how i overcome loneliness ♡

just sharing my thoughts, what do you think of this style of video? it isn't so much asmr for tingles and sleep, but more of something a bit quiet and thought provoking xx
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[@nouraahmad7376]

Points in this video:❤❤❤❤ 1. Have spaces and time periods where you can get to know yourself better. 2. Get comfortable with alone time. 2. Prioritize being around the right person instead of just any person 3. Be immersed in your curiosities and passions 4. Remember that feeling lonely is part of the human experience 5. Explore more ( don’t let fear stop you ) 6. Understand your values better 7. Don’t fall for the escapism rabbit hole ( do things that help you engage and not dissociate ) 8. Get a massive teddy bear

[@thatoneguy2893]

Thanks ❤

[@flashwashington2735]

You seem young and old. What is your age? It's good to be independent, but don't wait too long. Find a boy, or be accessable so he can find you. If you like you can marry and experience the joys and fulfillments in having a lifetime playmate to push and challenge you just right! Of course you get to play, push back, and challenge him! Oh, and how hour heart grows and expands when you have children. So have fun by yourself, but get good at making good friends.that library thing sounds promising. I love you and God loves you too! Maybe a neighborhood church. They don't need to be perfect. Ibet you could help them be better! You are a lovely woman. You have great value and worth. God bless.

[@nuancesdebleu]

love doesn't exist anymore, it's all about needs today @@flashwashington2735

[@Luukluukluuk12]

Posting a video about overcoming loneliness on Valentine's day is.... Ah I cannot even describe how sweet. Thank you!

[@Magnavox-1972]

I agree. It’s incredibly wholesome during a time of uncertainty. Much needed right now IMO.

[@StudMacher96]

It’s also kinda depressing if you visited this video on Valentine’s Day

[@LarsEspen]

@@StudMacher96 In the moment maybe, but having this video might just be a blessing imo :)

[@StudMacher96]

@@LarsEspenpends on how you take the video. Honestly to me it’s depressing because when I’m done with the video I remember it’s not real. It’s just a screen. I’m still alone in the real world

[@ruby6elle]

thank you for all of your comments and sharing your thoughts ❤️ i really appreciate it!

[@shizzledink]

I'm sure everyone is more than happy to share! Thank you for your content! I personally really enjoy your positivity. Keep up the good work!

[@bobbybonkers589]

When I am alone, I am more comfortable with myself when it comes to creativity. I enjoy writing poetry and music. A bit dark and sometimes humorous, but I am proud at what I create. For example, The Captain of a pirate ship was buried alive by his crew because he had a heart of gold. 😁

[@temperancespells7859]

I was called to check up on you, I still love you very much and am always here for you if you ever are ready to reach out ♥️ - Cookie ❤️❤️❤️

[@Alexandra-rb7ju]

I definitely felt the part where you mentioned feeling lonely because you don't feel heard. I am a very introverted and private person by nature, and even though I don't really experience "physical loneliness" I feel depressed at times because I feel that those around me (especially family) don't understand that what I do with my life makes me happy, but they always want to change me into a version of themselves because they know how to do things "the right way", and apparently my way is wrong to them.

[@TheCimbrianBull]

For what it's worth, I share your experience. You are seen and heard!

[@seancaffrey8153]

When you say you're so grateful for having us here, I'm like "I'm grateful to have ASMRtists like you to help us during tough times."

[@correge_]

Thanks for this. You are the furst other person i've heard voice some of the nuances of loneliness, like getting sick of surrounding yourself w people who don't share your values. I thought i was crazy until i heard you say it, and has improved my life a little.

[@BitXer0]

I absolutely adore you Ruby, you have such a calming voice and manner! Thank you for bringing up a topic that we all struggle with at times, loneliness, and giving some great advice on handling it. Much love to you and yours! 😊❤️

[@konnal.7812]

Im extremely lonely mostly by choice, I've always been that way since I was a kid. Sometimes i get FOMO but most of the time I yearn to just be alone in my room. Thank you for the lovely video Ruby, you are the sweetest 💜

[@SpeedyRK]

Best Valentine's day post. Thank you.

[@tox0tes]

14:14 to 14:35 What a relatable feeling. Thanks for keeping that part in the video ♥

[@dennism4508]

I really like the way you casually talked about loneliness and honestly it reminds me a bit of group therapy which I always like(d). Just hearing others talk about their experiences and inner workings is super fascinating to me and also kind of relaxing. That you left the parts where you thought about stuff in made it just so much more natural. I feel like there is a kind of "peer" pressure to spend time with others and avoid being to oneself. It has been a long way for me learning the be alone with myself while also fighting social anxiety and depression. I totally understand the feeling of anxiety when not going out for some time. For myself I am sometimes still struggling to find a balance between being alone and being with others. Too much "action" just drains me and makes me feel lonely despite being with others on one side. On the other side, staying for myself too much makes me slowly spiral back into depression and/or anxiety.

[@timonarthur]

Thank you so much for this. It helps! I think loneliness gets less overwhelming when I spend as much of my time with thinks I love as possible. It's like loneliness sometimes is more like an empty-feeling. As if you could loose your purpose. Doing things and working on myself is so rewarding and fun! All the bad thoughts just fade away... PS: love your voice

[@Angels-3xist]

I don’t know why this showed up at the top of my feed 3 months later, but I want to say that it really spoke to me in some ways I don’t entirely understand. I don’t really know what I want to say but I can tell you that feeling someone is out there expressing something I feel so similarly in so many ways at a time where I’ve never felt more alone made me feel understood and that I wasn’t alone. Being a certain type of person, the world can feel very lonely and that feeling doesn’t seem to go away. It’s rare to feel like you’re connecting with a person who identifies or understands. I don’t know. Thanks for making this. It meant something to me.

[@killingxgesture]

Thank you for all that you do. To be so vulnerable, to express and expose such a profoundly personal experience is more than most are willing to do. And because you have, others who have felt the same can now find solace in this shared experience. Thank you.

[@braysniper58]

For me loneliness is being on the other side of the world from my girlfriend. Taking the long, stressful and risky trip to see her is a burden and scary. Meeting her is what's been my reason for living for two years now. We love each other lots and when this happens her and I will be crying so intensely, hugging each other and probably sharing that kiss we have longed for years to share.

[@jamiegoddard562]

Loved this video ruby talks so much sense asmr followers are so lucky to have her here thank you ruby for all you do

[@adamx9793]

I like how open you were in this video! It’s ok to focus on yourself 🙂

[@analogicparadox]

I am so so glad you occasionally make these kinds of videos. Hearing someone else's perspective on an issue you have both experiencd is probably one of the best ways to get better and grow as a person.

[@juandemarko8348]

Im never alone with my dog by my side

[@no1toyou]

i love your hair bows 🤩🥰 the pandemic has very much exacerbated my loneliness. i grew up very lonely as well. i think i used to enjoy being alone bc i could do things without having social anxiety. i think social anxiety really exacerbated, and still exacerbates, my loneliness too, bc even when i wanted to talk to people, i would get so nervous and feel more alone with those thoughts of inadequacy and wouldn’t respond or reach out even though i wanted to. i feel like i’m in a similar space like you mentioned, where i don’t have time to waste, but still am having trouble getting started. i had been thinking the same as well - pursuing my own growth will introduce me to people who i can make a genuine connection with. i have to get better from the agoraphobia and germaphobia and OCD that worsened during the pandemic and get outside more. i’ve been trying to be on my social media less bc of it all. i just wanna get better from all the mental issues that worsened over the past few years. anyways- i’m proud of you for singing louder and have been thinking about you lately in general bc i’ve been so obsessed with the latest fka twigs album ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@LarsEspen]

This video is so good, i aswell have been feeling lonely for about 2 years migt even be longer, but i now recently kinda got a realization that "Being alone isn't a bad thing, it's only me who is makign it a bad thing by thinking that." And instead of thinking that i am lonely i rather think that i am alone now but soon i won't be :)

[@usualblokeluke]

Talking to myself helps me with practicing voice impressions and quoting favourite film and TV lines from memory

[@KovacsZoltan12]

this is a very interesting but complicated topic, since i think there are more than one type of loneliness. not being isolated or wanting to find the right company for us or wanting somebody to care about or love us or having a desire for some kind of connection that may never be reached between humans are 4 types of loneliness, i myself sometimes deal with all four, sometimes just one of them. very pleasant video!

[@semi0tical]

I hear you re: best friends. What I've found personally is that figuring myself out helped immensely in finding good friends. Knowing my boundaries, needs, etc. helped me understand and communicate with others and find those people who enjoy and value my company (and vice versa). Glad to hear you're in a better space this year, and thank you for the wonderful ASMR :)

[@grumpycup4762]

Not lonely, but VERY sleepy. Perfect timing.

[@natashajade787]

I feel pretty much the same way. I have social anxiety as well which makes it even harder. Every time I start to have a friendship, it ends up going no where and it's hard to become close with someone. I feel like everyone I meet already has a whole group of friends and doesn't really seem interesting in being my actual friend.

[@alicemilton8756]

Thank you for sharing with us 💛 And thank you for all the wonderful videos you’ve made, which keep me company when I am alone

[@Ultimasomething]

Your content is always soothing. May not drop by a lot but when I do your voice is soulfully soothing. Also being alone can be very challenging for those who are use to living with/ being around someone. However once you learn to love being alone the one great plus to it is having that PEACE that obtain from being by yourself. That peace you get from being alone is imo something I would never wish to trade for anything else. Anywho thank you again for your creations.

[@roadrunne255]

Thank you Ruby.

[@allnewforty2360]

This was a wonderful video! I’ve been struggling with loneliness lately after my friend abandoned me for their boyfriend.

[@Valpo_]

tysm for this video Ruby, your videos always make me feel so welcome and comfortable, they're really helpful. ❤️ I often go on days without exchanging a single word with anyone outside my family, and when I do is often just the beginning of a conversation, then it ends there. Last year I had a really awful time with loneliness. I used to feel insecure about doing the things I liked, even when there was nobody around. Or even liking the things I liked. So my main goal for this year was to feel more comfortable being alone. So far I think I've been doing much better, even if I have no one to talk to, I can just focus on doing something I like, like singing, or making a cup of tea, playing a cd from my collection, reading or going to watch a movie by myself. Somehow the only hobby that I still don't really feel comfortable with is drawing, it actually makes me feel sadder. I think it is because my drawings are often very sad and dark and lacking of color, and my skills don't really allow me for anything else. So I don't draw as often anymore. I may have wrote too much, but if there had to be a comment section where I would be comfortable sharing these things, it would be this one.

[@TheCimbrianBull]

I enjoyed reading your comment. In regards to your drawing, may I suggest taking a class in order to improve your skills and inspire you?

[@JLPayne_78]

You don't need someone else to be content and happy. It's okay to be alone, sometimes it helps you get to know yourself better. But once you and yourself become better acquainted it can be nice to introduce yourself to others who share some of the same interests. It can be hard to extend the hand of love or friendship but if you are fortunate enough to have it returned even once or twice in a lifetime you can count yourself a very wealthy person. Not everyone feels comfortable being social, but even small steps can make you feel more at ease. A journey doesn't always have to be a thousand miles. Sometimes it just needs to be the few steps beyond your door or down to the corner for a coffee and a bite to eat. 👐🤝💖

[@a.mie.533]

I hope, it won't creep you out, when I admit, that I' m about twice as old as you are - and enjoy watching your videos. And yes: What you are saying about focussing on things you love most, is crucial for introverts and also very fulfilling. For me it is nature, music and reading. Nontheless: The feeling of not fitting in keeps being hurtful from time to time ...

[@tenkorochi]

being able to be alone and comfortable is really an eye opening experience but also a double edged sword i enjoy being alone but sometimes i dont want to and it is difficult for me to get out there and resonate with people so dont feel so lonely anymore

[@Emiliano.B.H]

I really like this approach more focused on the self love and mental wellness. 💜 It makes me so happy to know you have your own space now and you can enjoy being with yourself. Sorry for the bad English.

[@nouraahmad7376]

Your vulnerability in this video is beyond amazing and brave thank your for sharing so so much , it’s crazy to me how I can really relate to everything your saying ,and how I feel less lonely when I listen to you talk about loneliness. I’ve also felt extremely lonely all my life and only recently starting to get better. Ive always been blessed with friends and family but it never felt like anyone really listened to what I had to say or appreciated my presence plus I’ve had people up and leave for no reason 🥲🥲, multiple times . Here is what I’ve learned : 1. when you look for evidence that the people around you don’t care you’ll find it . The reverse is also true. 🔁 2. You have to make space for the bad parts in other people ( and the bad parts in yourself ) 🖤 3. All relationships have highs and lows ↗️↙️ 4. Be brave and talk about the things that hurt you , the people that don’t pay attention don’t matter 5. Don’t expect anyone to read your brain , sometimes there is intuition in relationships but most of the time you have to say what you want 6. People will change over time all you can do is accept it and love them all over again or accept it and move on . 7. Remember that you don’t need somebody else to give you acceptance or love you can give that to yourself by prioritizing yourself and being gentle with yourself ❤️‍🩹 8. 99% of the time you don’t find closure in conversations you have other with people but in conversations you have with yourself 🗣️ 9. you need effort and time to build that magical soul mate connection with someone else 💖 10. I also absolutely agree with everything you said in your video . Spending time with ourselves and getting lost in our hobbies and interests is so so important I hope these points help some of you guys ❤️❤️❤️ for me personally it still takes practice. My ultimate goal is to be able to speak up if I’m being ignored or to get out of bed if I’m feeling lonely , but I’ve been improving in the sense that I no longer need to find that special person (best friend , lover etc… ) I’m being that person for myself . You’ve got this 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💙💙💙

[@Tiger69963]

Happy Valentine’s Day! A little Haiku poem for you. Alone, but not lost, Heart reaches out, finds new light, Loneliness departs.

[@ZombieB]

I have been alone since my divorce over 3 years ago, since then I have learned more of a trade, spent less money and managed to stick to a budget. The only problem is when I try to socialize or flirt with girls that is more difficult for me nowadays because if I do get into a relationship it doesn't take long for me to feel invaded and I end up running away then I gather my self. I love listening you and all your videos keep going and keep your head up!!

[@user-vr2jg9nn5d]

Truly Ruby,... your not alone. You basically just described me, just about 2 yrs.ago your words/wisdom just may have saved my life, I'm sure of it, so don't cut yourself short... I'm always with you, I love you, always. Michael.

[@Interkomkomind]

aw amazing! thank you for talking about this topic

[@jeremyknight9980]

The only thing I ever liked about being alone was that it gives me time to breathe, privacy and relax. I always wanted to fit in with people back when I was sighted and it's even worse as a legally blind person because no one wants to talk to me outside of family. I've always felt like I was more of an acquaintance than a legit friend to anyone and I'm a straight up burden because I'm socially awkward and disabled. I'm legit scared of dating because I'm not good enough, if I build myself up someone will tear me down.

[@jeremyknight9980]

@Richie Thank you.

[@Novacasa88]

I think a key to enjoying your lonesome self is experiencing things you love and feeling more and more like yourself the way you want to be. It makes the alone time feel much more rewarding. I agree with you. :)

[@cursed_arzine]

this is lovely to have, I broke up with my first love a while ago and I’m feeling stuff I’m not used to feeling. I’m looking forward to hear about how you deal with loneliness

[@Anonymous-rj2lk]

"The strength to stand alone is the strength to make a stand" -A LEGEND.

[@javianiki5886]

This was very personal and I thank you for it. It strongly resonated with my journey and I will treasure this because in my own loneliless I felt as if I gazed to my left and saw you not that far away, walking on your own two feet after freeing yourself like me. And I value that, the same way as you do not need me to talk to you, I no longer feel the need to stray from my way to approach anyone moving towards their goals just to escape loneliness. But if our gaze met for a moment, I would smile to you feeling happy for seeing someone else walking their own path. Without need for words, my smile is a silent "I wish you do your best wherever you choose to go in your loneliness". 🙂 PS: Your SOS "square breathing" lives rent free in my mind and has helped me through overwhelming moments ty for that too.

[@Surrey_grin]

Oh, thank you for sharing experience of loneliness, it feels so cozy to understand that my own loneliness isn't alone : )

[@SleepyMoonASMR]

Thank you so much for this video and your words! I feel like they‘ve come straight from the heart and I can relate so much 💕

[@CharlotteBethany54]

Yesss be discriminating about who and what entertains your mind. You're gonna be just fine. ❤️

[@mattscoggins]

I love you for this! ❤

[@sergmichel]

love the video and really helpful since i'm dealing with it too. staying home most of the time and only leaving home for groceries and work

[@williamsantiago8538]

Happy Valentine's Day ruby 💓😍

[@Deno8818]

Always love hearing your voice 🖤🙏

[@LASERDISCDREAM]

the asmr session is now starting. let's begin with a loneliness sessions with love.

[@beachboy2463]

Ii don't usually comment, but I want to thank you for this.

[@GreebusBleeb]

Ah geez I was just listening to the self-confidence video! So happy to have this today, gonna watch it with my cat on my lap 🐱🐱

[@ThomasfromDenmark1]

Thank you for sharing your experiences on this important topic.

[@mondogecko3279]

I don’t know if I’ve ever overcame loneliness…do we just get too used to it??

[@gabriel1668]

Eu fico muito feliz de existirem pessoas como você, obrigado pelo vídeo, e, adorei o tema, realmente, é ótimo estarmos com nós mesmos e termos essa reflexão

[@halloweengiraffe]

Being lonely is like a living death. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. I relate so much to everything you have said here.

[@mikrosixtysix]

You make it sound worse than it is. Learn to enjoy being alone.

[@halloweengiraffe]

@@mikrosixtysix I didn't say anything about being alone. I have no problem at all with being alone. Being alone and being lonely aren't the same thing. You are lucky that you do not understand this.

[@LakerEric]

I'm with you! 💗

[@paulminter3511]

Just your sole existance waters my hope in humanity Ruby🌹

[@cajunsmurf4354]

Glad you found that way of valuing your own time. It is the one thing that money can't buy and something you can never get back. I've been in that situation. I'm at least an hour and a half away from any friend or family member. Even if I were close everyone now is married with children so I never saw them anyway. At first, the complete silence was a bit depressing, but I will tell you the first thing I learned is to value my time, and now I revel in the silence by myself. The peace and quiet keeps my sanity in check. Of course I enjoy seeing everyone now and again, but that "me time" is the best. Just laying in a hammock looking up at the sky listening to birds can be the epitome of fun and enjoyment. I lost my job due to a certain "sickness" in 2020 and was out of work for a year. I'd have to say 95% of that year was spent alone and it was some of the most rewarding time ever.

[@reaper5491]

This is very relatable

[@tengupnw5362]

This video is amazing! I appreciate you so much ^_^

[@HittokiriBattousai17]

Use your lonely time to meditate and become introspective, see it as an opportunity to hone yourself, your own skills and the way you individually process reality. Don't turn it into something bad, but a challenge, one that you must overcome alone, of course.

[@raphaelr3906]

Thank You for this Amazing video!

[@emmanuelgutierrez6306]

I hope you dont feel lonely and you have around you lovely and loving people; friends and family.

[@spazj8sets170]

I really liked this style! You should do more videos like this but sneak in some tapping it will really be the cherry on top

[@MinhucVoPham]

How can a person have such a soft and gentle voice

[@TeranceLancaster]

I love to watch people sleep

[@nopenope1454]

Nail on the head. To say that when I was younger I was always with friends would be an understatement. For years I couldn't stand being alone. Now I can't stand socializing and I love being alone, and it's exactly why you said: gratitude. I have immense gratitude for my time I get to spend alone. I've grown into a person where I value my alone time more than time socializing. I do make a point to switch it up and somewhat socialize every now and again, but honestly when it's during my free time(when I'm not at work, which is most of the time) then it really can be a chore, but I still make efforts occasionally. I'm also grateful that I don't get cabin fever, something you kinda started to touch on. Luckily, with working a lot, I don't get to a point where I don't wanna go outside. I actually crave it pretty frequently, and I'll go outside often even in my free time to go grab a bite, or go to a movie, or just for a walk, etc. There's actually a lot of things I go out for on a regular basis, so much that I would actually say that the majority of my weekends are spent out of the house. Anyways that's my experience, hopefully it can help someone at some point in their life. Great video once again, I really appreciate you getting so publicly vulnerable. Very admirable of you.

[@oguereidebasa6585]

i can listen to you talk for hours

[@sharper9164]

I lost my gf, my friends changed. Just after that happened, I started realising how much work I need to do on myself instead of wasting my time with people that dont really care. Being alone is a huge deal, you need to love yourself. Youre never alone when you have yourself, literally.

[@IcyianCanehdian]

I can't believe that Christmas is just one week away!!

[@xxAngelxSPITZxx]

You are so purrfect !! So perfect💘Definitey My Type !! so pure 🥑

[@BustedHipGaming]

Your speaking voice is great ASMR regardless of the subject you talk about :)

[@floralfaun]

You are my comfort person ruby 🩷 I hope youre doing well recently or getting through things gently ✨your videos are helping me get through a tough time right now myself. You are so beautiful and kind 🐇

[@dcoanon93]

Lovely voice and teddy bear :), My personal thought is everyone needs lonely moments, just being by yourself can be a good "mind cleaner" and get you stronger than ever

[@stdew07]

🌟 Big Relate to finding random people on the net to chat with all the time to not feel lonely... need to combat it coz I end up wasting a lot of time online and my productivity is badly hit 😔 wish me luck that I may combat this addiction and my fears of loneliness.... 🙏🏾

[@simon_mindset]

Coping with loneliness has been mostly about staying busy, and learning to be content with your own company... not so much that you get into a place where you don't want to let anybody in, but just valuing that space and time to do the things you want to do. Music has been a massive part of that for me. If I'm in my own head I use that as a chance to start writing. If I can't find the words, I don't write any, just speak through the music, but if I do have something to say, I write it down. Lyrically I tend to always write about love, and fear.

[@kyla8947]

Thank you..Please i need more videos like this from you in my life, i am so saad and lonely 😢

[@vorasiW]

I tend to overthink a lot and beat myself up, your videos seem to calm me down tho 😌

[@nickl6373]

Ruby you Da goat

[@osmartoloza908]

Wow, ruby thank you so much! It's like a goddess is speaking and me a little mortal pay attention

[@AaronMetallion]

I've been solitary for almost the entirety my life, and largely because I'm an introvert, with too many hobbies, (art / painting, game dev, gardening, cooking, guitar, photography, science, psychology...). Too much to fully explore in one finite and transient life-time. My family is abroad too. I've learned so much, and the pain-point is not having people to experience it with, share it with, or compare notes with. Feels like it's all in this insular and myopic brain, and when I pass away it won't even return to the soil, but fizzle away like little sparks of electricity along neurons. Grim view. But what helps, is during Covid I got a motorcycling license, and started going on long trips to nature places. I always meet some nice folks along the way, and thought our exchanges are brief, it builds confidence that I can go places and have experiences if I will it. That's slowly transitioning into going to different countries. Discord, my long standing online friendships, and online gaming helps me too. But what helps the most is giving love, rather than waiting to receive it. If you can't find people, feed some squirrels, ducks, racoon, do 1 act of kindness a day if you can. Though isolation sucks, I've seen a lot of my friends make their social ties a top priority and go through so much vicious impermanence, but whatever I've cultivated within me in my loneliness -- no one can take from me. (p.s what you describe about co-dependence seems like a 'anxious attachment style' formed during childhood (John Bowlby's Attachment Theory)).

[@omgwtfbbqness]

It's honestly surprising to hear someone like yourself is lonely. I know that feeling all to well, have spent most of my life alone mostly due to my own choices and lack of self worth. I wish I could say this video helped me but I have an extremely hard time focusing on myself. The delicious irony of my life, I call it, is theres only one person I dont and cant bring myself to care about... me. I hope you have a good life Ruby with close friends, family and someone to love. I have some of these things family, friends etc. It's just a lot of the time they feel so distant. Ugh this is turning into an essay so its ending here. Peace, love and all that jazz.

[@ordinarily_vic]

Everything you said, from beginning to end, is literally what I’d have said had I made this video. It took me by surprise. I’m nearly 40 and took me much longer to get here than you, but hey. Better late than never.

[@katnon]

Thanks for talking about this. I’m lonely a lot and don’t have have friends to hang out with. I totally have been thinking too that if I just take some classes join some clubs or do whatever makes me happy, as long as I stay open to others, I can make some friends that have similar interests as me.

[@TheCimbrianBull]

I feel you. I have been in your place earlier in my life. I would suggest finding an interest or hobby and meet like minded people. Best of luck to you!

[@katnon]

@@TheCimbrianBullthank you :)

[@brian423]

Your voice is very good for ASMR no matter what you talk about.

[@MrNobodysSanctuary]

Happy Valentine's Day❤🥰

[@NIKEL31]

Also found learning the piano helped with stresses and baking cooking and found that deep fried Zucchini is also good with Masa

[@RFantiniCosta]

I think it summarizes well the Hedgehog's dilemma. How does one goes from loneliness to solitude. Thanks for sharing, Ruby.

[@noel6911]

I'm my most sane and creative alone.

[@emmanuelgutierrez6306]

You are very brave

[@AwesomeEricD]

Happy Valentine's day, Sweety 🥰❤

[@chloeleo]

Moving to a new city and im terrified of never making any friends and this helps, thank you :)

[@SammieLuvable]

Hey ruby, I was curious where I might be able to find your music. I absolutely loved Echoes of a Willow and had it in a Playlist but realized the other day that I can't seem to find it :( I played winter quartz on loop lol

[@hbgn9907]

Keep yourself determined and never let depression control you. +Keep it up, I really get relaxed listening to your voice.

[@Durmomo0]

This was a very thoughtful topic to bring up at this time. Im ok with it about 80 percent of the time but the other times can be rough. Sometimes I wonder what it would be like to just disappear somewhere and live completely alone like some kind of hermit lol.

[@LeeXuan88]

Love to be alone.. cz so many things to do

[@MKII400]

Well yeah sometimes is important to be alone and love yourself watch movies that other's don't, stuff like that and start new projects by your own!