How I Made Peace With My Aging Body ~OVER 70 🍃🌸🍃

I'm 76 years old....it's a process and it was time to make peace with this aging body...
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[@rxstrmom]

That you so much for watching this video. It may be, for me, one of the most important ones I've done since I started posting videos here on youtube.xoxo patti 🌸🍃

[@golisland]

rxstrmom everything you said in this video is me.

[@KayeCarterTV]

Thank you!🙏🏻💗

[@audreycoady2657]

I am 10yrs older than you and I have come to the very same conclusions I am not super skinny anymore. I am a veg like you. I walk 4 miles every day at the park and put on my makeup each day. Most of all----I ask God For guidance and the strength to follow.He is always there and I am happy.

[@aegchannel]

Patti, you are simply the best, so beautiful inside and out! I'm 62 and have been struggling with thoughts of my face changing. I refuse to do Botox, but have been planning for years to have cosmetic surgery when the time comes. Well, time is closing in, but I sure would like to reach a point where I'm happy with my face just the way it is. As it is, i do lots of facials and probably own every home beauty device on the market...lol. Your video was so awesome and prompted me to really stop and think things over. I've struggled with my weight all my adult life (emotional eater), so I've always made sure my face, hair, and fashion sense were spot on perfection. I love being a glam girl, but it's getting a bit challenging to keep it up. Grrr! I'm going to think long and hard about what you said. Love your channel and your beautiful spirit, AND btw, you look no where near your age!!! 💋🤗😘.

[@philipbyrne7127]

channelaeg I

[@deniselebeau9874]

Omg.....this is the best video that I have seen on you tube and I have watched thousands over the years. I am 66 and I have been struggling for the last two years with health issues that have changed the way that I look and feel but.....I always put my make up on and do my hair when I walk out that door. You are soooooo beautiful and your attitude makes you even prettier. I watch one channel where the woman is 52 and constantly correcting with fillers, Botox, surgery, whatever and I always thought that it was the wrong message to send women. God Bless you for sending a loving caring and accepting message. I will have better days from this point because of you. Thank you a thousand times for this message......God sent this to me and you talked right to my heart. I love you and may your days be filled with joy and good health. ❤️😘🙏

[@conniemurphyover70stillgla47]

HI DENISE you look beauiful also. love RXSTMOM I,m 72 1/2 on UT for 11 months now. it improved my look very much and I thought I looked pretty good all ready LOL stop by and see me sometime hug connie AKA "over 70 still glamorous" :)

[@kathygarber9407]

Hi Denise and Connie , I'm so happy to see some women like Patti and y'all ! I have always felt like Patti does...just age with as much grace as possible , as Patti said , " some of us don't get the chance " ! I lost a daughter when she was in her late thirties , she left 4 children, teens. Thought I could'nt go on but God showed me differently ! I'm 74 , I have COPD which curtails my activities ! Been on and off steroids quite a bit the last couple years..gained a lot of weight ! But ladies , Patti's right , it's a choice , daily ! And I think we can all hold each other up by confirming we are worth it ! I hope we can all become fast friends ! Have a great day.., gonna write Patti a note to thank her for confirming how I've always felt about agig !💖💖💖💖

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Denise, AMEN! ❤️. Sandra

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Kathy GARBEŔ Agjng is a natural process and I live in gratitude everyday that I am still here and allowed to age. Beauty is from the inside. ❤️. Sandra

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Denise LeBeau Age is just a number and we are as young and beautiful as we think and radiates from the inside. If we think beautiful and have self confidence and love, we are and others will see that. Keep on being the beautiful you that you are! ❤️. Sandra

[@wendibistany1105]

I am 67 years old. At 59 I started to freak out about turning 60. From 60 to 65 I agonized about the whole aging process. My body, my face, thinning hair. I would try to be grateful and appreciative but my thoughts about myself were saying something else. I finally decided to see the good and stop the negativity. Today is the youngest I will ever be. God made us this way for a reason and I have decided to trust him instead of vanity.

[@bluewaters3100]

Do not even get me started about my thinning hair! Get a good powder to cover the thinning spots.

[@janeoliver5211]

Wonderful post. I’m 71 and can really see the difference between 60’s and turning 70. I’m making peace with it slowly. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@suspectsez4203]

Me too sister😁

[@lyndaossi9191]

BTW I am 80 yrs.old.......with much sadness my beloved husband died 2 weeks ago. He was a very kind, gentle man. I am very blessed with 3 wonderful sons and 3 dear dear grand-gaughters. He will live on in all of us. And you are so right.... it is kidness to eachother that matters the most.

[@melindawilson1414]

So sorry for you loss.

[@IvyRoad]

I'm so sorry for your loss. We have to be strong as we age because, as they say, aging is not for sissies. Things will happen to us all that will test us to the max. It shouldn't be whether or not our arms are crepey. Thank you for the reminder. I wish you a gentle passage through your grief.

[@christinerichards4302]

Lynda Ossi I am so sorry for your loss. I an glad you have your family to help you through the pain. Try to be strong

[@gbk1t]

Sorry for your loss. Kind thoughts from England.

[@Jabo__Jabo]

Lynda Ossi I am so sorry for your loss.

[@christinefisher5425]

Patti, I love this video! I watch it every few months as a pep talk. I’m 51 and have watched you for years. Thank you for paving the way for us and sharing your path of aging. You’re a beautiful soul. I love these chatty videos and the message of this one is so perfect. ❤

[@jillneuner8132]

Well said 😁 Thank you for a well timed message! From a 73 yr old going through the same thing. We need a sister-sister group of 70 year old women!!

[@kathygarber9407]

Yes , we do ! I'm 74...I'd love to have a whole bunch of us weathered , wiser , women friendship club! 💙💖💙💖

[@PKeefe]

Wait? This can’t gat any better. 70 is only a number. Go back and listen to Patti’s message. Beauty IS from within. You have all you need. Kindness, beauty, love.... will show up at your door when you are ready? I’ll bet someone on your street has a wonderful story to tell. Bring her some warm cookies and ask if you can come in and chat for awhile.

[@christinerichards4302]

@@kathygarber9407 Kathy count me in

[@paulajones6017]

Patti, I just watched your video of Sept. 14, 2019..."Making peace with our aging bodies". I am 84, and agree...once we rise to that challenge and accept the changes that come with age, life becomes even richer. Thank you for the reminder to be kind to ourselves. Kudos for an inspiring video...one of your best!

[@lifewithsandrahart]

Good Morning, Patti. Good conversation. Would you believe I have never had a long mirror in any house I have lived in. Our Miami Beach home already had one on the back of one of the bedroom doors that I never see because the door is always left open. When I was younger I had a rounded figure when Twiggy was popular, so I always felt fat, but in reality never was. During my 3 pregnancies I gained 40 lbs that I would lose. Menopause added 30, but that went away quickly because I was put on Prempro ( which now they know wasn’t good). As you know I’m in my eighth decade and at 5’7” I fluctuate from 142 to 138, the same weight as when I was 40. Genetics. I’ve been a pescatarian for over 40 years, but I attribute everything to exercise, healthy living and mainly genetics. I am aging like my mother. Nothing will stop aging. Not even facelifts. Our skin loses elasticity no matter whether it has been lifted, filled or Botoxed. Aging is a natural progression. To me, what is inside matters more. We all can be beautiful no matter our age because what is inside radiates outwardly. Love who you are right here, right now. I believe that is what you do, Patti. ❤️. Sandra

[@IvyRoad]

Sandra, You are another beautiful woman lighting the way for me. You also, through example, encouraged me to try pretty things after decades of black. Well, I love pretty things! And pretty things like me! Who knew! Big thanks to you, too!

[@laraoneal7284]

I’m learning to make peace with aging also. I don’t care THAT MUCH about my body . I weigh 147 which is the most I’ve ever weighed. It’s my own fault totally bc I retired just 1 1/2 years ago so I have been more sedentary. I’ve gained 10 lbs in one year. Not good so I really have to change it up. I have hollows in my face do I would like to get fillers in my cheeks. Hollowness in my undereyes also. I hate this about my face so I’m trying to figure out what I’m going to do. I am taking collagen powder everyday. So I’ll see if that is going to work at all. Nuff said for now. Thx for this vid. Always great to know we are not alone.

[@pennywheeler2598]

This is such a heartfelt video. I'm 69 years old and I also embrace my age. I'm proud of who I am at any age. I have so much to be greatful for. I could repair things on my body but that will not turn the clock. We have the right to choose and make our own personal choices. But for me Patti....its like putting a band-aid on it but the booboo is still there. So I just embrace it and love it. I eat low carb, count calories, meal plan, keep a food journal, I stretch, dance and I use my fitbit for the last six years and it challenges me and I love it. I love nature and I will always make the most of my life...until I take my last breath. Thank you Patti, for this beautiful heartfelt video.💚💚💚xxx

[@teallizard9977]

Bless your heart. I have been struggling with aging, trying to be graceful at 74. Not doing as well as I had hoped. Your video was very inspiring! Thank you.

[@anthonyfalcone5605]

You're a wise woman,Patty! I'm a 73 year old female who always had a fantastic body,but through my 40s, I really had to work on keeping it that way. I noticed a little weight gain in my early 60s, but didn't worry about it too much. I still looked pretty good and felt very healthy. When I retired at 70 from a pretty physical job, I spent my mornings still being active around the house,but my afternoons were spent watching TV or using the laptop. Now,my body has all of the same problems that my Mother had. I'm accepting it too. The struggle is now over,and I'm going to relax into my old age. Life is too short

[@lindacruikshank2656]

You are a true Rockstar. I'm 65, over weight, skin is truly changing, etc. I'm afraid to too much weight now, because I know it will age me, my foundation isn't working anymore, hate short hair on me, etc. You are such an inspiration and it's true I am trying to be the best I can be at this time of my life. Thank you.

[@Bjwings02]

You are a natural Beauty. You have taken good care of your skin. I’m 64 and I know the aging processes. I will never do anything, but to age gracefully. Be happy with what God brings my way. Health means more to me than thinking of my looks. ♥️

[@junecollison8973]

Patti, Thank you for such a warm heart felt video. You are beautiful inside and out. I am 71 and feel so good I can do most things I always have done, but now at a slower pace! I think the most beautiful facial treatment is to smile.xx💖

[@mycelticstardust]

You are so beautiful and inspiring. I needed to hear this today, because I started to just give up. But you changed that. Thank you!

[@jorgieg1]

Patti.... Thank you for the very wise message this afternoon... you are spot ON!!! And let me just add that you’re both beautiful inside as well as outside!! I believe that if we accept our naturally aging body, and take care of it, and at the same time... STOP paying so much attention to the bevi of younger women’s beauty, plastered all over, wherever we look, that we can learn to appreciate ourselves in a whole new way. Being thankful for the face and body that has served us so well, throughout a long life!! And enjoying each day being happy and grateful in our own skin, for however long we may have left! I’m going to be 72 in December... and my mindset clearly has evolved over these last 5 years or so... the aging process does seem to speed up. But I’m now with it! Like you, I’m going au natural... no cosmetic procedures. Just drugstore skin cremes, and some make up. It seems like once we finally surrender the attempts of looking youthful... it is then replaced with contentment and the ability to focus on things that were really more important all along. That’s my “take away” ❤️

[@Crusherkitty1]

What a lovely video.

[@sturkfeld]

Patti, you are the most glamorous 76 year old on KZbin or anywhere for that matter. It's not only your outer beauty but your inner beauty. You seem to me such a kind, loving person with a wonderful attitude toward life. You have a very youthful vibe. Your beautiful smile. I would rather have a beautiful smile then the most expensive face lift. I agree that once you hit 65 everything starts to really change. Great advice, "listen to your body". And know your body also. Be so aware that if there is a change you know it. That is way yoga is so important to me. Helps me keep in touch. Great message Patti. XO

[@lizgubler2865]

You look fantastic!! Your bone structure tells us that you have always been very photogenic, and beautiful too. I’m 68 and will continue to age as gracefully and naturally as I can. Well done to you. 😃💐

[@emmylou-y4b]

This is one of your best vlogs. You are 100% correct.

[@nikkismom2309]

I loved the little talk today! When you said raise your arm at the end and pat yourself on the back....I CRIED....STILL CRYING... 😟 Thank You Patti for helping me realize I.M OKAY.

[@Jabo__Jabo]

Nikki's Mom Yes! I was at the gym on the treadmill. And I did what Patti said to do. When I raised my hand I didn’t know where she was going with it. Then, when I started patting myself on the back, I got emotional ... right there in public!!!!! Patti’s video is great!

[@Tk30nette]

Still crying , good message !!!

[@triciamedora9274]

Sooo empowering for me. Thank you for sharing your story. Aging gracefully, learning acceptance and peace.. It fills my heart and inspires me to be the best me. A reminder of the beauty I choose to accept and see in the world is a reflection of the beauty I see in me.

[@monikabalda]

What a wonderful video Patti. I’m 37 years old and I enjoy listening to your advice on everything. I learn so much from you. Please keep more videos like this coming and thank you !

[@isaacclewley2934]

Hi patti, you truly are an inspiration.i am 52 and struggling with how my body is ageing.Your video today gives me hope that i too can accept the changes. i so enjoy watching your videos and i do believe you have a kind soul and a wonderful positive attitude to life in general. You are such a beautiful looking lady and proof in how you look by looking after yourself . I,m one of your UK subscribers and i look forward to continue watching your videos for many years to come ! love to you, Myfanwy

[@tinas2597]

I turned 52 last month and I feel the same way. It's getting so hard to keep up with just trying to look decent. I have been avoiding the mirror more and more. When I was young I couldn't stop looking in the mirror. I am trying to focus on the important things in life but there are times I could just sit and cry.

[@paul-gs6om]

I have been watching your videos for a while now. You are relaxing to watch. This is the best video on aging and for all women to watch. You are beautiful inside and out and I appreciate the time you take to make these videos. Thank you!

[@myalightseeker]

Beautiful video! I’m 63 and like you said happened to you, my seemingly ageless body and face is now changing and changing fast! Your honesty paired with your inner and outer beauty inspires me so much! Thank you thank you thank you for making this video! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@cassiebrown9786]

I just turned 61 this year. It gets harder as we get older. I applaud you for taking the natural route. You've decided to DO YOU. I eat right, walk a lot, dress appropriate for my age, and use good skincare. I think what's most important is not to compare myself to women my age. We're all different. Have a good day!

[@charleneiverson1582]

I’m just a little older than you are, however you have just expressed many of my thoughts...our lives and thoughts are parallel . Love your videos, keep them coming.

[@bonniefarrell9854]

Bravo to this video! I am 66 and know exactly what you are talking about(all of this happening over night!)Thank you for this video!

[@alexamackay]

What a wonderful video, look at you your stunning and glamorous 😘 I love your style.. thank you for your voice and words of encouragement I been needing this lately. I’m 57 years old and I am starting to see small changes and makes me sad. I am such a girly girl I love my nails done and get my hair done to cover Grey.. , I love to find cute clothes but I have that pouch tummy yuck.. some things don’t look so cute on me anymore and I get disappointed..I think my mind is younger then I am if that makes sense. I was always pretty fit kickboxing was my thing and Zumba, now since back surgery in July this year I gained 15 lbs that won’t move and surgeon said NO more kickboxing or Zumba only low impact... So now I ride my stationary bike everyday and do what I can around the house doctor says listen to your body.. also going through menopause.. I’m a single mom of 3 my daughter is 39 I have 3 grandchildren and my sons are 20 and he has asburgers and my baby is 15 and they are still at home.. . I don’t eat beef or pork of any kind just organic chicken, turkey and fish but love my sweets too but I don’t over do.. I don’t have older sisters to relate to and my mom disowned all of her 6 kids so I need to figure it out on my own.. Patti I been following you for 2 years and I’m soo grateful for you!! 😘💖🌸 I look up To you as a role model, thank you! 😘🌸. Alexandria,

[@inabind416]

Alexandria Cosentino Hi, that’s great that you are continuing to take care of yourself and working out. Let me tell you something, add weight training!! Seriously, it works! I was only doing all different kinds of cardio and I lost “weight”, but was only a smaller version of my former shape. But as soon as I started with weights, it reshaped my figure. Don’t go by the number on the scale, no, no, no, because muscle weighs more than fat! Just make sure you educate yourself about proper form!! You have had surgery so be careful, please! Take care and good luck 😉. Oh! It does take a little time. It took four months for me to start noticing real changes.

[@joan486]

Wonderful, pertinent content Patty - thank you! I am in my mid-60s. My decision is to care for my aging body without trying to stop or alter it. I am embracing the gray hair because it is the perfect match for my changing tone in complexion. I have stopped watching other beauty influencers who have altered their appearance by having procedures done. They are all lovely ladies, but now my focus has changed. I can no longer relate to them. Please continue to motivate and inspire us.i still have my pampering routines, but now I am choosing to feel better about myself by putting my time and effort into the people and community around me. Life can be wonderful in every season we are in. Blessings 🥰

[@TrujilloRosalba]

Patti, when you were describing your mom's body, I was feeling so sad. But thinking about it, our bodies aging is a huge privilege. Not everyone is able to get to experience a full life. Thank you so much for this video. ❤❤❤

[@kristymarie6065]

You are so pretty! God bless you!

[@jessaadair9590]

This was perfect for today in my life..... THANK YOU i dont have my Mom with me anymore and you gave me a Mom pep talk ..... your wonderful

[@susanchaney5059]

Thank you Patti. I just turned 70 this summer and it's hitting me a bit hard. I'm in decent shape but it's hard to watch this body slowly melt and lose tone. I'm blessed to be here and the alternative is not what I want but...I appreciate your attitude and encouragement. Take care, you are beautiful.

[@MsFlynn777]

Patty, you look so fantastic because you are; but your heart shows through it all. I'm 75 tomorrow and I'm so grateful for everything I have. Faith helps! ❤️

[@bethpat9]

Soooo true! About when we lose weight, it shows in our face! My friend lost a lot of weight, and her face just is all wrinkled now. Big, deep, wrinkles. People say to me, how come you don't have any wrinkles (I do, but not many) and I say, it's cuz I'm plump! And I laugh. And they laugh. But it's true!

[@LEFEMMEBELLE]

Patti there are just no words for me to express what your videos have done for me especially this one. At 70 I was still struggling with such poor body image. I still wear makeup, eat well and take care of my body but regardless of what I was doing I was still getting crepey skin on my arms and legs cellulite on my thighs and a round belly. It occurred to me that that's how my grandma was, my mother is (at 90 bless her heart) and so that's how I look. A lot is hereditary and nothing will change that. You always make so much sense and finally I'm getting it. This weekend I went my nieces wedding. I had my hair done put on my makeup and gown and felt great. For the first time I didn't feel like an OLD woman but a wise sophisticated OLDER woman. No I didn't look anything like the younger women but I felt like the best version of me. Now I just watched your video and it finally hit me. This is my look now. Like you I won't do surgery fillers or Botox. There is no turning back the hands of time so instead of wasting the rest of my life hoping for impossible changes I might just as well roll with this aging thing. Thank you for every single video you make. You keep me striving to be the best I can be at any age. Love and big big hugs, Susie 😘😘

[@myramoore9805]

Patty, Thank you for this beautiful video. I have to be kinder to myself and learn to love the person I am,not what I might want to be. I just turned 69 and I know what you are talking about. You are an inspiration to me Thank you ! Love you

[@Donna-vh5ym]

Gosh girl. You've brought me to tears. The right kind though. It's so hard. So, so hard. You're right. We go to bed one night... wake up and EVERYTHING changed. I too have always taken care of myself and NEVER thought I'd look like my mom. But like you.. I decided not to go the surgical route, but I do exercise like you. As long as I feel sexy and my husband thinks so...I'm good. I thank you with all my ❤ for this video.

[@lisacharles4923]

Finally someone to watch who doesn’t use fillers and can learn from❤️ yes, do what makes you happy but if one can’t afford those things you are great!

[@noelleagape8684]

I can NOT believe you're 76 years old! You look fabulous! Very, very pretty. God gave you beautiful baby blue eyes and a very symmetrical face. Lovely hair and a nice small nose. God has greatly blessed you.

[@lindamcandrew1229]

Wow! Thank you for sharing so much beautiful wisdom! You are beautiful and a courageous woman to share such intimate feelings and the struggle with aging as a woman. I appreciate your openness re the difficulties and how you care for yourself. I’m nearly 68 and accepting the signs of aging - all what you’ve described - is challenging to say the least. You speak of acceptance with such grace it is inspiring. I wish you were my neighbor your such a lovely person. Thank you. 💜

[@kathycooper7997]

Oh Patti, this resonates so much with me. In my early 60's I looked like I was in my 40"s. Some lines but not many. Then one day I woke up looked in the mirror and was shocked. I had aged 10 years in one night. LOL. Hormone loss and weight loss took their toll. So accept what you can't change and fight like hell for the rest. Thank you for this. Just wonderful.

[@jeanettehigginbotham]

What a breath of fresh air! I so needed to hear this. I'm 62, recently retired, and trying to find the balance of being comfortable in my skin and taking the best care of my skin, hair and body. It's a journey!

[@nataliezahorsky237]

Thank you Patty for addressing what a lot of people don't want to talk about..the inevitability of aging our entire mortal body..I hope I can be at peace also with it..to be kinder to myself ..to be authentic inside and out

[@newenglandfineliving]

Your conversation really hit home with me. I'm only 55, but I'm going through a lot of physical body changes quickly due to surgeries, health issues, and stress. I have watched a few of your videos and they are so inspiring. I need to keep reminding myself I have many more years ahead of me and to practice what I preach, especially for my children and husband.

[@susanjaneleitner7670]

Patti! This video made me cry! Cry in buckets! March 1, I was rushed to the hospital. I was there until March 31. I was out of it. In enormous pain. No sense of taste or smell. A whopper of a headache. I could not walk well. My hands felt icy cold, broken and I could not hold anything or write my name. I am 73. But in those 31 days I had become disabled and aged at an incredible rate. In April, my hair was falling out in clumps. I had COVID-19 according to the antibody test taken in May. Shocking. Frightening. I am still recovering! Today you gave me the sweetest and most powerful gift. You told me to be patient and kind to myself. I have always (well almost) been patient and kind to all people. Everyone. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love you. ❤️ Suzy

[@EileenWstCstGrl]

Thank you for sharing so much of yourself! At 71, your words reached me, heart and soul. I've always looked young I think because I'm petite, but now I look in the mirror and wonder who is that old lady! I quit wearing makeup when I retired 10 years ago but I think it's time to get with the program again. Thank you so much!!!

[@marvaspence5252]

Will be 71 this year and I am going through the process of accepting my aging body and face. It's not easy, but constant gratitude for all the blessings I have received is making me much more appreciative of everything, including my aging body. Life is a beautiful gift💝. Thank you so much for your words of wisdom.

[@sharonm3283]

I agree with you totally. I'm 72 soon to be 73. I am still interested in looking good and fo my best. Beauty comes in all ages and you are beautiful in and out

[@jag-042]

Just love your videos!💗

[@feathernow]

Thankyou so much, this is such a refreshingly honest conversation that as women I rarely hear us talking about and how we emotionally handle the changes we go through. I deeply appreciate you sharing what you went through and how you handled it, it has helped me. Thankyou for sharing and taking the time to address challenging life issues. X

[@annieportier3584]

This video is absolutely wonderful. I am 74 and I'm saggin & baggin and look better in my clothes. My mother is 96 and has dementia living in dementia care so that keeps me busy visiting her often. I'm learning to take better care of myself and try not to sweat the small stuff. In the end its all small stuff right? So grateful for you to take the time to communicate this heartfelt message. You never looked this peaceful and beatiful!!

[@rosemarymoore5611]

I just turned 67 and there is not one thing you said in your video that is not true about me myself. Watching this did my heart good. Made me feel like I am truly not alone on this journey of life. Thank you, Thank you, Patti for this video.

[@claudinedenys5237]

You are a delightful lady, full of charm and wisdom. BEAUTIFUL in and out. Bravo. A belgian 69 years old

[@cindybrown1356]

You’re so wise, so special. I will turn 66 tomorrow, I’m beginning to see some real aging taking place, it’s sort of shocking at times, and then I’m comforted knowing that The Lord has given me these years, and while my body is indeed changing, it’s my vessel...I just patted myself on the back...I love you, and thank you SO much! Xoxoxo

[@nshaver24]

I’m 58 years old....I needed this👍Thanks for this video...it should go viral...truly amazing💖💐🌺🌷🌸You are one amazing beautiful lady💖☺️🌺🌸💐🦋.....Nancy

[@evashumake]

Love you, Patty! You are always such an inspiration!

[@katebarnes9293]

Well said Patti, accepting the changes age brings is a learning curve in itself..It is a time in our life to find that quiet inner calm, we are more than an ageing body, our soul should reflect the lessons learnt in our 70 + years on earth...I appreciate each day given to me and take nothing for granted... But like you I still love painting my face and adorning my body with pretty things...Your message is an important one and thank you for imparting it. XxKate xx

[@ginnyburley9552]

I truly appreciate your sharing your experience and your wisdom. I, too, felt like aging hit me in my mid-60s. After caring for my husband before he died of cancer, retiring and moving away from my former life and house, caring for my mother as she died of cancer, and then experiencing my own health problems, I feel the enormous changes in myself and my perspective. I agree that acceptance of our true selves and caring for and respecting our true beauty is the key to aging gracefully. Thank you. You have been a blessing to me today. ❤️🌹🙏🏼

[@helenfree7998]

Hi, love your videos, they’re very inspiring! I am a 60 year old watching from Brisbane Australia. I was telling my daughter about your channel and showed her one of your recent videos and within the first minute she said “Oh I like her already!” God bless :)

[@lorainesteenkamp8132]

I love you Patti. You truly are a Rockstar. I am 70 years old and I have had the same things happen to my body , like you described. I do not look like my mother , but my body sure looks like her when I look in the mirror. I still take good care of myself and never leave the house without looking my best. Thank you for your kindness. Love and hugs from Seattle

[@triciamedora9274]

I Love you. You are truly an inspiration. Your video made me cry. As a 54 year old former model and single mom, facing-facial surgery for complicated skin cancer, that the doctors say will leave me disfigured, I still pray for a miracle, aging and acceptance of my outer body is now more about how beautiful I am on the inside, this is what shines through. It has been a journey and will continue to be a journey. I truly believe this is enlightenment, peace and the path to happiness. Thank you for showing your love for life and the meaning of true beauty!! ❤

[@enakleefeld1506]

I'm with you...you are wonderful...Drink lots of water...it's a miracle ! Bless you Patti.

[@triciaposavad1241]

I did it. I raised my hand and patted myself on the back and felt love for myself. I have not always been kind to myself and have had a lot of negative self talk but today I decided to find ways to daily be kind to myself as well as others and I will pass this message on. Thanks for your inspiration. You are a doll.

[@lindac5273]

We love you Patti....you are are a very special lady....

[@judithanndohar]

Thank you Patty for your wisdom and your presence . Thank you for your kind soul and open eyes. Thank you for speaking the truth and offering acceptance of self and others. It was so good to hear this today. For me, the right words at the right time. Thank you . Truly.

[@Mysteree]

Thanking you in advance, I'm almost 52.....you're a sweet soul and so easy to listen to! ❤

[@kcampbell867]

There is so much more to you and any of us, than how we look!

[@heyjude7596]

I'm 71 and going through the same thing. I patted myself on the back and going to stop the negative thoughts about my body. Thanks a million gorgeous gal 👠❤🙏💅💄💋

[@sissyclarke7828]

How wonderful to still have your mom.

[@rxstrmom]

Oh I don't Lesley...

[@cyndythomas7217]

Well done Patti! By far your best most refreshing video to date! I will carry your inspiration with me as I go into my late 60's and struggling with being single and aging. Thank you!

[@silverthorn2814]

You are beautiful, grace is a lost art that you have brought back. Thankyou for this video!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@cheryllovin7764]

Amen, from one 70yr old to another. Enjoy each breath in this world. Life fly by much too fast each year! Just like our grandparents said, smarter than we thought!

[@DeDe-iq3ts]

What great advice. I'm going to be 68 this October, dread getting older.But after watching your video I feel 100% better. Thank you Pattie for this inspiring video. 💗

[@winterhorse]

You are an inspiration. I no longer recognize myself in the mirror. Biscuit is adorable.

[@andreabojalad9255]

I just relate to this wonderful lady in so many ways. I am her exact age, and I can only hope to be as delightful as she is. This is my very first subscription and I could sit here all day and listen to her. Thank you so much for these videos.

[@joliz1234]

Patti..what an inspiring video! Not only are you beautiful on the outside, but inside as well. I'm 83 and it's hard for me to accept aging. It's like you can see and feel the difference every day.

[@mslark9111]

I really needed this video. I am 73. I discovered your channel today and feel so inspired by you. I awoke one morning and noticed the crepey arms.and it finally hit me...I am old. I always looked young for my age and it was a shock. I have never worn much makeup but now I am exploring how to apply it and so your videos have been really helpful.. I love your calming presence. You remind me of my Aunt Helen who was beautiful until the day she died in her 80s. She glowed from within and she was kind. Thank you!

[@sheilastrong7658]

Thanks for the pep talk, I needed that Patti. Just turned 73 and was a little down.

[@patriciagodwin5036]

You are teaching me a lot about the aging process. I’m 71, I’ve been in chronic back pain for years.you are an inspiration to me.

[@user-booklover8]

This is a lovely video and your delightful and your kindness you spread like fairy dust that is endless.

[@abbiekaric8949]

This was fantastic. I am currently on the aging road and yes its a shock and I do what I can to make it better. However am aware it is a losing battle . Your mother was right , its better than the alternative. Life is good.

[@ellieeckhardt7620]

As I listen I cry! You have given me a good talking to, you are a inspiration! I'm struggling so badly to accept getting old. I love you.

[@janicemurphy2305]

i just saw your video. you are amazing. i,m 71 and now i see myself differently. thank you love you

[@roberta9622]

Thank you so much for sharing this topic. I am 74 and this has been difficult to accept with me. All the years of watching every bite and having my body “turn on me” later in life. You are just such a comfort for me.....all the best in the new year......

[@vernettemorris3870]

I love this video! So beautifully spoken.

[@lewisbyrd7547]

Thank you for all the wise & kind words. I’ve just turned 70, had major brain surgery in which they shaved 1/2 of my head and I blew up like a balloon, so I’ve been struggling to like myself. I’m going to listen to your inspirational video again but thanks again

[@snowleopard7952]

It helps to feel loved and you certainly seem to be happy and healthy and content.

[@danalee376]

Patti, THIS!!!! ~ this video proves you truly are a ROCKSTAR! ♥️🌟🤘🏼🌟♥️

[@annanorth7997]

You are so beautiful inside and out. I hope you know how appreciated you are. You inspire this 58 year old to age with elegance and dignity.

[@helenboula3538]

Patty I'm 74 I have just had an Awakening thank you so much you have just gave me so much boost with my self-confidence I thank you so much for your input have a great day..

[@vegaslady2023]

Patty, just watched your video of Nov 2... you rock lady, I am 71, live in Vegas and LOVE your videos...keep posting your 76 age!!! I'm 71... hope that irritated younger people!!! We rock!!!!!!

[@susanhudson1569]

Oh! You are so beautiful! I am where you are now!!!!!! I am 68 an like you, I love reinventing myself! This is a very big step......I have learned to love myself and really care how I look. You go girl, I am right behind you. Bless you! Susan

[@TimRoseOfficial]

Thanks for sharing your video my friend. Very inspiring, aging is tough sometimes. ❤

[@joaniemione8410]

I love you Patti and I love this video so very much. So many lessons to learn from you and keep up the awesome job you’re doing for our community.

[@pegjacobsremllong1374]

Absolutely love your videos Patty! They are so uplifting and I learn so much about accepting my age (73) gracefully. I look forward to each and every video. ❤

[@naturalPaths]

Boy, talk about the right word at the right time. I am 66 - 67 next month. I am visiting my older sister who is 71. She is fond of saying how young people think she looks, sometimes even questioning how she can qualify for Medicare. I finally got a little tired of it and said that I have (so far!) made the choice to age naturally, and that it wasn’t fair to essentially say that she looked younger than I when she’s been having various ‘corrective’ surgeries since she was 55! There’s soooo much more, but you get the idea. Yours vlog is just the boost I needed tonight!! Thank you. ❤️❤️💕

[@marysmith8876]

Hello Pattie, I love you, you are beautiful, inside and out. I wish you and Jim many years of happiness and love. Thank you. Peace be with you

[@marshatomkins7989]

Yup, our 70s are a humbling decade. I agree with every word you have said. We’re ok. We’re fine. We have our inner beauty and that’s what matters.