even when we are in their shoes we do worst and we come outside to condemn people. And quote scriptures, the interviewer quoted a scripture and also said should people base on that scripture ? but she still maintain her words that it is an individual things that it depend on the man, (my take on this nobody should use right, entitlement or manpower to overshadow another person's peace of mind) Morayo didn't paint herself a to a saint I like her for that

[@og_identitee]

I just subscribed because morayo gave such deep wisdom.God bless the host and the guest

[@toyinbalogun1925]

Mrs Brown for all good things you have said about momo and her daughter, the will reap the good of it. The wife of your sons will love you and take care of you ijn. I love you so much I know what it take for 3 women to live under one ruff.

[@tokunbobolude2000]

Morayo you are a good woman and I respect you a lot on this

[@mz_AchisibaPharmacy-Lifestyle]

This has blessed me a lot . God bless you two.Am a Ghanaian but watches Mrs Brown’s program a lot on Facebook.

[@monitunji-ojedokun1760]

Thank you so much ma, you've shared so much wisdom with us for a successful marriage.

[@beatriceekunboyejo5728]

Thank God for this inspiration it's not really easy to get two house helps , women need to equip themselves with good job , money is talking here , without money you can't achieve many things God bless us as a woman

[@marriageclinictv]

Truth...If they weren't also Financially empowered this may not be Possible

[@oluremimuritala5704]

Morayo u are indeed a strong loving woman, beautiful in and out.

[@abimbolailesanmi9179]

Morayo please make an interview with your 2 mother inlaws May God bless them

[@temitopeadebayo1782]

This is wisdom !!!!

[@ayokunnumiomolola6761]

Thank you so much for this.

[@arinolalawal519]

Morayo your response is very amazing and I wish you all the very best in life

[@themortgagechic_ca]

Brown is JUST like his daddy - Ekiti firmness! Wow

[@mercygolah-ebue5973]

thank you ladies, this is very insightful. love and light always...

[@estherajayi5409]

What a wonderful and memory refreshing testimonies Mine was not a mother in-law but a wonderful Mother indeed, her love for me and my husband was pure, honest and sincere, to God be the glory, I will forever wish to have her if given another opportunity.. God bless soul.

[@mercyoni4804]

God bless you richly Morayo! I love you! You are a jewel!

[@nguhemenfiona4649]

Morayo my woman,you're so real

[@lasisiraphael4481]

Morayo is bag of wisdom and very enduring,and the husband is damn lucky to have her❤

[@gracegbomedo4939]

Morayo, Welldone my dear, you’re blessed, because one day, you yourself would become a mother Inlaw, so you’re on the right path. Remain blessed. In Jesus Name 🙏🏽

[@salmahlasisi4389]

Thank you Aunty Mo🤗🤗

[@roxyify7589]

Morayo is very kind and good Biko That sacrifice is not easy biko

[@jamesveronica5733]

This is a very interesting interview.

[@celestinaejimeekeh7665]

Morayo. We have some mother laws they are very wicked. I came to Nigeria and bring my mother in law to stay with me. She stays for good 8 years but it was a heel. When he came back to Nigeria they could not even take good care of her. And she passed away just after few years. So morayo. You are lockey to have a coregious husband.

[@kateifeoma1809]

God will bless you for taking care of them

[@olayidemosesogunleye6506]

You are such a nice woman Morayo. God bless you and your family

[@abolanlenoble.9374]

Pick your battles… #Wisdom Thank you

[@voitiku5427]

You are right a leader. Yes it happens to me, mom's boi, I have had that situation no one is able to talk to this guy, he was so rude comes home late.

[@mariamibisola524]

Wowww...... This is deep

[@folasade85]

Her mother in law reminds me of my mother. My own mother came to my house from Nigeria when I had a baby and she didn't even help. I had to do everything myself. She will even sit for me to serve her food first even when my baby is crying. When her visit visa expired,I didn't even bother to extend it oo. So when I had my next baby,she so wanted to come but I didn't allow her because it wouldn't be practical for me to stress myself at that stage especially when my husband isn't helpful either. My mother in law would even do better than her in area of at least bathing my newly born baby(my guess sha).

[@marriageclinictv]

You did the right thing by not letting her come during the birth of your 2nd Child. It's better to bring a Mother who can help out in some ways in reducing the Postnatal Stress

[@abimbolailesanmi9179]

Sorry about that

[@quickbiblestudy1744]

Wow , thank you

[@bakulaose4376]

Morayo God bless you, you will live long. I love you.

[@ruth_adewole_o]

My love for Aunty Mo🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@gideondominion]

Morayo is really a nice person

[@jossieo8530]

Please my people share this video, we are all learning every day

[@jossieo8530]

Aunty Morayo God bless you ma. Thank you.

[@yinkaoguntoyinbo8172]

Morayo is a blessing to this generation. Thank God for your Mum who was a wise woman, may her soul continue to rest in. Great interview.

[@adeolaajibola3419]

What happened to Morayo's mum?

[@marriageclinictv]

The Passed on late last year Sir

[@ogunlekeolayinka8722]

Waoh! This is so powerful and educative. I learnt alot. You just gain a subscriber

[@marriageclinictv]

Thank you

[@rukohbenjamin5476]

This is helpful. Thank you ma.

[@3dd3cheetosdoritos11]

God bless you Morayo

[@zizifun7540]

Amazing.Thank you both.

[@helenomotosho9293]

God bless you my dear Morayo! God will continue to be be with you and your entire family in Jesus name ..You and your family and loved ones are all for signs and wonders in Jesus name..God bless Mama Aka -Bashorun for bringing out the best in you. May God grant her kind and gentle soul rest in Jesus name . You are very real. Ekiti people are sweet ! We are blessed and God fearing. Kudos to my wonderful brother and the entire family. I love Momos Moinmoin. Have a blessed day. .

[@chiomaeleonye9497]

Morayo,I praise ur bravry👍👍👍

[@olubusolaawolaja6831]

Motunrayo - you are an angel, God bless you. You are godly, you are accommodating. God bless you and God bless your husband. You have sowed a good seed for your generation. You are indeed a treasure to your husband. Even sisters in tongues in church can hardly do this. God bless you, God bless you.

[@olubusolaawolaja6831]

Many times if you love your husband’s mother- he definitely will be happy because this is the person who brought him to the world.

[@olamideadeniyi8471]

Aunty Morayo has an understanding husband,and money is involve in this kind of situation..is not easy if there is no money .. I salute you ma ,you really tried 🙌🙌

[@claraadewumiakinola4662]

I learn lots from you Mrs M. Brown, you're real. May Jesus always be your guide

[@ToluDina]

Words on marble!!

[@Askchefoge]

This has blessed me, we Learn every day.

[@janetenuha5250]

Aunty Morayo is Lucky not everyone is this lucky

[@adeotitemitopeolanihun2839]

Morayo has always earn my respect. i just love her, her personality n her perception to life. Even with her abroad training, she still bring herself to cope with the lifestyle she found herself .No regret but rather look out to the benefits she had n enjoy it. With this interview, I now understand that indeed she has a large heart and well raised . Won bi , o tu ra bi...

[@voitiku5427]

May God bless you both for this video and may your children find a good man to love and marry them in Jesus name. Amen

[@uwameumashi9858]

Some of you are lucky. I and hubby had a quarrel yesterday because of his mum. Some mothers just feels that their sons married a househelp or nanny to the family and not wives. And me, I'm a kind of person who doesn't know how to please people. I clearly told hubby that I'm in that house for him and my relationship with him is not a family project. I clearly told his mum that I'll be doing a 7 days fast and would need time for myself, she called me dis afternoon and my phone was on silent, I fell asleep while praying. I woke up and d calls and went to check up on her, she wasn't at home. That one now became a problem for mother and son. I wake up at 4am most times to prepare food for everyone, and I'm still doing chores even when her grandchildren goes to school. I make lunch for them so that I'll be able to rest at least till evening before I prepare dinner, but this woman, when a visitor comes, she'll call me out to trek under the hot sun to go and buy drinks, as matured as I am. My mum can't even do that to me or anyone, she respects people's privacy a lot. It's very annoying, I've been bottling up a lot of trash from this house and I know that one day I'll explode, anything that wants to happen should happen. The woman just wants to control everybody, especially her son and he's her last born.

[@uwameumashi9858]

I've been up since 2am crying, I also slept off while crying. Some mother in laws are just not it. I work sometimes the extent that even hubby kneels down and starts apologising for making me go through such stress, yet his mum doesn't see my effort. And she seemed all nice initially, nonsense

[@marriageclinictv]

Hmmm...But why is his Mother living Permanently with you? Is there a good reason for her Permanent Stay there?

[@uwameumashi9858]

@@marriageclinictv unfortunately, we are the ones in her house. My husband said he can't go and be paying house rent when he has a 2 bedroom flat in his mum's house. But I'm the only one suffering it here

[@marriageclinictv]

@@uwameumashi9858 in that Case you may not have a Choice since you both are in her house...Your husband alone can make things right not you.

[@uwameumashi9858]

@@marriageclinictv it is well..

[@joyceefi673]

Earn your husband’s respect 👍👍👍

[@numberkayjonathan6985]

The introduction alone concluded what I want to say about women ‘that want their mother-in-laws to died or don’t want to have good relationship with them is such unfortunate thing to hear from a lot of women’s today who are actually ‘potential mother-in-laws’. We women need to do better by training ourselves and mind to be good mother-in-laws to save the lives of our sons. We are just being selfish, because we want the best for our daughters in their husband’s house but causing troubles in their son’s house. God help women🙏🙏🙏

[@purityokeke8926]

God bless you Ms M ,For taking care of d two, God bless you richly,,,what you are doing is very commendable,, thank you for being an understanding daughter in-law,,,

[@titilayoibe1462]

Morayo..I duff my hat for you living by example. And to your dear husband. You both are excellent 👏 👌

[@adepejuojo6653]

😍😍