How I Relax My Hair (Tutorial)

I relax my hair every 8 weeks which my mum does for me. This video is just to show her relaxing my hair and is not an indication to say that you must relax your hair in the exact same way. My mum chooses to do it this way, so relax yours in the way you feel most comfortable.
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[@shyneicemayeux5168]

This video got me itching for my next relaxer. Can't wait lol

[@jasmindrace]

If you apply relaxers to the ends of your hair (that has already been relaxed) it will cause overprocessing thereby weakening your hair and causing it to break. Relaxers should only be put on the new growth.

[@Hairbyjaydelatrice]

Where are the gloves!? Chemical services require gloves if you want to have any feeling in your hands years down the line. Great application though!

[@amiriashuler6409]

Not everyone uses gloves.

[@annika9348]

@@amiriashuler6409 but everyone should!

[@yslcharm.0000]

​@annika9348 will you die?😂😂😂

[@k1sahol1c]

If they want a chemical burn, let them have it. You just make sure to wear PPE

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

"Healthy Afro Hair" Lol.

[@misprinc1928]

Haha. I know right? Must be an oxymoron

[@jushereinit]

she's natural now.

[@Victoria-fd8sn]

+Aishaaxn ugh

[@restreven4455]

so? It's still her hair and it's healthy. Therefore, healthy Afro Hair. Y'all claim to be supportive but then the natural hair community shames everyone that doesn't fit into the 3b 3c hair. Then go back and shame the mixed girls with 2b 3a 3b hair, and now we're moving to shame the relaxed hair huh?! Well kindly FU!

[@karenmeria1318]

are black americans always this racist? isnt she black?

[@pw082]

I was always taught to use Vaseline all over my scalp before relaxing to stop my scalp from burning? Would you say that's not a good idea? Thanks

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I never leave the relaxer on my hair, instead I wash it out as soon as it's all been applied. If your hair is breaking at the front, then avoid relaxing that area for now or if you can, try and stretch your relaxer to allow time for your temples to grow back.

[@stephj9378]

Interesting

[@Jodzy504]

Her scalp must be really strong, I however have fears with relaxing the other parts of the hair, don't want it to get weak, but then again it doesn't stretch.. Puffs up!

[@gabrielarnett8884]

Bless up from Nassau Bahamas 242! I Cannot believe this video came out in 2011 when I check the dates/year on youtube, look like this video done today in 2023 lol...❤❤❤❤🎉😂😂😂🎉🎉

[@sabrei0728]

Glad i'm not the only one who doesn't use gloves. I feel like I get better results not wearing them lol. I do oil my hands downs before hand though

[@HealthyAfroHair]

That's a good idea :) My mum likes to feel the hair and to smooth it down, to ensure it's being processed.

[@naturallesalon6656]

They come with gloves for a reason

[@sabrei0728]

Naturalle salon as I said.

[@amourlashai]

Whew, I feel my head burning just by watching. I don't miss these days. Lol

[@ocky88]

^Passive aggressive comment alert

[@jushereinit]

well it depends on the relaxer you use, i used olive oil relaxer and my scalp burned. but when i used dark and lovely my scalp didn't burn at all.

[@amourlashai]

LvnaTea Lq Lmao

[@amourlashai]

Aishaaxn They all burn. Tbh.

[@AfroVictim]

Me too

[@brownfaye1305]

Love the vid, but it should be called ' How my mom relaxes my hair' lol

[@ella_playzz3011]

Lol

[@HealthyAfroHair]

The best thing to do, is to smooth the relaxer down over the hair, so it goes flat, rather than raised. That's how I can tell when my hair has relaxed properly.

[@colishacoleman4284]

i could smrll perm through the tv

[@ukiastardoll7864]

lol

[@oghenerunorp9405]

kathy williams why do you have to be so rude?!

[@tmissyjeogiyomuljomjuseyo1992]

kathy williams Are you black too?✌🏾

[@ella_playzz3011]

@kathy williams why you so rude

[@Lovelynicki123]

I swear I'm so tired of relaxing. It keeps my hair at the same length and the new growth just breaks off so you don't see the difference. I really don't like relaxers. I'm just going to transition and cut it of then go fully natural. Because im tired of the nonsense it caused.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Relaxers are not for everyone and requires a lot of effort to ensure it's cared for after the process. It makes the hair weaker, so if regular protein & moisturising treatments and moisturising of the hair is not carried out often enough, it will eventually start to break.

[@SalimaZourbaOG]

just start over FROM THE SCALP, relax it and then do a Brazilian blow dry with keratin to repair it, that's how I do it, my hair didn't grow and when it grows I had to cut my ends, like you said, because of the damage. But last year I started a new routine. DON'T CUT IT ANYMORE, BE PATIENT And don't straighten your hair every day with a flat iron... if you can't live without it, try to blow dry your hair with an airstyler. it's effective and easier.. and healthier for your hair. try to moisturize your hair with coconut oil, leave it in for the night.. It took me a year, it takes long but it's worth it. my hair is smooth, shiny, long, and stronger.

[@relaxedriri8267]

There is a huge relaxed hair community and honestly my hair is the longest it has ever been after 10 years of being at the same length. My ig handle is @relaxedriri and you'll see my before and after. I think both natural and relaxed are great but imo relaxed hair works better for me at the moment.

[@whawrongwiddat]

@@relaxedriri8267 what changes did you make?

[@gracewilliams2226]

True

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Stretching is prolonging the length of time you relax your hair. So for example; let's say you relax your hair every 8 weeks, but then decide that you would like to relax it every 10 weeks instead. Stretching would mean that you would stretch your relaxer for an additional 2 weeks. It's just another word for extending.

[@carolynsimon]

I am happy to see someone with long hair who relaxes after 8 weeks. I used to relax every 12-14 weeks but I have so much new growth now by 8 weeks that it is becoming more difficult to stretch that long.

[@shanicehenderson2455]

QWqWazsq+?

[@Jie85-]

Awww, how sweet! You make me miss my mommy. Seems like I will have to go back home so she can put my perm. Because I don't want to mess up:) Thank you for the wonderful videos!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

No, I've not always used this relaxer kit, but have done so for many years now. Well done with your stretch, that must have been challenging. Glad to hear my techniques have been helpful to you and your very welcome!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I actually began my hair journey and managed to achieve all this with relaxed hair!!!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I'm not really sure, because I don't pay close attention to notice how soon it comes through.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Originally from East London :)

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Normal Strength - ORS Olive Oil Relaxer kit

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@keedaomen It's hard to say what's causing your breakage problem. It could be that your not moisturised your hair enough, you could be using too much heat, it be your overall hair regime. You'd need to tell me your current regime for me to make suggestions. Yes, I do protein treatments one week and moisturising treatments the following week to give my hair the even balance between the two. I mention this in my Top 10 Tips vid.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Just use your fingers to smooth it down, as you go.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

You may have missed it, but in my video I actually applied oil to my entire hair before relaxing it, in order to protect it.

[@ys0613]

Love your accent ;) I’m going to relax my sister in-law hair tomorrow so thank you for your tips.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thanks and you’re very welcome! 😊

[@verselapaciente5284]

what a nice mum

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Yep, she is! 😀

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thanks. Yes I agree, my mum did apply more than usual this time round, but that's not done often.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Products don't make the hair grow, it's how you apply it that makes the difference. To help you get started, you can find a full list of the products I use on my hair in the 'Show more' box under 'My Top 10 Hair Growth Tips' Video, Parts 1 & 2. Good luck!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Minimum every 8 weeks and no less than that.

[@debbiedebeaux]

Your mother is better than a lot of professionals that I've seen. Beautiful hair by the way.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Sorry for the delayed response. I flat ironed my hair at the end. You can watch this video on my channel which is called; 'How I straighten My Hair'.

[@ella_playzz3011]

After 2 years

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Try massaging those areas (gently with your finger tips) with either Castor Oil or Coconut oil on a daily basis to help stimulate hair growth.

[@givegodthanks]

This should be how someone else relax my hair.

[@yanquemiller4118]

Exactly..

[@HealthyAfroHair]

It's best to read the instruction manual that comes with the relaxer kit you use. I use ORS Relaxer kit and the entire activator and relaxer must be added together in order for the hair to process correctly. But never worry about wastage.

[@toshinawilliams1503]

I am really inspired by your hair growth, I've done trial and error now for a few years and I think I've FINALLY got it!!! I can't go natural because my hair is way too thick and my schedule is way to busy to maintain and spend the time but I can do the hair growth and good maintenance with relaxing. I'm glad you update often and I will subscribe. Thanks!!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@keedaomen I always use a (light/mild) protein conditioner a week before, during and a week after my relaxers. As for using a hard treatment like Apoghee, I've never used it prior to relaxing before, so it's hard for me to comment on whether it's ok. I do find that Apoghee products are quite strong on the hair.

[@supernena832]

You don´t need to relax your hair.

[@dw29376]

Your mom is an angel. My mom hasn't relaxed my hair since I was a child! She does a great job with the smoothing too!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

No, she's not.

[@Lolipopsunshine1111]

I think you need to use gloves while applying the relaxer it has really dangerous chemicals.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I'm not too keen on the whole process. There's an awful lot of manipulation and heat applied to the hair and the process is quite lengthly.

[@odjevweoraka8480]

Are you south Africa or u.k I can see you have a good ascent I love this your relaxed hair is so long I can grow relaxed hair longer like your own

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I’m from the UK! 😊 Yes, you can do it.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@BLU3R0S3S1 Not really, it's more about how long you leave the relaxer on your hair that dictates whether not it's texlaxing.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I wouldn't recommend you relaxing damaged hair. You need to try and bring it back to health first by doing weekly washing & conditioning treatments. Managing relaxed hair requires a lot of maintenance, so prepare yourself now, by looking after your natural hair. You can have a look through all my videos for tips on what you can be doing to help improve it's condition.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

There's two different terms for 'natural'. There's 'natural' as in 'not chemically treated' and 'natural' as in a 'person's real hair'. But bear in mind that this process is damaging to the hair, as it breaks down the protein bonds (in the hair) altering the natural curl pattern making it straight. So the correct care must be taken to avoid breakage and any further damage.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

It's called; Healthy Afro Hair because regardless of whether you have natural or relaxed hair, overall it's all 'Afro Hair'.

[@geehouse2825]

@ReginaShenelleFullwood, aren't those questions you should have sought answers to before applying the relaxer to your hair?? I'm not being facetious. I'm just trying to point out that it's important to gather all the information you need before doing something damaging to your hair instead of trying to find answers after applying chemicals to your hair. Seriously would you go skydiving without finding out how to do it safely??.. Yes that was me being facetious.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Just by following the tips I have supplied in 'My Top 10 Hair Growth Tips Videos (Part 1 & 2)' , the tips provided in my 'How to start a successful hair growth journey' Video & 'My Hair Growth Regime Summary' Video.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Yes, if you are relaxing for the very first time, then the entire hair would need to be relaxed just the once.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you and your welcome! Firstly, decide on a hair care regime which you are willing to stick to and then decide on the hair care products you are going to be using. Have a look through all my videos and maybe some other videos on KZbin so you know what to do and then get started! Good luck!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

No, I've never tried this before, however, I know some people do.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@keedaomen I show this on my 'How I blow dry my hair' video. I'll be posting that video shortly.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

It depends on your hair type. If you have course hair, then you will probably need to use a stronger strength to help straighten your hair. So using 'Super' may be the better option for you.

[@MaishaNYC]

What do you think about Keratin Relaxers.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@dw29376 Yeah, she's really helpful in relaxing my hair for me.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Never preserve it. It's no good after 12 hours anyway.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

After about 12 hours, it's no longer good to use.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you. Have a look through my videos, as I supply information on what I did to grow my hair.

[@LuvL3LadeV]

You're so lucky u have ur mom to relax ur hair for u. She did a fantastic job.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Yeah for me, by 8-9 weeks my roots are extremely course and hard to manage too, so I don't leave it any longer.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you! I have thought about going natural before, so who knows. I wouldn't rule anything out.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I usually stretch every 8-9 weeks, but I'm now trying to increase it to 10-11 weeks.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@cherrypops3 Yes she's really good with helping me. She's relaxed also.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I don't leave it on. I wash it out as soon as it's all been applied.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thanks. I use the Organics Olive Oil Relaxer kit. I showed it in the video.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

There's two songs; Dr Dre - Kush & Kerry Hilson - Lose control!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@keedaomen Before I started my hair care journey, I used to relax my hair every 6 weeks, but since starting I decide to stretch it to every 8 weeks. Stretching can be good, however, not everyone's hair can take it. So you have to be careful not to overdo stretch and 'listen to your hair' as you rightly said. My hair was due the weekend gone, but I'm stretching another week making it 9 weeks.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Yes, just the application time and then wash off immediately.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you! It took me 3 years and 8 months from Oct 2007 to June 2011.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@LoHeHaPoMaandPr awww......thank you! :)

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@leauxlita Your most welcome, thanks for subbing :)

[@venida5feelings]

Hey, i found your videos very helpful, a blog about relaxed hair nowadays you find more natural hair videos. And have you ever tried to Relax with Gentle Treatment it keeps a bit of the aural hair texture that way the hair doesn't feel so empty.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

venida5feelings Glad to hear you find them useful :) No, I've not heard of it, however, I texlax, so this helps to keep some of my natural texture.

[@whattheflip6787]

Healthy Afro Hair i need help is relaxing your hair good or bad cause im forced to relax my hair but i used a relaxer it was called motions and it was SO BAD IT burnt my scalp i usualy use olive oil the one you used its great i use there brand and my hair is down way past my arms so reaxing good or bad?

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I was quite young, but I'm not sure of my actual age.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I use oils for massaging purposes only!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I massage my scalp with oils.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@LuvL3LadeV I know I am! Thanks :)

[@ontherisewithcandyceevette3037]

u did an amazing job!

[@HealthyAfroHair]

awww...thank you! Sure, I will help in the best way I can.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

I only apply oils around my hairlines.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Yes it's more or less always been 2 months.

[@AbsoluteMdot]

Stretch your relaxers longer than 8 weeks I know you can do it

[@TheDesignCreative]

The quality of this video is really good considering it was made 11 years ago.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you! 😊

[@jebeja]

Your hair already looked like it was straight, so why the need for more perm? Also, why wasn't the 'whole' head relaxed? My hair is very coarse and I'd need ALL of the relaxer added, but none of these videos seem to do that, especially for us who have 'shorter' hair. Thanks any way.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@cherrypops3 Thanks ;)

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@song5537 Lol....! awww....thank you :)

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@MsAngie1804 Your welcome! ;)

[@HealthyAfroHair]

About 15-20mins.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@healthyafrohair

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Vaseline

[@KBeauty519]

Have you ever considered going natural. You have beautiful relaxed hair, but the chemical is breaking down the protein in it. Love your hair! Just wondering if you'd ever go natural?

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Every 8-9 weeks.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thank you. Ohh...it did! :)

[@Balderhash]

Bit disingenuous to say you're the one relaxing when your Mum is the one doing your hair.

[@barbl5365]

Gloves should always be worn. The chemicals are harsh and are absorbed through the skin. Our hands are delicate and must be protected.

[@HealthyAfroHair]

No lye

[@HealthyAfroHair]

@keedaomen Thank you.

[@larisnnk]

Here in Congo, we use a comb to smooth it otherwise it won"t get that souple. and btw i relax with Olive Oil Super for coarse hair. Is it wrong??

[@InTheEndOnlykindnessMatters]

Title should read “ how I GET my hair relaxed by someone else.” Came here looking for DIY not mommy doing it . I don’t have a mommy to help me

[@HealthyAfroHair]

Thanks very much!

[@afubae7015]

Tsuuuiipp…u fast forward ur videos how do u expect people to learn🤦🏽‍♀️